Hi Claire. It can be hard to get over someone. But, each of us is different and different in how we move on. One person simply replacing another person is only one way. I hope your journey is finding a man is successful for you. God bless you!
These days i think there is always someone to get over because, committment is something people don't want. I'm in similar situation to you, and I'm staying single again. ❤❤❤❤. Love your jumper ❤
Limerance is what you are describing, which is a sort of Infatuation or lightweight version of Love. Great Vlogmas! Modern Love creates a lot of never-ending sadness, as this is not really how our species evolved. The evolutionary reason for the feelings of "Love" was to pair bond to raise children, a time period typically lasting 12-16 years, and so most people perhaps has 1 or 2 "Great Loves" in their lifetime, as opposed to now having a dozen or more people to "love and lose".
Maybe you can get over a person but necessarily the experience. I was obsessed with a girl at uni who said to me, "Look Ged, you may very well like me but I'm in love with another man". I had to give up on the girl but feared finishing up in that situation again.
yes, years and years. I agree.
Hi Claire. It can be hard to get over someone. But, each of us is different and different in how we move on. One person simply replacing another person is only one way. I hope your journey is finding a man is successful for you. God bless you!
Thank you :-)
It’s been an amazing series.
May your new year bring you the best
Thanks Mark. Means a lot. I will be dropping my final video tomorrow. Have a Happy New Year too!
@@text_ghost_love Thanks Clare I’ll try
Be watching out for the video
These days i think there is always someone to get over because, committment is something people don't want. I'm in similar situation to you, and I'm staying single again. ❤❤❤❤. Love your jumper ❤
You might meet someone next year!
Limerance is what you are describing, which is a sort of Infatuation or lightweight version of Love. Great Vlogmas! Modern Love creates a lot of never-ending sadness, as this is not really how our species evolved. The evolutionary reason for the feelings of "Love" was to pair bond to raise children, a time period typically lasting 12-16 years, and so most people perhaps has 1 or 2 "Great Loves" in their lifetime, as opposed to now having a dozen or more people to "love and lose".
I want to pin this comment, but YT won't give me the option somehow. But I really love how you have articulated this.
Maybe you can get over a person but necessarily the experience. I was obsessed with a girl at uni who said to me, "Look Ged, you may very well like me but I'm in love with another man". I had to give up on the girl but feared finishing up in that situation again.
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Try walking vlogs. I think it would be better with your ideas.
The issue with that is audio quality. It's pretty impossible to get good sound unless you are sitting down and mic'd up