Heart to Hana | Friendships | neglected, comparing success, too picky or setting boundaries?

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Henlooooo! here's the heart to hana video up! i asked on IG for some questions that were related to friendship! hope you guys found it helpful to hear perspective on some of the questions! please dont take it as something where i'm telling you what to do or anything! i just know a lot of you guys enjoy hearing my perspective on topics that deal with i guess...emotions? haha so just take what you want from this video!
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  • @ryleedavis4092
    @ryleedavis4092 6 месяцев назад +4

    Ahh wait I love these takes! That last answer might be a hot take on the internet rn, but I totally agree!! I think people are so quick to cut others off to "protect their peace" rather than just communicate. I mean definitely don't stay in toxic friendships, but I feel like the standard for what is considered "toxic" has been lowered.

  • @Claire_smile
    @Claire_smile 6 месяцев назад +2

    Honestly this is so needed and such an eye opening perspective, Hana. I've been struggling with feeling disappointed when I am feeling hurt or annoyed by friends. I've been realizing that I have a tendency to pull away and that is is unrealistic to hold expectations for friends, and difficult to have close connection, without communication Thank you so much! 💕

  • @vivimm.m
    @vivimm.m 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video! I totally agree with what you said about friendships. I think last year was the time I realized that it is impossible to agree and like someone 100% of the time and that is normal. I think all kinds of relationships take effort and thats why sometimes as soon as a disagreement comes up we tend to want to just run away but thats not how healthy relationships work. I think we just have to have in mind what our “non-negotiables”are and also be willing to put an effort to communicate when something bothers you in a relationship.

  • @sw33tfr0styy
    @sw33tfr0styy 6 месяцев назад

    I find myself so similar to you. I have hangout friends but rarely talk to them about deeper thoughts because they have shown me they can’t be trusted. I don’t belong in any friend group because I don’t feel connected. I started cutting friends out of my life because they don’t ever ask how I am. I was the one doing all the work in the friendship. Lucky you have Jimmy who doesn’t judge you and I see can you learned a lot from him. As you mentioned before, he’s a people person. I don’t think I will find great friendships anymore at my age. I am not young anymore and have health issues. Not mentally healthy either. This video is much needed. Hope to see more of these videos 😊

  • @dannirenn
    @dannirenn 6 месяцев назад +15

    I love this video so much 🥹 Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with being picky and having boundaries! Jimmy made a really good point, it's reminded me that nobody is perfect and that friendships are very much like relationships. great video as always

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much for watching! I’m glad it was kinda helpful to hear perspectives 💛

  • @lazowwwbow
    @lazowwwbow 6 месяцев назад

    I love the multiple edits for the last question lol bc that is literally how my mind works - coming back to be like wait I need to explain more!! lol 😂 I appreciate your take on boundaries! I haven’t heard it that way before. Love!

  • @superlyobsessed
    @superlyobsessed 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the last question so much, I've been trying to accept this recently and this really helped ❤

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад

      Sorry my answer was consulted 🤣 but I hope it was helpful 💛

  • @justinlee1090
    @justinlee1090 6 месяцев назад

    I feel so lucky to be watching this video!

  • @user-ie6uw1mj1x
    @user-ie6uw1mj1x 6 месяцев назад

    Hanaaa ❤ video request from my boyfriend here. Can Jimmy share his workout routine? We love you guys

  • @JiixBooks
    @JiixBooks 6 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this 💜

  • @OhMyGold
    @OhMyGold 6 месяцев назад

    The topic about the long distant friends… so aquarius of us 🙈 guilty!

  • @beth8382
    @beth8382 6 месяцев назад +1

    i forgot to say this before but it really helps me so much that your videos have subtitles now. (speaking as a mom who has to get the volume super low when watching while baby's sleeping) 😆🫶🏻

  • @raniakis3927
    @raniakis3927 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @perhapsanya
    @perhapsanya 6 месяцев назад

    Yayyy 🫶🏽

  • @twothirdsmore
    @twothirdsmore 6 месяцев назад

    ♥️

  • @nicolechen3754
    @nicolechen3754 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for always putting captions in your videos

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @borrowtopfan
    @borrowtopfan 6 месяцев назад +1

    It was hilarious listening to ur dogs lmao

  • @luisa7061
    @luisa7061 6 месяцев назад +1

    also the question about long distance friends is such a good one! All my close friends and also myself moved away in the last few years and I felt so sad in the beginning since I’m also a person who doesn’t like to call and talk on the phone BUT it has gotten so much better that I can spontaneously just call them and talk and yap haha I’m calling them at least twice a week now!! Sometimes when I’m taking a walk which is really nice :) so I think it is possible to keep this friendship close even though there might be a big distance physically!! We also plan to meet up or do a travel trip in the future and stuff :)

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah! Having future plans together is so helpful! Like trips to look forward to and stuff hehe 💛

  • @luisa7061
    @luisa7061 6 месяцев назад +1

    these are my favourite type of videos from you hana

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m happy you enjoyed and hopefully it was helpful in some way!

  • @ellap8701
    @ellap8701 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for anwering the question about long distance friendships. It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one struggling with it. I will also try my best! We got this! FIGHTING

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад

      It’s tough :( but we are just trying our best out here!

  • @A88-p5e
    @A88-p5e 6 месяцев назад +1

    If u haven’t checked yet, tirtir is a Korean brand but it’s super popular in Japan 😊

    • @HanaLee93
      @HanaLee93  6 месяцев назад +1

      Oh wow! I had no idea! ❤

  • @exploratriceexploratrice8095
    @exploratriceexploratrice8095 6 месяцев назад

    Hana i love your vidéos please never stop posting !!!