My heart is so broken. Alhumdullilah that I’m no longer in a disgusting haram relationship. Brothers and sisters pray that we are reunited in a halal way if there is goodness. I truly do love him but I can’t displease Allah swt.
Akhi I can’t tell if your a guy or girl but my bro if your a male trust me hitting the gym works like a charm, after doing some monstrous workouts at the gym 1 week after my haram relationship ended I felt reborn and stopped caring, but if your a female sister trust me praying to Allah making dua to Allah is literally medicine for you, trust me on this one ❤
Allah is the key to Paradise… Non Halal relationship is like pleasing the devil! Been there and it’s very very toxic ! Thank goodness I turn my pleasing to Allah only!!🙌💯🙏
May Allah heal you. May Allah protect you from haraam and bless you with a beautiful halal relationship with the best person. May Allah brings you closer to deen and make everything easy for you.
Same can be said for brothers, don't let these trash girls into your life that chase validation. In alot of cases, girls are the ones starting these haram relationships by feeding men's desires and they know what they are doing. They aren't the victims, they are human too and can think for themselves.
We did a haram relationship for 2 years. In these 2 Years, we talked a lot about marrying. After we came closer to Allah, we realized what we were doing. I always thought, I'm going to mary her after I finished my exams, so I can provide for her. But that was also wrong. After this Ramadan I truly wanted to go to her Father and Mary her. But she did not, she did not wanted to Mary me anymore, becouse she said she is not ready anymore, becouse of her feelings, so she left me. I truly believe, that this is my Part of the punishment and only Allah knows what she is going trough. My deer brothers and sisters, don't make these mistakes, believe in Allah and don't do haram relationships. Assalamu Alaikum.
Spot on!!!! Ya Allah protect our children from all forms of haram. Ameen. The time's we're living is like holding on to our children with all our might to stop them from falling down, down, and down into the clasp of the Shaythan. So worried ya Rahman. Jazak Allahu khairan
This is totally true and what the brother said Rasulilah SAW said it's forbidden to be forced it's true . Someone said Islam has over 50% devorce..really ......devorce is high all over ..and generally when in Islam there is devorce it is because someone did something not allowed by Islam ...that causes devorce ...and then everything.. is all Allah's SWTAs plan . Bear beautiful Patience ... Alghumdulillah.. from Rhoda from Cape Town South Africa
people gotta understand that shaytan uses "love" as an instrument to trap innocent or ignorant people. when you have knowledge and faith in the perfect plan of Allah, shaytan cannot get you cause you know this is not love but lust and soon both man and woman will get lost we have to fear Allah cause if someone "loves" you at the point that person could desobey Allah it's possibly considered as minor shirk so may Allah forgive us and guide us. knowledge is power my brothers and sisters use it in-shâ-Allah.
I see all these videos with scholars talking as if sisters are the victims of haram relationships and sisters only and they only happen because men cant control themselves. A haram relationship involves 2 people, females are not another species who cant think for themselves. What if the guy is the one being used in a haram way by the girl, getting chased by her to college for example for zina. Getting manipulated by her into thinking that what is happening is okay when its not. Astaghfirullah. Sisters please dont play the victim card in these haram relationships and then go on social media after your man leaves you because of deen and start posting things about haram relationships and guys who are not on deen when you were the ones instigating it. A mans weakness is a woman who feeds his desires, so dont feed them. A guy will not talk to you if you have a strong iman ane refuse to talk to him. In a lot of cases, the sisters are the ones who start these haram relationships, so to put all the blame on to men and make woman seem as the victim is not right. Its a joint effort and a mistake made by both people.
Im christian when ieet him in my Facebook account and that time im separated from my ex husband cuz financially we dont have extra money for divorce...until i meet my boyfriend from Facebook he ask me for love or to love him and i trust him and i tell him the truth i said to him im married and separated not totally divorce and i have kids and he said he accept me who i am ...and he promised me before to marry me until my relationship with him xone longer in 3yrs from 2021to2024...and this year 2024 he decided to marry the girl from his country 😭hes indian muslim😭 i cant prepare this situation im broken hearted now every night i cry .....i ask to him why you didn't leave me last 2023 why you continue our relationship if you have plan to marry other girl and not me😭😭😭😭😭😭and i always pray my haram relationship with him turn into halal i didn't give up my prayer for him i want him i cant live my life with out him ...3yrs in relationships with him is isn't joke😭😭😭pls pray for me my dearest brother and sister here in islam😭😭😭😭i dont know now what should i do???!😭😭😭😭im converted last 2022....and i love islam and I always listen the all good motivation in life like this vedios 😭😭😭
Ya ikhwan… take this as a lesson cause it may be a blessing in disguise….use this time ur in pain and anger to truly turn back to Allah and Allah will give u more thank what u asked for…..Allah said if a servant comes to me walkinh I’ll go them running….Wallahy am telling u this try reading the quruan and understanding it u’ll feel a type of peace u’ve never felt before….and always remember indeed allah is with the patient one and always try to pray qiyamul al layl and report ur pain and sufferings only to allah cause indeed he is all knowing….May allah guide us to the right path
For my fiancée I went to her mom and grandpa because she doesn’t have a dad. I don’t think that people respect that people love the woman they are interested in.
So tired of sisters nowadays always falling for these flirty brothers. The brother who asks for her via family is looked down upon by most sisters because he doesnt have "the guts to ask himself"... So sad SubehanAllah
The girl who refuses a guy she likes to speak to her dad, ain't serious and just wants to keep you around for a haram relationship and then breakup with you when her family decides to go umrah next.
I'm sorry you and your family had to experience that hugely difficult time but I'm sure there were greater reasons for why that happened. One of them being that you eventually were blessed with someone meant to be with you in a good way. May Allah bless your marriage and give you and your family Jannah. Ameen. Thank you for sharing.
What about those who are in a haram relationship and have children involved? 😢 in this day and age, people get together and have children, and families, and never marry…. It’s essential to stay together for the kids, but what can one do when the relationship is haram & displeasing to Allah?
Do you mean that the girl tells her father , " I don't wanna marry him" , then the father can't force her , it's forbidden, the marriage(nikkah) in invallide in the eyes of Allah
I saw a man in Instagram a man which i found suitable for me and I texted him proposing the idea of marriage and he is interested, is that wrong? We are not dating please someone answer
In a lot of muslim communities divorce rate is 50% or higher people are married multiple times At this point there is no difference between marriage and not being married it’s all the same at that point
Father? Why I don't want to go to her father I am not woman to marry her father what the f. And you marry girl you don't know nothing about and marrying her is stupid and naive. Dating is perfect for marriage to make sure who and what is person you fall in love. Dating the bf gf realtionship are not sin nothing wrong sex before marriage if two persons love eachothers no matter they are married or not it doesn't matter at all. Only love matters.
@@wilfyboy45 everyone I know that has had a proper Islamic marriage has a real life and are actually happy. Muslims are the happiest people I have met in my life and they are also the most giving and welcoming 🤷♂️
Some pretty ridiculous generalities here. Oh he's going to hurt you if... No man is good. Not even one. Hurt is a reality you can't always escape. It's even necessary sometimes. The guru relationship advice nonsense is silly.
@@yusufahmed1993 I'm a married man with children. God commands us to not engage in adultery. I hate adultery because God hates adultery. Projecting snarky assumptions is an effeminate personality trait. What I mean by that is that that's the way emotionally charged women tend to argue. Wouldn't you agree? Is this how you hoped our dialogue would go? It's a result of your passive aggressive attempt to insult me. Have a great day!
@@yusufahmed1993 You didn't read my comment carefully enough. I was very specific so if you read it again you should see more clearly. The man said if you don't he will hurt you. I'm saying that's going to happen whether or not you go to their father first. Because she is rebellious and he is not perfect. Proceduralism does not cure sin. Jesus defeated sin on the cross so that we might have everlasting life. The rules are there to teach you how far from God's righteousness you and I are, and to prove the power of the Holy Spirit when suddenly things change in our lives when we repent of our sin and put our faith in Christ alone. There is no other way to be eternally redeemed of our wrongdoing so we can live eternally in the presence of God. The alternative is to be cast away out of God's presence for eternity for our pride and arogance.
@@thedogrunner so you are Christians. I understand you're trying to give your perspective but the precondition for marriage in Islam is to seek the father's consent. In Islam there is no such thing as dating and long term relationship
My heart is so broken. Alhumdullilah that I’m no longer in a disgusting haram relationship. Brothers and sisters pray that we are reunited in a halal way if there is goodness. I truly do love him but I can’t displease Allah swt.
May Allah raise u high in ranks
Akhi I can’t tell if your a guy or girl but my bro if your a male trust me hitting the gym works like a charm, after doing some monstrous workouts at the gym 1 week after my haram relationship ended I felt reborn and stopped caring, but if your a female sister trust me praying to Allah making dua to Allah is literally medicine for you, trust me on this one ❤
MashaAllah big step. Good decision
Allah is the key to Paradise…
Non Halal relationship is like pleasing the devil!
Been there and it’s very very toxic !
Thank goodness I turn my pleasing to Allah only!!🙌💯🙏
Mashaallah may Allah help uh
I wish more people understood this
I wish this pain would go away. May Allah protect all our sisters in Islam from this. AMIN🤲🏻 😭💔
May Allah heal you. May Allah protect you from haraam and bless you with a beautiful halal relationship with the best person. May Allah brings you closer to deen and make everything easy for you.
Ameen
May Allah protect us and our families
My dear sisters, this is 100% true. Please don't waste time and self inflict harm by allowing these trash boys into your hearts and life.
Same can be said for brothers, don't let these trash girls into your life that chase validation. In alot of cases, girls are the ones starting these haram relationships by feeding men's desires and they know what they are doing. They aren't the victims, they are human too and can think for themselves.
We did a haram relationship for 2 years. In these 2 Years, we talked a lot about marrying. After we came closer to Allah, we realized what we were doing. I always thought, I'm going to mary her after I finished my exams, so I can provide for her. But that was also wrong. After this Ramadan I truly wanted to go to her Father and Mary her. But she did not, she did not wanted to Mary me anymore, becouse she said she is not ready anymore, becouse of her feelings, so she left me. I truly believe, that this is my Part of the punishment and only Allah knows what she is going trough. My deer brothers and sisters, don't make these mistakes, believe in Allah and don't do haram relationships.
Assalamu Alaikum.
My brother, do u think it's wrong for a girl to approach a man for marriage? Or the man won't take her seriously?
@@honeybee3579 What do you mean?
@@ky_439. Like for example I say to a man are you interested in marriage, what would a man think of that??
@@honeybee3579 I don't get your point, I (the man) wanted to marry her, what is wrong with that?
@@ky_439. I'm talking about myself and asking your opinion as a man and I'm a woman
And Every Father Should Have Understanding 🙂✨
💔😭🤲🤲True ya Allah save me harak relationship i leave ... Ameen summa aameen ya Allah give me hidayat Ameen summa aameen
That what I recently tell my sister🙂
BarakAllah u did great ✨
Spot on!!!! Ya Allah protect our children from all forms of haram. Ameen. The time's we're living is like holding on to our children with all our might to stop them from falling down, down, and down into the clasp of the Shaythan. So worried ya Rahman.
Jazak Allahu khairan
Very painful. May Allah(S.W.T.) protect our sisters from this.
Everyone should understand this the same way ❤️❤️❤️
This is totally true and what the brother said Rasulilah SAW said it's forbidden to be forced it's true . Someone said Islam has over 50% devorce..really ......devorce is high all over ..and generally when in Islam there is devorce it is because someone did something not allowed by Islam ...that causes devorce ...and then everything.. is all Allah's SWTAs plan . Bear beautiful Patience ... Alghumdulillah.. from Rhoda from Cape Town South Africa
Today i blocked him and i told him "fi amanillah"
Same with me. I left her and these were the last words I told her -. Fi'amanillah
@@azhar1777 same I'm gonna do with him now ..🙂
°JAZAKALLAH KHAIR FOR SHARING💯
I learned that last statement the hard way😢😢
I can understand his words from bottom of my heart
Exactly 😢😢
°ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING💯
@unique5413 Yes but we have to still be nice maybe they are misguided ❤❤❤
Salam , there is also a saying who you break the rules for will break you
May allah bless you these words u said saved me and her
Ameen
Mashallah, Baraka Allahu feek❤
Alhamdulillah for everything
people gotta understand that shaytan uses "love" as an instrument to trap innocent or ignorant people. when you have knowledge and faith in the perfect plan of Allah, shaytan cannot get you cause you know this is not love but lust and soon both man and woman will get lost
we have to fear Allah cause if someone "loves" you at the point that person could desobey Allah it's possibly considered as minor shirk so may Allah forgive us and guide us.
knowledge is power my brothers and sisters use it in-shâ-Allah.
ماشاءالله
Alhamduiallah. To be honest. Exactly what you said happened to me. Everything
Couldnt be more true
Yes! He is not going to creep through the window he’s going to knock at the front door!
Allahu Akbar 😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😍😍😘😍😘😍😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
Jazak Allahu hu khair! 🩷
Exactly i just wasted my emotions on wrong person..now he blaming me for everything..
Thank you brother
I see all these videos with scholars talking as if sisters are the victims of haram relationships and sisters only and they only happen because men cant control themselves. A haram relationship involves 2 people, females are not another species who cant think for themselves. What if the guy is the one being used in a haram way by the girl, getting chased by her to college for example for zina. Getting manipulated by her into thinking that what is happening is okay when its not. Astaghfirullah. Sisters please dont play the victim card in these haram relationships and then go on social media after your man leaves you because of deen and start posting things about haram relationships and guys who are not on deen when you were the ones instigating it. A mans weakness is a woman who feeds his desires, so dont feed them. A guy will not talk to you if you have a strong iman ane refuse to talk to him. In a lot of cases, the sisters are the ones who start these haram relationships, so to put all the blame on to men and make woman seem as the victim is not right. Its a joint effort and a mistake made by both people.
Kindly share your Mpesa Number so that we can greet you😂 You nailed it!
No , Wallahi Im serous 😔❤
So true my brother
It depends. Every situation is not the same. We generalize to much.
SubhanaAllah very true
Thank you. Father
I was do this same , girl patents said we don't because we choose another one Who's rich more than you.
Allah Allahuakbar
May Allah bless me with a wonderful wife inch'Allah ❤️🤲🏻
Im christian when ieet him in my Facebook account and that time im separated from my ex husband cuz financially we dont have extra money for divorce...until i meet my boyfriend from Facebook he ask me for love or to love him and i trust him and i tell him the truth i said to him im married and separated not totally divorce and i have kids and he said he accept me who i am ...and he promised me before to marry me until my relationship with him xone longer in 3yrs from 2021to2024...and this year 2024 he decided to marry the girl from his country 😭hes indian muslim😭 i cant prepare this situation im broken hearted now every night i cry .....i ask to him why you didn't leave me last 2023 why you continue our relationship if you have plan to marry other girl and not me😭😭😭😭😭😭and i always pray my haram relationship with him turn into halal i didn't give up my prayer for him i want him i cant live my life with out him ...3yrs in relationships with him is isn't joke😭😭😭pls pray for me my dearest brother and sister here in islam😭😭😭😭i dont know now what should i do???!😭😭😭😭im converted last 2022....and i love islam and I always listen the all good motivation in life like this vedios 😭😭😭
Ya ikhwan… take this as a lesson cause it may be a blessing in disguise….use this time ur in pain and anger to truly turn back to Allah and Allah will give u more thank what u asked for…..Allah said if a servant comes to me walkinh I’ll go them running….Wallahy am telling u this try reading the quruan and understanding it u’ll feel a type of peace u’ve never felt before….and always remember indeed allah is with the patient one and always try to pray qiyamul al layl and report ur pain and sufferings only to allah cause indeed he is all knowing….May allah guide us to the right path
YA RAABII 😭🤍❤️
they go to my father, and my father rejects all of them.
Romantic love is evil, it is a poison seed of the devil sowed into the the hearts of men to tear it apart.
For my fiancée I went to her mom and grandpa because she doesn’t have a dad. I don’t think that people respect that people love the woman they are interested in.
We are living in such times that I kid you not they would do that and then treat you like shit . You cannot trust anyone
'1000 hijabi singles in your area want to marry you' ahh moment 💀
True. It will end up bad
You right
Astagfirullah ❤
❤❤❤
Beshak
Same as religion 😢
😂very true
💔💯
SubhanAllah true
So tired of sisters nowadays always falling for these flirty brothers. The brother who asks for her via family is looked down upon by most sisters because he doesnt have "the guts to ask himself"... So sad SubehanAllah
The girl who refuses a guy she likes to speak to her dad, ain't serious and just wants to keep you around for a haram relationship and then breakup with you when her family decides to go umrah next.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh
The man who went straight to my father was the worst marriage of my life. The man I picked is my true partner.
I'm sorry you and your family had to experience that hugely difficult time but I'm sure there were greater reasons for why that happened. One of them being that you eventually were blessed with someone meant to be with you in a good way. May Allah bless your marriage and give you and your family Jannah. Ameen. Thank you for sharing.
Subhanallah
what if she has no one?
💔🥺😭
I'm sad seeing my close friend got into haram relationship. I don't know what is he thinking.
True
Where is the full video
Someone give me link of full video
Now if you don't have a father he can go to my mom
😂 I went and talked to the father but the father declined 😊...
😂 Not getting married is better I guess?
What about those who are in a haram relationship and have children involved? 😢 in this day and age, people get together and have children, and families, and never marry…. It’s essential to stay together for the kids, but what can one do when the relationship is haram & displeasing to Allah?
where can I listen to the full recording?
What if we are not in the same country
He’s gonna just ask her for mut’ah
Mut'ah is haram
THE EVIL IN YOU HAD COME OUT .... AND HENCE IT SHOWS HOW HYPOCRITE YOU ARE
@@mohammedalways358 it's allowed in the Quran. show me where in the Quran where the mut'ah was abrogated
@@jperez7893 prophet SAW abrogated it check: Sahih Muslim:3420,22,24,25,27,28,29,30..and international no. 1406,1407
@@peace_324 like i said, nowhere in the Quran was it abrogated. Hadiths are 250 years old fabricated hearsay.
What if the daughter says no to the father that she doesn't want to that man?
Do you mean that the girl tells her father , " I don't wanna marry him" , then the father can't force her , it's forbidden, the marriage(nikkah) in invallide in the eyes of Allah
@@evanbakr3787 yep. Then it's time to move on. There's no point at all if the girl is not interested.
Prophet Muhammad (saw) "said, "there's no compulsion in religion. Anything that is done forcefully is invalid and forbidden.
Indeed Islam allows you choose you partner of your choice , when both are agree go ahead but bf gf is haraam
What if she doesn’t have a father?
I saw a man in Instagram a man which i found suitable for me and I texted him proposing the idea of marriage and he is interested, is that wrong? We are not dating please someone answer
@@The.introvert-j2o we are not talking, we decided to do that... Wait until it's time for marriage
Pls where can i find the complete video
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
In a lot of muslim communities divorce rate is 50% or higher people are married multiple times At this point there is no difference between marriage and not being married it’s all the same at that point
Astagfirullah
Muhadira name please😊
I guess
🤎♾🥀🐾
So true ❤
❤️🩹
#THIS_IS_NOT_ALWAYS_RIGHT_
#MANY_FATHERS_MOTHERS_ARE_STUBBORN_ADAMANT_RUDE_ABUSIVE_
#AND_HENCE_ITS_NOT_ALWAYS_RIGHT
Dating is a joke
Father? Why I don't want to go to her father I am not woman to marry her father what the f. And you marry girl you don't know nothing about and marrying her is stupid and naive. Dating is perfect for marriage to make sure who and what is person you fall in love. Dating the bf gf realtionship are not sin nothing wrong sex before marriage if two persons love eachothers no matter they are married or not it doesn't matter at all. Only love matters.
The Sheikh is talking about the real muslim man , and i think you are not a muslim.
My god this is medieval stuff!
Look at the state of relationships in the west. This 'medieval' method works because it is the way God created us
@@jordanmorris2914 you think it works?????
@@wilfyboy45 everyone I know that has had a proper Islamic marriage has a real life and are actually happy. Muslims are the happiest people I have met in my life and they are also the most giving and welcoming 🤷♂️
@@jordanmorris2914 i would rather not live a lie!
@@wilfyboy45 then you better wake up soon! XD
Some pretty ridiculous generalities here. Oh he's going to hurt you if... No man is good. Not even one. Hurt is a reality you can't always escape. It's even necessary sometimes. The guru relationship advice nonsense is silly.
It seems you are one of those who rationalize secret illicit relationship
@@yusufahmed1993 I'm a married man with children. God commands us to not engage in adultery. I hate adultery because God hates adultery. Projecting snarky assumptions is an effeminate personality trait. What I mean by that is that that's the way emotionally charged women tend to argue. Wouldn't you agree? Is this how you hoped our dialogue would go? It's a result of your passive aggressive attempt to insult me. Have a great day!
@@thedogrunner then your previous statements should not project/manifest such meaning when mentioned about seeking the parents for daughters marriage.
@@yusufahmed1993 You didn't read my comment carefully enough. I was very specific so if you read it again you should see more clearly. The man said if you don't he will hurt you. I'm saying that's going to happen whether or not you go to their father first. Because she is rebellious and he is not perfect. Proceduralism does not cure sin. Jesus defeated sin on the cross so that we might have everlasting life. The rules are there to teach you how far from God's righteousness you and I are, and to prove the power of the Holy Spirit when suddenly things change in our lives when we repent of our sin and put our faith in Christ alone. There is no other way to be eternally redeemed of our wrongdoing so we can live eternally in the presence of God. The alternative is to be cast away out of God's presence for eternity for our pride and arogance.
@@thedogrunner so you are Christians. I understand you're trying to give your perspective but the precondition for marriage in Islam is to seek the father's consent. In Islam there is no such thing as dating and long term relationship
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