Bit of a ramble about 2024

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 33

  • @Car-f7h
    @Car-f7h 7 месяцев назад +2

    You just came up . I lost my beautiful Irish born mom last year totally agree you need to be OKAY to look after both yourself and others . I personally think women from Irish background are resilient and very strong . Wishing you every happiness xx

  • @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu
    @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu 8 месяцев назад +6

    This is one of my favourite blogs you have done i can relate with so much and actually you have now made me realise I need to put my needs first like you I'm always putting every one first it's that care giver side of me same.
    You are beautiful strong intelligent and this is your year❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kristinehamilton214
    @kristinehamilton214 8 месяцев назад +3

    I went through the same thing last year. I’ve been working full time and helping my dad. In 2022 my mom passed away and my dad moved into a retirement community. He left all the house stuff to me. Getting rid of 50 years of stuff. I had no time for myself and didn’t take any. I finally decided to take me time. We are the only ones that can set boundaries and prioritize ourselves. I’m so glad you’re doing it. ❤

  • @ciaraduffy805
    @ciaraduffy805 7 месяцев назад +1

    Orla I’ve been following you for a long time now and this is my all time favourite vlog of yours to date. You’re a natural you tuber keep up the good work and keep being you because you’re the best ❤

  • @mildredconnaughton8566
    @mildredconnaughton8566 8 месяцев назад +4

    You will get through this. We are stronger than you think girl. I’ve been there,done that & survived it 😂😂 you will too x

  • @janice-ann7157
    @janice-ann7157 8 месяцев назад +2

    I'm glad you're prioritising yourself and it's not selfish at all. ❤

  • @caitrionakenny999
    @caitrionakenny999 8 месяцев назад +2

    Well done Orla! Prioritise yourself! I find that difficult too but I also realise I have to make myself happy. Which I was brought up to feel is selfish but it's not.
    Do what is best for you x

  • @2ndstarfromtherightsolas881
    @2ndstarfromtherightsolas881 8 месяцев назад +1

    Anything that makes you happy is imporant , ''a happier you'' is your best version of yourself.
    This video is going to help so many people, as it does me, thanks for posting!
    Sounds like 2024 is your year for ''YOU''✨.....oh your not rambling at all, you make perfect sense😃
    and boundaries are necessary , those who get you will respect them.
    Your holidays will be a great break to get a refresh, laugh have fun and just enjoy yourself.....it's a good place to begin!
    🤗

  • @maxineoconnell6549
    @maxineoconnell6549 8 месяцев назад

    Hi Orla
    I really enjoyed this blog..it brought back memories of my own separation and eventual divorce over 20 yrs ago...you are a strong independent woman and you will get thru this...there is always light at the end of the tunnel....at this stage of my life I have never been happier...so keep going your doin brilliant ❤

  • @corryslife
    @corryslife 7 месяцев назад

    Have a great day and strong Coffee youre changing Things sounds good.

  • @ruthhargaden8929
    @ruthhargaden8929 8 месяцев назад +2

    Great video. Good luck with putting yourself first, it may not feel natural at first. You can’t pour from an empty cup. 🎉😊

  • @michelledavies8945
    @michelledavies8945 8 месяцев назад +3

    If never have known you were facing all that. As you do so much for others im glad you are going to start putting yourself first, and im happy you have a friend who is helping you out. Isnt it sad that our society and upbringings make us feel guilty for saying no to people now and again, but hey ho we are learning all the time and things are changing for the better 🎉x

  • @margaretnicolaou9294
    @margaretnicolaou9294 8 месяцев назад +2

    Good for you ❤❤❤

  • @each_day_is_new
    @each_day_is_new 8 месяцев назад +1

    Brillant Orla your plan is a great you are strong and sure you will get through what ever comes so yes deal with then dont let it steal your peace now. I had hard divorce and picking myself and my children up from the aftermath was challenging put as a unit we all got so much stronger and our bond is unbreakable. As women we are always so focussed on caring for others we neglect ourselves completely we musttake time breaks and engulge for ourselves from time to time to feed our own souls new hobbies are great for that. I am so pleased at how well you are prepared you can handle all of it. Get sleep I dont know if CBD is legal in Ireland but it is wonderful to help with sleep safe nature and stops all the mind chatter so you can just sleep. Loads of love to all of you from Dana in the US

  • @patriciamcdermott108
    @patriciamcdermott108 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well done you orla. Have a fantastic holiday and relax a little bit. Xx

  • @carolinecoffey5404
    @carolinecoffey5404 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Orla I’m glad your taking time for yourself everything will work out great x

  • @kimm3473
    @kimm3473 8 месяцев назад +1

    So glad to hear your are prioritizing yourself and embracing your home even if it changes in future. Get the damn sofa and enjoy sitting on it! You deserve it! ❤

  • @kalelake3067
    @kalelake3067 8 месяцев назад +1

    Just take care..

  • @dianeoconnor5903
    @dianeoconnor5903 8 месяцев назад +1

    You Go Girl !!

  • @carolinebyrne6091
    @carolinebyrne6091 7 месяцев назад

    Im so glad you are prioritising you xxxx

  • @josephinemcgloin
    @josephinemcgloin 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hi orla
    Just watched your blog wish i could give you a hug
    You will be ok take each day at a time xx

  • @doloreswilson6698
    @doloreswilson6698 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Orla, take care of you. I'm turning 64 in 9 days. I've been trying to get more rest.

  • @jewllerey4u
    @jewllerey4u 8 месяцев назад +1

    Omg that woman said what I said in ur kitchen last year 2hat I said was cop on tell him xx off and u look after u xxxxx I'm so glad ur doing this for u delighted honestly about time xxxxx

  • @antoq9171
    @antoq9171 8 месяцев назад +4

    Good luck with everything Orla......you'll feel so liberated when you get divorced, you won't know yourself.

  • @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu
    @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu 8 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊

  • @jeanettemccallion1636
    @jeanettemccallion1636 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Orla. Check out or call Marianna at Irish Divorce Services, very reasonable. You represent yourself but have support and direction. Good luck.

  • @marybarlow1829
    @marybarlow1829 8 месяцев назад +5

    I don’t know who own the house but I tell him if he wanted a divorce that I would get the house

  • @CaronGoddard
    @CaronGoddard 7 месяцев назад

    Orla, look after yourself, your number one you have to remember that if you don’t take care of yourself no one else will, get your sofa do your room how you want it, and let your ex to jog on with the divorce, if he wants it let him pay for it!! Bastard!! Keep your vlogs going take care x

  • @kalelake3067
    @kalelake3067 8 месяцев назад

    Maybe when you feel better; you can go on a dating site; you might meet someone.. ☮️❤

  • @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu
    @AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu 8 месяцев назад +2

    Orla would u like to joina yoga classes with me im a beginner ❤❤❤

  • @Emptynestballerina1
    @Emptynestballerina1 8 месяцев назад

    Free @Palestine