"Disrespect is a coachable moment" - Yes and no. You cannot force someone to change. They have to be open to the possibility/prospect of changing. Furthermore, the older the person gets, they harder it becomes for them to change as they grow more set in their ways.
in those situations you should evaluate, if it’s something that isn’t coachable and she’s not willing to be coached drop her. Give her 3 strikes or chances
My experience is that people rarely change. That contempt/misconduct you see is often the tip of an ingrained behaviour. It's often better to cut them loose at once and accept the lose than gamble on hope. Had a work hand who was a friend. He'd delay on projects and always give excuses- he lived far away. I suspected he was simply being irresponsible and abusing my kindness. I sat him down and explained the importance of integrity and honouring your word. I wanted to give him the benefit of doubt. Years later, his attitude got ingrained and he no longer tried to hide his irresponsibility. He now saw me as a fool bcos I tried to be accommodative. Looking back I should hav taken the hard stance at first sign of slackness. This same goes for women.
Love the outside of the box thinking but it all makes sense too. Sometimes it's so simple it makes me feel stupid like why didn't I think of that. Good job EO
Being socially aware and being able to read the message behind actions is essential because some women will try hard to break your frame just for their own entertainment, there's a fine line between pursuing/leading and begging.. once it turns into begging that's it imo, great video coach EO
This is a great one. I learned this the hard way.. I ended up having to throw a marriage in the trash can because I wasn't requiring anything.. Now I find myself naturally coaching and understanding that this is my ship not hers... I have to hold my L this was the biggest lesson I had to learn as a man about relationships and marriage.
Facts! She physically abused me on few occasions. First few times I was cool as cucumber. I reasoned and was harmonies. Last time she did it I kicked her out of the house. Done. I feel immensely bad about that. First date she was 2.5h late. I played it cool. Mentioned it and kept it moving. As our relationship developed she became more testy. Took all my positive energy away.
I think it depends on the type of disrespect. For example, if a woman is running late then you can use that as a coachable moment and let her know your standards going forward. However, if a women flat out tells you not to tell her what to do then she does not deserve any coaching from you and should be charged immediately. Your goal as a man should be to surround yourself with women who will make life easier for you and not add any stress or headache.
Be sure omar If you’re using my teaching terminology, (coachable moment) you reference the source. Of course a defiant woman (or anyone) should be charged not because she’s “bad” but simply unfit for what you want.
He also said to live your truth. If someone can't respect your truth, she is not for you. The key is being true to ourselves. If a woman pulls us away from ourselves, and our purpose, she is not worth our time.
My brother, same here! The moment I feel disrespect, she gets the gift of missing me. Why should we as men ALWAYS show up on our best behavior, yet the woman can show up half assed. Fauwk that shyt!
Just came across your page.Your perspective is different than I've heard, along with the positive energy. some I know and do but always like more wisdom. 💯
Agree. Teach them. If they say something that you don't like calmly let her know to not say that ever again she will respect you more for putting her in her place
I decided to just leave the game alone. There is only so much disrespect I choose to put up with. True enough, no one is perfect, but she is still a full grown woman. After 3 times I'm done. I am never in my emotions when I decide to let them go and just move on. As a man you must set your ground rules and standards and stand on them. Let them know off top. That way she can't say that she did not know, because now-a-days many of these women will just disrespect man simply for the sake of feminism, which is of the jezabel spirit, so you must quickly and sharply rebuke that. A lot of todays women have far too much pride to even be taught!!!
That can also be said for the average 18 year old male. Nevertheless, it’s more about finding a gem among the rocks and mud than taking a shiny piece of metal and labeling it gold.
N great vid koolz very simple stuff we all shld hv learnd comin at girls in middle school n high school but the 1 thing thy hate somtimes is the words baby girl n babydoll usta use thos ALL THE TIME somtimes it workd somtimes i got i am not ur babygirl or babydoll but it does work tho guys jus gota b smooth with it n confident
Very well said you remind me of the phrase Patience is a virtue I’m very very much so enjoyed your commentary, you speak from my perspective of reality tangible.Communication is the key with anyone keep up the good work I look forward two more of your work
Being late is tolerable but being late without a heads up that you’re running behind is disrespectful and can’t be tolerated. If a person is generally late all the time then it’s a part of their character and if it’s a deal breaker than on principle alone it can’t be tolerated. The coachable moment is not tolerating disrespect from a woman on any level because giving the benefit of the doubt to disrespectful women is overrated.
I agree to a point. Address the infraction..but I believe a woman knows how to behave appropriately. If she’s on some shit then it can be how she feels about you.
We living in a different time and the more you try to correct or confront a woman the more Evil and extremely disrespectful she'll become! A real man a just cut the hag loose and check out another woman who obviously wants to be with him.
Were you getting dolled up for me? Definitely using that. Coach always got the perfect lines. I’ve noticed this technique works..instant rewards come if handled with care. I’m not gonna waste my own time and lose perfectly good ass
I like the idea of coaching a woman. I am in my 40s and typically date women in their 20s. Sometimes I pretend I am the father figure to these women. Same basic concept, but they definitely respect discipline, something they aren't getting from other men.
You have to give them a couple of chances but don't be a door mat. you have to see them change to keep on investing time into them. If they don't want to compromise, that's when you have to leave. Stop wasting both of your time and find someone that will cooperate.
The Perfect Video right on time I learn something not to blow up and get into your feelings is so bad but the way you handle. the situation is on point 👉
Lateness is my biggest common peeve with women. They all do it to a degree and it still bothers me regardless of the reasons. I appreciate the Game on this, but it's definitely something that will get a woman clipped if she doesn't text or she keeps me waiting in person so she can make an entrance like Hollywood movies. Once it rises to the level of feeling inconsiderate I typically move on if I've tried to coach her through it a few times. I may have to rethink my approach on this, but it's never been a clippable issue with a high quality woman... Only ones who were borderline.
When a man has a good balance of wisdom,inner strength, and self control he creates a safe place for those around him.
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In my opinion, if a woman disrespects you, she doesn't have respect for herself either. A woman who respects herself shows respect to others.
Big facts
"Disrespect is a coachable moment" - Yes and no. You cannot force someone to change. They have to be open to the possibility/prospect of changing. Furthermore, the older the person gets, they harder it becomes for them to change as they grow more set in their ways.
He said it's a gradual process, and not accepting someone's rudeness just because you like the person for whatever reason.
@@YoungDen my comment takes into account what he said.
It's a coachable moment for smaller things. Otherwise dropkick to the skreets
in those situations you should evaluate, if it’s something that isn’t coachable and she’s not willing to be coached drop her. Give her 3 strikes or chances
@@TheGhostVillain that's why I said yes and no. Read more carefully.
Disrespect coming from women is a sign of weakness and insecurity. It took a long time to learn.
Im a woman and this mans style is off the charts. The way he speaks, his mannerisms and tone is off the charts. Keep teaching please
Good Coaching, Coach.
My experience is that people rarely change. That contempt/misconduct you see is often the tip of an ingrained behaviour. It's often better to cut them loose at once and accept the lose than gamble on hope. Had a work hand who was a friend. He'd delay on projects and always give excuses- he lived far away. I suspected he was simply being irresponsible and abusing my kindness. I sat him down and explained the importance of integrity and honouring your word. I wanted to give him the benefit of doubt. Years later, his attitude got ingrained and he no longer tried to hide his irresponsibility. He now saw me as a fool bcos I tried to be accommodative. Looking back I should hav taken the hard stance at first sign of slackness. This same goes for women.
You can't respect someone who doesn't respect you it goes both ways
Pimpin clothes brotha!
Disrespect is a no no however their is a difference between disrespect and disagreement.
100%
Must be civilised - no rising voice - hissy fitst
Love the outside of the box thinking but it all makes sense too. Sometimes it's so simple it makes me feel stupid like why didn't I think of that. Good job EO
Best video you’ve done. Outstanding!!! Loved it!
Being socially aware and being able to read the message behind actions is essential because some women will try hard to break your frame just for their own entertainment, there's a fine line between pursuing/leading and begging.. once it turns into begging that's it imo, great video coach EO
If a man begs a woman for anything he ain't nothing but a simp.
Coach EO, flyest coach in the game. Gave a thumbs up before the viewing. Respect
Never break when a woman TRIES to disrespect you
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Fr this usually happens to me just don't play there games don't even say anything till she come at you the right way.
This is a great one. I learned this the hard way.. I ended up having to throw a marriage in the trash can because I wasn't requiring anything.. Now I find myself naturally coaching and understanding that this is my ship not hers... I have to hold my L this was the biggest lesson I had to learn as a man about relationships and marriage.
This is the realest advice for men on RUclips thus far on how to gain respect and be a leader🙏🏾💯
Thank you for getting me hip to all this stuff
I prefer making her Simp by living in her head rent free💀
Sometimes you have to release your anger after harsh disrespect. It can be channeled positively or negatively...but the anger must be released
Facts! She physically abused me on few occasions. First few times I was cool as cucumber. I reasoned and was harmonies. Last time she did it I kicked her out of the house. Done. I feel immensely bad about that. First date she was 2.5h late. I played it cool. Mentioned it and kept it moving. As our relationship developed she became more testy. Took all my positive energy away.
She was 2.5 hours late on first date and u didn’t think that was a red flag
@@MrIlleism you waited 2 and half hours my guy?
@@alexlandy7422 I know! Fucked up! Easy to be smart after the fact ;)
@@MrIlleism this is crazy bro she must’ve been too fine 💀☠️
Wise words. I'm living this. It's working.
Let’s be real, bro came through with facts on this one! #Respect!
Good strategy Which not only applies to women but men as well
I think it depends on the type of disrespect. For example, if a woman is running late then you can use that as a coachable moment and let her know your standards going forward. However, if a women flat out tells you not to tell her what to do then she does not deserve any coaching from you and should be charged immediately. Your goal as a man should be to surround yourself with women who will make life easier for you and not add any stress or headache.
Be sure omar If you’re using my teaching terminology, (coachable moment) you reference the source. Of course a defiant woman (or anyone) should be charged not because she’s “bad” but simply unfit for what you want.
Interacting with females for any length of time always brings stress and hassle. They are a depreciating asset from the start
@@johnreed9050FACTS.
This is eye opening. This is gold!
Good one
He's Good
I ran into this video is randomly I just like to say this helped me a lot thank you
EO is bringing balance to the force.
Now this is wisdom
thanks coach, so on point.
He also said to live your truth. If someone can't respect your truth, she is not for you. The key is being true to ourselves. If a woman pulls us away from ourselves, and our purpose, she is not worth our time.
Great advice EO
This man is a true King!
Wow! Am speechless! This video is a treasure!! Thanks a bunch!!! So much insight!!!
You have patience. After being disrespected for so long at this point I’m almost checked out
My brother, same here! The moment I feel disrespect, she gets the gift of missing me. Why should we as men ALWAYS show up on our best behavior, yet the woman can show up half assed. Fauwk that shyt!
Just came across your page.Your perspective is different than I've heard, along with the positive energy. some I know and do but always like more wisdom. 💯
Where were you when I was 15? looool. I love this coach thank you
Agree. Teach them. If they say something that you don't like calmly let her know to not say that ever again she will respect you more for putting her in her place
I decided to just leave the game alone. There is only so much disrespect I choose to put up with. True enough, no one is perfect, but she is still a full grown woman. After 3 times I'm done. I am never in my emotions when I decide to let them go and just move on. As a man you must set your ground rules and standards and stand on them. Let them know off top. That way she can't say that she did not know, because now-a-days many of these women will just disrespect man simply for the sake of feminism, which is of the jezabel spirit, so you must quickly and sharply rebuke that. A lot of todays women have far too much pride to even be taught!!!
Solid. 100%!
Well done my good sir... well done.
I needed to hear this today bro. Subscribed
A wise man once told me, “a woman these days becomes UNCOACHABLE after the age of 25”. Do with that information what you will.
she came from a girl to a women. we all grow. no one wants to stay the same.
@@Chopperdog kudos to you. The exception isn’t the norm.
That can also be said for the average 18 year old male. Nevertheless, it’s more about finding a gem among the rocks and mud than taking a shiny piece of metal and labeling it gold.
If they have any kids for sure
Well said great advise brother.
This is the first person ever to tackle the notion that dates should be cancelled when women run in late.
Solid advice! Lots of men need to listen to this video 💎
I love this message ...
Well said!
Real spill!!
Coachable Moment? Not in the Real World. The one's I've encountered...have had deep seeded Sabotage Tactics
Bro you're on point with this...
Great Advice
Good advice
Had to subscribe and hit that like button 💯💪💪
That talk was fuckn gorgeous!!! Salute King 👑
Coachable moment... like that word ... i always look out for that
N great vid koolz very simple stuff we all shld hv learnd comin at girls in middle school n high school but the 1 thing thy hate somtimes is the words baby girl n babydoll usta use thos ALL THE TIME somtimes it workd somtimes i got i am not ur babygirl or babydoll but it does work tho guys jus gota b smooth with it n confident
Very well said you remind me of the phrase Patience is a virtue I’m very very much so enjoyed your commentary, you speak from my perspective of reality tangible.Communication is the key with anyone keep up the good work I look forward two more of your work
Smooth intro lettering. I like that!
This is great advice!
Great advice
Classic Weather King just expressing knowledge.
EO is Brilliant 🎯💯👌
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You the man coach EO great advice
Salute Coach 🤜🏾🤛🏾
This brother is dropping gems
And #respect is to be earned, NOT automatically given.
First video. Subscribed!
Solid advice.
This is actually great advice
A great way to see things, thanks for the valuable insight.
Being late is tolerable but being late without a heads up that you’re running behind is disrespectful and can’t be tolerated. If a person is generally late all the time then it’s a part of their character and if it’s a deal breaker than on principle alone it can’t be tolerated.
The coachable moment is not tolerating disrespect from a woman on any level because giving the benefit of the doubt to disrespectful women is overrated.
I agree to a point. Address the infraction..but I believe a woman knows how to behave appropriately. If she’s on some shit then it can be how she feels about you.
Earned my respect
Coach EO .... I need your coaching real talk.
Dude is cool 😎👌🏽 respect
We living in a different time and the more you try to correct or confront a woman the more Evil and extremely disrespectful she'll become! A real man a just cut the hag loose and check out another woman who obviously wants to be with him.
Were you getting dolled up for me? Definitely using that. Coach always got the perfect lines. I’ve noticed this technique works..instant rewards come if handled with care.
I’m not gonna waste my own time and lose perfectly good ass
Lol this dude is just dating for the ass and the experience 😂 is this not simpin?
This man have a strong point/pointer.
Just found your channel. I like this way of thinking you’re presenting in your videos. Subscribed.
Great advice indeed
I like the idea of coaching a woman. I am in my 40s and typically date women in their 20s. Sometimes I pretend I am the father figure to these women. Same basic concept, but they definitely respect discipline, something they aren't getting from other men.
🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴 you have time building her for another man.
good game..a teachable moment..speak what you seek til you see what you said...
It took me a few years for accepted mastery of this. Phila
You have to give them a couple of chances but don't be a door mat. you have to see them change to keep on investing time into them. If they don't want to compromise, that's when you have to leave. Stop wasting both of your time and find someone that will cooperate.
Good shit Brother
As always; #🔥!
Thank you for the value bro!
Look at disrespect as a moment of Coach able
The Perfect Video right on time I learn something not to blow up and get into your feelings is so bad but the way you handle. the situation is on point 👉
thanks coach this is valuable information ! im using this for sure
Lateness is my biggest common peeve with women. They all do it to a degree and it still bothers me regardless of the reasons. I appreciate the Game on this, but it's definitely something that will get a woman clipped if she doesn't text or she keeps me waiting in person so she can make an entrance like Hollywood movies. Once it rises to the level of feeling inconsiderate I typically move on if I've tried to coach her through it a few times. I may have to rethink my approach on this, but it's never been a clippable issue with a high quality woman... Only ones who were borderline.
Good Game pimpin
109 likes vs 0 dislikes
Zero simps disliking the video cuz coach killin’ em
😂😂😂😂😂
Nerd talk
This content is for simps . Talk about how to be a Pimp!
This is actually solid advice.
I can dig it
Ain't even watch the video yet and already agree with where he's going with this fasho
"Coachable moments." Perfectly stated. Another great episode, Coach EO.
How's your dating life now bro?
What you will accept, and what you will not accept.
Good advice but sometimes you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
Also there are certain lines they can’t cross and get a 2nd chance.
Great content!