This is what happens in a relationship when one partner is more invested than the other one. He was more into her than she was into him. That's why she thought she could get away with cheating.
She didn't apologize because, as far as she was concerned, there was nothing to apologize for. She didn't believe she had done anything wrong, and that appears to be par for the course with modern Western women. They all believe that extra-marital sekks is normal, healthy and absolutely okay -- for women. For men, of course, the rules are completely different. This is all standard thinking for almost all women these days. I don't understand why any man these days would want to get married or even commit to living together with a woman. Dating is fine (provided he is mentally prepared to dump her and walk away at short notice, at any time), but marriage is crazy. Forget love and respect, women have *contempt* for their husbands these days.
No more drink necessary, she was already buzzed enough, based on his description of the dry-h*mping scene. If OP had shown up even 5 minutes later she would have been bl0wing the stripper (or the other way around). Ten minutes, and she would have been getting properly reamed, and loving every second of it.
I personally think she's cheated before. What are the odds she got caught on her first time? If not with this guy, I'd bet she's cheated in a relationship before. I just don't get it.. why even get married if you're not 100% invested in the relationship?
Sad. OP must have no other option. Itching to start a family and willing to look past what happened with a prenup. This feels more like a disaster waiting to happen.
Before my post now, I see all attacking "Sarah"--the ex fiance and the guy who took her back (boyfriend/ex-fiance)--what I don't see is anyone going after the so called female friend or friends who went behind her back (Sarah) and against the MOH by bringing in a stripper (an unknown other male) for so called fun. The problems here are: 1) Was it done with intent for some unknown reason possibly envy, jealousy etc...--2) The friend/friends behind it put their mentality (it's fun) onto Sarah using alcohol as an excuse to cause issues (be with another male) and 3) Was it done knowingly that all but Sarah knew that her husband was asked by the MOH to be the actual guy with her and they knew he was going to be there only causing more problems. With these stories, you need to look at all sides not just be one sided with posts/comments.
I think he actually believes it was the only time she cheated
Yeah, that was on my mind when I was doing the text-to-voice conversion. I was curious that he never really gave that any serious consideration.
This is what happens in a relationship when one partner is more invested than the other one. He was more into her than she was into him. That's why she thought she could get away with cheating.
Throughout this whole story , I didn’t once hear Sarah apologize or try to explain what happened.
She didn't apologize because, as far as she was concerned, there was nothing to apologize for. She didn't believe she had done anything wrong, and that appears to be par for the course with modern Western women. They all believe that extra-marital sekks is normal, healthy and absolutely okay -- for women. For men, of course, the rules are completely different. This is all standard thinking for almost all women these days.
I don't understand why any man these days would want to get married or even commit to living together with a woman. Dating is fine (provided he is mentally prepared to dump her and walk away at short notice, at any time), but marriage is crazy. Forget love and respect, women have *contempt* for their husbands these days.
He should leave her.
What a pointless relationship. Just leave her.
She wasn't even drunk yet. If she drank a little more, she would have definitely cheated.
No more drink necessary, she was already buzzed enough, based on his description of the dry-h*mping scene. If OP had shown up even 5 minutes later she would have been bl0wing the stripper (or the other way around). Ten minutes, and she would have been getting properly reamed, and loving every second of it.
If OP hadn't walked in on her, she would have cheated, drunk or not.
Younger brother got the better woman. OP is weak and the ex fiancée will do it again, only worse.
That is way to much trust in his girlfriend! It will happen again when he is not around, and then what? One more time of trusting her again?
I personally think she's cheated before. What are the odds she got caught on her first time? If not with this guy, I'd bet she's cheated in a relationship before. I just don't get it.. why even get married if you're not 100% invested in the relationship?
Soft OP….the relationship should have ended the day he caught her. He deserves all the pain coming his way.
OP is an idiot for staying with her. He should have dumped her and got with the MoH, but the little bro took her instead. Either way good story.
Saw the disrespect first hand and stayed. SMH
No trust, no relationship. He is waisting his time 🤡
The dude is a loser. He's still with her smh.
Sad. OP must have no other option. Itching to start a family and willing to look past what happened with a prenup. This feels more like a disaster waiting to happen.
Too nice. No real emotion or anger
This is whats happens when u simp. Take back a cheater is being just that.
Go away !
Before my post now, I see all attacking "Sarah"--the ex fiance and the guy who took her back (boyfriend/ex-fiance)--what I don't see is anyone going after the so called female friend or friends who went behind her back (Sarah) and against the MOH by bringing in a stripper (an unknown other male) for so called fun. The problems here are: 1) Was it done with intent for some unknown reason possibly envy, jealousy etc...--2) The friend/friends behind it put their mentality (it's fun) onto Sarah using alcohol as an excuse to cause issues (be with another male) and 3) Was it done knowingly that all but Sarah knew that her husband was asked by the MOH to be the actual guy with her and they knew he was going to be there only causing more problems. With these stories, you need to look at all sides not just be one sided with posts/comments.
A perfect match , Soul mate ?
You did the right thing.