Okay but I was actually a great partner. Better than most guys these days. I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs, I don’t smoke or vape, I never even thought of cheating, I have a low body count, I don’t talk to female friends, I’m ambitious and motivated, I don’t play video games, I was very communicative, and I never lost control of my emotions. There are many more, but those are the biggest. I’m also getting my MBA and I go to the gym 6 days a week. Idk how she left me. Smh
Sorry, but I've given up on my ex. They dumped us. Look at their actions. They don't want us in their life. Why keep someone who doesn't want us? Have some self-respect and move on.
And you only have control of you & your life you can’t change anybody else”s actions & thoughts … They will do whatever they want to do … they put their life as number #1 priority...... I suggest you do the same
That’s true, but some of us still have faith that they will come back, but in the meantime, we need to look at what went wrong and work on ourselves and keep moving forward and think positive as if they will come back. All feelings change like the clouds in the sky.
@@ponokunishima1 Yes, I do admire you and applaud you for keeping that faith and hope but some of us have done well to move on as best we can for the sake of our families and own mental and physical wellbeing. I recently started dating a former Instagram Onlyfans model and, though she has her own mental health issues and trauma from her own ex, I'm helping her thru that and never giving up on her like my ex did with me. I volunteer at an animal shelter now and people give up on pitbulls and mastiffs bc of their appearance. They've suffered huge trauma from their former owners. It's not their fault they were bred like that. I'll never give up on them bc I do forgive and have a heart ❤
Can't blame her for believing that he had cheated... his behavior was real fishy. Unfortunately, I feel more empathy for the ex-girlfriend than for him... He needs to focus on himself and stop trying to prove whatsoever to his ex and work on himself for real. Also, I don't like that he's calling her out for being immature when she was the one helping him paying for his debts. Sounds ungrateful to me. Maybe he's projecting?
Just found out over the weekend that my ex had been seeing another guy at her work and that's why she broke up. She kept it hidden after she left until 7 months later so she could try and make everyone think it was a new relationship but his ex let everyone know the truth. This hurts
How did you discover this if you weren't checking her social media or keeping tabs on her somehow? I presume the breakup was apx a year ago, maybe more? This new information doesn't help you in any way nor does it change anything. You're still a year broken up. If it hurts that's probably because you have chosen to view her affair as a direct attack on you or a statement of your inadequacy etc. The most likely reason is simply that she met someone who was a better match. You don't have to feel shame or regret if you don't want to. You could see it as 'for the best' because you were spared months or years longer in a relationship with a mismatch.
Ouch mate! Going through the same thing myself. One of her girlfriends called & told me the truth 9 months after the breakup. Not sure if it makes it easier or harder to deal with to be honest.
@@assplundah It depends on how you feel about yourself really. Monogamy is not a natural instinct for us. It was conceived and defined and enforced by modern society. When a partner cheats it feels bad because we didn't expect it and it threatens change and abandonment which are scary and make us feel unsure about ourselves. The rest of the meaning we give to infidelity has more to do with wanting to control and own another human being and to protect our egos. One of the reasons why monogamy and marriage became so popular was because it effectively placed a chastity belt around the woman and reassured the men that they would not be unknowingly raising any child that isn't his own. It does help to understand the origins of these traditions and institutions because we put so much pressure on ourselves to comply with these society expectations and inflict sever pain and suffering on ourselves and others when we don't succeed. If you could find it to accept that your ex needed to follow her own path to pursue her happiness and that her actions were in no way a reflection on you as a person or make you any less of a man, you'd move on very quickly.
Sorry to hear that guy. It's been 2 years since she left now. She took almost everything but I've replaced it. Still try to avoid places I know she goes but I'm good now. Looking forward to something new and just working on me and my life now.
I still watch, and I plan to invest in myself enough to get the workbooks to continue to heal. I’ve been watching intently for eight months. I just want to be better. I hadn’t had an episode in awhile, I’ve been doing great in most every aspect… my new career is doing well… I’ve been on a good date, and I have another lined up with a pretty cool girl. I’m doing a marathon in two months. Everything unfolds for me that I manifest. But last night I broke.. I didn’t contact, but just taking the time to feel the suppressed emotions of how bad my heart still hurts when I give her the energy and the thought. When I remember the good times; I’m thankful, but now I’m without. I know I’ll make new ones, but I sometimes wish I would of appreciated the others so much more. I can’t bring myself to break no contact, because I need to prove something to myself, and being so closed is something I’ve never had to do so it’s exhausting. I think all I really want now is to know it wasn’t all for nothing. Closure maybe? If you believe in that sort of thing and I’m not sure I do. We stumble; we fall, we crawl, we bend, we break… but we get up. We keep going. We don’t quit.
I always think about that, if my ex girlfriend will miss the good times we had together and shared. I’m sure she will because we’ve been together for over 5 years and our love and connection was very strong! I still miss her and love her dearly! I still have faith that she’ll reach out and return to me.
This guy is bad news. He's stuck in his bad patterns and making excuses for them, lying to himself and to others. He needs serious therapy. She needs to stay away!
1 year of no contact coming up in a year. It was our anniversary day when we got to know each other. We did a trip to London and I took her to fancy restaurants and shopping. It's probably best to realize she's not coming back. I'll improve myself daily and keep on walking alone. Dating is not that much fun because it's such a buffet of men that women can choose from. It's gonna be just me time now.
@@sloanmagnum5009 we were together about 6 months. It was intense though. Covid happened and it was long distance. Doesn't see how that changes anything though. She's still not going back
@@cjthemvp123 Still no contact. I do think about her sometimes. I don't miss her or I wouldn't take her back. I just have to let go of the disappointment and forget her. Maybe that happens if I am long together with someone in the future but so far I've been single all this time
@@naadde Damn bro this is not good to hear, i thought mine was the love of my life. I still do, she dumped me on our anniversary 3 months ago and blocked me on everything :(
@@cjthemvp123 Sorry to hear. But if she's capable of such things, you dodged a bullet. She did you a favor. By time you learn to accept it and you will enjoy other women. The hard part is to let go of the disappointment and shock that these women can do these things.
4 months since my breakup and I’m still trying to get around the situation, when everything was going so well! Sure we had some arguments here and there, I still think it had to do with us being distant still from the pandemic and that her father is very controlling and has major anxiety and paranoid about her and her mother leaving him. Therefore, because we couldn’t see each other as much, I would sometimes lash out at her and say things that I didn’t really mean it.
I’m feeling so bad right now like I have no hope. I broke no contact yesterday but I couldn’t stop when I saw a ig story my ex and his ex where in the same place with their coworkers (they work at the sams company). He came to my home and explained that situation wasn’t his decision and he had to be there for other people. He was trying to make me believe it wasn’t the way I was thinking (his ex always tried to make me nervous). He told me every detail about that event. But I was so upset and nervous, couldn’t control my emotions. He seemed also nervous and told me that if he was in that situation he would also feel bad and thats why he came and explained. I don’t know if he has any feelings for me, yes he came and talked to my patiently, but doesn’t watch my stories and I don’t know if he has any interest. I told him that if it was another girl and not his ex which did bad things to us I wouldn’t be so upset, and he asked me, wait, would you be happy if you saw me with another girl? Like he was interested if I had feelings for him or not, maybe its just me and my thoughts. Also he told that belly piercing looks nice ( I made it after breakup, he knew I always wanted). What should I do 😢
Aw, Ana, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds like he still cares, but the onus is on him to get back together. I think, from this point on, you should stop watching his stories, because that's letting him know you're still there in a way. He really has to feel like he's going to completely lose you, and you need to use the time you have to heal and take care of yourself. If not to get back together with him, doing the personal work will be good for yourself and for anyone who comes into your life. Stay strong, Ana, and use this time to focus on personal growth. How to get back with your ex is the same exact strategy as moving on. Keep watching this channel!
@@__.Sara.__ Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Yes I also think he still cares.. we made this decision together bc he wasn’t feeling the way he felt when we started. He told me that maybe out separation could make it work for him. I thought that I made all I could and agreed with him. He watched all my stories for 2 weeks maybe, then I was jealous about his ex, she posted something that made me feel bad and added this emoji “🤮” on my story ( maybe you feel how bad I was). After this day he stoppted watching my stories, maybe bc he thinks my story was about him Idk. But after our talk yesterday I believe its not his ex and its just me feeling anxious about everything. Also he never posts stories so I can’t show him that I’m done. All I can do is to stop posting anything maybe that can make him think about me 😞😞
Girl... This man do care about you... I know he's silent and trying to act distant.. but if he didn't care he would have never explained about that story.... Please please!! just stick with no contact... Let him miss you.. trust me he's going to come back... And stop watching his or his ex girlfriend's stories also... GIVE HIM THE BREAKUP!!... he'll come back running to you... And it can but I doubt it'll take more than 3 months.... Just be patient please.. I don't know why but I soooo want to see you happy 😩..
@@sukritirai3101 Thank you so much for your response ❤️ We talked about a week ago, we both were at out friend’s birthday and after that we talked about everything. He told me that breaking up with me was a mistake but having a relationship with the problems that we had was also mistake, he said he has a bad period and is trying to fix some stuff, didn’t ask me to wait for him but told me that he can’t tell me to stay single but if I start datung someone it will make him worse bc he hopes everything falls into place. I don’t know exactly whats going on on his mind but he was honest and doesn’t seem happy at all. Also told me that he is having hard time and breaking up with me didn’t make him happy, it was just needed for our specific situation. He also told me that watching my stories make him feel worse, thats why he stopted opening my stories, his chat is on offline mode bc when he sees me online and then going offline he starts thinking about wherr I am, what am I doing if I’m not online and so on, that makes me think he cares still. Im better now but also don’t know what to expect.
@@ananooo0 He is upfront with the fact that breaking up with you was a mistake... You can already see some regret and anxiety there.... I've been watching creg's videos from the last 3 years so I have quite a lot of knowledge... My advice: leave him alone, Don't contact, Don't chase... Let him come to you... Trust me he will... Don't initiate... RECIPROCATE... in the meantime you have to work on yourself.. look at what's lacking in your life and fix it... do the emotional work... and trust me he'll come running back to you... Wanting you back.. and when he does be friendly and warm... Don't talk about the breakup for a few months... Give your relationship some time to settle down first... I really wish you the best ❤️
How are you going to use ADHD as an excuse for your behaviors? Be a man and take accountability for your actions, plenty of people have disabilities and can make good choices. Also, how are you going to call her immature when you’re a serial cheater? 🤔 Cheating is super immature. Being a man consists of ending a relationship if you’re not feeling it, not going behind someone’s back and hurting them.
There are millions of needy men who would jump to an opportunity to get a girl recently out relationship (or single). I guess men needs to be reminded that often.
My ex still hate me even if we divorce 6 yrs ago he still tlak bad to my kids even if i do no contact for 6 yrs now. I heared from my kids he still bitter that i left him. Good luck coach i learned a lot from this channel
He is only doing this as he wants the kids to love him more It's his insecurities doing this. Has nothing to do with you. Unless you cheated on him. You guys also probably have to communicate a lot as kids are involved. So you have never had the real distance that is needed. Also his ego is probably really hurt Again his issues not yours
Tried to make things work with my ex but i got tired because she's dismissive and avoidant, and when I finally had enough I told her I'm moving on and bidding farewell, the after that she suddenly remembered our good times together and even complimented me. Which made me confused
I saw my ex at a mall when I was going to the movies after the gym. She looked at me and covered her mouth with her hands like it was shocking to see me, meanwhile I didnt give any reaction and kept going my way as intended. To hell with all of them, even if she does reach out, I will make sure she gets none of my attention or interest. I aint mad, she just isnt for me
Yep, I've just realized the same thing. My ex is not for me. They dump us. Look at their actions. They don't want us in their life. Why keep someone who doesn't want us? That's how I got my self-respect back. Let's move on from our exes.
Sixteen I fell in love With a girl as sweet as could be It only took a couple of days 'Til she was rid of me She swore that she would be all mine And love me 'til the end But when I whispered in her ear I lost another friend Good times, bad times You know I've had my share When my woman left home For a brown eyed man Well, I still don't seem to care
@@kylieburton8023 And cheap, if you think just a RUclips video helps with that. You need therapy. Or you'll end up alone because no high value man chooses a 30 year old woman for other than recreational use.
@@naadde how on earth do you know my age?,just kidding i'm not thirty,wow aren't you just lovely,it's funny i'm pretty sure i said coach craig on the comment,cheers for being a dick like most of society, very refreshing lol i sure hope tomorrow is a better day for you,
I keep thinking this been with my ex for 7 years and I do really miss her! But she's moved on, nothing I can do and personally I think she's with someone else.. all I think is will she remember the good times we had or is she just concentrating on making new memories with whoever she is with. I'm still thinking of the memories but something is telling me that she isn't. I'm just a thing of the past now. Hurts but nothing I can do. Had 8 weeks of no contact and she's reached out or even to ask how I am. Time to move on I think.
Couch can you do a video on after no contact you spend the night with your ex and both really want to get together but he’s a avoidant and feels the break up was best even if what I did wasn’t big but a big deal to him. I jumped to wanting a baby and told our friends he doesn’t remember asking me and said I broke his trust and feelings I want more to fast. We still have attraction and care for each other but every time we see each other we can’t help each other and almost leads to sex and making out
hi coach craig kenneth ive been doing no contact for almost a month but i noticed im still included in her close friends ig story and she still wears my clothes and they arent gifts as well they were literally clothes that I wore before does this have any meaning
So I’m confused. Is there a difference between the knowledge and the creative healing course. Also can anyone testify to it? Been thinking about getting it
Hi Nick!! I’m doing the knowledge and the workbooks leads you to the videos and then you answer questions about them! I’m liking it very much! I think the creative course have more things, videos, meditation, videos made just for that course…I have the feeling that is more deep than the knowledge, either way check on the website it says everything there. Ps: sorry for my English! Is not my first language as you can sense hahaha
My ex shamed me on Tiktok. She blocked me everywhere. I see now that I was a bad listener 😔 I was caring, loving, affectionate, I gave her everything... but I became too clingy, my anxities made me verry annoying and over caring😔 After the breakup I made a mistake and spoke to her friends & sent a good reminder text 😑 Listened to the wrong "coaches". Craig said she will reach out probobly near the hollidays. But now I doubt it... I drove past her house by mistake, went to visit a friend that lives close to her. I think she saw me. I'm scared.
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Videos like this really make me question how in the world I got dumped…
Okay but I was actually a great partner. Better than most guys these days. I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs, I don’t smoke or vape, I never even thought of cheating, I have a low body count, I don’t talk to female friends, I’m ambitious and motivated, I don’t play video games, I was very communicative, and I never lost control of my emotions. There are many more, but those are the biggest. I’m also getting my MBA and I go to the gym 6 days a week. Idk how she left me. Smh
To the girl in this story - don't walk away from this guy, run away
Sorry, but I've given up on my ex. They dumped us. Look at their actions. They don't want us in their life. Why keep someone who doesn't want us? Have some self-respect and move on.
And you only have control of you & your life you can’t change anybody else”s actions & thoughts …
They will do whatever they want to do … they put their life as number #1 priority......
I suggest you do the same
That’s true, but some of us still have faith that they will come back, but in the meantime, we need to look at what went wrong and work on ourselves and keep moving forward and think positive as if they will come back. All feelings change like the clouds in the sky.
@@ponokunishima1 Yes, I do admire you and applaud you for keeping that faith and hope but some of us have done well to move on as best we can for the sake of our families and own mental and physical wellbeing. I recently started dating a former Instagram Onlyfans model and, though she has her own mental health issues and trauma from her own ex, I'm helping her thru that and never giving up on her like my ex did with me. I volunteer at an animal shelter now and people give up on pitbulls and mastiffs bc of their appearance. They've suffered huge trauma from their former owners. It's not their fault they were bred like that. I'll never give up on them bc I do forgive and have a heart ❤
Then why are you here watching the video? Lmaooo
@@gthang4500 It’s to calm our anxiety down.
Can't blame her for believing that he had cheated... his behavior was real fishy. Unfortunately, I feel more empathy for the ex-girlfriend than for him... He needs to focus on himself and stop trying to prove whatsoever to his ex and work on himself for real. Also, I don't like that he's calling her out for being immature when she was the one helping him paying for his debts. Sounds ungrateful to me. Maybe he's projecting?
Just found out over the weekend that my ex had been seeing another guy at her work and that's why she broke up. She kept it hidden after she left until 7 months later so she could try and make everyone think it was a new relationship but his ex let everyone know the truth. This hurts
How did you discover this if you weren't checking her social media or keeping tabs on her somehow? I presume the breakup was apx a year ago, maybe more? This new information doesn't help you in any way nor does it change anything. You're still a year broken up. If it hurts that's probably because you have chosen to view her affair as a direct attack on you or a statement of your inadequacy etc. The most likely reason is simply that she met someone who was a better match. You don't have to feel shame or regret if you don't want to. You could see it as 'for the best' because you were spared months or years longer in a relationship with a mismatch.
Ouch mate! Going through the same thing myself. One of her girlfriends called & told me the truth 9 months after the breakup. Not sure if it makes it easier or harder to deal with to be honest.
@@assplundah It depends on how you feel about yourself really. Monogamy is not a natural instinct for us. It was conceived and defined and enforced by modern society. When a partner cheats it feels bad because we didn't expect it and it threatens change and abandonment which are scary and make us feel unsure about ourselves. The rest of the meaning we give to infidelity has more to do with wanting to control and own another human being and to protect our egos. One of the reasons why monogamy and marriage became so popular was because it effectively placed a chastity belt around the woman and reassured the men that they would not be unknowingly raising any child that isn't his own.
It does help to understand the origins of these traditions and institutions because we put so much pressure on ourselves to comply with these society expectations and inflict sever pain and suffering on ourselves and others when we don't succeed. If you could find it to accept that your ex needed to follow her own path to pursue her happiness and that her actions were in no way a reflection on you as a person or make you any less of a man, you'd move on very quickly.
Been there I work with my ex and she is dating someone infront of me
That's fun
Sorry to hear that guy. It's been 2 years since she left now. She took almost everything but I've replaced it. Still try to avoid places I know she goes but I'm good now. Looking forward to something new and just working on me and my life now.
I still watch, and I plan to invest in myself enough to get the workbooks to continue to heal. I’ve been watching intently for eight months. I just want to be better. I hadn’t had an episode in awhile, I’ve been doing great in most every aspect… my new career is doing well… I’ve been on a good date, and I have another lined up with a pretty cool girl. I’m doing a marathon in two months. Everything unfolds for me that I manifest. But last night I broke.. I didn’t contact, but just taking the time to feel the suppressed emotions of how bad my heart still hurts when I give her the energy and the thought. When I remember the good times; I’m thankful, but now I’m without. I know I’ll make new ones, but I sometimes wish I would of appreciated the others so much more.
I can’t bring myself to break no contact, because I need to prove something to myself, and being so closed is something I’ve never had to do so it’s exhausting.
I think all I really want now is to know it wasn’t all for nothing. Closure maybe? If you believe in that sort of thing and I’m not sure I do.
We stumble; we fall, we crawl, we bend, we break… but we get up. We keep going. We don’t quit.
I always think about that, if my ex girlfriend will miss the good times we had together and shared. I’m sure she will because we’ve been together for over 5 years and our love and connection was very strong! I still miss her and love her dearly! I still have faith that she’ll reach out and return to me.
This guy is bad news. He's stuck in his bad patterns and making excuses for them, lying to himself and to others. He needs serious therapy. She needs to stay away!
1 year of no contact coming up in a year. It was our anniversary day when we got to know each other. We did a trip to London and I took her to fancy restaurants and shopping.
It's probably best to realize she's not coming back. I'll improve myself daily and keep on walking alone.
Dating is not that much fun because it's such a buffet of men that women can choose from.
It's gonna be just me time now.
@@sloanmagnum5009 we were together about 6 months. It was intense though. Covid happened and it was long distance.
Doesn't see how that changes anything though. She's still not going back
@naadde update ?
@@cjthemvp123 Still no contact. I do think about her sometimes. I don't miss her or I wouldn't take her back. I just have to let go of the disappointment and forget her. Maybe that happens if I am long together with someone in the future but so far I've been single all this time
@@naadde Damn bro this is not good to hear, i thought mine was the love of my life. I still do, she dumped me on our anniversary 3 months ago and blocked me on everything :(
@@cjthemvp123 Sorry to hear. But if she's capable of such things, you dodged a bullet. She did you a favor.
By time you learn to accept it and you will enjoy other women.
The hard part is to let go of the disappointment and shock that these women can do these things.
4 months since my breakup and I’m still trying to get around the situation, when everything was going so well! Sure we had some arguments here and there, I still think it had to do with us being distant still from the pandemic and that her father is very controlling and has major anxiety and paranoid about her and her mother leaving him. Therefore, because we couldn’t see each other as much, I would sometimes lash out at her and say things that I didn’t really mean it.
Any updates?
I’m feeling so bad right now like I have no hope. I broke no contact yesterday but I couldn’t stop when I saw a ig story my ex and his ex where in the same place with their coworkers (they work at the sams company). He came to my home and explained that situation wasn’t his decision and he had to be there for other people. He was trying to make me believe it wasn’t the way I was thinking (his ex always tried to make me nervous). He told me every detail about that event. But I was so upset and nervous, couldn’t control my emotions. He seemed also nervous and told me that if he was in that situation he would also feel bad and thats why he came and explained. I don’t know if he has any feelings for me, yes he came and talked to my patiently, but doesn’t watch my stories and I don’t know if he has any interest. I told him that if it was another girl and not his ex which did bad things to us I wouldn’t be so upset, and he asked me, wait, would you be happy if you saw me with another girl? Like he was interested if I had feelings for him or not, maybe its just me and my thoughts. Also he told that belly piercing looks nice ( I made it after breakup, he knew I always wanted). What should I do 😢
Aw, Ana, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds like he still cares, but the onus is on him to get back together. I think, from this point on, you should stop watching his stories, because that's letting him know you're still there in a way. He really has to feel like he's going to completely lose you, and you need to use the time you have to heal and take care of yourself. If not to get back together with him, doing the personal work will be good for yourself and for anyone who comes into your life.
Stay strong, Ana, and use this time to focus on personal growth. How to get back with your ex is the same exact strategy as moving on. Keep watching this channel!
@@__.Sara.__ Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Yes I also think he still cares.. we made this decision together bc he wasn’t feeling the way he felt when we started. He told me that maybe out separation could make it work for him. I thought that I made all I could and agreed with him.
He watched all my stories for 2 weeks maybe, then I was jealous about his ex, she posted something that made me feel bad and added this emoji “🤮” on my story ( maybe you feel how bad I was). After this day he stoppted watching my stories, maybe bc he thinks my story was about him Idk. But after our talk yesterday I believe its not his ex and its just me feeling anxious about everything.
Also he never posts stories so I can’t show him that I’m done. All I can do is to stop posting anything maybe that can make him think about me 😞😞
Girl... This man do care about you... I know he's silent and trying to act distant.. but if he didn't care he would have never explained about that story....
Please please!! just stick with no contact... Let him miss you.. trust me he's going to come back... And stop watching his or his ex girlfriend's stories also...
GIVE HIM THE BREAKUP!!...
he'll come back running to you...
And it can but I doubt it'll take more than 3 months....
Just be patient please..
I don't know why but I soooo want to see you happy 😩..
@@sukritirai3101 Thank you so much for your response ❤️
We talked about a week ago, we both were at out friend’s birthday and after that we talked about everything. He told me that breaking up with me was a mistake but having a relationship with the problems that we had was also mistake, he said he has a bad period and is trying to fix some stuff, didn’t ask me to wait for him but told me that he can’t tell me to stay single but if I start datung someone it will make him worse bc he hopes everything falls into place. I don’t know exactly whats going on on his mind but he was honest and doesn’t seem happy at all. Also told me that he is having hard time and breaking up with me didn’t make him happy, it was just needed for our specific situation. He also told me that watching my stories make him feel worse, thats why he stopted opening my stories, his chat is on offline mode bc when he sees me online and then going offline he starts thinking about wherr I am, what am I doing if I’m not online and so on, that makes me think he cares still. Im better now but also don’t know what to expect.
@@ananooo0 He is upfront with the fact that breaking up with you was a mistake... You can already see some regret and anxiety there.... I've been watching creg's videos from the last 3 years so I have quite a lot of knowledge...
My advice: leave him alone, Don't contact, Don't chase... Let him come to you... Trust me he will... Don't initiate... RECIPROCATE... in the meantime you have to work on yourself.. look at what's lacking in your life and fix it... do the emotional work... and trust me he'll come running back to you... Wanting you back.. and when he does be friendly and warm... Don't talk about the breakup for a few months... Give your relationship some time to settle down first...
I really wish you the best ❤️
How are you going to use ADHD as an excuse for your behaviors? Be a man and take accountability for your actions, plenty of people have disabilities and can make good choices. Also, how are you going to call her immature when you’re a serial cheater? 🤔 Cheating is super immature. Being a man consists of ending a relationship if you’re not feeling it, not going behind someone’s back and hurting them.
There are millions of needy men who would jump to an opportunity to get a girl recently out relationship (or single). I guess men needs to be reminded that often.
I can see why this woman and others don't trust this guy. Great video though!
yeah... he's got a lot of work to do. but I wish him the best. Though I personally believe it's going to take a lot of time.
My ex still hate me even if we divorce 6 yrs ago he still tlak bad to my kids even if i do no contact for 6 yrs now. I heared from my kids he still bitter that i left him. Good luck coach i learned a lot from this channel
He is only doing this as he wants the kids to love him more
It's his insecurities doing this. Has nothing to do with you. Unless you cheated on him.
You guys also probably have to communicate a lot as kids are involved. So you have never had the real distance that is needed.
Also his ego is probably really hurt
Again his issues not yours
Tried to make things work with my ex but i got tired because she's dismissive and avoidant, and when I finally had enough I told her I'm moving on and bidding farewell, the after that she suddenly remembered our good times together and even complimented me. Which made me confused
It's all on him! I'm happy that she dumped him. He doesn't care about her! He's a loser! What is done is done. OVER!!!🤡
the legendary apple bees girl
I saw my ex at a mall when I was going to the movies after the gym. She looked at me and covered her mouth with her hands like it was shocking to see me, meanwhile I didnt give any reaction and kept going my way as intended. To hell with all of them, even if she does reach out, I will make sure she gets none of my attention or interest. I aint mad, she just isnt for me
Yep, I've just realized the same thing. My ex is not for me. They dump us. Look at their actions. They don't want us in their life. Why keep someone who doesn't want us? That's how I got my self-respect back. Let's move on from our exes.
Sixteen I fell in love
With a girl as sweet as could be
It only took a couple of days
'Til she was rid of me
She swore that she would be all mine
And love me 'til the end
But when I whispered in her ear
I lost another friend
Good times, bad times
You know I've had my share
When my woman left home
For a brown eyed man
Well, I still don't seem to care
I have adhd ive never cheated in any relationship since my first. I call B.S.
Coach Craig I'd really appreciate it if you could do a video for someone who is afraid of relationships, because I have discovered I'm afraid
Avoidant attachment style? He has many videos of that at least
@@naadde it's abit more tricker then that,I'm avoidant like my dad,and anxious like my mum, who also has a narcissistic personality and bipolar .
@@kylieburton8023 And cheap, if you think just a RUclips video helps with that. You need therapy. Or you'll end up alone because no high value man chooses a 30 year old woman for other than recreational use.
@@naadde how on earth do you know my age?,just kidding i'm not thirty,wow aren't you just lovely,it's funny i'm pretty sure i said coach craig on the comment,cheers for being a dick like most of society, very refreshing lol i sure hope tomorrow is a better day for you,
@@naadde Oh you're rude! Stop it!!!
I keep thinking this been with my ex for 7 years and I do really miss her! But she's moved on, nothing I can do and personally I think she's with someone else.. all I think is will she remember the good times we had or is she just concentrating on making new memories with whoever she is with. I'm still thinking of the memories but something is telling me that she isn't. I'm just a thing of the past now. Hurts but nothing I can do. Had 8 weeks of no contact and she's reached out or even to ask how I am. Time to move on I think.
Research attachment styles (there's one like yours)
Will i remember the good times?
Couch can you do a video on after no contact you spend the night with your ex and both really want to get together but he’s a avoidant and feels the break up was best even if what I did wasn’t big but a big deal to him.
I jumped to wanting a baby and told our friends he doesn’t remember asking me and said I broke his trust and feelings I want more to fast.
We still have attraction and care for each other but every time we see each other we can’t help each other and almost leads to sex and making out
Perfect timing sir.
Is there a way to pay for coaching in installments?
Our system isn’t set up for that. Some people just put it on a credit card and pay it off that way
hi coach craig kenneth ive been doing no contact for almost a month but i noticed im still included in her close friends ig story and she still wears my clothes and they arent gifts as well they were literally clothes that I wore before does this have any meaning
Synchronized the phones who does this 😂😂😂
So I’m confused. Is there a difference between the knowledge and the creative healing course. Also can anyone testify to it? Been thinking about getting it
Hi Nick!! I’m doing the knowledge and the workbooks leads you to the videos and then you answer questions about them! I’m liking it very much! I think the creative course have more things, videos, meditation, videos made just for that course…I have the feeling that is more deep than the knowledge, either way check on the website it says everything there.
Ps: sorry for my English! Is not my first language as you can sense hahaha
I'm doing The Knowledge Creative Healing Course. There are answers but also is a lot of deep introspection involved. Liking it so far.
No, selective memory.
My ex shamed me on Tiktok.
She blocked me everywhere.
I see now that I was a bad listener 😔
I was caring, loving, affectionate, I gave her everything... but I became too clingy, my anxities made me verry annoying and over caring😔
After the breakup I made a mistake and spoke to her friends & sent a good reminder text 😑
Listened to the wrong "coaches".
Craig said she will reach out probobly near the hollidays.
But now I doubt it...
I drove past her house by mistake, went to visit a friend that lives close to her. I think she saw me. I'm scared.
Did your ex ever reach out to you??
How is coach Margret🥺
She unfortunately passed away 😭... Rip Margaret 💔
they don't care..........you can't find eyelashes for those who don't have eyes...........
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