So helpful and exactly the perspective I required right now! Yes please for the Lilith houses/sign video. Pleased to meet you MyGeminiFriend. I love you too and thank you for your message!
I am very interested in a Lilith throughout the houses & signs series. For whatever reason, this placement has been showing me how prevalent & inescapable this energy is in my life. I’d like to understand more about how I may affect others. I do see that people have very strong reactions to me all the time for better or for worse. I have Lilith in the 1st house in Libra along with Pluto.
Lilith in the 1st feels very inescapable until it’s reclaimed, and even then it’s something that will be integrated into your overall identity. With Pluto involved, that certainly adds intensity to it in the way that others will be noticing, whether you want that or not. I know that with Lilith in my 1st, I’ve had to stop trying to tame it and instead lean into the intensity it brings. I have actually completed my Lilith series, and have a playlist with all of the signs and houses!
I resonate deeply with Lilith's story, but struggle socially due to my Lilith placement in Gemini in the 12th house and living on my Chiron DC Line in Capricorn in the 6th house. The education system failed me, leaving me feeling isolated and outcasted. I've experienced betrayal from so-called friends, especially my ex-"bestie" who switched up when I mentioned I might be autistic. Despite this, I've found solace in spirituality, particularly the occult, but it's often dismissed by others. Discovering your video feels like fate, and I'm considering starting a Etsy shop, or just becoming my own boss but lost in where to start maybe in something spiritual helping others although I doubt my intuition at times. Nonetheless, I'm eager to buy a reading from you as I've been waiting for someone like you to help me make sense of it all.
All those people who call you selfish they dont know and understand themselves, they running from themselves. Be selfish, know yourself. To be selfish is to fill your cup up , and then that cup overflows and then it is pouring downwards, and that is abundance, that is true selflessness.
@@YourGeminiFriend yeah its like the Sun , isnt in astrology the Sun the self...Leo - self centered. The Sun is self centered, being himself and the radiation of warmth, and light is the consequence of it. The Sun is not saying I am here just because they said I need to give light to the planet Earth. All other people who are negatively selfish - which is I would say programmed centered, lost, unaware. Their self is limited, conditioned, has borders. Unconditional love - you are it. You are the light and I am the love, and you are the love and I the light. Be thyself - BEE.
Today I was thinking about defensive mechsnism being connection to the feminine energy, and was thinking what about offensive mechanism. Emotional and rational. Scientist and artist. Symphatetic and parasphatetic. Anjali, namaste - prayer mudra 🙏. Union ❤
Great video - thanks for sharing 😀 I do resonate with the themes of Lilith. In my chart Lilith (Pisces/10th) is sextile my Sun (Cap/7th), quincunx my Moon (Libra/5th), sextile my Neptune (Sag/7th) and trine my Pluto (Scorpio/6th) ✨ I think she plays quite a prominent part in my life 💫 A video about Lilith in the signs/houses would be really interesting. Thanks again for sharing your wisdom, knowledge and experience 🙏🥰
I have lilith in 11th house in Cancer (29th degree).. I think I'm destined to be famous in some shape or form, for good or for worse! Maybe infamous :P But I think it speaks to having a repressed sense for how to be the dominant, outspoken one in a communal way, one who is in tune with the collective, that's how I interpret it. I didn't always have it, I had to learn it through experience and seeing how repressed I was in terms of assertion. It's progressed along with my fortune and moon into my 11th house.. I sort of see this as a sign that every side of me is coming out in public now. Although lilith has since moved into Leo (and I am a Leo...) so maybe Lilith is the part of me that is really ruling things now, I do feel that dark energy, but it's empowering in lots of ways.. I don't see it as a negative.. but I can see how what I do/say/think is very taboo, or what others would consider taboo!
I would say my Leo (I don't know if Leo is actually considered more inherently masculine as a sign..) is tempered by my Virgo ascendant and Cancer qualities (I am very caring in a sort of general way for other people's needs) but the Leo in me mixed with Lilith does have a feeling of a wild child at times.. a sort of naughtiness/cheekiness that could be reined in a bit at times! I probably go too far with my dark humour sometimes!
As for more lilith stuff, I would be super interested because I never get tired of what you have to share and the emotions you express so passionately!
I definitely think of being publicly outspoken, for the sake of the group and the more emotional undercurrent of humanity. Lilith in the 11th as infamous is a great word to use.
I can feel that so strongly in your delivery. That’s why your videos are really exciting even though the chief content (I guess) is the words themselves, but that energetic delivery and the aesthetics, they are what I am actually into as well in a BIG way. Loud colours and theatricality. I think we might actually be quite similar (even though I’m a late blooming Aries!) but even I have that Gemini midheaven and I’m Virgo.. so I’m overflowing with mercurial spirit! Infamous would be right for Lilith, but famous to the people who appreciate your taboo breaking/outspokenness. I’m very aware that people do not like my messages and won’t agree. But I love that because I want to change things and break down walls. I’m interested in the idea of Lilith being this intense feminine energy in, let’s say, Leo.. or Aries.. do you think the blend of that feminine with masculine might make it more androgynous overall? I mean, my mean Lilith is in Cancer so it’s probably extra nurturing.. in theory.. perhaps.. but maybe now it’s progressed to Leo there’s a bit of theatricality and creativity coming out of it.. that wasn’t there before.. and has a playfulness.. but I don’t know if that is any more masculine.. it probably reminds me of an almost childlike sense of fun with it.. But anyway, im interested what you think about Lilith in terms of it being in a masculine or feminine sign.. whether you even consider this when theorising about it?
I’ll have to think about this more, but I’m not sure that I would consider whether the sign is masculine or feminine when interpreting Lilith through it. I can definitely see why you would ask this though. I guess as far as feminine and Masculine goes within the signs, it might be more specific and personal to the individual chart. In my perception of my own energies, I can’t seem to shake the idea that my feminine is represented more by my Gemini, and even Aries in some ways, while my Capricorn and Taurus placements seem to be where I get stuck in that overexertion of masculine energy. It’s very much a mix of all parts of me, but I feel that all signs can have this nuance. I have always had a hard time sticking to binary gendered thinking though. My main focus with Lilith seems to be the collective repressed feminine, as that’s what comes through so strongly when I meditate on her energy. Maybe it has a lot to do with each person’s relationship with their own masculine/feminine balance? Since the goal is to integrate the two, not necessarily to identify and compartmentalize them. But I’ll be thinking more about this.
I used a calculator and it said my Lilith is in Virgo in the 10th House. Can you shine a little light on that? ...thank you friend, hope you are well. 🙏🏻
Which do you consider more significant personally, the mean or true Lilith? Are they always the same degrees apart? I just realised my True Lilith is in Leo and not Cancer, I wonder what this could truly mean :P
Oh that’s interesting that they’re in different signs. The two can be very close, but they can also be 20+ degrees away. I guess if I could only use one, I’d use the mean, but I could probably argue for the other side as well. In all honesty, all of these calculation options get me confused🙈so I tend to go more intuitive and see what feels right. I like the idea of mean Lilith being more overall thematically relevant in the chart, but there’s absolutely use in the exact calculation. I would say, see which lines up with the overall chart and makes more sense in the moment, but also don’t discount the other. The only Lilith that I don’t see much use in is the Waldemath Moon.
Have you ever come across a chart/a person who has Lilith and their Moon conjunct OR someone who has both conjunct to their midheaven? I came across a chart that has Lilith and Moon conjunct PLUS conjunct the midheaven.. and their 10th house contains the sun... I was like.. that must mean something PRETTY significant in their life! What would you make of it?
Actually, a very close family member has Lilith conjunct her moon in the 10th, and another has her Lilith conjunct her MC. I see it being conjunct the MC as especially strengthening the 10th house aspect of it being very public or relevant to the way they make a mark on the world. Lilith conjunct Moon in the 10th seems to make the placement stand out in a way that’s unavoidable, like forced public expression of the feminine that was repressed. It’s a huge deal in her chart, and I can see how painful it’s been, but I also see the strength and growth coming from freeing this side of her. Definitely significant!
@@YourGeminiFriend Interesting, thanks! Actually, it's interesting you brought this up as I have Lilith sextile my MC and I am beginning to take notice of what Lilith's placement might mean for me on a personal level. It's in my 11th house in the 29th degree. I can't help but view Lilith as an antidote to the harsh aspects my moon has in my chart, maybe offering another path away from some strong repression in the past.
That’s an interesting combo! Both the 11th house and Lilith in Gemini can deal with intellectual rebellion, or using your words and thoughts to make people think differently, in a way that disrupts their normal thought patterns. Venus in the 11th would show that you’re a good person to have within a group, because you have the capacity to care for many people at once, and likely value your friends highly. It totally depends on the rest of your chart, but I do see this as using your communication skills in a way that impacts people on a larger scale. Of course Lilith tends to distort the energy it’s in on some level, so this can be extremes in either direction of how the energies would normally be expressed.
My Lilith is bettaaa than yours 😂. No , maybe. Lilith in Scorpio conjunct MC in 11th house, but in Placidus is in 9th so relate to it all. And Chiron, Jumo in Scorpio...Lilith in square with Uranus in Aquarius?
I think Lilith is great in Scorpio. The square with Uranus seems like maybe having unexpected experiences that force you to integrate your dark side with your unconventional side, when they naturally clash in some way?
Lilith through the houses and signs sounds like an interesting topic, hope you make a series 🤞
Thanks for the encouragement! I’ll likely do this then.
So helpful and exactly the perspective I required right now! Yes please for the Lilith houses/sign video. Pleased to meet you MyGeminiFriend. I love you too and thank you for your message!
I’m so glad to hear that! You’re so welcome☺️
I am very interested in a Lilith throughout the houses & signs series. For whatever reason, this placement has been showing me how prevalent & inescapable this energy is in my life. I’d like to understand more about how I may affect others. I do see that people have very strong reactions to me all the time for better or for worse. I have Lilith in the 1st house in Libra along with Pluto.
Lilith in the 1st feels very inescapable until it’s reclaimed, and even then it’s something that will be integrated into your overall identity. With Pluto involved, that certainly adds intensity to it in the way that others will be noticing, whether you want that or not. I know that with Lilith in my 1st, I’ve had to stop trying to tame it and instead lean into the intensity it brings. I have actually completed my Lilith series, and have a playlist with all of the signs and houses!
Okay Scorpio NN, I see you!! Looking dashing! 🖤🩶
🙈🙈🙈Thank you!!
I resonate deeply with Lilith's story, but struggle socially due to my Lilith placement in Gemini in the 12th house and living on my Chiron DC Line in Capricorn in the 6th house. The education system failed me, leaving me feeling isolated and outcasted. I've experienced betrayal from so-called friends, especially my ex-"bestie" who switched up when I mentioned I might be autistic. Despite this, I've found solace in spirituality, particularly the occult, but it's often dismissed by others. Discovering your video feels like fate, and I'm considering starting a Etsy shop, or just becoming my own boss but lost in where to start maybe in something spiritual helping others although I doubt my intuition at times. Nonetheless, I'm eager to buy a reading from you as I've been waiting for someone like you to help me make sense of it all.
I’m really happy to help! Thank you so much for purchasing a reading, I will take all of this into account.
All those people who call you selfish they dont know and understand themselves, they running from themselves. Be selfish, know yourself. To be selfish is to fill your cup up , and then that cup overflows and then it is pouring downwards, and that is abundance, that is true selflessness.
This is a really great way to look at things, and something I need to focus on more. Thank you for the perspective!
@@YourGeminiFriend yeah its like the Sun , isnt in astrology the Sun the self...Leo - self centered. The Sun is self centered, being himself and the radiation of warmth, and light is the consequence of it. The Sun is not saying I am here just because they said I need to give light to the planet Earth. All other people who are negatively selfish - which is I would say programmed centered, lost, unaware. Their self is limited, conditioned, has borders. Unconditional love - you are it. You are the light and I am the love, and you are the love and I the light. Be thyself - BEE.
Today I was thinking about defensive mechsnism being connection to the feminine energy, and was thinking what about offensive mechanism. Emotional and rational. Scientist and artist. Symphatetic and parasphatetic. Anjali, namaste - prayer mudra 🙏. Union ❤
Great video - thanks for sharing 😀 I do resonate with the themes of Lilith. In my chart Lilith (Pisces/10th) is sextile my Sun (Cap/7th), quincunx my Moon (Libra/5th), sextile my Neptune (Sag/7th) and trine my Pluto (Scorpio/6th) ✨ I think she plays quite a prominent part in my life 💫 A video about Lilith in the signs/houses would be really interesting. Thanks again for sharing your wisdom, knowledge and experience 🙏🥰
I’m glad you liked it! She does seem really relevant in your chart. This is a fascinating energy to dive into, so I will keep it in mind.
I have lilith in 11th house in Cancer (29th degree).. I think I'm destined to be famous in some shape or form, for good or for worse! Maybe infamous :P
But I think it speaks to having a repressed sense for how to be the dominant, outspoken one in a communal way, one who is in tune with the collective, that's how I interpret it. I didn't always have it, I had to learn it through experience and seeing how repressed I was in terms of assertion. It's progressed along with my fortune and moon into my 11th house.. I sort of see this as a sign that every side of me is coming out in public now. Although lilith has since moved into Leo (and I am a Leo...) so maybe Lilith is the part of me that is really ruling things now, I do feel that dark energy, but it's empowering in lots of ways.. I don't see it as a negative.. but I can see how what I do/say/think is very taboo, or what others would consider taboo!
I would say my Leo (I don't know if Leo is actually considered more inherently masculine as a sign..) is tempered by my Virgo ascendant and Cancer qualities (I am very caring in a sort of general way for other people's needs) but the Leo in me mixed with Lilith does have a feeling of a wild child at times.. a sort of naughtiness/cheekiness that could be reined in a bit at times! I probably go too far with my dark humour sometimes!
As for more lilith stuff, I would be super interested because I never get tired of what you have to share and the emotions you express so passionately!
I definitely think of being publicly outspoken, for the sake of the group and the more emotional undercurrent of humanity. Lilith in the 11th as infamous is a great word to use.
I can feel that so strongly in your delivery. That’s why your videos are really exciting even though the chief content (I guess) is the words themselves, but that energetic delivery and the aesthetics, they are what I am actually into as well in a BIG way. Loud colours and theatricality. I think we might actually be quite similar (even though I’m a late blooming Aries!) but even I have that Gemini midheaven and I’m Virgo.. so I’m overflowing with mercurial spirit!
Infamous would be right for Lilith, but famous to the people who appreciate your taboo breaking/outspokenness. I’m very aware that people do not like my messages and won’t agree. But I love that because I want to change things and break down walls.
I’m interested in the idea of Lilith being this intense feminine energy in, let’s say, Leo.. or Aries.. do you think the blend of that feminine with masculine might make it more androgynous overall?
I mean, my mean Lilith is in Cancer so it’s probably extra nurturing.. in theory.. perhaps.. but maybe now it’s progressed to Leo there’s a bit of theatricality and creativity coming out of it.. that wasn’t there before.. and has a playfulness.. but I don’t know if that is any more masculine.. it probably reminds me of an almost childlike sense of fun with it..
But anyway, im interested what you think about Lilith in terms of it being in a masculine or feminine sign.. whether you even consider this when theorising about it?
I’ll have to think about this more, but I’m not sure that I would consider whether the sign is masculine or feminine when interpreting Lilith through it. I can definitely see why you would ask this though. I guess as far as feminine and Masculine goes within the signs, it might be more specific and personal to the individual chart. In my perception of my own energies, I can’t seem to shake the idea that my feminine is represented more by my Gemini, and even Aries in some ways, while my Capricorn and Taurus placements seem to be where I get stuck in that overexertion of masculine energy. It’s very much a mix of all parts of me, but I feel that all signs can have this nuance.
I have always had a hard time sticking to binary gendered thinking though. My main focus with Lilith seems to be the collective repressed feminine, as that’s what comes through so strongly when I meditate on her energy. Maybe it has a lot to do with each person’s relationship with their own masculine/feminine balance? Since the goal is to integrate the two, not necessarily to identify and compartmentalize them. But I’ll be thinking more about this.
Lilith in Capricorn
I used a calculator and it said my Lilith is in Virgo in the 10th House. Can you shine a little light on that? ...thank you friend, hope you are well. 🙏🏻
Of course, I hope you’re doing well too! I’ll respond in the message you sent.
@@YourGeminiFriend thank you!!
Which do you consider more significant personally, the mean or true Lilith? Are they always the same degrees apart? I just realised my True Lilith is in Leo and not Cancer, I wonder what this could truly mean :P
Oh that’s interesting that they’re in different signs. The two can be very close, but they can also be 20+ degrees away. I guess if I could only use one, I’d use the mean, but I could probably argue for the other side as well. In all honesty, all of these calculation options get me confused🙈so I tend to go more intuitive and see what feels right. I like the idea of mean Lilith being more overall thematically relevant in the chart, but there’s absolutely use in the exact calculation. I would say, see which lines up with the overall chart and makes more sense in the moment, but also don’t discount the other. The only Lilith that I don’t see much use in is the Waldemath Moon.
Have you ever come across a chart/a person who has Lilith and their Moon conjunct OR someone who has both conjunct to their midheaven? I came across a chart that has Lilith and Moon conjunct PLUS conjunct the midheaven.. and their 10th house contains the sun... I was like.. that must mean something PRETTY significant in their life! What would you make of it?
Actually, a very close family member has Lilith conjunct her moon in the 10th, and another has her Lilith conjunct her MC. I see it being conjunct the MC as especially strengthening the 10th house aspect of it being very public or relevant to the way they make a mark on the world. Lilith conjunct Moon in the 10th seems to make the placement stand out in a way that’s unavoidable, like forced public expression of the feminine that was repressed. It’s a huge deal in her chart, and I can see how painful it’s been, but I also see the strength and growth coming from freeing this side of her. Definitely significant!
@@YourGeminiFriend Interesting, thanks! Actually, it's interesting you brought this up as I have Lilith sextile my MC and I am beginning to take notice of what Lilith's placement might mean for me on a personal level. It's in my 11th house in the 29th degree. I can't help but view Lilith as an antidote to the harsh aspects my moon has in my chart, maybe offering another path away from some strong repression in the past.
Hey, I have Lilith in the 11th, wich is also where my Venus are, in Gemini, still figuring alt what that means
That’s an interesting combo! Both the 11th house and Lilith in Gemini can deal with intellectual rebellion, or using your words and thoughts to make people think differently, in a way that disrupts their normal thought patterns. Venus in the 11th would show that you’re a good person to have within a group, because you have the capacity to care for many people at once, and likely value your friends highly. It totally depends on the rest of your chart, but I do see this as using your communication skills in a way that impacts people on a larger scale. Of course Lilith tends to distort the energy it’s in on some level, so this can be extremes in either direction of how the energies would normally be expressed.
My Lilith is bettaaa than yours 😂. No , maybe. Lilith in Scorpio conjunct MC in 11th house, but in Placidus is in 9th so relate to it all. And Chiron, Jumo in Scorpio...Lilith in square with Uranus in Aquarius?
I think Lilith is great in Scorpio. The square with Uranus seems like maybe having unexpected experiences that force you to integrate your dark side with your unconventional side, when they naturally clash in some way?