An American Moves Home || Reverse Culture Shock US vs UK

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @ReddSpark
    @ReddSpark 3 года назад +135

    I’ve just done the reverse and moved back to the UK after 10yrs in the US. My observations are:
    1. Things stay up later in the US.
    2. Supermarkets seem cheaper and healthier in the UK though that depends on where in the US you compare to
    3. Governmental services are so much more efficient in the UK. Difference is stark.
    4. UK towns are smaller but also much more walkable
    5. Political scandals and debate in the UK are so much more normal and tame compared to the divided conspiracy theory craziness of the US
    6. Fewer adverts on tv and better quality tv in general (not bombarded my medical adverts for one thing!)

    • @MagentaOtterTravels
      @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад +14

      I absolutely love how walkable the towns in the UK are. My biggest surprise after moving here.

    • @arlenaholmes
      @arlenaholmes 3 года назад +3

      I'm jealous in a longing to go there way!!!

    • @TR4zest
      @TR4zest 3 года назад +13

      I moved back to the UK after 20 years in Philly. I am not sure I have experienced the governmental services differential. I agree your other points, plus here is what I think:
      1. No co-pay and proof of insurance required to get healthcare is much more civilised.
      2. Vegetables are a real thing as part of a meal.
      3. Restaurant and takeout choices are more international so more variety.
      4. While stabbings in the UK are terrible, not having the nightly news dominated by fatal shootings and fatal housefires is a welcome change.
      5. Towns still have character, rather than the carbon-copy strip malls every few miles with the same box-stores and restaurants repeated, ad nauseum.
      6. Life is less pressured here.

    • @Lxx-tc4xc
      @Lxx-tc4xc 3 года назад +8

      2. USA supermarkets near universities, or in suburbs where the typical family is highly educated, are good. But the quality rapidly goes downhill from there.
      3. In the USA, city, county and state government are often shabby affairs, staffed by unintelligent people.
      6. I have grown more and more impressed with the quality of British TV miniseries.

    • @muzzo23
      @muzzo23 3 года назад +3

      The tv advert breaks are crazy in the US ,commercial breaks every 5-7 minutes,in the UK its a break after 10/12mins for a half hr show or 15/17mins for an hour show

  • @WeAreZilla
    @WeAreZilla 3 года назад +50

    I lived in the UK for several years while in the US military. The military prepared us for culture shock, but when I moved there I fell in love with the country immediately, and transitioned into the culture without a problem. Just a little time to adjust to the British language. I purposely rented a cottage well away from the base, living on the economy and living as a local. The food, the roads, the music, the history, the scenery & nature ... all of it captivated my heart. The thing that tore me apart was moving back to the States ... THAT was my culture shock.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +4

      Reverse culture shock isnt talked about enough!!!

    • @phoenix-xu9xj
      @phoenix-xu9xj Год назад +7

      You will be welcome if you come back.

    • @kevinwhite981
      @kevinwhite981 6 месяцев назад +2

      Hope you can get back to the UK 🇬🇧 we love our American cousins coming to see our little land.😊

  • @redvelvetshoes
    @redvelvetshoes 3 года назад +38

    Our fridges are smaller because most of us are near good supplies of fresh food, so we shop more often.

    • @MagentaOtterTravels
      @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад +2

      Best way to do it!!

    • @davidcook7887
      @davidcook7887 3 года назад +7

      Small v Huge. Everything from kale and lettuce to lamb and ham are grown nearby. The US peeps don’t have that luxury!

    • @MagentaOtterTravels
      @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад +1

      @@davidcook7887 True. The only thing that’s better here in Texas are avocados!

  • @samhunter1205
    @samhunter1205 3 года назад +39

    I just wanted to make a point about your comments about the NHS. While it is currently under more pressure than ever before, I doubt you will find more than a handful of Brits who would swap it for the US healthcare system. That said, British people can sometimes dump on the US way too much - it is almost a cliche here to dismiss a problem (especially racism) by saying it is not as bad as the US. I would just like to say that the US has enormous cultural.impact here, and no-one I know wishes any Ill will to the American people. It is heartbreaking to hear about US citizens struggling with healthcare costs, which is not a thing most people in the UK even think about. I have worked in the NHS and been politically active for a long time, so I am happy to elaborate on the advantages and disadvantages of the NHS (it is almost all positive), but for anyone thinking someone promoting 'socialised.medicine' is attacking the US - please realise this is not the case. It is awful to see our brothers and sisters across the pond deal with some unspeakable situations, and remember, the US spends nearly DOUBLE what the UK does on healthcare per capita. Anyone who wishes to know more, feel free to ask in the comments, and for anyone who feels like 'socialised medicine' is anti-American, please ask yourself what could be more anti-American than a system that impoverishes and denies healthcare to so many of your citizens?

  • @wasp6594
    @wasp6594 3 года назад +71

    When I worked in the US, I soon realised that to Americans 100 years was a long time and to sn Englishman 100 miles was a long way!

  • @nickmail7604
    @nickmail7604 3 года назад +9

    The customer service differance is because in the state's service workers are paid so poorly they are practically working for nothing, they are so dependant on the kindness of strangers tipping well for their service, In Europe and the UK we pay service trades enough that they can live without having to beg.

  • @glastonbury4304
    @glastonbury4304 3 года назад +33

    I think customer service is great in big cities in US and awful in small towns whereas the opposite is true in the UK

  • @VegasVegas618
    @VegasVegas618 3 года назад +58

    Great video… my brother lives in the US and I recognise your list. Our NHS isn’t perfect but it is still amazing… and free at source no matter what your social standing and ability to pay.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +16

      NHS is exactly as you describe, not perfect, but amazing.

    • @huwtindall7096
      @huwtindall7096 3 года назад +10

      I'm Australian in the UK and our version of the NHS, called Medicare, is great. Like NHS+. Was based on the original NHS model but from what I can tell the NHS has been significantly underfunded for the last couple of decades. Still an awesome model for healthcare but just needs more funding! Feel super lucky to have lived in both countries with proper healthcare. One of the fundamentals of a functioning society.

    • @ForCYP
      @ForCYP 3 года назад +6

      NHS England is now being Americanised. Transforming into 42 differently structured Integrated Care Systems based on US Accountable Care Organisations (the Kaiser Permanente Model & Medicare for-profit Managed Care (MCOs) It is not focused on patient care but on balance sheets. It will lead to disintegration, removal of services, extreme private involvement, less funding and denial of care. Privatisation till it is unrecognisable. In addition to this the US Healthcare Insurance corporation Centene now own 58 GP practices in England. This will lead to a reduction in referrals, less clinical resource, reduction of services, less skill mixed staff and commerical use of data. York Hospital is about to privatize the A&E department, this is the so called Integrated Urgent Care. UnitedHealth Group’s Optum (Optum Health Solutions UK) is also set to take control of the ICS budgets, implementing their population health management software (denial of care). Help stop NHS privatisation now search we own it, keep our NHS Public, just treatment. Join a campaign or simply message your MP and all your lower authority representatives.
      We must reinstate the NHS as publicly owned and publicly operated, fully funded, transparent, comprehensive and accountable to local communities. We must get back to the original far superior Beveridge model

    • @ForCYP
      @ForCYP 3 года назад +8

      @@huwtindall7096 the NHS doesn’t just need more funding it needs to return to the Beveridge model. It’s literally turning into a privatised US Medicare for-profit Managed Care model. It’s so depressingly sad.

    • @sEaNoYeAh
      @sEaNoYeAh 3 года назад

      @@ForCYP the NHS must be protected fiercely. Unfortunately the original principles are not sustainable long-term and eventually we're going to have to figure out what to do about that. The problem is declining public health, illnesses related to lifestyle choices cost the NHS well over £11 billion per year. That's things like smoking, excessive drinking, obesity. We've got 3 million people on the waiting list for non-essential surgery and a good portion of those could have been avoided with people living healthier lives. With people living longer but also being more overweight and less fit, the cost of each person to the NHS is going up, which means the scope of what the National Health Service is supposed to be and needs to achieve has increased. Chopping up the NHS and selling the parts of certainly is abhorrent, but something will have to change and probably will have to be within the next 10 years. Of course if we could just get the population to make healthier choices we wouldn't need to deal with this.

  • @alfreddunn03
    @alfreddunn03 3 года назад +8

    Nice balanced view, what I have noticed in last few years is, how many Americans are moving to the U.K.

  • @jeremypearson6852
    @jeremypearson6852 3 года назад +48

    I’m a Brit that’s lived in Florida for 37 years. There is no utopia that I’m aware of. Every country has its problems. I can probably list a dozen things that are better or worse between the UK and the US. We definitely need to realize that whatever side of the pond we live in that we’re very fortunate. Choosing one country over another really depends on where your interests lie. English people tell me I’m so fortunate to live in Florida and Americans ask me why I would ever leave the UK. It’s all a matter of perspective.

    • @BassandoForte
      @BassandoForte 3 года назад +9

      You've even taken up US spelling you traitor - "realiZe"..?? 🤣🤣

    • @lucylane7397
      @lucylane7397 3 года назад +5

      It’s not even the same country that you left very different now

    • @musicloverlondon6070
      @musicloverlondon6070 3 года назад

      Nice comment.👍

    • @davidcook7887
      @davidcook7887 3 года назад

      The grass is always greener.

    • @TR4zest
      @TR4zest 3 года назад +4

      I had 20 years in the US and I largely agree. The biggie for me was healthcare. Since my 60th birthday, my prescriptions are free in the UK. They are free for the unemployed. They are free for pregnant women. I just wish the US could change its mindset on healthcare as it could be so much better. Oh, and the guns.

  • @robertkirk4387
    @robertkirk4387 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for popping By, I hope all goes well back home.

  • @andrewthomas405
    @andrewthomas405 3 года назад +8

    It’s nice to have your observations on our cultures .....I’m British and I have an American fishing buddy (bill) from New Jersey when we’re away on one of our trips I think we both appreciate each other’s outlook on life , plus the banter we have. I think it enhances the trip in general . Just one thing my body really craves fresh greens whilst I’m away 👍👍👍👍🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸😎

  • @robertjackson3819
    @robertjackson3819 3 года назад +9

    Hey, Matthew. I'm an American living in the UK since 2018. I love it. I thought we were kindred and always enjoyed your videos. I'm wondering if you'll ever consider coming back.

    • @weepair2
      @weepair2 Год назад

      I hope not

    • @phoenix-xu9xj
      @phoenix-xu9xj Год назад +3

      @@weepair2wtf not ?? Rude Don’t watch if you don’t like

    • @lawrenceglaister4364
      @lawrenceglaister4364 Год назад

      ​@@phoenix-xu9xj , I think you'll find that he's extracting the urine ie taking the piss , a touch of sarcasm

  • @garymiller1256
    @garymiller1256 3 года назад +13

    I would think customer service in the USA is better because they expect a tip whereas you don't necessarily tip in the UK

    • @RichardBarclay
      @RichardBarclay 3 года назад +1

      Count me as one who feels like it seems fake, customer service in the UK feels like a real person helping you out in the US or feels like an employee doing their job whether they want to or not.

    • @gsotoaz
      @gsotoaz 3 года назад

      I looove US customer service.

  • @KopCole
    @KopCole 3 года назад +5

    “They’re barely food”…that made me laugh out loud ..brilliant

  • @may_68
    @may_68 3 года назад +11

    Sorry to hear that you had to leave the UK due to Covid Visa issues. I thought you'd just returned for work. Hope you get the chance to come back.

  • @MagentaOtterTravels
    @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад +5

    Good to see you again Matt! Hope the family are all doing well 💕

  • @artspooner
    @artspooner 3 года назад +5

    It’s important to note that the issues with the NHS are essentially political/funding. Imagine what the NHS would be like if we spent the same amount of money as the US does on its public healthcare (ie not even including private spending). It could easily be the best healthcare system in the world for outcomes. The U.K. spends very little of its GDP on healthcare compared to other developed nations. It therefore delivers a lot for very little.

  • @Theremedialgash
    @Theremedialgash 3 года назад +6

    Delightful as always - I am from the UK but have several American friends, including one of my good friends ex-wife. She started appreciating good curry, but most of all the NHS - I'm in Wales where we have free meds - paid by taxes and it rains quite a bit, my thermometer says it's 27 °C = 80.6 °F - not super warm , but it's July so in a maritime climate it's rarely too cool or hot - it does rain quite a bit bit but I can't really complain.
    In Wales we have free prescriptions and free access to hospitals - it breaks my heart when I hear of the the population of the richest country in the world going bankrupt for essential surgery
    Much love from Wales.
    XXX.

    • @davidcook7887
      @davidcook7887 3 года назад

      It’s not free it’s just that you pay out of taxes rather than you decide, or not , to pay an insurance company.

    • @grahamsmith9541
      @grahamsmith9541 3 года назад +1

      @@davidcook7887 We all know that. We also know how much of our wages go towards it. We get a statement from the tax office each year telling us where our tax was spent the previous year.

  • @petehall1985
    @petehall1985 3 года назад +3

    The big one for me is health care and primarily that pre existing conditions cant be covered with the insurance companies and hospitals able to just refuse you cover or care for things that will determine if you are alive in the morning

  • @tonys1636
    @tonys1636 3 года назад +13

    I had some friends who emigrated to the US, he through work, his wife had a baby born with complications and she suffered post natal complications as well, the Insurance refused to pay and after a costly legal battle they had to declare bankruptcy, coming back with nothing to the UK, fortunately his employer provided support once back home but unable whilst in the US. It was a subsidiary company in the US that actually employed him not the UK parent company. Says a lot for US companies providing care for employees.

    • @brentwoodbay
      @brentwoodbay 3 года назад +5

      Good grief!

    • @grahvis
      @grahvis 3 года назад +7

      It is very telling that the US is the only country in the world, other than a very few small island countries, where employees do not have a legal right to paid annual leave.

    • @citizenpb
      @citizenpb 3 года назад +1

      @@grahvis Who do you think pays for the "paid" annual leave we get in the UK?

    • @grahvis
      @grahvis 3 года назад +4

      @@citizenpb .
      Largely immaterial, the point is, it exists.
      You might as well ask who pays for the legal limitations to the hours a person is expected to work.

    • @citizenpb
      @citizenpb 3 года назад +1

      @@grahvis It's not immaterial. My salary is lower than that of my colleagues in the US despite doing the same job. That's to fund various benefits such as paid annual leave. Americans can take leave, they just need to forego some of their higher salary. There's no such thing as a free lunch.

  • @leecal5774
    @leecal5774 3 года назад +4

    Thanks! Interesting video. Always good seeing differences from those who’ve travelled and lived overseas.

  • @nw2394
    @nw2394 3 года назад +18

    You're welcome back any time :)

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +1

      We hope to be back!

    • @nw2394
      @nw2394 3 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Well Eastbourne is still here and there are places still to rent + buy etc.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +1

      Unfortunately, visas are trickier than just buying a place.

    • @nw2394
      @nw2394 3 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Ya ya problems problems! I know. I have American cousins and an ex-Floridian work colleague who has had to jump through hoops. If you want something enough you'll find a way - if not - perhaps it is not meant to be...

    • @lizwood510
      @lizwood510 3 года назад

      Strange that 'refugees' and asylum seekers can stay here, but legitimate immigrants who do the right thing are asked to leave.
      Maybe you should have 'appealed'.

  • @amandamarie5219
    @amandamarie5219 3 года назад +26

    Matt, I get you with the humor. I am near Columbus, OH and have become addicted to UK comedians. I am still working from home and watch them on my lunch to relax. I would also like to have the term “nutter” adopted here. LoL. I hope to visit there after all the COVID issues are worked out. BTW, we have kale :)

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +2

      I'm glad you have Kale! Send some our way!
      UK humo(u)r is just...different. It is nice that globalization has allowed us to have access to uk comedians and the like though.

    • @peckelhaze6934
      @peckelhaze6934 3 года назад +4

      Yes, nutter or nut-job is popular here (UK).

    • @ade1963
      @ade1963 3 года назад

      @@peckelhaze6934 really, walter?

    • @loopyloo788
      @loopyloo788 3 года назад +3

      Hope you listen to Sarah Millican Amanda, she’s from the north of England (a Geordie). Give her a try. 🇬🇧❤️ 🇺🇸

    • @amandamarie5219
      @amandamarie5219 3 года назад +1

      @@loopyloo788 I will look her up. I have watched all of Taskmaster and follow most of the contestants from there. None of them have disappointed.

  • @TheLeeroy2525
    @TheLeeroy2525 3 года назад +3

    Love your vids, keep up the good work mate.

  • @danilopapais1464
    @danilopapais1464 3 года назад +8

    Yeah, we in Germany also eat healthier and have a lower diabetes rate but we also are getting closer and closer to the US standard. Somehow Germany always does something the US does (good or bad) and we used to be 10 years behind when I was a child but now the time increments are getting shorter.

    • @davidcook7887
      @davidcook7887 3 года назад

      If you are ahead in Germany you cannot be any stage behind the US.

    • @phoenix-xu9xj
      @phoenix-xu9xj Год назад

      Yes U.K. getting more Obese as a nation. No excuse as we have no shortage of great fresh food.

  • @helenwood8482
    @helenwood8482 3 года назад +10

    It's sad that after a year in the UK, you still prefer customer service staff to behave as if they are inferior to you. Isn't it nicer in the UK, where a low wage doesn't make someone any less your equal?

    • @CrazyInWeston
      @CrazyInWeston 3 года назад +3

      What? He never said that. He said that in the US they treat you better and he did mention the word "fake" cos he understands why they do it (tips) In the UK we rarely tip, but unfortunately these people live on tips in the US because there is no minimum wage laws. Customer service in the US often appears fake cos they're after your tipping game.

    • @gsotoaz
      @gsotoaz 3 года назад +1

      Yeah but why can’t the workers be nicer in the UK to the customer?

    • @dav6131
      @dav6131 2 года назад

      What on earth are you waffling about you muppit!!!

  • @fionacowan2426
    @fionacowan2426 2 года назад +1

    The staff pay you so much attention in the usa and go overboard in the customer service dept is so you will tip them well where in the uk waiting staff already get a decent wage x

  • @sueridley5708
    @sueridley5708 3 года назад +6

    I do like visiting America, and love American people for their friendliness and kindness and have been several times for holidays to different parts of the USA
    . The thing that bugs me the most is the obsession with
    tipping. asking,yes asking for 15% to 20% on top of your bill, because the customer has to subsidise the restaurant's wages bill, American having no minimum wage.
    Even a hugely rich company like Disney, pay pants wages and expect customers to subsidise them.
    I've been a waitress, so am more than happy to tip, I'm not tight fisted, but people ask for tips for the smallest service, I've had waiting staff actually plonk the bill down and point to the total and tell me what to tip.
    USA should have minimum wage, it's disgusting that such a rich country treats it's employees like this.

  • @joshsheff7189
    @joshsheff7189 3 года назад +5

    Any sign on you guys coming back to the UK once covid dies down? Loved you vids fella. Hope the family is all safe!

  • @delskioffskinov
    @delskioffskinov 3 года назад +2

    I stayed subscribed hoping to get this video! i'm glad you have! Nice to see you and your family have settled back in. only one question, did you buy Kale in the U.K. or was there an equivalent?

  • @leelaturanga5461
    @leelaturanga5461 3 года назад +1

    Hope that the four of you can come back one day.

  • @johndillon5290
    @johndillon5290 3 года назад +6

    Love the large american expanses. This is why long road trips can cover more milage in the US compared to the UK.

  • @tago69mago
    @tago69mago 3 года назад +3

    If service workers didn't rely on tips in the US I think you would notice a difference in service!

  • @MagentaOtterTravels
    @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад +2

    The roads are bigger, the houses are bigger, the fridges are bigger, the PEOPLE are bigger... LOL

  • @stuartbeck8111
    @stuartbeck8111 3 года назад +10

    There are things wrong with the NHS, BUT you can always use the private aspect of our medical system if you want something faster or it's not available on the NHS, mostly there is an equivalent treatment for most things on the NHS, yes sometime you have to wait for some treatments but usually if it needs doing, then it's done. It's open to all residents and no-one is left without treatment, I'd take the NHS over the American system EVERYTIME.

    • @user-xy4ff5yp7b
      @user-xy4ff5yp7b 3 года назад

      True but remember most Western countries have free or highly affordable healthcare and DONT have an NHS system. The US system is not the only alternative.
      Plus, the NHS has a monopoly so actually there are many aspects of healthcare you can’t receive privately. It’s mostly only elective surgeries.

  • @gillcawthorn7572
    @gillcawthorn7572 2 года назад +2

    Maybe one of the reasons for the unhealthy food in the USA is because good health does not provide the same profits that illness does?

  • @MrDavfit
    @MrDavfit 3 года назад

    Coming back everything seems huge.. freaky..my car felt a block long..lol

  • @michaelbolton-a
    @michaelbolton-a 3 года назад

    It's a shame you had to leave early - enjoyed your videos - I hope your move back went well amybe you can come back sometimes!!

  • @johnavery3941
    @johnavery3941 3 года назад +1

    I think the one thing about social healthcare (NHS) is that it is not political here in the UK, every political party in the UK agrees that free healthcare at the point of need and throughout your life is is a right not just because you happen to be rich

    • @phoenix-xu9xj
      @phoenix-xu9xj Год назад

      Are you really sure about that? I seriously don’t think that about the Tory party at the moment.

  • @normanmart7933
    @normanmart7933 3 года назад +5

    What appears to be a huge difference is how gullible a lot of Americans seem to be , I feel sorry for them believing what they have is the best when most societies just wouldn't put up with it. How can all these republicans believe Trump won the election' they clearly will believe anything. Why ? It is such a waste.

  • @johnhodkinson2063
    @johnhodkinson2063 3 года назад +22

    I just can't get on with the American customer service culture, it's so forced and so fake, everyone seems to be working from a script and being "nice" to attract the tip.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад

      Perhaps, but I've noticed this is true even in industries that aren't traditionally tipped. 🤷‍♂️

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 3 года назад +10

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure It's a difference of attitude. In the US, staff are treated as slaves, as inferiors, so they have to be submissive and flattering to keep their jobs. In the UK, my customers consider me their equal. I am not some subhuman thing that has to bow and scrape to be allowed near the noble customer. I am a person doing my job and I get respect.

    • @gsotoaz
      @gsotoaz 3 года назад

      Wow man

    • @gsotoaz
      @gsotoaz 3 года назад

      @@helenwood8482 that is absolutely shocking that Helen thinks the customer and the worker are equals. I’m American

    • @vijay-c
      @vijay-c 3 года назад

      @@gsotoaz I work in customer service in the UK. Customers are 100% equals - if anything, I hold the balance of power over them as they only call me if they need something. And they're only getting help if they're not rude.

  • @cubeaceuk9034
    @cubeaceuk9034 3 года назад +1

    Welcome back Matthew.
    I was concerned when you took down all of the last videos about what was happening as your other channel still had regular content.
    Hope you are all well.
    Ray.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад

      Ray,
      Good to see you again friend. All is well on this end!
      All the best to you and yours,

  • @Andy_U
    @Andy_U 3 года назад +6

    Hiya. Are you able to tell us what happened with the house? Stay safe. All the best to you.

  • @bryansmith1920
    @bryansmith1920 3 года назад +3

    For a Country that claims to care about the Individual WHY do you not have a National Health Service Paid as in the UK by a National Insurance Contribution direct from your Income But Why Do the US not have a (Pay As You Earn)Tax System ???

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 3 года назад +2

      Because the only individual they care about is themselves. I have heard Americans say, "Why should I pay for someone else to have healthcare?"

    • @fionagregory9376
      @fionagregory9376 3 года назад +1

      @@helenwood8482 these people are probably Christians too. Hypocrites.

  • @Frazpas
    @Frazpas 3 года назад +10

    We ❤️ our NHS. Sure, not perfect, but so much better with a choice of topping up private cover if you want the fastest, most personal care.

  • @drdcheung
    @drdcheung 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for making an interesting video. Must admit I don't like kale but we still have a long way to try and improve our processed food but we do have a good selection of fruit and vegetables in our larger supermarkets. Love to see a video about work/life balance as I understand Americans have less holiday compared to Brits and Europeans.

  • @tommymiller-ub1cr
    @tommymiller-ub1cr 8 месяцев назад

    I am so glad you enjoyed good old blighty and I hope you are both better people for the experiance, I am already drunk, see ye, bro. x

  • @fortuna7469
    @fortuna7469 3 года назад +9

    Thanks for the video! You have a very pleasant way of expressing your thoughts. Really enjoyed it. Yes, everything is larger in the US. Hence sadly also the carbon dioxide emissions per person are roughly double when compared to those of Europeans per person. In the US quantity instead of quality is appreciated and when everything has grown bigger and bigger, the human scale has been lost. One should consume only what is necessary. Consumerism creates problems for the planet.

  • @stevegoddard5012
    @stevegoddard5012 3 года назад +1

    Customer service is way better in the states. They work harder to get a tip because their wages are crap.

  • @maureengreenin3003
    @maureengreenin3003 2 года назад +2

    Your health care system doesn’t work for everyone were in the UK it is set up to work for all. We do have people who will pay into a healthcare scheme, if their company pays part of the cost but that becomes prohibitive the older you get older as premiums go up with age, but at least they know the NHS is there. Our medication is also subsidised or free over a certain age, which is another failure in the American system.

  • @malcolmnicholls2893
    @malcolmnicholls2893 3 года назад +4

    Cultural differences aside, I'm sure aspects of the UK environment can seem claustrophobic. We could use a bit more space.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад

      Definitely true, though in surprised by how often we got push back when we mention that. "If you think the UK has a lot of small spaces, you've never been to [area we probably went to].". 🤷‍♂️

    • @leedsman54
      @leedsman54 3 года назад +3

      There’s enough space but too many people.

  • @stephenpitt6363
    @stephenpitt6363 3 года назад +7

    Servuce staff are only interested in the size. Of the tip

    • @colcot50
      @colcot50 3 года назад

      Like my wife

  • @andypandy9013
    @andypandy9013 3 года назад +2

    Miss you guys.

  • @briandouglas6329
    @briandouglas6329 2 года назад

    120 F 95% humidity, knee deep in snow! When are you coming back?

  • @michaelcollett1175
    @michaelcollett1175 3 года назад

    enjoy your views, since left uk , main problem i have, price petrol costing £1 32p litre, transfer not US GALLON, KEEP UP YOUR VIDEO COMING

  • @LuciusDriftwood
    @LuciusDriftwood Год назад

    Come back, brother! You're family now x

  • @waynen6996
    @waynen6996 3 года назад +1

    Thank You 💙💎🕊️

  • @beforever
    @beforever 3 года назад +1

    Hope you come back mate

  • @kathrynmcauley4808
    @kathrynmcauley4808 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your generous compliments. Americans are very kind at being complimentary, not muted as sometimes people in the UK can be. I really appreciate that in Americans

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  2 года назад

      It's always a double edged sword though, isn't it? That can also come across as brash, loud, and too forward.
      I'm glad you enjoyed the video though!

    • @kathrynmcauley4808
      @kathrynmcauley4808 2 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Hmmm maybe. But I think as a nation we can learn to be more open. There is a difference between being open, confident and friendly and being brash, loud and forward. Take care 🙂

  • @weedle30
    @weedle30 3 года назад

    The Wandering Ravens have gone back too - but think they are missing good old Blighty …. What reverse culture shock, shocked them the most was a notice on the door of their local shop “only open carried guns allowed in here ….” Oh myyyy liiiife! 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😱😱😱🤯

  • @TTTzzzz
    @TTTzzzz 3 года назад +3

    The US health care issue is cultural. The government doesn't assist the people and many people are ok with that. The US has unbridled Capitalism.

    • @cambbrown6205
      @cambbrown6205 3 года назад +1

      Sadly I fear we may be copying their lead

  • @johnhodkinson2063
    @johnhodkinson2063 3 года назад +5

    On things being bigger in the US, you missed out mentioning mouths, they are definitely bigger.

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +4

      Classic, someone mouthing off about out how someone else has bigger mouths!
      Just kidding, we do tend to notice a difference in personality...the stereotypes do hold up in this regard. Americans definitely tend to be more brash, which is both a positive and negative thing, depending on the context.

    • @Pablosplace
      @Pablosplace 3 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure you guys coming back any time soon?

  • @MagentaOtterTravels
    @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад

    Everything is bigger in TEXAS! 😂

  • @BassandoForte
    @BassandoForte 3 года назад +1

    The UK being 53 degrees north - equal in longitude to Edmonton Canada....
    Of course the US is going to be vastly more hot... 🤣

    • @CrazyInWeston
      @CrazyInWeston 3 года назад +1

      And Canada is hotter than the UK (In the summer months) They've recently had their all time temp record broken at 50c!!!

    • @BassandoForte
      @BassandoForte 3 года назад +1

      @@CrazyInWeston - Is that currently true of Alaska too..?? 👍

  • @cayminlast
    @cayminlast 3 года назад +2

    Coming from Africa, having had experience in both the us and the uk, I found there are more than just pros and cons to living in either country. If I'm honest, the US is huge compared to the UK and there are opportunities to see and experience so much more than I ever imagined.

    • @creamesoda79
      @creamesoda79 3 года назад +8

      From the UK you can travel to the rest of Europe, Africa, and the Middle East reletively easily.

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 2 года назад +1

      Britain is best cos I live here.

  • @sandrogattorno4962
    @sandrogattorno4962 3 года назад +6

    Just two words about the customer service. I've see few video like this one of you but ever annoyed me a litte is that evryone who spoke about this is from the point of view of the customer and nobody cares the point of view of the people who doet theyr work in to the shop. I understand that is a plesure wend all the attenctinos are over you (not for ev'rybody, I'm amusing of walk in the store while nobody cares me and I can just watch everythings for myself. If I need I ask) but is not better if the rapport between you and the worker is just the same like you encounter them in any other place? sorry my bad english.

  • @MagentaOtterTravels
    @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад

    Do NOT look for kale in Walmart. In the US I can find baby kale in loads of places (just not Walmart)... but I haven’t seen baby kale in a single store here in the UK. And I’ve been to just about every place 😉

    • @RichardBarclay
      @RichardBarclay 3 года назад +1

      Asda do a mixed leaf salad that contains baby kale, it's called beetroot, baby spinach & baby kale salad,

    • @alimar0604
      @alimar0604 3 года назад +1

      Tesco Express in Abingdon.

    • @MagentaOtterTravels
      @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад

      @@RichardBarclay good to know!

    • @MagentaOtterTravels
      @MagentaOtterTravels 3 года назад

      @@alimar0604 thanks for the tip!

  • @airs1234
    @airs1234 3 года назад +4

    I can’t stand US customer service. It makes me feel so uncomfortable.

    • @gsotoaz
      @gsotoaz 3 года назад

      It’s nice to have the US customer service person pay attention to you

    • @airs1234
      @airs1234 3 года назад +2

      @@gsotoaz it’s so fake though. UK customer service staff will pay attention if you ask them a question. They don’t follow you around and talk to you like they are your friend.

  • @anthonywilliams9415
    @anthonywilliams9415 2 года назад

    Heck yeah!! Dayton Ohio!! Area code 937

  • @EASYTIGER10
    @EASYTIGER10 3 года назад +2

    3:10. If you wanted to go to Dayton, why did you fly to Chicago? Its like flying to the UK and wanting to go to Newcastle but Flying to London, Heathrow. Both trips are about 300 miles, and that distance is the same whether you are in Europe or the US. The road trip would be the same. If Chicago was the only option to fly to it has more to do with poor air connections than the US being "bigger", surely?

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад +1

      We flew to Chicago because of cost, not availability....but that's not really the point of the example. Point was; long distance road trips are not a big deal in the US. Our roads and infrastructure support them, and a "small" road trip (like Chicago to Dayton) is a HUGE road trip in the UK (like similar miles).

    • @Loki1815
      @Loki1815 3 года назад +1

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Sorry but I don't get this. I have quite regularly completed long road trips, 1500k (930m) in around 11hrs (9hrs if you want to push it), from England to Spain via different routes and in different vehicles, from Motor Bikes, Transit Van, Subaru Outback, Lexus is300h.
      I enjoy the mountain roads, especially on the bike and can't bear the thought of dead straight, featureless roads, yes, I have driven in northern and middle American.
      If you want to do a long journey from England through Germany, you can always have fun on the Autobahns.
      As for Customer Service, yes I suppose that Americans do "overly sincere" very well, it would be hard not to when your healthcare depends on you jumping through the Corporate hoops!

    • @EASYTIGER10
      @EASYTIGER10 3 года назад +1

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Apologies Matthew, my post came across as criticizing, it wasn't meant too. And I understand your point: Long road trips are considered more the 'norm' in the US. But Like Loki 1815 said, you can make just as long road trips in Europe if you want to. The highway infrastructure of Western Europe is as good, if not better than the USA.
      So why are long trips more the norm in the USA? My guess is:
      a) Fuel is cheaper,
      b) More of a 'car culture': Europeans would more likely take a train or fly.
      c) If you drive 1000 miles people still speak the same language and there are no customs barriers to deal with
      d) Maybe the main reason: Europe is more 'densely packed' than most of the USA. In much of Europe you are rarely more than a couple of 100 km from a major city or site, so there's less need to make long trips.
      Would you agree Matthew?

    • @jillhobson6128
      @jillhobson6128 3 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Surely long road trips aren't safe even if you share the driving.
      As our motorway signs say "tiredness can kill"

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад

      Easytiger, I definitely agree! It's not about the "ability" to take long road trips (because inevitably someone will always say that they take road trips all the time in the US or the UK)...there is a culture of doing it in the US that is unlike the UK, do to exactly the reasons you mention above!

  • @TychoCelchu
    @TychoCelchu 3 года назад +2

    Brits tend to be deeply distrustful of what we see as insincere smiles, which is a standard of the US service industry. We know that servers in the US probably won’t even be making making minimum wage, unless they kiss the asses of entitled customers. Your service industry just creates more customers who behave that way because they know they’ll get away with it. Try acting like that in France. Workers rights in the US are virtually nonexistent, and it shows.
    Your tipping culture is also really confusing to outsiders. Most people will be aware of tipping wait staff, but you guys seem to tip various different kinds of service staff, except fast food workers. So we don’t know who to tip, and how much

  • @redvelvetshoes
    @redvelvetshoes 3 года назад +2

    And produce is cheap , though Brexit will soon affect that

  • @angelavara4097
    @angelavara4097 3 года назад

    I lived in NJ for a couple of years I hated it.

  • @RichardBarclay
    @RichardBarclay 3 года назад +1

    What's going on with your hair Matt?

  • @kaynpaul
    @kaynpaul 3 года назад

    The health care in the US is sadly in humane a country the size and the wealth of the US they should made healthcare available to all

  • @paulhadfield7909
    @paulhadfield7909 3 года назад +1

    what is going with your hair?

  • @cherryblossom3046
    @cherryblossom3046 4 месяца назад

    Perhaps your USA BOARDER CONTROL STAFF COULD TAKE ON SOME OF CUSTOMER CARE SKILLS when dealing with non-American visitors! They are unnecessarily rude, sharp, suspicious and unwelcoming!

  • @mattinterweb
    @mattinterweb 3 года назад +1

    NHS baby.

  • @trucktalkvideos
    @trucktalkvideos 2 года назад

    The best healthcare in the world is in South Korea

  • @davidhutchinson5233
    @davidhutchinson5233 2 года назад

    People who call customer svc friendliness "fake" are idiots. Of course it is. I mean, yeah, on occasion their personality slips in. We're all human right? But having to deal with customer after customer after customer you have to practice it. Fake. It's so uninformed.

  • @capablancauk
    @capablancauk 3 года назад

    Preparing for a car jumping off the road hitting you!? If you could prepare you wouldn't be on that road.

  • @davidcook7887
    @davidcook7887 Год назад

    It’s ok you criticising the NHS because you know what you are talking about. You raised that in one of your videos when you were living in Sussex. Americans, don’t criticise the NHS or the Royal Family. It just doesn’t go down well in the Uk.

  • @andymac900
    @andymac900 Год назад

    I took a year out from the UK to explore the USA, and to be totally honest the people were great (maybe sometimes false) but really nice to talk to however....when you come.from somewhere like the UK you really learn to appreciate what you have, the USA is so samey (if that's a word) there seems to be no culture no real sense of history, the buildings are all the same it is like Minecraft everything is square and flat, every town has the same shops selling the same things, the fruit and veg is huge and looks luscious but tastes like nothing, nothing is walkable, however there was really little to see, to be honest I won't go back, I found the whole experience depressing as hell, even going out for a drink was weird all people.wanted to talk about was Trump and couldn't understand that it had nothing to do with me, people's politics were obvious just by 5he news channel in the background, as I said the people are so sweet but they are NOT open to contradiction at all

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  Год назад

      Definitely feel the truth in a lot of what you said. Especially the "sameyness" and people unwilling to see contrary opinions.

  • @Finnec123
    @Finnec123 3 года назад +1

    Not very specific regarding healthcare.

  • @davidrowlands441
    @davidrowlands441 3 года назад

    You state there's not a few but a lot of things wrong with the nhs. Please state them.

  • @cherryblossom3046
    @cherryblossom3046 4 месяца назад

    If your child was born in the UK I hope you get her British citizenship quock so she can have the advantages of dual citizenship for her future✌️

  • @andyb3712
    @andyb3712 3 года назад

    Do you not notice tent cities and other homelessness, or opiad and other addicts, people everywhere not outside exercising and enjoying nature - I like your stuff but damn it's middle-class.

  • @davidgray3321
    @davidgray3321 3 года назад +1

    Glad you are pleased to be home ok, but what’s going on with the hair? Is that an American thing?

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  3 года назад

      More of a "covid-hair-might-as-well-try-growing-it-out" thing. I get lots of comments in the US too.

    • @davidgray3321
      @davidgray3321 3 года назад

      @@SchaeferFamilyAdventure Don’t worry about that, it was probably insolent of me to comment I enjoy your work. Thank you.
      David Gray

  • @user-xy4ff5yp7b
    @user-xy4ff5yp7b 3 года назад

    To summarise: extreme Capitalism is a disaster? Perhaps a little humanity and care for other people’s wellbeing matters.

  • @skyebates246
    @skyebates246 3 года назад +1

    It's freeks me out as a brit it seems so facke

  • @musik102
    @musik102 3 года назад +1

    Often, it's not at clear whether you are talking about the UK or the US.

  • @waynefoster7738
    @waynefoster7738 3 года назад

    I live in the uk and I've been to America 5 times and I have to agree there is no customer service in the UK people are miserable now in America I felt more welcomed its nothing to do with tipping um they have got more manners than us in the UK sorry just my opinion if I had a choice I would rather live in America all day long

  • @davidcook7887
    @davidcook7887 3 года назад

    Why don’t you do a difference in humour between the UK and the US. 😂😦

  • @DrDaveW
    @DrDaveW 3 года назад +2

    The UK is very secular. The Queen is the head of the Christian Church.

    • @mrharry448
      @mrharry448 3 года назад

      3% of UK under 24s consider themselves as belonging to the church that the Queen is head of. 54% of the population say they belong to no religion. There is the issue of a handful of church leaders having minority voting rights on legislation in the House of Lords but otherwise yes. A very secular country.

    • @8arcasticallyYours
      @8arcasticallyYours 3 года назад +3

      The Queen is head of the official Church of England, NOT the Christian Church which has many different denominations. Most British people are not religious at all.

    • @DrDaveW
      @DrDaveW 3 года назад +2

      @@8arcasticallyYours Sorry, yes you are correct. And all because Henry VIII wanted a divorce!

  • @billweaver6092
    @billweaver6092 2 года назад +1

    Sorry about your hair

    • @SchaeferFamilyAdventure
      @SchaeferFamilyAdventure  2 года назад

      Interesting thing I've noticed. I can reasonably guess how old someone is based on how much attention they pay to my hair. Any chance you are a balding man over 50?