I think the main issue that guys face when it comes to noticing is the overlap they have with signs of neutrality or signs of distain. Glancing at me and away from me has often been done by female classmates that find me disgusting and refused to speak with me when I spoke to them. I have had girls touch me at every chance they get, but they are just like that with every guy, I thought she liked me but refused to assume that and was proven right after knowing her longer, and seeing her around other guys. Talking to me and engaging in conversation? I don't think that means flirting, just they are okay with you. Not interest, just okay with you being around. Being nervous? I used to think that, but now I always just group this into frightened of me, so I just distance myself. Noticing is easy, telling the difference is hard. When we judge wrong it ends poorly, not in rejection, but in being creepy. I have misread a girl being nervous because a video like this suggested it as a behavior showing interest subconsciously. She ended up running away the first chance they saw, and hiding behind a friend that showed up, and I wasn't touching her I didn't come onto her at all, I was attempting what I thought was just normal small talk. I believe most guys notice the signs and question them but deny there existence because 90% of the time it wasn't on purpose. If a girl bumps into me at work I'm not going to start thinking they like me otherwise everyone likes me, including 40 year old Dave.
You are absolutely right It's very easy to misunderstand these signs and not every eye contact or bump means someone is interested in you thank you for pointing that out. But at the same time if you observe the signs properly you can differentiate these signs. Think about it, the way someone who loves you looks at you won't be the same way someone who hates you looks at you.
Looking at a cluster of signs 3 or more. Let's say her eyes are dilated (bigger) caveat is that our eyes dilate due to light so take into account. She smiles a little wider than normal. Her torso and feet are facing you (another caveat, some people lean on one leg occasionally and have the other pointing out. A foot pointing away can mean the person wants to exit the conversation. Not necessarily) Ask to hang out "hey we should hang out" if she asks why or shows a snotty attitude say "I already asked someone else they said they're busy, it's not about your looks, if not cool" And walk away. I've always had an issue with the touching one. Yes some women touch a guy they like, not all of them. So I personally ignore this one unless she's touchy my arm or rubbing it. That's the only time I'd tease her about liking me. Othererwise good luck
1. “Accidental” body contact 2. Look away then look back 3. Becoming self aware 4. Extending conversation 5. Remembers small details 6. Getting nervousness 7. Making themselves available 8. Gives you the soft smile
The gentle smile at the end is something you should cherish lads, you’ll remember it eventually but you won’t see it that often later in life, every now and than it shows itself and those little moments will melt your heart with love and nostalgia, even after more than a decade
We do. At least I have. That doesn't show me you care about me. That tells me you are interested in me. Interest in us doesn't make us pursue. Feeling cared for, seen, heard, and loved makes us pursue you. Curiosity and interest in someone doesn't build connection. Caring for them does.
Then let me open your narrow mind and help you to learn about men, something women should do, yet don't. It's easy, there's 3 ways women use these ioi (indicators of interest/ signals) Signals of interest - I'm interested in a guy Signals of interest - I'm being friendly and want self validation and attention Signals of interest - I'm de-escalating a tense situation to avoid being harmed Add that women actively do these by choice and then claim they're not interested. You see why men call it a mine field. Hope this helps you understand the men around you and that you have a bit more self awareness than before.
You may not care about this, but many guys there haven’t even talked to a girl before, so it can’t be expected that they would understand these kinds of signals. Social cues and boundaries like these are rarely taught at home or discussed openly within friend circles. Without real-life interaction or guidance, many of them simply don’t know what is appropriate or how to interpret such situations. A lack of exposure and education often leads to confusion rather than bad intent.
Because we don't read minds, and we are not as obsessive as girls either.... also girls give up easily when he doesn't get it. So, that's confirmation that it wasn't anything special
I'm a guy, and I do the second one. Also, I already knew a good portion of these signs, and I've seen girls do this with me. They were, unfortunately for them, not my type. It's not about the fact that some flirts are hard to pick up, because they really aren't or the guy is literally an idiot; instead, it could be about the fact that we just aren't into you.
Let me tell a thing liking someone is not loving someone so guys who are sitting here and thinking that she loves u bro nope they like u as a friend a brother to protect her. Congratulations🎉 you got a sister🎉🎉
Why don't girl tell me directly that she's love me or would you be my as a friend ? That's We Boys like so much and directly thing is so good to getting know whether she's in love or just friend. ❤
@psysigns_YT And forgot to say I have more video Ideas 1. Things that make them think about you. 2. Signs that someone likes you even if you don't think so. 3. How to make your crush jealous. PART2 4. Things that will make your crush crave you. 5. How to know if a guy has a crush on you secretly. Or how to know if a girl has a crush on you. 6. Body languages that guys do when they are interested in you. Or body languages that girls do when they are interested in you. 7. Signs your crush is not interested in you. 8. How to know if a has a crush on you. PART2 9. How to make a girl be obsessed whit you. Hope you love them❤
Putting on lipstick onky when he's around is lazy. You need to show him you put in an effort to care about him. Not do the minimum to look presentable to him. I've been totally aware of all of these signs immediately when they were done toward me. If you're too fearful to put in the effort to show me how much you care about me, not how well you look around me, I won't pursue you.
Accually yea i think she likes me as she gives 8/8 and we meeg rarely.but the thing is i am 14 and she is just 11 so but she doesnt give those signs to other boys in our friend group only me.😊
And what if she saw me several times and at some point (day) asked me where the restrooms were, even though it was obvious where they are? She also left her bag and phone behind when she went to the restroom. She also adjusted her hair several times before asking me. These are good signs ? 😅
These do sound like a sign of interest. If you like her maybe try somethings to show interest and see how she reacts to them that way you know for sure because these sound like clues 😊❤
I got 0 of these signs
Don't worry, same🥲
I had my hopes until 3 and 4 came..
Us😅
So that's them flirting 😅😂
Finally a video explaining this 😢😂
OMG bro i got more than half signs DAMN
Ive encountered alot of these signs
Everything except number 5 is just normal behaviour, you can't really tell if they like you or not just with these "signs"
I think the main issue that guys face when it comes to noticing is the overlap they have with signs of neutrality or signs of distain.
Glancing at me and away from me has often been done by female classmates that find me disgusting and refused to speak with me when I spoke to them.
I have had girls touch me at every chance they get, but they are just like that with every guy, I thought she liked me but refused to assume that and was proven right after knowing her longer, and seeing her around other guys.
Talking to me and engaging in conversation? I don't think that means flirting, just they are okay with you. Not interest, just okay with you being around.
Being nervous? I used to think that, but now I always just group this into frightened of me, so I just distance myself.
Noticing is easy, telling the difference is hard. When we judge wrong it ends poorly, not in rejection, but in being creepy. I have misread a girl being nervous because a video like this suggested it as a behavior showing interest subconsciously. She ended up running away the first chance they saw, and hiding behind a friend that showed up, and I wasn't touching her I didn't come onto her at all, I was attempting what I thought was just normal small talk. I believe most guys notice the signs and question them but deny there existence because 90% of the time it wasn't on purpose. If a girl bumps into me at work I'm not going to start thinking they like me otherwise everyone likes me, including 40 year old Dave.
You are absolutely right
It's very easy to misunderstand these signs and not every eye contact or bump means someone is interested in you thank you for pointing that out.
But at the same time if you observe the signs properly you can differentiate these signs.
Think about it, the way someone who loves you looks at you won't be the same way someone who hates you looks at you.
Looking at a cluster of signs 3 or more.
Let's say her eyes are dilated (bigger) caveat is that our eyes dilate due to light so take into account.
She smiles a little wider than normal.
Her torso and feet are facing you (another caveat, some people lean on one leg occasionally and have the other pointing out. A foot pointing away can mean the person wants to exit the conversation. Not necessarily)
Ask to hang out "hey we should hang out" if she asks why or shows a snotty attitude say "I already asked someone else they said they're busy, it's not about your looks, if not cool"
And walk away.
I've always had an issue with the touching one. Yes some women touch a guy they like, not all of them. So I personally ignore this one unless she's touchy my arm or rubbing it. That's the only time I'd tease her about liking me.
Othererwise good luck
@Martyn_Wolf How do you guys even see pupil dilation? I can never tell
@YusufAli-zy8ze Look the person in the eyes... Not hard
@Martyn_Wolf I've tried this 😭
Maybe it's cuz she's always perpendicular to me.
Okay next time I'll focus up and make sure to notice.
1. “Accidental” body contact
2. Look away then look back
3. Becoming self aware
4. Extending conversation
5. Remembers small details
6. Getting nervousness
7. Making themselves available
8. Gives you the soft smile
The gentle smile at the end is something you should cherish lads, you’ll remember it eventually but you won’t see it that often later in life, every now and than it shows itself and those little moments will melt your heart with love and nostalgia, even after more than a decade
So true 😂😂
I always wondered why guys don't get these signals
Hopefully after watching the video, they will ❤
We do. At least I have. That doesn't show me you care about me. That tells me you are interested in me. Interest in us doesn't make us pursue. Feeling cared for, seen, heard, and loved makes us pursue you. Curiosity and interest in someone doesn't build connection. Caring for them does.
Then let me open your narrow mind and help you to learn about men, something women should do, yet don't.
It's easy, there's 3 ways women use these ioi (indicators of interest/ signals)
Signals of interest - I'm interested in a guy
Signals of interest - I'm being friendly and want self validation and attention
Signals of interest - I'm de-escalating a tense situation to avoid being harmed
Add that women actively do these by choice and then claim they're not interested.
You see why men call it a mine field.
Hope this helps you understand the men around you and that you have a bit more self awareness than before.
You may not care about this, but many guys there haven’t even talked to a girl before, so it can’t be expected that they would understand these kinds of signals. Social cues and boundaries like these are rarely taught at home or discussed openly within friend circles. Without real-life interaction or guidance, many of them simply don’t know what is appropriate or how to interpret such situations. A lack of exposure and education often leads to confusion rather than bad intent.
Because we don't read minds, and we are not as obsessive as girls either.... also girls give up easily when he doesn't get it. So, that's confirmation that it wasn't anything special
i missed 0 of these signs, i'm in prison with life sentence.
Me finding out the last person I thought is giving me signals
How blind can guys possibly be, not to see this
O Lord
I hv been soóo blind
I'm a guy, and I do the second one. Also, I already knew a good portion of these signs, and I've seen girls do this with me. They were, unfortunately for them, not my type. It's not about the fact that some flirts are hard to pick up, because they really aren't or the guy is literally an idiot; instead, it could be about the fact that we just aren't into you.
You are saying that me to say my crush that 143
I didn't ignore anything. I am just waiting for her since two years.
Let me tell a thing liking someone is not loving someone so guys who are sitting here and thinking that she loves u bro nope they like u as a friend a brother to protect her. Congratulations🎉 you got a sister🎉🎉
Why don't girl tell me directly that she's love me or would you be my as a friend ? That's We Boys like so much and directly thing is so good to getting know whether she's in love or just friend. ❤
Hii, thanks for making my video idea, and Iam you're biggest fan❤❤😊
Hey my friend 😊❤
Thanks again for always watching and thanks for the video ideas
@psysigns_YT you welcome again my friend❤
@psysigns_YT And forgot to say I have more video Ideas
1. Things that make them think about you.
2. Signs that someone likes you even if you don't think so.
3. How to make your crush jealous. PART2
4. Things that will make your crush crave you.
5. How to know if a guy has a crush on you secretly. Or how to know if a girl has a crush on you.
6. Body languages that guys do when they are interested in you. Or body languages that girls do when they are interested in you.
7. Signs your crush is not interested in you.
8. How to know if a has a crush on you. PART2
9. How to make a girl be obsessed whit you.
Hope you love them❤
@MihaelaMacukovolieva I love them ❤😊
Thank you so much again
@psysigns_YT ❤you welcome❤😊
Putting on lipstick onky when he's around is lazy. You need to show him you put in an effort to care about him. Not do the minimum to look presentable to him. I've been totally aware of all of these signs immediately when they were done toward me. If you're too fearful to put in the effort to show me how much you care about me, not how well you look around me, I won't pursue you.
Most useful kind of these videos and best explaining!
Thank you ❤
Yessss
I appreciate this video so much ❤❤
Happy to hear it 😊❤
So many
That's so true!!
Glad you agree ❤
Accually yea i think she likes me as she gives 8/8 and we meeg rarely.but the thing is i am 14 and she is just 11 so but she doesnt give those signs to other boys in our friend group only me.😊
And what if she saw me several times and at some point (day) asked me where the restrooms were, even though it was obvious where they are? She also left her bag and phone behind when she went to the restroom. She also adjusted her hair several times before asking me. These are good signs ? 😅
These do sound like a sign of interest.
If you like her maybe try somethings to show interest and see how she reacts to them that way you know for sure because these sound like clues 😊❤
The women are nuts….