5 Red Flags You're With the Wrong Person

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Even though your relationship started off great, you’re beginning to realize your beliefs don’t line up. What do you do? How do spot red flags in relationships? How do you know if you’re dating the wrong person? We’re talking about it all in this message.
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    Statistically Speaking… - 00:00
    Be Wise - 01:07
    Two Contrasting Types of People in Proverbs - 01:47
    This Might Feel Extreme - 03:50
    Red Flag #1 - 04:40
    God Is Limiting My Options - 08:32
    Having Unequal Values - 09:07
    Red Flag #2 - 11:37
    Counsel of a Friend - 12:59
    Red Flag #3 - 14:42
    Healthy vs Unhealthy Couples - 15:03
    Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak - 18:03
    Red Flag #4 - 19:00
    When You Can’t Trust Them - 19:40
    You Might be The Red Flag - 20:20
    Red Flag #5 - 21:24
    Temptation While Dating - 22:42
    Encouragement to Make a Change - 27:01
    Green Flags - 29:02
    I Want to Honor Jesus - 31:39
    Feeling Unworthy? - 34:03
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Комментарии • 217

  • @life.church
    @life.church  Год назад +26

    What do you value and appreciate in your friendships and relationships?

    • @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh
      @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh Год назад +3

      If they don’t put God before me and themself. That is a big red flag - if they make God a priority and then put all worry and love into god, then that is the best Green Flag ever

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад +3

      ​@@AllGloryToTheOneMostHighabsolutely!🟣🟣🟣🟣

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад +4

      A little compromise, but so many couples are lacking it!🍌🍌🍉🍉

    • @marilynmusgrove2588
      @marilynmusgrove2588 Год назад +2

      Amen!!! Great message Pastor Craig God Bless you

    • @slackerharrelson3559
      @slackerharrelson3559 Год назад

      Trust

  • @Jake-hn6yt
    @Jake-hn6yt Год назад +46

    1. They don’t consistently pursue Jesus. Not a committed follower of Jesus.
    2. When those you love, don’t love who you’re dating.
    3. When you don’t face healthy conflict.
    4. When you find it difficult to trust the one you love.
    5. When the person you’re dating is leading you away from Jesus.

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      Why are they doing this?!🤷🤷🤷🤷

    • @donnahampton3632
      @donnahampton3632 Год назад +1

      Thank you for taking the time to write out this outline for the rest of us!

  • @brandichampagne5748
    @brandichampagne5748 Год назад +10

    Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry! 🙌🏻

  • @billashby7858
    @billashby7858 Год назад +19

    Pastor Craig is correct, when I was in college I dated a girl who was a lot of "fun," but my friends and parents did not care for her. I knew in the back of my head that she was not morally good for me, fortunately for me she broke up with me, and a few years later I married a woman that became my best friend!

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад +1

      I love that story Bill Ashby, This is encouraging and gives good feelings knowing you are blessed. Thank you, for sharing -Team LC Ronnie

  • @bobiah2578
    @bobiah2578 Год назад +5

    I want to be closer to Jesus in all my relationships and all things in Jesus Name!

  • @jesussavesrick
    @jesussavesrick Год назад +12

    I listened to this, in order to weigh myself. To see if I was worthy of someone dating me. Great message! 🙏

    • @sidekickster8917
      @sidekickster8917 Год назад +1

      @jesussavesrick Great idea! Hopefully you're ready

  • @Progamerjay100
    @Progamerjay100 Год назад +29

    This was such a good sermon.

  • @mtbiker841
    @mtbiker841 Год назад +14

    Great relationship advice! Should be taught in Jr high and high school!

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      But how? Teens are struggling!🛀🛀🛀

    • @sidekickster8917
      @sidekickster8917 Год назад +1

      @@melaniemartin730 As a person that's been a youth Leader for decades, that's EXACTLY WHY it should be taught in Mid hi/ High School.
      I actually was thinking about how I COULD teach this to my current youth group

    • @sidekickster8917
      @sidekickster8917 Год назад +1

      @mtbiker841 YES TRUE! (see other comment)

  • @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh
    @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh Год назад +19

    Man these teachings are always seem to be exactly what I’m going through 😭

  • @elizabethssandor
    @elizabethssandor Год назад

    Amazing sermon! Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @marilynmusgrove2588
    @marilynmusgrove2588 Год назад +7

    Goodmorning Pastor Craig and the entire life Church Family watching from Bahamas, Blessings 🙏❤

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l 4 месяца назад

    I want to be closer to Jesus
    Help me to honor you 💖
    Help me in my relationship & put Jesus 1st

  • @IfiokBassey-wz2fs
    @IfiokBassey-wz2fs Год назад +5

    Pastor you're massages brings people closer to God. Keep it up God bless you.

  • @Dxnwashere
    @Dxnwashere Год назад

    This is a great message, thanks Pastor Craig!

  • @richardgray23
    @richardgray23 Год назад +5

    Definitely not what everyone wants to hear but definitely what we need to hear, wish I would of known this before my first marriage, this is definitely the biggest eye opener I've seen in the last couple months🙏🙏🙏 God Bless thank you Life Church❤️

  • @heidirobinson3352
    @heidirobinson3352 Год назад

    Thank you for this video.

  • @aliceswarts3684
    @aliceswarts3684 Год назад +3

    I'm so glad I found this sermon.
    I had to break up with someone because of the last red flag.
    Thank you, I needed the reminder. It's not easy to shut someone out of my life, when in the beginning, I believe it was meant to be. In the end, the Holy Spirit was telling me to get out. I hope someday the reason is revealed to me. My heart is still broken, but I believe it will be healed. All in His timing.
    God bless! 🙏

    • @RezahCabaya
      @RezahCabaya 4 дня назад

      I am going through in this kind of situation, it is very painful, it breaks my heart. i know that Jesus will help me to overcome it. Let his will be done.

  • @Yankee4ever2
    @Yankee4ever2 Год назад +2

    This is absolutely amazin advice, thanks you Craig, God bless you

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l Год назад +1

    I always seek you first.

  • @destiniharrington3973
    @destiniharrington3973 Год назад

    Thank you for this message.

  • @ahl8229
    @ahl8229 Год назад

    Amen!! So good❤️‍🔥🙌🏻

  • @maryidoko2492
    @maryidoko2492 11 месяцев назад

    This sermon gave me clarity that I had been looking for. I advise you to listen with an open mind. Especially if you're in a relationship or about to be in one

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l 11 месяцев назад

    Yes! I have, as long as I can remember. But I have reaffirmed my Baptism!

  • @aaronperry9836
    @aaronperry9836 Год назад +1

    I missed all the red flags , and now I regret it ….

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l 4 месяца назад

    I'm Soo glad draws near to me
    Thank you Jesus

  • @kati_katracha7070
    @kati_katracha7070 Год назад +1

    Yes, Lord! Take me! I want you and NEED you to take my life in your hands! Guide me, in Jesus'name! AMEN!!

  • @servantofthelord8147
    @servantofthelord8147 Год назад +1

    This is raising my standard. Wow.

  • @sarahwheatley1734
    @sarahwheatley1734 5 месяцев назад

    amen to that I love this message about relationships

  • @brooksouth3975
    @brooksouth3975 Год назад +1

    Sheeewwww time to sober up…..hit me to my core….hallelujah

  • @rociocartes
    @rociocartes Год назад +8

    I’ve had friends date unbelievers who come to Jesus BECAUSE of them. So, there are upsides, and the Bible does mention marriages with unbelievers. - I understand that is a harder path, but is possible if your partner is open to it. And it’s so beautiful to see them come to God. (An example of someone well known is Lee Strobel, who was an atheist and his wife was a Christian). Obviously this is something you have to pray about, and really listen to what God wants for you.
    I definitely think red flag 5 is the most important one to look out for, so I agree that if someone pulls you away from God then you need to break up with them.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад +6

      Yes it does happen, but as Christians we are called to be equally yoke so we avoid the hardships that can come with dating an unbeliever. The Bible says in Amos, "How can two walk in one accord if they do not agree." Waiting on what God has for you is so key.
      God Bless you!
      Myriam - LC Social Media Team

  • @achengracejane558
    @achengracejane558 2 месяца назад

    I neglected the red flag, 20 yrs later my life is full of regret, however, I have separated from the abusive marriage and totally found complete peace in the Lord God almighty, thank you Pastor

  • @cyruscembrano3550
    @cyruscembrano3550 Год назад +2

    Quick to listen

  • @vladislavvolkov4537
    @vladislavvolkov4537 Год назад

    So good

  • @marianlyngdoh9256
    @marianlyngdoh9256 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love to be wise,
    And I hate stupidity

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for forgiving me & my sinful ness

  • @1018Stacey
    @1018Stacey 3 месяца назад

    Wow, this is a very helpful topic and very comical too! 😮 - This really made me think about my failed marriage to Dave that's leading to dreadful divorce!

  • @dkl1562
    @dkl1562 Год назад

    Great advice

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Hello DKL, glad you got something from this message- Team LC Ronnie

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l 11 месяцев назад

    I have been drink once before. It just made me tired and out of control. So I got home safe and went tosleep by myself. Never did it again.

  • @clouwho7675
    @clouwho7675 Год назад

    Yes Pay VERY CLOSE attention to those RED FLAGS!!! OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCE.😢

  • @izmaryia
    @izmaryia 8 месяцев назад

    I want to be closer to Jesus in all areas of my life. Ready me for all that you have waiting for me. In your mighty name Amen.

  • @Peterbehera91
    @Peterbehera91 Год назад +3

    I give my life to you Jesus ❤

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Peter! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Mika

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l Год назад

    Yes!

  • @valerieescabi6104
    @valerieescabi6104 Год назад

    Shalom 🙏🏻💖 peace

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l 11 месяцев назад

    I want to always be more closer to Jesus more. Every Day and include God also.

  • @lonlonlove
    @lonlonlove Год назад +1

    I'm giving my life to Jesus

  • @Ivylove7
    @Ivylove7 9 месяцев назад

    having a marriage with the wrong person IS very painful to go through, especially when kids are involved. This message is very good and important for everyone. I found this message useful for friendships as well.

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l 4 месяца назад

    Quick to speak & slow to anger

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Год назад +1

    This message will help alot of dating people out there.

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      But how🧏🧏💆

    • @malcolm24568
      @malcolm24568 Год назад

      @@melaniemartin730 help them to identify red flags within their relationships or what to look out for when they start to date.

  • @marianlyngdoh9256
    @marianlyngdoh9256 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not ignoring,the signs

  • @user-qp3op9fx2r
    @user-qp3op9fx2r 9 месяцев назад

    Amen

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l Год назад

    I have been drink before. Then I fall asleep. I had TBI so I can't drink. I didn't like it . I didn't like feeling out of control.

  • @MonkeyNamedJay
    @MonkeyNamedJay Год назад +2

    The hiding under the bed from Amy was a solid joke😂

  • @dd-ph9fv
    @dd-ph9fv Год назад +2

    Words to live by. Thats how i fell in love with my wife. All she spoke about was jesus. I knew right then she was the one!!

  • @aceliu5997
    @aceliu5997 Год назад

    I wish I watched this long time ago.

  • @wilfredmotosue2615
    @wilfredmotosue2615 Год назад +2

    Some people have common sense and others don't have common sense. You don't have to ask if he's a Christian, you will see by what says and by his actions.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      I've met Christians who are doing God's work, but still have not a lick of common sense. God can still use them and loves them the same ❤️
      -Kat

  • @ieshad.6201
    @ieshad.6201 Год назад

    I want a God honoring Relationships! Family, friends, my spouse, career, life

  • @SECURITY21
    @SECURITY21 Год назад

    Be closer to Jesus

  • @viralhabesha4151
    @viralhabesha4151 Год назад +1

    ❤❤one day I will teach on this stage amen 🙏

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      What were the scriptures?🉑♨️🉑♨️🉑♨️

  • @kenji2342
    @kenji2342 Год назад +1

    Please pray for me and my girlfriend, I think we got 2-3 red flags. She's not a genuine christian, though she is interested in it. Please pray for her salvation, even if we won't work out; please pray that she will love Jesus.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад +1

      Lord,
      We know the paths You have for us are amazing and so much better than our own. Please guide and strengthen Kenji for his faith in You and help his girlfriend to see Your love through Kenji so she can see You and committee to following You whether it is with Kenji or not. Allow Your Spirit to work in both of them and let them be able to grow in You in Jesus' name Amen.
      Laura

  • @megossavino4190
    @megossavino4190 11 месяцев назад

    IM GIVING MY LIFE TO JESUS

    • @life.church
      @life.church  11 месяцев назад

      We’re so excited for you, megos Savino! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Kat

  • @navsidhu7294
    @navsidhu7294 8 месяцев назад

    I’m giving my life to Jesus

    • @life.church
      @life.church  8 месяцев назад

      Praise the Lord! Would you like next steps?

  • @HillaryCherongis-sx6uy
    @HillaryCherongis-sx6uy Год назад

    I want to be closer to Jesus

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Год назад

    PRAISE YHWY, PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME, AMEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      Meanwhile at the movies, we saw snippets from "father stu." (It's because of copyright laws!) 🎁🎀🎁🎀🎁🎀

  • @Yankee4ever2
    @Yankee4ever2 Год назад

    Giving my life to Jesus baby !

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Yankee4ever2! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Kat

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l Год назад +1

    Quick to listen, show to anger

  • @luzdelacruz5081
    @luzdelacruz5081 Год назад

    ❤ Amén!

  • @diverseten8392
    @diverseten8392 Год назад

    I am currently learning how to not be a red flag

  • @annmburu1063
    @annmburu1063 Год назад

    This just came at the right time. I went on a date two days ago and after that I had this clarity that this is not the person I would see myself getting married to or being in a committed relationship with. The date went okay but unfortunately most of my friends are not godly so they thought I am really choosy when I said the date was okay butI didn't have that sense of peace deep down and I can't date someone whose heart doesn't belong to Christ. I feel like this message was particularly meant for me. May God see me through as I continue seeking God's kingdom

  • @Marcie-dd2ul
    @Marcie-dd2ul Год назад

    I give my life to jesus

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Brushstroke and beyond! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      - Laura

  • @slingingshot15
    @slingingshot15 11 месяцев назад

    Nice sermon. Do you have any sermons similar to this that are aimed at singles who want to have a relationship?

    • @life.church
      @life.church  10 месяцев назад

      God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/
      -Team LC Ronnie

    • @life.church
      @life.church  10 месяцев назад

      Yes! We have numerous messages. Here are a couple: www.life.church/media/save-the-date/3-qualities-you-need-before-marriage/ and www.life.church/media/save-the-date/5-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person/ both from a series of messages last year. You can also search here: www.life.church/media/messages/ Thanks for reaching out!
      -- Jenni

  • @nataliefunk4895
    @nataliefunk4895 11 месяцев назад

    I think I'm the problem, but I'm not sure if it's 100 percent.

  • @user-bm7ur8jw8f
    @user-bm7ur8jw8f Год назад +2

    I surrender my life to Jesus ❤

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Григорий Булатов! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Mika

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      Same here, I'm giving my life!💜💙💚💛💜💜💙

  • @ivanhartanto2222
    @ivanhartanto2222 11 месяцев назад

    i'm giving my life to JESUS.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  10 месяцев назад

      We’re so excited for you, Ivan Hartanto! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Matthew Team LC

  • @americantojo3367
    @americantojo3367 Год назад

    I am quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

  • @dreamlist3610
    @dreamlist3610 Год назад +1

    I want to be closer to Jesus.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

  • @holyenforcer8200
    @holyenforcer8200 Год назад

    I want to be closer to you Jesus Amen

  • @cyruscembrano3550
    @cyruscembrano3550 Год назад

    Im giving my life to Jesus

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Cyrus Cembrano! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      - jenni

  • @blossomyusuf9935
    @blossomyusuf9935 4 месяца назад

    I surrender to Jesus

    • @life.church
      @life.church  4 месяца назад

      We’re so excited for you, @blossomyusuf9935! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -Kat

  • @bforcenorth6393
    @bforcenorth6393 Год назад +1

    Just started listening from NJ but I suspect I am guilty of not paying attention to the warning signs. Going through a divorce right now after 15 years of marriage .

  • @allysonhill4195
    @allysonhill4195 Год назад +3

    this video describes EXACTLY what I'm going through!!! My soon-to-be ex-husband is extremely abusive and narcissistic, he had severe anger issues and neglected me. he also emotionally and verbally abused me. I didn't want to believe the warning signs and ignored it, Pastor Craig is right!!!! I'm going to write a book about my experiences about surviving domestic violence and how I'm learning to say no and stand up for myself. Jesus rescued me

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад +1

      ❤️Thank you for sharing your story @Allyson! May God continue to give you strength and hope as you move forward from this situation. What the enemy meant for evil, God will use for good! 2 Cor 1:4
      -- Jenni

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      Oh no!🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @quinoasongs2507
      @quinoasongs2507 3 месяца назад +1

      I hope you do. I also was in that kind of relationship, and he even presented as a godly man in the beginning. Ironically enough he introduced me to this channel. But watching this video, I was gonna have him watch it with me, but the opportunity didn't come, as we already were becoming more distant because I insisted on our time together being productive, and not falling into the trap of the "Netflix and chill" equivalent.(I don't have Netflix) I shudder that I could've fallen for the concept that we "need" to get married soon based on 1 Corinthians 7:9. We can all keep learning, and helping each other to live productive lives and avoid such relationships and so on. Be blessed today

    • @allysonhill4195
      @allysonhill4195 3 месяца назад

      @@quinoasongs2507 thank you for sharing your story! your not alone ❤

  • @jennifergrimaldo904
    @jennifergrimaldo904 Год назад

    What if one’s family doesn’t have a good spiritual foundation? But they have their opinions

  • @Lauren_Navarro
    @Lauren_Navarro Год назад

    Hi

  • @EjirogheneRoze
    @EjirogheneRoze Год назад

    I GIVE MY LIFE TO JESUS.

  • @skyeabad3347
    @skyeabad3347 Год назад

    I give my life to Jesus

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited for you, Skye Abad! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life. Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      -TeamLC Ronnie

  • @hiyabkebede9147
    @hiyabkebede9147 Год назад

    Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry

  • @Joy-ei2jr
    @Joy-ei2jr Год назад +4

    What about the red flags that funny show up till after you get married.

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      What do we mean by red flags?♨️♨️♨️♨️

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Melanie Martin Red flags are meant to be warning signs to prevent you from making a bad decision. In other words, you do not really know your choice for a spouse until after the wedding. TeamLC Ronnie

  • @melaniemartin730
    @melaniemartin730 Год назад

    Even though I'm not dating, i feel bad for those who are dating the wrong people. What can i do?!😓😓😓

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Hello Melanie! I believe we can always pray for other people who are dating the wrong people. We can also pray for God to speak through us, and to have the courage to reach out to them and to guide them on their next steps!
      -Mika

  • @AdrianPuiu
    @AdrianPuiu Год назад

    Hi Life Church team.
    I applied to be part of 4 life groups so far and I sent emails to all of them, but I did not received any answer from anybody.
    I hope someone is seeing this comment.
    Thanks

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Hi Adrian! Some groups may be on vacation or away for personal reasons. You can put for other Life Groups, or wait for them to answer.
      -Kat

  • @graciesalomon9744
    @graciesalomon9744 Год назад

    I am slow to become angry

  • @cindyloguirato8435
    @cindyloguirato8435 Год назад

    I want serve and be closer to Jesus my Lord and Savior!!

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Hello Cindy! We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/
      If you’re interested in encouraging and caring for others on our social media platform. We would love to invite you to join our volunteer team! If you’re interested, you can get connected here: go2.lc/lcsm
      God bless you my friend.
      Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

  • @americantojo3367
    @americantojo3367 Год назад

    I want to be closer to jesus.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

  • @jdgfsullivan
    @jdgfsullivan Год назад +1

    What if you’re already married?

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Jessica you are not alone... God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen.
      -- jenni

  • @victoriagelencser2463
    @victoriagelencser2463 Год назад

    What if you have been with this person 7 years, and leaving them would make you homeless? Idk what to do anymore and need somebody to help me.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Victoria, we're here for you if you'd like to talk about what you're going through. Just head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one.
      - LK

  • @jeanniewalker3398
    @jeanniewalker3398 Год назад

    Question: what if a lot of the red flags are prominent n very much are issues in mine n my husbands marriage? We are currently separated, should I go ahead then with filling for divorce if these things are very much been problematic n true for us through at least the last 9 years! It’s caused so much more trauma n sickness to take place in my n my children’s bodies. I need clarification from the Lord that it’s okay to divorce bc I don’t have peace as of yet to start that process… sister in Christ, Jeannie

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Hi Jeannie Walker! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/careform
      We’re praying for your family my friend. God bless you.
      Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

  • @dmwehrer7094
    @dmwehrer7094 Год назад

    What if I'm dating an Asian? I'm living in Southeast Asia.

  • @Korijean11
    @Korijean11 11 месяцев назад

    What about Christian and Catholic, I can’t seem to convert to Catholicism for my bf and it has hindered our relationship. I can’t see a future because our beliefs are so different

    • @life.church
      @life.church  11 месяцев назад

      Hi KJM! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/meetwithus
      - Jas

  • @brads1282
    @brads1282 Год назад

    I question the first red flag. Being a committed Christian doesn't mean you have to talk about your faith every second or minute.

  • @lukenycz7967
    @lukenycz7967 Год назад

    My father was not a Christian before he met my mom and now he is a much better Christian and role model.
    Also for point #1 what if the person we like just grew up in a non Christian family or taught wrongly about Christians and needs led to God? I have met many people who don't like Christians because they think they are all religious and Bible thumpers thus avoids them. Then we also have Hosea who God had married an adulteress women.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Год назад

      Luke,
      Praying for those who don't believe is a good start. Plus, you can ask God to show you ways to show them the love of Jesus.
      🙏❤️
      Laura

    • @olivenwankwo4875
      @olivenwankwo4875 7 месяцев назад

      It feels like stories like this were more common decades ago. These days people choose to be who they want to be and it's very difficult to get them to be who you think they should be.

  • @luikssmart7751
    @luikssmart7751 Год назад +1

    Hmmm…. 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

  • @denonjoka8848
    @denonjoka8848 Год назад

    Hawayu Life Church *& I Appreciate Pst. Craig Groeschel 4 This Powerful, Blessful Deep Sermon on "5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person!"Where I Have Learnt That The 5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person are:- 1. When They Consistently Don't Pursue Jesus, 2. When The People Yu Love Don't Love The Person Yu are Dating, 3. When Yu Don't Experience Healthy Conflicts, 4. When Yu Find It Difficult 2 Trust The Person Yu are With & 5. When The Person Yu are With Doesn't Trust Jesus Christ & Doesn't It Have a Relationship With Jesus Christ 4 He Who Finds a Good Wife Finds a Good Thing & Obtains The Favor of The LORD & Husbands Love Yur Wives Just As Christ Loves The Church Written In Proverbs 18:22 & Ephesians 5:25 4 I Have Been Blessed Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church* & May Our Great Almighty God Bless Yu Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church So Veryyyyyy, Veryyyyyy Much.🙏🙏🕊️🕊️

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Год назад

      Why would unhealthy couples fight dirty? Help! 😔😔😔