Abortion or Baby: Before You Decide
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- Опубликовано: 7 янв 2016
- Knowing the facts is critical to the pregnancy decision. Care Net has produced an exciting resource that can be used even beyond the walls of our pregnancy centers; a resource to help people make difficult pregnancy decisions.
Before You Decide: Abortion or Baby, a short animated video, presents the facts about abortion in a compelling, non-graphic, medically accurate manner, and addresses the most common questions about pregnancy choices.
(While it isn't graphic, animations of abortion procedures may be disturbing to some.)
I'm not pregnant why am I here
Cuz shit was going down and everyone was talking about it
Same here
Umm..you don't need to
Same 😂
Same
I would personally never have an abortion, but no woman should be forced to undergo a pregnancy, my heart goes out to any woman placed in such a situation
Yunus Ahmed being forced to CONTINUE a pregnancy, I should say
Yunus Ahmed perhaps I am, but that's because it isn't my job to judge what a woman does with HER body. I wouldn't do it personally, but EVERY woman should have that choice. And to not allow her that choice is FORCING her to continue the pregnancy.
Yunus Ahmed
1. until the fetus can survive outside of the womb on it's own, yup, sure is a part of her body. Until then, it's on par with a parasite, draining the nutrients it receives from the host--this is merely used as an example, to give you an idea of what I mean. In fact, in many places (including New York, for example) a fetus is not considered a person under the law until it draws a first breath, giving it no rights under the law.
2. Because it's the wrong choice for me. I have the support system I would need to take care of a baby, many women don't.
3. Again, it is not our place to judge or impose restrictions on a living breathing woman's body just because she has a fetus--which cannot survive outside of the womb alone--inside of her
Yunus Ahmed
1. until the fetus can survive outside of the womb on it's own, yup, sure is a part of her body. Until then, it's on par with a parasite, draining the nutrients it receives from the host--this is merely used as an example, to give you an idea of what I mean. In fact, in many places (including New York, for example) a fetus is not considered a person under the law until it draws a first breath, giving it no rights under the law.
2. Because it's the wrong choice for me. I have the support system I would need to take care of a baby, many women don't.
3. Again, it is not our place to judge or impose restrictions on a living breathing woman's body just because she has a fetus--which cannot survive outside of the womb alone--inside of her
Yunus Ahmed
1. so you wouldn't seek treatment for, say, hook worm? ring worm? How about ticks or bed bugs?
2. I already explained why it's the wrong choice for ME. And why should an already crowded and broken system be further packed with children who may likely stay in the system their whole lives? Babies are in high demand, sure, but what about the fact that they DO eventually grow? with eachyear, the likelihood of adoption or fostering grows slimmer and slimmer.
3. Admit it, you only care about a fetus until it is born. After that? "Sorry, kid, you're on your own!"
no, marriage it's not the best parenting choice, get married because you're ready, not because you're going to have a baby.
on that perspective yes, but if you're not ready to get married, it's going to be a freaking nightmare, and the child it's going to pay for that, what kind of family it's going to be if you're fighting with your husband or wife most of the time, some even end up blaming the child for having to get married. it's certainly not a good environment to grow up in. I know money is necessary but it's not the most important thing, rather than getting married, talk to the other parent to see if you have support both emotionally and financially, and if not, that's another story, you can raise a child without being married, well it is easier in my country, I don't know if it's the same in other places with social security, insurance and all that.
Then stop sleeping around!!
They're talking about the baby it can b easier to take care of it
@@amberrose1108 exactly
@@amberrose1108 that makes no sense
I'd say that this video is quite reasonable, but they focused alot of "possible damages" from abortions and pretty much none from giving birth.
Claes Svensson
Birth is a natural thing.
abortion is not.
dummy
You should check your facts Before you make an ignorant statement. The body do actually make "abortions" (miscarriages) on its own, sometimes even if the woman and the embryo/fetus is healthy. The opposite can also happen, that the pregnant woman or the embryo/fetus is not healthy, yet the pregnancy continues on. That can lead to the Death of the Children and/or mother.
However, I'd say that both your statement, even if it was right, and my answer isn't rlly relative to this debate as we humans do tons of things which is not "natural", both bad and good things.
I agree, I feel like this is subtlely trying to discourage abortion. It doesn't mention that later term abortions are usually only carried out for medical reasons. It's more reasonable than most though.
Claes Svensson True; possibly because Care Net is a compassionate company who is openly opposed to abortion.
Claes Svensson I think it's because most people know enough about the risks of getting a baby but not about the risks of getting an abortion. They might not think about the abortion enough and just want to get "rid of that thing" inside of them.
Just my theory ^^
Be careful!!! Stupid people in comments
Thanks for the tip
Rat Syndrome stupid people in comments,, where.
And your number 1
they call me sweetsop and you can’t spell.
Rat Syndrome then don’t be here!!!
"Marriage could be the best option" umm no people can coparent successfully withput being married, being married just for the sake of a baby isnt healthy!!! Oh and dont forget about postpartum depression!!
@Lizzie Allen there isnt anything wrong with that but being married for the sake of a child isnt healthy, also what about people who get divorced or become widowed? Or same sex couples? The world isnt as black and white as you think
Notice that nothing is mentioned about the risks of pregnancy and childbirth. As if this is nothing more than a walk in the park.
You say that like most of our mother's didn't survive being pregnant or labor pains. Im a mother and im alive!
@@vanessarose7491 They seem to imagine that we're still in medieval times where a woman can die of giving birth, ignoring that medicine has more than advanced to ensure that even high risk pregnancies are survivable. They take a feminist stance yet paint women as being so fragile as to perish after having a baby. The hypocrisy is laughable.
Crystal Evans killing babies is worst evil to exist, there is never ever a need to even be pregnant when you can use contraceptives, go and watch a first, second and third trimester abortion then tell your mother thank you
There are death risks in both options
It’s not very risky, we do things every day that pose a higher risk than pregnancy. It’s also how we survive as a species.
A pro life video that uses correct terms, and doesn't antagonize pro-choice? What is this foolery.
This video is pro-life, but considering other videos out there this one is pretty okay
Yah, I can tell its pro-life when they mention the risks but omitting to say that those risks are very low risks ...
@@88feji even though saying it’s a low risk is a misconception
@@88feji I think theyre just saying a fact. Not to threat people to not have an abortion, wether youre pro choice or pro life, we know that abortion pillss, or any types of abortion can harm women. Wether it will be perform by professional abortionist
I'm just 11 wtf am I doing here? Smh 😭
Smallie :3 I'm 9 years old what the hell do u think I have to suffer?
. I can suggest you to always use condom and the pill when you start a sex life in the future. Most men will not even bother to do it protected.
Smallie :3 wtf your 11 and you talk like that.
Smallie :3 I'm only 12 and I don't even know what I'm doing here...
Same😭😂😂
I took the pills a few days ago after going to planned Parenthood. I was 9 weeks along. One more week and I would have been too far along and have to undergo a surgical one. This was one of the hardest things I had to go through. But I could barely afford the abortion, let alone a baby. The tissue and baby did pass through me at home after taking the pills. I cried and cried. Still I knew it was what I needed to do. Im glad I had the choice. But it's something I will never make myself experience again. It was my fault for being so reckless with sex. I don't judge anyone who has had an abortion. It's people who abuse it and have multiple left and right without a care that bothers me.
@Lake Natron it is in some cases.
@Lake Natron so you think a fetus is more important than the woman's health? your one sick human being if you think that.
@@terriusthomas1146 I love how you use strong emotionally charged language as if pro choicers are the only ones who feel strongly about their points. As if pro lifers don't also share the same disgust but for different reasons.
This is really helping with my decision, I don't think I can honestly can't bring myself to have an abortion, thank you.
I was considering abortion too due to difficult circumstances I'm in, no financial help and will be most likely a single parent too. I'm now 14 weeks, seen the baby move on the scan and saw the beating heart and now I can't bring myself to an abortion knowing that the baby's limbs will be ripped out one by one. That's terrifying.
Pls to all! Keep ur babies!!! No matter what difficulty’s you have to face right now ... non of them is worth to kill your baby! You all can do it and make it! Trust me, one day you will look in the Eyes of your Child and know that it’s worth!
It’s been a year since you posted this; I hope you and your child are doing well. You made the right choice and I’m sure you’re a wonderful mother.
@@Rose_budd did you end up having the baby?
Thank God! Don't have an abortion! That's murder, and the baby feels all that pain! It's REAL!
Our opinions have no effect on the women who are having, going to have,avoiding or deciding against abortion. Its happening whether we like it or not. It has 0 % influence on their our lives. Thank you
Sofija Strode exactly!
So, the scientific, indisputable fact that a fetus is a human being should also be swept under the rug? Okay cool.
Annika H But you Pro lifers don't give a fuck that it can't feel pain or have any sentience... Thats a scientific fact too.
But its a scientific fact - From the moment of conception human development begins, the brain even, pain receptors are developing and even when born they are still developing.
FALSE! Babies most certainly DO feel pain!
This is the best abortion video. It doesn't make the mothers sound like monsters, but it is still informative enough
Rice Curry The mothers are not monsters here it's the abortionist let me look how they ripped that baby a part disgusting and vile
Sofia Bravo not a baby, an embryo. a bundle of cells
@@jazminehowell4800 you just repeated yourself though....why did you need to say baby in English and Latin?
It isn't that much complex, in fact. The fetus is too far from being a human to put his rights over the ones from the woman and, very importantly, over his own potential future rights (as most unwanted pregnancies over the world end up in quite bad living conditions for the child, the mother and, usually, many other people involved). It's as simple as that.
Also, as a biologist, it's quite evident that an early fetus, which is almost equal to that of any other mammal, has nothing to do with a human child. If it was about potential, then we should also protect sperm and ova, which have just the same potential. That being said, we still should protect it from suffering, as that doesn't interfere with the abortion, which is why they all should be done within the first trimester of gestation.
Too add more to it, abortions will always happen in big quantity, no matter if it's legal or not. Many women die or get seriously injured due to that. That blood is entirely on anti-abortists.
@@sofiabravo1994 when a sick father rapes his daughter nobody wants to be born that way knowing their mom is their sister and their grandpa is their dad and they're born with a swollen eye or half a brain missing or some part Cliff foot some incestuous problems nobody wants to see a nine year old girl raped and have a baby to carry to term abortion can be a Lifeline it is a way to get rid of something humanely with dignity then to have a dumpster diving baby thrown over into the garbage after it's alive and born
But what if you have serious endometriosis like me? Like there's a 99% chance I'll die halfway in the pregnancy if I got pregnant.
tubal litigation
That literally isn't worth it since I'd have to remove my cysts first
I'm looking for a hysterectomy. Idk. It just depends on what you feel is right. I suggest you talk to a doctor about it.
The best option if you do wind up pregnant is to go for a chemical abortion (pills) in the early stages - always keep on top of it and take tests after unprotected sex. The earlier you catch it the better - for everyone. If you are sexually active with men I suggest you keep on top of a good contraceptive plan and if there are any issues or uncertainties, just take the test to be sure. Plan B is always available if you need it.
If you end up pregnant after all means to prevent it are taken, immediately go to a doctor and consider your steps from there. A youtube commenter can't really know what's best for your individual health from one post. I can only provide tips and information on birth control and abortion methods. Which options you choose are wholly dependent on you and your body.
-sincerely, someone with a jacked up uterus as well.
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Hmm.
I like how no one even mentions that this video showed a baby being ripped apart.
(If anyone argues that a fetus is not a baby, anything with a heartbeat is alive, as this video it's self shows, so?)
Plants are alive and they don't have a heartbeat 😳
Yeah.. and in reality it's wayyyyy more graphic
Phantom Productions A person brain dead kept alive by machines isn't considered medically alive and just like a fetus, you can pull the plug.
Amelia DahWolf Pull the plug not pull it apart piece by piece like it's nothing. Early abortions and contraceptives are the best options. There really is no excuse for surgical abortions as by then most women know their bodies and know they're pregnant...
_Serenity I hope you do realize that it is illegal in most states to intentionally pull apart a fetus as it serves as a health risk for the woman. Stop bringing up problems that aren't active today.
the slut shaming that goes on in videos like these are crazy, and it's always the women it's their fault for not "closing their legs" like they can impregnate themselves, men play just the same role of importance they should all so be responsible to wrap it before they tap it it's not all the girls fault
I agree, the woman's the one carrying the baby. The man came too much and got her pregnant.
+Gamercakes Videocupcakes Takes 2 to tango.
TheJaylienHD 😕
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Also if the woman does not want he child to be born she has the right to an abortion.
Giving the child it’s best chance is more awarding than taking its chance to live
I was talking to my mom and she said she would support my decision no matter what. If I want to be a parent or want to have an abortion. She said money shouldn't have to play of my decision making cause family always shows up and supports. My mom is a pro-life supporter but she respects my values.
i’m seriously conflicted on where i stand with pro-life & pro-choice.
my boyfriend and i don’t want a baby anytime soon and of course i have the birth control implant, so we’re absolutely being safe, but if i became pregnant somehow, i would be terrified & really don’t think i’m stable mentally or financially to support a baby. of course i would feel horrible killing my baby even in the early stages, but i would never want to bring them into the world where they won’t have a stable life. it seems horrible either way.
Well if it helps, there is never a perfect time to have a baby. Good for you using the implant. I had the implant for 3 years and it saved my life.
Pick a side, no birth control 100%
It’s better for your baby to survive then to die.
^^^what??
@@CountSnackula7 I was adopted and would rather have been aborted. I would feel so much worse giving birth to an unwanted baby then getting a simple abortion and living free.
I chose to adopt 😂 .... lots of cats
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I'll adopt dogs 🐶💕
Disclaimer: this is my option. If you share it congrats, if you don't, don't be a jerk. Also this is long so bear with me.
If a women is a victim of rape, and she gets a baby out of the whole situation, she's going to hate the child. Most victims are going to see the child as an awful reminder of the thing that happened to them. A mother should always love a child and care for them, but if she can't or won't then it's a bad environment for the baby, so it's better to abort it then to hate the whole process.
If it's a teen pregnancy, something like this could ruin their lives. Most school drop out cases are of teenage pregnancy, so if they chose to drop out to take care of the baby they could possibly miss out on graduating, or not get the education needed to have a good job. Also if they are unable to get into collages due to their lack of education they'd need to take on all this extra crap excluding the baby and you could see how hard it would be for them.
The baby isn't even born yet, it's not going to make it so the world will stop producing babies if some people chose to have an abortion, so it's stupid that some people would be totally against it and not see the reasoning.
I know they could have the baby and put them up for adoption, but that's another whole big thing. You have to fill out papers, choose a good couple for the baby, make sure they are good parents, fill out more papers, and you still have to go through the trauma of one day the baby maybe wants to see his birth mother, so there is a chance they will come back and it's a big huge deal. Plus with teen pregnancy, the teen would still have to go through the morning sickness and the gaining weight, when kids aren't ready for that. It's taking a lot away from kids and imprinting bad memories on rape victims. It's not that bad of a thing since the baby isn't already born yet, and probably hasn't even developed most of its functions yet. So before you choose to 'Raise awareness' of abortion, it's sometimes needed to make somebody's life less horrible.
To me the only one that seems right is the pharmaceutical way or the suction way. (early in the pregnancy)
Why would anyone have a late-term abortion?
the baby has a birth defect. Not that I agree with it necessarily, but a lot of people think women with zika virus should have the right to a late term abortion if their child gets microcephaly
Austin Hmmm, that is actually a really valid reason for argument though, for sure. Didn't know/think about that
Some women develop complications which makes the pregnancy dangerous, or sometimes the baby will have health problems which would greatly reduce their quality of life.
If a woman has complications from the pregnancy, doctors can deliver the baby early. Abortion is never necessary to save the woman's life.
"Protection of the life of the mother as an excuse for an abortion is a smoke screen. In my thirty-six years in pediatric surgery I have never known of one instance where the child had to be be aborted to save the mother's life." C. Everett Koop, former U.S. Surgeon General.
As far as health problems for the baby, ultrasounds have been wrong before and healthier than expected babies born. It's wrong to kill newborns that are born with birth defects .It's wrong to kill unborn children with birth defects too.
I know someone that wanted an abortion because the baby had no heart.
I used this video for a project of mine for one of my social work classes. Well done with keeping the topic unbiased by showing and informing from both perspectives. Hopefully this video along with my project can spread more awareness.
Im speaking as someone who has had a termination, i had the tablet form at 7weeks in and later found out at nearly 5 months in that it had failed! i bled and heavy with clots, everything you would expect if miscarrying! im now the mother of a healthy little girl i chose not to go through with a late term after my tablets had failed, my message to all women if you have tablet form go for a scan after to check it has worked, and think about the risks and a back up plan if it doesnt go according to plan i am very pleased now that mine did'nt but a baby is not for everyone, but not enough is mentioned about what happens for women when these tablets fail! I was lucky and my beautiful little girl is fit n well weight 9lbs8oz at birth but i worried sick my whole pregnancy incase id damaged her, i was told most that are damaged as a result pass away in the womb before they are born, my midwife had seen a few cases through out her career and that the babies had bern born ok and fit and well, but there us not enough mentioned about when abortions fail.
I really like how this video actually seems to give a relatively unbiased synopsis of abortion. Most don't do that these days.
Unbiased? Are you blind?
this is really sad I'm pregnant
Some come "by accident", sounds hilarious!
JoAnne Arctic “ups I fell on his dick and became pregnant “ sure an accident lmao they know what was going to happen not an accident!
i would say, present to girls/women all of the risks and what would happen if they choose what to choose, eventually let them a week to think, and then let them make the decision without shaming them
the heart injection doesnt just stop the heart, it also burns the babys body alive. the baby can also live through it, and it can cause you to go into labor and deliver the baby anyways. which means the baby has permanent damage
Good
No, it's can't and no, the injection does not 'burn the baby' it's a heart stopping drug similar to what they use in lethal injections for death row inmates. No burning, no surviving. Please look up your facts on non-biased sites.
im actually a healthcare major and have studied these things in my textbooks, most recently in my pharmacology class. unless those textbooks are wrong, that is what the saline does, and i find textbooks more reliable than the web
saline is the most commonly injected because it works very quickly and theyve actually watched it on ultrasound before and the baby will squirm until the heart does finally stop
At that stage abortion is illegal except in special circumstances
I’m 74 years old, why is this recommended for me ?????? 🤷🏼♀️
that moment when she says some of us on accident I had to take a moment and talk to my mom
Every child deserves a birthday.
No. They don’t.
@@UncoordinatedPixie Well, maybe you were an exception but we're still glad that you're here.
@@TheNeaL777 what if I don't have the means to support financially.
Like I can't even feed myself.
So, it's a baby if you want it, but a fetus if you don't?
it's both either way
Regardless of desire, medically defined as a fetus. I could call a house plant a baby, but doesn't make it true
This video felt a little biased.
Just found out I'm 10 weeks pregnant.
good luck, if you want abortion, that okay! if you want to keep the baby, thats okay too! just keep in mind that your own health is the most important, and if you arent ready for it, you just arent, no need to push yourself!
Don't listen that monster, abortion is equal with murder, pls, don't think only at u
Praying the baby is okay
@@crowsong1 shut up
@@crowsong1 lol bye
This video is so compassionate & informative. I'm not even pregnant lol but this did such a good job explaining the effects of both sides in an open way.
After watching this, I don't see myself ever having an abortion
Depends on where we live and if we are ready.
Whatever you do be true to you either way you have to live with it an it effects you for ever x
I am pregnant so I choose to have a baby and be a parent yay me 🤗🤗
A beautiful journey for you 💟 you will not regret it
Vegethia Goddess samee😋
Same. I love my baby.
Vegethia Goddess was
same!!!
I wish more videos on RUclips were like this. I found this to be very informative. It gave pros and cons for both cases and didn't go one way or the other. Don't know how I got to this video in the first place, but I liked it!
If you're young, you're probably not in a good place financially. If you're pregnant, do you really want to be in debt your whole life and your dreams shattered?
if it's not your body it's not your problem society has a way of trying to control what women do with their bodies and try to justify it by playing the "murder,heartless" card when the truth is that they can't do anything because it's not their body
if you want to have an abortion,do it
if you want a baby, do it.
but don't let other people's opinions affect your life.
The baby is a distinct human being growing in the mom's womb. It is not the mom's body. To kill the baby is murder. There is one of the Ten Commandments God gave to us as human beings that says: Thou shalt not murder. For vs Wade was an erroneous Supreme Court decision. There is no right to murder in the Bible or IS Constitution. I pray that God reveal this to you.
Honey, even if we're not religious, we know that abortion is literally murder.. how dense can you be?
If it is my child, it most certainly is my problem.
grass Respectfully, our justice system is built on getting involved in other people’s lives when they are not making moral decisions. Should we overlook murder, for example, in cases where it does not involve us? Just because the consequences aren’t ours to bear doesn’t mean we shouldn’t stand up for what is right.
If a mother killed her own toddler in her own house, would you consider this murder even though it’s her own house and her own child? Her house, her child, her choice... right?
Babies have detectable heartbeats from 5.5-6 weeks old, and detectable movements from about 6-8 weeks in. A lady who helped run Planned Parenthood made a movie called ‘Unplanned’ where she talked about seeing a baby moving and trying to fight the vacuum which sucked it up/killed it. There are also many instances of aborted babies who are born alive, and some even stay alive and develop into normal human beings... so how can you say that they are not a living human being, if the same organism which is legal to be killed in the womb can exist independently outside the womb?
I’m saddened that our culture has brainwashed society, and worst of all mothers, into thinking that they’re not actually killing their child. All life has value-please remember that❤️
Sienna Hermary lolll I 100% get where you’re coming from but it’s not murder. The fetus isn’t alive. Also it’s injected with something to stop its heart before it’s vacuum. Good try with the sympathy card, next time get your facts straight. xx 😘 🤭😗👄✨💫🧚🏾♀️
2:50-3:00 Hardest part😭💔 so sad
I now
If someone thinks that is not a baby then they have serious issues.
Thank you for all you do to help women, Care Net!
Here's the way i approach this issue:
The topic of whether abortion is right or wrong is an incredibly vague, difficult to answer question. In fact, the ethical standing of abortion rests upon one of the oldest, most debated topics in philosophy: The definition of personhood.
Many individuals have a basic understanding of this idea, but still have lapses in knowledge that make it difficult to form consistent opinions or beliefs. To help out anybody reading this, I'll walk you through it.
There's a significant difference between the questions "What is a human?" and "What is a person?"
As for the former, a concrete, specific philosophical/biological definition exists: A human is any organism that intrinsically has Human DNA. In other words, every one of you reading this is a human.
The latter is the one we want to know more about, and while the definition doesn't say WHO is a person, it DOES say what a person essentially is: A person is any individual that is worthy and deserving of ethical treatment by society. So, even NONHUMAN beings can be considered people, such as pets, including dogs and cats.
Now, here's where things get complicated. WE only have an understanding of who qualifies as a person based on our experiences and by association. There is no agreed upon set of qualifications that makes an individual a person-and there likely never WILL be. It's because of this that there has never been, and likely never will be an absolute answer to the question of whether abortion is wrong. However, I hope to share with you my unique take on the subject.
See, most attempted definitions of personhood are meant to be inclusive to what we already consider to be people. The simplest one: Personhood=Humanity; if you're a human, then you're a person. This is good, because it covers most of the edge examples that make the subject so controversial. However, it fails to account for nonhuman persons. You could try expanding the definition by adding conditions under which Human DNA isn't necessary, but in doing so you defeat the original argument by admitting that DNA isn't an essential property of personhood, and then you're left with a confusing mess.
Next is the more widely accepted definition: Cognition/A Working Central Nervous System=Personhood; if a being can think, feel, etc., then it's a person. The problem with this argument is that it doesn't extend to people in extreme vegetative states, comatose patients, etc.
In short, EVERY attempted definition has short sights. Mine is an attempt to expand upon an alternative version of the brain one...ready?
A person is ANY organism which POSSESSES the systems necessary to produce empathy, regardless of whether those systems are functional or not.
The first phrase of this sentence extends the definition to nonhuman organisms, like cats, dogs, etc. (which HAVE been shown to be capable of empathy towards humans and each other).
The second portion extends the definition to disabled individuals, including the mentally challenged, comatose patients, and people in vegetative states.
Moreover, the second portion attempts to resolve the abortion question. It gives the specific point at which a developing baby is a fetus. How so? Well, neuro-biologists have determined that the part of the brain responsible for empathy is the Cerebral Cortex, which develops in the second month of pregnancy (specifically at about 7 weeks). This means that a baby isn't a person until the 7th week of its development, meaning that abortion without necessary cause is alright before the point.
Then there's the OTHER issue of personhood that's highly debated. Is there any way to affect HOW MUCH of a person somebody is?
Personally, I believe that personhood is not an on/off switch, but rather a gradient, if you will. from the moment you attain consciousness-the moment you gain the ability to empathize with other persons (or rather, from the time the structures needed to do so develop)-you become a person. however, you are not as much of a person as other previously developed persons. As you grow and mature in life, you could become a better or worse person, but you are nonetheless becoming MORE of a person.
Let's tie this in to what is perhaps the only arguably necessary cause that justifies abortion in the third trimester: risk to the mothers life. based on the qualifications of personhood which I've put forth, that mother is MORE of a person than her baby is. So, the mother's life should be treated with higher priority than the baby's if a choice MUST be made between the two. Because of this scenario, allowing that mother to receive the most ethical treatment possible requires that the OPTION of abortion be available to any mother who might need it in a life or death scenario. However, doctors must ALSO respect any choice the mother makes in sacrificing her own life for the baby's. If that baby's cerebral cortex has formed, however, and the mother's life isn't in immediate danger, she should NOT have the right to terminate her baby's life, because that's denying a person ethical treatment without necessary cause.
I apologize for the length of this comment. However, this is a serious topic, and it can't be resolved or argued with short comments or phrases. If anybody has thoughts on my argument, I'd be happy to hear them, regardless of whether or not you agree. I hope I've given you some food for thought, and I wish you a happy day.
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The fact I got lost in Abortion vs Keeping comments, I wanna say that it's your choice. You can't say "You should've done that or this" Mabye when you grow up you'll do that choice but if your not a mother then why should you be saying that? It's their choices. Yes my opinion is that it's cruel and inhuman, but the best thing to do is ignore that option and move on to yours. Like someone said their never gonna have a baby but want to give an option that is best. Experience is the best way to prove you know it.
Nice to see a pro-choice video.
Not like all those anti-choice, pro-birth, shaming people.
It really explain all the possibility, and consequences.
Thank u
Someone finally agrees me
Coming from someone who is pro-choice (but has been forced to suffer a prolonged amount of these pro-life videos for research purposes) I can say quite easily that both sides have moral backing, and the pro-lifers have stronger moral backing, even. They most certainly are caring. Keep in mind they think that the baby is a human, and not an object or animal- so they view it as murder.
Saying they are not caring is essentially sticking out your tongue and screaming that,
"IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH ME, YOU'RE A PSYCHOPATH!"
Both side are caring people with moral values, they just have different way to care. They don't have the same point of view and they dont care about the same fact.
The woman who got abortion dont view their fetus as object or animal, they see it as fetus, a start of an unwanted baby.
Some people like to be extreme by viewing abortion as murder or forced pregnancy as torture.
But that is no help for pregnant woman who try to figured out what to do, with their unplanned pregnancy.
yes. it is so nice to see a pro-choice video
It is sad that people don't know this stuff before they are old enough to make babies.
I will always choose "Baby" because a man and woman did that for me.
A man and woman also abused and forgot to feed me. So that proof that I shouldnt nor should most people have a baby
@@PartnershipsForYou No,that I'd proof that they did wrong,not that the human race should go extinct.
alright so I take birth control pills for my periods but, I'm confused would they be like abortion pills? I'm only in 8th grade I saw this in my recommend so I just got curious.
No, they actually prevent from getting pregnant.
No, that's just sex-phobic propaganda of pro-life fundamentalists. Contraception pills stop ovulation, which means nothing that could remotely be considered a baby ever existed in the first place.
adoption, not abortion
Nope.
Adoption isn't always the answer
adoption people! adoption!
No. Tardo. No.
Adoption isn't always the answer
choice people! choice!
or
MYOB people! MYOB!
If someone doesn't want a baby they should have an abortion. How fun would it be for a child to grow up in a home where their parents doesn't love them? And if the parents doesn't have money to raise a child? Is it okay to have a child go hungry?
"Put it up for adoption" Yeah. But if nobody had abortions we'd have more children than homes for all of them.
But most of the "Pro life" people don't care ones the babies as born. Then its not their problem anymore.
Bob Andersson Exactly. I bet if pro life people had to adopt all the fetuses they forced women to carry to term, they wouldn't be pro life anymore.
+4ElementGirl First world problems. in war torn countries people adopt without giving a second thought. Why in a land of such bounty people are selfish?
Who said the baby would have a bad life? You did. Plenty of great men and women have come out of the worst places. You don't know how much you just bent logic by saying what you just said. I get it, maybe the kid commits suicide when he's fifteen and dies like he would have if he just would have been aborted... but there's also a good chance that this kid could have a better life than you do. We don't know which fetus is going to do what in the future. We are not telepathic. And by killing all of them and reasoning it with, "he was going to have a sucky life anyway" is putting yourself in a god-like position. You're determining the value of someone else's life, guess who else did that? Hitler. He said that jews were inferior and needed to die... so he killed them, deeming them unworthy of life... hey... isn't that what YOU just did? Said it was't worthy? And yes I do care about orphans. I donate to the three angels charity that benefits an orphanage in Haiti. Us conservatives give more than people on the left do. Either because liberals are broke, going broke, or college students. Or maybe they just like attempting to make fun of conservatives but then falling flat on their face when they realize that they should be made fun of.
Bob Andersson I care
I understand what you're trying to say, but there are plenty of loving couples who would be thrilled to adopt. And just because someone doesn't want to keep their baby doesn't give them a right to kill it. Like, imagine how stupid it would be if you had a toddler and they were annoying you and you were poor so you decided to kill it. That would be crazy. The only reason people don't look at abortion the same way is because it's out of sight out of mind.
this is the really good importnat vedio... i have ever seen
omg... when I saw that baby get ripped apart? I felt so bad...I wanted to scream lol. and I'm a boy!
why did ya feel bad?
+Emma Jay why wouldn't u feel bad? You killed a human baby without any hesitation or remorse.....I don't care if it was a chicken or some other animal, but a human??!! He could've became something good...but his life was brutally ended in matter of seconds.....I'm a guy, so I don't know how u women are and what you experience; maybe SOME abortions are acceptable, but u gotta limit it
but I mean like it wasn't a baby it was a bunch of cells
and they're obviously not gonna not have any hesitation
But it had arms, feet and little body parts. Plus I can understand if it was any other cell, but that's an embryonic stem cell. So it was already predestined to become a baby after being fertilized
I don't know how things are in the states or other countries. but in countries like mine where many things don't work right, adoption is not really an option. it is technically, but if you know the truth you would never chose it... anyway, as far as I know, late term abortions are only allowed when there is big health problem or high risk of death for the baby or the mother, so in most cases it is tragic but something that might have to be done. early term abortion is and should be the mother's choice and not a public debate of morality. all humans are different and all cases are not the same and should be treated individually. there is no choice that is always roght or always wrong and we shouldn't be shaming ppl for their choices. let's just hope and support the best for each person.
Women & girls have the right to choose.
I've never even held hands with a guy what am I doing here?
i want to abbortion...plz tell me how to do that...
Did already abort the baby?
okay i would never ever have an abortion beyond 8 weeks of pregnancy, ripping off the babies limbs. 😭😩 gosh no
Bailujen maybe for you :)
Bailujen 👍🏾
No one rips limbs off.
yes they do do the abortion watch someone the doctor levantino tells Congress they cut children up in pieces abortions real dismemberment of a human being on a choice evacuation and dilation used for steps to take them off piece-by-piece watch a video on a post it's real
@@bethwilliam1825 LMAO. He's a tool. There are 0 children being cut up.
thank you so much for this video, i’m nervous about getting an abortion tomorrow and this reassured me a lot
congratulations on making the right decision for you
@@moonchild708 Going to hell is the right decision?
This video is showing that we need to care our selves. ..
I'm been seen my friend experience by abortion... ..The bby died about 3weeks in her whom. ..she will be die if the baby not to take out. ..
So we need to take care. .Thanks for the vdio
Of course, at this point, no matter what personal viewpoint someone wants to make, is necrotic tissue, and WILL kill the woman through sepsis
No you have more choices than just abortion or baby. God bless!
I'm not pregnant, but if I do end up pregnant, especially if it's unplanned, I would not be able to bring myself to have an abortion.
If you get pregnant unplanned you should get an abortion it will save your life if you are in school.
And hey the earth is starting to get overpopulated getting an abortion wouldn't be a bad thing.
@@leon1201
If someone wants to have an abortion that's their choice. If they don't that's also their choice.
That is horrifying to why would somebody kill a baby like that
It's a fetus, you son of a bitch. you don't know the difference between a baby and a fetus
This is such a great way to simplify a really complicated life decision.. It is an accurate representation of how we do what we do at Care Net Pregnancy Resource Centers. Medically accurate and compassionate. No shaming, no guilt, no offensive images. Just the simple truth. Adoption is a practical and rewarding parenting decision.
+Karen Goebel And no law and no Gospel, which is the simple truth. I used to volunteer counsel at a Care Net (Formerly CPC). This video is humanistic. It is man centered. You are speaking like humanists. IF you profess Christ, you have hidden your light under a bushel.
"Get behind Me, Satan; for you are not setting your mind on God's interests, but man's..... If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake and the gospel's will save it. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and forfeit his soul? For what will a man give in exchange for his soul? For whoever is ashamed of Me and My Words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will also be ashamed of him when He comes in the glory of His Father with the holy angels." Jesus, in Mark 8:33b-38.
You actually should feel ashamed, after reading the Words of Jesus... ashamed of denying Jesus. Shame is a God given consequence of sin and a good thing when godly sorrow leads us to repentance. If there is no guilt or fear of the LORD - the beginning of wisdom - you can be sure there will be no reason for a woman to know her need for repentance and faith in the Savior.
Please, think and speak Biblically.
"You shall not murder"
Please, tell them the truth, so they will come to the Savior, in spirit and in truth.
"He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous, Both of them alike are an abomination to the LORD." Prov. 17:15
Please, if you are among those who do this, stop speaking evil of and rejecting your brothers and sister who plead for the lives of our little preborn neighbors and share the Gospel, outside of the abortion mills.
"It is not good to show partiality to the guilty by perverting the justice due to the innocent." Prov. 18:5
Please, anyone who does this, please, stop showing partiality towards the mothers over the babies, whose lives are on the line.
""A man who is laden with the guilt of human blood will be a fugitive until death; Let no one support him." Prov. 28:17
Please, stop comforting women IN their sin. Lead them to Jesus, the only One Who bore our sin and can wash us clean from sin.
"He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion." Prov. 28:13
Please, understand that women who have "had an abortion" MUST call their sin what it is; "murder". They've murdered their own flesh and blood. Do you believe this?
Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;" (Eph. 5:11)
Tell them. Show them if you have to. Sometimes, showing them is the only thing that will convict their consciences as to the heinousness of this sin to change their mind from murdering their baby. We've seen it over and over again.
Our ONLY hope is in JESUS CHRIST, who forgives humble murderers. God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.
May the LORD bless us all, with His grace, as we humbly seek HIM.
+Karen Goebel. Nice to know that there is place who can help you through that choice. But adoption isnt the only choice you tell about I hope !
+Lori Mayberry sounds like you made women who chose to have an abortion feel like shit. Nice.
Alexis, a godly sorrow that leads to repentance towards God for the murder of His image bearer, is the goal, so that they can see their need for the One - Jesus- Who came to save us from our sins, that they might believe upon Him and be truly forgiven and restored to God, their Creator. We want true healing for all who have aborted the life of their child/children. The fact that Jesus bore upon Himself, the righteous wrath of God that we deserve, for the wicked sins we have committed, and then proved Himself as more powerful than death when He rose from the dead, is the best news ever for those who believe upon Him! God forgives repentant murderers, through Jesus!
alexis mclean
Alexis, a godly sorrow that leads to repentance towards God for the murder of His image bearer, is the goal, so that they can see their need for the One - Jesus- Who came to save us from our sins, that they might believe upon Him and be truly forgiven and restored to God, their Creator. We want true healing for all who have aborted the life of their child/children. The fact that Jesus bore upon Himself, the righteous wrath of God that we deserve, for the wicked sins we have committed, and then proved Himself as more powerful than death when He rose from the dead, is the best news ever for those who believe upon Him! God forgives repentant murderers, through Jesus!
Literally if you want an abortion get one.If you *need* an abortion then get one.If you don’t want an abortion you don’t have to.If you don’t need an abortion you don’t have to.
Just don’t force your opinions on someone else.Its their choice, people do have health issues when they carry a baby and sometimes it’s life threatening to themselves and that is why they get abortions.Just do what you need to do, or want to do, just leave others out of it
Risk of the mother's death is less than 1% of abortions in America. Not many object to that. Attempting to silence society against what they believe as a moral atrocity is a very dangerous view.
Having an abortion is the best thing to do for someone under 25, without a job. Have all the children you want, when you got a stable job. Please girls, be smart, do not welcome misery because of people (family, friend, religious figure) who will not pay your rent, your grocery, your bills. Do not let yourself get trapped in a relationship because of a child. Make a baby when you are financially stable, and mentally mature. Peace & Love
Yasmina Derid
Respectfully, our justice system is built on getting involved in other people’s lives when they are not making moral decisions. Should we overlook murder, for example, in cases where it does not involve us? Just because the consequences aren’t ours to bear doesn’t mean we shouldn’t stand up for what is right.
If a mother killed her own toddler in her own house, would you consider this murder even though it’s her own house and her own child? Her house, her child, her choice... right?
Babies have detectable heartbeats from 5.5-6 weeks old, and detectable movements from about 6-8 weeks in. A lady who helped run Planned Parenthood made a movie called ‘Unplanned’ where she talked about seeing a baby moving and trying to fight the vacuum which sucked it up/killed it. There are also many instances of aborted babies who are born alive, and some even stay alive and develop into normal human beings... so how can you say that they are not a living human being, if the same organism which is legal to be killed in the womb can exist independently outside the womb?
I’m saddened that our culture has brainwashed society, and worst of all mothers, into thinking that they’re not actually killing their child. All life has value-please remember that❤️
Sienna Hermary it’s selfish to have a baby you can’t support therefore your argument isn’t justified in this context. Maybe you think you are saving lives by saying this but your opinion has no ownership over someone else’s body, you might as well be shaming people🙄please be a bit more open-minded and consider the situations many people are in🤍
Rielle H
Thank you for your reply💛 I would consider myself a pretty open-minded person, but I can not find any good justification in this situation despite hearing various arguments.
I do understand that people face difficult situations where they are not prepared for a child... one of my closest friends actually got his girlfriend pregnant at 17 years old and they made the decision to take responsibility for their actions and have the baby, even if they would have to put it up for adoption.
It’s a very slippery slope to say that not being able to support a baby is justification enough to ‘terminate’ them. If your parent had dementia or some other illness and was a ‘burden’ on you because they had to live with you and rely on you financially, do you have the right to kill them? No; thus, the value of a human life does not depend on how much someone’s life is a convenience or inconvenience to those around them.
Personally, I don’t find it selfish to have a baby that you can’t support because you can put that baby up for adoption, and therefore the responsibility to support that child transfers over to the adopted parents.
If this were merely a woman’s body, I would understand what you are saying. But all science shows that the organism growing inside that woman is separate from the woman itself; if not, are we saying that a woman has 2 hearts since the heart of the baby and the heart of the mother beat separately?
I’m not shaming people who don’t know better, because they genuinely don’t realize that they are killing their own child; what I am shaming is that society is portraying abortion as a saving grace, making mothers (along with the rest of society) think this is okay. It’s not only sad because a baby is killed/‘terminated’, but also because mothers are losing their own children without even realizing it.💛
Sienna Hermary You keep making “If” scenarios that are incomparable to the situation you are trying to find common ground and like morals when there is no comparison at all. Technically, no one is a parent until the baby is physically born... then giving the baby human life value (that’s why parents who murder their children actually face trial etc.) Mothers and other people alike may think otherwise about when and what they view is a child or a baby when it’s just an embryo or a fetus bc there are many different situations, personal experiences, and opinions, but there is not enough explanation and comparisons in the world that could validate that your opinions have more sensibility than those who have their own as well and can make their own decisions. Abortions may not be okay, but it’s an option. Just like adoption may not be okay but is also an option, and just how making the decision to keep the pregnancy to term and raising the baby may not be okay but is also an option.
@@rielleh5905 just bc someone morals tell them an abortion isn’t an option, doesn’t mean they aren’t open-minded
I was 18 years old and l got pregnant by accident l was shocked when l go pregnant this was back 1976 l could keep my baby but l was single at time out of work and my boyfriend was interested and l did know how l would be able to cope with baby l decided to have abortion it was hard decision l have ever made there have been times when l have regret it when l think what baby would be like if baby had lived but l think l would be to young to look after baby
We all make mistakes in life
Very informative video. Sad but informative
Some people believe that having an abortion and ending a child’s life will solve their problems. And in the immediate present, it may appear that the problems have been erased. But there are many short term and long term side effects.
Joshua Shiluama like what
@@user-fq7my8jl5v The video explains some of them.
Same with pursuing a pregnancy and adopting out the baby that leaves trauma for a lifetime so shut up.
And two keeping and parenting a baby alone most of the time is the case, is not healthy for the moms mental health if she never wanted the baby in the first place she will feel obligated and not happy truly or present with anything
this makes me want to cry
Hey! Just here to remind you all that being aggressive and insulting while talking about the content in this video won't get anywhere or convince anyone of anything! Discussing with facts and respecting that other people have different views is so so important if you want the respect back ♥️
everyone read this
This is what should be shown to people. Just helps you make a decision. I just DO NOT support late term abortions and late mid term
This video makes it look like having a baby isn’t also risky, what of heavy bleeding after child birth
They never tell the truth, that's why. Lots hemmorhage days after birth
i almost went throw the abortion but i put my baby up for adoptions.
Good for you, who cares.
A brave decision. I'm sure you feel happy today knowing that your little child is alive and cared for.
the most basic human right is the right to live. Let the babies live!! jesus is the answer!
you know, that doesn't have to do anything with depression there are not prove that it is related, and adoption is not so easy it can take longer and there are not too many options.
She never mentioned foster homes for the baby option...
This is not targeted at the video, but many women are being lured into these Crisis Pregnancy centres which advertise abortions and then being given incorrect information about abortion. While personally I wouldn’t have one, I think it’s important to give women a choice, and that we shouldn’t interfere based on our own beliefs.
First of all the subject of abortion is about the extermination of an unborn human life inside the mother's body. No one is talking about the mother's body. Secondly, many atheists are against abortion as well. The killing of the unborn is not a religious issue - its a humanitarian issue. Thirdly, population control by population extermination which is what your last comment suggested is comparable to 'the final solution'.
The objection to abortion is many believe it is morally wrong to terminate an innocent unborn human life. If you have a moral justification for terminating a human life then please offer that so that we can understand. Otherwise all you are doing is distorting the subject without any actual validation or justification for abortion itself.
Ian Alan I completely get what you’re saying, and apologise if I at all offended you with my comment. At the time my view was more focused on centres which purposely advertise abortions and give women the wrong information to sway their decision. While personally (I haven’t been pregnant so can’t say for sure) I wouldn’t have an abortion, I do think that confusing women who are already scared is wrong, and we should be giving them correct information to help inform a difficult decision. I recently had a friend have a pregnancy scare and the only option for her would have been abortion considering her medical condition and age. So while I totally respect people who are wholeheartedly pro life, I think that women should reserve the right to choose. Have a nice day 🙃
(I’m going to edit my comment to make it seem a little less aggressive, I just read it back and realised how it sounds)
@@georgiathemartian8343 - I respect and thank you for your kind thoughtful reply. False misleading information and distorting (distracting) from the truth is wrong from either side. To that we agree.
When a mother's life is at risk that is a horrid situation of which should be between the mother, her Dr, the father (if he is in the picture), her loved ones, and what she believes in (if anything). I would be remiss to not point out that is less than 1% of abortions in the U.S. For the other 99% of abortions there are options. Not always ideal options but options none the less that do not require the extermination of an unborn human life.
I wish you peace!
@@georgiathemartian8343
there are also fake abortion clinics popping up over the country that say they do abortions but then they stalls that you cannot have an abortion. Which I just think is messed up.
All children deserve life!
btti.org/2020/10/14/jesus-is-life-1/
Please read and share
Great video!!!
I already have a 2.5 years old baby girl I don't want a 2nd child and want to start a business but my wife and in laws want us to continue what should I do?
Did you keep the baby?
@@datlittledragon yes I did got a naughty baby boy who looks alike me a carbon copy of me couldn't be happier.
I love how it was so neutral
ahahaha how is marriage the best parenting option? also a huge disadvantage of carrying the unwanted child to term: the Risk of frigging death during child birth! Oh and let't not forget the emotional and physical problems that can occure after giving birth. Please mention all facts if you're gonna make a video like this!
The risk of death does not go up just because you do not want the child. Those are two different issues.
Thers NO WAY im ahving a baby or anything. Im gonna adopt.
"some of us by accidents " wow lol okay
2:50 i actually started crying
Personally , I'd rather not have a baby it's not that I don't like children if someone asked me to watch their kid for a little bit I'd be fine with that and for all the people who think I'm evil for this here are a few things you should know about me ,
1. I don't believe in God so you saying that I'm going to quote unquote "burn in hell " isn't going to work on me
2.it's my choice and my opinion,there is nothing you can do about it
3. I don't have the patience for raising a kid I like babysitting because when you're done with that you could hand the kid back to their parents
"Pull body parts" ... Im definitely against abortion once the pregnancy is this far along. RIP
Abortion at this stage is illegal except in special circumstances
To those who are saying a baby is not yet human until it is born, is a puppy a puppy inside its mother's womb? Is a kitten a kitten? I think most people would say yes, and most would say it would be wrong to remove a baby animal from its mother's womb. Also, to those who say nothing has the right to inhabit the body of another without permission, here is a question for you: did you get permission before you did the act that caused this baby to become an inhabitant of your body? YOU invited the baby to be formed inside you and then you're rude and cruel enough to allow it to form and then murder it? What psychos! The baby didn't ASK to be created. You created it without any thought, gave it a safe sanctuary in which to grow and thrive, and then decided suddenly it was too inconvenient for your selfishness to have to deal with. Therefore, blame the innocent baby instead of taking responsibility for YOUR actions! Why doesn't anyone have common sense or common decency any more?!? Smh 😒😕😑
I would not have an abortion, personally. For moral beliefs mainly. I know what I'm getting myself into when I choose to have sex with someone. But, another woman may not feel the same way I do about babies and pregnancy, I can't stop them from making life choices. It's on their responsibility and conscience. I think abortion is absolutely disgusting and wrong, but it's just my opinion.
Exactly! Finally someone understand. Like, why kill the baby for your problems? That's like saying you kill your best friend because your boyfriend had sex with you and got you pregnant.
Lol it's not like saying that at all, most abortions are done early on, and it implies getting rid if something that would develop into a human being because of inconvenience or trauma. It's still not a live being and it's inside your own body, so it's not like killing someone (much less your best friend) at all.
ITS A HUMAN FETUS, WHAT'S NOT HUMAN ABOUT THEM? UNLESS YOU HAD SEX WITH AN ANIMAL AND GOT PREGNANT.
My cousins story:
She accidentally got pregnant when she was 21. She was becoming a future doctor and had a great life ahead of her. But she was born with a hole in her heart, which could be deadly when giving birth. My cousins was scared. She wanted children but later, and she didn't want to kill herself. After she learned the baby was very unhealthy, she was horrified. In the end, she got an abortion because she didn't want to die. Today, her heart is much healthier and lives with her husband and now she can have kids!
this is why abortions should be legal so women have a chance when they are left with a bad situation whether the pregnancy is deadly or she was raped it needs to be there so they can live
Sooo what's the point of the story again? That you made it up? Maybe.
( if it's not made up I'm sorry for your cousin)
TheEclipticSmiless but killed her frist baby
FEELSonWHEELS She could’ve died herself sis
moma derpy things like this happens quite a lot. You’re already on RUclips. Look it up
0:20 Truth be told, Some of us by purpose*
Great video, Care Net. Keep helping women in crisis! Abortion is not the answer. There are alternatives. Choose Life!
Their body, their choice.
it's there body and they chose to have unprotected sex fully aware that pregnancy could happen if a women don't want a baby she should make the choice to use a condom ! simple
b11 5 there are many cases of birth control failure...
The baby is not part of the mother’s body. The baby has its own blood type and DNA. A women’s body cannot have two types of DNA and a separate blood type.
Donegon your not the person having an abortion you have no say in there situation if they choose to have one...
Donegon who cares about the dam thing I’d abort mine straight away get that shit out of me hate babies there a pain in the ass
If my birth control fails, the condoms slips/breaks, the morning after pill fails, I enjoy knowing that there’s an option for me if I choose to not have a child.
Then don’t have sex. If you cannot handle the maturity level necessary to deal with the outcome of sexual activity, you shouldn’t be participating. That’s simply irresponsible.
@@doribellan sex doesn't equal wanting a baby. it's like saying don't eat if you don't want to choke
D K it’s absolutely not the same case because having sex lids to have a baby while eating to give energy to your body. 😂😂
@@doribellanHaving an abortion is responsible. Having a baby you cannot care for is not.
Now am in relationship, that's am thinking of my future??😢
Why am I crying?