hey, sis!! 💗 so today's question is what is one boundary you can set today to help you be more consistent with God today! For me: I putting a boundary around my mind & I am cutting out completely all reality TV. This is a conviction God has placed on my heart and something that I see the fruit of already!!
Praise God!!!! I know it’s God working in me. I too have given up TV as of recent and try to tune into faith base content when I can. I honestly and truly do not miss TV. Thank our Lord and Savior!!!!!!!! I’m trying to devote more time to God in place of TV. It was gradual, but oh so worth it!!!!!! Blessings upon His children🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Just felt called to share this, recently been going through a tough time financially and with my health. Been detached from God for quite some time now due to my circumstances and I used to be quite spiritual and pray a lot. Few nights ago, I got down on my knees and prayed for my health to get better and for me to stay consistent with eating healthy, prayed for my finances to improve, and to allow me to finally be able to secure an apartment of my own. Lord and behold I’ve been consistent with my diet/exercise and my health been getting better, moving into an apartment, and secured a good job to where I can finally survive on my own. I’ve been seeing a lot of your videos down my algorithm and subscribed. ❤
SIS!! What a beautiful testimony of God meeting you RIGHT where you are!! thank you so much for sharing. I know someone is going to read this and it's going to encourage them to invite God into all they're going through.
One boundary that I’m creating is making sure my first moments of the day are surrounded by spending time with God instead of getting otp with friends or going on social media,etc.
Hi sis❤️🇿🇦..the boundary I am setting today is not engaging in negative conversations, not engaging in conversations of complaining and talking trash about men. And that means I need to spend less time with my " friends" because whenever I'm with them we are always complaining and talking about how men are dogs etc and that just drains me and causing me to be so negative. I know God sees the best in each one of us and that's how I should be as a Christian. Complaining magnifies the problem, Worship magnifies God and declares him capable of solving the problem.❤️
I agree I struggled with that myself and honestly I set my boundaries with my friends and overtime as I did let them back into my life I was actually able to be a more positive influence and encourage them to shift perspectives on our spouses and potential suitors (for my single friends lol) so not only does it help you be more firm in your beliefs but when given time to hone in on it you can become a light for others
“As sons and daughters of the Most High God, we are more than qualified. Not to be boastful, but we really have to combat those thoughts of less than, because God has really qualified us” 🔥🔥🔥🔥 so good!!
How is it going sis? This was my decision yesterday and today I’m doing a little better than yesterday! Cover us Father and keep the spirit of laziness far away from your children in Jesus’ name, amen!
I am putting a boundary around my body and really taking my celibacy journey seriously and cutting out less screen time social media all together 🙌🏾🙌🏾 it’s been on my heart and mind heavy and I feel it will direct my attention to loving myself more and most importantly loving God more and spending more time with him! ❤🙏🏾
the boundary ill be setting today is locking the office door behind me when sitting to have my time with Jesus in the mornings. with my current load of RUclips videos to do and then being a mum and pregnant with the second, im quickly learning that things can look pretty ugly if I dont create those strict boundaries... thanks for the reminder sis!!!!
Consistent prayer & communication with God is key, even in the midst of our challenging seasons 🙏🏽... therefore we must set aside personal time to communicate with God daily with no distraction.
Had to run this video back and watch it a second time. This was sooooo good! All glory to God for the way he's using you to minister to your sisters, including myself. You really hit the nail on the head for alot of us this week. One thing I would like to add is that we have to find the fun in our consistent acts of faith. I truly believe the enemy tries to creep into our thoughts and convince us that this lifestyle is lame or colorless, and that's a huge LIE. So incorporate some fun into your routines. Whether it's a dance warm-up before you do your devotion, or starting your day with some music to get your energy higher, or even just incorporating God into the fun activities you do in life. Thanking him each day for the fun, the laughter you enjoyed that day, give God credit for the good/high moments of your life. Perspective is key. Thanks for your tips too, sis. Much needed! Enjoy your weekend. XO
Am really struggling with mustarbation ,,this is one thing that is taking me back…I need help n please pray for me…but all in all God is faithful…the devil knows the one thing am against n he’s using on me but through God I will make it….I trust God n I know he’s working
I’m beginning to start scheduling in my weeks for alone time, the more I spend time alone I can fill up and touch my college community. As a college student it’s hard to focus on God because friends are right next door. I find myself falling into sin when I don’t have a whole day to just spend with my father, and let him tell me who I am, and who I will be. Thank you for these tips I really needed them at this season in my walk! 🍁😌🧡
I didn't make it 2 mins in and I was in tears. Thank you for your obedience to your purpose, it's helping me get through some very difficult times of not thinking I'm good enough for anything.
My boundary is on my mind. Not letting thoughts of inadequacy in to linger and produce fruit. I’m more than qualified and deserving of the blessings and love of my Father.
I think the 5th way to stay consistent with God for me is making it a duty to always read His word, regardless of whatever is going on with me. I try my best to not skip reading my Bible/devotional daily. Thank you so much Melody. This is my first time commenting on your channel since I started watching last month. I really love your videos. I always take notes and learn so much from you. God bless you ❤
I am setting up boundaries to not let anything get in the way of my devotional and praise time to God. I sometimes only get to pray in the morning when I wake and before I go to bed. I am making sure that I remember to pray and worship the Lord in between and setting up boundaries to not let me forget or let anything stand in between my worship time.
My boundary would be on the healthy of my mind. Like the thoughts I allow and how that affects my feeling. I realised that God is not a feeling hence I cannot rely on feeling to validate where I stand with God. God loves me and has set me free. No more fear!
Hey lovely lady, this was right on time because I had sat my boundaries this week at work to stay away from negative talk. God has told me to walk away and Pray for those people that always keep something going on. Thank you for this video it let’s me know I’m on the right track with God.🙏🏾
One boundary that I can set that would help me to be more consistent with God is learning to let go. To TRULY let go and let God. As a relatively new born again Christian, my past habits of trying to control everything (and making myself anxious and worrisome) is a hard one to shake. I’ve gotten better at it, but I’m going through some things now that are really testing my ability to let go of the reigns (or at least stop trying to take the reigns) and it’s hard. I’ve entered into a phase of my life where I’ve been made to feel uncomfortable and I can’t figure out the origin of why; I have to assume it’s God. I’m just trying to navigate all the things I have going on and trying to learn to really put it all on his shoulders so that I can truly live by faith and not by sight. Please pray for me. Pray that I learn to truly trust God deeply and stop worrying so much. Pray for my strength. I have no doubt that God will get me through all that I’m dealing with right now, but I just need to know that someone cares. Thank you.
Hey Mel! Can I just say your videos always confirm what I am dealing with every week. I love it and appreciate it. It’s like God is working through you to talk to me and I’m so thankful l. ❤
A good boundary I’m gonna set is to fast daily, whether it’s from, food, my phone, music , or TV. Fast for some hours and spend that time with God, by praying or reading my bible.
The boundary I will set is not interrupting my time with God to text anyone, but devote all my time and attention to Him in those moments because He is worthy and I believe it’s important to do so.
I definitely have felt that I’m not qualified or good enough to be used by God. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. Thank you for another amazing video. You are such an inspiration! ❤️ My boundary will be on food. I have been convicted about my relationship with food. I eat when I’m happy, sad, mad, frustrated…literally any overwhelming emotion. I’ve realized I should result to praying or seeking guidance. I just came off a 7-day fast from meat and it was amazing. A year ago or even a few months ago I know there is no way I would’ve even THOUGHT about fasting.
This video spoke to my soul. I’m in this season where God is saying to me as fast as I make him a priority is fine , I don’t have to get into a routine!
2 Corinthians 6:18 is exactly what God has been trying to tell me. That I need to give up the idea that I am not worthy of his love, and time. I truly believe that he brought me to your video. Thank you Melody. I needed to see this.
“Your relationship with God and time with him changes over time. You learn different aspects of God through different seasons in your life.” I really needed to hear that. ❤ thank you!
one boundary I can set today that would help me become more consistent with God is setting time when i wake up to read the Word of God, talk to Him and listen to Him.
Dear sister, I discovered your channel a few days ago and I've been watching a lot of your videos. I just want to thank you for the great content and God bless you and your family ❤️ I'm 25 and currently struggling with singleness/ loneliness. When I was further away from the Lord it was really hard for me but now that I'm close again it's so much better! He is carrying my burdens. Hallelujah!
God is amazing! I watched your other video a month ago titled ‘You’re distracted sis, its time to make room to hear God.’ I knew it was for me because I was distracted and not spending enough time with God or in his word. a few weeks after I went on a 40 day Daniel fast. I’ve almost finished my fast and then I see this video, and it’s conformation. God Bless and thank you for allowing Him to use you.🥰
This video allowed me to give myself grace for sure. The guilt gets me at time but all I need to know is God loves me and sees my efforts n just push to make time.
One boundary I am setting is cutting out the scroll- the scrolling on social media. I’ve noticed over the last couple months I’ve felt a pull from God to get off of social media and realign my focus ❤
A boundary I can set is to, prioritize my mornings and spending them with the Lord before beginning the rest of my day. They have been really good so far, it’s not something that is easy..but it’s something that has made a difference in my days already:)
One boundary I’ll set today is I will ignore the negative and follow God take up my cross and follow Jesus and God❤ God bless everyone God loves y’all as well as Jesus Christ
Hey Melody! I love your videos. They seem to always be something that I need. Thank you for that! To answer the question of what boundaries I can set to help be more consistent with God is I can be intentional about his word. I’m limiting myself to less tv and social media. That frees up time for me to seek him and learn more about who he is.
The self control and discipline is what I needed to hear. So many other things occupy my headspace even subconsciously and bringing that to attention is a good place to start…thank you❤
i really appreciate that your content is actually helpful, like it’s not just filler but there’s a lot of tips and advice. it’s nice to have especially for the body of christ ♡
Great lesson! One thing I will continue to do is set boundaries on my daily social media time. Before you know it an hour or two have passed of unproductive activity.
I enjoyed this topic! The boundary that I had to enforce was getting rid of all my social medias. It wasn’t healthy and it took away ALL of my attention from the Lord. At one point my screen time was so high I had to do a double take. Plus, I felt terrible after getting offline. I’d have a blessed day, but one of the mutuals would be posting depressing things and I couldn’t allow those things into my spirit anymore. It’s been months since I’ve been active in any social platform (besides YT) and I feel great! And I’ve started a few Bible challenges and went back to church so things have been looking up!
Hi sis, I just got to know about your channel last week and ever Since then, I can't stop watching and learning and growing in my relationship with God.
One boundary I’m setting is getting away from listening to R&B music. It seems simple but I feel God telling me that it is something that keeps causing me to fall into the same sin.
This is my dilemma now. I was doing so well then everything changed..I know I need to be more consistent not even just for me but for my son n family. Thank u for your video
I was uncuffed from secular music about a year ago. On very rare occasions, I will listen to old school r&b (like 90s) - and I’ll humor my kids sometimes and listen to the Descendants or Trolls soundtrack or something like that. But I pretty much primarily only listen to worship music - all genres. My girls like to listen to Kidz Bop but I’ve found a lot of those songs are wholly inappropriate for children to be singing (like I Can’t Feel My Face… why are we singing this???) so I don’t usually let them listen to that anymore either. Besides, they love worship music too! 😆
Go Melody Alisa, Go Melody Alisa, you are such a Blessing. I listen to your videos every morning when getting ready for work. Thank you so much for posting such wonderful content.
Please know that you are so very anointed to do what you are doing on this channel! Teaching is definitely your calling! God bless you and your family! 🙏❤🙌🕊⚔👑
I loved this because at the time I felt consistency was impossible for me but you made me realize it is possible. I was encouraged and cut down on social media.
What stuck out to me was to accept that seasons change. Just because my walk with Christ was easy last month doesn’t mean it will be easy today and that is okay. What worked then might not work now and I will adjust accordingly!
Thank God for your life. Lately, I have been seeing how the Lord has been drawing me closer to Him, but small things like what you mentioned don't make me feel worthy to be near Him but He is so good, and this was a great reminder to forget my past and press on forward to the ultimate goal and that is Jesus!
After listening to this my mind immediately went to I Love Me Some Him by Toni Braxton. Call me crazy, but for me this ain't about some man it's about God! It hit differently then how I used to associate it.
Amen and Amen!!!! Very much needed topic sister Melody!!!!! Being consistent in my relationship with our Lord and Savior is so important and I’m in need of it. One of many ways for me is that I find myself talking more to God and rebuking distractions (trying to do it regularly). God is with us every step of the way as long as we are in step with Him. God bless all His children and thank you for sharing sister Melody🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Found your channel on my recommended a month ago and Its been a blessing! I would say another way to stay consistent with God lining up with your last statement is to remember what He says about you!! Keeping your head and not listening to the tactics of the enemy to try and shake you, but be rooted and grounded in His love and remembering that He said He knows the plans He has for us, thoughts of good and not of evil, to give us a future and a hope! Jeremiah 29;13 and Ephesians 3:17. So meditating and memorizing scriptures so that you can be daily reminded of His truths and promises! Much love from Botswana!!!💙
I’m giving up negative talk and want to move forward and live in my purpose 🙏🏾❤️ i found my passion and purpose now trying to see what God has for me to get there. No longer blocking blessings I accept what God has for me!
One change I can make is not trying to fit God in my schedule but instead trying to fit my schedule around God. I also shouldn't beat myself up when I fall short because I know that God wouldn't do that to me and he is a merciful and loving God, and through his son Jesus Christ I am saved, healed, and I have eternal life and salvation, AMEN!
One boundary I am feeling led towards, but struggling to do is to spend more of my evenings listening to christisn content. My parents do this on top of their morning devotions M-Fri and I feel like God is putting it on my heart to learn from them.
Hello 😊 one boundary that I can set today to help me be more consistent with God is not being on social media before bed. This is something I’ve been struggling with for a while but I know the time I spend on social media doom scrolling , I could be using that time to talk with God and end my night on a good note.
Wow, thank you Jesus!!! Thank you so much for your obedience and sharing this. This video and those scriptures truly blessed me as a first-year college student.
My boundaries I’m doing a 3 week consecration which is no social media and with youtube I’m only watching sermons on motivational/ inspirational messages… I’ll also be listening to Christian/ Gospel music only!!!!
This came at just the right time! I’m a mom of two under two and have been struggling to make a daily prayer time for over a year now. It really brings me such feelings of shame and frustration. This video was such an encouragement, thank you! 🙌🏻 🕊️
Thank you for this message! May God continue to bless you sis!! I’m so glad that he has used you to help minister to others through your content. I pray that you will continue to bear good fruit for the Lord all the days of your life. In Jesus name ❤😊
Today day I’m cutting out to use phone when I wake up bt replacing it by spending time with the Lord, and I’m cutting out alcohol and weed coz I lose control and start thinking about bad stuff when I’m high , and I’m cutting out spending me time with friends, Thank you cc Melody 🙏🏽
My boundary is to not strive for the perfection I think I must have to come to God. From the perfect setting to mindset. I can go to God ANYTIME. Also, being on my phone, because a bible study is more worth than one to two hours of scrolling.
One boundary i can set is creating a schedule to study my word from God and then setting a time to shoot my videos as he keeps commanding me to do. I gotta get out my own way. I have been called to do this whether i want to or not and im deciding today to be more consistent in his instruction.
hey, sis!! 💗 so today's question is what is one boundary you can set today to help you be more consistent with God today! For me:
I putting a boundary around my mind & I am cutting out completely all reality TV. This is a conviction God has placed on my heart and something that I see the fruit of already!!
Praise God!!!! I know it’s God working in me. I too have given up TV as of recent and try to tune into faith base content when I can. I honestly and truly do not miss TV. Thank our Lord and Savior!!!!!!!! I’m trying to devote more time to God in place of TV. It was gradual, but oh so worth it!!!!!! Blessings upon His children🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m setting a boundary around social media and the time spent on there. Time that could be used to spend more time with God.
I a putting a boundary around circular afrobeat music, it has been an enjoyment lately but I realized it is toxic to my relationship with God!
@@glorianishimwe8946 Do you listen to Christian Afrobeat music ?
self-control is a HUGE one for me but i know that through Jesus all things are possible
Just felt called to share this, recently been going through a tough time financially and with my health. Been detached from God for quite some time now due to my circumstances and I used to be quite spiritual and pray a lot. Few nights ago, I got down on my knees and prayed for my health to get better and for me to stay consistent with eating healthy, prayed for my finances to improve, and to allow me to finally be able to secure an apartment of my own. Lord and behold I’ve been consistent with my diet/exercise and my health been getting better, moving into an apartment, and secured a good job to where I can finally survive on my own. I’ve been seeing a lot of your videos down my algorithm and subscribed. ❤
SIS!! What a beautiful testimony of God meeting you RIGHT where you are!! thank you so much for sharing. I know someone is going to read this and it's going to encourage them to invite God into all they're going through.
Glory to our father and thank you for sharing I bless him and stand awe ❤
Thank you all for your kind words. It was a blessing these past few days after months of dark times. ❤️
Congratulations to you ! Awesome testimony ! You go, girl !
Congratulations 🥳. Thank God
One boundary that I’m creating is making sure my first moments of the day are surrounded by spending time with God instead of getting otp with friends or going on social media,etc.
i love this!
This!!!!
1. Understand that seasons change - 3:05
2. Set boundaries - 5:36
3. Practice self control - 7:09
4. Give up the idea that we are not qualified - 9:12
Hi sis❤️🇿🇦..the boundary I am setting today is not engaging in negative conversations, not engaging in conversations of complaining and talking trash about men. And that means I need to spend less time with my " friends" because whenever I'm with them we are always complaining and talking about how men are dogs etc and that just drains me and causing me to be so negative. I know God sees the best in each one of us and that's how I should be as a Christian. Complaining magnifies the problem, Worship magnifies God and declares him capable of solving the problem.❤️
Love this!!
I agree I struggled with that myself and honestly I set my boundaries with my friends and overtime as I did let them back into my life I was actually able to be a more positive influence and encourage them to shift perspectives on our spouses and potential suitors (for my single friends lol) so not only does it help you be more firm in your beliefs but when given time to hone in on it you can become a light for others
Amen to that❤
“As sons and daughters of the Most High God, we are more than qualified. Not to be boastful, but we really have to combat those thoughts of less than, because God has really qualified us” 🔥🔥🔥🔥 so good!!
YESS!! 🙌
I'm cutting out too many sleep, or those lazy moments... hopefully. Someone pls pray for me to become less lazy, to not give easily to that sin.
How is it going sis? This was my decision yesterday and today I’m doing a little better than yesterday! Cover us Father and keep the spirit of laziness far away from your children in Jesus’ name, amen!
My boundary is to learn how to let god lead and spend more time with him during this season I’m entering into
such a good one, Racquel!
Thank you melody🥺 your channel has made a broken lady myself draw closer to God as a woman, no more need for outside validation, only God.
AMEN, sis :') that's IT!! i'm so glad you're drawing closer to Him and getting that fulfillment that'll never waver
@@MelodyAlisa Thank you so much🤗
One boundary I'm setting today is not allowing my own negative thoughts to shape my perception of myself and my relationship with God and others.
I am putting a boundary around my body and really taking my celibacy journey seriously and cutting out less screen time social media all together 🙌🏾🙌🏾 it’s been on my heart and mind heavy and I feel it will direct my attention to loving myself more and most importantly loving God more and spending more time with him! ❤🙏🏾
the boundary ill be setting today is locking the office door behind me when sitting to have my time with Jesus in the mornings. with my current load of RUclips videos to do and then being a mum and pregnant with the second, im quickly learning that things can look pretty ugly if I dont create those strict boundaries...
thanks for the reminder sis!!!!
such a good one!! love this Krupa. you're giving me ideas
@@MelodyAlisa haha! No one come at me when you’re locked out of Melody’s office please! 😂
Consistent prayer & communication with God is key, even in the midst of our challenging seasons 🙏🏽... therefore we must set aside personal time to communicate with God daily with no distraction.
Consistency with God has been a consistent message this week…Hallelujah!!! Congrats on your devotional launch! ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽🙏🏽✝️
amen amen!
Had to run this video back and watch it a second time. This was sooooo good! All glory to God for the way he's using you to minister to your sisters, including myself. You really hit the nail on the head for alot of us this week. One thing I would like to add is that we have to find the fun in our consistent acts of faith. I truly believe the enemy tries to creep into our thoughts and convince us that this lifestyle is lame or colorless, and that's a huge LIE. So incorporate some fun into your routines. Whether it's a dance warm-up before you do your devotion, or starting your day with some music to get your energy higher, or even just incorporating God into the fun activities you do in life. Thanking him each day for the fun, the laughter you enjoyed that day, give God credit for the good/high moments of your life. Perspective is key. Thanks for your tips too, sis. Much needed! Enjoy your weekend. XO
So good!! I’ve been dealing with this exact thing…making my walk with God FUN, and not like it’s a chore.
Am really struggling with mustarbation ,,this is one thing that is taking me back…I need help n please pray for me…but all in all God is faithful…the devil knows the one thing am against n he’s using on me but through God I will make it….I trust God n I know he’s working
I’m beginning to start scheduling in my weeks for alone time, the more I spend time alone I can fill up and touch my college community. As a college student it’s hard to focus on God because friends are right next door. I find myself falling into sin when I don’t have a whole day to just spend with my father, and let him tell me who I am, and who I will be.
Thank you for these tips I really needed them at this season in my walk! 🍁😌🧡
I didn't make it 2 mins in and I was in tears. Thank you for your obedience to your purpose, it's helping me get through some very difficult times of not thinking I'm good enough for anything.
My boundary is on my mind. Not letting thoughts of inadequacy in to linger and produce fruit. I’m more than qualified and deserving of the blessings and love of my Father.
I will allow myself to vent as much as I need but to God only! I will be putting a boundary around mouth.
love this one, sis!!
Amen!! Me too!!
@@AthenaIsabella 💯💙🙏🏽
I think the 5th way to stay consistent with God for me is making it a duty to always read His word, regardless of whatever is going on with me. I try my best to not skip reading my Bible/devotional daily.
Thank you so much Melody. This is my first time commenting on your channel since I started watching last month. I really love your videos. I always take notes and learn so much from you. God bless you ❤
"God will always correct but not condem" sooo powerful sis! 🤎 i love that!
I am setting up boundaries to not let anything get in the way of my devotional and praise time to God. I sometimes only get to pray in the morning when I wake and before I go to bed. I am making sure that I remember to pray and worship the Lord in between and setting up boundaries to not let me forget or let anything stand in between my worship time.
My boundary would be on the healthy of my mind. Like the thoughts I allow and how that affects my feeling. I realised that God is not a feeling hence I cannot rely on feeling to validate where I stand with God. God loves me and has set me free. No more fear!
Hey lovely lady, this was right on time because I had sat my boundaries this week at work to stay away from negative talk. God has told me to walk away and Pray for those people that always keep something going on. Thank you for this video it let’s me know I’m on the right track with God.🙏🏾
“God corrects he doesn’t condemn” I needed to hear that. Thank you Lord God Almighty 💞
One boundary that I can set that would help me to be more consistent with God is learning to let go. To TRULY let go and let God. As a relatively new born again Christian, my past habits of trying to control everything (and making myself anxious and worrisome) is a hard one to shake. I’ve gotten better at it, but I’m going through some things now that are really testing my ability to let go of the reigns (or at least stop trying to take the reigns) and it’s hard. I’ve entered into a phase of my life where I’ve been made to feel uncomfortable and I can’t figure out the origin of why; I have to assume it’s God. I’m just trying to navigate all the things I have going on and trying to learn to really put it all on his shoulders so that I can truly live by faith and not by sight. Please pray for me. Pray that I learn to truly trust God deeply and stop worrying so much. Pray for my strength. I have no doubt that God will get me through all that I’m dealing with right now, but I just need to know that someone cares. Thank you.
A boundary that I’m working on is prioritizing time throughout the week to meditate in God’s word. 🌸
Hey Mel! Can I just say your videos always confirm what I am dealing with every week. I love it and appreciate it. It’s like God is working through you to talk to me and I’m so thankful l. ❤
A good boundary I’m gonna set is to fast daily, whether it’s from, food, my phone, music , or TV. Fast for some hours and spend that time with God, by praying or reading my bible.
Start my day, no matter what time, with prayer of thanks and serenity prayer. I ask God to guide the remaining time in my day.
The boundary I will set is not interrupting my time with God to text anyone, but devote all my time and attention to Him in those moments because He is worthy and I believe it’s important to do so.
I definitely have felt that I’m not qualified or good enough to be used by God. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. Thank you for another amazing video. You are such an inspiration! ❤️
My boundary will be on food. I have been convicted about my relationship with food. I eat when I’m happy, sad, mad, frustrated…literally any overwhelming emotion. I’ve realized I should result to praying or seeking guidance. I just came off a 7-day fast from meat and it was amazing. A year ago or even a few months ago I know there is no way I would’ve even THOUGHT about fasting.
I will be setting a boundary of shutting the influence of toxic and bad examples of friends!
yes!! love this.
This video spoke to my soul. I’m in this season where God is saying to me as fast as I make him a priority is fine , I don’t have to get into a routine!
2 Corinthians 6:18 is exactly what God has been trying to tell me. That I need to give up the idea that I am not worthy of his love, and time. I truly believe that he brought me to your video. Thank you Melody. I needed to see this.
“Your relationship with God and time with him changes over time. You learn different aspects of God through different seasons in your life.” I really needed to hear that. ❤ thank you!
Sometimes I feel like I have to put boundaries on everything that makes me unique and then I struggle with feeling colorless.
one boundary I can set today that would help me become more consistent with God is setting time when i wake up to read the Word of God, talk to Him and listen to Him.
Dear sister, I discovered your channel a few days ago and I've been watching a lot of your videos. I just want to thank you for the great content and God bless you and your family ❤️
I'm 25 and currently struggling with singleness/ loneliness. When I was further away from the Lord it was really hard for me but now that I'm close again it's so much better! He is carrying my burdens. Hallelujah!
Same
God is amazing! I watched your other video a month ago titled ‘You’re distracted sis, its time to make room to hear God.’
I knew it was for me because I was distracted and not spending enough time with God or in his word.
a few weeks after I went on a 40 day Daniel fast. I’ve almost finished my fast and then I see this video, and it’s conformation.
God Bless and thank you for allowing Him to use you.🥰
This video allowed me to give myself grace for sure. The guilt gets me at time but all I need to know is God loves me and sees my efforts n just push to make time.
One boundary I am setting is cutting out the scroll- the scrolling on social media. I’ve noticed over the last couple months I’ve felt a pull from God to get off of social media and realign my focus ❤
A boundary I can set is to, prioritize my mornings and spending them with the Lord before beginning the rest of my day. They have been really good so far, it’s not something that is easy..but it’s something that has made a difference in my days already:)
I will commit to going to church every Sunday and Wednesday bible study for the rest of the year!
One boundary I’ll set today is I will ignore the negative and follow God take up my cross and follow Jesus and God❤ God bless everyone God loves y’all as well as Jesus Christ
Hey Melody! I love your videos. They seem to always be something that I need. Thank you for that!
To answer the question of what boundaries I can set to help be more consistent with God is I can be intentional about his word. I’m limiting myself to less tv and social media. That frees up time for me to seek him and learn more about who he is.
thank you for being here, sis!! & phew! Your boundary is very in alignment with mine - placing a boundary around my mind and the tv shows I consume!
Bless you, Beautiful!! This is so necessary in our walk with God.. thank you!!
Yes!! You’re so welcome sis!
The self control and discipline is what I needed to hear. So many other things occupy my headspace even subconsciously and bringing that to attention is a good place to start…thank you❤
Love this! I am putting a boundary around my energy lol. I am taking the time to have a Sabbath day each week and rest!
i really appreciate that your content is actually helpful, like it’s not just filler but there’s a lot of tips and advice. it’s nice to have especially for the body of christ ♡
aw thank you sis! so glad to have you here!
Great lesson!
One thing I will continue to do is set boundaries on my daily social media time. Before you know it an hour or two have passed of unproductive activity.
I enjoyed this topic! The boundary that I had to enforce was getting rid of all my social medias. It wasn’t healthy and it took away ALL of my attention from the Lord. At one point my screen time was so high I had to do a double take. Plus, I felt terrible after getting offline. I’d have a blessed day, but one of the mutuals would be posting depressing things and I couldn’t allow those things into my spirit anymore. It’s been months since I’ve been active in any social platform (besides YT) and I feel great! And I’ve started a few Bible challenges and went back to church so things have been looking up!
Hi sis, I just got to know about your channel last week and ever Since then, I can't stop watching and learning and growing in my relationship with God.
One boundary I’m setting is getting away from listening to R&B music. It seems simple but I feel God telling me that it is something that keeps causing me to fall into the same sin.
this is so good!
This is my dilemma now. I was doing so well then everything changed..I know I need to be more consistent not even just for me but for my son n family. Thank u for your video
I was uncuffed from secular music about a year ago. On very rare occasions, I will listen to old school r&b (like 90s) - and I’ll humor my kids sometimes and listen to the Descendants or Trolls soundtrack or something like that. But I pretty much primarily only listen to worship music - all genres. My girls like to listen to Kidz Bop but I’ve found a lot of those songs are wholly inappropriate for children to be singing (like I Can’t Feel My Face… why are we singing this???) so I don’t usually let them listen to that anymore either. Besides, they love worship music too! 😆
Go Melody Alisa, Go Melody Alisa, you are such a Blessing. I listen to your videos every morning when getting ready for work. Thank you so much for posting such wonderful content.
I love how God loves us, even when we win and do a bad thing and make a mistake. He forgives us and its amazing
Please know that you are so very anointed to do what you are doing on this channel! Teaching is definitely your calling! God bless you and your family! 🙏❤🙌🕊⚔👑
I loved this because at the time I felt consistency was impossible for me but you made me realize it is possible. I was encouraged and cut down on social media.
Your videos has helped me a lot... Being a new Christian I need constant reminders and help while on my journey
What stuck out to me was to accept that seasons change. Just because my walk with Christ was easy last month doesn’t mean it will be easy today and that is okay. What worked then might not work now and I will adjust accordingly!
I needed this!
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Thank you Ma'am, such a timely message for me. May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you for His glory and for your good.🌼🙏
Thank God for your life. Lately, I have been seeing how the Lord has been drawing me closer to Him, but small things like what you mentioned don't make me feel worthy to be near Him but He is so good, and this was a great reminder to forget my past and press on forward to the ultimate goal and that is Jesus!
AMEN!
yes, sis!! you are BEYOND qualified. His love covers it all
Your channel is a blessing
Thank you for this video! As always, it is just what I need right now! 💕
i got you, sis!! thank you for being here
After listening to this my mind immediately went to I Love Me Some Him by Toni Braxton. Call me crazy, but for me this ain't about some man it's about God! It hit differently then how I used to associate it.
Just what I needed to hear
Melody sis Hello from NZ, I love the way you teach & preach the word of God. You’re Very blessed.
Amen and Amen!!!! Very much needed topic sister Melody!!!!! Being consistent in my relationship with our Lord and Savior is so important and I’m in need of it. One of many ways for me is that I find myself talking more to God and rebuking distractions (trying to do it regularly). God is with us every step of the way as long as we are in step with Him. God bless all His children and thank you for sharing sister Melody🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
The boundary I can set today is to let God lead in my life and to stop engaging in meaningless conversations that are to put me down.
Found your channel on my recommended a month ago and Its been a blessing! I would say another way to stay consistent with God lining up with your last statement is to remember what He says about you!! Keeping your head and not listening to the tactics of the enemy to try and shake you, but be rooted and grounded in His love and remembering that He said He knows the plans He has for us, thoughts of good and not of evil, to give us a future and a hope! Jeremiah 29;13 and Ephesians 3:17. So meditating and memorizing scriptures so that you can be daily reminded of His truths and promises! Much love from Botswana!!!💙
I’m giving up negative talk and want to move forward and live in my purpose 🙏🏾❤️ i found my passion and purpose now trying to see what God has for me to get there. No longer blocking blessings I accept what God has for me!
yasss i love this!!
First step in taking into this new week is to practice self control !
One change I can make is not trying to fit God in my schedule but instead trying to fit my schedule around God. I also shouldn't beat myself up when I fall short because I know that God wouldn't do that to me and he is a merciful and loving God, and through his son Jesus Christ I am saved, healed, and I have eternal life and salvation, AMEN!
One boundary I am feeling led towards, but struggling to do is to spend more of my evenings listening to christisn content. My parents do this on top of their morning devotions M-Fri and I feel like God is putting it on my heart to learn from them.
Hello 😊 one boundary that I can set today to help me be more consistent with God is not being on social media before bed. This is something I’ve been struggling with for a while but I know the time I spend on social media doom scrolling , I could be using that time to talk with God and end my night on a good note.
AMEN! 🙏🏽 God Bless You! 🙌🏽
Wow, thank you Jesus!!! Thank you so much for your obedience and sharing this. This video and those scriptures truly blessed me as a first-year college student.
God's timing is perfect! Messages received lovely video thank you sis 👏👏❤️❤️✝️
My boundaries I’m doing a 3 week consecration which is no social media and with youtube I’m only watching sermons on motivational/ inspirational messages… I’ll also be listening to Christian/ Gospel music only!!!!
This came at just the right time! I’m a mom of two under two and have been struggling to make a daily prayer time for over a year now. It really brings me such feelings of shame and frustration. This video was such an encouragement, thank you! 🙌🏻 🕊️
Thank you for this message! May God continue to bless you sis!! I’m so glad that he has used you to help minister to others through your content. I pray that you will continue to bear good fruit for the Lord all the days of your life. In Jesus name ❤😊
Thank you very much, this was super encouraging and relatable. God definitely led me to your channel, your words correlate with my life rn. Ty
You are so welcome!
Thank you for this Melody. It led me to important realisation. God bless you and your beautiful family
So good and encouraging thank you sister
Thank you so helpful 🙌🏽. One boundary I could set is saying no sometimes. Even though I want to help everyone
Today day I’m cutting out to use phone when I wake up bt replacing it by spending time with the Lord, and I’m cutting out alcohol and weed coz I lose control and start thinking about bad stuff when I’m high , and I’m cutting out spending me time with friends, Thank you cc Melody 🙏🏽
Thank you! I needed this to be more consistent, with my time with God.👏🏽
You are so welcome
This is my second video I’m watching of yours and I’m in love! Subscribed after watching the first❤ your content is so giving
My boundary is to not strive for the perfection I think I must have to come to God. From the perfect setting to mindset. I can go to God ANYTIME. Also, being on my phone, because a bible study is more worth than one to two hours of scrolling.
Thank you for sharing theses truly helpful tips sis🙏 making more time to spend with God is what I need to be more consistent in.
I’m coming off a bad season and I needed to hear this
I'm so glad it was timely for you!
God bless you❤
One boundary i can set is creating a schedule to study my word from God and then setting a time to shoot my videos as he keeps commanding me to do. I gotta get out my own way. I have been called to do this whether i want to or not and im deciding today to be more consistent in his instruction.
🙏Thanks BEAUTIFUL needed the encouragement🙏💖🕊🕊🌹🤗🙏
Thank you. You've really helped me. God bless you so much 💖
Hey melody!! I have been wanting to build my relationship with God alot more ❤
Whew it’s number 4 for me. 🤦🏾♀️
Thanks for the reminder and encouragement sis
You are so welcome!