Dear whoever is reading this, we don't know each other and there is a strong possibility we might never meet, but I wish nothing but the best and happiness for you ❤️🤙
I feel like this song is a perfect example, of the current state of collective consciousness in the world right now. I’ve lost all my friends, my family, nobody talks anymore, nobody cares. We’re all in this life together, but I’ve never felt so alone, I’m longing for how things used to be. If you’re reading this, I love you and hope everything painful, turns into something beautiful and actually worth the pain.
Same. Live alone, no friends, only my elderly mom for family. Most ppl don't seem to be interested in making friends. At least I'm working on several health problems and making gradual progress on a couple. The years go by faster and faster. Let's make the pain turn to beauty. Keep going.
@@OptimusPrimeribs at least you got your mom man, I lost mine to cancer in 2010 and dad to heart attack a few years later. But yeah man don't give up hope, keep trying to make friends and focus on yourself, health, and wealth, do what makes you happy!
He would have.. coming from 39 yr old who’s father never chose to be apart of my life. Joe Dirt told us “ life’s a garden, dig it” 😊 good luck young one.
Anyone can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a Dad. I was lucky to have that Dad. He was my mentor and my best friend . He passed away 3 years ago. I miss him so much. I am now carrying for my mom. She and my dad were married for 62 years. I can't imagine the heartache she fills every day. Dad, I am keeping my promise to take care of her. Just know I really miss you.
I’m in the same exact position and have been since 2017. It’s amazing how someone you’ve never met is going through the same journey. I made my dad the same promise. Always remember you’re a special person for doing what you do best wishes to you and your mom.
My husband of 26 years took his life. He was the love of my life. He had Bipolar disorder. When things were good, they were wonderful. When things weren’t good, they were so very difficult. But, if I could do it all over again, I’d still choose him, and if I could know what I know now, I’d do so much more to try to help him. This song may not have been written about this subject, but it really speaks to me. My family and I hurt so deeply, and I grieve for him all of the time.
Ouch, Star, I feel your pain. I suffered from bipolar, it's not pretty. I moved from Wisconsin to Vegas one month before 9/11, and was lucky enough to get a job running the Vegas branch of a national company. When this song came came on, it was my rule that everything came to a halt and the volume cranked. I hope you are doing well now, Star. Merry Christmas and happy holidays, and if you'd like to talk to a guy in Vegas, I'm here for you.
Yes! You get it. Much love back to you! YOUth & YOUthAtHeart - make sure everyday to give those who you consider your dad or mom, let them know that you love them & thanks for what they have given you. They don't have to be biological parents. Don't even have to be foster parents. They can simply be the adults that have and made a positive impact on your life. When you become an adult, in your own special way before it is too late, Say thanks to your mommy or daddy. "I am safe. You can retire. You can relax. I've got your back." It takes a village to raise a child. But it also takes a child to wreck havoc on the city. Dennis the Menance did it -why can't I? No, no, no. That's not how the game works....
To all those who never had a Dad your father is Father wisdom :) you grew up great now be the person ur meant A child grows into the man he always wanted to be never let a void be the lost rather the void is the truth of self growth :)
Didn’t think life would get so hard the older you get, and the more you start thinking about anything and everything. I want to go back to when I heard this song for the first time
This song is super underrated. My dad fought for over 7 years and poured every ounce of money and energy he had into getting custody of me and my sister. We were poor as dirt because of it but i wouldnt trade one second. He was paralyzed on his left side since he was 18 but never took any government assistance. He worked his crippled ass off every day to make sure we made it. This song always reminds me of the sacrifices he made to make sure we had a stable upbringing ❤️
That’s a really parent sweetheart and my daddy was the same way except our moms never wanted us especially my mom she really didn’t want me because I was born with spinal bifida my brother and sister mom just sucked in a different way. I’m happy your like me and seen the good that came out of us being raised by our dads even if we were dirt poor. Dang we lived off potatoes for along time but we loved it because he would makes us fries a lot, because that’s what we wanted dont with them. It was a treat to have hotdogs with it. Honestly I wouldn’t change it for anything. I’m happy to see you were happy just the same 😊
Struggle makes You stronger. Your Dad is an inspiration for the care he took of you through his struggles. God Bless You that you may overcome Your obstacles.@@beaby1977
Damn, same goes for my dad. Let's all be proud of the dads that are true fighters in life. Fighting for whats important. I know he taught me how to fight for my son. God bless you.
What relationship with you dad is more valuable than all the money in the world. My dad was the same he passed and I miss him every day. Take advantage of every day you have him.
Leaving a comment to represent the kids like myself who didn't have the Dad that fought for them, who didn't protect them, and hurt them the most. This song takes a different perspective when you come from a place of longing for someone to take it all away and be there for you. He is dead now and I won't ever have a chance for it. Treat your kids with love and compassion because they remember forever.
This song came out in 2001. I remember I began listening to it when I moved to Seattle in 2003. There was a radio station called “The Funky Monkey”. 104.9. The guy at the station would call out the name of the band or singer and the name of the song. I began my freshman year of high school in 2003 and it was awesome to listen to this song on my Walkman on my way home from school on the bus. It was amazing to be a teenager during a time like this in the early 2000s with such beautiful music. Now at age 36, I can only reminisce my youth and tell my nieces and nephews about it. They’re all still kids under 13, but I hope they one day can realize how beautiful those times were. To my millennials born in the mid 80s to early 90s, I salute you. We were the last great generation.
@@cindywilliams8434 True.......but a lot of the times, it's the father that ends up without custody. Both sides suffer......but men, in this case, do tend to suffer worse.
i lived in a single mother based home and it was really bad with abusive boyfriends and my dad wasnt really in my life as much till my teens and it sucks thinking about
Music is universal...Im a black man and thus is literally one of my favorite songs EVER MADE IN LIFE.. definitely in my top 10...this song brings back so many memories, even in high school every time this song and video came on I would NOT leave until it was over, dong care where I was or how late I was..if this came on dammit Ima listen..good job on this one guys!! I love it, always and forever!!
That's how it makes me feel too, I recently just went through a break up and music like this has helped me through it and to forget about it. This music and A Flock of Seagulls music helps me a lot, I just focus on school and forget about the whole thing.
God sent me this lyrical as a prophetic about my spouse to be (we have currently split). And apparently this is how he is feeling. Grown boy needs Jesus. And he's 60 years old come on now. Anyone else with these thoughts and feelings, I encourage you to look within why this person left and to also seek the face of God, humble yourself to your knees. And apologise for what you need to. God bless you.
People are allowed to have feelings at every age what does that even mean. Leaving the relationship doesn't make you the innocent one if that's what you're saying. It's easier to walk away than be held accountable. And that's not even the message here. If you relate to this song, it's because you understand the pain of what he's saying cuz you've been through it. You're belittling a grown man because he has feelings, you sound like a miserable person who hides behind a Bible.
"When history witnesses a great change, Razgriz reveals itself... first, as a dark demon. As a demon, it uses its power to rain death upon the land, and then it dies. However, after a period of slumber, Razgriz returns, this time, as a great hero."
I've loved this song but never understood what it was about until I saw this video. At 65 I have failed at a lot of things throughout life except for one thing, raising my son without a wife. He's now 25 and in the Navy. Never fails to say "I love you Dad" at the end of our phone calls. It doesn't get better than that!
2022.... Still feeling it. I don't care how many years it's been, this still hits the heart. (edit: 2024 still hits the heart. Great seeing all the comments😉Cheers)
Remember listening to this song as a kid wondering where my dad was, hoping he would show up and save me from all the trauma going on in my childhood. Met him at 14 years old, stopped communicating at 16, and then found him on Facebook and stayed in touch up until his passing 2015. Addiction sucks. Rest in Heaven Dad. I know you were trying to turn your life around. I forgive you.
I CAN relate 100 he wasn't my blood father but anytime I ride around the ole hood it makes me think if I had an issue or problem with a car relationship LIFE I could go see him he'd fix within a day or 2 !!
Have heard this song for 20 years never seen the video and knew it was about him and his son, thought it was about his girlfriend now this song has a different meaning to me. Love being a dad!
In 2014 my dad was diagnosed with leukemia. Everyone said to let him pass. I fought for him to be treated and God have me another nine months with him. This song helped carry me through it all.
i’m still listening to this song been listening for 2 years it still hits love it so much i hope this song still lives in 2045 if we make it that long this brings back memories 💯🤘
Absolutely wicked song. I love the video, but take it out of the equation and the lyrics hit me where I am. I'd almost forgot about it, but so glad I found it again.
J0n4th4n H0ugh I completely agree. I love it so much. I was going to write you a message to let you know the latest with the guy I was " seeing ". It's over. We had a chat last night and I finally got the reason why he was being different recently. He has met the woman of his "dreams". Online for gods sake. It was me who asked him if he had "met" her online . when he said yeah, I was like, why am I not surprised. I don't think he expected me to just know. I said, I guess that it's your kinda thing. She apparently lives half way round the world too. I'm not going to lie, he really bloody hurt me. This was all him who asked me to be his girlfriend, and said he loved me. Said he was going to do anything to come and visit me. I laid myself bare for him. I was completely open, emotionally with him. I know that what we had at the beginning was true. That connection between us went both ways. I don't even think he ever played me. I just think, he didn't think. He was actually surprised that I was so hurt and was kinda cutting with him. Like after all we had talked about and he tells me that and he expects me to be all smiles and "no problem". He said he never wanted to stop talking to me. I was like are you for real? Yeah, I'm gonna be able to chat away with you while you're telling this new girl all the things that you said to me. C'mon, for fucks sake! How can I be all buddy buddy with him while I still feel something for him? I cried so hard and for so long last night. But I feel like it did me the world of good, cause I feel a lot better today. I know I won't forget him in a long time, like, as someone I used to know. But as for my feelings, at least we didn't actually meet. That would've been a lot tougher to deal with. I'll be fine though. It's just another crack in my already shattered heart. I'll just patch it up and move on. The way I learned to do a long time ago. I just wanted to say a big Thankyou for being there and being a great friend, I really appreciate it. Sorry for this being a huge 'essay' lol :)). I hope you're doing well as well? I'm lucky to have you (and a few others on here, too)as a friend who is honestly on my side. As I am with you and (my other friends) :)
Julie Fox I know how u feel I've just finished with a girl who don't live half way round the world but I fell in love with her although I'd never met her so I kinda guess how u feel I miss her conversation so much
This song brings back memories of when I was separated from my son. It served as an escape for me, allowing me to release all the frustration, anger, and longing I felt for my child. Music truly has a way of helping us cope with our emotions.
I used to play this song as a kid but now I'm a father and get the true MEANING! I hope everyone has a blessed life thru these tormenting times. I Love u Son ❣️❣️
It makes no difference. Lost love, lost friends, it's all the same. A minute lost. Is gone gone for ever. Stand up and grab the many minutes still ahead of you. Dance like no one is watching, sing like no one is listening, you'll be heard. And find love again, then love harder then before. No one is an island...... We are one and will always be connected. I'm 70 years on this journey.....and I'll be here another 70 years.
This song and video reminds me of my dad (RIP 12/31/23). My home life with my mother was horrid. My dad tried to get full custody but couldnt. 50% of my time was in h3ll. But whenever I was with him, i was nothing but happy. I could forget about all the bad that was happening at my other home. He did take it all away. All the pain. All my hurt.
Got married in 01. Had my first kid in 01. I remember listening and watching this song on tv while holding my first child while I rocked her back and forth on the chair. She’s graduated recently from college. Years later I’m still married and my second child is graduating from high school. Kids are a beautiful aspect of life/they make you become better people/you realize your life is not your own anymore. Timeless song. Thanks Wes:)
i dont know why im so sentimental bout this now. maybe because i never had someone who i could call father before. so here i am feeling so envy for your children.
@@wangpup9297 I’m so sorry to hear that:( I don’t know if you believe in God or not…but he is your Heavenly Father. I will pray for you this day, that you find comfort, peace, safety in his loving grace. Hang in there my friend. This world is a harsh place and is meant to bring us down. May God grant you strength to carry on.
Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there that truly make an effort to be in their child's life. Society needs all the positive male role models they can get now more than ever.
You are so right.....everything is about women and to ensure their rights. And thats good But the broken hearted dads out there are forgotten.... Let's stay together...we are not alone....let's feel each other...it doesn't matter we're we are coming from, we have all the same feeling and concerns... Let's be strong...we are not alone ...
Tee Gee keep fighting for your kids! I got custody of my daughter 13 years ago, it hasn’t been easy but seeing her graduate from high school and hold down a job makes me really proud. Good luck to all the dads out there fighting for their kids! We used to jam this song when I’d pick her up on my weekends before I got custody, she mentioned hearing it a few weeks ago and realizing what it was about
This song makes me think about my Dad. He passed away 11 years ago, always there for me and my brothers with good advice or just a sympathetic ear. If your parents are still alive, tell them you love them every chance you get.
Right? It takes zero effort to be considered something these days. Listen to a song, you are granted sainthood. Talk about a guitarist once, you are now an expert. It's a great time to be alive.
Damn I just googled saint then my first name and it appears that I am the patron saint of the end of the world. Wonderful just great that's all I frikin need right now. I think it's from a story book someone wrote cuz I'm pretty sure my name isn't all that common as other st names like Michael, Mary , Joseph and so on
Hellyeah! I'm starting my fight in court for custody over my son today and yes - becoming a father is indescribable feeling. (Cheers and bless from Poland)
@@jakubsto Good luck brother 🤞 I’ve had to go through it twice and now have custody of both my daughters. But no matter what happens in court just do your best for your son even if they make a decision you aren’t happy with, your negativity could affect him and his feelings around you. And remember its not exactly permanent. Decisions can be changed. Hopefully that won’t happen though. Fingers crossed for you both my man! 🤜
My dad has been gone for almost 6 years. But I remember he was a very good dad to me and my brother. He would have done anything for us. RIP dad. I miss you and love you very much
I am a proud solo father of one at 35 years old. he is 23 months old. He's name is Rivah. 😊 He is the best bundle of joy to ever happen to me in my life I never thought that I'd ever be a dad. I'm the most proudest dad that I am❤❤ but I never thought it would be the most hardest stressfull journey due to his mum doing everything in her power to stop me from being a dad because I ended it with her because she was an abusive drunk. I think the stars above that he came into this world perfect and healthy. I did zoom parenting courses to learn and grow as a dad tried co-op parenting plans and then my lawyer and Court was the last option. Happy ending I got my son. 50/50. Still having to deal and communicate with my son's mum is very much still a big struggle. But that's ok I've got my son that's all that matters. And that's being real with ya. One love to all❤❤
And you'll never give up. I have a daughter and it is her third birthday today. Her mother left me for somebody else when she was 6 months old and I ended up losing everything cuz I couldn't do it on my own. She was an alcoholic since we met. I accept my part of the blame I Am not Innocent. But I acted out because I only wanted better and couldn't get through to her. I never hit her or anything but I said a lot of mean I said a lot of mean things retaliation. We battled for months and fought over our daughter and it killed me inside. I was so desperate at one point I even stole her cat and held hostage so I could just see my daughter. I never gave up and now even though I still don't like the person she is she's a great mother and we co-parent well. still to this day does not accept responsibility for anything that happened between us, but I've read everything go and because of that we've found common ground for the best interest of our little girl. It will get easier in time man, respect to you
I found this song when me and my son were apart with no contact for a couple years and listened to it regularly. This expressed how I felt so well...I did get my son back FULL TIME ❤
@@ennuiblue4295 "I raised my son by myself and he is now 19, this was our favorite song when he was growing up and is now his ring tone when he calls." jc rlly?
I haven't seen my son since 2009 thanks to his mom... He's about to to turn 12 in a few days. Happy Birthday my Eric, wherever you are. I will always love you.
❤.I miss my husband so much. I wonder how life would have been if he hadn't suddenly passed. It was so unexpected and shocking. We were each others best friend for 23 years together. You never get over that. Life goes on, people change and come and go. You deal with the grief as best as you can but if there is real love the pain of the loss lessens. Listening to this song gives me a sick feeling in my stomach and I cry but I still listen and remember.
Incredible testament to a father's love. Every note and every word rings deep for those of us who love our children more than life itself, and have been forced to be without them for a period of time.
Sometimes not together IS better If you think it’s imperfect so will he Make it fabulous in its present state. Show him there’s always a choice in perspective. You can always CHOOSE how you’re going to look at things. It’s really the ONLY thing that we have complete control over.
I know. and life and marriage aren't like we were made to believe growing up. I went thru the same, but to stay together would have been worse for my little boy. as he got older, he learned to understand better. good luck🙏
this song is so incredibly beautiful. He is showing that despite his rough childhood with his father being unpresent & abusive he wanted to make sure his son had all the love and care he didn't get. I cry everytime, such a BEAUTIFUL song. It is his real son in the video too. This is what real music is to me.
30 days notice. Losing the only town I ever called home. Friends weren't friends. People were malicious and vindictive. The people we thought were our family stabbed us in the back. Low and behold there is passion. Anger. But FUCKING passion.
I had a natural very painful miscarriage in my early years, he moved on quickly to have children and it was all shoved in my face by her friends and his ex girlfriend. It tore me straight apart for so so long. I'm finally now getting over it through therapy.
Dear whoever is reading this, we don't know each other and there is a strong possibility we might never meet, but I wish nothing but the best and happiness for you ❤️🤙
Same to you my friend.
You too brother 🤙🏼
Love you who ever you are
Thank you, you as well 🤘🏼
Same to you! :)
I feel like this song is a perfect example, of the current state of collective consciousness in the world right now. I’ve lost all my friends, my family, nobody talks anymore, nobody cares. We’re all in this life together, but I’ve never felt so alone, I’m longing for how things used to be. If you’re reading this, I love you and hope everything painful, turns into something beautiful and actually worth the pain.
i hear this from so many men nowadays but never from any women
Same. Live alone, no friends, only my elderly mom for family. Most ppl don't seem to be interested in making friends. At least I'm working on several health problems and making gradual progress on a couple. The years go by faster and faster. Let's make the pain turn to beauty. Keep going.
@@OptimusPrimeribs at least you got your mom man, I lost mine to cancer in 2010 and dad to heart attack a few years later. But yeah man don't give up hope, keep trying to make friends and focus on yourself, health, and wealth, do what makes you happy!
@@sethaldrich6902 Thanks and sorry for your losses. Here's to a better year in 2024!
@@OptimusPrimeribs Cheers man! Same to you!!!
as a 14-year-old who hasn't seen his dad since 2019, I think he might have liked this
He would have.. coming from 39 yr old who’s father never chose to be apart of my life. Joe Dirt told us “ life’s a garden, dig it” 😊 good luck young one.
Anyone can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a Dad. I was lucky to have that Dad. He was my mentor and my best friend . He passed away 3 years ago. I miss him so much. I am now carrying for my mom. She and my dad were married for 62 years. I can't imagine the heartache she fills every day.
Dad, I am keeping my promise to take care of her. Just know I really miss you.
Hugs
I’m in the same exact position and have been since 2017. It’s amazing how someone you’ve never met is going through the same journey. I made my dad the same promise. Always remember you’re a special person for doing what you do best wishes to you and your mom.
Stay strong my friend.
good dad's are so rare
7:05pm This says so much in so many ways!
58 years old and I never called someone dad. The greatest sound I hear now is when my own kids call me dad.
this is a beautiful comment. your a good father. be there for yours like mine was not for me . thank you
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I have only one child who calls me Dad! And that’s enough for me ❤️❤️
damn bro almost made me tear up. Cheers!
salty as hell
I don’t care what anyone says, this song still bangs in 2020
Music nowadays just doesn't have that special something that this stuff did.
Hell yeah
Yes It does
Absolutely
No argument at all 💯💯💯
Dad was never there, now that I have a daughter I'll be the man I needed when I was younger.
If you're listening to this in 2024 you know what good music is
I definitely am 😂
I swear they don’t make good music anymore
Facts
E verdade
Yes Frfr 2000’s childhood here
My husband of 26 years took his life. He was the love of my life. He had Bipolar disorder. When things were good, they were wonderful. When things weren’t good, they were so very difficult. But, if I could do it all over again, I’d still choose him, and if I could know what I know now, I’d do so much more to try to help him. This song may not have been written about this subject, but it really speaks to me. My family and I hurt so deeply, and I grieve for him all of the time.
Bipolar's a hard thing to live with. You can't ever really hold onto any sense of who you are or what you can do because it's always changing.
Ouch, Star, I feel your pain. I suffered from bipolar, it's not pretty. I moved from Wisconsin to Vegas one month before 9/11, and was lucky enough to get a job running the Vegas branch of a national company. When this song came came on, it was my rule that everything came to a halt and the volume cranked. I hope you are doing well now, Star. Merry Christmas and happy holidays, and if you'd like to talk to a guy in Vegas, I'm here for you.
All we can do is make the best of the time we have. It sounds like you chose wisely. God bless
@@brakedrummerz thank you. I may take you up on that offer.
@@macmccullough1453 thank you.
Help others🤝
Love everyone❤
Praise Jesus🙏
Anyone Still Playing This Masterpiece In 2024?.
The early 2000s rock was definitely something special. Just a 39 year old cruising down memory lane
Right on brother. I'm still cruising and I'm 62. Rock on!
Aww man yes from 2001 -2003 was absolutely glorious
Glad I grew up with this
@@carltongraham1240 yes indeed
@@anthonymarshall9978 ✊🏾👑🔥🔥
Much respect to all of the father’s that hung in there and continued to raise the kids right despite the issues we may have went through. Love.
Word 💪
@@shaderhartjr3305
Yes! You get it. Much love back to you! YOUth & YOUthAtHeart - make sure everyday to give those who you consider your dad or mom, let them know that you love them & thanks for what they have given you. They don't have to be biological parents. Don't even have to be foster parents. They can simply be the adults that have and made a positive impact on your life. When you become an adult, in your own special way before it is too late, Say thanks to your mommy or daddy. "I am safe. You can retire. You can relax. I've got your back." It takes a village to raise a child. But it also takes a child to wreck havoc on the city. Dennis the Menance did it -why can't I? No, no, no. That's not how the game works....
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My love is always
To all those who never had a Dad your father is Father wisdom :) you grew up great now be the person ur meant
A child grows into the man he always wanted to be never let a void be the lost rather the void is the truth of self growth :)
2024. Still listening to this awesome music .
Me too! Xxx
Me too
hell yeah brotha
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@@deniseorr1736😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 4:08 😅😅😊😊😊😊😊😊😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
"The power of a dad in a child’s life is unmatched; He doesn’t tell you that he loves you. He shows you..."
some do.
My real dad got killed on June 4th 1988 and the man that I call dad is my hero and I couldn't ask for a better dad
@@shessa8869 ❤
@@shessa8869 Wish you both the best in your journeys ahead.
Hear hear.
I am 50 and never imagined how nostalgic this would be for me. God help me I miss the 90’s more than my heart can say.
This is an 00s song but I understand the sentiment.
Same...I fully understand.
I missed out, born 2008 and wish I was there
I’m closing in on 40 and 😓😭😭😭 I wish we could have the 90s again. Much like Biden attempts at stairs we’re climbing downwards.
@michà bro I feel you. This was the last good times for humanity in this era. I wish we could have all stayed there together.
Didn’t think life would get so hard the older you get, and the more you start thinking about anything and everything. I want to go back to when I heard this song for the first time
Me too
I pray to never feel the pain of having a child taken away. God bless you if you have.
Fridays are the best. Sundays are the worst. Summers are the greatest. But August let's me know the reality.
This song is super underrated. My dad fought for over 7 years and poured every ounce of money and energy he had into getting custody of me and my sister. We were poor as dirt because of it but i wouldnt trade one second. He was paralyzed on his left side since he was 18 but never took any government assistance. He worked his crippled ass off every day to make sure we made it. This song always reminds me of the sacrifices he made to make sure we had a stable upbringing ❤️
That’s a really parent sweetheart and my daddy was the same way except our moms never wanted us especially my mom she really didn’t want me because I was born with spinal bifida my brother and sister mom just sucked in a different way. I’m happy your like me and seen the good that came out of us being raised by our dads even if we were dirt poor. Dang we lived off potatoes for along time but we loved it because he would makes us fries a lot, because that’s what we wanted dont with them. It was a treat to have hotdogs with it. Honestly I wouldn’t change it for anything. I’m happy to see you were happy just the same 😊
Struggle makes You stronger. Your Dad is an inspiration for the care he took of you through his struggles. God Bless You that you may overcome Your obstacles.@@beaby1977
Que a força esteja sempre com você guerreiro
Damn, same goes for my dad. Let's all be proud of the dads that are true fighters in life. Fighting for whats important. I know he taught me how to fight for my son. God bless you.
What relationship with you dad is more valuable than all the money in the world. My dad was the same he passed and I miss him every day. Take advantage of every day you have him.
Crazy how these songs from our youth become so relevant as adults.
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Crazy isn't it!
So true
I agree 100 percent this song made me pretty emotional now and it was my favorite when I was a kid
Just about every song has an unsettling amount of truth to it as you get older.
The good old days 🙂
We don't search for old songs,
We search for old memories.
So 👍
fck me dead..100%
Facts💙💛✨️
Well said.
woah
💜2024 And this gem continues to shine 💖💎🔥
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I swear 😩
hell yes!!!! 🙌🏾
amen
Yo I’m here 2024 and still listen to this gem! On repeat 🔁
Looks like Edge (wwe) is singing.Jokes apart...amazing track
Leaving a comment to represent the kids like myself who didn't have the Dad that fought for them, who didn't protect them, and hurt them the most. This song takes a different perspective when you come from a place of longing for someone to take it all away and be there for you. He is dead now and I won't ever have a chance for it. Treat your kids with love and compassion because they remember forever.
"Eveyone is changing, there is no one left thats real".... The realist shit ever
Ironic
Only the weak change, the strong remain real.
Except me ! Stay true to who YOU are and mind no others
It is.
💔
"This song never gets Old..."
♠️❤️♠️
This song reminds me of summers in the early 2000's. I wish i couod go back to that time forever... 😢
same :(
This song came out in 2001. I remember I began listening to it when I moved to Seattle in 2003. There was a radio station called “The Funky Monkey”. 104.9. The guy at the station would call out the name of the band or singer and the name of the song. I began my freshman year of high school in 2003 and it was awesome to listen to this song on my Walkman on my way home from school on the bus. It was amazing to be a teenager during a time like this in the early 2000s with such beautiful music. Now at age 36, I can only reminisce my youth and tell my nieces and nephews about it. They’re all still kids under 13, but I hope they one day can realize how beautiful those times were. To my millennials born in the mid 80s to early 90s, I salute you. We were the last great generation.
This song speaks to all loving fathers who do not have access to their children.
And Mother's!!
Also to mothers
@@cindywilliams8434 True.......but a lot of the times, it's the father that ends up without custody. Both sides suffer......but men, in this case, do tend to suffer worse.
There are other songs for mothers.
2024 any one here???❤❤
Yep love this single
Me
Yeah, they been playing this in the radio much...and its just sticking in my head...had to google it!
aing
Still!!
You can't replace a fathers love and leadership. This song is more relevant than ever with the screwed up marriage laws and single mother epidemic.
i lived in a single mother based home and it was really bad with abusive boyfriends and my dad wasnt really in my life as much till my teens and it sucks thinking about
Gawd you are so right ....
I don’t care what anyone says, this song still bangs in 2021
True
Yes it does
And it bangs hard.
I know what you're thinking...
Harder.
Amen to that brother.
I’m right here now !
This era of rock was so f**king real every generation enjoyed it
Word😉👍
I love it. It was a great time I'm 34
@@slimbean12 47 here and loved it also.
damn right this generation had the best of everything
*enjoys
It was a pleasure meeting you on my walk for the veterans. Wishing you and all those closest your heart the very best. Blessings Wes.
Music is universal...Im a black man and thus is literally one of my favorite songs EVER MADE IN LIFE.. definitely in my top 10...this song brings back so many memories, even in high school every time this song and video came on I would NOT leave until it was over, dong care where I was or how late I was..if this came on dammit Ima listen..good job on this one guys!! I love it, always and forever!!
Music may be what saves us in the end. ❤❤❤❤
Nah, it won’t be music that saves us, but salvation bro.
I'm black and I loved it too
Bro, this is in my top 10 favorite songs of all time. 💪🏾
Dude bless.. but what's it matter that you're black?
When I’m upset I listen to rock from this era and it makes me relax and everything will be ok
That's how it makes me feel too, I recently just went through a break up and music like this has helped me through it and to forget about it. This music and A Flock of Seagulls music helps me a lot, I just focus on school and forget about the whole thing.
Me too I swear
Exactly what I'm doing right now 😕
Blink 182
i would say me too but for some reason it makes me more down. almost like a dark cloud over this era. tho, i still bump these in the gym 💪
Shout out to all the children and broken families that have dealt with hardship and divorce
@Randy Wilson i try
YEA!!!!!!🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
We're in this together. Keep your stick on the Ice.
Take it one day at a time. Your kids emotional, mental and physical well being should always be the most important concern you have. 🤘
Divorce sucks
God sent me this lyrical as a prophetic about my spouse to be (we have currently split). And apparently this is how he is feeling.
Grown boy needs Jesus. And he's 60 years old come on now. Anyone else with these thoughts and feelings, I encourage you to look within why this person left and to also seek the face of God, humble yourself to your knees. And apologise for what you need to. God bless you.
Shut up with ya bible loving nonsense.
People are allowed to have feelings at every age what does that even mean. Leaving the relationship doesn't make you the innocent one if that's what you're saying. It's easier to walk away than be held accountable. And that's not even the message here. If you relate to this song, it's because you understand the pain of what he's saying cuz you've been through it. You're belittling a grown man because he has feelings, you sound like a miserable person who hides behind a Bible.
wtf. this song still reminds of what could have been. thanks Puddle of Mudd. thanks for this immortal song (2024).
To all Ace Combat veterans, we salute Chopper. A Hero of the Unsung War.
Right there with ya!
Every time I hear this Ialways think of Chopper.
I heard about this band from G4, back when it was about gaming. Before the big debacle 😢
"Join me in saluting, captain Davenport"
"When history witnesses a great change, Razgriz reveals itself... first, as a dark demon. As a demon, it uses its power to rain death upon the land, and then it dies. However, after a period of slumber, Razgriz returns, this time, as a great hero."
I've loved this song but never understood what it was about until I saw this video. At 65 I have failed at a lot of things throughout life except for one thing, raising my son without a wife. He's now 25 and in the Navy. Never fails to say "I love you Dad" at the end of our phone calls. It doesn't get better than that!
U raised him well. Good job at that. Material things don't matter if you are a good parent.
I don't think life, told you how much it loves you today X
Respect
Respect my dude . You r not alone
Respect from me as well, very much so :)
Who's here in 2024 from playing Ace Combat 5...20 YEARS AGO in 2004. This song takes me right back to my childhood :')
man i come from the ace combat GMVs, never actually played them myself. i've gotta plaay that entire series don't i?
Very good, sad, uplifting, cheerful song. Everyone played this band during that time. Heard them when I was growing up. It's 2024 now! Very good song.
2022.... Still feeling it. I don't care how many years it's been, this still hits the heart. (edit: 2024 still hits the heart. Great seeing all the comments😉Cheers)
Same here
Mine too
ssup
yes, me too
Yes!
Remember listening to this song as a kid wondering where my dad was, hoping he would show up and save me from all the trauma going on in my childhood. Met him at 14 years old, stopped communicating at 16, and then found him on Facebook and stayed in touch up until his passing 2015.
Addiction sucks. Rest in Heaven Dad. I know you were trying to turn your life around. I forgive you.
Your father is always watching you and he forgives u for what u haven't done yet..
Oof that's a tear jerker, sending love and respect your way friend 🇨🇦🇺🇦
Father of mine makes me feel that way!
I CAN relate 100 he wasn't my blood father but anytime I ride around the ole hood it makes me think if I had an issue or problem with a car relationship LIFE I could go see him he'd fix within a day or 2 !!
That's being a great son! Thankyou!
Kita semakin tua...kenangan tidak pernah pudar bila terdengar lagu ni yang membawa kita kembali di usia muda....selamat semua 2024
dulu ku kira ini lagu Linkin Park ternyata tidak
Have heard this song for 20 years never seen the video and knew it was about him and his son, thought it was about his girlfriend now this song has a different meaning to me. Love being a dad!
Going into a custody’s battle this month. I feel so alone, give me strength.
Best wishes brother. I lost two little brothers in a messy custody battle. I know how difficult and stressful this can be for you. Hang in there.
I'm right there with you brother. Stay strong and dont ever give up 🫂
Hope you win.
Good luck dude
I know you made this comment 2 weeks ago but best of luck sir
In 2014 my dad was diagnosed with leukemia. Everyone said to let him pass. I fought for him to be treated and God have me another nine months with him. This song helped carry me through it all.
May his memory be a blessing.
Awwwwww poor baby
You did your best and that’s all that matters at least you tried when no one else would
I apreciate you bro, God bled you and your father, blessings for all your family, and yes this is a great song, and this band truly arrive mi heart
@@juanferpedraza5308 thank you brother
i’m still listening to this song been listening for 2 years it still hits love it so much i hope this song still lives in 2045 if we make it that long this brings back memories 💯🤘
man I miss this era.
we all do :(
this guy should sing "about a girl". that would be sick dude.
Kremey im deaddd
🤣
😂🤣
Literally sick
sick. literally. 😂
Absolutely wicked song. I love the video, but take it out of the equation and the lyrics hit me where I am. I'd almost forgot about it, but so glad I found it again.
I have this song on my phone it's up there with guns and roses November rain
J0n4th4n H0ugh I completely agree. I love it so much. I was going to write you a message to let you know the latest with the guy I was " seeing ". It's over. We had a chat last night and I finally got the reason why he was being different recently. He has met the woman of his "dreams". Online for gods sake. It was me who asked him if he had "met" her online . when he said yeah, I was like, why am I not surprised. I don't think he expected me to just know. I said, I guess that it's your kinda thing. She apparently lives half way round the world too. I'm not going to lie, he really bloody hurt me. This was all him who asked me to be his girlfriend, and said he loved me. Said he was going to do anything to come and visit me. I laid myself bare for him. I was completely open, emotionally with him. I know that what we had at the beginning was true. That connection between us went both ways. I don't even think he ever played me. I just think, he didn't think. He was actually surprised that I was so hurt and was kinda cutting with him. Like after all we had talked about and he tells me that and he expects me to be all smiles and "no problem". He said he never wanted to stop talking to me. I was like are you for real? Yeah, I'm gonna be able to chat away with you while you're telling this new girl all the things that you said to me. C'mon, for fucks sake! How can I be all buddy buddy with him while I still feel something for him? I cried so hard and for so long last night. But I feel like it did me the world of good, cause I feel a lot better today. I know I won't forget him in a long time, like, as someone I used to know. But as for my feelings, at least we didn't actually meet. That would've been a lot tougher to deal with. I'll be fine though. It's just another crack in my already shattered heart. I'll just patch it up and move on. The way I learned to do a long time ago. I just wanted to say a big Thankyou for being there and being a great friend, I really appreciate it. Sorry for this being a huge 'essay' lol :)). I hope you're doing well as well? I'm lucky to have you (and a few others on here, too)as a friend who is honestly on my side. As I am with you and (my other friends) :)
Julie Fox I know how u feel I've just finished with a girl who don't live half way round the world but I fell in love with her although I'd never met her so I kinda guess how u feel I miss her conversation so much
Julie Fox if u wanna have a private conversation instead of putting over so every 1 can see it I have hangouts it's more private
J0n4th4n H0ugh Yeah I use that to. Thanks. Next time I wanna chat like that I'll head you up there. :))
To All The Rockers Out There 🤟🏻
This song brings back memories of when I was separated from my son. It served as an escape for me, allowing me to release all the frustration, anger, and longing I felt for my child. Music truly has a way of helping us cope with our emotions.
I used to play this song as a kid but now I'm a father and get the true MEANING! I hope everyone has a blessed life thru these tormenting times. I Love u Son ❣️❣️
❤️🤘🏼
I wish you, your son and hole familiy a wonderful time on this earth!
♥️
Same here!
Genio descripción de una realidad en un gran tema,me toca el Cuore.
"Everyone is changing, there's no one left that's real."
My favorite line from this song.
I feel you
❤
It's you that has changed. You no longer believe in the realness of people. Welcome to adulthood.
Mine too. ✊🏿
agree
- from Indonesia -
It makes no difference. Lost love, lost friends, it's all the same. A minute lost. Is gone gone for ever. Stand up and grab the many minutes still ahead of you. Dance like no one is watching, sing like no one is listening, you'll be heard. And find love again, then love harder then before. No one is an island......
We are one and will always be connected. I'm 70 years on this journey.....and I'll be here another 70 years.
@@user-xd8tw4yl7gI wonder the same, but, he sounds like he’s gonna beat everyone out on this so called journey! Much luck to him.
Quite beutiful tht thank you 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Your right man
My whole life flashes before my eyes when I listen to this song ❤
Me too! 😘
1:37 "Everyone is changing. There's no one left that's real." So true in 2021.
Yup
I wouldn't say they're changing. They're simply revealing themselves.
@@irvinmorales1409 Well said!
Those lyrics are so true!'I will save you from all of the obscene '.
Keane
This song hits deeper when you've grown up and are older now
And you realize how much your ol'man really did try and most of whst your mother told you growing up was a lie.
Chris Gregg, house of pain by faster pussycat
does it to me 😭
oh man does it!
trggdsh6 Trash music! My music is way better! ruclips.net/video/-X0y2DfsKIo/видео.html
Especially when you have kids. Now that I’m a father it hits harder than it ever did.
This song was ahead of its time❤
This song and video reminds me of my dad (RIP 12/31/23). My home life with my mother was horrid. My dad tried to get full custody but couldnt. 50% of my time was in h3ll. But whenever I was with him, i was nothing but happy. I could forget about all the bad that was happening at my other home. He did take it all away. All the pain. All my hurt.
This songs makes me remind of those times without RUclips or Twitter or Facebook. or cellphones around 2001
agree totally
CDS and ipods
walkman
the good days
best times
15 years ago... man.. where does the time go?
J Mac Makes me feel so old
Why isn't this music around anymore. Such amazing lyrics and emotion.
Love this song because it reminds me of what a failure I was to my son..praying for forgiveness and striving to do better every day
Got married in 01. Had my first kid in 01. I remember listening and watching this song on tv while holding my first child while I rocked her back and forth on the chair. She’s graduated recently from college.
Years later I’m still married and my second child is graduating from high school.
Kids are a beautiful aspect of life/they make you become better people/you realize your life is not your own anymore.
Timeless song. Thanks Wes:)
Damn ur words hit my soul so good!!!
i dont know why im so sentimental bout this now. maybe because i never had someone who i could call father before. so here i am feeling so envy for your children.
@@wangpup9297 I’m so sorry to hear that:(
I don’t know if you believe in God or not…but he is your Heavenly Father. I will pray for you this day, that you find comfort, peace, safety in his loving grace.
Hang in there my friend. This world is a harsh place and is meant to bring us down. May God grant you strength to carry on.
Congrats, to your family 🎉
Thats right
As a person who doesn't like Puddle of Mudd, I can easily say this is one of the best songs I've ever heard.
opino lo mismo!
That first line is everything “Everything’s so blurry and everyone’s soo fake” I felt that in my soul about the life we live
this music is a masterpiece,in 2024 i still listening and like so much this music.
same brotha this song never die)
@@victorcreed_ yeah thanks, have a nice day brotha 😁
Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there that truly make an effort to be in their child's life. Society needs all the positive male role models they can get now more than ever.
You are so right.....everything is about women and to ensure their rights. And thats good
But the broken hearted dads out there are forgotten....
Let's stay together...we are not alone....let's feel each other...it doesn't matter we're we are coming from, we have all the same feeling and concerns...
Let's be strong...we are not alone ...
Tee Gee keep fighting for your kids! I got custody of my daughter 13 years ago, it hasn’t been easy but seeing her graduate from high school and hold down a job makes me really proud.
Good luck to all the dads out there fighting for their kids!
We used to jam this song when I’d pick her up on my weekends before I got custody, she mentioned hearing it a few weeks ago and realizing what it was about
ruclips.net/video/I7UjlrhZ57Q/видео.html
A must hear!!!!
We dont have bands like that, like before never.
it makes me so nostalgic.. I loved Puddle of Mud, Story of the Year, LostProphets, etc :(
Ya ... agreed ✌
anyone 2024?
Me
Here
Yes, Sir!
Present, sir.
Me
This song makes me think about my Dad. He passed away 11 years ago, always there for me and my brothers with good advice or just a sympathetic ear. If your parents are still alive, tell them you love them every chance you get.
Man , this hits hard when you become a father .
Hem my sta mmmmmmmmmmmmnmmtmrear dar my gm?mmmmmmmmmmmmmm dada earp mum
Congrats
I feel it, dude
Omg rite??? Brings tears to my eyes when watch the video and picture my son as the kid in the video
I can relate to that.. father of 2 girls... working hard to give them good future that i did not have the chance..
I'm still listening to August 11, 2021.
It's never boring..
AUGUST 12 ✊✊✊
Now and ever
I bump this like it came out yesterday.
August 15th!
August 16th!!!!
Yes,2024 love puddle of Mudd.
My eyes got blurry with tears thinking about my kid and how this song relates to my situation ...
Everyone listening to this song in 2024 is a saint. I hope you know that :)
Right? It takes zero effort to be considered something these days. Listen to a song, you are granted sainthood. Talk about a guitarist once, you are now an expert. It's a great time to be alive.
God bless you ❤
Damn I just googled saint then my first name and it appears that I am the patron saint of the end of the world. Wonderful just great that's all I frikin need right now. I think it's from a story book someone wrote cuz I'm pretty sure my name isn't all that common as other st names like Michael, Mary , Joseph and so on
I just wish I was able to experience wes once in my life maybe one day but highly unlikely 😔
By the way I'm 18 and have been singing his songs on guitar since I was ten
Man being a father is the best fucking feeling in the world
Bless you man and your child/children nothing but blessings to you
true word
Wouldn't doubt it
Hellyeah! I'm starting my fight in court for custody over my son today and yes - becoming a father is indescribable feeling. (Cheers and bless from Poland)
@@jakubsto Good luck brother 🤞 I’ve had to go through it twice and now have custody of both my daughters. But no matter what happens in court just do your best for your son even if they make a decision you aren’t happy with, your negativity could affect him and his feelings around you. And remember its not exactly permanent. Decisions can be changed. Hopefully that won’t happen though. Fingers crossed for you both my man! 🤜
My dad has been gone for almost 6 years. But I remember he was a very good dad to me and my brother. He would have done anything for us. RIP dad. I miss you and love you very much
I am a proud solo father of one at 35 years old. he is 23 months old. He's name is Rivah. 😊 He is the best bundle of joy to ever happen to me in my life I never thought that I'd ever be a dad. I'm the most proudest dad that I am❤❤ but I never thought it would be the most hardest stressfull journey due to his mum doing everything in her power to stop me from being a dad because I ended it with her because she was an abusive drunk. I think the stars above that he came into this world perfect and healthy. I did zoom parenting courses to learn and grow as a dad tried co-op parenting plans and then my lawyer and Court was the last option. Happy ending I got my son. 50/50. Still having to deal and communicate with my son's mum is very much still a big struggle. But that's ok I've got my son that's all that matters. And that's being real with ya. One love to all❤❤
And you'll never give up. I have a daughter and it is her third birthday today. Her mother left me for somebody else when she was 6 months old and I ended up losing everything cuz I couldn't do it on my own. She was an alcoholic since we met. I accept my part of the blame I Am not Innocent. But I acted out because I only wanted better and couldn't get through to her. I never hit her or anything but I said a lot of mean I said a lot of mean things retaliation. We battled for months and fought over our daughter and it killed me inside. I was so desperate at one point I even stole her cat and held hostage so I could just see my daughter. I never gave up and now even though I still don't like the person she is she's a great mother and we co-parent well. still to this day does not accept responsibility for anything that happened between us, but I've read everything go and because of that we've found common ground for the best interest of our little girl. It will get easier in time man, respect to you
I found this song when me and my son were apart with no contact for a couple years and listened to it regularly. This expressed how I felt so well...I did get my son back FULL TIME ❤
Yes brother
This is that song for sure
Congratulations to you I think this is exactly what this song is about
I am going through the same stuff!! Congratulations on getting your kids back!!👏👏
congrats to you bro
I raised my son by myself and he is now 19, this was our favorite song when he was growing up and is now his ring tone when he calls.
Nice so motivated
I raised my son by myself as well and he's 28 now. He has a lot of songs from us by ourselves. It's a special bond.
Kuddos
same.
@@ennuiblue4295 "I raised my son by myself and he is now 19, this was our favorite song when he was growing up and is now his ring tone when he calls." jc rlly?
Easily one of the most beautiful songs ever written.
Brings back memories this is when I first started using heroin I'm not using any more thank God
As a single, full-custody father, nothing hits harder than this song...
Amen brother....amen
Right there with you brother....10yrs it took but worth it all
Or a Circum-Pacific War combat veteran?
We should party
@@Agent1W a man of culture i see...
I haven't seen my son since 2009 thanks to his mom... He's about to to turn 12 in a few days. Happy Birthday my Eric, wherever you are. I will always love you.
Im sorry to hear that man :/ fathers deserve equal rights and i hope youre able to have him in your life again
Happy Birthday Eric. Never forget your father who is fighting hard to see you!
My son is 2 right now. I would die.
Dont give up. I finally contacted my dad at age 39. Things are great between us now and his grandson adores him.
Thank you all
❤.I miss my husband so much. I wonder how life would have been if he hadn't suddenly passed. It was so unexpected and shocking. We were each others best friend for 23 years together. You never get over that. Life goes on, people change and come and go. You deal with the grief as best as you can but if there is real love the pain of the loss lessens. Listening to this song gives me a sick feeling in my stomach and I cry but I still listen and remember.
Incredible testament to a father's love. Every note and every word rings deep for those of us who love our children more than life itself, and have been forced to be without them for a period of time.
Ace Combat 5 memories...
Good times...
Great games...
Even better songs...
If only we knew how happy we were
Monumental oof.
@@TheSoftwareNerd >
Demons of Razgriz were so damn amazing. This is the xomment I was looking for.
The whole series of ace combat is iconic.
As a man co-parenting after a failed marriage, this song and video brings me peace and tears me apart at the same time. I wanted better for my son.
Sometimes not together IS better
If you think it’s imperfect so will he
Make it fabulous in its present state. Show him there’s always a choice in perspective.
You can always CHOOSE how you’re going to look at things. It’s really the ONLY thing that we have complete control over.
IkI
I'm sorry bro.
I know. and life and marriage aren't like we were made to believe growing up. I went thru the same, but to stay together would have been worse for my little boy. as he got older, he learned to understand better. good luck🙏
Stay strong......Love is Love.
My dad and I used to listen to this song and he is gone now... I listen to this often and think of him
I want someone I can feel this way for...someone who could be my someone and protect and love and care for
this song is so incredibly beautiful. He is showing that despite his rough childhood with his father being unpresent & abusive he wanted to make sure his son had all the love and care he didn't get. I cry everytime, such a BEAUTIFUL song. It is his real son in the video too. This is what real music is to me.
@@user-yn5bg2vc4l yes i did my research!! he is a great man and musician. truly
@briannarogers thanks for the research ❤
I miss this kind of music SOOOO bad. Looking back at it with bittersweet nostalgia may be the closest we ever get again
@@clamchowder622 i know nobody puts the work in these days anymore to make good quality ,relatable, meaningful, and BEAUTIFUL music
This is his real son in the video
I cannot imagine living without my little boy, this song makes me understand that I am in the right place with my son and his mother, my wife.
Same here, fella.
🙏 same
Same with my wife and daughter.
Agree brother
Agree
30 days notice. Losing the only town I ever called home. Friends weren't friends. People were malicious and vindictive. The people we thought were our family stabbed us in the back. Low and behold there is passion. Anger. But FUCKING passion.
You cheated on my dad and wonder why I got mad about mother's day. How the fuck do you expect me not to remember.
Back when you could see bands and artists pour their heart into the lyrics. 💯
Those are the ones that people remember even years later. THe rest is temporary.
Still can ;) ruclips.net/video/PJW9nEwv_cg/видео.html
They still do but every older generation feels that way 😅
@@andreasilvarod443 nah, you must be deaf then if you think music right now is good
lol.
Nothing resonates with me more than this song, as a child who grew up in a divorced household.
Ya, you and everbody else in america, stop using divorced parents as a trauma, I have them and it's overrated
@Marcus Starman not always up to you pal
Yuzuru Otonashi 🥱
Wish my parents divorced. They hated each other and their kids.
for real it just hits different XD
I had a natural very painful miscarriage in my early years, he moved on quickly to have children and it was all shoved in my face by her friends and his ex girlfriend. It tore me straight apart for so so long. I'm finally now getting over it through therapy.
You're stronger than you think!