Brittney, I’m 41 and I’ve struggled with mental illness my whole life. I’m bipolar along with other “labels” they’ve given me. I always say, I have an illness, but I’m not my illness and I’m not ashamed of who I am. We all have our battles. I wish you good days, and strength on the hard days. As much as we all enjoy your videos, we can wait. Your health and well being should always come first and is all that should matter to anyone who truly cares about you. Hugs xoxo
@@daphney1881 I’m 40 and have struggled with my mental health since I was a teenager. I have bipolar disorder and have had about 3 “breaks” (how I describe them) . The worst was after I had my 3rd child- I developed postpartum psychosis and didn’t sleep for 7days straight. I had to be hospitalized for a few weeks and was put on antipsychotic medication 💊. I lost big chunks of time from my memory and had to ask my husband simple questions like “should I go to the bathroom now?” That was 13 years ago and my kids are now 17,15, and 13. It was the reason I chose not to have any more children 😢
@@dominiquexo4772 sweetheart it’s not what YOU think it’s what whoever diagnosed you thinks .you’re looking at yourself from the inside others are looking from the outside you may be Ill and may NEVER notice or be self aware enough to tell and if you weren’t professionally diagnosed with bipolar disorder or anything else then you aren’t mentally Ill please don’t self diagnose if that’s the case
"He said he came here to hit this lady and that's it..." I fell all the way out.😂😂😂😂😂. Girl! That man was a whole crazy menace! Thank you for another great piece!
great talk. depression is like addiction, it's a life long struggle. I have struggled with depression since I was a child and I am nearly 50 now. I've learned that long term therapy, life coaching and a great support system goes a long way to fighting this disease. Most importantly, self care goes a long way. Love the videos.
Dito that! 48 at present and can relate to mental health being a daily adventure or "dis"adventure depending on the day. Keep up the good vibes when and where you can! 😉
I'm not sure I like equating MDD with addiction at all especially in the US the way PPL with addiction disorders are abused by society & even worse the doctors & systems put in place & paid a GREAT DEAL of $ to help them them. It's disgusting the way the pharmaceutical companies do anything & everything they can to make their profits NO MATTER THE COSTS to anyone or anything 🤬‼️Any disorder is a lifetime struggle & at least for depression we have so many more RX available than for addiction where as the solution for that is to just throw you in prison over & over or all types of horrible "treatments &/or therapies" that doesn't work like I've heard about anti-abuse 🤦🏼♀️‼️
@@weekendnomad5038 I know the feeling. I have a lot of health issues and disabilities, which in turn adds to my depression. My daughter is the reason I get out of bed. It's so hard. I hope you are ok ❤
Brittney, you too are not alone! I will be 43 next week & I’ve suffered from depression & anxiety since childhood! I’ve been seeing a therapist, treated by a psychiatrist, and they’ve helped me immensely. However, there are times when I just fall into a pit of intense sadness & despair & can’t seem to claw my way out. I am definitely in that place right now despite all of the mental health support I have & the medication I’m on. I hope you know that there are people “out here in these streets,” who are thinking about you & sending love & positive energy your way. I’ve missed you & your beautiful spirit so much but I’m glad you’ve taken the time for you!!! I hope we see you again soon but I certainly understand if you need the time to yourself to heal! All my love & hugs!!! 💜
It’s interesting to read the comments from so many people who have struggled since childhood. I thought I was the only one. I really believe my childhood pets (and current pets) got me through the hardest times.
@@bof.930 my daughter (15) says the same thing. She says our dog is her therapy and I believe that 100%. Animals are definitely good for mental health. Idk if my daughter would have gotten thru some days without our dog. ❤
I’m having the hardest time rn. I don’t have a support system but to hear that others are finding ways to deal with their mental health makes me feel better. My little Maltese/ Shihtzu mix is always under me when I’m feeling sad so I kinda do have a support system.
Gurl your honesty does a lot more good than faking a "cure"- it gives those of us who are familiar with the depression dips more encouragement. Cause then we don't feel doomed when our mental health takes the occasional and in most cases inevitable dive. We appreciate you✊🏾
Girl I'm so happy that you said that because I felt the same and it's okay to say that you're not okay. I honestly cried so hard before going to work because I have a cold and I'm leaving my baby behind to go to work and I just feel so down in the dumps because my car isn't working and it just feels like it's one thing after another. As awful as it is to hear some of the stories about the horrific things that happened to these people. It's always been nice to hear them coming from you when I'm at work on my way to work. I guess we take it one day at a time.
Thank you for being so open about your mental health struggles. I’m 15 and been through countless treatments, 10 different meds and combos and I find it very discouraging that nearly nothing has helped me. It’s good to know that you’re not alone. 💜💜
Meds don’t work for me either . Talk therapy worked well for me when I was your age . I’m 42 now and Have been in therapy on and off since I was young if your parents can find you a good therapist maybe that could help . 🕊🤍🕊
Keep trying. Don't give up and don't overlook the source of your mental health challenges and look to God for answers. That's going to be a major part of your healing
You are definitely not alone. Please reach out to someone, call a help line, whatever you can do to make a connection. Even coming on the chats like this is sometimes a good thing, but be careful as not everyone will be supportive. You are worth being here and you will find your way, just never stop reaching out. Take care please
Exactly the same, her voice is so soothing it calms my spirit, and I fall asleep either during or right after. I'll always go back to where I left off to catch up the next morning.
@@breyashadell326 I do too…..people tell me I’m weird because so can listen to true crime/murder mysteries and go straight to sleep afterward. Glad I’m now the only one lol
Your sense of humor is a joy. You retell these stories w a great deal of respect. And, your personal story is powerful. Do you know what that means? You are joy. ☺️ You are respectful. 🫡 You are strong. 💪🏿 Thank you!
Honestly you just being real about your mental health just helped me so much. Thank you for the time you spend on these videos. I listen to them while I do my day to day things that I wouldn’t be able to do without the distraction of videos like yours. Hope you have a great trip ❤
Aye!!! So glad I'm still up. Love Brittney Update: my heart ❤️ goes out to you. We appreciate you, so glad you spoke on this and that you have a support system. God bless you.
What a treat! I needed something to watch tonight. Whatever the reason, I'm just glad to see you boo! I hope everything is going well with you and my furry niece and nephew. ♥️♥️♥️
Girl, listen… Don’t be discouraged to share your feelings that doesn’t discourage us. Always so nice to know that as human beings we are imperfect by design although we somehow still try to hold ourselves to this invisible standard. I recently turned 37 and I recently as of two days ago returned from a cruise to the Bahamas of a lifetime. I am currently on medication a handful to be correct to keep me where I should be““ happy. How sad is it when you still feel like life isn’t exactly what you thought or worth living even when you have two beautiful children and when you’re on the vacation of a lifetime. You, Brittany von have made me come up with this idea of putting a computer in my closet kind of hidden to where I can fold clothes down and drop shelves back and do what you’re doing. I to feel the way you did for years ago and was so proud of you then as I am now. You are brave to say that it meant that even though you overcame it one point things don’t always just go away. People need to hear that because we feel like we’re broken or unable to be fixed when we try and it fails right away or eventually it doesn’t matter. Still it’s just a horrible feeling. Thank you for reminding me that all of us have horrible feelings but remember you have a beautiful message as well as a beautiful face thank you for helping us all on this invisible struggle or the struggle we keep so deep that hurts so deep. All the best my sweet girl
In times like these so many are struggling with mental health issues. I pray you find peace and purpose and joy in your life, and anyone else reading this who may need reassuring words. keep fighting. We love you for what you do Brittany ❤️ stay strong!
I’ve been struggling with depression and anxiety for years so I totally relate. Lately it’s been hard and one thing I’ve been doing is taking care of me for once
I’m 40 and I have struggled with depression since I was 14 years old. I’ve gone to therapy, taken medication and tried just about everything to help with it but the only thing that helps is being outdoors and exercise. I unexpectedly lost my Daddy last March and it sent me into an extremely dark and scary place. I have good days and terrible days. Depression is truly the devil.
I am glad that you are able to talk about your troubles. I turned 55 on November 15th. And I have the same problem’s that you have. I lost my husband and my mom both in 19. And I still have trouble getting over it. I don’t see any one about it or talk to my kids about it. It’s so hard to get out of bed and try to live. You do what is best for you and don’t let your self get this bad. I will be here to see you when you come on. I only have RUclips so I will be here for you when you come on. Please know that I will be thinking of you, and I hope you have a wonderful trip next weekend. It will help you to get some beautiful things to see and do. Best wishes 🌹
I have so much I could say, as I struggle with the same as you’re battling. But instead I’m just going to say: I love you and you’ve got this. Feeling broken for awhile, doesn’t make you broken. You’re a beautiful soul and you’re so loved ❤❤❤ Then sun will shine again ☀️
Missed you Brittney! No one - and I mean NO ONE - tells a story like you! Thank you for bringing some levity to these horror stories while maintaining the respect they deserve. ❤️🖤💚
"Somebody to carry-on his lil raggedy legacy chy" my girl shade be lethal & classy at the same damn time!😆🤣😭 we friends in my head (minus the voices of course) !😂😂😂
I can 100% relate to your outro. ❤ I seriously love how transparent and REAL you are. Do not change that. Rawness is beautiful. You’re never alone. We love you girl. Thank you for sharing that with us.
Just here to show engagement and boost the video ❤️🔥 edit: after watching I had to come back and say you’re not alone. We are here for you and it’s nice to see you to so open. Mental health struggles are real. I don’t personally suffer too bad but I do deal with anxiety on a small level. But some days it’s bad. My 15 year old daughter deals with anxiety and depression tho and it’s rough to watch your child go through that. She’s seeing a therapist and is on medication now and it has helped a lot. ❤
I was diagnosed at 14 and it's been up and down. I have complex ptsd (meaning multiple trauma's occurred.) Most recently my brother's murder a year ago. Some days are better than others but all days I've come A LOOOOONG way in managing my emotions. If you're reading this please know, IT GETS BETTER. You're not alone. ❤️
Okay split dye! Edit: running it back to say we love you and we want you to do what's best for you. Thank you for sharing, it's an honor that you feel comfortable enough to share this with us. As you can see in the comments, your willingness to share has really helped and further connects the community
I have a daughter with depression, and she is currently in a very bad place and has quit speaking to me. I pray for you. Take care of yourself and know that there are a lot of us out here pulling for you. Much love.
Omg I am lovingggg the hair color!!! But besides that you always make my day better no matter what!! I always find myself rewatching your videos and everything and I have been telling everyone about you !!
I’m going through a lot right now mentally and emotionally…and physically. I’m having a hard night and you did make me feel better. And you’re beautiful. Thank you❤️
Mental wellness is a lifelong journey. Someone way smarter than me once told me that even in the depths of depression I could still BE ok even if I didn’t FEEL ok. Of course feelings are valid and should be taken seriously, but they are also fleeting and not always based in reality. Keep taking care of you ❤️
You’ve ALWAYS been super open about your struggle. I found you through Bailey… and don’t tell no one.. lol but you’re my absolute FAVORITE! Your personality, your jokes, the way you talk, how open you are. You’re beautiful and perfect. Keep it moving, baby.
I’m so glad you’re taking care of yourself and putting your well-being first. I have mental health issues myself and I see you. You are loved, as is everyone else reading this. Hang in there, y’all. ❤❤❤
We missed you, girl. Glad you are taking care of yourself and hope you enjoy a well-deserved vacation on the island!! Biggest hugs to you and the pups. XoXo
So happy to see you back!! And as a person also going through my own mental health journey, it can be a rollercoaster. Not to say it will always be difficult, but there will be good days and bad days that we learn to recognize and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Thank you for sharing your experience ♥️♥️🫰🏾
Brit, TYSM for being so transparent and honest. These last few weeks have been rough and it does make a huge difference to know you are not the only one going through it. Even if it does not get better tomorrow, it feels freeing to be real, and I think that really brings a sort of light to brighten times ahead. Thanks again 🥰
Thank you for always being transparent! Mental health is a journey and has it’s mountaintops and valleys. I just want you to know that I pray for you often and and always keep reaching for the mountaintop! Sometimes mountaintops seem to be a long climb and sometimes we manage to catch a ski lift. Here’s to the ski lifts, may they be plentiful!
Yessss ma'am I am SOOO happy to see you my love 😍💜 you & your energy literally just brings me so much happiness, I could listen to you talk about anything girl💜 been one of my favs for a long time now you never fail to bring a smile to my face 💖 I hope you're doing GREAT & im sending you all my love & good vibes 💖☮☯️💯
you look SO BEAUTIFUL with your two toned hair!! just brows and lashes alone is all you need, but obviously your makeUP is so gorgeous too. i love and support you forever, boo. remember your strengths, accept vulnerability and know that everything moves at different paces. welove you and never doubt your worth and what you contribute to all of us in our hearts
My anxiety and depression are part of me - it’s part of US. I am finally managing my illness after having it for 20+ years. You manage it like any other illness - never be ashamed of it. We love you. Love that you’re speaking on the reality of the ups and downs. ❤
I’m almost 50 and mental health is a lifelong journey. We love you, and so many of us are here with you. I appreciate your sharing, so the rest of us feel understood! ❤❤
I struggle with depression, and have so for 20+ years. Everyday is a struggle in itself. Keep your head up sis! You've got this!!! One day at a time. ❤
About 6 years ago I had a nervous breakdown. Couldn’t even get out of bed I was so terrified of everything. It’s been a struggle!! Knowing I’m not alone helps but it never takes away. Best advice I have- you survived the hardest days… That’s a huge deal. So don’t ever give up!!
I'm happy to see and hear that there's someone else on RUclips who does struggling with mental illness or depression. I struggle with it and had not been consistent with my videos .
I’ve been struggling with mental health for 32 years and it has taken a long time to accept the ups AND downs but with the right people in your life, it does help so much. I’ve been going thru it lately too and I’m starting to think it’s just a bit of a low for a lot of people especially after the last 2 years. Just know, better days do come back around and allow yourself the time and space 💗
Depression and anxiety since I was a teen. It's a hard struggle, but right now, I'm doing well. I can't believe I'm at this place in my life, and I never thought I would get here. It's amazing. Keep on keeping on, because you are worth the fight. One day you'll turn around and realize you are at the top of the mountain and the valley is so far below. Love you, Boo! 💗💗💗
Brittney, please take your time. I found true crime when I was depressed and I love listening to your stories. Sometimes we all need a break and just to kinda get through that feeling. Have a great vacation! Have fun! 🎉❤️
Brittney, everything we go through, is part of the shared , human experience. You are definitely not alone! Tysm for sharing so openly and vulnerably. I love that you’re using your pain to help others! You’re a star! 🌟 ❤
All I can say Brittney is that I love you. You make me smile EVERYTIME I watch one of your videos. Thank you for putting it out there that there is help for everyone. And as RUclipsrs, we need to be the ones to put it into the universe that its ok to get help. Again, I LOVE YOU!!!
Welcome back, B! Even if it is temporary. I always quote you from one of your past videos "I gotta get back to me." It's been my motto the last few weeks. Thank you for you being open, sending positive vibes to you, queen!
I remember the days when I used to get here so fast, now a days everyone stays beating me. I love how everyone rushes on over to watch your content, you are one of a kind. I hope you're doing well. Sending you much love, I hope you have a great holiday. Eat lots of delicious food, some good drank, and the best desserts. Enjoy it with all your loved ones. Thank you for your content.
Thank you for pushing through I know it’s hard. So happy you have the love and support you need. Enjoy your trip and we will always be here when you get back. Much love Brittany I have suffered since I was a young child. Too much trauma, drama and dysfunction in our family. The impacts are life long. It also creeps up on you when things are fine it just pops up like a jack in the box. I think that is what makes it so hard for others to understand. It is frustrating to know it will never go away but we do our best to keep it dormant as often and for as long as we can. Never worry about someone taking your words wrong. The person that needs to hear them will hear them, so thank you for being so forthcoming with your truth.
Girl. I feel you on the struggles. I am now watching the same develop in my children that I have experienced. This is a low time of year for me anyway and it’s piling up high right now. I don’t leave the house anymore. I wish it could be different.
It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who’s in a place that even talking about what’s going in my head, brings me to tears. I feel like I’m constantly trying to hold back tears and it makes me feel so weak, which is just another negative thought about myself. But seeing you talk about what you’re going through and holding back tears makes me realize how much strength there is in that. To keep talking, to keep going. I really hit rock bottom the last two days and was really thinking about how better off everyone would be if i was gone. But you reminded me, just because i “got better” doesn’t mean it will always be “better” and i just have to keep trying. Nothing helps like love from our fur babies, i relate to that. Thanks for everything B ❤️
Listening while I make the drive from Florida to Ohio. I’m so burnt on music and who doesn’t love sis telling us all the things? Glad you’re back Miss Brittney!
@@Heyitschy03 Hey, It is Union City. Right on Stateline and honestly Indiana but right across the street. More time across the street in Ohio though. Split city... I just thought how interesting! Family in Davenport also. Family in New Paris. ) ))))
Brittney, seeing you be so open truly is warming my heart. I know how hard it is to push through it & I know I speak for most of us when I say THANK YOU 🙏🏽 I soo appreciate you posting ANY content bc I am also struggling right now. True crime gives me slight comfort but the end of this vid gave me so more. Sending Love & Light 🫶🏽 Take your time, I’ll still be checkin for another video no matter the wait time 🤞🏽
Always look forward to seeing you, your sense of humor is so comforting 🥺 also feel you on the last couple weeks. I've torn my face the shreds skin picking from anxiety, my eczema has broken out all over my scalp, just strugglinnnnn 😒 but luckily I get this week off from work so today is my day to do absolutely nothing but self care & rest.
Brittany, depression, and any kind of mental health condition is difficult at times, and sometimes we feel like the kind words are hollow, but just be kind to yourself while you’re going through this process and enjoy all the moments that you can. I’m very glad that you enjoyed your birthday and I hope you enjoy your vacation. sending you many hugs and good thoughts and I hope you are doing well this evening. 🫶🏻🫶🏻 My depression is up and down alot right now, I know I’m supposed to be happy with the holidays but im not feeling it this year.
You are a shining example of hope - I love hearing that things can be tough, and I will be okay. Thank you for your honesty and openness! You're a fucking treasure!!
Listen, I was in the middle of listening to music, dancing around cleaning the house and then I looked down and say you posted a video. I stopped everything sat my ass down and relaxed so thank you girl ❤ I don’t care how long your breaks are, If people don’t understand, they haven’t really struggled.
Hey birthday twin! Please don't be sad love. You are beautiful and worthy and you just have to get moving forward. Love yourself and know we're glad that you are here
I ❤your transparency! I’m a therapist in Houston & you may have just helped more than I could ever reach💕 God bless you for bringing both joy and light to your viewers!
Brittney! Girl!! We needed this talk! I had been checking on your socials hoping you were okay but didn’t want to bug, I know having depression and anxiety that can feel overwhelming. I’m glad you’re working on getting to a good place. I have depression too and went 15 years without going into a severe depressive state, but here we are again. I started therapy again and I’m optimistic. I’m rooting for you girl💕
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I hope you're doing good, beautiful ❤️😍
Wow so many coming immediately when posted congrats girl you are so loved by so many you deserve it
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I’m calling CPS next time you leave us like that! 😭😭😭 love you tho 😂
LOVE THE HAIR!
Brittney, I’m 41 and I’ve struggled with mental illness my whole life. I’m bipolar along with other “labels” they’ve given me. I always say, I have an illness, but I’m not my illness and I’m not ashamed of who I am. We all have our battles. I wish you good days, and strength on the hard days. As much as we all enjoy your videos, we can wait. Your health and well being should always come first and is all that should matter to anyone who truly cares about you. Hugs xoxo
😂 I’m bipolar so do I have mental illness?
@@dominiquexo4772 yes you do
@@dominiquexo4772 yes
@@daphney1881 I’m 40 and have struggled with my mental health since I was a teenager. I have bipolar disorder and have had about 3 “breaks” (how I describe them) . The worst was after I had my 3rd child- I developed postpartum psychosis and didn’t sleep for 7days straight. I had to be hospitalized for a few weeks and was put on antipsychotic medication 💊. I lost big chunks of time from my memory and had to ask my husband simple questions like “should I go to the bathroom now?” That was 13 years ago and my kids are now 17,15, and 13. It was the reason I chose not to have any more children 😢
@@dominiquexo4772 sweetheart it’s not what YOU think it’s what whoever diagnosed you thinks .you’re looking at yourself from the inside others are looking from the outside you may be Ill and may NEVER notice or be self aware enough to tell and if you weren’t professionally diagnosed with bipolar disorder or anything else then you aren’t mentally Ill please don’t self diagnose if that’s the case
'.. Archie had the tolerance of an elementary school teacher..." ☠️
As a teacher, love you sis 🤣❤️
"He said he came here to hit this lady and that's it..." I fell all the way out.😂😂😂😂😂. Girl! That man was a whole crazy menace! Thank you for another great piece!
That line is a gem!!!
Also thank you for sharing. It really does let us know we're not alone.
great talk. depression is like addiction, it's a life long struggle. I have struggled with depression since I was a child and I am nearly 50 now. I've learned that long term therapy, life coaching and a great support system goes a long way to fighting this disease. Most importantly, self care goes a long way. Love the videos.
I have bad depression and a hard time getting out of bed or keeping my home clean :/
Dito that! 48 at present and can relate to mental health being a daily adventure or "dis"adventure depending on the day. Keep up the good vibes when and where you can! 😉
I'm not sure I like equating MDD with addiction at all especially in the US the way PPL with addiction disorders are abused by society & even worse the doctors & systems put in place & paid a GREAT DEAL of $ to help them them. It's disgusting the way the pharmaceutical companies do anything & everything they can to make their profits NO MATTER THE COSTS to anyone or anything 🤬‼️Any disorder is a lifetime struggle & at least for depression we have so many more RX available than for addiction where as the solution for that is to just throw you in prison over & over or all types of horrible "treatments &/or therapies" that doesn't work like I've heard about anti-abuse 🤦🏼♀️‼️
We got your back, sending positive vibes, and we 🙏 for you and you 🙏for us. 💞😍
@@weekendnomad5038 I know the feeling. I have a lot of health issues and disabilities, which in turn adds to my depression. My daughter is the reason I get out of bed. It's so hard. I hope you are ok ❤
Oh honey, mental health journeys are never linear and never are without bumps.
Thank you for being honest. ♥️
Brittney, you too are not alone! I will be 43 next week & I’ve suffered from depression & anxiety since childhood! I’ve been seeing a therapist, treated by a psychiatrist, and they’ve helped me immensely. However, there are times when I just fall into a pit of intense sadness & despair & can’t seem to claw my way out. I am definitely in that place right now despite all of the mental health support I have & the medication I’m on. I hope you know that there are people “out here in these streets,” who are thinking about you & sending love & positive energy your way. I’ve missed you & your beautiful spirit so much but I’m glad you’ve taken the time for you!!! I hope we see you again soon but I certainly understand if you need the time to yourself to heal! All my love & hugs!!! 💜
I suffer with anxiety in my 30…. I never had a bad childhood but my fear is being alone 😔
It’s interesting to read the comments from so many people who have struggled since childhood. I thought I was the only one. I really believe my childhood pets (and current pets) got me through the hardest times.
@@bof.930 my daughter (15) says the same thing. She says our dog is her therapy and I believe that 100%. Animals are definitely good for mental health. Idk if my daughter would have gotten thru some days without our dog. ❤
I will be 43 next week also and I’ve found the same
@@bof.930 pets don’t help for me. They don’t understand my feelings
“You oughta be ashamed of yourself!” 😂😂😂 girl you crack me up! Your beautiful inside and out! 🥰
I’m having the hardest time rn. I don’t have a support system but to hear that others are finding ways to deal with their mental health makes me feel better. My little Maltese/ Shihtzu mix is always under me when I’m feeling sad so I kinda do have a support system.
Gurl your honesty does a lot more good than faking a "cure"- it gives those of us who are familiar with the depression dips more encouragement. Cause then we don't feel doomed when our mental health takes the occasional and in most cases inevitable dive. We appreciate you✊🏾
Girl I'm so happy that you said that because I felt the same and it's okay to say that you're not okay. I honestly cried so hard before going to work because I have a cold and I'm leaving my baby behind to go to work and I just feel so down in the dumps because my car isn't working and it just feels like it's one thing after another. As awful as it is to hear some of the stories about the horrific things that happened to these people. It's always been nice to hear them coming from you when I'm at work on my way to work.
I guess we take it one day at a time.
Thank you for being so open about your mental health struggles. I’m 15 and been through countless treatments, 10 different meds and combos and I find it very discouraging that nearly nothing has helped me. It’s good to know that you’re not alone. 💜💜
Meds don’t work for me either . Talk therapy worked well for me when I was your age . I’m 42 now and Have been in therapy on and off since I was young if your parents can find you a good therapist maybe that could help .
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Keep trying. Don't give up and don't overlook the source of your mental health challenges and look to God for answers. That's going to be a major part of your healing
You are not alone sweetie... Keep fighting ❤️
@@luvmifro1003lovesfamily God and prayer is LITERALLY the only thing that helped me with my depression. Seriously. He took it ALL away.
You are definitely not alone. Please reach out to someone, call a help line, whatever you can do to make a connection. Even coming on the chats like this is sometimes a good thing, but be careful as not everyone will be supportive. You are worth being here and you will find your way, just never stop reaching out. Take care please
Needed a new true crime to put me to sleep. You came through, as usual. Thanks B ❤️!
*in my best soulja boy voice* PUT YOU TO SLEEP!? PUT YOU TO SLEEEEP!?
@@aliciagamon483 Gurrl,, you aint NEVER lied - i read @breya's comment and asked the SAME thing in the voice you used. WTH?
Lol yes, as disturbing as it might sound, I sleep like a baby after a good true crime story 😂
Exactly the same, her voice is so soothing it calms my spirit, and I fall asleep either during or right after. I'll always go back to where I left off to catch up the next morning.
@@breyashadell326 I do too…..people tell me I’m weird because so can listen to true crime/murder mysteries and go straight to sleep afterward. Glad I’m now the only one lol
Wellllll, look who shows up when she’s darn ready! Always happy to see you.
awake at 3am because miserable with the flu so happy to see this video pop up love u Brit your voice is so so soothing
Your sense of humor is a joy. You retell these stories w a great deal of respect. And, your personal story is powerful. Do you know what that means?
You are joy. ☺️
You are respectful. 🫡
You are strong. 💪🏿
Thank you!
Honestly you just being real about your mental health just helped me so much. Thank you for the time you spend on these videos. I listen to them while I do my day to day things that I wouldn’t be able to do without the distraction of videos like yours. Hope you have a great trip ❤
Aye!!! So glad I'm still up. Love Brittney
Update: my heart ❤️ goes out to you. We appreciate you, so glad you spoke on this and that you have a support system. God bless you.
What a treat! I needed something to watch tonight. Whatever the reason, I'm just glad to see you boo! I hope everything is going well with you and my furry niece and nephew. ♥️♥️♥️
I completely understand being in a funk & just needing a mental break. Just remember we are your loyal supporters 💯 & will be here when you return.
Girl, listen… Don’t be discouraged to share your feelings that doesn’t discourage us. Always so nice to know that as human beings we are imperfect by design although we somehow still try to hold ourselves to this invisible standard. I recently turned 37 and I recently as of two days ago returned from a cruise to the Bahamas of a lifetime. I am currently on medication a handful to be correct to keep me where I should be““ happy. How sad is it when you still feel like life isn’t exactly what you thought or worth living even when you have two beautiful children and when you’re on the vacation of a lifetime. You, Brittany von have made me come up with this idea of putting a computer in my closet kind of hidden to where I can fold clothes down and drop shelves back and do what you’re doing. I to feel the way you did for years ago and was so proud of you then as I am now. You are brave to say that it meant that even though you overcame it one point things don’t always just go away. People need to hear that because we feel like we’re broken or unable to be fixed when we try and it fails right away or eventually it doesn’t matter. Still it’s just a horrible feeling. Thank you for reminding me that all of us have horrible feelings but remember you have a beautiful message as well as a beautiful face thank you for helping us all on this invisible struggle or the struggle we keep so deep that hurts so deep. All the best my sweet girl
In times like these so many are struggling with mental health issues. I pray you find peace and purpose and joy in your life, and anyone else reading this who may need reassuring words. keep fighting. We love you for what you do Brittany ❤️ stay strong!
We all battle something. Great vid!
“The tolerance of an elementary school teacher” 😂😂😂
As an elementary school teacher, that one had me laughing out loud
I’ve been struggling with depression and anxiety for years so I totally relate. Lately it’s been hard and one thing I’ve been doing is taking care of me for once
I’m 40 and I have struggled with depression since I was 14 years old. I’ve gone to therapy, taken medication and tried just about everything to help with it but the only thing that helps is being outdoors and exercise. I unexpectedly lost my Daddy last March and it sent me into an extremely dark and scary place. I have good days and terrible days. Depression is truly the devil.
I pray the God lifts your spirits and gives you a sense of peace and true joy!🫶🏽
I am glad that you are able to talk about your troubles. I turned 55 on November 15th. And I have the same problem’s that you have. I lost my husband and my mom both in 19. And I still have trouble getting over it. I don’t see any one about it or talk to my kids about it. It’s so hard to get out of bed and try to live. You do what is best for you and don’t let your self get this bad. I will be here to see you when you come on. I only have RUclips so I will be here for you when you come on. Please know that I will be thinking of you, and I hope you have a wonderful trip next weekend. It will help you to get some beautiful things to see and do. Best wishes 🌹
I have so much I could say, as I struggle with the same as you’re battling. But instead I’m just going to say: I love you and you’ve got this. Feeling broken for awhile, doesn’t make you broken. You’re a beautiful soul and you’re so loved ❤❤❤ Then sun will shine again ☀️
Thinking of you girl! And anyone else that hasn’t been feeling good. ✌️❤️ to you Brittney and you all too 😘🥰
Missed you Brittney! No one - and I mean NO ONE - tells a story like you! Thank you for bringing some levity to these horror stories while maintaining the respect they deserve. ❤️🖤💚
"Somebody to carry-on his lil raggedy legacy chy" my girl shade be lethal & classy at the same damn time!😆🤣😭 we friends in my head (minus the voices of course) !😂😂😂
I can 100% relate to your outro. ❤ I seriously love how transparent and REAL you are. Do not change that. Rawness is beautiful. You’re never alone. We love you girl. Thank you for sharing that with us.
So many are going through it girl. You are NOT alone. Big hugs ❤️🩹
Just here to show engagement and boost the video ❤️🔥 edit: after watching I had to come back and say you’re not alone. We are here for you and it’s nice to see you to so open. Mental health struggles are real. I don’t personally suffer too bad but I do deal with anxiety on a small level. But some days it’s bad. My 15 year old daughter deals with anxiety and depression tho and it’s rough to watch your child go through that. She’s seeing a therapist and is on medication now and it has helped a lot. ❤
Miss Brittney. Your eyebrows are perfect. I check everyday hoping to see you. So happy to see you!!!
I was diagnosed at 14 and it's been up and down. I have complex ptsd (meaning multiple trauma's occurred.) Most recently my brother's murder a year ago. Some days are better than others but all days I've come A LOOOOONG way in managing my emotions. If you're reading this please know, IT GETS BETTER. You're not alone. ❤️
Okay split dye!
Edit: running it back to say we love you and we want you to do what's best for you. Thank you for sharing, it's an honor that you feel comfortable enough to share this with us. As you can see in the comments, your willingness to share has really helped and further connects the community
I have a daughter with depression, and she is currently in a very bad place and has quit speaking to me. I pray for you. Take care of yourself and know that there are a lot of us out here pulling for you. Much love.
Omg I am lovingggg the hair color!!! But besides that you always make my day better no matter what!! I always find myself rewatching your videos and everything and I have been telling everyone about you !!
I’m going through a lot right now mentally and emotionally…and physically. I’m having a hard night and you did make me feel better. And you’re beautiful. Thank you❤️
I loved that you just got to the story! Do what you love don’t make excuses for anything I love it
Mental wellness is a lifelong journey. Someone way smarter than me once told me that even in the depths of depression I could still BE ok even if I didn’t FEEL ok. Of course feelings are valid and should be taken seriously, but they are also fleeting and not always based in reality. Keep taking care of you ❤️
You’ve ALWAYS been super open about your struggle. I found you through Bailey… and don’t tell no one.. lol but you’re my absolute FAVORITE! Your personality, your jokes, the way you talk, how open you are. You’re beautiful and perfect. Keep it moving, baby.
I’m so glad you’re taking care of yourself and putting your well-being first. I have mental health issues myself and I see you. You are loved, as is everyone else reading this. Hang in there, y’all. ❤❤❤
Thank you for this. I've had depression for many years and am currently on a bad run. The truth can be so helpful
👏🏾 Was just sitting here thinking "There's nothing good on RUclips tonight! "😭. Then BOOM, a new Brittney Vaughn video! 🥳 Hey girl!!!!! 👋🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Mental health is hard. You do what you need to. Much love
We missed you, girl. Glad you are taking care of yourself and hope you enjoy a well-deserved vacation on the island!! Biggest hugs to you and the pups. XoXo
So happy to see you back!! And as a person also going through my own mental health journey, it can be a rollercoaster. Not to say it will always be difficult, but there will be good days and bad days that we learn to recognize and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Thank you for sharing your experience ♥️♥️🫰🏾
💗💗💗I suffer from seasonal depression,embrace it with knowing nothing is permanent.This too shall pass‼️
Happy Belated birthday, Brittany! Big hugs to you. ❤
"Raggedy legacy" TOOK ME OUT. I'm crying. Girl!
Brit, TYSM for being so transparent and honest. These last few weeks have been rough and it does make a huge difference to know you are not the only one going through it. Even if it does not get better tomorrow, it feels freeing to be real, and I think that really brings a sort of light to brighten times ahead. Thanks again 🥰
Thank you for always being transparent! Mental health is a journey and has it’s mountaintops and valleys. I just want you to know that I pray for you often and and always keep reaching for the mountaintop! Sometimes mountaintops seem to be a long climb and sometimes we manage to catch a ski lift. Here’s to the ski lifts, may they be plentiful!
Yessss ma'am I am SOOO happy to see you my love 😍💜 you & your energy literally just brings me so much happiness, I could listen to you talk about anything girl💜 been one of my favs for a long time now you never fail to bring a smile to my face 💖 I hope you're doing GREAT & im sending you all my love & good vibes 💖☮☯️💯
you look SO BEAUTIFUL with your two toned hair!! just brows and lashes alone is all you need, but obviously your makeUP is so gorgeous too. i love and support you forever, boo. remember your strengths, accept vulnerability and know that everything moves at different paces. welove you and never doubt your worth and what you contribute to all of us in our hearts
My anxiety and depression are part of me - it’s part of US. I am finally managing my illness after having it for 20+ years. You manage it like any other illness - never be ashamed of it. We love you. Love that you’re speaking on the reality of the ups and downs. ❤
I’m almost 50 and mental health is a lifelong journey. We love you, and so many of us are here with you. I appreciate your sharing, so the rest of us feel understood! ❤❤
I struggle with depression, and have so for 20+ years. Everyday is a struggle in itself. Keep your head up sis! You've got this!!! One day at a time. ❤
Yay! My family and I are so sick. I'm happy to see your lovely face! I can't wait to hear the case. Hugs, Brittany. ❤️💜
Brittney!! We’re so happy we can watch another video tonight! We love you ❤❤
Speak positivity into your life everyday. Keep reminding yourself though out your day.
About 6 years ago I had a nervous breakdown. Couldn’t even get out of bed I was so terrified of everything. It’s been a struggle!! Knowing I’m not alone helps but it never takes away. Best advice I have- you survived the hardest days… That’s a huge deal. So don’t ever give up!!
I'm happy to see and hear that there's someone else on RUclips who does struggling with mental illness or depression. I struggle with it and had not been consistent with my videos .
I’ve been struggling with mental health for 32 years and it has taken a long time to accept the ups AND downs but with the right people in your life, it does help so much. I’ve been going thru it lately too and I’m starting to think it’s just a bit of a low for a lot of people especially after the last 2 years. Just know, better days do come back around and allow yourself the time and space 💗
Depression and anxiety since I was a teen. It's a hard struggle, but right now, I'm doing well. I can't believe I'm at this place in my life, and I never thought I would get here. It's amazing. Keep on keeping on, because you are worth the fight. One day you'll turn around and realize you are at the top of the mountain and the valley is so far below. Love you, Boo! 💗💗💗
Brittney, please take your time. I found true crime when I was depressed and I love listening to your stories. Sometimes we all need a break and just to kinda get through that feeling. Have a great vacation! Have fun! 🎉❤️
Your therapist idea of you doing this channel is awesome. You sharing your mental health journey with us is very encouraging💖 Thank you for sharing💖
Brittney, everything we go through, is part of the shared , human experience. You are definitely not alone! Tysm for sharing so openly and vulnerably. I love that you’re using your pain to help others! You’re a star! 🌟 ❤
You've been missed. 🖤
My husband and I struggle with our mental health as well. Thank you for being so open and honest. 🖤
I’m here for you boo and I understand that feeling deeply! ❤️🥹
Happy birthday Brittney!!! Thank you for the wonderful content you post!!!
All I can say Brittney is that I love you. You make me smile EVERYTIME I watch one of your videos. Thank you for putting it out there that there is help for everyone. And as RUclipsrs, we need to be the ones to put it into the universe that its ok to get help. Again, I LOVE YOU!!!
Really glad you're feeling comfortable enough to speak up on these things.
Welcome back, B! Even if it is temporary. I always quote you from one of your past videos "I gotta get back to me." It's been my motto the last few weeks. Thank you for you being open, sending positive vibes to you, queen!
I remember the days when I used to get here so fast, now a days everyone stays beating me. I love how everyone rushes on over to watch your content, you are one of a kind. I hope you're doing well. Sending you much love, I hope you have a great holiday. Eat lots of delicious food, some good drank, and the best desserts. Enjoy it with all your loved ones. Thank you for your content.
Thank you for your hard work & content Queen B! I also really appreciate the message about not being alone in our struggles. XX 💙
Thank you for pushing through I know it’s hard. So happy you have the love and support you need. Enjoy your trip and we will always be here when you get back. Much love Brittany I have suffered since I was a young child. Too much trauma, drama and dysfunction in our family. The impacts are life long. It also creeps up on you when things are fine it just pops up like a jack in the box. I think that is what makes it so hard for others to understand. It is frustrating to know it will never go away but we do our best to keep it dormant as often and for as long as we can. Never worry about someone taking your words wrong. The person that needs to hear them will hear them, so thank you for being so forthcoming with your truth.
Wow I was just looking for something good to watch. My eyes lit up when I seen this notification. Finally another video form my queen yess finally
Girl. I feel you on the struggles. I am now watching the same develop in my children that I have experienced. This is a low time of year for me anyway and it’s piling up high right now. I don’t leave the house anymore. I wish it could be different.
It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who’s in a place that even talking about what’s going in my head, brings me to tears. I feel like I’m constantly trying to hold back tears and it makes me feel so weak, which is just another negative thought about myself. But seeing you talk about what you’re going through and holding back tears makes me realize how much strength there is in that. To keep talking, to keep going. I really hit rock bottom the last two days and was really thinking about how better off everyone would be if i was gone. But you reminded me, just because i “got better” doesn’t mean it will always be “better” and i just have to keep trying. Nothing helps like love from our fur babies, i relate to that. Thanks for everything B ❤️
Listening while I make the drive from Florida to Ohio. I’m so burnt on music and who doesn’t love sis telling us all the things? Glad you’re back Miss Brittney!
Hope you get there safe!!
I'm in Florida needing to go to Ohio lol
Dreading it. Unusual seeing this. Just caught my eye. .
@@rickspigot2205which part of ohio?
@@Heyitschy03 Hey, It is Union City. Right on Stateline and honestly Indiana but right across the street. More time across the street in Ohio though. Split city...
I just thought how interesting! Family in Davenport also. Family in New Paris. )
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I'm right there with you. I found comfort in what you said. Thank you, doll
We got you girl!! Your not alone! I’m 42 days sober and suffer from depression and adhd… ❤❤❤ We all support and love ya girl!!
I'm having a rough day. I am so happy you posted! I need a distraction.
Depression and anxiety are my demons that pop up without rhyme or reason. We understand and thx for your honesty ❤
I seriously love your honesty and vulvability so much. I can't even express how helpful it is for me to see. Thank you
We love you so much! You are not alone sis 😘
We’re here for you Queen Vaughn! I appreciate your honesty! 💕💕💕
Brittney, seeing you be so open truly is warming my heart. I know how hard it is to push through it & I know I speak for most of us when I say THANK YOU 🙏🏽 I soo appreciate you posting ANY content bc I am also struggling right now. True crime gives me slight comfort but the end of this vid gave me so more. Sending Love & Light 🫶🏽 Take your time, I’ll still be checkin for another video no matter the wait time 🤞🏽
You’re awesome
Great narration
Especially love your accent ❤️ and the little spin you put in your commentary 👍❤️👍
New subbie here 🖐😎
Always look forward to seeing you, your sense of humor is so comforting 🥺 also feel you on the last couple weeks. I've torn my face the shreds skin picking from anxiety, my eczema has broken out all over my scalp, just strugglinnnnn 😒 but luckily I get this week off from work so today is my day to do absolutely nothing but self care & rest.
Brittany, depression, and any kind of mental health condition is difficult at times, and sometimes we feel like the kind words are hollow, but just be kind to yourself while you’re going through this process and enjoy all the moments that you can. I’m very glad that you enjoyed your birthday and I hope you enjoy your vacation. sending you many hugs and good thoughts and I hope you are doing well this evening. 🫶🏻🫶🏻
My depression is up and down alot right now, I know I’m supposed to be happy with the holidays but im not feeling it this year.
You are a shining example of hope - I love hearing that things can be tough, and I will be okay. Thank you for your honesty and openness! You're a fucking treasure!!
Listen, I was in the middle of listening to music, dancing around cleaning the house and then I looked down and say you posted a video. I stopped everything sat my ass down and relaxed so thank you girl ❤ I don’t care how long your breaks are, If people don’t understand, they haven’t really struggled.
Hey birthday twin! Please don't be sad love. You are beautiful and worthy and you just have to get moving forward. Love yourself and know we're glad that you are here
Ooouu perfect timing I was just looking for another video to watch 🥰 hair looks BEAUTIFUL 😍🔥 Skin glowing ✨
I ❤your transparency! I’m a therapist in Houston & you may have just helped more than I could ever
reach💕 God bless you for bringing both joy and light to your viewers!
Brittney! Girl!! We needed this talk! I had been checking on your socials hoping you were okay but didn’t want to bug, I know having depression and anxiety that can feel overwhelming. I’m glad you’re working on getting to a good place. I have depression too and went 15 years without going into a severe depressive state, but here we are again. I started therapy again and I’m optimistic. I’m rooting for you girl💕
Thank you Britt. ❤❤❤❤ and the sign off was extremely DIVA...and we're here for it❤
We Love you Brittney 💖 We hope you feel better! You aren't alone.❣