WHY THE NARCISSIST NEEDS DRAMA

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

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  • @malijahpioch
    @malijahpioch Месяц назад +162

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      @ilavey Месяц назад

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      @ilavey Месяц назад

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  • @brianplord
    @brianplord Месяц назад +130

    They need drama because it’s chaos and they have demons inside of them. Satan embodies contention and chaos. Narcissists hate the peace and order of God.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  Месяц назад +13

      😌😌

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 Месяц назад +1

      @ brianplord., they're pawns of Satan, 😈 they took the left hand path,,wide is the road that leads to Destruction,

    • @Patricia_Stewart337
      @Patricia_Stewart337 Месяц назад +11

      We need to separate the wheat from the chaff and create ORDER, Harmony.
      I’m not and never have been a damsel in distress ( my lame 50’s flirting style )
      Time to get it going
      Inner work
      No deals

    • @ERnarcfree
      @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +9

      @@Patricia_Stewart337You are right. We were told “ the knight in shining armor “ would come into our lives. They never told us about these blood sucking parasites!!

    • @raanfo
      @raanfo Месяц назад +8

      Thank you for diving into financial abuse tactics Andrew. This happened to me over a period of 3 months. Despite the short length of the relationship, I am still reeling from being taken in. I ended it after my close network encouraged and supported me. Thank goodness

  • @heatherwagar5868
    @heatherwagar5868 Месяц назад +44

    They are so boring that chaos has to be their personality

  • @Rachel-g3h5q
    @Rachel-g3h5q Месяц назад +54

    They cause trouble, chaos, drama and love to see people hurting!!!

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 Месяц назад +5

      @Rachel-g3h5q, they'd cause drama in an empty 🏡

    • @kimsteed9401
      @kimsteed9401 Месяц назад +5

      And cry victim when they are happy with the devastation they've created.

  • @ShalomISmyname
    @ShalomISmyname Месяц назад +26

    It was CONSTANT drama!!!!!! Zero stability. They can’t self regulate so they create constant chaos 🙄

    • @jay11603
      @jay11603 Месяц назад

      One day you are their best friend and then the next day you can't understand why we are arguing constantly.

  • @DP_e-que
    @DP_e-que Месяц назад +39

    That was half my life. Going for a glass of water would turn into drama

  • @i.l.9546
    @i.l.9546 Месяц назад +69

    Just told my son the other day he has to watch out for drama patterns with his new girlfriend and immidiatley he could see how toxic she was with her constant drama and pitty play. He ended the relationship the next day. Once you know what to look for in a person you have the wisdom and forward it. I am so thankful for having got educated about this topic.

    • @ERnarcfree
      @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +7

      Congrats !!! You raised a great son. I did also.

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z Месяц назад +4

      If all parents could have that kind of wisdom and impart it to their children, what a better world it would be! You are a Good mother!👍👍👍👍🙌

  • @Warp75
    @Warp75 Месяц назад +48

    I’ve got rid of most people in my life the last 28 months & it’s been the most peaceful 28 months of my life. No drama, no arguments & no need to raise my voice 🎯

  • @amandaliverpool3374
    @amandaliverpool3374 Месяц назад +20

    They love to observe people consuming chaos 😮

  • @ERnarcfree
    @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +46

    Drama is oxygen to the Narcissist. It was never your fault. Stay strong 💪🏻, stay here for support- but don’t gaslight yourself. They are terrible and you are wonderful. You don’t belong with the garbage.

    • @Santacruize
      @Santacruize Месяц назад +1

      “Don’t Gaslight Yourself “ - What a brilliant comment! I have to admit I did that for way too long a time. Convincing myself to keep defending the indefensible. What a fool - I don’t even know what the term meant or that people waste their energy on such nefarious and demented crap.

    • @ERnarcfree
      @ERnarcfree Месяц назад

      @ Hi thank you for your comment. May I please suggest to you that you were never a fool. You were duped and lied to. We all were. This doesn’t make us fools. It makes us kind and caring human beings.
      Now that we know - now we say No.

    • @ERnarcfree
      @ERnarcfree Месяц назад

      @@Santacruize You are so sweet. I just had to put my sweet dog 2 days ago. Your kind comment made my day.

  • @pavanatanaya
    @pavanatanaya Месяц назад +35

    Boundaries Matter. No is a complete sentence. Guilt is optional

  • @mariefrancebourget1749
    @mariefrancebourget1749 Месяц назад +33

    Narcs need drama to feel alive but it makes us go bananas. I can't stand being around people like that anymore. I need peace. Have a beautiful evening Andrew ☺️🙌💜🙏

    • @chazbickel4518
      @chazbickel4518 Месяц назад +3

      You are not alone Marie... I'm sharing the peace with you.
      ❤😊

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 Месяц назад +3

      Yes Marie......mellow so much better! 👍
      🌈🎀😘

    • @mariefrancebourget1749
      @mariefrancebourget1749 Месяц назад +1

      @chazbickel4518 thank you 🫶💜🙏

    • @mariefrancebourget1749
      @mariefrancebourget1749 Месяц назад +2

      @marieeakin8534 💯 yes! Have a lovely evening and night 😊💞🙏

    • @marshat.ordureau3121
      @marshat.ordureau3121 Месяц назад +3

      Bonjour Mariefrance🙏💯🇫🇷🌲yes,,, they all drive us BANANAS🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌🍌HAVE A great fun weekend🌲🌲🫶

  • @ERnarcfree
    @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +29

    The drama can consume you. Get away from the monsters.
    It’s Friday and it’s a holiday. It’s difficult for so many people who have been discarded. You are not alone. Stay here and you will have the support you need!!

  • @stephaniehepler8341
    @stephaniehepler8341 Месяц назад +18

    He withheld our money from me & somehow twisted everything around by gaslighting me into believing my needs & contributions had no value & I was a bad person, so I deserved it. They always play the victim.
    This is how sick they are.
    Don’t ever forget it.
    They cannot change.

  • @125adfTtp
    @125adfTtp Месяц назад +42

    A narcissist is getting old and declining let nature take over and deal with them.

    • @kimapel1528
      @kimapel1528 Месяц назад +2

      And after that let he'll deal with them

    • @125adfTtp
      @125adfTtp Месяц назад

      @kimapel1528 hell 😈

    • @user-yy9be9mi6n
      @user-yy9be9mi6n Месяц назад +3

      The one I knew was 70, acting and thinking he was 30. But time is catching up

  • @a.b.lindmark3739
    @a.b.lindmark3739 Месяц назад +27

    It is scary to watch this video, bc you are talking about my life. But I am moving out, and will never look back!

    • @MattyNelson-rs3ik
      @MattyNelson-rs3ik Месяц назад +4

      DON'T EVEN BE SCARED,KNOW YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING,MOVE IN ABSOLUTE STEALTH KEEP YOUR HEAD ON A SWIVEL

    • @ERnarcfree
      @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +3

      Congrats!!! Watch these videos and you will be fine.

    • @Chuck-q3d
      @Chuck-q3d Месяц назад +4

      Always take the high road

    • @tcjohns463
      @tcjohns463 Месяц назад +1

      You said it, every word of this video is my childhood and current parent’s situation to this day. I just figured out the last 5 years what a narcissist is and it explained everything that never made sense. So painful and scary 😢

  • @ERnarcfree
    @ERnarcfree Месяц назад +19

    Narcissists want drama to destroy their victims. Also , don’t accept “ crumbs” thrown your way as “ huge acts of kindness “.

  • @hannastrack4310
    @hannastrack4310 Месяц назад +29

    thats how they feed

  • @jswan312
    @jswan312 Месяц назад +17

    Narcissists need to CONTROL your feelings.
    My mother is a narcissist who is pathologically jealous of her sister, my favorite aunt, a beautiful bright shining light, so my mother did everything she could to ruin our relationship and smear her into the ground.
    She also tightly controls my relationships with my siblings, which are all but over now. I can’t take the secret smear campaign and triangulation any more, so I left them all behind.
    This is her life’s work: decimating beautiful people and their relationships.
    I will never speak to the witch again. I will not even attend her funeral.

    • @summacumsoap8983
      @summacumsoap8983 Месяц назад

      This reads like my family experience. Current status is like yours, but I did go to the funeral --in the days before learning about N
      Far, far away now for a long time. Totally new way of life Thank God 🙏💜

    • @Maria-o3o6f
      @Maria-o3o6f Месяц назад +1

      I understand you.. I have same feelings

  • @the-writerofmyownstory
    @the-writerofmyownstory Месяц назад +10

    I’m in the smear campaign now and have been for over a year…made the mistake of fanning the flames by trying to defend and explain myself. Some people don’t want to hear it because they don’t want to be involved and others use it as an opportunity to elevate themselves and make you feel worse, some of which end up to be flying monkeys. Go no contact if you can. Smear campaign has been one of the most painful aspects during healing from narcissistic abuse.

  • @AustraliaUnmasked1984
    @AustraliaUnmasked1984 Месяц назад +27

    Then they will say "too much drama"

  • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
    @JHavaJoe2-m1z Месяц назад +11

    Sometimes, the Drama is created to their advantage when they prod you into it. They cannot measure the hold on you if the existing scenario is too calm. Seeing your reaction- Boom! They can feel they are still in control. They are a big Drag to be around ( to put it lightly).

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 Месяц назад +4

      Obnoxious & draining. Glad its a thrill for them....turn off for me.
      Move on....move out...move forward!
      👍💥☕💪

    • @Marie-rs4ns
      @Marie-rs4ns Месяц назад

      Yes. It’s always about them and if it’s not they will make it so because they must be the center of attention and at all costs no matter who they hurt or offend.

  • @amandajohnson-williams7718
    @amandajohnson-williams7718 Месяц назад +12

    You become their daily or bi-weekly punching bag of drama, confusion, conflict and trauma! They leave you drained and anxiety riddled! It's a cycle of chaos .... dished out by a demon

    • @summacumsoap8983
      @summacumsoap8983 Месяц назад

      Yes, a Demon 👿 it's not just a throw away word. Evil really exists in the world. People need to believe that for their own survival. .

  • @catalina9876
    @catalina9876 Месяц назад +8

    I was discarded by the narc 2 months ago. He created unnecessary drama.
    I’ve never had a long-term boyfriend who didn’t have some kind of personality disorder or who wasn’t highly toxic in some way. I long for a long-term relationship with a boyfriend who has a kind heart. I’ve never had that.

  • @xChAoSx420
    @xChAoSx420 Месяц назад +11

    If you look at them in the eyes they flip out. If you talk to them they flip out and scream. If you walk by them they find a way to argue. What a waste of a life to be a sociopath stalker

  • @JulieShah-in7zz
    @JulieShah-in7zz Месяц назад +10

    I was comfortable and happy, simply searching for a life partner. Then he came out of left field and my life imploded literally.....I have healed slowly and found my answers here with Andrew and the community 💜🙏🌟

  • @Pear-zo4em
    @Pear-zo4em Месяц назад +19

    They thrive on making up lies about people.

  • @katemoffitt1641
    @katemoffitt1641 Месяц назад +15

    And then they blame u for the drama!

  • @BORISPyle
    @BORISPyle Месяц назад +7

    Your creativity is a gift to the world! 🌍

  • @skotlynnq5850
    @skotlynnq5850 Месяц назад +8

    I hear my narcissist mother has died. I can’t believe it until I see proof. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a ploy to start family drama, just for fun. That is who she is, what she does. Haven’t talked to her in over 15 yrs because of her behavior.

  • @raanfo
    @raanfo Месяц назад +10

    Sometimes the trash takes itself out... Thank you Ms Swift

  • @estelle5686
    @estelle5686 Месяц назад +11

    Depending on the influence of a narcissist, the damage of the smear campaign can be incalculable and permanent. A company can be completely destroyed by 2 narcissists in management. This is not just one one relationship you can heal from. There can be damage which will close doors, destroys relationships and reputation savaging which is forever. Some of the consequences are permanent, much bigger than a relationship. Destabilizing governments, economies on a worldwide level. Families can have generations of damage. It can cost a life. A family member of mine lost his life. These are grave matters.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  Месяц назад +3

      😌😌🙏

    • @DP_e-que
      @DP_e-que Месяц назад

      I know exactly what you are talking about and for what a few dollars more a younger gun bigger weenie . If they don't want you just say it. But no they go all out like a big shot.

    • @notaclue822
      @notaclue822 Месяц назад

      Yes it is dreadful. Some onlookers just don't get it. Somehow narcissists tap in to people's dark side, and then they jump in without considering that they haven't heard both sides of the issue. Somehow, they are passionately invested in getting you to do whatever the narc wants you to do, namely, unsee their true character.
      It's exactly like a cult. It's a strange side of human nature. Very few people are impossible to manipulate. Maybe over time some will see the truth but you can't make it happen.

  • @SoulForce_
    @SoulForce_ Месяц назад +4

    Their drama they project, because even though they create it they have no capacity to deal with it themselves.
    Yesterday a 'sweet' young man I had to let go, I took in from an abusive family 3 months ago. I have very simple household rules, but during three months he just on purpose didn't do what was asked, countered it and yesterday he slept in a homeless shelter among junks because I had to let him go. The level of toxic grew and i know there was not going to be improvement. He had so many chances with me, its bizar that he put the room on the line.

  • @youtubert3138
    @youtubert3138 Месяц назад +10

    These monsters should be detected, registered and kept in a database for the mental and physical safety of every city/ country… 💩

  • @jenniferhamelin7827
    @jenniferhamelin7827 Месяц назад +1

    OMG every single word you have said is spot on. He continually called me naive. Over and over naive naive naive

  • @TanjaT-od4nw
    @TanjaT-od4nw Месяц назад +9

    I listened to a video where a man described his ex-wife and the toxic relationship.
    He lives now in peace and has no contact with that woman.
    He said: "I still love her and I will always do, after all she is the mother of my children."
    I sincerely feel sorry for that man 😢
    Personally, it is unthinkable for me to love such an evil monster.
    After all, with this statement, he closed the door to complete healing and the possibility of falling in love with another woman and experiencing true love ✨❤️

  • @CreativeWarrior-
    @CreativeWarrior- Месяц назад +8

    WOW!! This is fantastic and covers so much!! Remember: Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out. I've been through all the stuff you refer to and now I LOVE peace and quiet!

  • @chazbickel4518
    @chazbickel4518 Месяц назад +9

    Great video Andrew!!
    No contact gets you out of the drama, and on to the healing path.
    Wishing everyone clarity and peace...
    ✌❤

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 Месяц назад +4

      No contact works wonders! 👍💥❤💪
      🌈🎀😘

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z Месяц назад +4

      You can't beat that Path to Healing! At first, small increments of calm and peace, then it
      increases and increases! Easy to glance over your shoulder and say, "No way, I want to go back
      to any sort of similar situation!!"🤔🤨😐😳🤗🙌👍

    • @carole9409
      @carole9409 Месяц назад +1

      💯 😊

  • @nigelmccray9616
    @nigelmccray9616 Месяц назад +7

    Always appreciate your viedos Andrew a little over a year ago i was discarded and your videos were what helped me get through that tough time .. really appreciate it and keep up the positive good work and encouragement and wisdom you share🙏😎

  • @MariaChicco
    @MariaChicco Месяц назад +3

    Thank you ..... The principle of "never a borrower or lender be" served as a strong boundary and deterrent for potential loans.

  • @SherrieDix-z6u
    @SherrieDix-z6u Месяц назад +4

    Embracing the wonder of your creativity! ✨

  • @MsBrooklyn62
    @MsBrooklyn62 Месяц назад +6

    LOL! I often called him "The Drama King"

    • @joannetroy67
      @joannetroy67 Месяц назад

      I called him Johnny Conflict

  • @LaurenM-1
    @LaurenM-1 Месяц назад +8

    I remember my Ex Narc would walk into my house and automatically change the temp on my AC/Heat setting just for the drama...and of course financially contributed ZERO.

    • @paulwisdom1090
      @paulwisdom1090 Месяц назад +2

      Omg!!!!! The ex narc wife would do this soo often it drove me nuts!!!! The temp would be comfortable and out of nowhere it was jacked up to the coldest temp just to start drama!!!! Then the ex narc wife would say "I'm cold!!! Aren't you cold?!!??? My goshh dealt with this nonsense for 3.5 years!!!!

    • @LaurenM-1
      @LaurenM-1 Месяц назад +1

      @paulwisdom1090 It was so aggravating!! Ahh ..dealt with it for 4 years..such energy vampires!

  • @annawallace3264
    @annawallace3264 Месяц назад +3

    the devil likes drama and likes to keep it happening and driving people crazy. Stay strong, don’t give up. I survived, am healing and you can too!!❤

  • @JosefaWashington
    @JosefaWashington Месяц назад +4

    Profoundly expressive

  • @pavanatanaya
    @pavanatanaya Месяц назад +8

    10:30 at night a phone call. Health issue...heart drama. I drover her to her ER. Waited until 3am,,,No heart issue,,,No thanks offered.
    I found out later that I was the third person she called...her own sister told her to call 911...Lesson learned

  • @richardsorman1585
    @richardsorman1585 Месяц назад +10

    Thank you for your work!

  • @joybarton3460
    @joybarton3460 Месяц назад +4

    So true. They will take anything from you, with crocodile tears. Your energy, your love and your time. It is like the song by Neil Diamond, "and when they have you they really have you. Nothing you can do or say, you got to leave just get away"

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x Месяц назад +5

    Narcisists thrive on external energy either positive or negative so we should not give them any.

  • @andreabill7719
    @andreabill7719 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you for your teaching, diligence, and clarity. 💡

  • @AylinYaprak
    @AylinYaprak Месяц назад +3

    You're a breath of fresh air

  • @delicatelace8830
    @delicatelace8830 Месяц назад +5

    If I get a" sniff "of toxic attitude from any one now I disconnect. Rather read a book or go for walk.

  • @RaHB7
    @RaHB7 Месяц назад +7

    I’m going to say goodbye to everyone that helped me with their thoughtful comments, and sincere thanks especially to Andrew and his videos that answered so many of my questions from way back.
    The last three months have been very special in speeding up my life’s journey and clearing up the confusion left behind by disordered individuals.
    It all happened very quickly once I had the knowledge and I hope it does the same for all of you.
    Receive free, give free.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 Месяц назад +17

    P.s they have a filing cabinet in their heads with a sob story,ready for any situation,,to meet they're needs,,Very self entitled,,i witnessed this in outreach Work/and Church,,🤡👹

    • @davidbanner9344
      @davidbanner9344 Месяц назад +3

      So Spot On! Exactly!

    • @DP_e-que
      @DP_e-que Месяц назад +3

      The funniest was when all fails the come up with some sickness the tummy the thyroid massive headache on and on😅😅😅😅

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 Месяц назад +3

      ​Yes excuses,,,excuses,,until the Sun goes down,,😮

    • @MattyNelson-rs3ik
      @MattyNelson-rs3ik Месяц назад +3

      When people do that on the freeway,I just get out of the way,,if I meet up with them at the traffic light,I just keep my head straight ahead, NOT TADAY,BUSTER..

  • @AntionetteBaltazar
    @AntionetteBaltazar Месяц назад +3

    This is exceptional work. You have a unique touch that sets you apart

  • @MARLONDesmond
    @MARLONDesmond Месяц назад +2

    You're a ray of sunshine

  • @SherylBurton-v8w
    @SherylBurton-v8w Месяц назад +3

    Absolutely wonderful! 🌈

  • @CrisCedillo-f3v
    @CrisCedillo-f3v Месяц назад +3

    Absolutely captivating.

  • @elenagirelli170
    @elenagirelli170 Месяц назад +4

    Here I even had an office boss ask me to drop off her clothes at the cleaner's, it had nothing to do with the job and I said I had to go to catch the bus, so she made fun of me with coworkers...

  • @MamabearAsh4248
    @MamabearAsh4248 Месяц назад +3

    Hopefully, people in these dynamics can go no or low contact and break free.

  • @SynthiaBowens
    @SynthiaBowens Месяц назад +3

    Beautifully curated

  • @HallieGarris
    @HallieGarris Месяц назад +2

    You're on a roll!

  • @collegegirl201418
    @collegegirl201418 Месяц назад +8

    beautiful video please say hi to the dogs ❤😂

  • @SemihVeli-k3h
    @SemihVeli-k3h Месяц назад +4

    Your creativity flows endlessly! 🌊

  • @Manny-yy7hq
    @Manny-yy7hq Месяц назад +5

    Great video Andrew!
    My brother has a lot of money saved up, by never paying my mother rent, utilities, and always guilt tripped her into buy things for the house, and then he'd take the things he had my mom pay for, to his boyfriends house, he drained my mother, and he cause her stroke, and everyone says he is responsible for her passing,
    Now he controls my youngest brother by threatening to put him back in jail, my Narc brother is a tight wad!!!! He eats old food to save money, and he's making my youngest brother eat the crap he eats, I can't do anything to help my youngest brother, cause if I do anything to my Narc brother or he does anything to me, we both go to jail, so he knows I can't do anything, and the probation officer for my youngest brother, wouldn't help, so he does stupid little things to annoy us, like a 10 year old, he's 54 years old , and you're absolutely right, the aging narcissist only gets worse!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  Месяц назад +1

      😌😌

    • @paulwisdom1090
      @paulwisdom1090 Месяц назад +1

      Wow!! That's insane! Will have to keep you in prayer Manny!! I know you mentioned before that there are many demons within your brother, it's unfortunate! Try developing an exit plan if you can, at the end of the day you need to do what's best for your own peace of mind!!! Remember that.

    • @Manny-yy7hq
      @Manny-yy7hq Месяц назад

      @paulwisdom1090 thank you

  • @theteal123
    @theteal123 Месяц назад +7

    Truth 100%

  • @shellysawchuk1190
    @shellysawchuk1190 Месяц назад +16

    They are spoiled bratt so between age 3-5 that's how it makes sense to me

  • @RedaKehoe
    @RedaKehoe Месяц назад +2

    Absolutely spellbinding! 🧙‍♀️✨

  • @jennifernewton4637
    @jennifernewton4637 Месяц назад +6

    Good evening Andrew! 🙌🙌😁🫂☀️🏔️❤️💜

  • @CT-uq8bw
    @CT-uq8bw Месяц назад +4

    3 ice cubes instead of 2..lmfao.. wtf is wrong w these people??Like that matters.. hilarious thx Andrew😂

  • @CaglaCagdas-fj2eg
    @CaglaCagdas-fj2eg Месяц назад +2

    Stunned by the brilliance of your creativity! 😲

  • @thereallisa1
    @thereallisa1 Месяц назад +4

    You couldn't be more right. It was so bad...so unreal. UN-REAL. 😢

  • @PRESTONThornburg-u2w
    @PRESTONThornburg-u2w Месяц назад +2

    Absolutely stellar

  • @StacyMurphy-y5o
    @StacyMurphy-y5o Месяц назад +1

    When the smear campaign gets so big that the narcissist has to discard...because all the flying monkeys are scratching their head, confounded because, "Wait, what now? Which lie did you want us to back you on again?"....
    When the flying monkeys have to change masks to keep up with the drama...and prop up the narcissist... That's a key moment to identify in the abuse that we are FREE from. The view from the top of the Mountaintop of Indifference is GOLDEN.

  • @Roscoe1279
    @Roscoe1279 Месяц назад +4

    This was excellent! Thanks 👍

  • @catalina9876
    @catalina9876 Месяц назад +2

    When we first got started, he created unnecessary drama by obsessively complaining that my little girl was unable to sleep alone. This became the main conflict in our relationship. This was really a non-issue that he and I could’ve worked around. But he chose to make it a colossal deal. Looking back, I should have dropped him over that dumb non-issue.

  • @RICARDOSevilla-p6l
    @RICARDOSevilla-p6l Месяц назад +3

    A treat for the senses

  • @DorthyDees
    @DorthyDees Месяц назад +2

    Fine craftsmanship shown

  • @TROYMace-f5g
    @TROYMace-f5g Месяц назад +2

    Amazing talent

  • @HERMANHickman-b1d
    @HERMANHickman-b1d Месяц назад +2

    A masterpiece! 🎨

  • @theresatn000
    @theresatn000 Месяц назад +2

    You are so right Andrew WOW Put all in my love beautiful self bliss 🌻

  • @GLENValdovinos
    @GLENValdovinos Месяц назад +1

    Masterful direction

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 Месяц назад +3

    I've got to keep my cup full. Thanks, Andrew.

  • @jackiecolbert3915
    @jackiecolbert3915 Месяц назад +3

    Excellent video hit so many good points. Thank you for this message. Helps me understand Narcissism more.

  • @FLETCHERVernon-s7e
    @FLETCHERVernon-s7e Месяц назад +2

    You're crafting brilliance! 💡

  • @LightFoam
    @LightFoam Месяц назад +8

    Asymmetric return dynamics and intermittent reinforcement … co-idealizing and love bombing until they extract resources. Then comes the disrespect, discard, and projective identification. Somehow it’s all my fault they got everything they wanted and now are choosing to distance themselves for some arbitrary reason or perceived fault. Vinegar. Ignores your unmet needs or dangles the carrot. Then they come back in with the honey for another round.

  • @JUDSONLemke-m3n
    @JUDSONLemke-m3n Месяц назад +1

    Endlessly impressive! 😲

  • @MariaNotley
    @MariaNotley Месяц назад +2

    Again... uncanny insight. I just observed exactly this behavior in my ex... Thank you, Andrew.

  • @HERSCHELNorwood
    @HERSCHELNorwood Месяц назад +2

    You're a powerhouse

  • @Sevenfold7777
    @Sevenfold7777 Месяц назад +10

    Im still putting out fires that the narcissist started 🤷‍♂️

  • @LurlineYamamoto
    @LurlineYamamoto Месяц назад +2

    Seriously impressive

  • @sagesnakechalmer2294
    @sagesnakechalmer2294 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you so much for the important message in conclusion and the important points of truth delivered succinctly along the way ....

  • @roslyncerro1263
    @roslyncerro1263 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for bringing us all together.❣️

  • @krisssutton4260
    @krisssutton4260 Месяц назад +1

    I used to say my ex narc was a chaos junkie..this is just confirmation I was right all along

  • @marieeakin8534
    @marieeakin8534 Месяц назад +8

    Exploit.......................TO USE YOU!!!!!!!!
    Be Well, Be Wise
    🌈🎀😘

    • @chazbickel4518
      @chazbickel4518 Месяц назад +2

      They eventually run out of people to exploit and use, and all they have left is the drama and that low vibrational level. The well and wise rise above. 😊❤

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z Месяц назад +1

      That one word, "Exploit," sums up their general motive. 👍

  • @Rugbymom
    @Rugbymom Месяц назад +4

    It was drama 24/7… I used to “joke” with people that I lived in a Jerry Springer episode..so glad I’m out… btw the sound was great tonight… have a great evening!

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 Месяц назад

      Jerry Jerry...... good one! 😅 👍❤
      🌈🎀😘

  • @alnon6304
    @alnon6304 Месяц назад +5

    Así es. Son locos ,

  • @branislavbencs
    @branislavbencs Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for your content and for your help 🙏

  • @raanfo
    @raanfo Месяц назад +6

    Mine always had a drama of their own making going on. Good riddance. I won't take it personally.

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 Месяц назад +2

    Never live drama just live peace now😊