Wow ... There's so many examples of Mommy Energy in the real world ... But hardly any Wifey Energy to learn from and mirror. This is very helpful. Thanks !
If you notice movies and shows these days always portray the woman with mommy energy and the man or husband basically as a man child. I think that has a big affect on woman thinking that's how it should be
A woman needs a man in his masculine energie before she can be in the wifey energie. Mostly a woman got in the mother energie because the man is childly asking to take care for everything because he is lazy not in love and manipulatieve.
Also if he is a cheater no woman will be in her wifey enrgy. My niece had relationships with men who were cheaters. She was miserable and was in her mommy energy too. But them she met a man who is much older than her with mature kids and he was the one who could let her be in her a wifey energy.
Both my father and brother are attached to the Mommy energy from their forever wives. Perhaps this is fit for a man with a higher purpose. 🎉I'm simply evaluating from Two family members 😅THEY ARE ATTACHED.
What about when the man is sick (a bad flu, for example), how do I ask how he’s feeling in a wifey way? How do I express my love and care in a wifey way when he’s down with an illness?
i did. he said i rejected him. he blocked me. I never argued with him He said there is no one like you. that was july 4 2022 and ive been miseralble since
Thank you for this! My last guy asked me to be in mommy energy a lot of the time and I thought that’s what he needed to move forward in our relationship which he did not. I now know if I see it early on I will move on because that is not where I want to be. I want to be the receiver I was designed to be.
I prefer the label of feminine energy or mate energy, to "wifey" energy. "Mommy" energy is obviously emasculating, so that's clearly to be avoided. While I had 8 wonderful years with my late husband and discovered how good being a loving man's wife could feel, the word "wife" for me is still too freighted with its history of servitude and second-class citizenship. I do appreciate the comparison between "wifing" and mothering, though. I'll just stick with "feminine energy" (supportive while respecting his purposes, and enjoying her own) as a label for a happy man's mate.
As a woman and I love being a wife. It is privileged position and the difference made underlines exactly how to not slide and play his mother, which women have done in hundred years... leading to all the accusations that men lack appreciation
Marriage is about serving each other. It's not the same as being a "kitchen slave" or whatever. It's about putting your spouse's needs above your own. It goes both ways.
🤔 I guess the man who I have loved for over 20yrs (I walked away after he chose “mommy” who makes a lot of money and he complains about. You described me as wifey whom he says he loves to this day but has chosen mommy. That sucks.
That’s because a lot of men want a woman to be there mommy instead of wife. Mommy energy stunts his growth and keeps him in arrested development while wife nurtures him to grow & flow in his masculine energy. Some men want a woman to be there mommy because they don’t want to grow sis and most go so far to finding a woman that would do most of the work, be masculine and provide for him. They want her to be the man in the relationship. So you dodged a bullet.
If u've only been on 1 or 2 dates, give him a chance. I rmb I was legit COULD NOT feel physical chemistry between my now-bf. He was a very good man with clear intentions, but I had to process my emotions and come to a decision. It was tough. But I thought I'd give it a go and now I'm very happy with him. If we can't give attractive bad boys a chance, why can't we give a chance to a nice guy? But ofc, if you've been seeing him for a while and still cannot feel the spark, just end things. It won't make u happy fr girl and it's unfair for him too. God Bless!
How is giving a mommy energy when wives are supposed to be giving to their husbands? I’m a little confused on the giving part of this message but everything else I agree with. Also, being submissive is also a form of giving because you’re willing to change to make him lead and become happier in the relationship
"mommy energy is masculine". Ppl just say things these days. So many videos are dedicated to dissecting & criticizing women when most men are problematic.
Tell me what to say when it’s September and the taxes still haven’t been filed…but he bad been entrusted since January of the year before to take care of taxes each year moving forward. Asking for a friend.
I want to be in my feminine energy. For a woman to do this the man has to be vulnerable and real with her. Straight up truth no facades to what a woman wants to know. Then she can be totally vulnerable and accepting.❤
I'm really struggling to be in my feminine because of narc relationships, being single, knowing I have to fend for myself/be independent. I think with the right mine I will be.
@bettyboothe2523 Hi Betty, it's hard because you have to be so discerning. Try to get them to open up to you privately so you can understand him better. Try to be empathetic and understanding so you can foster a healthy connection first. God bless you.
Such a good explanation! I'm so guilty of mommy energy. Mainly because that's the model my mother gave me. Learning about feminine energy over a year ago completely shifted my relationship. My man went from distant and unhappy. He now can't get enough of me. He completely shifted into his masculinity. It's insane the difference. Wifey energy for the win!!
This definitely doesn't work in a toxic narcissistic relationship. Men like this can not and will not operate in a healthy masculine energy and therefore it puts his wife having to take on more responsibility and basically become his "other mother" bc he can't and or refuses to step up and handle his ish.
@@lauraswoboda6265 well yeah....most ppl wouldn't think twice about dating one let alone marrying one "if" they knew that's what the person was right out the gate. If you've never been in a relationship with one then you'll never know just how easy it is to get sucked in by these parasites until experience teaches you what you're dealing with. That's when you do your research and you figure out who and what this person really is, and then do the necessary work to get out. Which is exactly what I did. Thank you.
You don't know they're a narcissist at first.. well now I will know but I didn't with my ex husband till it was years in. I agree with this video amd see exactly how I was acting like this when I couldn't trust him. I prefer the man to lead and be masculine.
@@gvintage I agree with you as this is also my story as well. It wasn't until I was 15 years into my almost 20 year marriage when I started noticing just how deceptive he really was and is esp since he moved in with his AP literally the day after leaving me. Talk about planning and playing his cards just right. Never again.
I’ve given up! I’m sick to death of playing these endless mind games - constantly thinking before I do what comes normally to me. If a man can’t fathom my worth by who I present to him, he can sod off and go make some other bint’s life a misery: I’m fine.
Yasss!!! Just be you, love you, and if a man doesn't, clearly he isn't meant to be. So tired of these videos telling people what and how they need to be for the opposite gender.
Here is the thing, sometimes you enter into a relationship with a wifey energy, and that man brings momy energy out of you. So before you try to change your energies, make sure to choose the right man.
This is your absolute best video, hands down. I saved it so I can rewatch and commit these concepts to memory. It was so helpful to have included the slides with the info, too! Thank you so much and God bless you!
Girls listen! We are sold a lie! That marriage is a wonderful loving life fulfilling thing! No! It is a life sucking, tiresome, exhausting, servitude contract with the wrong partner! Ask if he is exuding “true partner” energy NOT if you are exuding “WIFEY” energy!
Ok but we can’t control which energy we give. It’s also a reaction to how the guy behaves, for example if he isn’t consistent this might trigger mommy energy. It’s not always women fault for everything
No, you're not correct - the reason is that you are an adult and you can choose your response and behaviour and that is what sends out mommy/wifey energy. I know there is a subconscious element to this which other people can pick up on in spite of what you do, and this is probably what you mean, but you really do have a choice in how you respond to things. You can respond to his behaviour by thinking "I need to control him" OR "I need to understand him", those are both options and you can choose to adopt either of these attitudes. There is a gap between something happening and you choosing your response. Sometimes that gap is small (e.g. instinctual or impulsive reactions) and sometimes it is longer (e.g. when you carefully consider your response). That gap is when you choose how to respond. So you can literally choose to respond with wifey energy or mommy energy, it really is up to you. I'm not saying it's easy, because it usually isn't. It requires courage and discipline, a little bit of humility. But you can definitely choose how you respond. The idea that you can't is just an excuse
This is one of the best videos ever on feminine energy as it gives so many examples of what not to say and what to say. I’ve certainly been guilty of nagging, taking over and mummy energy. No more!! I’m going to work on being in my feminine, appreciation and hopefully inspiration.
@natcheztracefan ... ... Q. How to handle cooking without seeming too Mommy-ish energy wise? I would say ask him what he wants for dinner before you cook/prepare it for him. Pick 2 or 3 things you'd be willing to make and have the ingredients for ... and ask him to choose between them. I think that is a subtle way to shift from Mommy to Wifey when making dinner.
What you describe as a mommy energy is not mommy energy when it comes to an adult man woman relationship. It is just wife energy that is not developed and used in a toxic way. It doesnt have to do anything with mothering. Sadly 😢 Btw what you describe as mommy energy, moms shouldnt do either to their children.
Things like sending reminders I don’t think is a big deal. I know a lot of guys who appreciate reminders from their wives or gfs. They get so busy and they forget and I don’t think gentle reminders mean you’re necessarily stepping into mommy energy. Overall point taken, though. Thank you.
Being open and vulnerable with my wants and needs in a highly conscious very gentle manner is absolutely NOT working. I embody wifey energy ss my natural nature. Hes being s Brute. Ugggh.
It´s just what they have gotten used to. There are very few women out there with wifey energy. Most women are working hard and managing everything themselves which makes it difficult for them to switch that off and turn to wifey energy around the man they like and letting him manage things. A few years back I tested it out with a guy I met on a dating app. He had only had relationships with woman that helped him out with a lot of stuff, mommy style. I was a lot older than him, so maybe he thought he would get that same mommy vibe from me. But from the first date onwards I stuck to my "wifey vibe". OMG! It worked like magic! For the first time in his life he met a woman that respected him, trusted his lead, asked for his help, for his opinion on my decisions, etc. He was amazing! Did everything for me and was so invested in our relationship and my wellbeing! 😍 Unfortunately, I went back to my needy, demanding and more mommy tendencies and that´s what killed the relationship after 2 years. 🤷♀
I love this!! Best advice and guidance I’ve seen on this!! Are there gonna be more like this type of video to help on the mommy and wifey energy? This is perfect timing because this is great for my new formal relationship. Thank you!!
All of this I'd true, although when a women I'd a feminine nurturer at all times with everyone. It isn't viewed as mommy behavior because he'd know that is who she is at all times not looking for a man at all. This info is good to incorporate at the same time when on the dating scene.
Love this very much. I had an overbearing mother so I wondered where I stood on this very subject. Now I know. Perfect timing. I need to remember these lists also!
Bless your heart for this video. I am a 33 year old woman in a loving relationship. I never knew what I did wrong. I was in the mommy energy. I almost gagged the way you said the things and I really felt ashamed of that behaviour. Thank you for telling both sides so I can fix the problem that I have been carrying with me. Thank you❤❤❤
With my ex I was in my mommy energy and it was so exhausting and annoying. He wasn’t in his masculine energy however so I tried to fill the void. After years of (happy) singleness I met a man who’s fully in his divine masculinity and it’s been so relaxing and inspiring. It’s like I’m floating and don’t have to try or work for anything. Super comfortable and I didn’t think that I’d experience this in my life.
So a wife must always cater to and encourage, as well as support their man and can never criticize or share feedback that is not positive 24/7. It sounds to me, by this definition, that a wife is always stroking the males ego while the mommy is taking care of things and being honest / upfront with him. They are direct and don't go around the situation but address things. Men don't like to hear where they go wrong where there errors are. Men just like to hear that they are doing well, doing the right thing all the time. They want constant encouragement but are not doing the work and getting the results to gain that encouragement.
What about those of us that are with partners who are either physically or mentally unwell? Where out of love, loyalty, commitment and compassion your role is to step up and take on the caretaker mommy role.
Hi ❤Yesterday I was walking my boss's dogs and I was checking on one of them who is a golden retriever and a man passed by with his dog. The Golden barked and the man, instead of moving away He moving more close to us the dog and I screamed. I'm practicing more about my femininity but I don't know what to do with this man because I meet him when I walk to the dogs. I don't want to smile to him. Many thanks for advice.
I like the video and format 💯 when younger I was both mommy with some, wifey with others including friends other family members and work colleagues ~ today in my silver years I’m mommy’d out ~ all I desire is to be in my divine feminine energy/role. As in another’s comment ‘wifey’ connotates, how do I put this, say inequality unless he’s referred to as the ‘husband’. If he’s in his masculine then I in my feminine! If he’s in his husband then I in my wife role/label.
I read the empowered wife by Laura Doyle and has been listening to her podcast by the same name. She mentions all of these things, as well as actionable steps to help with the things you talk about. It's incredible how much it has helped my relationship. Keep up the good work!
@@MagnetizeYourMan Women have always cooked and cleaned for men.....why would you want to change this, it's called looking after you're husband and home.....not mommy energy, do you have to ask you're wife to cook for you, if so......she is not taking care of you, do you have to ask her to clean the house🤔🙄
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I just realised I'm in mommy energy most of the time, no wonder all of my relationships have failed. This is a real eye opener 🙏🏼
Don’t blame yourself. The man is the leader. The ones you were with obviously weren’t in his masculine energy, thus you wanted to fill that void.
Yeah but this is so confusing because Ive heard so many contradicting “tips” on these things that a girl doesn’t even know how to be herself anymore.
Wow ... There's so many examples of Mommy Energy in the real world ... But hardly any Wifey Energy to learn from and mirror.
This is very helpful. Thanks !
If you notice movies and shows these days always portray the woman with mommy energy and the man or husband basically as a man child. I think that has a big affect on woman thinking that's how it should be
A woman needs a man in his masculine energie before she can be in the wifey energie.
Mostly a woman got in the mother energie because the man is childly asking to take care for everything because he is lazy not in love and manipulatieve.
I agree, Be a leader. A TRUE leader. And following becomes a breeze...
Also if he is a cheater no woman will be in her wifey enrgy. My niece had relationships with men who were cheaters. She was miserable and was in her mommy energy too. But them she met a man who is much older than her with mature kids and he was the one who could let her be in her a wifey energy.
Insanely uncanny timing. Love you guys thank you for such a well organized and thoughtfully put together presentation of what we all need to know!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Both my father and brother are attached to the Mommy energy from their forever wives. Perhaps this is fit for a man with a higher purpose. 🎉I'm simply evaluating from Two family members 😅THEY ARE ATTACHED.
What about when the man is sick (a bad flu, for example), how do I ask how he’s feeling in a wifey way? How do I express my love and care in a wifey way when he’s down with an illness?
Tell him that you'd like to help him but not sure what he would like you to do.
@@MagnetizeYourMan Tell him to man up......he hasn't got man flu, he has a cold.🤔🤭🤣
@@irenemorley75 😂😂😂😂😂
i did. he said i rejected him. he blocked me. I never argued with him He said there is no one like you. that was july 4 2022 and ive been miseralble since
This video is brilliant and SO helpful. Thank you! ♀️
Thank you for this! My last guy asked me to be in mommy energy a lot of the time and I thought that’s what he needed to move forward in our relationship which he did not. I now know if I see it early on I will move on because that is not where I want to be. I want to be the receiver I was designed to be.
I love how well broken down and explained this is! I immediately pressed the subscribe button
How do I support my boyfriend when he’s unwell (long distance ATM) without getting into Mommy energy? Suggestions welcome 😊
Excellent video !!!
So glad you liked it!
Very good
Thank you! Now I know what my problem is. ❤
You are so welcome!
I prefer the label of feminine energy or mate energy, to "wifey" energy. "Mommy" energy is obviously emasculating, so that's clearly to be avoided. While I had 8 wonderful years with my late husband and discovered how good being a loving man's wife could feel, the word "wife" for me is still too freighted with its history of servitude and second-class citizenship. I do appreciate the comparison between "wifing" and mothering, though. I'll just stick with "feminine energy" (supportive while respecting his purposes, and enjoying her own) as a label for a happy man's mate.
Oh yes, I can see your point! This is helpful too.
What a non sense!
As a woman and I love being a wife. It is privileged position and the difference made underlines exactly how to not slide and play his mother, which women have done in hundred years... leading to all the accusations that men lack appreciation
Marriage is about serving each other. It's not the same as being a "kitchen slave" or whatever. It's about putting your spouse's needs above your own. It goes both ways.
Iam so glad i bumped into this ,thank you so much
Welcome!
🤔 I guess the man who I have loved for over 20yrs (I walked away after he chose “mommy” who makes a lot of money and he complains about. You described me as wifey whom he says he loves to this day but has chosen mommy. That sucks.
That’s because a lot of men want a woman to be there mommy instead of wife. Mommy energy stunts his growth and keeps him in arrested development while wife nurtures him to grow & flow in his masculine energy. Some men want a woman to be there mommy because they don’t want to grow sis and most go so far to finding a woman that would do most of the work, be masculine and provide for him. They want her to be the man in the relationship. So you dodged a bullet.
4:05 seriously? Women just can’t win. 😂 I said what I said. Let the cat, single lady comments hit me. 😂cuz how dare I like cats?
thank you💝💝💝
EXCELLENT Brody!! Thank you
Welcome!
So this is why he wants me as a wife in an instant. I mean was too fast
What if he offered to do something but maybe due to his work schedule he doesn't do it, can i still remind him?
I feel like I can do this but what if I’m not physically attracted to this man
If u've only been on 1 or 2 dates, give him a chance. I rmb I was legit COULD NOT feel physical chemistry between my now-bf. He was a very good man with clear intentions, but I had to process my emotions and come to a decision. It was tough.
But I thought I'd give it a go and now I'm very happy with him. If we can't give attractive bad boys a chance, why can't we give a chance to a nice guy?
But ofc, if you've been seeing him for a while and still cannot feel the spark, just end things. It won't make u happy fr girl and it's unfair for him too.
God Bless!
How is giving a mommy energy when wives are supposed to be giving to their husbands? I’m a little confused on the giving part of this message but everything else I agree with. Also, being submissive is also a form of giving because you’re willing to change to make him lead and become happier in the relationship
This doesn't work when both people are Aquarius! ♒
"mommy energy is masculine". Ppl just say things these days. So many videos are dedicated to dissecting & criticizing women when most men are problematic.
I just want out forever cause my husband is gayyyyy
Most of them are🤭
Who the F cares?! What is with my algorithm on RUclips?! Smdh!
finally
Tell me what to say when it’s September and the taxes still haven’t been filed…but he bad been entrusted since January of the year before to take care of taxes each year moving forward. Asking for a friend.
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@@MagnetizeYourMan I promise that’s been done. No movement.
Just realised I’m 💯 mommy 😢
Stop leading on women.😂
I’m the man, I need, because men can’t do it. 😂
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I want to be in my feminine energy. For a woman to do this the man has to be vulnerable and real with her. Straight up truth no facades to what a woman wants to know. Then she can be totally vulnerable and accepting.❤
I'm really struggling to be in my feminine because of narc relationships, being single, knowing I have to fend for myself/be independent. I think with the right mine I will be.
@bettyboothe2523 Hi Betty, it's hard because you have to be so discerning. Try to get them to open up to you privately so you can understand him better. Try to be empathetic and understanding so you can foster a healthy connection first. God bless you.
@@Stoiclady777 yeah he did at first. Guess it wasn't genuine or maybe Just an isolated vulnerable moment
@bettyboothe2523 When you establish an emotional connection first and don't give in easily, you'll know if he is more serious or not.
Narcissist person won't be genuine ever! Get rid of him asap it will only get worst @@bettyboothe2523
Such a good explanation! I'm so guilty of mommy energy. Mainly because that's the model my mother gave me. Learning about feminine energy over a year ago completely shifted my relationship. My man went from distant and unhappy. He now can't get enough of me. He completely shifted into his masculinity. It's insane the difference. Wifey energy for the win!!
Awesome to hear Cindy and keep us posted! :)
This definitely doesn't work in a toxic narcissistic relationship. Men like this can not and will not operate in a healthy masculine energy and therefore it puts his wife having to take on more responsibility and basically become his "other mother" bc he can't and or refuses to step up and handle his ish.
Well that's why you don't date a narcissist.
@@lauraswoboda6265 well yeah....most ppl wouldn't think twice about dating one let alone marrying one "if" they knew that's what the person was right out the gate. If you've never been in a relationship with one then you'll never know just how easy it is to get sucked in by these parasites until experience teaches you what you're dealing with. That's when you do your research and you figure out who and what this person really is, and then do the necessary work to get out. Which is exactly what I did. Thank you.
You don't know they're a narcissist at first.. well now I will know but I didn't with my ex husband till it was years in. I agree with this video amd see exactly how I was acting like this when I couldn't trust him. I prefer the man to lead and be masculine.
@@gvintage I agree with you as this is also my story as well. It wasn't until I was 15 years into my almost 20 year marriage when I started noticing just how deceptive he really was and is esp since he moved in with his AP literally the day after leaving me. Talk about planning and playing his cards just right. Never again.
I’ve given up! I’m sick to death of playing these endless mind games - constantly thinking before I do what comes normally to me. If a man can’t fathom my worth by who I present to him, he can sod off and go make some other bint’s life a misery: I’m fine.
Yasss!!! Just be you, love you, and if a man doesn't, clearly he isn't meant to be. So tired of these videos telling people what and how they need to be for the opposite gender.
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ME 2😅😂
I am with you. I agree with you. Blessings sister.
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Amen 🙏
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Here is the thing, sometimes you enter into a relationship with a wifey energy, and that man brings momy energy out of you.
So before you try to change your energies, make sure to choose the right man.
So true!
This is your absolute best video, hands down. I saved it so I can rewatch and commit these concepts to memory. It was so helpful to have included the slides with the info, too! Thank you so much and God bless you!
I love the expression "wifey energy" it is so on point!
But for that man should be matured enough to fix all things in a right way and not screw up things with his decision
Haha. My ex never would read directions that came with the ikea furniture and he often screwed up the assembly 🤦🏼♀️🤯😭
Girls listen! We are sold a lie! That marriage is a wonderful loving life fulfilling thing! No! It is a life sucking, tiresome, exhausting, servitude contract with the wrong partner! Ask if he is exuding “true partner” energy NOT if you are exuding “WIFEY” energy!
This video was INCREDIBLE! Thankful to know I’m heavy in my Wifey Energy😌💋
Ok but we can’t control which energy we give. It’s also a reaction to how the guy behaves, for example if he isn’t consistent this might trigger mommy energy. It’s not always women fault for everything
you’re absolutely correct.
No, you're not correct - the reason is that you are an adult and you can choose your response and behaviour and that is what sends out mommy/wifey energy.
I know there is a subconscious element to this which other people can pick up on in spite of what you do, and this is probably what you mean, but you really do have a choice in how you respond to things.
You can respond to his behaviour by thinking "I need to control him" OR "I need to understand him", those are both options and you can choose to adopt either of these attitudes.
There is a gap between something happening and you choosing your response. Sometimes that gap is small (e.g. instinctual or impulsive reactions) and sometimes it is longer (e.g. when you carefully consider your response).
That gap is when you choose how to respond.
So you can literally choose to respond with wifey energy or mommy energy, it really is up to you. I'm not saying it's easy, because it usually isn't. It requires courage and discipline, a little bit of humility. But you can definitely choose how you respond. The idea that you can't is just an excuse
@@thecurrentmoment some things people can sense
@@kc17131 I agree, but it's possible to control what energy we give off, whereas you said we can't.
If he is triggering ur mommy energy mostly than wifey, there should be settled a line
This is one of the best videos ever on feminine energy as it gives so many examples of what not to say and what to say. I’ve certainly been guilty of nagging, taking over and mummy energy. No more!! I’m going to work on being in my feminine, appreciation and hopefully inspiration.
Awesome, so glad you liked it Linda! :)
You nailed it! One can tell you’re very dedicated and conscientous!
Thanks and glad you liked it!
Some men need a mommy. I never want that again lol
Interesting, but one ought to be careful not to go into "daughter" energy and become like a child instead of a wife?
Yes, this is an interesting difference
Yes interesting difference
I'd say just stay focused on "Wifey" energy in your feminine receptivity and openness
I disagree each man pull the energy they need from the woman and some men are looking for a mommy....those you just stay away from!
This was very insightful.
Sorry if this is an overly basic question, but, how does a wife handle cooking without seeming too mommyish?
I wondered that too!
@natcheztracefan ...
... Q. How to handle cooking without seeming too Mommy-ish energy wise?
I would say ask him what he wants for dinner before you cook/prepare it for him.
Pick 2 or 3 things you'd be willing to make and have the ingredients for ... and ask him to choose between them.
I think that is a subtle way to shift from Mommy to Wifey when making dinner.
@@jcjohnsong8570
Good advice. Thank you.
If he cooks .. cook together.. Share ideas ❤
@@jcjohnsong8570 He gets what I give him and eats it, I wouldn't pussy foot around any man.
What you describe as a mommy energy is not mommy energy when it comes to an adult man woman relationship. It is just wife energy that is not developed and used in a toxic way. It doesnt have to do anything with mothering. Sadly 😢
Btw what you describe as mommy energy, moms shouldnt do either to their children.
good point
Things like sending reminders I don’t think is a big deal. I know a lot of guys who appreciate reminders from their wives or gfs. They get so busy and they forget and I don’t think gentle reminders mean you’re necessarily stepping into mommy energy.
Overall point taken, though. Thank you.
You have to be able to trust him to do this. Most men are not trustwirthee.
And this guy is brainwashing people to do as he would like, he doesn't sound masculine, he doesn't look masculine.🙄
As a woman, how do we ask for commitment while maintaining this energy?
Merci, just in Time before my date with a much younger man!
Much💖 From South of France
this video format suits me a lot
Great to hear!
Yes! Presentation style! Simple but suits me too.
Being open and vulnerable with my wants and needs in a highly conscious very gentle manner is absolutely NOT working. I embody wifey energy ss my natural nature. Hes being s Brute. Ugggh.
this idiotic - just be yourself
I totally agree💯👌👍
This made me realize how many men out there are actually searching for the mommy energy from their women.
It´s just what they have gotten used to. There are very few women out there with wifey energy. Most women are working hard and managing everything themselves which makes it difficult for them to switch that off and turn to wifey energy around the man they like and letting him manage things. A few years back I tested it out with a guy I met on a dating app. He had only had relationships with woman that helped him out with a lot of stuff, mommy style. I was a lot older than him, so maybe he thought he would get that same mommy vibe from me. But from the first date onwards I stuck to my "wifey vibe". OMG! It worked like magic! For the first time in his life he met a woman that respected him, trusted his lead, asked for his help, for his opinion on my decisions, etc. He was amazing! Did everything for me and was so invested in our relationship and my wellbeing! 😍 Unfortunately, I went back to my needy, demanding and more mommy tendencies and that´s what killed the relationship after 2 years. 🤷♀
I love this!! Best advice and guidance I’ve seen on this!! Are there gonna be more like this type of video to help on the mommy and wifey energy? This is perfect timing because this is great for my new formal relationship. Thank you!!
Likely will be and glad you like it!
This is magic thank you ❤
All of this I'd true, although when a women I'd a feminine nurturer at all times with everyone. It isn't viewed as mommy behavior because he'd know that is who she is at all times not looking for a man at all. This info is good to incorporate at the same time when on the dating scene.
Love this very much. I had an overbearing mother so I wondered where I stood on this very subject. Now I know. Perfect timing. I need to remember these lists also!
Bless your heart for this video. I am a 33 year old woman in a loving relationship. I never knew what I did wrong. I was in the mommy energy. I almost gagged the way you said the things and I really felt ashamed of that behaviour. Thank you for telling both sides so I can fix the problem that I have been carrying with me. Thank you❤❤❤
From my experience he/they didn’t care about wifey energy. If a guy/girl likes you they will like you regardless of “wifey/husband” energy
With my ex I was in my mommy energy and it was so exhausting and annoying. He wasn’t in his masculine energy however so I tried to fill the void.
After years of (happy) singleness I met a man who’s fully in his divine masculinity and it’s been so relaxing and inspiring. It’s like I’m floating and don’t have to try or work for anything. Super comfortable and I didn’t think that I’d experience this in my life.
So a wife must always cater to and encourage, as well as support their man and can never criticize or share feedback that is not positive 24/7. It sounds to me, by this definition, that a wife is always stroking the males ego while the mommy is taking care of things and being honest / upfront with him. They are direct and don't go around the situation but address things. Men don't like to hear where they go wrong where there errors are. Men just like to hear that they are doing well, doing the right thing all the time. They want constant encouragement but are not doing the work and getting the results to gain that encouragement.
What about those of us that are with partners who are either physically or mentally unwell?
Where out of love, loyalty, commitment and compassion your role is to step up and take on the caretaker mommy role.
What if he’s very indecisive and doesn’t take the lead on anything in his own life? Like a doormat
This is pure GOLD❤✨THANK YOU
why do i even bother watching. no one wants me regardless of what i do
Great video. Thanks for the examples
Welcome! :)
I love love love your examples❤
My guy proposed and he is 12 yrs younger!(I:m 63)
Wow best video
I have wifey energy, !!!!
Love this! ❤
Hell no to all woman.
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So I embody both energy then
And I know when to switch
Hi ❤Yesterday I was walking my boss's dogs and I was checking on one of them who is a golden retriever and a man passed by with his dog. The Golden barked and the man, instead of moving away He moving more close to us the dog and I screamed. I'm practicing more about my femininity but I don't know what to do with this man because I meet him when I walk to the dogs. I don't want to smile to him. Many thanks for advice.
I like the video and format 💯 when younger I was both mommy with some, wifey with others including friends other family members and work colleagues ~ today in my silver years I’m mommy’d out ~ all I desire is to be in my divine feminine energy/role. As in another’s comment ‘wifey’ connotates, how do I put this, say inequality unless he’s referred to as the ‘husband’. If he’s in his masculine then I in my feminine! If he’s in his husband then I in my wife role/label.
I am definitely wifey energy !! No doubt about it!!! 😊
Hey great advices❤ It really resonates with me. Will definitely work on being in my feminine energy
Thanks this was very helpful for me
Thanks for this video
I read the empowered wife by Laura Doyle and has been listening to her podcast by the same name. She mentions all of these things, as well as actionable steps to help with the things you talk about. It's incredible how much it has helped my relationship. Keep up the good work!
Welcome!
full support
Great video.
awesome!!
Thank you for this. Appreciate the help.
Glad it was helpful!
Great reminder! Thank you!
Welcome!
So is cooking and cleaning for your man “mommy energy?”
It can be if he didn't ask for it
@@MagnetizeYourMan Women have always cooked and cleaned for men.....why would you want to change this, it's called looking after you're husband and home.....not mommy energy, do you have to ask you're wife to cook for you, if so......she is not taking care of you, do you have to ask her to clean the house🤔🙄
His wifey looks brainwashed ,they look like part of a cult🤔