Yet another sexist aspect of society. Women do not need a man or to have children or to even be married to live a wonderful life. A person and a dog can be a family, a person and their best friend can be a family, a person and their room mate can be a family. People need to stop saying “start a family” when they really mean “get married and have kids because a woman living a full life without doing that is shameful.”
Funny I too am in my upper 40's and many women out there fail to show why I would want to have anything to do with them too. Sadly most women just want a guy with a great body and a lot of money. Many women are told from childhood to marry a good looking successful man and will not fall for a guy later on in life just for who he is even if he's a good guy but doesn't have great looks and or lots of money. Sad but true.
I’m in my mid 40’s never wanted kids and got told most of my life to just wait “you’ll change your mind”. Still haven’t. As for mr Steve Jarvis men are out looking for the youngest, prettiest, and most easily influenced female they can find. By the time woman hit their thirties we realize that while having a guy around is nice we don’t need you. So unless you can contribute more than just more laundry and dishes what’s the point. Ps I don’t need your money I have my own. Ever man I know can’t find his own clothes in his own house without help so as I’m not the mommy type what good are you.
@@katarinad1309 Nope not all men are as you depict them when you depict them as slobs that can't clean up after themselves or find their own belongings and I will even say not all women are looking for the man with great looks and money. That's just not true. I myself keep my place clean. All of it. I find it easier that way, rather than putting it all off and letting it build up to a hassle.
Just announced on Detroit news yesterday tha, THIRTEEN YEARS AGO, 10,000 rape kits were discovered stashed somewhere that were never completed (for DNA). They finally finished them, I repeat, THIRTEEN YEARS LATER. WTF!?!? Who stashed them and why did it take THIRTEEN YEARS?
No but it’s somewhat ironic that many women can’t wait to get get their kit off and sell their images to film , internet , newspapers, magazines etc and then they complain that they’re being exploited by nasty sexist men . Give me a break .
@@georgemorrison9280 Gee... You ever think that women feel compelled to self-exploit because, otherwise, crime against women would continue to be disregarded?
I come from a very understanding family and I try to remain as non-sexist as possible. As a Doctor Who writer, I've discovered that female characters are a lot more fun to write for than males. Some of my best characters are women.
This is a great point, it is not up to us to say that we aren’t sexist or aren’t racist or aren’t transphobic or homophobic or ableist or islamophobic, etc. etc. unless we are part of those communities. Racism and sexism, islamophobia and transphobia, homophobia and ableism, are opinions decided by the communities affect and they can differ from person to person. However, I would also like to point out, it is never enough to be non-sexist, or non-racist, etc. Being a bystander will never be enough to change the problem. It’s much better than the other side of it so it’s a good step, it is not nothing, but the end goal should be anti-sexist.
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 It should be enough to just be a decent human. People anti-something tend to forget we should all be anti-asshole as well as supporting our ideals. It's amazing to contribute more don't get me wrong, but the end goal should be that there is no inequality, not aiming to be a social justice warrior.
@6:06 about screenwritings of women not wanting kids: I didn’t want kids because I didn’t want to put a kid through the abuse I got from my parents. I was afraid I’d pass it on. Now at age 63, I’m pretty fine with how it turned out. (I’ve also healed a whole lot of the crap I got. 😊) ETA: and yeah, it is a valid choice to not want kids even it you weren’t as messed up as I was.
So I’m totally disturbed by that “genre” of Christmas photo that I never knew existed, especially the one with the little boy giving a thumbs up. What bothers me most, I think, is that you know women always arrange the photo shoots.
I know a family where the mother rarely talks (her choice) and you can’t shut up her husband and 2 sons. I’ve worked with the father and sons in the past and it’s almost impossible to get them to stop taking…lol
@@hillbillydeluxe27 Yes, of course some men are very talkative and some women are quiet. But this is not just about that: it's about women not having a voice and men deciding when we can talk, about what and for how long. I was married to an idiot that tried to do this to me, among many other things. I'm now divorced, of course.
I think that the majority of these clips should be posted everywhere. Women are being made to be responsible for men's actions because men aren't being made responsible for their own actions. A woman gets raped, it's because of what she was wearing. It shouldn't matter what she was wearing a skimpy outfit or a burlap bag that covered her from the neck down. No, men need to take responsible for their actions and mothers should be teaching their sons to respect women. As far as people wanting to adopt a child, would they be willing if the child was mentally or physically handicapped. I don't think so! Hypocrites!
Wow, first off, men are held more accountable to things women aren't. Like women can lift up a man's kilt and NOTHING happens to the woman. A woman can r*pe a child, and if she's attractive, omg, a slap on the wrist. If a man gets raped NO ONE hardly cares, especially if it's done by a woman, then he's just lucky. I honestly believe men get r*ped JUST AS MUCH as women it's just that men rarely say anything. A woman a sock a man right in his face and bystanders will do NOTHING. "Mothers need to teach their sons how to respect women?" How about PARENTS teaching their CHILD how to respect EVERYONE. Women are human. They can and have been JUST as vile as some men. Period.
@@a.mp.m7340 men do face some of the same challenges as women do, however it is very few and the challenges that they face are oppressive not discriminatory. The equivalent to what you just did is if somebody was having a BLM protest and I went over holding a white lives matter sign. White lives do matter, and white people can face some challenges, but right now we’re talking about black people and the discrimination and oppression that they face. Men do matter, and men do face some challenges, but right now ere talking about women and the discrimination and oppression that they face. We have to deal with the people who need the most help before we move on to others. As someone who has been all three categories of gender in their lifetime, all of them have and face challenges, but men are on top in society, there is absolutely no denying it, in second place are women, and all the way down at the bottom are non binary individuals who aren’t recognized as people in almost every country on earth.
So true............and when Muslim women wear the full body Abayas/Hijab with even the face mask they still get raped and sometimes jailed/abandoned by their families and can even be executed. And the guy....nothing.
Shawn-old account L "It's very few" how do you know? Majority of the time, men are silent about any type of abuse done to them. "It's very few" nice way to minimize what men go through. That whole BLM example, wow, just wow. Hardly anyone speaks on the topic of men, and God forbid if someone actually does. And with passion, their labeled misogynistic, women hater, oppressors, etc. The focus has ALWAYS been on women. Where's groups for men who were abused by their spouses, homes for them stalked by exes. Men are held hostage in relationships because the women use their children against them. In the beginning of the "metoo" movement, men who spoke up were "shused" because it "wasn't about them." Where was their protection, their allies? Depending on where you live, there are women who are not oppressed they are not discriminated against. No, EVERYONE needs help. That's something that y'all don't seem to understand. Women have been getting help for DECADES, decades, where is the help for men? Men might be "on top," but how it's looking women are clawing their way to take that spot instead of trying to ACTUALLY be equal. Most women of today don't want equality, they what to be the new oppressor. It's amazing how you say you have been on "all three categories," yet you're so ignorant and nonchalant to men and their troubles.
2:53 - Screw you, Brandon Pavlock! 4:24 - Damn right! 7:43 - I'm sure they'd insist that it's "just a joke", but I'm not laughing. I wonder what people's reaction would be if someone did these cards with the sexes reversed? 7:56 - I've seen this story before. I still don't know what the idiot woman had against gingers! 8:41 - Good question!
Women and teens who are victims of rape or incest should be allowed to choose whether or not to abort. It seems it would be extremely traumatic to carry that child, and then give up that child. All these clips have very good points.
To discover is to find something you and your associated people didn't previously know about. So, Columbus discovered America (but other people were already there), some casting person discovered Tom Cruise in the 80s (but his friends and family already knew all about him) and my neighbour's just discovered a new pop-up dress shop (but the staff and earlier customers were already aware). Neil Armstrong didn't discover the moon; we've known about it since before records began.
So you're saying all the Native Americans who already knew THE LAND THEY'D BEEN LIVING IN FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS existed don't count?!?!?! Because that's what it sounds like you're saying. Also, Columbus didn't discover shit even if you're basing it on your racist "Europeans are the only people who count" rhetoric, because the Vikings had already "discovered" the Americas hundreds of years prior.
@ladyi7609 no, I said "you and your associated people", not "Europeans". Discovery is contextual: America was discovered by the Native Americans, who I understand were believed to be from Russia, the Vikings and the Europeans of the mid-second millennium, at different times. I'm guessing the Native Central Americans also discovered it a few times, and people from anywhere else you could walk/sail there from. The point about discovery is "ooh, I didn't know that was there." It doesn't get problematic until you have the mid-second millennium Europeans saying, "I was here first of all white men, so it's mine", but that's not what discovery means.
6:24 let me explain. Everyone knew the moon existed because everyone could see it. When you come across something that literally tens of millions of people did not know existed, i.e. the Americas, then yes, that's what is called discovery.
Right, but the point as that they learned about it, not discovered it. Discovering it means that they would be the first to find it. If you learn about a scientific discovery, you are discovering it for yourself but that doesn’t mean you know own the scientific discovery. That land belonged to the people who actually discovered it and who had been living off of it for centuries, we took the land and resources away, murdered half of them, burned down their homes, took away all their rights, and then gave them back the trashed land as compensation. Good argument but misled and slightly flawed.
At 5:42, when I was a small child, my mother told me the old saw, "Men may work from sun to sun, but women's work is never done". I thought to myself, who would sign up for THAT? Born in the '50's I saw too many women struggling far too much to raise too many children (before reliable birth control), and, as a result I never wanted to have children. I have never regretted my decision.
At 1:35, I read the best advice. If you feel threatened in any way in a public place, just say, really loudly, "Siri, call 911!" Everyone's phone, including the one of your harasser, will then light up the switchboard, alerting authorities to a problem where you are.
"Sir there is literally a sexy green M&M." And the Avatar of Logic, Morals, and Manners absolutely _lost his shi*,_ when she lost her Go-Go Boots. And at 3:55, I'm writing this down.
Did you just make up a figure? Or do you have an actual source for that "Over 99%" claim? There are 407,000 children in foster care, and out of those 117,000 are waiting to be adopted. So it's 71.3 % not 99 % who are not waiting to be adopted. Source U.S. Department of Health & Human Services: "National Data Shows Number of Children in Foster Care Decreases for the Third Consecutive Year"
@@Asa...S My numbers are straight from the US gov't. The US doesn't sever parental rights often. You can make up any numbers you want. Every day there are on average half a million children in foster care. It takes 4 years for a child to be adopted out of foster care mostly because of the paperwork and very few children are not adopted. Why do you think so many Americans have to leave the country to find children to adopt? If you really cared about children, you would support faster severing of parental rights for neglect and abuse.
@@annabellelee4535 "straight from the US gov'" Could you a little more specific. The actual page where you read it. Something like this: U.S. Department of Health & Human Services: "National Data Shows Number of Children in Foster Care Decreases for the Third Consecutive Year".
@@Asa...S ccainstitute I am sure you can figure out the rest. I had to delete my first post because I added an e where it didn't belong. I'm kind of busy at the moment. You wouldn't understand
She said someone 2 days younger than her looks like a child. She was talking about men in their 40's who chase girls in their teens. Not the same thing, for chrissakes. Is somebody feeling picked on?
David, you are obviously a trolling misogynist. Take it elsewhere, men like you have embarrassed our gender since time immemorable. The concepts these memes seek to illuminate may appear on your radar in about fifty reincarnations time of your narrow, self-serving soul.
If someone's life starts out bad, it will usually continue bad for the entirety of their lives. Children instinctively avoid damaged children because they know there's sickness there. Abused children are drawn to each other because there's a shard instinctual understanding though the abuse is never discussed. The weakness/ fear/ insecurity also draws dislike/ contempt/ irritation from all adults throughout the abused child's entire life. They are trained from infants to never defend themselves or show feelings or want ask for anything. They've never experienced good touch, nor safety or security. Throughout their lives they will be conned, robbed, bullied, taken advantage of, used and discarded. Healthy love has never been modelled for them so they don't know what behaviors are love. The abused suffer from the day they're born till the day they d i e.
Thank you. You just described my past , present and future more than I can . You are a million times right. You seem like an insightful person if there's a way to break this cycle kindly share it , therapy didn't help.
Are you late for your own funeral. Because the speed reading class is killing me. Good morning enjoy this anyways you sure know how to make a video crap go faster faster please faster faster faster faster I want to have to pause and go back three times on every single clip
The voice and stylization are unmistakably effeminate, especially when compared to the others, and while it is theoretically possible that she is trans, given when she was introduced, I find it incredibly unlikely, as LGBTQ+ topics were still very taboo.
About kids in care. All the children's future children will end up in care. Loving is a learned behavior. And these children have to come to terms with the abuse they've lived with their whole lives which is either unlikely or impossible. Today's victim is tomorrow's failed parent. Sad. Unfair. A shame. Unchangeable.
To all the women out there wondering "where are all the good men are at"? Maybe you just need to lower your standards to a more realistic set. Not every guy out there has a great paying job and great looks and if that's the two main things you're after, maybe it's kind of silly to judge every man out there as a bad guy, especially if you're not perfect yourself.
That is actually a good point but a lot of men are cruel to us girls but I understand where you are coming from because I feel like after what a lot of us girls/women have gone through we do tend to judge men more than we should but if a female ever tells you that she hates men she usually doesn’t mean all men. I hope you understand because I’m young so I have trouble explaining things 😅
@@norabunyard5798 tragically, my friends and I are always doing things like that. Especially my niece, who has a PhD in English. I swear she made me do it🤷♂
5:52 God created everything, so if he wants to take destroy or give he does so because he can he is God who loves unconditionally. He punishes sin because he is a Just God.
@@Vox-Multis lmao, I get you, but my point was more that this comment suggests that the father’s last name is the important one and should be the child’s last name, then the mother’s last name could be the child’s middle name if there’s room. Which is obviously sexist.
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 I know, man. I'm right there with you. I miss the days when I could say things like this without the /s tag and have it be understood that I was joking.
In this great list of bad things women have to live through I only have tiny little objections about the cases of: 4:12: I think, this is an overal generalization of all men being monsters. 5:28: It would be interesting to learn about the full circumstances. Perhaps, the man just wanted to have a better ability to provide for the family. Who knows. 6:23: This is not a case of sexism, this is just a case of a bad education system and a lack of logic. From the viewpoint of the Europeans, Christoph Columbuus actually discovered the Americas but the moon always was visible for the whole mankind. 8:07: Again, this is a case of overgeneralization of the charakter of all men. It's true that a women who had a bad experience with an asshole boyfriend or asshole husband tends to be emotional and this is understandable and such women needs a kind treatment, but such ideas by others as proposed here aren't helpful either in the overall relationship betwen the two natural sexes/genders and by the fact that this was done by a man just seems virtue signaling to me. So, out of the 41 cases (I was able to count) of bad thing women had to go through, only four are objectionable for which I wrote my reasons. In essence, 90,24% full agreement. Important!!!: - Women must have ALL the rights and opportunities men have, this must not be objectionable. - Religious leaders and especially rightwing politicians needs to loose the control over the behavior of women who just wants to live their lifes. - Organizations and/or single individuals needs to learn that mere virtue signaling isn't enough. - These organizations and/or individual persons need to learn to pay women the same for the same work in the same time. - They need to learn to give the families the needed time to care for children, I would call it a "family leave" and it should be payd for fully (1). - The overgeneralization of bad traits and assholery committed by men needs to stop but in some cases the logic behind the act of overgeneralization can be accepted. (1) So, not just the mothers but also to the fathers since a kid needs his/her mother and his/her father for a good development hence my term "Family leave" and not "just" the old term "maternal leave". The demand for a family leave is valid for the USA since in most European countries like in my German homeland, paid maternal leave is already a right of women.
It's wonderful that people offer to adopt your baby. But why aren't these wonderful people already adopting the thousands of children already available? Btw, these pictures are from "positive protesters " in front of women's clinics that offer abortion amongst many other health services.
Because being pregnant, giving birth, and then thinking about that child every day for the rest of your life, is no big deal! Also, when the kid is 18, he or she will show up at your doorstep and disrupt your life, but hey, no biggie eithe
So, any depiction of a female human as sexually attractive is out, got it. Any depiction of a "female" non-human animated character as a metaphor for a female human as sexually attractive is out. Wow. Meta.
context: female representation in media is disproportionately fetishistic. Each individual instance contributes to the sexist trend. Plus, just compare like with like - the male M&Ms aren't made to look like some sexy stereotype.
When did people become such prudes? So afraid of being attractive and sexually mature, people seem to want to remain children for their entire lives. The fear of growing up is very bad for Western society.
We just passed 8 billion people on earth. The fewer people having kids the better. And what do you care, do what ever turns your crank and nobody will care. And where did you get this idea, what posting said that? Weird.
You are aware that contraception can fail even when used correctly, or worse, be deliberately sabotaged by a lying partner, aren’t you? You are also aware that a wanted pregnancy can go wrong due to medical complications or genetic/physical fetal deformities that are detected during routine prenatal testing? How about a miscarriage that fails to progress as it should, which can lead to death from hemorrhage or sepsis? And an ectopic pregnancy is ALWAYS fatal to the woman if not treated immediately. Not to mention economic, educational, mental, physical, or psychological reasons why a woman isn’t ready to become a parent? Not your uterus, not your opinion!
Sounds like you like to pretend that a zygote is an infant. 80 % of abortions are taken care of _before_ week 8, that's before the zygot has even become a fetus!
@@dragondancer1814 contraception isn't just the guys responsibility. "A wanted pregnancy can go wrong......" ANYTHING "can go wrong"......because something "can go wrong" in July justifies killing the kid in February?
At 2:50, Gypsy took her rapist to court and won. You believe this is crap. Please explain. At 4:20 Jon Cooper proposes equal punishment for men who cause unwanted pregnancy as for women who choose not to continue that pregnancy. You believe this is crap. Please explain. At 4:25, protester points out that the law will not prevent abortion, as it never has, but will result only in makingnit dangerously unsafe. You believe this is crap. Please explain. At 5:20, poster asks that women be paid the same wage for the same job. You believe this is crap. Please explain.
@Marlene Eisnor Comming from a Bible thumping woman (1) from most likely the USA it's no wonder that you surely are not into the equality of rights, freedoms, choices of women and men. You surely had been brainwashed from your early childhood into the wrong belief that women are inferior to men without the ability to make their own grown up decissons. With every right taken away from women in the USA by those religious zealots I'm increasingly glad that I'm not a woman having to live in the red-states of the USA. PS: Dear Christian fundamentalists, you surely are against the Muslim Sharia but the Sharia and the fundamentalist Christian doctrine are just the same women-controling women blaming set of laws. (1) To allow me my profound judgement I checked the videos in the playlists you shared to get a picture about your political viewpoint.
@@cat3crazy No, it's total crap. LOL. Get an education and you will understand. I don't understand this fear of adulthood and the desire to be a victim. smh. Oh well, you guys are good for laughs!!
2:34 That guy is a catch! %:24 What job pays women less than men? Same job and duties. Same hours. Same experience. Same education. Same availability. Same skills. Go ahead and search. I'll wait. 8:40 Only for forced pregnancies.
You do know that 'Evangelical' states- ie where there aren't any proper sex ed classes have higher rates of STI's and teenage pregnancies, right? So yeah, IT IS evangelical american's fault that there are so many children in the care system.
I am completely for woman's rights etc however the first one at 0:09 already exists. There are hundreds of thousands of men that didn't want a pregnancy yet the woman went ahead on her own and had the child then they have full legal right to sue the man for 18 years worth of child support. Essentially a woman can sue a man for an unwanted pregnancy if they carry it to term.
"the woman went ahead on her own"... interesting, you make it sound like the man wasn't involved at all. I say men shouldn't put their sperm where they don't want to have babies and they won't have this problem. (Yes, I realize no birth control is 100%, that's the risk of casual sex)
@@janineunrau9217 you need to learn to read properly. I never said getting pregnant does not include a man. The decision to keep it however can be only the woman's. And when a woman decides to keep a baby that a man does not want the woman has the right to sue the man for 18 years of child support. It happens all the time. It is not about how a baby is made or "accidental" pregnancies. The quote in the video is about who has the right to sue who. And they believe that if a man has the right to sue a woman then a woman should have the right to sue a man....and if you learned to read then that is what I outlined in my comment. A woman does have the right to sue a man for a child they don't want.
@@pacman3556 oh my goodness, you are so right... I am completely illiterate and don't know how to put words into sentences! I didn't say anything about who has the right to sue who (if you read my comment). That would take pages of dialog to properly discuss and since I apparently can't read I will leave that to the scholars. I simply made a humorous comment about your choice of phrasing. I may be illiterate but I do have a funny bone. 🤪
@@janineunrau9217 you comment did not come across as humorous but at least you are willing to accept you are not able to read properly. Next step is to go back to school and learn to read.
I'm in my upper 40's, never married, and no kids. Men never fail to show exactly why I don't want them. I'm not gay either, so.
Yet another sexist aspect of society. Women do not need a man or to have children or to even be married to live a wonderful life. A person and a dog can be a family, a person and their best friend can be a family, a person and their room mate can be a family. People need to stop saying “start a family” when they really mean “get married and have kids because a woman living a full life without doing that is shameful.”
Funny I too am in my upper 40's and many women out there fail to show why I would want to have anything to do with them too.
Sadly most women just want a guy with a great body and a lot of money.
Many women are told from childhood to marry a good looking successful man and will not fall for a guy later on in life just for who he is even if he's a good guy but doesn't have great looks and or lots of money.
Sad but true.
I’m in my mid 40’s never wanted kids and got told most of my life to just wait “you’ll change your mind”. Still haven’t. As for mr Steve Jarvis men are out looking for the youngest, prettiest, and most easily influenced female they can find. By the time woman hit their thirties we realize that while having a guy around is nice we don’t need you. So unless you can contribute more than just more laundry and dishes what’s the point. Ps I don’t need your money I have my own. Ever man I know can’t find his own clothes in his own house without help so as I’m not the mommy type what good are you.
Yeah, it's you who dumps them, okay.
@@katarinad1309 Nope not all men are as you depict them when you depict them as slobs that can't clean up after themselves or find their own belongings and I will even say not all women are looking for the man with great looks and money.
That's just not true.
I myself keep my place clean. All of it.
I find it easier that way, rather than putting it all off and letting it build up to a hassle.
one would ask why all these people wanting to adopt babies on the street haven't managed to adopt one through an agency...
because it can take years, I guess. Also being in a foster care doesn't mean being available for adoption.
Because abortion is supported by state governments, but adoption is extremely difficult. That’s why a lot of people adopt from other countries.
Also they aren't offering to pay the medical bills or make a comtract that they'll adopt the child whatever problems it may be born with.
I’m with the senior with the sign “ don’t tell me we have to fight for this all over again!”. We already did this!!!!
@4:21: Also, push for testing the backlog of rape kits and prosecute rapists! And don't imply that women asked for it as a defense.
Just announced on Detroit news yesterday tha, THIRTEEN YEARS AGO, 10,000 rape kits were discovered stashed somewhere that were never completed (for DNA). They finally finished them, I repeat, THIRTEEN YEARS LATER.
WTF!?!? Who stashed them and why did it take THIRTEEN YEARS?
I can't believe men still say that crap!! It's just wrong.
Yes!!!! They sit on the shelf way too long.
No but it’s somewhat ironic that many women can’t wait to get get their kit off and sell their images to film , internet , newspapers, magazines etc and then they complain that they’re being exploited by nasty sexist men . Give me a break .
@@georgemorrison9280 Gee... You ever think that women feel compelled to self-exploit because, otherwise, crime against women would continue to be disregarded?
I come from a very understanding family and I try to remain as non-sexist as possible.
As a Doctor Who writer, I've discovered that female characters are a lot more fun to write for than males. Some of my best characters are women.
This is a great point, it is not up to us to say that we aren’t sexist or aren’t racist or aren’t transphobic or homophobic or ableist or islamophobic, etc. etc. unless we are part of those communities. Racism and sexism, islamophobia and transphobia, homophobia and ableism, are opinions decided by the communities affect and they can differ from person to person.
However, I would also like to point out, it is never enough to be non-sexist, or non-racist, etc. Being a bystander will never be enough to change the problem. It’s much better than the other side of it so it’s a good step, it is not nothing, but the end goal should be anti-sexist.
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 It should be enough to just be a decent human. People anti-something tend to forget we should all be anti-asshole as well as supporting our ideals. It's amazing to contribute more don't get me wrong, but the end goal should be that there is no inequality, not aiming to be a social justice warrior.
Well, as a Dr Who FAN I prefer to watch males
@@lazyhomebody1356 Ok, I was just pointing out my opinion.
If you want to see some of my work, get in touch with the Doctor Who Club of Australia.
@@Sodor18 I do sound a bit bratty don't I? Respect!
more to the point, there is a media barking head complaining that the green M&M isn't sexy enough.
@6:06 about screenwritings of women not wanting kids: I didn’t want kids because I didn’t want to put a kid through the abuse I got from my parents. I was afraid I’d pass it on. Now at age 63, I’m pretty fine with how it turned out. (I’ve also healed a whole lot of the crap I got. 😊) ETA: and yeah, it is a valid choice to not want kids even it you weren’t as messed up as I was.
Society towards men who don’t want kids: No problem bro, you do you.
Society towards women who don’t want kids: WTF is _wrong_ with you?!?!
So I’m totally disturbed by that “genre” of Christmas photo that I never knew existed, especially the one with the little boy giving a thumbs up. What bothers me most, I think, is that you know women always arrange the photo shoots.
Maybe the men should be gagged and tied up next time.
I know a family where the mother rarely talks (her choice) and you can’t shut up her husband and 2 sons. I’ve worked with the father and sons in the past and it’s almost impossible to get them to stop taking…lol
@@hillbillydeluxe27 Yes, of course some men are very talkative and some women are quiet. But this is not just about that: it's about women not having a voice and men deciding when we can talk, about what and for how long. I was married to an idiot that tried to do this to me, among many other things. I'm now divorced, of course.
Oh, I was hoping this was photoshopped! 🤬
@@silviac221 sorry to hear of your troubles. I hope life is much better now😀
I think that the majority of these clips should be posted everywhere. Women are being made to be responsible for men's actions because men aren't being made responsible for their own actions. A woman gets raped, it's because of what she was wearing. It shouldn't matter what she was wearing a skimpy outfit or a burlap bag that covered her from the neck down. No, men need to take responsible for their actions and mothers should be teaching their sons to respect women. As far as people wanting to adopt a child, would they be willing if the child was mentally or physically handicapped. I don't think so! Hypocrites!
Fucking exactly
Wow, first off, men are held more accountable to things women aren't. Like women can lift up a man's kilt and NOTHING happens to the woman. A woman can r*pe a child, and if she's attractive, omg, a slap on the wrist. If a man gets raped NO ONE hardly cares, especially if it's done by a woman, then he's just lucky. I honestly believe men get r*ped JUST AS MUCH as women it's just that men rarely say anything. A woman a sock a man right in his face and bystanders will do NOTHING. "Mothers need to teach their sons how to respect women?" How about PARENTS teaching their CHILD how to respect EVERYONE. Women are human. They can and have been JUST as vile as some men. Period.
@@a.mp.m7340 men do face some of the same challenges as women do, however it is very few and the challenges that they face are oppressive not discriminatory. The equivalent to what you just did is if somebody was having a BLM protest and I went over holding a white lives matter sign. White lives do matter, and white people can face some challenges, but right now we’re talking about black people and the discrimination and oppression that they face. Men do matter, and men do face some challenges, but right now ere talking about women and the discrimination and oppression that they face. We have to deal with the people who need the most help before we move on to others. As someone who has been all three categories of gender in their lifetime, all of them have and face challenges, but men are on top in society, there is absolutely no denying it, in second place are women, and all the way down at the bottom are non binary individuals who aren’t recognized as people in almost every country on earth.
So true............and when Muslim women wear the full body Abayas/Hijab with even the face mask they still get raped and sometimes jailed/abandoned by their families and can even be executed. And the guy....nothing.
Shawn-old account L "It's very few" how do you know? Majority of the time, men are silent about any type of abuse done to them. "It's very few" nice way to minimize what men go through. That whole BLM example, wow, just wow. Hardly anyone speaks on the topic of men, and God forbid if someone actually does. And with passion, their labeled misogynistic, women hater, oppressors, etc. The focus has ALWAYS been on women. Where's groups for men who were abused by their spouses, homes for them stalked by exes. Men are held hostage in relationships because the women use their children against them. In the beginning of the "metoo" movement, men who spoke up were "shused" because it "wasn't about them." Where was their protection, their allies? Depending on where you live, there are women who are not oppressed they are not discriminated against. No, EVERYONE needs help. That's something that y'all don't seem to understand. Women have been getting help for DECADES, decades, where is the help for men? Men might be "on top," but how it's looking women are clawing their way to take that spot instead of trying to ACTUALLY be equal. Most women of today don't want equality, they what to be the new oppressor. It's amazing how you say you have been on "all three categories," yet you're so ignorant and nonchalant to men and their troubles.
I just….women have veins! What the hell?
No. It's a conspiracy theory. We don't have veins. Definitely. No. No veins.
2:53 - Screw you, Brandon Pavlock!
4:24 - Damn right!
7:43 - I'm sure they'd insist that it's "just a joke", but I'm not laughing. I wonder what people's reaction would be if someone did these cards with the sexes reversed?
7:56 - I've seen this story before. I still don't know what the idiot woman had against gingers!
8:41 - Good question!
Women and teens who are victims of rape or incest should be allowed to choose whether or not to abort. It seems it would be extremely traumatic to carry that child, and then give up that child.
All these clips have very good points.
Any woman should have the right to choose whether or not to abort. It's her body, it's her business. No one else's.
Baby killer
Apparently people think it's okay to force a life, but not to take it.
@@starsnstripesforever5601rapist
7:45 Who TAF is taking photos like that, let alone posting them?????
To discover is to find something you and your associated people didn't previously know about. So, Columbus discovered America (but other people were already there), some casting person discovered Tom Cruise in the 80s (but his friends and family already knew all about him) and my neighbour's just discovered a new pop-up dress shop (but the staff and earlier customers were already aware). Neil Armstrong didn't discover the moon; we've known about it since before records began.
Plus you just have to look into the nightsky to see the moon from wherever in the world you are. Doesn't work with what Columbus discovered
So you're saying all the Native Americans who already knew THE LAND THEY'D BEEN LIVING IN FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS existed don't count?!?!?! Because that's what it sounds like you're saying. Also, Columbus didn't discover shit even if you're basing it on your racist "Europeans are the only people who count" rhetoric, because the Vikings had already "discovered" the Americas hundreds of years prior.
@ladyi7609 no, I said "you and your associated people", not "Europeans". Discovery is contextual: America was discovered by the Native Americans, who I understand were believed to be from Russia, the Vikings and the Europeans of the mid-second millennium, at different times. I'm guessing the Native Central Americans also discovered it a few times, and people from anywhere else you could walk/sail there from. The point about discovery is "ooh, I didn't know that was there." It doesn't get problematic until you have the mid-second millennium Europeans saying, "I was here first of all white men, so it's mine", but that's not what discovery means.
Every single one of these was spot on. Every. Single. One.
6:24 let me explain. Everyone knew the moon existed because everyone could see it. When you come across something that literally tens of millions of people did not know existed, i.e. the Americas, then yes, that's what is called discovery.
Right, but the point as that they learned about it, not discovered it. Discovering it means that they would be the first to find it. If you learn about a scientific discovery, you are discovering it for yourself but that doesn’t mean you know own the scientific discovery. That land belonged to the people who actually discovered it and who had been living off of it for centuries, we took the land and resources away, murdered half of them, burned down their homes, took away all their rights, and then gave them back the trashed land as compensation. Good argument but misled and slightly flawed.
The natives discovered it first!
At 5:42, when I was a small child, my mother told me the old saw, "Men may work from sun to sun, but women's work is never done". I thought to myself, who would sign up for THAT? Born in the '50's I saw too many women struggling far too much to raise too many children (before reliable birth control), and, as a result I never wanted to have children. I have never regretted my decision.
Same! 57 and no regrets here! I didn’t fall for that trap.
At 1:35, I read the best advice. If you feel threatened in any way in a public place, just say, really loudly, "Siri, call 911!" Everyone's phone, including the one of your harasser, will then light up the switchboard, alerting authorities to a problem where you are.
When men stand up for their mothers and sisters, but not other women, no wonder we become cynical.
My aunt once told me and my females cousins that we have to cover up because “boys can’t help it. It’s instinct.”
Ok auntie
"ha ha ha ha NO."
I guess I should be happy my ugliness kept men away from me.
Wish I coulda given this one about 100,000 thumbs up!!!!
"Sir there is literally a sexy green M&M."
And the Avatar of Logic, Morals, and Manners absolutely _lost his shi*,_ when she lost her Go-Go Boots.
And at 3:55, I'm writing this down.
This snapped my pre-Boomer eyes wide open.
What does this even mean?
@@norabunyard5798 Means I’m old and find a lot of these shocking.
1:50 All of them knockouts! Wow.
I am amazed at how ignorant people are about adoption and foster care. Over 99% of children in foster care are not available for adoption.
Did you just make up a figure? Or do you have an actual source for that "Over 99%" claim?
There are 407,000 children in foster care, and out of those 117,000 are waiting to be adopted. So it's 71.3 % not 99 % who are not waiting to be adopted.
Source U.S. Department of Health & Human Services: "National Data Shows Number of Children in Foster Care Decreases for the Third Consecutive Year"
@@Asa...S My numbers are straight from the US gov't. The US doesn't sever parental rights often. You can make up any numbers you want. Every day there are on average half a million children in foster care. It takes 4 years for a child to be adopted out of foster care mostly because of the paperwork and very few children are not adopted. Why do you think so many Americans have to leave the country to find children to adopt? If you really cared about children, you would support faster severing of parental rights for neglect and abuse.
@@annabellelee4535 "straight from the US gov'"
Could you a little more specific. The actual page where you read it.
Something like this:
U.S. Department of Health & Human Services: "National Data Shows Number of Children in Foster Care Decreases for the Third Consecutive Year".
@@Asa...S ccainstitute I am sure you can figure out the rest. I had to delete my first post because I added an e where it didn't belong. I'm kind of busy at the moment. You wouldn't understand
@@annabellelee4535 lmao, you can just delete your post if you don’t want to admit that you’re wrong, you don’t have to go through all that hun.
I hope you're checking these as fast as I'm writing them try and keep up come on let's go
luckily There's not very many pictures in this video cuz we sure don't have any time to look at them
4:22 I support this proposition.
its frustrating
Could you please go faster because I don't want to enjoy this
Men too can stop unwanted pregnancy.
Faster faster faster let's go come on faster faster
6:14 So the woman who is obviously attracted to older men says it's wrong for men to be attracted to young women.
She said someone 2 days younger than her looks like a child. She was talking about men in their 40's who chase girls in their teens. Not the same thing, for chrissakes. Is somebody feeling picked on?
David, you are obviously a trolling misogynist. Take it elsewhere, men like you have embarrassed our gender since time immemorable. The concepts these memes seek to illuminate may appear on your radar in about fifty reincarnations time of your narrow, self-serving soul.
@@gl15col i actually adore you, thank you so much.
Um…being attracted to children is called pedophilia. The fact that this comment triggered you……..
Can you make the video go faster please faster cuz I almost read a whole line
in the settings of every youtube video there is an option to make it slower or quicker.
You know you can pause, right?
If someone's life starts out bad, it will usually continue bad for the entirety of their lives. Children instinctively avoid damaged children because they know there's sickness there. Abused children are drawn to each other because there's a shard instinctual understanding though the abuse is never discussed. The weakness/ fear/ insecurity also draws dislike/ contempt/ irritation from all adults throughout the abused child's entire life. They are trained from infants to never defend themselves or show feelings or want ask for anything. They've never experienced good touch, nor safety or security. Throughout their lives they will be conned, robbed, bullied, taken advantage of, used and discarded. Healthy love has never been modelled for them so they don't know what behaviors are love. The abused suffer from the day they're born till the day they d i e.
Thank you. You just described my past , present and future more than I can . You are a million times right. You seem like an insightful person if there's a way to break this cycle kindly share it , therapy didn't help.
9:17 Better late than never.
Faster go faster we don't want to read
If you think the green m&m is sexy, it's you that thinks that, not "media."
Are you late for your own funeral. Because the speed reading class is killing me. Good morning enjoy this anyways you sure know how to make a video crap go faster faster please faster faster faster faster I want to have to pause and go back three times on every single clip
So go buy a picture book. Leave technology to those of us who can use a "pause" button.
Why do people automatically assume the green M&M is female?
The voice and stylization are unmistakably effeminate, especially when compared to the others, and while it is theoretically possible that she is trans, given when she was introduced, I find it incredibly unlikely, as LGBTQ+ topics were still very taboo.
She is. They've also confirmed she is a lesbian.
Don't worry ladies, apparently Only Fans is all the young girls answer to this problem......
About kids in care. All the children's future children will end up in care. Loving is a learned behavior. And these children have to come to terms with the abuse they've lived with their whole lives which is either unlikely or impossible. Today's victim is tomorrow's failed parent. Sad. Unfair. A shame. Unchangeable.
To all the women out there wondering "where are all the good men are at"?
Maybe you just need to lower your standards to a more realistic set.
Not every guy out there has a great paying job and great looks and if that's the two main things you're after, maybe it's kind of silly to judge every man out there as a bad guy, especially if you're not perfect yourself.
That is actually a good point but a lot of men are cruel to us girls but I understand where you are coming from because I feel like after what a lot of us girls/women have gone through we do tend to judge men more than we should but if a female ever tells you that she hates men she usually doesn’t mean all men. I hope you understand because I’m young so I have trouble explaining things 😅
I’ll tell you “where are all the good are at” there at a place where they don’t end sentences in prepositions. Sorry I had to do that 🤷♂
Sorry…autocorrect. “They’re”.
@@hillbillydeluxe27 Totally unnecessary. Exactly what value did your comment bring to the discussion?
@@norabunyard5798 tragically, my friends and I are always doing things like that. Especially my niece, who has a PhD in English. I swear she made me do it🤷♂
5:52 God created everything, so if he wants to take destroy or give he does so because he can he is God who loves unconditionally.
He punishes sin because he is a Just God.
7:14 Unless you became pregnant through parthenogenesis then there's at least an argument for the children to have the father's last name.
…how?
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 Hey, we put in a good thirty seconds of work to make that baby!
@@Vox-Multis lmao, I get you, but my point was more that this comment suggests that the father’s last name is the important one and should be the child’s last name, then the mother’s last name could be the child’s middle name if there’s room. Which is obviously sexist.
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 I know, man. I'm right there with you. I miss the days when I could say things like this without the /s tag and have it be understood that I was joking.
In this great list of bad things women have to live through I only have tiny little objections about the cases of:
4:12:
I think, this is an overal generalization of all men being monsters.
5:28:
It would be interesting to learn about the full circumstances. Perhaps, the man just wanted to have a better ability to provide for the family. Who knows.
6:23:
This is not a case of sexism, this is just a case of a bad education system and a lack of logic. From the viewpoint of the Europeans, Christoph Columbuus actually discovered the Americas but the moon always was visible for the whole mankind.
8:07:
Again, this is a case of overgeneralization of the charakter of all men. It's true that a women who had a bad experience with an asshole boyfriend or asshole husband tends to be emotional and this is understandable and such women needs a kind treatment, but such ideas by others as proposed here aren't helpful either in the overall relationship betwen the two natural sexes/genders and by the fact that this was done by a man just seems virtue signaling to me.
So, out of the 41 cases (I was able to count) of bad thing women had to go through, only four are objectionable for which I wrote my reasons. In essence, 90,24% full agreement.
Important!!!:
- Women must have ALL the rights and opportunities men have, this must not be objectionable.
- Religious leaders and especially rightwing politicians needs to loose the control over the behavior of women who just wants to live their lifes.
- Organizations and/or single individuals needs to learn that mere virtue signaling isn't enough.
- These organizations and/or individual persons need to learn to pay women the same for the same work in the same time.
- They need to learn to give the families the needed time to care for children, I would call it a "family leave" and it should be payd for fully (1).
- The overgeneralization of bad traits and assholery committed by men needs to stop but in some cases the logic behind the act of overgeneralization can be accepted.
(1) So, not just the mothers but also to the fathers since a kid needs his/her mother and his/her father for a good development hence my term "Family leave" and not "just" the old term "maternal leave". The demand for a family leave is valid for the USA since in most European countries like in my German homeland, paid maternal leave is already a right of women.
I love that your link to 8:07 actually links to the tweet about snakes not all of whom are venomous as it refutes your point.
People offering to adopt your baby are trying to save lives in a positive way.
I LOVE THEM !
It's wonderful that people offer to adopt your baby. But why aren't these wonderful people already adopting the thousands of children already available? Btw, these pictures are from "positive protesters " in front of women's clinics that offer abortion amongst many other health services.
Because being pregnant, giving birth, and then thinking about that child every day for the rest of your life, is no big deal! Also, when the kid is 18, he or she will show up at your doorstep and disrupt your life, but hey, no biggie eithe
If they're saving lives, they need to improve quality of life first and foremost, and make abortion in any and all cases legal.
…just stop having intercourse ….that’ll solve all of your problems ….bless .
They look like creeps. If I was on a verge of abortion, I would probably choose it just to avoid any child being raised by these people.
So, any depiction of a female human as sexually attractive is out, got it. Any depiction of a "female" non-human animated character as a metaphor for a female human as sexually attractive is out. Wow. Meta.
context: female representation in media is disproportionately fetishistic. Each individual instance contributes to the sexist trend. Plus, just compare like with like - the male M&Ms aren't made to look like some sexy stereotype.
When did people become such prudes? So afraid of being attractive and sexually mature, people seem to want to remain children for their entire lives. The fear of growing up is very bad for Western society.
We just passed 8 billion people on earth. The fewer people having kids the better. And what do you care, do what ever turns your crank and nobody will care. And where did you get this idea, what posting said that? Weird.
@@gl15col Wow, you are a child! 🤣🤣I hope you grow up.
….what??
So "wholesome" means acting like children? Interesting.
@@lazyhomebody1356 There wasn't much "wholesome" in the video, just childishness.
Other than rape, getting pregnant is a CHOICE. Do not commit infanticide for your bad choices.
You are aware that contraception can fail even when used correctly, or worse, be deliberately sabotaged by a lying partner, aren’t you? You are also aware that a wanted pregnancy can go wrong due to medical complications or genetic/physical fetal deformities that are detected during routine prenatal testing? How about a miscarriage that fails to progress as it should, which can lead to death from hemorrhage or sepsis? And an ectopic pregnancy is ALWAYS fatal to the woman if not treated immediately. Not to mention economic, educational, mental, physical, or psychological reasons why a woman isn’t ready to become a parent? Not your uterus, not your opinion!
@@dragondancer1814 ....and most fundamentally of all, a woman would clearly not be opting for an abortion if she had wanted to be pregnant, duh !
Sounds like you like to pretend that a zygote is an infant.
80 % of abortions are taken care of _before_ week 8, that's before the zygot has even become a fetus!
Getting pregnant is a choice…wow, just wow, I can’t even.
@@dragondancer1814 contraception isn't just the guys responsibility.
"A wanted pregnancy can go wrong......"
ANYTHING "can go wrong"......because something "can go wrong" in July justifies killing the kid in February?
Another joke video from Happy Land. And everyone wonders why fewer and fewer people are getting married.
A lot of rabid baby killers out there
Most of these are crap
At 2:50, Gypsy took her rapist to court and won. You believe this is crap. Please explain.
At 4:20 Jon Cooper proposes equal punishment for men who cause unwanted pregnancy as for women who choose not to continue that pregnancy. You believe this is crap. Please explain.
At 4:25, protester points out that the law will not prevent abortion, as it never has, but will result only in makingnit dangerously unsafe. You believe this is crap. Please explain.
At 5:20, poster asks that women be paid the same wage for the same job. You believe this is crap. Please explain.
@Marlene Eisnor
Comming from a Bible thumping woman (1) from most likely the USA it's no wonder that you surely are not into the equality of rights, freedoms, choices of women and men. You surely had been brainwashed from your early childhood into the wrong belief that women are inferior to men without the ability to make their own grown up decissons.
With every right taken away from women in the USA by those religious zealots I'm increasingly glad that I'm not a woman having to live in the red-states of the USA.
PS: Dear Christian fundamentalists, you surely are against the Muslim Sharia but the Sharia and the fundamentalist Christian doctrine are just the same women-controling women blaming set of laws.
(1) To allow me my profound judgement I checked the videos in the playlists you shared to get a picture about your political viewpoint.
No, the majority of these are the truth!
@@cat3crazy No, it's total crap. LOL. Get an education and you will understand. I don't understand this fear of adulthood and the desire to be a victim. smh. Oh well, you guys are good for laughs!!
@@annabellelee4535 It's actually quite the opposite. More educated people are more likely to recognize patterns of discrimination.
2:34 That guy is a catch!
%:24 What job pays women less than men? Same job and duties. Same hours. Same experience. Same education. Same availability. Same skills.
Go ahead and search. I'll wait.
8:40 Only for forced pregnancies.
Yeah “evangelical Americans” fault people have kids in the foster care. The amount of people who do not take personal responsibility astonishes me
You do know that 'Evangelical' states- ie where there aren't any proper sex ed classes have higher rates of STI's and teenage pregnancies, right? So yeah, IT IS evangelical american's fault that there are so many children in the care system.
0:53 At least the children in fostercare are alive.
I am completely for woman's rights etc however the first one at 0:09 already exists. There are hundreds of thousands of men that didn't want a pregnancy yet the woman went ahead on her own and had the child then they have full legal right to sue the man for 18 years worth of child support. Essentially a woman can sue a man for an unwanted pregnancy if they carry it to term.
"the woman went ahead on her own"...
interesting, you make it sound like the man wasn't involved at all. I say men shouldn't put their sperm where they don't want to have babies and they won't have this problem. (Yes, I realize no birth control is 100%, that's the risk of casual sex)
@@janineunrau9217 you need to learn to read properly. I never said getting pregnant does not include a man. The decision to keep it however can be only the woman's. And when a woman decides to keep a baby that a man does not want the woman has the right to sue the man for 18 years of child support. It happens all the time. It is not about how a baby is made or "accidental" pregnancies. The quote in the video is about who has the right to sue who. And they believe that if a man has the right to sue a woman then a woman should have the right to sue a man....and if you learned to read then that is what I outlined in my comment. A woman does have the right to sue a man for a child they don't want.
@@pacman3556 oh my goodness, you are so right... I am completely illiterate and don't know how to put words into sentences!
I didn't say anything about who has the right to sue who (if you read my comment). That would take pages of dialog to properly discuss and since I apparently can't read I will leave that to the scholars. I simply made a humorous comment about your choice of phrasing. I may be illiterate but I do have a funny bone. 🤪
@@janineunrau9217 you comment did not come across as humorous but at least you are willing to accept you are not able to read properly. Next step is to go back to school and learn to read.
Carry condoms gentlemen.