"It's Okay To Take Care of Her Kids If You Love Her," Men On Panel Advising Men To Be Step Fathers?
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A man dating a woman with a child is very different from a woman dating a man with a child. At some point, the man will be expected to support her child financially. A woman dating a man with a child will never be asked or expected to pay anything for his child. That's a huge difference!!
Damn never looked at it from that point sheesh you so right
But his resources are always divided.
🔥🔥💯This is the comment I was looking for.
@@streetzyolamontana1021 🤣 welcome to the manosphere
That's the facts
My StepFather advised me against being with women with kids. Let me say it again for dramatic emphasis my stepdad advised me against doing it.
This is crazy .
As another step-dad, I agree with your step-dad.
I was a stepfather. Your stepfather didn't lie.
😂😂
Say it louder for the people in the back
As a man with no kids, Mrs.Kayyy was 100% right. YOUR SON & brothers thanks you for this. And I do too. NO SINGLE MOTHERS unless I have kids myself already. Makes perfect sense
Even with my own kids, I wouldn't want a vvoman with kids. I provide for my kids, not the vvoman I'm with, so it's a major difference. I would be expected to take care of her kids, move them in, feed and clothe them, she wouldn't have to do the same for my kids
Most men & women cannot afford to handle blending families, so what she’s saying if off. You don’t have the resources (money & time specifically) to properly raise all those kids for success. Not to mention the confusion of how you’re going to raise your kids vs how the other man wants to raise his kids & the compromises that comes with it.
I swear, everytime a man has a preference when it comes to women Logic will call it a "manosphere talking-point" 😑
Dude’s a straight 🤡
A woman with 3+ children is like a man making $20-30k a year living with his mother
The mother of 3+ children is worse, that man can move out of his mothers house and get a higher paying job, Brady bunch mom can’t get rid of her kids.
worse
@@jamaalmillen facts
Damn that’s facts !
All facts
Valid points. My stepdad is a phenomenal dad. But even he told me as I became a man to stay away from women who have kids because of the financial burdens that comes with it.
This generation is goofy... Anton is the embodiment of a mentor... Why in the hell wld i need to. experience trauma, and heart ache and failed relationships just to finally come to the conclusion that he was right all along...Mentors save years of time while trying to figure it out ourselves is always a bad bet
People's be getting mad at me when I say I'll never take care of another man child
Same here lol 😂
F them, I will never
Oh, well. They'll be a'ight. They don't understand the burden that comes with being a stepfather. You have all of the responsibility, but no authority. What's the stepfather getting besides the big piece of chicken and no peace?
It’s ok it’s your choice you don’t have to
With Anton on this , leave the single mothers alone.
Men are looking out for other men by imparting wisdom and the baby momma defence force cannot stand it.
For real. How dare you not save her from her mistakes 😂😂😂
Everytime i see logic on the panel i concenplate if i should watch or not😂😅
Yea!! He's lame
He just says dumb shit then calls people goofy for calling out the dumb shit he said
Bro and is getting worse 😂
Man. He's an oxymoron himself. His name is Logic with no logic present in itself. I'm starting to believe that Anton has these trolls there to make his words that much stronger. But it has to be headache talking to some of these people on a day to day.
Same here
Logic needs to change his name because he has absolutely none whatsoever. What she’s SAYING is that she doesn’t want to be a hypocrite and give something to a man that she wouldn’t want for her own son. Why is that so hard to understand?
At the end of the day if the person you want has kids and you’re ok with it then fine. Other peoples opinions don’t matter. Me personally, I don’t want a woman with kids but I have dated women with kids and the experience wasn’t for me. Another guy might be ok with it and that doesn’t make me or him any better. Damn!
Thank you 😂 I was looking through the comments to see the "Logic" comments. Almost every video I see with him he just be sounding dumb asf.
Logic is simple
Logic is probably low IQ.
I'm never settling for a man with kids. Go and be with your kids mother. Kids need both parents in the house with them! ❤
stop the cap. yea you will. if that man is 6+, millionaire. status, handsome, kids, you will be right there being a step mama.
When I was single I didn't date men with kids either. Nobody has time for crazy baby-mamas with attitudes slashing tires, whole paychecks leaving my household going to another woman's household, back-talk "you ain't my mama," etc. Hell the the naw 😄
If he was a millionaire you would
Anton was 100% right about women making bad relationship choices because there'll always be a Captain Save-a-Heaux waiting to swoop in. If women knew that help's not coming, they'd make better decisions. They'd teach their daughters and advise them better.
Their daughters haven't learned a thing black boys are mainly dating white and Latina girls because of their bad attitudes. Black men are #SYSBM because most women are single mothers from Pookie and the bad attitudes that they come with.
Fellas NEVER become a stepfather!!
I'm a stepdad and I learned the hardway, dont do it
Never ever dare a wmn with kids that has financial or social expectations with regards to those children.
Did it, fell off worse, realize now that that it took me off my mission… no regret from my child being born, no regret from the relationship… at one point, had the regret that I didn’t know how to explain to myself to stay on my mission… but all on all, everything happens for a reason. NOW I know…
@@Imhotep_DrummerJones Same
Step dummies
One of the most logical things my dad taught me was, stay away from ready made families
Your father didn't lie.
Logic ain't logical at all I see , my sons ain't doing it
I speak from experience when I say it's a horrible deal! Just imagine another man's kid mouthing off to you, and you can't grab them and put them in their place, because the baby mama (your GF or wife) won't allow it, or even worse, the kid tells his or her real dad, now he wants to step to you. I done been through that. This is far too common than you guys think.
Not in every case I have 2 step children and I get on the ass whenever they get out of line and dare someone to say something about it.
That's because the father not involved
@@bigreg4096 doesn't matter if he was or not, he should have handled his business both have 4.25/4.0 GPA and are exemplary in character due to my involvement.
Some of us are built different.
@tyronereed4909 So you're proud that you used your time and resources to raise kids that don't even have your last name ? Yes some are built different. YOU'RE A SIMP !
If the father says, "If you touch my kids, I'ma f*** you up. And every time I see you, it's on sight", then what? The new man has to say to himself, "If I stay with this woman, I may have to kill the ex." What man with options is signing up for possible jail time or death? No.
Absolutely right. If you don’t have kids, you are settling for a baby mama. Know your worth
Nope. I’m settling for a childless single woman
I refuse to be to take care of another man child there's no benefit for being a step father
absolutely none
There''s no such thing. It's a made up term and not moral. Men should never do it, but some fools out here actually love these chicks and will clean up.
Since when was it a preference to date someone without kids? I thought that was standard
It's a black thing.
@@humanbeing4021black women are trying to shame men into dating single mothers which isn't happening.
Step Father: All of the responsibility none of the respect...
Logic don’t use Logic
I LOVE the look on ALL the ladies faces when Anton was cooking at the end. PRICELESS.
Women say "if he didn't want a baby he should have worn a condom" and expect the next man to base his life and family on that foundation?
Bruh facts 💯
Taking care of another Man kids is like paying another Man bills 💯
Without any boost in credit score 🤣
Anton is spot on. The moment you tell me to make permanent decisions based off how they feel. We especially as black men are dooming ourselves. That’s stupid advice. We need discipline more than others and discipline isn’t emotional based
Men have the option to date women without kids even if he has them.... its a double standard... we are not equal.
Unfortunately.
Especially considering that single fathers are basically tied with two parent household in child success.
Quintons claiming he’s dating baby mommas while his preferences are in question 🌈😂😂😂
U not chit
Is he gay?
@@Nytellem he’s very effeminate but I don’t believe he’s ever openly admitted that 🤷🏽♂️
Ant and Law was dropping facts.
It’s a woman’s choice if she wants to be a baby mother , it’s called ACCOUNTABILITY
Kayy nailed it, quinton simping cause his money aint right, logic being goofy with his questioning.. he's trying to ask would you walk away from the best deal ... human nature says no one will walk away from the best deal.. foolish man, asking foolish questions, for foolish answers.
Exactly
If the most honorable thing a woman could give a man is a child aka family🤔
If you're an honorable man there's nothing to talk about with a single mother🤔
Mister Logic Jaxn need to chill.
😂😂
100% Derrick Jaxn 2.0
You have every right to start your own family. You don’t owe single parents anything. Speaking from personal experience
Them dudes tripping. I'm not advising my son to date a woman with kids if he doesn't have kids.
Those are the men who go to movie theaters and buses just to chew the used gum under the seats 🤣🤣 i literally fell out with that smoke detector 🤣🤣 rip Kevin Sam
Recently broken up with a woman with children. I take it as a lesson learned at a late age (42), never no matter the feelings or their beauty should you date a woman with children. Not only is her character in question, but her decision making skills are also on display. Last thing, I've had to learn that regardless of what a woman would say, their heart is with the father of their children, but for some reason that woman didn't cooperate with her ex. Hence the break up.
You think I spent 10yrs grinding from 18-28 to be like “ima take care of her n her kids. Nah.
I had to tell my cousin who was 28 to stop simpin for this 21yr old BM with a deceased BD. It took him a while to stop but he eventually did. Bc I told him he’s better than dat and ain’t NO way he should be letting a 21yr old BM treat him like 💩 and keep going back to her.
For once I agree with the women. If your a man who made another woman a baby mama you shouldn't be complaining about a woman having kids. But, Anton shut the simp nonsense down this time 🤣🤣👏👏👏👏
Women with kids, usually say they don't want a man with kids
This is 2023 not 1993…! Being a stepdaddy was cool when you were able to discipline and have authority as head of the household as a man in 1993. Any young man under the Age of 25 who has his life in order should not be looking in the direction of SINGLE MOTHERS in 2023! Why because the landscape and mentality of these women today will RUIN YOU. Don’t listen to any old or young fool on any show try to convince you otherwise. With millions of single women in the world, don’t worry you can find one without kids to build a beautiful life with.
Any man under 40
THANK YOU Anton!!! Wtf, I’ve never heard Logic sound more illogical. Me and Logic were raised by women.
They keep trying to invalidate Anton when it comes to relationships, but his response back was more than perfect. It's exactly like a drug user trying to tell someone who never used drugs to not speak on it. You don't have to fk up to have a say in the subject matter and the person who got it right the first time is probably the person you should learn from.
My dad is my step dad who been in my life before I could walk and even he would say it's not ideal to get with a baby momma lol. And my mom went through a lot of stuff to earn that spot of being his wife... stuff that most women today wouldn't tolerate.
Thats the problem with dudes like him. How can you speak so strongly on something you haven't experienced. And that is a false analogy. Its more like someone who has never used drugs trying to tell a drug user about the experience of using drugs. Big difference
@@brandonburns5365I grew up in poverty stricken neighborhood with alot of individuals i considered "normal". I watched a number of people i grew up sample drugs that eventually grew into uncontrollable addictions. I watched them lose their personalities, looks, health, etc. I watched them also lose their life. I see the "cool/popular" guys from school walking on the side of the road talking to themselves and begging for money at stores. I know several dudes that sleep outside due to drug use. I know several dudes who are in prison for their actions due to being under tge influence of drugs. There are people who dont use drugs that experienced these things.... but i noticed the chances are much higher after drug use. To be able to abstain from peer pressure when my peers started sampling and telling me how good the drug is. I realized a drug user can only identify with the good feeling of the drug but not the much worse consequences of the drug itself.
@@brandonburns5365i said all that to say someone who has been in a successful relationship can easily identify what the others are doing wrong. The ones that are doing wrong cant identify what is right. So i disagree with your position. Respectfully.
@@AppliedPressure493 can't even reply to you because all I see is one comment that starts with.. ' I said all that to say..' . Respectfully I don't know what all you said.
@@brandonburns5365 Your so cool dude. Im so sad you wont read my comment though you took the time out to reply. Dude the world goes on regardless. Im sure you a drug user and lack basic intelligence. Carry on.
My dad would say ' don't go for know already made family...🤔 '
logic sound super stupid, Plenty of us out here declining babymamas by default, thats why they all on kendra and every platform begging for help .. crazy he would say something like that, I'm not taking care of another man's Orgasam, he had the fun not me. he need to pay for it with his time
Women will say “I will not settle for a man whose shorter than 6 feet , makes less than 6 figures and doesn’t have 6 inches”… while being 5’2” making 40k a year and has an average body. Wifing up a woman with kids is settling PERIOD, even if you have kids. I would never wifey up a baby mama, I make too much money to be doing that.
Somebody got to change the fire detector batteries. That boy beeping ,😂😂
Mane Anton are they ass up at the end 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 damn
When I met my wife; we both had kids. That situation may not work for everyone but we've been together 20 years.
It's more about the mindset of parties involved than the generalization of a whole community
I think that is what people agree with. That people who have kids should get together.
Yeah you both had kids so can do blended family simple
That'll work if both have children from the beginning but for a man to play step father is different. Great job though.
@matgamer5916 It's not as simple as you might think. I speak from experience & it gets worse when they also have kids in the marriage 🤔 we had less peaceful days & more drama, either from the kids or adults, because the kids were not getting along. It would be fights from the step moms kids vs marriage kids then I would watch because my dad came with me, I didn't intervene/join as if I did I would risk being ganged up on since I was the only kid my dad brought to live with them. Story short, it was a toxic environment which led to a lot of unhappiness in the Blended family & talks of divorce, etc.
Well I WONDER WHAT EDDIE MURPHY WOULD SAY. HE MARRIED A WOMAN WITH NO KIDS AND HE HAD 10. GROWN PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO. NO BODY BUSINESS WHAT GROWN PEOPLE DO.
She’s capping about not taking a single man with his 💩 together and no kids. It’s his choice to make. All she gotta do is recognize that it’s a blessing and stay in her place.
The price of raising children also went up with inflation. To raise one child it’ll cost you $350,000 to $400K now.
WHY would you sign up to be one with a woman with three kids(that aren’t yours) to attach to your finances, FOOLISH.
or she just wants a mann that has his shit together but can also relate to being a parent silly ahh dude
@@yaboyreflex1919 Right these dudes are slow and bitter. Believe it or not, some single mother's actually only prefer men with kids for the exact point you made, it has nothing to do with how well that man's life is going.
Why does she have to be capping? Could it be that she's just consist in her belief? Fact is, there is usually a very different mindset between a man who has children and one who doesn't.
@@yaboyreflex1919thats an easy fix she can have his child
@@odog76543shes cappin it didnt even sound like she was telling the truth.
I'll NEVER date a baby momma , NEVER EVER and I have children (grown). I won't even date a woman who has grown kids at home. Not worth the time or money.
Yes it's ok to date a single mother if her husband passed away. That's not her fault. She can't control death
You would learn the harder way. Go save em.
Man please 😂
With all these strict preferences, I see why so many are lonely, toxic, and dying alone. So you have met a mate, someone that you just match with but if they have a child, bald, short, not a millionaire it's a no go. Men and women out here taking self inflicted losses.
Its mind blowing to watch.
It's pretty standard in my family, you deal with too many loo level men and women. No wonder the black community is so trash with people like you.
It's not strict preferences it's the bare minimum and you find it hard? 🤮
Damn
Logic encouraging folks to ruin their life.
Shout to y’all using Steph Is Cold clip that young G has the maturity and sense I wish I’d had at 25
Same
If a man a bus driver women call it settling if they get with one. So if a man gets with a woman with child/children and he has no children, he is settling. Logic just destroyed his point by saying he didn't want it for his son.
Did you see Kevin Samuels interview with a female bus driver looking for 666 package. You can’t make this shit up
There is no glory, taken care another man’s kids.Facts
Steph was referring to a single man with no kids!
Thank you ANTON👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My baby mama left me so i refuse to settle with the next mans family
Simping is heavy in the room 😂😂😂😂
Everytime that dude logic open his mouth…I can’t help but think “wtf is he talking about?”
Anton is on point as usual.
Single moms should be with single dads. Settling is settling. It is a disadvantage to date or marry a BM
How when the majority of BW are getting pregnant by the same small percentage of BM, so you can't lump the majority of BM for the mistakes of the minority of BM. Now on the other hand the majority of BW are the problem and and breeding with the pookies but want the successful BM that they looked over to take care of their little b@$tards.
I would never do that again
You preached, Anton. I'm feeling what Jasmine said about the baby daddy messing up the ex's plans. He knows what his ex likes to wear when she goes out. If he knows she's gonna wear that cute little red or black dress, he knows that there's literally gonna be furniture moving that night. He's not obligated to babysit the kids while she gets her back blown out by her new man. He's not going to clear the runway for that to happen. Why should he?
Logic logic logic……..smh do you ever take that cape off 😂😂😂😂😂
I ain't Gon lie to y'all Anton lowkey the goat he be spitting
I was in that situation and i recommend men NEVER do that. Start your own family fellas, you dont know what kind of mental illnesses and family issues these women have. Get you somebody else....fair warning
4 billion women on the planet. Why is this even a discussion, unless these people are stuck in scarcity. There are PLENTY of available women WITHOUT kids.
Anton is spot on offering invaluable knowledge.
This show just proves it doesn’t matter how old you are , you can still lack sense and if u you take advice , you will crash TF out
As a step dad I agree with Anton even the ultimate simp part
Anton is right! They are changing the argument
“Love is gonna getcha” - KRS ONE
"Now tell me what the fuck am I supposed to do"? 😁 love that song.
PURE CLASSIC
Anton always the voice of reason. How tha f@ck you expect a man to step in and take care of another man’s child when 8/10 times the woman was the one who left the relationship??? If you don’t want to be a single mother then go back to your baby’s daddy. How da fck do I look dating a single mother, bonding with the children and forming a relationship with them just for her to leave again and yank them from my life??? There is literally only downside.
Mr clone logic is basically a feminist at this point. Please protect your child from making life altering mistakes if you can and stop with the emotions shxt. A young man can make mistakes that’s why he needs mentorship!!!
I can’t believe he live in Ga and think that way makes me ashamed of my state 😂
I concur with Anton on this one! I don't give a damn how fine she is, ONCE it's known that you have a kid, From that moment on you are recreational fun at best. You already gave a man the highest honor so why would I take on someone's else's saved game?! Nah, son. I rather start my own Fresh.
Don't sleep with women who have children then. There is risk with every interaction. Fellas should start there.
I like the fact that Anton checked Logic ass real man shit. Stop trying to play hom for a fool.
My boy Anton cooking 🔥🔥
I have kids and wont settle for a single mother. Nope. Either way those are not my kids and a woman does not have to provide for mine.
I like Ms Kay mindset!.. Good convo here
Exactly Any. Sistas choose by how they feel. Rather than what makes sense. And feelings change. That’s why most have multiple baby dads. I’ll be honest. I’d rather see a black man w no kids find a Becky w no kids than be a clean up man w a sista w multiple children who won’t give him any.
Logic a Goofy, it's official. 🤦🏽♂️
My wife and I both had 1 year old's and they are now 4 years old, going on 5. You would think they are twins how we raise them lol. It does work!
It’s still to early to pat yourself on the back. Wait until the other child become a teen OR if the relationship ends. Will she still allow you to maintain a relationship with that child when she enters another relationship? Will her new man allow that relationship to continue? Will your new woman allow that relationship to continue ? 😏
@@andrebeauchamp6897 Well I don't pray on my relationship ending plus I have already had these conversations. When the child is of age to understand what is going on etc. That's her decision and of course I expect that she will not communicate with me lol, but if she does, I'm not going to cut her off just because her mother and I are no longer together. It's called being an Adult.
I respect what Law said, under his house nobody is about to raise somebody else kids while he is living under his authority. If they want to you have every right to kick them out the house and be foolish.
I got kids - she made herself a single mom. She left. I'm still not looking to play step daddy. Y'all kids is wild
The man will be taking all of the risks. He'll also be taking all of the responsibility of the child/kids.
How is this beneficial to and for him?
I love Anton Daniels nah for real 🔥🔥
Im Wit Anton And Law On This On💯
Logic is Soft😂😂😂
Logic is a pookie
LOGIC SHOWED HE SIMP OVER ND OVER GET HIM OFF PANAL…
Logic been hating on talking point every since Pearl came around.
Anton/kayy/Law/islandgyal are right about this argument.
Have y’all noticed it’s mostly the people with children out of wedlock who are always advocating for childless people to be with people with children?
And I look at them krazy... As a single dad. Ive not once said that women 'should' date me.
@@ADMTyRenn Exactly! It’s so wild that people really don’t see how being a stepdad or stepmom is not an easy task. It’s takes a really specific type of person to volunteer for those roles. Most people don’t want those roles.
Oh yes, I’m watching this twice!! Go Anton, go Anton😎👍🏽
If you are a successful man with kids you can still have a higher standard than a single mother 🤷🏾♂️
It's definitely a hard sell.
I really hate illogical, he jus waters down the entire show. Anytime someone makes an opposite opinion of his it’s rare he ever attacks the points.