Daddy should have asked Justine to apologise for yelling at him the whole night and also throwing his toys when told to clear them. Let Justine see and realise his own mistake of yelling at 'big people'.
Ah Justin level up in resisting to follow rules. Daddy has such patience and has been very good in teaching Justin to reason the consequences of not cleaning his toys. 😂 Justin ran away but also came back. Lots of patience needed!
What I took away from watching this is that there's never a tantrum without a reason. J was overwhelmed and stressed out whenever he heard the countdown (behind his loud cries there was panic and helplessness). He stormed off because Daddy did not acknowledge his stress. I saw some impressive "authoritative" parenting in the recent frisbee video. In this video, it was mostly "authoritarian" until the very end, when explanations and guidance came in. But Daddy must be an awesome dad because J was willing to open up and express his feelings the entire time! Love your videos. I am subscribing.
🙂The term "authoritative" means establishing rules while providing warm guidance and explanations. Daddy's effective parenting in his recent frisbee video is a perfect example. J has been quite open to sharing his feelings because Daddy makes sense and is willing to listen. In the short run, parents may achieve their goals by treating kids in an "authoritarian" manner. However, when kids are forced to comply without understanding why, they may repeat wrongdoings, lose their motivation to communicate, or even grow up to become people-pleasers if they always had to comply out of fear rather than understanding. Regardless of age, if we don't agree with the person trying to convince us, we won't change. "Authoritative" is actually more effective, as we can observe towards the end of this video. In addition, acknowledging children's emotions helps them calm down and makes parenting more effective.
Adorable Justin would realise and be grateful to his dad’s patient and authoritative teaching when he grows up and be a dad himself, all out of love and wisdom. Good parenting is vital on the development of children as this have great influence on family bonding, up to social relationships.
I think Justin probably learned that from school. He is bad tonight. I am disappointed in him. Daddy is very patient. Actually, too nice to the little boy this time. I don't think Justin will learn if you are nice to him. He will get spoiled. This is just my thought.
Has been following this cute boy for awhile and noticed his transformation(旁观者清)He should be complimented of his IQ,however his EQ is a concern. 鼓励的赞赏和认可好想渐渐得让他不能接受稍稍的挫折和失败导致不能从教导和纠正中警觉自己错误而改正。
Kudos to Mark who is patient and controlled. Justin is growing up too. Kids do have "temper" too here & there. But Mark really stands his ground. Well done daddy. Mum is fantastic allowing the father takes full control of the situation. In my days on the streets of HK, my late father without the doubt will do the exact opposite, the old canto style of getting the child to clean up 🤪🤪🤪
You can watch the perfect daughter and father team on another channel, where you can see the daughter always perfect (so fake and you can tell she is acting). Justin is not perfect (we are not either). I love to watch Justin for he is testing the water to see how far he can get away with (part of life). Justin will have good, bad and ugly days (we all do). So far, Mom and Dad are doing a great job on coaching, loving and discipling. In the long run, Justin will get the benefit of life lessons he learned.
Smart Justin😅.Dad son punishment scenario maybe quite often. I saw it in my family and I saw it in an Italian family. Children don’t feel love if tooo many punishments. Even though they are called disciplines.
Well, I guess in my mind I didn’t think of it as a punishment. More like “a countdown to punishment”. But you’re right, Justin saw it a little differently. After reading some of the responses to the video, I’ve spent the last few days changing some of my tactics, to try to communicate a bit more with J
@@MakaLionHi Counting can be intimidated. Try use the timer and walk away to test the method. You are doing a great job and Justin will learn from all the lesson. We all learned from it by watching your videos :)
@@mayteo7864 Small children like to push the boundary; it is a normal part of growing up. Justin's dad is very patient in guiding him back onto the right path. Note that Justin is very fair even when angry and admits that not picking up toys would lead to accidents and injury. I would certainly side with him when he insists that daddy should concentrate on the topic at the moment and not talk about taking him skating.
He meant it when he said big people cannot yell at small people. It doesn't look like daddy was yelling. By yelling he meant that counting thing which really gets on his nerves. Great Job on staying calm daddy!
This reminds me so much of my struggle with my son! But is the count down really a good idea along with threatening him of timeout? Daddy had to repeat the count down how many times? There is gotta be a better way! Let me know if you figure it out :)
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這個混血寶寶太聰明了，不能竉，寶寶爸爸很有忍耐力，教仔很有辦法，加油！
跟小孩玩是很开心的事。管教小孩却是很累的事！要软硬兼施，拿捏轻重，赏罚分明，十足耐心，平衡到位。这一切都在考验父母的能耐。😅
雖然我還沒有小孩, 而透過影片中令我明白作為爸爸的身教重要性, 真用心良苦~
要令他自己思考明白和還要破解並處理他的問題所在, Well done👍🏻
❤愛的教育鐵的紀律，爸爸超有愛心耐心陪伴小小孩，正確的觀念導入正確的行為，喜歡親子互動視頻⋯👍
這父親代表天父的
公義！慈愛！智慧。
讚！
Justin 的皮氣也大，要引導和調整他的皮氣，大家要互相傾談🤝💯👍⚘
Daddy 講解得好好，引導Justin自己思考問題👍
笑到我流眼淚，全程真不知誰叫得最大聲，還叫大人不可大聲叫小孩。😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 真的，好有耐心智慧的父親
我覺得寶寶説的話很真實。他想要慢慢收拾， 不要人家倒數催他、想要爸爸多讀幾本睡前故事書、據理力爭大人不可以吆喝小孩… 倒過來， 如果小孩這樣掌控我們， 大人會服嗎？
父母要盡早把孩子當大人對待， 他們或許表達沒那麼好（但這個寶寶可是非常清楚！）， 覺得不笨！
真的。这个宝宝非常合理。爸爸需要学习。不懂那么多人赞爸爸。
這才是真實的生活。小杰有他自己的想法與脾氣。
爸爸很有耐心耶❤是好爸爸！讚👍🏼 唉，是我早就藤條侍候了😅
爸爸真係好耐性👍🏽
Daddy is so patient to Justin. A great dad👍👍
老外爸爸的教育真的是没话说，服了，不愧为教育家❤
如果是亚洲人教孩子 早就。。。藤条伺候了 😆
@@88joey60 如果是中國人係會幫小朋友執仲要話大人不對😆
會叫工人姐姐執，但老外爸爸是對的。
不，你错了。这种数数的方式会培养孩子的焦虑情绪，他会暂时压抑情绪，长大后容易爆发式发泄。容易激情犯罪。
@@alittlebird6599 你跟只要是洋人的都是好的这种人讲什么道理？他们懂就不会这样了。
" Big people can not yell small people! " 小朋友獨有嘅邏輯確實搞笑，還有是他整晚 yell daddy呢！😁😁😁
因为他感觉到地位的不平等加上10、9、8这种命令式、权威式对待、时间越来越少不容商量。所以用“骂”来表达对这种方式的不认可
justin生氣的樣子也很可愛，看來他很討厭睡覺🤣🤣
看着他渐渐长大，脾气也越来越大😅😂
太精彩了~~寶爸真的很讚，依然保持耐心，也適時讓杰斯說出他的感覺~
Daddy should have asked Justine to apologise for yelling at him the whole night and also throwing his toys when told to clear them. Let Justine see and realise his own mistake of yelling at 'big people'.
Ah Justin level up in resisting to follow rules. Daddy has such patience and has been very good in teaching Justin to reason the consequences of not cleaning his toys. 😂 Justin ran away but also came back. Lots of patience needed!
一隻可愛的小豬!!!!!!!! lucky parents
I learnt a lot from this Daddy, such a great lesson of how to educate and guide kids to behave 👍👍
爸爸超級有耐心，而且方法正確，以後孩子對待人事物的心態都會正確且有自然表達
小孩就是有反抗心態，不讓我做我想要的，你也休想我聽你的，我就跟你倔強
What I took away from watching this is that there's never a tantrum without a reason. J was overwhelmed and stressed out whenever he heard the countdown (behind his loud cries there was panic and helplessness). He stormed off because Daddy did not acknowledge his stress. I saw some impressive "authoritative" parenting in the recent frisbee video. In this video, it was mostly "authoritarian" until the very end, when explanations and guidance came in. But Daddy must be an awesome dad because J was willing to open up and express his feelings the entire time! Love your videos. I am subscribing.
Dont agree with you, i rather find Sandy made valid comment kid 不能竉
🙂The term "authoritative" means establishing rules while providing warm guidance and explanations. Daddy's effective parenting in his recent frisbee video is a perfect example. J has been quite open to sharing his feelings because Daddy makes sense and is willing to listen.
In the short run, parents may achieve their goals by treating kids in an "authoritarian" manner. However, when kids are forced to comply without understanding why, they may repeat wrongdoings, lose their motivation to communicate, or even grow up to become people-pleasers if they always had to comply out of fear rather than understanding.
Regardless of age, if we don't agree with the person trying to convince us, we won't change. "Authoritative" is actually more effective, as we can observe towards the end of this video.
In addition, acknowledging children's emotions helps them calm down and makes parenting more effective.
authortative
Justine will be very proud of his dad when he grown up. He is a cute boy.
我真的真的很佩服，佩服爸爸的耐心，对付小朋友这种生物有时候真的让我很无语，但是爸爸能够这么耐心的劝导，为爸爸鼓掌，希望中国的爸爸也能学习学习
wakakaka,,笑死我。爸爸做得好。很有耐心教導。
看視頻..樣子好笑得意可愛.好識發Dady脾氣..爸爸有辦法處理..😁😁🌻🌻
Very patient dad!And such a good hearted cutie !
Justin 不让爸爸继续数那些部分很无奈，但又好笑，当他成长后，自己看回,也感到滑稽 ！
生活本来就是充满喜怒哀乐
数数本来就不是好的方式
小家伙狡辩能力强大所幸遇到一个超强大超有耐心的爸爸👍🌹
小 Justin 好可愛❤很喜歡這個 video
看見小朋友真性情的－面 😍 Justin 嬲嬲豬個樣實在好惹人喜愛！
見他在耍脾氣、可能係因為爸爸 👨🏻 yelled at him, 所以他傷心了 💔 🥹
Adorable Justin would realise and be grateful to his dad’s patient and authoritative teaching when he grows up and be a dad himself, all out of love and wisdom. Good parenting is vital on the development of children as this have great influence on family bonding, up to social relationships.
杰斯爸的教育非常值得學習
So proud of daddy! Well done 😊
Yes!👍
爸爸你好棒棒！❤️❤️❤️
👏中外孩子成長其實一樣自小一定要有良好教育，因為以前小孫子也如此，在此㊗️🧧中外孩子們在優良教育健康成長，大家🈴️家安康生活愉快。👏
我們的是教成：叫了就收，關燈就睡。覺得這樣比較省力。千萬不要教成小孩還要教訓自己的父母。
教育的同时要保持冷静、不发脾气、不容易哦！！
😢😢😢😢😢
Oh Justin, your daddy is so patient towards you. So be a good boy . 😮
教育家,支持你們一家,美滿生活,创做人生。
😂😂 Big people cannot yell at small people... Justin, you are so cute and lovely 😅😅
I think Justin probably learned that from school. He is bad tonight. I am disappointed in him. Daddy is very patient. Actually, too nice to the little boy this time. I don't think Justin will learn if you are nice to him. He will get spoiled. This is just my thought.
Has been following this cute boy for awhile and noticed his transformation(旁观者清)He should be complimented of his IQ,however his EQ is a concern. 鼓励的赞赏和认可好想渐渐得让他不能接受稍稍的挫折和失败导致不能从教导和纠正中警觉自己错误而改正。
You are absolutely right Justin. Big people cannot yell at small people.💕
Kudos to Mark who is patient and controlled.
Justin is growing up too. Kids do have "temper" too here & there. But Mark really stands his ground. Well done daddy. Mum is fantastic allowing the father takes full control of the situation.
In my days on the streets of HK, my late father without the doubt will do the exact opposite, the old canto style of getting the child to clean up 🤪🤪🤪
教得很好👍👍
教育小孩要有耐心好脾氣，還需堅持原則，父母難為!
Kids act out on their large emotions. My job now is to make sure that he understands that his actions were not correct, and why
@@MakaLionHi 的確，父母在與孩子溝通時，不以高對低的姿態表達。並在生活中，使不同成長階段的小孩，啓動獨立思考、明辨是非的判斷能力。
哈哈~~好搞笑啊~不過咁養大嘅細路一定好得人鍾意~~
🤣🤣🤣小朋友諗：叫你唔數仲數，佛都有火啦。哈哈哈……好得意啦佢
小宝宝非常靈敏。😁😁
鍾意套睡衣，很舒適似的。🤭
笑死我喇！小孩真是聰明，爸爸教導得非常好，
You can watch the perfect daughter and father team on another channel, where you can see the daughter always perfect (so fake and you can tell she is acting). Justin is not perfect (we are not either). I love to watch Justin for he is testing the water to see how far he can get away with (part of life). Justin will have good, bad and ugly days (we all do). So far, Mom and Dad are doing a great job on coaching, loving and discipling. In the long run, Justin will get the benefit of life lessons he learned.
小家伙太逗了😂
Hi Justin 每次看到你. 心中好疼你啊！ 😘😘
Big people don't yell at small people🤣🤣🤣🤣Don't count🤣🤣🤣Justin just don't want to go sleep
Justin那个哼和okay？可爱疯了 每天看几遍都不腻🤣
It is good to provide stepping stone to kid👍well done papa👍
爸爸好🈶️耐心哦👍
Smart Justin😅.Dad son punishment scenario maybe quite often. I saw it in my family and I saw it in an Italian family. Children don’t feel love if tooo many punishments. Even though they are called disciplines.
I guess it passes to the generations.
Well, I guess in my mind I didn’t think of it as a punishment. More like “a countdown to punishment”. But you’re right, Justin saw it a little differently. After reading some of the responses to the video, I’ve spent the last few days changing some of my tactics, to try to communicate a bit more with J
@@MakaLionHi great dad 😃
@@MakaLionHi Counting can be intimidated. Try use the timer and walk away to test the method. You are doing a great job and Justin will learn from all the lesson. We all learned from it by watching your videos :)
@@MakaLionHicould you take more videos of your new tatics and share with us? Thank you so much! I use some of your strategies in my teaching
这爸爸真有耐心👍🌹🌹，学习了
五歲後小孩子如果這樣（大聲）和父母長輩說話早就挨打了或者一耳光了，我就是這樣的環境長大而且我爸不是隨便打的他們只針對這一件事情就是（大聲）和父母講話
Justin變得好野蠻，又惡！要好好教導。好彩爸爸好有耐性
同意。觉得他的态度不是在撒娇。他的呐喊，丢玩具的力度，爸爸要拉他的手，而他很用力的打爸爸的手让人担忧。整个过程，不觉得爸爸有shout at him而是耐心的沟通教导。反倒是儿子无理取闹的呐喊，还说大人不可以骂小孩。可能已到了必须严厉纠正的程度了
@@mayteo7864 Small children like to push the boundary; it is a normal part of growing up. Justin's dad is very patient in guiding him back onto the right path. Note that Justin is very fair even when angry and admits that not picking up toys would lead to accidents and injury. I would certainly side with him when he insists that daddy should concentrate on the topic at the moment and not talk about taking him skating.
小孩，大人有脾气，才正常，倒是想看看你，怎么教你小孩。
Hi Justin 你好可爱！👏👏👏👍♥️
Very good daddy! Justin is learning 😊
好可爱呀，他本来就是很讨厌睡觉的 哈哈哈
親子溝通，很棒的學習
這個片子是很好的親子教育！
如Justin喜歡食熱氣的零食， 長時間是會影響情緒的， 況且他長大了， 自己的意慾強了，遲來的Trouble Two!少食零食，少食味精，多飲水呢!
Good job daddy 👍👍👍👍👍
Stop yelling in front of people, Justin! You are so rude! You can’t throw the blocks to your daddy either
和平收場👏👏👏
真好好爸爸,教得真好.
帥哥今天為咋發俾氣？？不乖囉😉😃
確實，不应该数10，9，8，7，数这个不如在应该睡觉前提早1小时、20分钟提醒几次，虽然觉得小孩没有时间概念，但至少你给了他一点点的心理准备，不会有太强剥夺感
Good job daddy!
Justin 開始有反叛，沒原因但總喜歡反道而行，教導小朋友要有耐心！😅自己心情不好再遇上這種事情，真的不容易處理啊！
Good kid 👍end up obey Daddy’s rules
脾氣真大。
好聰明，但咁大脾氣
He meant it when he said big people cannot yell at small people. It doesn't look like daddy was yelling. By yelling he meant that counting thing which really gets on his nerves. Great Job on staying calm daddy!
老爸EQ和IQ真的很好
你兒子也太兇了吧？ 太寵了.
受教了，爸爸的情绪控制做的很好。我一但开始骂小朋友，他就会跑过来对我说“媽媽，我真的很爱你”……
奶凶奶凶的小家伙也不是省油的燈哇
good daddy 😃
Justin 欺負爸爸，對媽媽態度不一樣
A super dad knows well how to educate a super smart son-boy!
超好耐性
This reminds me so much of my struggle with my son! But is the count down really a good idea along with threatening him of timeout? Daddy had to repeat the count down how many times? There is gotta be a better way! Let me know if you figure it out :)
You don't think you are yelling, but your counting is already a kind of yelling in his mind. It is definitely not the boy who needs to be more patient
父子开战了，“时间都去哪儿了”应该改为“妈妈都去哪儿了”，哈哈哈哈😂😂😂😂，开玩笑的。父子开战，应该由父子自己解决问题，妈妈远离战场是最明智的选择。这个妈妈真心不错！点个赞👍
Hahaha
Daddy didn’t yell at him at all 🤷🏻♀️he’s the one who’s yelling .. having such a …tantrum!
Just like my student 😂😂😂
小杰斯由幼兒成長為幼童，現正值幼童反判期，幼量開始自己思想，嘗試挑戰父母。今次爸爸滿有愛及耐性，紏正小杰斯，讓他自我反思及改過，正確示範育兒之道，鼓勵上載片段分享，讓父母學習，謝謝！
Big people cannot yell small people🤣🤣🤣
我認為最好教才，編輯埋中英單字，短句，製作（DVD)出版！沒有時代限制，供應準爸爸媽媽，又可以親子！原來教子女要付出全副精神！老學生認真，小老師學似大人，指指篤篤，又縮肩？當局考慮吓，對小朋友/準爸媽有需要？
爸爸整体很有耐心👍 但开始和孩子交流的时候，没有给孩子反应的时间，就开始倒计时，给孩子太大的压力，并激怒了孩子，让我有点心疼😢
如果是亚洲父母不说多，藤条伺候。🤣
Are you located in Australia?
發脾氣😢😢😢