Byron Katie- Relationships and Love

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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    Byron Katie talks to Joginder Bola about relationships and love using The Work to question and turn around our thinking.
    Byron Katie is the founder of The Work. Katie (as everyone calls her) not only shows us that all the problems in the world originate in our thinking but gives us the tool to open our minds and set ourselves free.
    The Work is based on FOUR QUESTIONS which can be done on your own or with another person, ending with a process called a "Turnaround": The four questions are:
    1. Is it true?
    2. Can you absolutely know that it's true?
    3. How do you react when you believe that thought?
    4. Who would you be without the thought?
    Interviewed by JOGINDER BOLA
    www.treeoflifem...
    (Holistic Events & Magazine).
    This is Video4 of seven filmed at the Isbourne Holistic Centre, Cheltenham, UK in January 2010.
    Video 1: Byron Katie I dont have enough money Part 1
    Video 2: Byron Katie I dont have enough money Part 2
    Video 3: Byron Katie Life & Death
    Video 4: Byron Katie Relationships & Love
    Video 5: Byron Katie The enlightened Mind
    Video 6: Byron Katie The Future
    Video 7: Byron Katie Life is a Dream
    Video and music produced by Mike Crowe

Комментарии • 68

  • @Emptiness512
    @Emptiness512 9 лет назад +50

    Thank you, ever since i started practicing the work, my thinking has changed, my perspective, first on my self and then others..Every single bit of my suffering has come and still come from my mind. NO ONE, is ever doing anything to me, ever! it all starts from my thinking. I have to say doing the work if i can some it up in one word ~ FREEDOM! YOU ARE LOVELY BYRON KATIE ~ thank you

    • @Foxy-blonde
      @Foxy-blonde 4 года назад +2

      That’s pretty amazing! So happy for you! I must try this. I need to use this on my jealousy and insecurity in romantic relationships. 😩

    • @Marekkk307
      @Marekkk307 3 года назад +1

      Do you still practice ?

    • @Emptiness512
      @Emptiness512 3 года назад +1

      @@Marekkk307 yes

    • @Emptiness512
      @Emptiness512 3 года назад +3

      @@Foxy-blonde I believe jealousy and insecurity is very universal...I too had to work through that too, so freeing, its beautiful that you are aware of this..That is the beginning of your freedom, my dear

  • @karenk5284
    @karenk5284 5 лет назад +9

    So grateful we have people like Byron Katie to guide us to a different more positive way of thinking. Namaste

  • @TadRapidly
    @TadRapidly 14 лет назад +12

    The "Can you absolutely know its true?" part addresses the soul's journey which is something most people never consider. Katie sneaks that in beautifully!

  • @infin8imusic
    @infin8imusic 3 года назад +7

    So incredible. I was believing some negative thoughts and watched this and I'm feeling happy again.

  • @godisnotinvisible
    @godisnotinvisible 11 лет назад +8

    I've been diagnosed with BPD. I've been in therapy for about 2 years now so I'm not doing this alone. I'm just starting this..I'm finding it helpful but not on its own. Some things come up that my mind isn't objective enough to see, that my "cognitive distortions" make it hard to reason through. So far a very helpful too, but I still need my therapist and other books.
    Happy to talk about this more, as I do it more and work through The Work.

    • @temporarythoughts
      @temporarythoughts 6 лет назад

      godisnotinvisible how are you doing 4 years in? :)

  • @Audiofreund2
    @Audiofreund2 11 лет назад +4

    I experienced it only one time. for only two days in paris. it was one of the best experiences of my life. then I came back to my hometown and everything dissapeard again and sucked me in again. the "true love" then was that I loved myself and wanted to share it with a special person and show him my treasures so they would mutiple.

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 8 лет назад +30

    This is one of the most healthy, sane descriptions of love I've ever heard. Abraham-Hicks gives almost the exact same advice. Thank you for posting.

  • @PlumeriaTrees
    @PlumeriaTrees 14 лет назад +9

    Wow, this is wonderful. "The end of using the body for any purpose." Thank you

  • @3506Dodge
    @3506Dodge 7 лет назад +16

    I've never had relationships or love. This helps me to see how I can be happy without them.

    • @kaskazimnoch9583
      @kaskazimnoch9583 6 лет назад

      3506Dodge :)

    • @MsLiboma
      @MsLiboma 3 года назад +4

      You could question that as well “ I’ve never had relationships or love “ or individually “I’ve never had relationships “ “I’ve never had love “ ❤️

    • @Kendrach
      @Kendrach 3 года назад +5

      Some people in "relationships" haven't had relationships or love either. 😉

  • @twilightlove
    @twilightlove 13 лет назад +11

    Heaven is a place on earth

  • @BrendaSutherland2014
    @BrendaSutherland2014 12 лет назад +7

    We are love itself realising this - that we are love

  • @krystlechampagne
    @krystlechampagne 10 лет назад +11

    her work is so good x

  • @Billiage1
    @Billiage1 13 лет назад +3

    This is me she is talking about!!! Thank you so much Byron!

  • @grateful2535
    @grateful2535 3 года назад +1

    BYRON KATIE = LOVE💜

  • @blissbatik
    @blissbatik 14 лет назад +2

    Thanks for posting this - so good to see and hear Katie as she appears in 2010.

  • @sweeetly
    @sweeetly 11 лет назад +1

    Uve made a great comment, I believe the work wouldbe an excellent tool for BPD. Very happy to read your comment and see someone with such a handle on it..all the best to you.

  • @lizcalle1424
    @lizcalle1424 8 лет назад +3

    Incredible. Thanks so much for The Work. Life altering and Life affirming. :-)

  • @bohemiandeborah
    @bohemiandeborah 13 лет назад +1

    @parafleet I am sorry your world is so sad. I hope you are able to see life in a sweeter way soon. Blessings!

  • @iamenough6958
    @iamenough6958 3 года назад +1

    WOW!!

  • @crenaud641
    @crenaud641 12 лет назад +2

    I love you Katie Bryce ... you are a very smart woman
    I admire you
    Chantale

  • @sheilakirwan6900
    @sheilakirwan6900 7 лет назад

    brilliant again Katie ...thanks for posting

  • @soofitnsexy
    @soofitnsexy 11 лет назад

    of course!

  • @webmovie4you
    @webmovie4you  12 лет назад +3

    I suggest you check out katie's website 'TheWork'.(dot com)
    Sorry I can't answer your question myself.
    Mike

  • @webmovie4you
    @webmovie4you  13 лет назад

    @parafleet You can only love if you love yourself

  • @graciesmom62
    @graciesmom62 5 лет назад +1

    This technique is called CBT cognitive behavior therapy.

  • @DemysCelinaLaraOliveros
    @DemysCelinaLaraOliveros 10 лет назад +3

    Por favor, traducir estos dialogos. Lo agradezco.

  • @soofitnsexy
    @soofitnsexy 11 лет назад +4

    yes u can....because u always must ask yourself ...is it true that I have this disorder?? YOU do not...

  • @murieldjava7455
    @murieldjava7455 8 лет назад +1

    Gostaria da legenda em língua PORTUGUÊSA

  • @justinp1964
    @justinp1964 13 лет назад +1

    @parafleet People are love...their egos are the opposite!

  • @lynndayna
    @lynndayna 14 лет назад

    @blastkist i cracked up out loud when i noticed it after reading your comment. its hilarious! no 'ummm but' unnn' HILARIOUS!!!

  • @TanjaAhmed1001
    @TanjaAhmed1001 12 лет назад +1

    It deoends on what he/she wants! If she wants to heal, everything is possible. Just don't out the person in a box with a label on it "borderliner"...

  • @salspua
    @salspua 12 лет назад

    @parafleet
    As you wish.

  • @guylainehardy9088
    @guylainehardy9088 6 лет назад +1

    What is that music? Please post, I want to find that

    • @webmovie4you
      @webmovie4you  6 лет назад +1

      Guylaine Hardy Thank you for your enquiry. The music was composed or rather improvised by me and has no title and is not available afraid in fact I’m not even sure where it is now.

    • @guylainehardy9088
      @guylainehardy9088 6 лет назад +1

      So delightful. Would you know a musician's name who writes along those lines?

  • @AshQ12
    @AshQ12 5 лет назад

    V nice ❤️

  • @imanekarmoud6370
    @imanekarmoud6370 6 лет назад +1

    Some one can traduce in franch please ?

  • @BayviewFinch
    @BayviewFinch 13 лет назад

    @curiouspilot - Oh, OK.

  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty3628 2 года назад +1

    As I watch this video,
    I try to process all that arises in me...
    And I simply die inside.
    I just die.
    Pain tortures
    and torments
    every single cell of my being.
    I hate myself.
    I loathe my life.
    Being alive is pure and utter hell.
    I hate it here.
    I'm in hell.
    I am drowning and suffocating
    in heartache and darkness.
    I wish for death.
    Nothing else.
    This world is cruel.
    I am 42 years old:
    and my entire 42 years have been suffering,
    with fleeting windows of relief...
    I cannot bear the pain anymore.
    I just simply can't.
    Please please please please Lord, let me die.
    I pray tonight I go to sleep,
    and never ever wake up again...
    This is my wish.
    This is my prayer.
    Amen.

  • @maternalbanjo
    @maternalbanjo 11 лет назад

    @plumeria : concept taken for

  • @BayviewFinch
    @BayviewFinch 13 лет назад +1

    @twilightlove - But the Earth is just another external illusion that will disappear. Heaven's inside.

  • @imanekarmoud6370
    @imanekarmoud6370 6 лет назад

    Bonjour est ce que quelqu un peut traduit en Français

    • @jayadinash9102
      @jayadinash9102 5 лет назад

      Essayez d'utiliser Google Translate.
      translate.google.com/?hl=en&tab=wT#view=home&op=translate&sl=en&tl=fr

  • @maternalbanjo
    @maternalbanjo 11 лет назад

    @plu

  • @allisonbaxter6439
    @allisonbaxter6439 7 месяцев назад

    🤯❤️‍🔥

  • @anweshaP14
    @anweshaP14 5 лет назад

    But why does being in love feel so good? If everything is so impersonal

    • @rumigirl
      @rumigirl 5 лет назад +5

      In "Conversations with God", God (?) says that each of us is just a big energy field, and that our energy field extends out beyond our physical body. And energy fields aren't hard physical matter; they're just waves/particles, like light is. So when we're near another person, our invisible energy fields blend and become stronger, more intense, at the point where they meet. So according to God (?), what we fall in love with, or love, isn't actually the other person; it's the combined energy fields at their point of intersection, in between yourself and the other person. So if Tom meets Mary and they fall in love, Tom isn't in love with Mary; he's in love with their combined energy, which God (?) said could be called "Tomary". Similarly, Mary doesn't fall in love with Tom. She, too, falls in love with "Tomary" -- that energy formed by the conjoining of the two energies. I don't know if this really answers your question, but it's one way of looking at things...... 🌞⭐️🌛