該怎麼出櫃？三人的出櫃故事 How to Come Out? Our Closet Journey【三人學 Thrupology EP4】
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- Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2023
- 今天來談談三個人各自的出櫃過程！
在社會中獨特的身份認同者總會經歷種種的質疑、探索，再對外肯定的闡述屬於自己的定位，而出櫃從來都不是一件簡單的事，出櫃的旅途中遇到的人事物也深深的影響著我們未來的個性發展。
這集我們聊到三人第一次發現自己的性向、第一次出櫃、第二次出櫃的話題，從中也能看出三人完全不一樣的個性和處事態度，大家有沒有更認識我們了呢？
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Today, let's talk about the coming out process of us!
People with unique identities in society always experience various doubts and explorations, and then affirmatively articulate their own positions to others.
Coming out is never a simple matter. The journey of coming out, the people and events encountered along the way, profoundly influence our future personality development.
In this episode, we discuss the first time the three of us discovered our sexual orientations, our first and second times coming out. Through this, we can see the completely different personalities and attitudes of the three individuals. Do you feel like you know us better now?
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I have always told my two kids I don't care who you bring home as long as they treat you well. I'm glad I did that because they both were comfortable coming out to me. I'm very proud of them and love them so much.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are the best can you be my mom ❤😂
You are better than 95% of parents GOD BLESS YOU
I told my girls when they were teenagers, that I didnt care whether it was a boy or girl they brought home the rules were the same....the bedroom door stays open hahaha
*My advice to anyone about coming out is; if you aren't 100% sure how your family might react and you want to come out to them, wait until you are not living at home and are financially stable.*
I've seen a fair share of my queer friends getting kicked out and financially controlled by their abusive families, it's bad. I myself am incredibly lucky and fortunate. I come from a very supportive, accepting, and open minded family, who didn't need the whole "surprise, I'm a lesbian!" coming out. They all just knew. Some of my friends on the other hand, my heart bleeds for them and how badly their families treat them.
Coming out can be terrifying, but ultimately it's everyone's own personal choice, and no one should force it out of you and take that choice away.
Thank you for sharing another story of your life with us
You are telling the truth
I thought when Grayn said he felt more relaxed with boys when he was younger that this is quite the revolutionary statement. Our culture seems to want to reduce being gay to sex acts, but the reality is that the whole person is involved in being gay and being more comfortable with men is central to identity. The idea of comfort is key. Thanks for the video.
Loving a person can have so many perspectives. personality, appearance, sex, and more. We’re all trying to find the people who makes us comfortable and laugh!
(Jeremy
I appreciate these guys for sharing their stories. I knew my son was gay from the time he was about 10. What I like about these guys is they don't sugar coat anything. They simply send a message that love comes in many forms and it is always good to keep an open mind about relationship dynamics. These men aren't hurting anyone and their relationship is consensual. They are also adorable!
越來越愛你們了，十分感動的故事，真的懂的人就會懂得你們，不懂的人也真的可能不會理解，發現自己喜歡男生，然後告訴家人的過程溝通，你們真的很勇敢，我都支持你們，支持三人日常，你們的故事，你們的生活方式，也是快樂的，也能給與別人的快樂，包括我也是，都很開心從這頻道認識了你們，看到宇成，宙學，吳軍，也是我快樂的泉源，謝謝三人日常，你們都要一起幸福，快樂，下去，期待下次的故事，支持你們的欣子❤
我們感受到你滿滿的愛了😍謝謝妳這樣支持我們 （Jeremy
Who care. Live your life and be happy.
其實我們的三人行比你們早一些，大概在2020年左右開始，當然這中間也經歷過了幾任。
只不過我們的三人行，沒有像你們這樣公開在社群媒體上，只有身邊的家人跟朋友知道而已。
但我其實很感謝你們三個這樣的勇敢，進而讓更多人知道什麼是三人行，知道三人行是一種健康且正面的愛情模式，也因此讓更多人能夠接受三人關係。
像我們目前交往的第三人，就是因為長期在關注你們的頻道，所以從原本的只能接受二人關係，漸漸的變成能夠接受三人關係，我們才有這個機會跟他在一起，這讓我們想對你們說聲謝謝。
還有因為你們的頻道，讓我們認識了另外一對三人伴侶，因此讓我們多了幾位好朋友，對於這點，我也想對你們說聲謝謝☺️☺️
好有趣🤣 大家都覺得三人行的情侶很少，但其實是大家都很低調，沒機會認識到這樣的愛情形式而已。
很高興能讓更多人認識多元的情感架構，謝謝你的分享
（Jeremy
@@thrupledaily 其實三人情侶很多，尤其是在男同志圈裡面，不過其實在異性戀裡面也是有的，像是我目前所知道的，有一對是一個女生，同時跟兩個男生在一起，雖然是女生分別跟男生在一起，但他們三個相處的非常融洽。
然後其實在以前那個社會，一個男生娶一個妻一個妾，其實也是算三人關係……三人關係其實也是有許多種模式的。
就我們之前第三人的某一任，就是我分別跟他們在一起，然後他們是家人關係，這樣相處起來也是沒有什麼問題。
我覺得不管什麼樣的愛情模式都好，只要當事者自己開心，我覺得就是好的愛情。
很喜歡這集，有很多正能量，
也給了別人很多的勇氣
愛最大❤
Each person has a unique coming out story. There are high and lows. Especially showing another bond of three people. Thank you for sharing your guys' stories with us!
好喜歡這集，感覺更認識你們了，加油😊
就這一集值得訂閱了！也是演算到的第一集！❤
這集滿感動的，覺得你們思想都很健康、成熟，希望你們越來越好！❤
謝謝你們的分享 希望家人可能會轉到看到你們的分享，也希望幫助不敢出櫃的大家 加油啦
好讚 期待更多故事❤
在聽你們三個人講述各自的歷程時我真的是細細咀嚼，因為也跟媽媽一樣在消化這些事情，而且分享過程真的可以感受得到三個人都是成熟穩定的，甚至有著想哭的情緒(因為感動)，真的祝福你們💛
期待中🎉🎉🎉
勇於做自己真的很棒～也很開心你們的家人都支持❤你們願意分享自己的經歷對很多人一定幫助很大🫶🏻
這一集分享很棒❤ 愛你們喔❤
This was really interesting, thank you so much for sharing your stories! Grayn's brain is incredible, he has such a great outlook on the world! 🩵
👏🙌🤗 Nice to see three points of view of you coming out stories 🤗
And also, for those friends who made rude comments, always remember that "hate comes from fear, and it easily spreads, but LOVE as well" 🤗💜
好讚好讚 支持你們❤
This is my favorite video from you guys! ♥
Thanks for sharing your stories honestly. I am sure it will help others grappling with these issues. You seem wise beyond your years.
It's great to hear you all had good experiences coming out, over all. And that your families accept your relationship.
I really love what you said near the end about having to live your own life to be happy, so that you can bring happiness to the family. It's sad that some parents don't see that. Glad to hear yours do.
你們對於愛的理解很好，祝福你們幸福快樂，要一直好好的❤
I am really happy that u guys are happy and your family supported u guys too...
Thank you for being honest and open. You all seem to be so in love, comfortable, and support each other. I’m sure your videos help many people.
love you guys so happy for you
always nice listening to your stories and thoughts
棒棒的一集
Thank you boys, loved your stories.....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Richard
Loved this. Answered most of the questions i had. Love is love❤ im glad your families accepted it and you guys can just be you without any drama or without hiding
We are lucky! (Jeremy
很喜歡這這集，傳遞許多正能量，愛最大❤快樂也是最重要的，自己過的好，其他人說什麼根本不用去在意😁
每個人的故事都很有趣，有些也是我們彼此第一次分享。最慶幸的是那些緊張、苦痛經過時間都變成我們成長的養分，成就現在強大的我們！（Jeremy
Im Excited🎉❤
很棒！很實用的分享！❤️💪
謝謝你 希望對大家有幫助（Grayn
希望每位想出櫃的朋友都順順利利，找到幸福。不管結果如何，都要讓自己人生活得好。❤
真的！快快樂樂自在的活著才是人生中最重要的。謝謝 Billy每次都大方的贊助😝（Jeremy
@@thrupledaily 謝謝您們不嫌棄這小小贊助。
Thank you for sharing your stories. Wish your ❤ lasts forever.
背景選得很好
Stay healthy three of you ❤❤
Love you boys and enjoy your coming out stories. I’m very glad to hear how accepting your families were and things didn’t go ugly like being kicked out or disowned. Hope you guys always stay safe and healthy and never fail to show your love for each other. ❤❤❤
As always a kiss 😘😘😘and a hug 🤗🤗🤗 x 3. Your lives are inspiring to many young men finding themselves. 🫶🫶🫶🏻🤟🏻🤟🤟🫡🫡🫡
Thanks! Hope everyone gain courage and love as they grow (Jeremy
This is the first time. I never joined membership of any channel before and I don't regret it at all!
I've been watching your videos for a while on TikTok and RUclips and I found you full of wisdom and courage. You are open-minded and caring.
You don't hide behind the usual masks of content creators and you reveal yourself completely, both positive and negative. You prove that love has no limits.
You express your emotions so well that everyone can understand them... even if not everyone can accept them! But I'm sure that with all your videos, many people will understand more and public opinion will end up growing even more.
All your content is so interesting!!!!
I sincerely hope that your love continues like this. Your mutual complicity is magnificent. You are radiant and refreshing
A French fan 😊
Thank you so much for your support and what you said! This means a lot to us. What we want to let the world know is, love is possible in anyway. It might not be beautiful all the time, but the scars are the sign of our growth and cherish to each others. We want the world to accept possibilities and more open minded to explore themselves! (Jeremy
J ai exactement le même ressenti. J'ai partagé et recommandé leurs vidéos à mes enfants . C est ça qu'on devrait diffuser en lycée aux jeunes, leur message est tellement intelligent, empathique et éclairant.
超愛你們三個的🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵
我懂你們 我都會叫我朋友去看你們的影片 他們都很驚訝三人 我就會說三人怎麼了嗎？ 我支持你們🎉
要幸福久久唷💕
I'm glad to know you guys.
I’m glad that you all had this conversation because I feel that your speeches are calm and easy for someone who needs help or understand more they can watch you explain calmly keep happy and healthy
Their videos are literally educational !
Hope the people who need these advise could find this video🥰 (Jeremy
i am so very proud of you three young men. every time i see you. i grow to love you 3 more every time. i knew you could handle it very well. and you've proven me right. just keep going one step at a time. you are making a huge difference in the community. as always love daniel. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks Daniel😉 (Jeremy
Love u guys
Thanks。 永远支持你们，有空就过来梹城旅游，到时带你们去吃好吃的。梹城有很多地方好玩，东西又好吃
期待有一天過去！ 謝謝你！（Jeremy
Best wishes for you guys
Me ha encantado, gracias por compartir vuestra historia, os deseo mucha felicida.
Thank you for sharing your coming out stories with us. Not everyone is lucky enough to have completely supporting and loving families but I’m glad that the three of you do.
My coming out happened in stages as well and has continued to change as I discover more about myself. In high school I came out to just my friends that I was bisexual. In college I came out to my brother and he told me I was just indecisive and needed to pick one or the other. Around that time I also told my mom and she didn’t really respond but just looked at me and walked away. That has unfortunately completely changed the relationship I have with my mother. We are no longer as close because when I talk about anyone other than cis men she gets uncomfortable and changes the subject. When I was dating a girl my mom never called her my girlfriend like she had called my ex boyfriend my boyfriend. My father’s reaction to him finding out was the most surprising. He had always acted very homophobic as I was growing up and so I figured I just wouldn’t tell him. My brother had outed me and told my dad that I was on a date with a girl and when I had come home he pulled me aside and told me that I can be with whoever I want to be with and I can love whoever I want, he just wants me to be happy and he wants me to feel comfortable enough to tell him about whoever I may be dating. He referred to my exes as my significant others and has stopped almost all of his homophobic jokes he used to say. Now ten years later I’ve come out to my friends and coworkers that I am nonbinary and pansexual and demisexual. I have not told any of my family because my brother will make fun of me and my mother already isn’t comfortable and my dad does not like the idea of they/them pronouns. So I get correct pronouns used from all of my friends and my coworkers and incorrect pronouns from my family. I cut all my hair off a few years ago and started dressing a bit more masculine than I had prior and started binding as well and really started to feel more confident and comfortable in myself. None of my family were real supportive of that because they said I looked and dressed like a man. I’m in the process of growing my hair out but still dressing the same way and they have mentioned I’ve started to look like a girl again. It’s just frustrating to have people in your life trying to fit you into a box you don’t want to fit in to.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It takes a lot of courage to be true to yourself, and I admire your resilience. Remember that you're valid just as you are, and your identity is unique and beautiful. Surround yourself with those who appreciate and support you for who you are. If you ever need someone to talk to or seek advice, feel free to reach out. Sending you love and strength on your continued journey of self-discovery and acceptance. 🌈❤️（Grayn
祝福你們
Courage à vous les jeunes 💪💪🥰🥰
好棒的分享❤謝謝你們給觀眾的信念😊
你們真的好棒👍好愛你們❤
謝謝你們的分享，也希望社會能夠像你們說的那樣，有更多的愛去接受更多的不一樣，或許這樣同志家庭的家人也能減少接收到外面的閒言閒語！
有時候真的很想跟他們說干你們屁事欸😂
能遇到另外兩個彼此相愛的人一起交往，加上3個人的家庭又都能接受和支持，這真的是一件非常非常幸福的事情！透過你們的影片，也都能深刻感受到來自你們自己本身、還有各自家庭裡，滿滿的愛跟正能量。願你們能一直一直恩愛一輩子~
有時候真的可遇不可求（Grayn
你們三人好幸運、能在大海般的人群森林中把你們拉在一起共同過日子、而我想遇上一位真愛都是奢想、祝福你們恩愛一生一世
愛你們
祝你们幸福满满
I absolutely loved how you coming out experiences took shape. Grayn felt outed, but sometimes our lives go in directions too fast and we slow down. And it too is okay. Because today, you don’t really care much about how things came about. It almost always is most determined by our families acceptance. Once we get past that stage in our lives, everything else becomes easier because of their support.
Вы такие классные, искренние! Будьте счастливы!!!❤❤❤
謝謝與我們分享心路歷程….很正面很勇敢去面對…特別欣賞宇成媽媽高接受度❤願你們一直甜蜜相愛哦❤ 透過這個影片感受到滿滿正面能量呢❤很喜歡很喜歡你們
我媽可能跟我一樣不在乎很多東西吧🤣 謝謝 Billy (Jeremy
@@thrupledaily 這是心胸寬闊🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻很讚😎
Iam greatly thankful and respect your parents ❤❤❤
心態好讚😆
I enjoyed your coming out stories. It can be a very hard thing to do and I'm glad all of your families are excepting of the three of you. ❤🌈
就係之前有留意過第一條之後就冇睇；現在一次返看返曬
Guys, thank you for the frank discussion on this topic! I learned a lot including Adam’s relationship with Grayn before Jeremy became a part of the Thruple.
Jeremy, you mentioned studying in the USA, since I am in America and you often reply to my comments in English, can you elaborate about your stay here sometime? What State were you in, what other places did you visit?
真的好為你們感到開心 在日漸開放的社會能自在戀愛
背後還有支持著你們的家人
祝福你們一直幸福快樂～～
Obrigada por compartilhar um pouco da história de vocês. Imagino que foi bem difícil para vocês. Mas a cada etapa da vida, foi um aprendizado.
Grayn so awesome luv ya
所有你們的故事都慢慢說想知，祝你們幸福永久的愛，[，較早前香港電視劇都有拍多元關係的題材但是小提及GBL劇情(多數說一男兩女等)]，之前有睇過你們第一條片終於有時間去留言，但係都說唔曬一篇文咁長寫唔完， 多謝你們分享的故事繼續拍下去加油，其他不多說！
香港人上
Thank you for sharing your stories, nice to hear the different responses you received and your thoughts about that. I came out as bisexual to my friends first- no real issues, then told my dad as he's pretty chill he was like as long as your happy and they treat you well, do you babe, told my mum later as shes Catholic and an older mum, she's accepted it but its been a process, from shocked, no you can't be, to ok it's your life, I don't fully agree because of my faith but your still my daughter, she took the longest to process but she wasnt disrespectful while she was going through it, which was good
I think that’s the most classic process of children coming out, I’m so glad that your mom handled and digested it so well! Stay happy and loved! (Jeremy
I would be so proud of any one of you being my son and having a thruple relationship with 2 boys , your love for each other is obvious and im so happy your family and friend experiences were happy ones .love all 3 of you 💋💋💋❤❤❤
As an old gay guy, I can honestly say, you guys are EXACTLY what we had hoped for. Thank you for being you. ❤
Vocês foram verdadeiros,parabéns e sejam felizes 🇧🇷
❤❤❤ amei ouvir suas histórias 😍😍😍
謝謝你們的分享，感覺好溫馨❤ 三位家人的舉動也都很溫暖🫶🏻 三位都要繼續好好的 #宇宙軍
非常感謝你的溫馨祝福！我們都會繼續珍惜彼此，保持溫馨的氛圍。（Grayn
i love it alot
Gente cheguei de paraquedas nesse vídeo e estou amando vocês.Vejo respeito e amor envolvido.❤ Parabéns pelo conteúdo.🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
謝謝你們的分享..
I loved hearing your coming out stories first and how your families reacted! Then you shared how they found out about hour throuple relationship. That was so moving! You guys were honest and showed how to react in a calm way. I am so happy you have a good, loving relationship and your families are accepting. I think you will give positive encouragement to other guys dealing with being gay and sharing love. Excellent episode! ❤❤❤
Que bom que vocês conseguiram com leveza assumir o amor de vcs e que a suas famílias os apóiam ❤
Nossa 🎉 conheci o canal de vcs á pouco e já estou assistindo o quarto episódio e estou muito grata por partilharem a experiência de amor de vcs ❤
You three will help others that are in the same situation you have all been honest and true to your selves I think it’s hard for anyone to “come out” to family and friends and for some they will never be able to it’s a shame in 2023 but life isn’t always easy for some and not all families can accept it my son and niece are gay and lesbian both happily married to their husband and wife we are happy that they respect and love their spouses/soulmates and that they are hard working and caring people it does not matter who you find love with love is love they have always said they are very lucky to have a family who have accepted them for who they are not what they are ❤
I’m happy for you and your son to have much a supportive family! You guys make the world more beautiful! (Jeremy
Спасибо за такое тёплое и важное видео) очень много положительных мыслей что помогают развивать разум ! Благодарю ❤
I like it very much
滿滿誠意的長度影片耶
吳軍媽媽超可愛的❤️
喜歡你們講的孝順定義，真的要讓自己的人生過的快樂，才有餘力讓家人更快樂。
期待你們更多的影片喔❤️
跟愛別人一樣，都要自己富足了才能給於別人更多愛❤️ （Jeremy
Hola chicos guapos me gusta su contenido con su experiencia y vivencias están ayudando a otros chicos gracias
今天第一次看到你們的影片，很感動⋯能夠遇到一個愛的人不容易了，能夠三個人在一起真的是很深的緣分。祝福你們幸福一輩子，把更多生活中的美好和我們分享😘❤️
Очень приятно знать что Ваши родители Вас поддерживают и принимают, счастья Вам и любви. Вы очень приятные ребята🌈❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love is free❤️Love is no excuse❤Because Love so we 💗
好感人，你们真的很幸福，很幸运，有这么了解你们的家人，哈！也许那是你们前世修来的福气。真的替你们开心。
而像我这年代，是蛮保守的，我父母是不会接受的所以到现在他们也不懂，以前会一直问，都几岁了还不结婚，哈！但直到今天也不问了。
時代真的變了，每一代的想法都很不同，未來我們長大變老了也要用開放的心態去接受年輕人的想法🤣（Jeremy
是的，所以要尽量去了解现代年轻人的想法，尽量听取他们的意见，减少和他们之间的代沟，所以到现在我和那些年轻的一代都很谈得来，其实说真的在槟城知道我是gay的没超过3人，其他几位很好的知己都不懂😅。所以真的很替你们3位开心，也希望可以成为你们的朋友。谢谢您们
幸運又幸福的你們~有你們拍優質的影片給我們，我們也一起分享你們的幸福~也希望我總有一天能順利走出去(我家是那種道教很傳統家庭，之前被問過還說會被趕出去)~也希望我早點脫單~~
Sorry to hear about your family reaction. Hang in there and hopefully love will come to you and your family will come around to reality.
我覺得父母一開始都會講比較偏激的話，自己也不知道怎麼處理這些情緒和表達，所以才會說出這麼恐怖的言論。宙學的媽媽一開始也是這樣，可能經過時間的觀察、冷靜、理解才會慢慢懂得這樣的身分認同是什麼。
不過被這樣恐嚇的話也要想清楚該怎麼做才會讓自己快樂，出櫃與否的決定權都在自己手上，希望你慢慢準備，做出對自己最好最快樂的決定！
Jeremy
@@deejay5457 Thank you for your encouragement, it's very warm and I'm happy to receive such blessings. I hope we can continue to get better and better.
@@thrupledaily 謝謝Jeremy，有您們的鼓勵也很開心，我是希望我永遠不要出櫃，因為生活跟工作很忙，不想焦頭爛額哈哈~
而且我想好我的理由是不孕症哈哈~但又生不出證明來~~
希望我們有機會能大家聚餐，大家都可以聊聊天聊聊看法甚麼的~
Bonjour j ai bien apprécié votre façon de raconter votre histoire , vous avez des mères géniales 👍👍. Bravo vous êtes top
Para os pais as vezes é difícil, por pensar nos preconceito que seus filhos, vão enfrentar, por isso alguns pais demora mais entender, mais a felicidade dos filhos vem em primeiro lugar ❤. Parabéns, o relacionamento entre 2 pessoas já é difícil imagina 3😂,e invejável a relação de vocês 😊❤❤
谢谢❤
Your stories are so inspiring and thought provoking. Every coming out story is different for every individual. I’d say yours were more accepting than my own and others I’ve heard over the years. There’s some that are nightmares such as evicting their child on the street without no remorse. Just because I live in the USA it doesn’t mean it’s all acceptable. Actually there are some states that still do conversion therapy or electric shock therapy. Although I’m glad you guys have had a funny and well grounded coming out. Take care with admiration 🙋♂️❤️🏳️🌈
All I can say is we are really lucky that we’re not born in that horrible family and country! We do know that there are a lot of difficulty a person would face during the process of coming out. Some not even end up well, but I hope everyone who suffers can gain strength and courage to live and change the world. (Jeremy
@@thrupledaily thank you Jeremy. Although I live in the US it’s not all bad. Yes the hardships endured can make or break you, it all depends on the people who supports you. I’m totally honored in getting to know you guys. I wish you all love and success ❤️
Thank you! Hope someday the world could be open and filled with love, and this start from us. (Jeremy
❤❤❤ you all are very fortunate to live in an accepting country & each of you have accepting parents; you should realize that this is NOT something that money can buy. 😘😘😘 love each other & appreciate what God has granted you in your life. ❤❤❤
Vous être vraiment trop mignon tous les trois ensemble je suis super touché par votre histoire j'ai hâte d'en apprendre plus sur vous 3 petite question vous avez quel âges sa m'intrigue un bisous de la France
Three different experience, three different approach, three different thought process but one central point ....all three are greatly matured in their thoughts, their attitude towards themselves, their opinion for family and friends ... central point love and accept yourself first and everything comes after that .
倆大帥哥、要好好愛宙學.他真的很友愛、而且能看的出他很怕你倆太愛而淡忘他