She calls her son her boyfriend. Wants a man that has $15K in a bank and credit score has to be fair

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  • She calls her son her boyfriend. She wants a man that has $15K in a bank and his credit score has to be fair. He has to be at least 6’2.

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  • @HARLEMBLINGREVIEWS
    @HARLEMBLINGREVIEWS Год назад +972

    Calling your son your boyfriend is just sick

    • @DeepBreathingMeditation
      @DeepBreathingMeditation Год назад +55

      I hope she reads the comments. I haven't seen it but that's sad and weird

    • @lorenathorpe8909
      @lorenathorpe8909 Год назад +37

      I hope she stops that nonsense before he's of an impressionable age. Many a man has been tainted by that kind of relationship with their mothers. A boy child needs a father figure to look up to and be close to.

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Год назад

      ​@@lorenathorpe8909He's already at an impressionable age.

    • @thewinzerfam
      @thewinzerfam Год назад +20

      Louisiana folks are weird anyway. My deadbeat dad is from there. Last time I saw him I was six and learned my lesson to never sit in his lap again.

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE Год назад

      I don’t even know what the heck is going on with this weirdo generation. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤡

  • @sunnysunshine6271
    @sunnysunshine6271 Год назад +762

    Good lord, if a father would say his daughter is his girlfriend and his woman, we would be calling Child Protective Services right now.

    • @tezsgino
      @tezsgino Год назад +26

      For sure!

    • @ricksanchez3501
      @ricksanchez3501 Год назад +14

      Amen

    • @idubldairu8330
      @idubldairu8330 Год назад +13

      Big facts

    • @lupavo1738
      @lupavo1738 Год назад +35

      So why not call them on her now? This isn’t any different.

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад +27

      Then call cps, what are you waiting for? If you think this is abnormal(which it is) then do something or shut up

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 Год назад +122

    YOUR SON IS YOUR CHILD!!! People like this is why men complain about single mothers 🤦🏽‍♀️..

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Год назад +13

      When I tell you this burned me up! 😡

    • @BleuReign13
      @BleuReign13 Год назад +17

      @@invadingminds right!!! My children are MY children, not my friends, not my homegirls, not my partners..🤬

    • @IDFK__
      @IDFK__ Год назад +5

      It’s tacky.

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Год назад +2

      @@BleuReign13 Amen!!

    • @a-mc
      @a-mc Год назад +2

      Shit even my gay ass be like HELLLLL NAW!!!! I’m just gone be alone cuz both sexes mindsets are just ughhhhh…..😑

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 Год назад +393

    She's a 36 year old single mother with the mindset of an 18 year old.

    • @Jazzy-mt3ht
      @Jazzy-mt3ht Год назад

      Her mind is fucked up.

    • @gigijerrie322
      @gigijerrie322 Год назад +14

      12.....individual is simple-minded

    • @CassieBbyLLMM40
      @CassieBbyLLMM40 Год назад +18

      She got on my nerves being such a clown!! She is corny

    • @bruceleroy838
      @bruceleroy838 Год назад

      The vast vast majority of BW suffer from arrested childhood development

    • @MP-qb6lv
      @MP-qb6lv Год назад +5

      my 18yr old has way more sense

  • @InsertAliasHere1154
    @InsertAliasHere1154 Год назад +549

    It’s extremely problematic that she doesn’t understand why calling her son her boyfriend is weird. Emotional incest is a real thing. When her son starts dating, she’s either going to have a nervous breakdown or give the young ladies hell.
    She has other problems too, but this one is at the top of my list.

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +47

      Making him into a son husband

    • @allMinabe
      @allMinabe Год назад +30

      Right. Its just plain gross to me and haven't heard of a mom calling her son "boyfriend".

    • @candice446
      @candice446 Год назад +5

      This probably was done to her as a kid, unfortunately.

    • @tiptip7
      @tiptip7 Год назад +29

      I actually know of women that told the wife/girlfriend "I'll always be his first love." It's sickening.

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Год назад +26

      I agree. The “son husband” situation is not doing young men any favors. It messes up their chances at healthy relationships because either mom sabotages his relationships because his attention is on another woman, or son expects to be babied and coddled by women because mom spoiled him rotten.

  • @LOSTGPS
    @LOSTGPS Год назад +292

    1. Any man that dates her will likely have to deal with a disrespectful son that you cant discipline.
    2. When that boy grows up his mother will probably ruin all of his relationships.

    • @chillycharles910
      @chillycharles910 Год назад +6

      She supported her ride or die in prison, that seems to be her standard of men.

    • @jamaciag09
      @jamaciag09 Год назад +6

      Facts because she's DEFINITELY not getting a man so by the time he starts liking girls, it's gonna be some problems.

    • @NoName-nj4mw
      @NoName-nj4mw Год назад +14

      DEFINITELY number 2! I left my sons father because his mother wouldn't pop her titties out of his mouth. The bad thing is that his parents are still married and his father was around his entire life. Sometimes even a man being present doesn't stop an overbearing mother. No one can. It's gonna be her and her king (son) forever.

    • @kiwthebeauty
      @kiwthebeauty Год назад +6

      She already the first wife, she will block him from having stable relationships out of jealousy. A lot of women raise their sons to be THEIR MAN, so the woman who loves her son is basically the other woman to this mom.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 Год назад

      Facts!

  • @hecateasteriaasmr
    @hecateasteriaasmr Год назад +153

    She gone say “they know what I’m saying”
    😳 no we don’t actually

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et Год назад +12

      Right?!

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Год назад +7

      Exactly

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 Год назад +5

      Exactly. I have a son, and no way in hell I ever called him my boyfriend. This chick is disturbing.

    • @DelliaWyn
      @DelliaWyn Год назад +2

      That’s what I thought

    • @kimberlyc54
      @kimberlyc54 Год назад

      That’s what I said lol

  • @dreadfulrai
    @dreadfulrai Год назад +88

    “First love” “up my ass” “on me like white on rice” “that’s my boyfriend”
    Very inappropriate coming from a mother about her son. Find a better way to word it and give him a new nickname…

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy Год назад +15

      When I heard all those words come out her mouth, I immediately became disturbed. I could only imagine what goes down in that house smh

    • @allMinabe
      @allMinabe Год назад +9

      Hearing her say that made me uncomfortable.. very disturbing.

    • @poetryinmotion1708
      @poetryinmotion1708 Год назад

      I believe she said "he came out my pu##y and all up my pu#$y"....🥴🥴🥴

    • @user-bz8xb4jy2u
      @user-bz8xb4jy2u Год назад

      This chick is SPEED BUMP SLOW WITH A CREDIT SCORE IN 500'S A MANGER AT NON PAYING FAMILY DOLLAR AND REFERS TO HER SON AS HER BOYFRIEND. SIDE CHICK TO A DUDE SHE WILL CONTINUE TO SMASH YELP SIGN ME UP WEARING A STRAIGHT JACKET

  • @kingssportskonversation7351
    @kingssportskonversation7351 Год назад +155

    She’s the type that’s gone be getting into it with her sons girlfriend/wife. 😂😂

    • @andreamoore7002
      @andreamoore7002 Год назад +5

      There's lots of moms that do that. And they are on a different level than her. Happens everyday.

    • @asdfghj13579fly
      @asdfghj13579fly Год назад +9

      Any mom with a sonhusband is the type.

    • @yasmeen7875
      @yasmeen7875 Год назад +7

      Like Blueface mama

    • @henrybox3580
      @henrybox3580 Год назад

      She gone sleep with him first. Guarantee she walks around in a bra n panties

    • @jay4341
      @jay4341 8 месяцев назад

      Successfully grooming a son husband. This boy is going to have a rough time growing up

  • @nmmboy
    @nmmboy Год назад +205

    There’s sadly so many son husbands out here, and it’s so disgusting. Them boys never had a chance smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @09tashay
      @09tashay Год назад +27

      She will ruin all of his future relationships.

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy Год назад +19

      @@09tashay Facts, every single one of them. I really feel bad for him. He’s only 7 and his momma done said that he’s her man 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @chillycharles910
      @chillycharles910 Год назад +15

      And they flaunt it on Facebook like it's normal behavior.

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy Год назад +13

      @@chillycharles910 Facts, they don’t get checked enough about it. Imagine if a father called his daughter his girlfriend and her first love. Just out of line smh

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад +14

      Yup it’s disgusting but common especially in the “black south”. I personally know a few relatives who treat their sons as their husbands. I don’t associate with them at all. Of course they’re single and haven’t been in a relationship in years. They also treat their daughters like a grown caretaker of the house although they’re supposed to be the mom.

  • @maribart4237
    @maribart4237 Год назад +190

    I have one son too, I’ll pluck my eyes out before referring to my son as my boyfriend or man. This woman is vile. Feel bad for the child.

    • @afro_buddha4977
      @afro_buddha4977 Год назад +14

      She will ruin everything girl/woman he ever tries to build a relationship with

    • @kiwthebeauty
      @kiwthebeauty Год назад +1

      Her “boyfriend” is 7

  • @halftimehomes
    @halftimehomes Год назад +205

    Caller: I call my son my boyfriend
    Son: Why is you hollering
    You can’t make this up 😂

    • @poetryinmotion1708
      @poetryinmotion1708 Год назад +14

      She's off her rocker...almost impossible to reverse this off kiltered dynamic

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад +21

      This is actually unfunny

    • @TheeMrsChampion
      @TheeMrsChampion Год назад +32

      He walked right in that bathroom without knocking and asking permission to come in. My mom or dad would have knocked my head off 😮

    • @andreamoore7002
      @andreamoore7002 Год назад +4

      😂😂 Don't forget that the dad is not there to help with this situation 😅😅 Can't make this shit up 😂😂

    • @bassya2490
      @bassya2490 Год назад +2

      Yooo im dead 💀

  • @Imjustheretomakeyouthink
    @Imjustheretomakeyouthink Год назад +473

    Calling your son your boyfriend on a platform that does millions of impression across all social media is insanity. 😆

    • @Sun-je5mv
      @Sun-je5mv Год назад +26

      How about calling him ur bf at all is strange

    • @andred5555
      @andred5555 Год назад

      Weirdo thinks that is normal.

    • @khloverjai219
      @khloverjai219 Год назад

      Shes annoying as hell .. good luck fellas, you gotchu one...

    • @dorathehoora4527
      @dorathehoora4527 Год назад +7

      ​@@Sun-je5mv because that's the wrong type of mentality to have towards your child. I hope you don't think it's appropriate for fathers to call their daughters their girlfriend...

    • @msprincess1on1
      @msprincess1on1 Год назад +6

      Really? Relax! Most of us knew what she meant! It was a paraphrase. What she was trying to say was her son acts like her man because he won't let her breathe !! Most sons are like that with their moms until around 10 to 12 when they start trying to impress the girls they really like. #Mom of 4 boys speaking...

  • @anutha_level_ministries8108
    @anutha_level_ministries8108 Год назад +40

    I got my own store..im a store manager...2 different things sis😂😂😂

    • @caramelkimmiekim8272
      @caramelkimmiekim8272 Год назад +4

      😅😅she slow

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 Год назад +2

      at first i thought she was gone be one of them at home sales people for make up.

  • @marcusyoung2081
    @marcusyoung2081 Год назад +73

    Words have meaning... she knew exactly what she said, and she meant exactly what she said, so anyone who knows her needs to keep an eye on her. She is talking about he is her boyfriend because she is his first love, what?!
    Side note: Women please stop kissing your children on the lips with the same nasty 🫏 mouth that you do all of those other "open-minded" and "adventurous" activities with. PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!

    • @murieltillman9554
      @murieltillman9554 Год назад +7

      And/or sharing your food and beverages! 🤮 Thank you for saying this! Finally.

  • @savagesunflower1865
    @savagesunflower1865 Год назад +77

    As a mom of a 5 year old boy who is an only child, that’s hella weird to call him your boyfriend! -

  • @WhoicheckinwitTV
    @WhoicheckinwitTV Год назад +41

    Fathers we have to be in these kid’s lives 💯💯💯

    • @Memiselphi
      @Memiselphi Год назад +10

      No one should have planted a seed in this creature from the beginning!

    • @henrybox3580
      @henrybox3580 Год назад

      Tell that to the women 51% of blk men are single and childless

    • @millyonair9225
      @millyonair9225 6 дней назад +1

      The dad should fight for custody of the kid. This video should be exhibit A.

  • @lovelyk1845
    @lovelyk1845 Год назад +190

    The perfect example of a woman taking her son as her man. This is the same type of woman who wants her son to work and take care of her when he gets older. I could never understand this mindset.

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +12

      Actually many parents over generations had kids to help them when they become old to keep them out of a old folks home. The problem is women like her will want the child to be the retirement plan with nothing established from herself

    • @IWantMyVisionBack
      @IWantMyVisionBack Год назад +8

      What’s wrong with children taking care of their parents? It’s a tradition in many cultures

    • @DeepBreathingMeditation
      @DeepBreathingMeditation Год назад +17

      ​@@IWantMyVisionBackno I want my child and her spouse if she ever has one to take care of their own family. I will take care of myself. That's what we work for right?

    • @lovelyk1845
      @lovelyk1845 Год назад +3

      ​@@IWantMyVisionBack....did you miss the part where she called her son her boyfriend?

    • @lovelyk1845
      @lovelyk1845 Год назад +8

      ​@@Tony-lm5zs... exactly. She is the type mother that will have an issue with her son taking care of his woman/family when he gets older.

  • @tonrobert3391
    @tonrobert3391 Год назад +114

    I am a psychology student !
    The behavior this woman is exhibiting towards the child falls under Parentification.
    Parentification occurs when a child is regularly expected to provide emotional or practical support for a parent, instead of receiving that support themselves. The role reversal of parentification can disrupt the natural process of maturing, causing long-term negative effects on a child's physical and mental health.

    • @theoneandonlyK01
      @theoneandonlyK01 Год назад +15

      She has a child like mindset so that makes sense... So sad

    • @Jame6999
      @Jame6999 Год назад +5

      Ok maslow

    • @kiwthebeauty
      @kiwthebeauty Год назад

      Emotional incest.

    • @RipplesnWaves
      @RipplesnWaves Год назад +4

      Yes I lived through this! It was horrible. I could not enjoy my boyfriend because the mom called excessively and tried to find ways to steal time away with him.

    • @29_____
      @29_____ Год назад

      Where can I contact you? I’m interested in working with you

  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 Год назад +45

    Calling your child your man is actually sick. She has ruined him for any woman, she is the type that will fight with any woman he dated or tires to marry

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ Год назад +1

      She’s definitely going to run off any woman he tries to be with when he’s older. she doesn’t even realize how she’s ruining her own dating prospects as well treating her son this way.

  • @PJPlague3000
    @PJPlague3000 Год назад +116

    She said her credit score "fair" 600 smh 😲

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life Год назад +16

      Proudly 🤣

    • @SPorter6982
      @SPorter6982 Год назад +20

      And said it with her chest out lol 😂😂 followed by we grown

    • @virginiawhidbee8393
      @virginiawhidbee8393 Год назад +7

      That's it? What the hell is wrong with her? I want someone that has a higher credit score that!

    • @tiffanybarnes3831
      @tiffanybarnes3831 Год назад +8

      ​@@virginiawhidbee8393right I stoll feel like a underclass with a score of 639 hell 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tajmahal4056
      @tajmahal4056 Год назад +20

      In her defense, 600 IS considered fair credit.

  • @c.madelicious
    @c.madelicious Год назад +104

    Dang it black women, for the love of God. Stop calling your sons your man, your boy friend, your husband.

    • @majesticgirlgames
      @majesticgirlgames Год назад +22

      And calling them “fine” or any variation of sexy. Makes me want to throw up!!

    • @yoursisesthermeya
      @yoursisesthermeya Год назад +6

      Not "black women" I've never done that or seen it

    • @lavelle7628
      @lavelle7628 Год назад +1

      Something I've never and would never do just don't sound right 😮

    • @LOSTGPS
      @LOSTGPS Год назад +4

      or king

    • @BRJ321
      @BRJ321 Год назад +1

      @@yoursisesthermeyathis video is a clear example that some do

  • @MC-xf8bu
    @MC-xf8bu Год назад +60

    She’s ignorant! She make Family Dollar staff look bad

    • @bria7379
      @bria7379 Год назад +6

      She’s the manager too 😅

    • @trueblue2892
      @trueblue2892 Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂DAMN

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Год назад +9

      Everybody I've personally known who worked at Family Dollar had dr*g/alcohol problems and/or a criminal record and/or collected out of wedlock children like Pokémon cards. That's a ratchet working environment, if somebody wants more honestly there are similar-paying jobs that will get you away from bad company

  • @agray7474
    @agray7474 Год назад +90

    She’s delusional if she thinks a credit score under 600 is fair…ITS POOR!! 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life Год назад +15

      She wan’t a man with 15K in the bank. Her credit score is ALMOST 600, and she said she needs to stop spending money she doesn’t have. I almost forgot, she’s catching flights. 🧐. We won’t even talk about the mother, son relationship. Whew!!!

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Год назад +16

      You can buy a house with a Fair Score. FICO 580 - 669 is Fair. Poor is under 580.

    • @caramelkimmiekim8272
      @caramelkimmiekim8272 Год назад

      😅😅😅

    • @itzjess88
      @itzjess88 Год назад +15

      Mine is very poor then. Thanks to my mom. I don't use credit period so I was surprised to find out I owe on several things I've never purchased. It's cool tho I'ma pay it off cuz I know she not built for prison and with the amount she'd be gone a long time.

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Год назад +7

      @itzjess88 It's sad to see kids starting out behind. Did you just file a Chapter?

  • @Netta-jb1dv
    @Netta-jb1dv Год назад +30

    She sound crazy! I have a son thts 22 he's my only child & I have never ever referred to him as my man or boyfriend 🤯

  • @ImagineOnward
    @ImagineOnward Год назад +57

    There are so many broken children
    Living in grown bodies
    Mimicking adult lives
    But this is ridiculous...the mindset formed from the son will forever be warped to whatever

    • @Gofastnow12
      @Gofastnow12 Год назад +4

      As a 23 year old, Im starting to realize….

    • @Monroestevens306
      @Monroestevens306 Год назад

      All of this. And they make up a huge chunk of the black community.

  • @comedyexposure3295
    @comedyexposure3295 Год назад +68

    When someone has to keep saying they're grown......they're not

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 Год назад +131

    Everybody hung up on the son thing but nobody is mentioning she is sleeping with a man who lives with his baby momma. This lady is a mess and I’m embarrassed for her 😅

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et Год назад +20

      That didn’t slip by us. 🫠🥹🫣

    • @pixelgodsquad4942
      @pixelgodsquad4942 Год назад +5

      Hey sometimes you sleeping with a man that lives with his babymomma 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @tonyawin2205
      @tonyawin2205 Год назад +4

      You know how many people doing that?!?! They just don't speak on it! #Delulu

    • @Khurr
      @Khurr Год назад +8

      Amen...out here thotting and be out here having any sort of standards....worse is being ratchet at this age

    • @amilllion1
      @amilllion1 Год назад +6

      Cause we care about the kids!

  • @TyWerks
    @TyWerks Год назад +61

    Imagine a man calling his daughter his girlfriend

    • @ricksanchez3501
      @ricksanchez3501 Год назад +7

      They will try to lock him up

    • @brandonmoss7976
      @brandonmoss7976 Год назад

      @@ricksanchez3501 as they should be!!!

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 Год назад +3

      @@ricksanchez3501whose “ they”? You mean we all going to put him in jail. That’s sick on all sides , even though on the otherside you will have female sympathizers

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад

      @@ricksanchez3501You’re not doing anything but whining, self advocate or shut up. It’s annoying

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Год назад +6

      Same people trying to defend this woman would be calling for his head lol

  • @Tam75Tam
    @Tam75Tam Год назад +88

    My 8 yr old son is my only child. He's my shadow, NOT my boyfriend. Weirdo. 🙄

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +9

      Hopefully he is the fathers shadow instead

    • @Tam75Tam
      @Tam75Tam Год назад +6

      @Tony-lm5zs he would be if dad was interested. 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +5

      @@Tam75Tam 3 sides to every story, his , yours, and the truth. I’ve been told that many times but come to find out the mother kept the child away from the father cause she was mad at him, some even constantly moving. Your situation might be different but I can take one individuals word for granted

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +3

      @@sammajor2075 don’t always believe ever situation to be that way, in half the cases it’s the woman keeping the child away cause their relationship didn’t work out

    • @Seeingisntbelieving
      @Seeingisntbelieving Год назад +3

      I have 2 sons and they’re just my sons. Nothing extra-no confusion for anyone.
      When they are adults they will be my “Adult Sons.”

  • @San_Be
    @San_Be Год назад +19

    Flaws: 1) My son is not my man. 2) Don't sleep with men I know are NOT single. 3) Don't seek a new man while still being a side chick. There Ivy, I fixed it for you. You're welcome.

  • @ladylady3551
    @ladylady3551 Год назад +119

    She said her credit score almost at 600!😂😂😂 Girl you should've kept that to yourself! She has a very child like mentality.

    • @blackandarmedfamily4905
      @blackandarmedfamily4905 Год назад +14

      Then had the nerve to have a credit requirement as if hers was in good shape 😂😂😂

    • @jaymac8421
      @jaymac8421 Год назад +3

      🤣 🤣

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life Год назад +3

      ALMOST 🤣 Girl, what can you do with a 600 credit score 🧐

    • @ladylady3551
      @ladylady3551 Год назад

      @@Gem-n-life sit tf down!🪑😂

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 Год назад +4

      talking about having 15k in the bank but got a 600 score smh

  • @DeVontaePitts
    @DeVontaePitts Год назад +38

    The G-H-E-T-T-O. 😂

  • @allthingskate1420
    @allthingskate1420 Год назад +32

    You can tell what type of dudes she’s used to dating

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Год назад +5

      2 years of the school of hard knocks minimum.

    • @SuperLee1219
      @SuperLee1219 Год назад +9

      Pookies & Ray Ray's 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Год назад +3

      Yeah you can..her deal breakers were things that wouldn't even cross my mind. Ick! 😑

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Год назад

      Omg exactly. Dusties

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Год назад +1

      ​@@invadingmindsyes yes yes yes. So glad there are still critical thinking smart women out here

  • @ChrisJobson313
    @ChrisJobson313 Год назад +34

    Just imagine if a man was calling his daughter his girlfriend.

    • @ricksanchez3501
      @ricksanchez3501 Год назад +5

      They would try to lock him up

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад +4

      @@ricksanchez3501It has happened and the fathers were not locked up until it was too late(murder/sexual abuse)

    • @cecisessence694
      @cecisessence694 Год назад

      She worded it wrong I herd people for decades say stuff similar but they will say act like my man I've herd men say thus too about their daughters saying she acts like she my woman ...if she had Saud it thar way nobody would be saying anything yes it sounds weird but I know what she ment too she's just a Lil country how she talk

    • @Monroestevens306
      @Monroestevens306 Год назад

      @@cecisessence694 That didn’t really help her argument or explain anything. That just saw that people in the south are weird.. and the south is known for incest.. So a mom calling her son her man.. is not a good look. Anyway she worded it.
      Do a little research on childhood psychology, or different forms of childhood abuse, and trauma. There’s a lot that’s messed up about what she’s doing. It’s not cute, fun or funny.
      Definitely at 7.
      That’s weird and creepy.

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 Год назад +15

    She dont have $15K working at Dollar General.

  • @cashmonispen4380
    @cashmonispen4380 Год назад +22

    She wants a man with $15,000 in saving and she said one of her flaws is spending money she doesn't have. Lol 🙄

    • @lizzthequeen3608
      @lizzthequeen3608 Год назад +1

      I hope she watches it back and realizes how ridiculous she sounds.

    • @chrisrowe4595
      @chrisrowe4595 Год назад +1

      She’s a TOXIC relationship candidate!!!

  • @SammieSoSubmissive
    @SammieSoSubmissive Год назад +33

    Meanwhile, fixing the hair made no difference here.🤭

    • @ShangHungxxx
      @ShangHungxxx Год назад +5

      😂😂😂

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Год назад +5

      😂 Not at all! She looks musty!

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂. Whatsoever

    • @Sistagirltay
      @Sistagirltay Год назад +1

      I think she need to add a track or 3 🥴

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 Год назад +2

      when Kendra said that was my style back in the day!!!!!!

  • @sbrown1231
    @sbrown1231 Год назад +26

    Smdh! How is she going to get an attitude about something SHE said? Stop calling your son your man weird heffa.

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +4

      Women like her create son husbands, they will always have their mom ahead of their wife. The kid is doomed and don’t even know he is being programmed like this

    • @phoenixtehrani7848
      @phoenixtehrani7848 Год назад +4

      I caught that too. She's wrong and strong about the nonsense she started.

  • @celebritney22
    @celebritney22 Год назад +34

    SINGLE MOTHER SYNDROM. Your child is NOT your bf smdh

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +5

      Anytime a man or woman puts their mother before their spouse, it’s a wrap

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty Год назад +3

      Not at all I’m a single mother, don’t put me in that box.

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад

      @@Tony-lm5zsNot just mother but parent period

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Год назад +5

      ​@@Ash2beautyBut it's OK for you to put men in a box? MORE HYPOCRISY 😂

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 Год назад

      I've never in my life met a single mother who thinks this way.

  • @Go-Getter
    @Go-Getter Год назад +20

    That's that down south ish. Women be calling their son's "noot noot, peanut, man man, boyfriend, doodabutt, and Quan. And the kid is 100% guaranteed to be bad as hell.

    • @dacallins0884
      @dacallins0884 Год назад +11

      Don't put this on us. This is Louisiana's problem.

    • @tanjic458
      @tanjic458 Год назад +1

      😂 I wasn't aware

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 Год назад

      Lies! Just as RoddsCorner said, W. Virginia is the state that people joke about most when it comes to incest. Don’t try to paint an entire region with that nasty-@$$ brush. 😂

    • @fmfdocbotl4358
      @fmfdocbotl4358 Год назад

      ​@RoddsCornerit's straight Bama

  • @MrBlackraven2488
    @MrBlackraven2488 Год назад +11

    She asking every other man to have these damn requirements but she sleeping with a maam that’s sleeping with his baby mama and living with her. Can’t make this shit up

  • @teezyfbaby252
    @teezyfbaby252 Год назад +14

    When are the guest going to realize that admitting to having sex within the last 24hrs makes you look extremely dirty giving the fact you’re on here looking for someone to date.

    • @tezsgino
      @tezsgino Год назад +1

      Exactly! Especially when Kendra gives the opportunity to decline to answer. Plead the Fifth!!!

    • @dorathehoora4527
      @dorathehoora4527 Год назад

      It's always better to be truthful, only God can judge.

    • @RemIsNice
      @RemIsNice Год назад +1

      Automatic pass. If I were single, I'd need a 90 day rule and a clean bill of health. Y'all got Houston and Atlanta on 🔥.

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 Год назад

      ​@RemIsNice now you know most folk lack self control and self awareness. 90 days? Lol.

  • @OnanX501
    @OnanX501 Год назад +28

    Who in God's name refers to their son as "boyfriend"?

  • @4C_Energy
    @4C_Energy Год назад +26

    OMG NO SHE DIDN'T SAY HER CREDIT SCORE WAS ALMOST IN THE 600'S LMAO GIRL YO CREDIT IS TERRIBLE

  • @ExTRAErrestrial_Travels
    @ExTRAErrestrial_Travels Год назад +7

    Son Husband. I hope that young man turns out ok and is able to have a relationship in the future. You know how those types of moms are. Son gotta fill the spot of the man she can’t get. Gonna run off all his women

  • @tefnut93
    @tefnut93 Год назад +8

    She said 15k in the bank and a credit score in the 600s 😂😂😂. She want a hood drug dealer

  • @smoove3762
    @smoove3762 Год назад +16

    Nobody in their right mind signing up for that 💩

  • @charlesedward5216
    @charlesedward5216 Год назад +30

    The idea of son/boyfriends and son/husbands is sick. Chest tattoos.

    • @breal1266
      @breal1266 Год назад

      It happens a lot..she just admitted it

  • @wowbeautysalonstudio210
    @wowbeautysalonstudio210 Год назад +22

    Between her crazy dialogue and calling her son-her boyfriend/her man and a man taking away her options she’s going to stay in a cycle of mess. SMH

    • @koolsmoothfan
      @koolsmoothfan Год назад

      yeah, no man of value will take her serious

  • @4C_Energy
    @4C_Energy Год назад +18

    Omg calling a son a boyfriend. I've been hearing that term "son husband" I never really understood that until I heard this BS here. A child needs the love , nurturing, and care of the mother but that cannot be compared to a romantic relationship.

    • @Jazzy-mt3ht
      @Jazzy-mt3ht Год назад +2

      You can't tell some perverted women that.

  • @lovelo408
    @lovelo408 Год назад +88

    I don’t even know how those words rolled right off her tongue so smooth and easy 😳
    NOT being elated that your credit score is 600 and proud of it 😂

    • @simplyMrs.
      @simplyMrs. Год назад

      Right

    • @andreamoore7002
      @andreamoore7002 Год назад

      This world consists of so many and different types of people. There's no way you think everybody is going to be like you... sheesh.. it is what it is.

    • @_Lisa_444
      @_Lisa_444 Год назад +1

      Almost 600 😬

  • @bernardtalbert6729
    @bernardtalbert6729 Год назад +8

    In the manosphere they call them "son-husbands". Sons that single moms treat like a husband. She will make his gf/wife miserable.

  • @NoName-nj4mw
    @NoName-nj4mw Год назад +8

    I have son's and I can't STAND when women try to make their son's take the place of a boyfriend! That boy is not responsible for you. Let him grow up normally. No ma'am, we don't know what you are saying. She got mad at Kendra but she doesn't realize that her comment turned off every man before she even really started the interview.

  • @RM-po5pn
    @RM-po5pn Год назад +11

    Fellas, be taller than average, have money in the bank, have good credit, and this can be your prize… a pudgy baby momma with bad credit who’s fcking randos.
    Lucky you. 🥰

  • @KingAtheist
    @KingAtheist Год назад +12

    She's so lonely that she calls her son her boyfriend. This is the beginning stages of a mother-son relationship. She will have so much control over his life that she will get jealous if he get a girl/boy friend. Her Insecurities, postpartum and clinical depression will make it so that she stays co dependent of her son. This will definitely have an affect on his mental health as this can be manipulative. She's an ultra red flag for anyone.

  • @officialbrothernu
    @officialbrothernu Год назад +14

    Her low high standards 😂😂😂😂

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life Год назад

      🤣 That part! Mostly her standards for herself. Her credit score is ALMOST 600, she said, she needs to stop spending money she doesn’t have, yet she’s catching flights. Yet she want’s a man to have fair credit with 15K disposable income, because we’re to believe she has that. Like, Sis if you have that at hand, please pay someone to fix your credit and someone else to fix your mother/son relationship 🥴

    • @Sistagirltay
      @Sistagirltay Год назад

      Lololol good one

  • @jayyy5852
    @jayyy5852 Год назад +4

    “ o got my own store, I’m a manager at family dollar “ lol huh ?

  • @tmston2
    @tmston2 Год назад +6

    honestly she jus actually articulated the way alot of single mothers living. thats why many of these young dudes jacked up in the head

  • @TwistedTechGeek
    @TwistedTechGeek Год назад +21

    Ruuuunnnnn! Save yourself! Her poor kid does not have a chance. Feel for him. She told on herself big time, we know her whole past and experiences.

  • @RockyMaiviaMiami
    @RockyMaiviaMiami Год назад +54

    Women: there’s no *real* men out here
    Also women: no mamas boys
    Also women: *raises a son-husband*

  • @IWantMyVisionBack
    @IWantMyVisionBack Год назад +11

    Her son and the real bf gonna be competing.
    I bet you no man would be able to tell her son anything.

    • @maggien222
      @maggien222 Год назад +2

      A dv situation waiting to happen. 😮

  • @DB-vt1kk
    @DB-vt1kk Год назад +11

    I don’t like the calling your son your boyfriend or saying “he is the man of the house” that is a lot to put on a little boy. 😢

  • @c.k.4883
    @c.k.4883 Год назад +59

    I would NEVER call my daughter my "girlfriend" and I would shut that sh*t down if my mother EVER called me her "boyfriend." That bs aside, she was actually pretty funny. But them requirements though? She gots to pump the brakes on the 6'2" thing cause most guys that height probably aren't even gonna look her way since they're already highly sought after. Everything else is pretty reasonable imo

    • @noseyandneutral
      @noseyandneutral Год назад

      I hate that she made me laugh especially after the boyfriend comment

  • @blackandarmedfamily4905
    @blackandarmedfamily4905 Год назад +6

    Did shawty just give us a whole credit requirement and say “I’m almost at 600s” 😂😂😂 t

  • @dlebb8322
    @dlebb8322 Год назад +7

    Wowww, what are bargain! What man can scroll past this wonderful catch!!!! Thanks again Kendra!!!

  • @TravelerShaun
    @TravelerShaun Год назад +49

    She said the truth out loud about her situation....KS talked about women raising son husbands. Women be upset about the dating market but don't want to admit they are the ones raising the men the women don't like. About 70% of black children are born to unwed women. Kendra number 1 demographic is single moms and the majority of them say the father is not involved.

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад +11

      Why aren’t the men around raising their children. Why are the “most involved fathers” absent?

    • @TravelerShaun
      @TravelerShaun Год назад

      @vegannn7178 because the women are choosing to have sex with men that don't want to be fathers, men that don't want relationships, men who refuse to be with one woman, men they don't even know..etc. there is also a stat out there that shows that around 20% of the men are having all the babies with the single women. Just like in this clip, the woman said she is sleeping with a man that currently lives with his baby mama bc the D is good.

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Год назад +9

      ​@@vegannn7178We won't know the truth cause most of those women won't tell it. It's not like other women don't know how many of them are. There's a reason why "BABY MAMA DRAMA" is the top reason that women don't like dealing with men with kids.

    • @Magnolia3720Slim
      @Magnolia3720Slim Год назад +11

      ​@vegannn7178 because she was giving out samples and just happened to get pregnant by a man that didn't want her or the baby. She should have chosen someone better to give a sample to

    • @amilllion1
      @amilllion1 Год назад +9

      The dads are definitely responsible too!

  • @eg3550
    @eg3550 Год назад +3

    Chicks working at dollar general even got high standards lol

  • @djymbelpow
    @djymbelpow Год назад +11

    calling your son husband..🤮

  • @phoenixtehrani7848
    @phoenixtehrani7848 Год назад +10

    Not only did she call her son her boyfriend but he's also hollering at her like one too - at 7 years old.

  • @Kharris2368
    @Kharris2368 Год назад +16

    Single life aint looking so bad right now. 🤣

  • @jdgdd2ad
    @jdgdd2ad Год назад +20

    Truly amazing that a lot of women like this have so many requirements. The Bible did say in the last days there will be a strong DELUSION.

    • @Monroestevens306
      @Monroestevens306 Год назад

      And all of the delusional women are always talking about god, the church, prayers, and the Bible.. 😅

  • @vegannn7178
    @vegannn7178 Год назад +3

    When she said “moving forward” you should’ve ended the call so hopefully she would do some self reflection on why you did so

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 Год назад +1

      Yep, I know I would’ve. Kendra has been extra patient lately.

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Год назад

      @@NubianP6 Yup, and patience is not always a good thing to have. Case and point

  • @kishaquiller505
    @kishaquiller505 Год назад +5

    She is still letting a man hit that is living with his baby mama?? Her excuse is the sex is good but she doesn’t want him. The next man should move with caution because how he don’t know you won’t continue to let that man smash. This isn’t ideal situation for a man to go into. I would be very cautious dealing with her as a new man talking to her. She doesn’t even see anything wrong with messing with a man who lives with his baby mama and on a dating show the next day

  • @TheSoCalledAngryBlackMan
    @TheSoCalledAngryBlackMan Год назад +3

    Can someone please, please 🙏 explain to me how these overweight babymama's (which this one creepily called her son, her boyfriend), have these loooong list of requirements that men gotta have before they think about speaking with you.
    Sounds like all she's dealt with are jailbirds.

  • @Tony-lm5zs
    @Tony-lm5zs Год назад +5

    Clearly she is for the streets and many bw in the comments agree.

  • @DeepBreathingMeditation
    @DeepBreathingMeditation Год назад +37

    8:00 Ladies when you admit to a man that you willingly played or is playing the side chick, that diminishes your value to a potential man. You can expect to get treated as such by the next guy😒

    • @breal1266
      @breal1266 Год назад +2

      Let them keep admitting who they really are

  • @4C_Energy
    @4C_Energy Год назад +11

    Good luck to whoever sign up for that

  • @86sthet
    @86sthet Год назад +4

    There's so many women that's so unfit to be in a relationship...

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 Год назад

      And unfit to be mothers!!! Why on earth would a mother refer to her son as her boyfriend 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @rmartin1500
    @rmartin1500 Год назад +10

    The making of a “Sons-Band” (Son/Husband) at only 7 years old. Sad! Utterly pathetic!! She’s the type that will run off and prospective partners in her sons life due to desperation and selfishness. My heart goes out to her son.

  • @juniorgordon3723
    @juniorgordon3723 Год назад +5

    What man in his sane mind would want to deal with this situation

  • @NightRidah777
    @NightRidah777 Год назад +3

    "They know what I'm sayin'"
    Ma'am, we do not know what you're saying.

  • @andreamoore7002
    @andreamoore7002 Год назад +8

    Kendra, I know you get tired of hearing them say the same thing. If you push the freaking button, it's a chance you may be chosen.

    • @VolleyballAddict521
      @VolleyballAddict521 Год назад +1

      This irritates me the most.. “I didn’t know you would pick meeee” 🙄😂 liiikkee

  • @DFoyHutchins
    @DFoyHutchins Год назад +4

    The man she sleeps with lives with his child’s mother. But her new man has to have 15k in savings. The effrontery.

  • @prettiilexii672
    @prettiilexii672 Год назад +5

    She needs help, because no one refer to kids as a relationship!

  • @SHES5543
    @SHES5543 Год назад +5

    She's still dealing with past relationship/situationship trauma. Did I hear her say she's interested in a man 28-62?

  • @marcusyoung2081
    @marcusyoung2081 Год назад +6

    Her: "You have to have at least $15,000 in the bank"
    Also her: "I need to learn how to stop spending money I ain't got"
    Me: 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @waltsiklo8123
    @waltsiklo8123 Год назад +10

    This and countless other examples of women and men too, actually shows how bad “our” community is down bad when it comes to relationships. This is disheartening…

  • @zenabeme22
    @zenabeme22 Год назад +1

    The fact she calls her son her boyfriend is a huge RED FLAG. Imagine if Father called his daughter his Girlfriend. 🙄

  • @yaoilovefan1
    @yaoilovefan1 Год назад +3

    Her flaw is spending money she ain't got... So are you telling me you don't have 15k saved in the bank 🤔

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz Год назад +3

    Rude and thinks her son is her man. Managing a family dollar is not the same as “having my own store.” Kendra should’ve hung up on her when she said “moving on” after Kendra started asking questions about that “boyfriend” tomfoolery

  • @kalaklah4848
    @kalaklah4848 Год назад +5

    Emotional incest often takes place when a parent lacks or has lost their own emotional support system, including their partner or spouse. If you grew up in an enmeshed relationship with a parent, you might be familiar with the mental health impacts it can cause. The can include: Addictions or compulsive behaviors involving substances, food, or sex, Disconnection from your own needs, Trouble with intimacy, or vulnerability in adult relationships, Anxiety, Depression, Complex trauma (C-PTSD), Dissatisfaction with life, Difficulty separating from parents in adulthood, Trouble establishing your own identity outside of the parent-child relationship.

    • @l.t.3857
      @l.t.3857 Год назад +1

      This is so sad… poor kids. My little nephew feels responsible for his childish parents’ behaviors. He feels that he has to cover and make excuses for them. I have to constantly remind him that he is only a child, and is not responsible for himself and his siblings.

  • @Roccofan
    @Roccofan Год назад +13

    Credit scores tell you a LOT about a person. A whole lot.

    • @superkalafragilistic8289
      @superkalafragilistic8289 Год назад +2

      Yes but wait til the social credit scores goes in effect. Your credit will be based on everything and anything you purchase, how you act in public and in private. That will def change the game. Central Banking System and tracking soon come. Lets see how that goes

    • @annab3698
      @annab3698 Год назад

      @@superkalafragilistic8289 Where did you hear this?

    • @l.t.3857
      @l.t.3857 Год назад

      @sammajor2075 They already use social credit scores in China. When I first heard it, I thought it was a conspiracy theory, but I did my own research. There is usually at least a little bit of truth to most conspiracy theories. Some Chinese people aren’t allowed to leave the country because of their poor social credit scores, which is based on their behaviors in social settings, etc. I don’t think that would fly in America, but who really knows??

    • @Monroestevens306
      @Monroestevens306 Год назад

      @@annab3698 That’s just the plot of an episode of Black Mirror.

  • @muchaluchagigante6318
    @muchaluchagigante6318 Год назад +11

    No. No no no HELL NAW. This dizzy broad is nuts.

  • @KWin-ik5cl
    @KWin-ik5cl Год назад +2

    “My son, my man, my boyfriend”. You meant what you said lady and you are in the process of ruining him. I heard the exchange between you two and you talk to him like he your dude. That’s a hard NO

  • @JanelleSpeaks
    @JanelleSpeaks Год назад +8

    😶 my face when I read the title. Girl that is out if line. Wtf. Hes not your man. Well we know he doesn't have to be single for her.

  • @bboss7874
    @bboss7874 Год назад +3

    I know us Men be lying, but some Women are on another level. What did she say, "I have my own store, i'm a A store manager," all in the same sentence.🤔🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 Год назад +1

      I caught that too. Here I was thinking that she was a franchisee or something. 😂

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Год назад +1

      I prepped that too. Like what?

  • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
    @loyalandkindsunshine3382 Год назад +12

    The reason these modern men don't care about marriage is because they have their Wife-mother.

    • @Jazzy-mt3ht
      @Jazzy-mt3ht Год назад +3

      Exactly. The new woman has to compete with his mother and that's not right. The girlfriend or wife should be number one.

    • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
      @loyalandkindsunshine3382 Год назад +1

      @@Jazzy-mt3ht It should no longer matter to us and we really need to stop arguing with them. Most of the men want TOP/Bottom or non black women anyways.

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Год назад

      You mean like the GF mother on this video? 😂

    • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
      @loyalandkindsunshine3382 Год назад +1

      @@kevinlee9929 Yes. The woman on this video is exactly like the women I just described.

    • @6ft130k
      @6ft130k Год назад +1

      80% of children in our community are raised by single mothers 😅

  • @Natalia-hf3et
    @Natalia-hf3et Год назад +42

    Calling your son your ‘man’ or ‘boyfriend’ is kinda odd. I fully understand the love between a mother and son BUT, there are certain boundaries and language that cannot be crossed or used. I’m almost positive that she didn’t expect the pushback from Kendra about her choice of words and thought it’d go over well.
    OK, I’m at 7:45 and WHAT?! I wish she would have kept that information to herself. You’re sleeping with someone that YOU DON’T want?

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et Год назад

      @@dee27206 full on odd

    • @Maui_Gyrl_
      @Maui_Gyrl_ Год назад +1

      I think that's what she meant, that she loves her son. I don't think she meant it in the way y'all are taking it. But it does sound weird calling her son her boyfriend.

    • @chrisrowe4595
      @chrisrowe4595 Год назад

      And he doesn’t want her.

    • @patsajak7809
      @patsajak7809 Год назад

      ​@@Maui_Gyrl_I hope she just didn't know how to clearly explain why she calls him that because it came across weird. We call my daughter's kids her shadows. But thats it

  • @TheBlackGeo
    @TheBlackGeo Год назад +26

    Imagine a man who doesn't have kids, over there hearing her son yell every minute "Maaaaa" 😂

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ Год назад +1

      Yep and he’s going to question and challenge every man she brings around. He won’t accept anyone trying to date his mama and she will do the same for any woman he tries to date when he’s older

    • @TheBlackGeo
      @TheBlackGeo Год назад

      @@JasmineJ_ the cycle continues