Beautiful video. Thank you for sharing. Late ADHDer here and I totally get the journey of coming to terms with a new identity. I also embraced the grey 3 years ago and never looked back. I get so many compliments from women young and old. Plus it saves me so much time and money 🥰
Thank you Bev! I wish the gray would just grow in and be compliant! Lol. It seems to grow in literally ONE STRAND AT A TIME. And mostly underneath. So when my hair is down, I look like I have none. But if I put it up, it’s all there around my ears. Weird pattern!
I just turned 50 this year and so much of your story mirrors mine. Life is rarely traveled down a smooth, well-paved road. Lots of speed bumps, potholes, and detours along the way. However, the growth that comes from the journey is worth more than gold.❤
Absolutely agree! I appreciate you stopping in to comment. I see that you’re a new channel! Welcome! I have connected with an amazing group of female content creators over the age of 45 who all help support each other’s channels and their success. If you spend time in the comments, you’ll likely meet many of them. We also have a private FB group for support. I’d love to have you join!
Thank you for this raw and honest self-reflection of your journey. So much of what you’ve said also resonates with me. I lost my mom 6 years ago and the grief, as painful as it was, has brought out in me that inner strength I’ve been feeling but never expressing much. Your mom would be - no, she IS- so proud of the stronger and better version of yourself you’re evolving into. Sending so much love, light, and hugs your way ❤❤
May I begin by saying…you are glowing in this video. Just radiant! You are resilient, you are strong, you are vulnerable and you are the true example of not giving up. What really shines through is your desire to keep evolving, to keep growing and to learn from all the fresh starts, loss and brand new information you have received about yourself! I’m so happy you are here on YT and it’s evolved into a healing journey that you are brave enough to share with the world which is not an easy task. I LOVE exactly the Jen I had the honor of physically spending a day with. You were a true gift to me that Tuesday in the city park. Thank you. Cheers to fresh starts! Yay! Art! Art heals too! I believe this ❤❤ You would make a great coach! What a gift you are to me and whoever else has had the privilege to watch this video❤ Gray is a crown of wisdom and beauty. I keep waiting for my hair to turn gray. I have an entire Pinterest board of gray haired woman who confidently walk this earth. It’s a badge they have earned. Just me and my long winded comments ❤😂 love you Jen. Keep going!
Thank you so much 😀. I appreciate you letting me know. That’s why I have this channel…to reach others who can benefit from the stories and experiences of my life. This is how we understand ourselves. ✨✨
Thank you for sharing, Jen. Many people do not take time to look back on their journeys. If they did, they would discover, just like you, there is beauty, knowledge, and purpose sprinkled throughout. ❤
My dad is slowly declining in his cognitive abilities and it’s truly heartbreaking. We don’t ever think those strong individuals whom we have loved for so long will ever go through that or leave us. And then they do. It’s heart breaking. I lost my brother when he was 33. Sometimes life isn’t fair. Thanks for sharing this. Can’t say I didn’t tear up. 😢 ❤
Sending a hug to you. We never really are prepared for loss. At least not for the emotional parts. I hope that women telling stories to each other can help. 💕✨.
An odd.sidr effect of being a beauty creator is becoming more comfortable with my aging skin, hair, and body. I stopped coloring in April, and I'm so excited as my gray is coming in. I can't wait to see if I'm silver or white or?? I dont think I ever want to use the words anti-aging again. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. I enjoyed getting to know you better. I wish I could just give you a hug.
I recently turned 50 and feeling the pull of another fresh start. I too lost my mother and am still in the grieving and processing stage of loss. My youngest is now an adult and though 3 of my kids still live at home, they are off doing their thing. At times I couldn't wait for this stage of life and I'm excited about it but also it's hard letting go. I love getting older. i love the wisdom I have now but not too thrilled about the changes to my body. lol But I'll take it for the experience. I used to color my hair until I lost most of it during chemotherapy. Now I embrace my white/gray/blonde hair. I love getting older and I'm proud of my hair and my laugh lines. It's a beautiful time in my life even though there are big challenges.
I appreciate your comment so much. It’s affirming for me to hear the stories of other women embracing their aging. Because my mom didn’t embrace her opportunities, I didn’t have a model for how to be older. And since my sister and I are estranged, I cannot reference her experience either. Regarding the kids, I remember not too long ago I was driving somewhere and keenly aware that I wasn’t thinking about my son, who was off at college. The next moment, I was in TEARS 😭 that I hadn’t been thinking of him and what a horrible parent I was! Oy! When I calmed down, I came to my senses and realized that I must have been securely processing that transition. Eventually I was able to celebrate! We go through SO MUCH. STUFF!
Oh yes, we have so many fresh starts. Situations are always changing and our road through life is exciting. As long as we improve and are happy we can digest the change easy. We should always go mentally with a vision, in this way we can prepare our way and are not be delivered to the directions of others. It's good to be always connected to good spirits. Much love 💕 Matthias 👋
It’s my pleasure. I’ve always allowed myself to be vulnerable. Not all have appreciated that about me. But here, I’ve found those who relate and I’m thrilled!😁
I’m so amazed at how far apart we are physically and how different our lives may seem, yet we share so many similar experiences! It almost feels like I know you somehow... haha! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and making me feel like I’m not alone in the struggles and sudden changes I've had to navigate. ❤
I felt that same way when I found your channel. For me, it’s something about your gentle demeanor, and deep wisdom. It just feels very safe. 💕✨. Thank you for being here. 🙏
I love the transparency! You should feel better, doing this video was a form of therapy that we all needed! Things will get better and better over time! You’re still young and have a lot more living to do! And last, you have a glow that i couldn’t figure out but any who, you look great! Youthful! 😊😊😊
Awww…that’s sweet. Someone else mentioned a glow too! I’m not sure. Maybe just from feeling open and free…releasing hurts…like you said…therapeutic. Thank you for such kindness!🙏✨💕
This needs a lot if courage to open up on social media Sending you cheer and encouragement Jen! I too am an empty nester finding my purpose apart from the roles I have been playing till now. So I came in the world of content creation as I love to share, whatever little and big I know and share it so that it could be helpful to anyone who might need it. Since I am on 73 subs right now so still struggling to find my audience But I will continue ❤
@@beautifullifesageg.3951 Thanks Jen I am part of your journey since 65 subscribers . Best wishes again May we all cheer and support each other✨️😇 Sometimes I wish that someone comes and guides me ,but I know that it is our own journey and we all will learn and know as long as we keep on going 💞💞
Thank you for sharing this! I lost my Momma in 2023 complications of dementia … it was a tragic way she left this world. But I do feel your pain. Right now I am struggling with some things … I miss my momma and rethinking my you tube journey . This week someone I love very much got super low and felt that not being in this world was a better option for him… I love you my friend . I love your content… I feel we are connected in so many ways . ❤
Hi Candace. May his memory be a blessing. We’re connected bc we’re on similar journeys I believe and our light has found each other. Sending you warm hugs and friendship. Let me know how you’re doing.
That was powerful, Jen! Thanks for sharing. As a young parent, it is good for me to understand there will be many ups and downs in the road ahead and my approach will have to adapt every time. ❤
You are welcome..and yes! Adapting is a must! Right now, my almost 19 year old wants my help at THE SAME TIME that she wants independence from me. LOL. I have no idea if I’m coming or going with her most days. The parenting journey is a challenging one, but equally beautiful and fulfilling.
This video has helped me send a heartfelt text to someone in my family circle that i have been hold back from sending , your journey clip reminded me theres is no time like the now!! Thank u. your doing it!!
Oh my goodness, I’m crying for the second video in a row! Jen, this is so moving and relatable and inspiring. You are really finding your authentic voice and I’m here for it! Again I love your setting and the casual chat approach. Thank you for your brave honesty. Your radiant inner light is shining through! ❤️✨❤✨❤️✨❤️✨
What a beautiful comment to read! Thank you, Jennifer. I feel much more confident sharing here in the truest sense. I have to wear a teacher mask all day. It feels wonderful to just get to be me. 💕🥰
Thanks, Anne. Shifting is a great way to explain it. That’s what it feels like. I need to make some art to express some of this. I just don’t k ow where I want to start. But it’s brewing for sure!
🩷🩷🩷 I relate to so much of what you said, I lost my dad recently and he was my person, I am constantly recalibrating. My daughter leaves for college in two weeks & I can barely wrap my brain around this - life, right.. Thank you for sharing so much, so honestly.
It’s a pleasure Jessie. I believe that we need to share our stories to connect and help others to see themselves and if needed, to heal. More to come! 🙏✨
Thank you for sharing all of this, Jen. What a beautiful way to honor your mom. 💞 Looking forward to see what this next season in your life brings. (P.S. You must know that I will cheer you on in regards to the gray hair bit.) 😂💖
Our journeys are so similar. Please try to make up with your sister. No matter your differences, it’s the stress of caring for a parent with dementia that has split you up not your differences or you as people. Xx
Oh my we have a lot in common. I am 55, divorced and found my soul mate in 2011. But also with a 12 year old daughter and all of that going on with the divorce. But then in 2015 my mom was also having cognitive decline and she was always my anchor and the strong one for me. However, like you the roles reversed and it was so hard. I was a teacher, but quit to take care of her and my dad also. It was horrible time, but thankfully my husband was my rock through it all. I also had signs from my mom after she passed. I was so close to her also. I feel exactly like you with my mom now not being here. I also had a relationship with a sister and a brother also are gone. Thankfully, am super close to one of my sisters. But I also became really spiritual and have become more insightful and less anxious. Has taken a lot of time though. I had PTSD after taking care of my parents. And then of course menopause was not an easy transition either. So yes, I relate a lot to your video. Oh, and my daughters now is 24 and doing great with a wonderful boyfriend and self-sufficient.
Yes…our experiences do align a great deal. I’m glad that you found value in hearing a similar story. It’s just a reminder to me how powerful this platform can be in helping validate our experiences through the storytelling of others! Thanks for coming in to comment. ✨💕🙏
Jen, this is a perfect video; it's beautiful. You went through so much change, but you also went through so much growth. Be comforted in knowing that your mom raised you to be the daughter you needed to be. Missing our moms can sometimes take a long while to handle. Your identity is composed of so parts and layers that you are still discovering. It is a gift to be able to acknowledge your changing roles in life. As long as you are growing and giving and loving, your mom is always with you. She must have been an incredible person and parent.
Thank you Ray. My mom was a very quiet person…unless she was mad. Lol. I was mostly scared of her as a kid bc she would go from super quiet to rage full in an instant. She never hurt me..I just didn’t understand her need. We started to become much closer when I became a mother. There just wasn’t enough time to build our adult relationship. I would have liked that very much. 💕😢
Oh goodness, Friend! I am feeling this all the way through! Love the setting as it is so calming and relaxing. Your emotions are very genuine and makes me as a viewer feel it so much! I know what grief is all about. Besides my oldest son passing away, I can definitely sense the grief of the other parts of life changing. I love the idea of the new identity and taking that in. I love how you are still reading from your notes and sharing genuinely. That makes me feel better to know that it is okay to do that. As for financial...I took the Dave Ramsey course and it helped me tremendously. Definitely worth it. I'm so glad you are starting to focus on you! I am definitely letting my hair go gray...I used to color my hair but not for years now! Gray is beautiful on a lot of women. Do you have more information on finding out about being Autistic at an older age? I've always been curious especially since my youngest son has aspergers. I feel I may have some traits but not sure. I'm so sorry about your mom. So sweet that this is dedicated to her. What a great and emotional video! This will be a great new chapter for you! 🙂
Thanks for all the love sent.💕✨. That is right next to my bed in my room. I LOVE my bed so I thought I’d showcase my favorite spot! lol. I cannot imagine the grief you must have felt at that time. A good friend of mine lost her teenage daughter about 4 years ago, at age 18. She and my son knew each other since day care. She turned her grief into something wonderful though and made a foundation in her daughter’s name. I’ll be exploring more of the depths of me soon. I feel as women, we are expected to be able to do so much and forget that we must take a step back sometimes to heal all the stuff we leave behind bc we are so busy being moms, wives, employees, etc…
My feeling is this: if you are blessed to live long enough to have gray hair, celebrate your grey and own it.
Okay! It’s a deal!
Beautiful video. Thank you for sharing. Late ADHDer here and I totally get the journey of coming to terms with a new identity. I also embraced the grey 3 years ago and never looked back. I get so many compliments from women young and old. Plus it saves me so much time and money 🥰
Thank you Bev! I wish the gray would just grow in and be compliant! Lol. It seems to grow in literally ONE STRAND AT A TIME. And mostly underneath. So when my hair is down, I look like I have none. But if I put it up, it’s all there around my ears. Weird pattern!
I totally understand losing your mom, that’s so hard, I’m sorry for all of your loss.
Thank you for sharing and being so real.
I just turned 50 this year and so much of your story mirrors mine. Life is rarely traveled down a smooth, well-paved road. Lots of speed bumps, potholes, and detours along the way. However, the growth that comes from the journey is worth more than gold.❤
Absolutely agree! I appreciate you stopping in to comment. I see that you’re a new channel! Welcome! I have connected with an amazing group of female content creators over the age of 45 who all help support each other’s channels and their success. If you spend time in the comments, you’ll likely meet many of them. We also have a private FB group for support. I’d love to have you join!
Just found your channel! Love it. a 57 year old watching from Cape Town South Africa
Welcome in! Thank you for taking the time to show your appreciation with that kind comment. ✨🙏
55 year old here also from Cape Town South Africa. Lovely channel will subscribe now.
@@Savour_the_Moments thank you so much! I appreciate you being here! 💕✨
Hugs ❤
Thank you! Accepting it warmly! 🤗
Thank you for this raw and honest self-reflection of your journey. So much of what you’ve said also resonates with me. I lost my mom 6 years ago and the grief, as painful as it was, has brought out in me that inner strength I’ve been feeling but never expressing much. Your mom would be - no, she IS- so proud of the stronger and better version of yourself you’re evolving into. Sending so much love, light, and hugs your way ❤❤
We all go through this. NOT alone
Yes..so true. Thanks for coming in to comment , KayLynn. 🙏✨
May I begin by saying…you are glowing in this video. Just radiant!
You are resilient, you are strong, you are vulnerable and you are the true example of not giving up.
What really shines through is your desire to keep evolving, to keep growing and to learn from all the fresh starts, loss and brand new information you have received about yourself!
I’m so happy you are here on YT and it’s evolved into a healing journey that you are brave enough to share with the world which is not an easy task.
I LOVE exactly the Jen I had the honor of physically spending a day with. You were a true gift to me that Tuesday in the city park.
Thank you. Cheers to fresh starts! Yay! Art! Art heals too! I believe this ❤❤
You would make a great coach!
What a gift you are to me and whoever else has had the privilege to watch this video❤
Gray is a crown of wisdom and beauty. I keep waiting for my hair to turn gray. I have an entire Pinterest board of gray haired woman who confidently walk this earth. It’s a badge they have earned.
Just me and my long winded comments ❤😂 love you Jen. Keep going!
Love you right back! Btw…your hair is EXTRAORDINARY ! I have a bit of envy. 🙃❤️. I so appreciate your warm comment. I feel it all the in there💕💕.
ABSOLUTELY amazing videos sharing dear friend ❤️
Really enjoyed watching ❤❤
Super big big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍👍👍
See you again take care keep intouch ❤
Hey there! Thanks for the love in this video. It was an emotional one to make. I hope you come back for more soon. 🙏✨
Such inspirational video, thank you ❤❤❤
Always a pleasure! Thanks for always being here!
Just want to add, YES to the grey hair! 😍😍😍
I’ll let it come in…it’s just taking SO LONG! LOL.
@@beautifullifesageg.3951 Growing it is a process in itself! But it's totally worth it. 💯🤍
Your words are very inspiring ❤
Thank you so much 😀. I appreciate you letting me know. That’s why I have this channel…to reach others who can benefit from the stories and experiences of my life. This is how we understand ourselves. ✨✨
Thank you for sharing, Jen. Many people do not take time to look back on their journeys. If they did, they would discover, just like you, there is beauty, knowledge, and purpose sprinkled throughout. ❤
You said this perfectly! Yes. More of us need to bE telling our stories to help guide each other. Thanks for those words! 🙏✨
My dad is slowly declining in his cognitive abilities and it’s truly heartbreaking. We don’t ever think those strong individuals whom we have loved for so long will ever go through that or leave us. And then they do. It’s heart breaking. I lost my brother when he was 33. Sometimes life isn’t fair. Thanks for sharing this. Can’t say I didn’t tear up. 😢 ❤
Sending a hug to you. We never really are prepared for loss. At least not for the emotional parts. I hope that women telling stories to each other can help. 💕✨.
nice video..well done..from one 50 plusser to another
Thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to comment. 💕✨
I love your vulnerability in this video. Thank you so much for sharing
Thanks for watching!
An odd.sidr effect of being a beauty creator is becoming more comfortable with my aging skin, hair, and body. I stopped coloring in April, and I'm so excited as my gray is coming in. I can't wait to see if I'm silver or white or??
I dont think I ever want to use the words anti-aging again.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. I enjoyed getting to know you better. I wish I could just give you a hug.
Thanks for the kindness! I’ll take a hug anytime. 🙌🥰. Poo to anti-aging! LOL.
I recently turned 50 and feeling the pull of another fresh start. I too lost my mother and am still in the grieving and processing stage of loss. My youngest is now an adult and though 3 of my kids still live at home, they are off doing their thing. At times I couldn't wait for this stage of life and I'm excited about it but also it's hard letting go. I love getting older. i love the wisdom I have now but not too thrilled about the changes to my body. lol But I'll take it for the experience. I used to color my hair until I lost most of it during chemotherapy. Now I embrace my white/gray/blonde hair. I love getting older and I'm proud of my hair and my laugh lines. It's a beautiful time in my life even though there are big challenges.
I appreciate your comment so much. It’s affirming for me to hear the stories of other women embracing their aging. Because my mom didn’t embrace her opportunities, I didn’t have a model for how to be older. And since my sister and I are estranged, I cannot reference her experience either. Regarding the kids, I remember not too long ago I was driving somewhere and keenly aware that I wasn’t thinking about my son, who was off at college. The next moment, I was in TEARS 😭 that I hadn’t been thinking of him and what a horrible parent I was! Oy! When I calmed down, I came to my senses and realized that I must have been securely processing that transition. Eventually I was able to celebrate! We go through SO MUCH. STUFF!
Oh yes, we have so many fresh starts. Situations are always changing and our road through life is exciting.
As long as we improve and are happy we can digest the change easy.
We should always go mentally with a vision, in this way we can prepare our way and are not be delivered to the directions of others.
It's good to be always connected to good spirits.
Much love 💕
Matthias 👋
That’s a great sentiment…”always be connected to good spirits!” Thank you for your sage advice! 💕✨
@@beautifullifesageg.3951 Always welcome!
Have a fabulous weekend ✨️
Much love 💕
Matthias 👋
Only in hindsight can we see the valuable lessons. ❤
Yes! This is true. 💕✨🙏
I so appreciate your vulnerability. You are on a remarkable journey and your mom would be so proud of you. Thank you for taking us along.
It’s my pleasure. I’ve always allowed myself to be vulnerable. Not all have appreciated that about me. But here, I’ve found those who relate and I’m thrilled!😁
I’m so amazed at how far apart we are physically and how different our lives may seem, yet we share so many similar experiences! It almost feels like I know you somehow... haha! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and making me feel like I’m not alone in the struggles and sudden changes I've had to navigate. ❤
I felt that same way when I found your channel. For me, it’s something about your gentle demeanor, and deep wisdom. It just feels very safe. 💕✨. Thank you for being here. 🙏
@@beautifullifesageg.3951 🤗🥰❤
I love the transparency! You should feel better, doing this video was a form of therapy that we all needed! Things will get better and better over time! You’re still young and have a lot more living to do! And last, you have a glow that i couldn’t figure out but any who, you look great! Youthful! 😊😊😊
Awww…that’s sweet. Someone else mentioned a glow too! I’m not sure. Maybe just from feeling open and free…releasing hurts…like you said…therapeutic. Thank you for such kindness!🙏✨💕
This is beautiful ✨ "I don't want it to end before I've become everything I want to be!" ❤️
Thank you. I’m glad that resonated with you. I mentioned that to my therapist once, and she replied the same way. But it feels so true. 💕✨
This needs a lot if courage to open up on social media
Sending you cheer and encouragement Jen!
I too am an empty nester finding my purpose apart from the roles I have been playing till now.
So I came in the world of content creation as I love to share, whatever little and big I know and share it so that it could be helpful to anyone who might need it.
Since I am on 73 subs right now so still struggling to find my audience
But I will continue ❤
Thank you Sindhuja. Your audience will find you. Just continue to do it the way that suits you. 😊
@@beautifullifesageg.3951 Thanks Jen
I am part of your journey since 65 subscribers .
Best wishes again
May we all cheer and support each other✨️😇
Sometimes I wish that someone comes and guides me ,but I know that it is our own journey and we all will learn and know as long as we keep on going 💞💞
Just finished your video. Sending you ❤, and what a beautiful picture you put at the end! 😊❤
Thank you Sofia!
Beautiful story, thank you for sharing it. Life is a constant discovery that’s what is all about ❤
I appreciate how you said that. Constant discovery. Thank you!🙏
Thank you for sharing this! I lost my Momma in 2023 complications of dementia … it was a tragic way she left this world. But I do feel your pain. Right now I am struggling with some things … I miss my momma and rethinking my you tube journey . This week someone I love very much got super low and felt that not being in this world was a better option for him… I love you my friend . I love your content… I feel we are connected in so many ways . ❤
I am so sorry for your losses. Prayers for you as you walk this road of grief. ❤
Candace, how are you rethinking your RUclips journey? Are you ramping up or producing less or thinking of taking a break?
Hi Candace. May his memory be a blessing. We’re connected bc we’re on similar journeys I believe and our light has found each other. Sending you warm hugs and friendship. Let me know how you’re doing.
That was powerful, Jen! Thanks for sharing. As a young parent, it is good for me to understand there will be many ups and downs in the road ahead and my approach will have to adapt every time. ❤
You are welcome..and yes! Adapting is a must! Right now, my almost 19 year old wants my help at THE SAME TIME that she wants independence from me. LOL. I have no idea if I’m coming or going with her most days. The parenting journey is a challenging one, but equally beautiful and fulfilling.
This video has helped me send a heartfelt text to someone in my family circle that i have been hold back from sending , your journey clip reminded me theres is no time like the now!! Thank u. your doing it!!
I’m so happy to hear that I reached you in that way. I hope your message had the desired result. Here’s to healing! 🙏💕✨
Oh my goodness, I’m crying for the second video in a row! Jen, this is so moving and relatable and inspiring. You are really finding your authentic voice and I’m here for it! Again I love your setting and the casual chat approach. Thank you for your brave honesty. Your radiant inner light is shining through! ❤️✨❤✨❤️✨❤️✨
What a beautiful comment to read! Thank you, Jennifer. I feel much more confident sharing here in the truest sense. I have to wear a teacher mask all day. It feels wonderful to just get to be me. 💕🥰
Oh Jen...this was so moving. There are so many layers shifting for you right now, it seems! A beautiful thing to witness.
Thanks, Anne. Shifting is a great way to explain it. That’s what it feels like. I need to make some art to express some of this. I just don’t k ow where I want to start. But it’s brewing for sure!
🩷🩷🩷 I relate to so much of what you said, I lost my dad recently and he was my person, I am constantly recalibrating. My daughter leaves for college in two weeks & I can barely wrap my brain around this - life, right.. Thank you for sharing so much, so honestly.
It’s a pleasure Jessie. I believe that we need to share our stories to connect and help others to see themselves and if needed, to heal. More to come! 🙏✨
Hi! I wish you a great fresh start at school this august and at all the areas you want to get better ❤!
And it has started! Already feeling IT after the first week. I need a week off! Lol
Thank you for sharing all of this, Jen. What a beautiful way to honor your mom. 💞 Looking forward to see what this next season in your life brings. (P.S. You must know that I will cheer you on in regards to the gray hair bit.) 😂💖
✨😁. Thanks for the gray hair cheer! I’m looking forward to the next chapter too. Glad you’re here✨✨ for my ride.
I can relate to so much of this. We are trying to figure out the next step with my MIL. I’m about to be an empty nester too. So many changes in life.
And who prepares us for this? LOL. 😂
Our journeys are so similar. Please try to make up with your sister. No matter your differences, it’s the stress of caring for a parent with dementia that has split you up not your differences or you as people. Xx
Thank you Susan! I appreciate your kind words and concern. 💕✨
Loved teaching Middle School. Before my fall, I was my mil caregiver for 5 years. My next few videos will encourage caregivers.
Thanks for sharing!! 👍💕
Oh my we have a lot in common. I am 55, divorced and found my soul mate in 2011. But also with a 12 year old daughter and all of that going on with the divorce. But then in 2015 my mom was also having cognitive decline and she was always my anchor and the strong one for me. However, like you the roles reversed and it was so hard. I was a teacher, but quit to take care of her and my dad also. It was horrible time, but thankfully my husband was my rock through it all. I also had signs from my mom after she passed. I was so close to her also. I feel exactly like you with my mom now not being here. I also had a relationship with a sister and a brother also are gone. Thankfully, am super close to one of my sisters. But I also became really spiritual and have become more insightful and less anxious. Has taken a lot of time though. I had PTSD after taking care of my parents. And then of course menopause was not an easy transition either. So yes, I relate a lot to your video. Oh, and my daughters now is 24 and doing great with a wonderful boyfriend and self-sufficient.
Yes…our experiences do align a great deal. I’m glad that you found value in hearing a similar story. It’s just a reminder to me how powerful this platform can be in helping validate our experiences through the storytelling of others! Thanks for coming in to comment. ✨💕🙏
Jen, this is a perfect video; it's beautiful. You went through so much change, but you also went through so much growth. Be comforted in knowing that your mom raised you to be the daughter you needed to be. Missing our moms can sometimes take a long while to handle. Your identity is composed of so parts and layers that you are still discovering. It is a gift to be able to acknowledge your changing roles in life. As long as you are growing and giving and loving, your mom is always with you. She must have been an incredible person and parent.
Thank you Ray. My mom was a very quiet person…unless she was mad. Lol. I was mostly scared of her as a kid bc she would go from super quiet to rage full in an instant. She never hurt me..I just didn’t understand her need. We started to become much closer when I became a mother. There just wasn’t enough time to build our adult relationship. I would have liked that very much. 💕😢
Oh goodness, Friend! I am feeling this all the way through! Love the setting as it is so calming and relaxing. Your emotions are very genuine and makes me as a viewer feel it so much! I know what grief is all about. Besides my oldest son passing away, I can definitely sense the grief of the other parts of life changing. I love the idea of the new identity and taking that in. I love how you are still reading from your notes and sharing genuinely. That makes me feel better to know that it is okay to do that. As for financial...I took the Dave Ramsey course and it helped me tremendously. Definitely worth it. I'm so glad you are starting to focus on you! I am definitely letting my hair go gray...I used to color my hair but not for years now! Gray is beautiful on a lot of women. Do you have more information on finding out about being Autistic at an older age? I've always been curious especially since my youngest son has aspergers. I feel I may have some traits but not sure. I'm so sorry about your mom. So sweet that this is dedicated to her. What a great and emotional video! This will be a great new chapter for you! 🙂
Thanks for all the love sent.💕✨. That is right next to my bed in my room. I LOVE my bed so I thought I’d showcase my favorite spot! lol. I cannot imagine the grief you must have felt at that time. A good friend of mine lost her teenage daughter about 4 years ago, at age 18. She and my son knew each other since day care. She turned her grief into something wonderful though and made a foundation in her daughter’s name. I’ll be exploring more of the depths of me soon. I feel as women, we are expected to be able to do so much and forget that we must take a step back sometimes to heal all the stuff we leave behind bc we are so busy being moms, wives, employees, etc…
You have the sincerity sharing thing going nicely and subs are soaring. Way to go. I'm working on a couple and should be lauching shoftly
Thanks Bruce! Looking forward to it!
I should have written above - so many parts and layers. I should stop posting at 3&4 in the morning 😊.
lol. I got it! I’m good with context! 🤖