@DiogenesNephew I don’t just been screwed over a few times by you guys lol. But seriously I’ve had great experiences with HVAC guys to where they have gone above and beyond to help me and my family.
Her acting is so good I remember the skit she did where she was the mom handing out the happy meals to the kids in the backseat and her acting blasted me right back to my childhood it was so authentic and real. She’s super talented.
@@capnskiddies on the contrary, most non-teenage people can keep a room reasonably clean by a hidden technique called “clean up after yourself”. It’s a mysterious method where, instead of tossing shit on the floor, you just put them back where they belong when you’re done. I know, I know, it’s crazy talk, but hey. What do I know, I’m just old and clearly know nothing.
@@peterlucier1813I don’t even think it’s marketing. Both scenarios can happen in the same household. It does in mine. Mom loses it over people “not listening”, dad loses it over accidents (even small ones that cost no money though). The difference is father sees no issue when he’s losing it over bs but will shit on mother for losing it over bs
@@winstonzhou4595In this one it was about the cost. So dad’s mad because he has to pay. In the other one the mom was on an emotional rant and snapped over shoes being in the wrong place. 2 different kind of scenarios that are pretty realistic in my opinion. When there’s money involved, dads get pissed.
My mom always just let my dad yell at me by himself. Then she'd reason with him in private. Shes the only person that was able to talk to him like that. He yelled at everyone in my family except for my mom. Shes a badass and the only person ive ever seen my dad back down to. I think thats why they got along so well.
That’s the way it’s supposed to be. Never argue in front of the kids. My wife does the same thing. And I do it to her sometimes. We can disagree on punishments and figure them out together but our kids only see a united front
What kids don’t realize is we aren’t “talking in private”, we are just letting you stew over the excessive punishment. Then when mom “comes to the rescue” she just reduces the sentence to what was already agreed on and the kids are thrilled about it. 😂 Now the kids “owe their mom” so it incentivizes them to act right. The best part is the additional leverage this gives mom with the classic “wait till your dad gets home” line. Parenting is Chess not Checkers
@@EOTG_AKThat is some very well thought out parenting lol. Honestly, this is how it goes, but is not planned at all as you described. It usually goes like the video showed, genuinely, for our household. 😅
Someone once said, "You can tell, just by the way someone says "Sorey" that they're Canadian! Sorry, I'm just relaying that message! But, I've also heard that Canadians are the nicest and most genuine people you could EVER meet! I so wanna go there! ❤
@@AntjeRoestenburgare you always this pedantic? If you have kids at 20, you’d be 33 when they hit teens. The guy even said 37,which is almost 40. Keep your mouth shut next time
Totally My Family. To-date. Mum is the Antidote to all rage. She knows just what do have us do or say to calm things down. Ain't Mothers the Best ever?!
@@attila_the_hunk9685…try just facing reality…she is gorgeous, yet I would never be interested in her if circumstances allowed. No simping here, and she’s still gorgeous. 🙄
@@samuelcampbell1205…that’s quite literally what I said 😂 What part of “too true” and “I love how accurate this is” made you think I didn’t think it’s true or accurate 😂😂
@PMTcommenter it was the "vs" for me. Meaning "love how accurate this is compared to the other one that wasn't accurate at all." Based on ur second comment that's not what you actually meant but it seems like that's how it came across to me and everyone else. Btw.. VS-> versus->opposite of.
@@anime4life384yes… vs… opposite of. Congrats on knowing English? In the video where the mom is mad, the dad is the cool one… *VS… the video where the dad is mad and the mom is the cool one. Which is very accurate, like I said. You not knowing how to read is your problem, not mine. Stop trying to gaslight me. You were wrong. Just own it and stop trying to force blame on me. Why is it so hard for people to say “sorry” or “my bad”. You really have to try to make your inability to read or comprehend my fault 😂😂 the ego on you😂
What I love how they both do this to the other one. This is how parenting really works, one person freaks out and the other has to calm them down and manage the situation. Teamwork!
After 3-4 times of my mom telling me to clean my room, my mom cleaned it, and took all of my toys ( including GI Joes, Scuba suits, rafts, etc) to the Salvation Army. She then took me there to see my toys in the display case. I was heart broken, but over the next 6-7 years, she never even had to tell me to clean my room. THAT was great parenting. Parents today don't have the stones to parent like that!
How come that you still love your dad if I may be so rude to ask? If my father got physical with me 9/10 we had an argument I would probably not even be able to speak with him due to the sheer anxiety alone. A friend of mine which I had known my entire life who I always saw as my "Guardian" (As a 2m tall really buff dude he literaly did for a good chunk of my life) got physical once 5 years ago and I to this day can't speak with him. My therapist says that is apparently due to my C-PTSD but I digress.. Given the uploader of this short seemed to agree with you it might be my several anxiety disorders which make me fail to understand your POV. I am genuinly curious about your experience with this though as it is seemingly so far away from my own. Mayhabs it's similare to me and my brother who is 7 years older than me. He used to bully me relentlessly but I still love him...That only happened after I turned 14 and was strong enough to physicaly stop him..that and I never saw him as a "guardian" which I would see my father as. Having all this said I basically would ask you to tell me how what you descripted came to be :)
I really appreciate the care you took in choosing your words, it means a lot to me. And I'm truly sorry you had to go through all that. When it comes to my dad, my love for him runs deep because I've come to understand that he's just like the rest of us.. flawed and imperfect. Yeah, he messed up pretty bad when I was a kid, but he's still my father. As a Christian, forgiveness is something I am called to, and he's been there for me since day one, providing for me and now being an amazing grandpa to my 4 kids. Sure, he's said sorry, but even if he hadn't, I'd still love him and forgive him. I mean, who am I to hold onto grudges when I've got my share of sin against others as well? And let me tell you, it's not just my dad. The army threw some serious curveballs my way, but I've managed to forgive all of them too. Don't get me wrong, I still have moments where I feel that anger burning up inside, but then I remember the bigger picture my Lord and savior Jesus Christ, the people I love, and all the blessings He gave me in my life. I've made my fair share of mistakes, and I'm constantly reminded of my own flaws and shortcomings. That's why I can't help but extend forgiveness to others, knowing full well the grace I've received from both God and people I have wronged. Forgiveness isn't always easy, but it's a calling I'm committed to, rooted in faith, compassion, understanding, and the universally shared human experience of imperfection. I am not special. I am a sinner just like everyone who ever has and will exist. I love everyone and pray you will know this peace that God gave me for all the struggles I’ve encountered and continue to go through everyday. Love you man 👍
@@lukeleonard3382 Wow. That was genuinly a really good read. First off I would like to extend your thanks back to you. It seems like you took your time writing this comment and truly thought about what I had asked about instead of giving a one sentence reply. I appreciate this a lot! I hope I don't offend you by stating this but I am not christian by faith (Though I used to attend church under roman catholic believe until I was 14. I don't know how exactly Christianity works outside of german speaking countries btw). Yet I strongly resonnate with your general sentiment in regards to sin and forgiveness. I too believe that we are all full of sin and should restrain ourselfs from casting the first stone as that would be hypocritical and more importantly it would be vain. I don't want to boast that I have been without rage and contempt for things that have been done to me in the past and when my mental health declines I even sometimes catch my self in beeing wrathfull. "I want to destroy everything that is holy to them just like they did to me. I want to see their suffering with my own eyes and perhabs then they understand what they were doing is truly attrocious." But for me atleast the important part is comming to terms with what has expired and letting go. Letting go off all that rage, all that anger. Beeing wrathfull towards another is like drinking poison and expecting the other to die. Hate and Spite are easy, Love and Forgiveness are hard and we need to work hard everyday to strive for a brighter future! I think what you said is quite inspirational. It seems like you used to have a lot of anger. I don't deduce this through you beeing hostile in any case but by you seemingly beeing a calm and content person. I wouldn't necessarily say that you need to have been angry a lot to become like that but one seldom seeks for such levels of enlightenment if one hasn't struggled tremendously before and you seemingly having succeeded in atleast party letting go in all of that (As we both know man cannot be without sin) and accepting love and tolerance instead. That is really inspiring. I mean it. I used to have such a love for everything this planet has gifted us but then I started hating the world...hating others and...myself the most. I fell down into a ravine where no sunlight was to be seen and the only comfort I had were sponatious blurs of warmth I could hallucinate when I decided to blend everything else out. I then saw glimpses of light, hands beeing reached out to me and for the first time I genuinly started to believe that life could get better. I won't lie I am not good with entirely forgiving someone but I get better every year and knowing that one day I might turn out like you is a very comforting thought. All that beeing said I think it to be curios that I didn't even think about the possibility that you were hatefull instead of fearfull towards your father. [TRIGGER WARNING SA] It took some time, a lot of therapy and me not heavily disassociating 5 times a week but I think I can finally genuinly say that I don't hold any contempt for this one friend who tried to r@p3 me and all the other men in my life who sexualy assaulted me anymore. If anything I feel pity for them. Beeing so f**ked in the head that you'd do that must not be fun either. I don't want to excusse their behavior in any means since me still not bering able to talk to this former friend because it's so triggering for me that I genuinly lose my grip on reality might be a bit worse. I had to block him on all socials and basicly move to the city to feel save again. He tried to contact me a few times to apologize (He was so drunk that night he only found out months later when I was at my wits end and broke of all communication with him) but I still just can't... In my head space you were terrified of your father and managed to overcome your fears instead of having to overcoming anger. To me normaly your father is your protector, your guardian. That was sadly not really a possibility for my father so when my friend became my protector, my guardian and then tried to do what he did I didn't even feel any rage I just felt so completly and utterly unsave in this world. If my father was my protector, my guardian and physicaly assaulted me I think I would have reacted in a similare manner to the one that had actualy transpired. So apologies for my presumptions and projections. Though it's interesting to see that your sentiment turned towards anger instead of crippling fear. Humans can be so different :o. I mean you probably felt both emotions it's just that one is the stronger motivator. It also sounded like you were able to talk to your father and change things in your relationship that didn't work out. To be frank I have been typing all of this for probably 30 minutes and my head is starting to act up so sorry if the end is not as coherent as I would wish it was. Well, I am happy for you! Sounds like finding god and jesus really helped you with your struggles and you seemed to fix things with your father :) Tangentingly I want to add that eventhough I personaly don't believe in God and having had very bad experiences with the church I am always overcome by joy when I met someone who virtues the "true" meaning of what beeing a christian means. My Religion teacher and his wife my ethics teacher are both very prominent very religious people in my towns community and when I was so afraid of telling my religiously conversative family that I was not getting a confirmation and that I was very much queet they both told me so many nice and encouraging things like "Don't worry if they make a fuss we will talk with them about it. You'll be loved by god and jesus regardless and if you are queer, well god didn't make a mistake but just made you a bit different to spice things up a bit down here on earth. You are a present just the way you are". Man that shit hit deeper than most things I had and have ever heard in my entire life. I don't know how to end this but I want to. 1. Thank you for your thorough and kind answer 2. Thanks for reading all of this! 3. I feel quite inspired by your words so thanks for that as well. 4. Thanks for making christianity the cool thing it should be instead of spreading the hate the cathlic church as been for centuries. edit: Holy cow this took 50 minutes 😂
Once put a hole in the drywall while playing football in the basement. Mom was angry and said "Wait till your father gets home." We were really scared because when my dad got angry he was scary. Mom didn't tell him what happened just brought him downstairs. He took one look and burst out laughing. Caught us all off-guard. He used it as a teaching experience for fixing drywall.
Leaving the room and coming back just to keep yelling. It's like I'm a kid again.
Over and over and over. It turned my room from a sanctuary to a pressure cooker. I hated when my father was home.
@@koboldsage9112Aw thar made me sad, I'm sorry ❤
I'm sorry this was such a common situation in your childhood. That's not an easy environment to grow up in.
"Now we gotta call my guy and get a quote" lmfao I work in hvac. Quotes kills.
“Just quote them a new condenser” -boss
@@michael4265you just made me so mad and made me laugh at the same time.
@@bigsmooth2001 😂
@DiogenesNephew I don’t just been screwed over a few times by you guys lol. But seriously I’ve had great experiences with HVAC guys to where they have gone above and beyond to help me and my family.
@DiogenesNephew my bad lol
Her acting is so good I remember the skit she did where she was the mom handing out the happy meals to the kids in the backseat and her acting blasted me right back to my childhood it was so authentic and real. She’s super talented.
What’s her name
She could easily be in a sitcom.
i remember the "teachers trying not to interrupt an assembly" one
He’s pretty good too.
I just saw it "no pickle"😂😂😂
"How many times your parents-
Your mom"
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I caught that 😂😂😂😂
😂😅
Not me and my husband with our teens 😂
Dads get angry over wasted money. Moms get angry over everything else 😂
Cause dads usually the dealing with soul sucking corporate life just to make ends meet
@@totenfurwotan4478 🎯
Very true @prworswick 😅
Why is RUclips being weird with my comments
@@worthywill9294 🤷🧐 kinda confusing with no explanation 🤔😅
They ALWAYS add in “and your room’s a mess!!!”
With the added ugh 😑 ugh 😑 what’s that ? WHAT IS THAT ? HOW LONG THAT CUP BEEN IN HERE ????? AND A CUP A N D T H E C U PPPP ……… COME ON !!!
Proof positive that a clean room is always an affirmative defense. Too bad teenagers are literally allergic to cleanliness.
Because it is
Everyone's room is always a mess except for a half hour after a big clean. Two hours later, looks like you never touched it
@@capnskiddies on the contrary, most non-teenage people can keep a room reasonably clean by a hidden technique called “clean up after yourself”. It’s a mysterious method where, instead of tossing shit on the floor, you just put them back where they belong when you’re done. I know, I know, it’s crazy talk, but hey. What do I know, I’m just old and clearly know nothing.
Just saw the opposite version of this where the dad is the calm one lmao. I’ve lived through both versions
Parents are often mad about very different things.
Notice how much more hate was on that one than this one?
Dads pay for the stuff so he cares about expenses, moms takes care of the house so cares more about cleanliness and organisation of stuff😂😂
@@n.o.m4385100% factual😂
@@n.o.m4385Yup.
Their acting skills are amazing. They really give off the "strict, but wholesome" family vibes 🎉
Mom is absolutely gorgeous
For reaaaal
His mom mouthing, “Say, I’m sorry.” 😂
This was always the other way around in my house 🤣🤣🤣
They actually did a second skit where the mom and dad's roles are reversed
@@winstonzhou4595which when you think about it, kind of content marketing genius. Why pigeon hole yourself and give up half the audience?
@@peterlucier1813 yeah, exactly
@@peterlucier1813I don’t even think it’s marketing. Both scenarios can happen in the same household. It does in mine. Mom loses it over people “not listening”, dad loses it over accidents (even small ones that cost no money though). The difference is father sees no issue when he’s losing it over bs but will shit on mother for losing it over bs
@@winstonzhou4595In this one it was about the cost. So dad’s mad because he has to pay. In the other one the mom was on an emotional rant and snapped over shoes being in the wrong place. 2 different kind of scenarios that are pretty realistic in my opinion. When there’s money involved, dads get pissed.
The chew chew headshake was on point 😂
My mom always just let my dad yell at me by himself. Then she'd reason with him in private. Shes the only person that was able to talk to him like that. He yelled at everyone in my family except for my mom. Shes a badass and the only person ive ever seen my dad back down to. I think thats why they got along so well.
Haha that’s me and my husband. He comes back to our kids with the softest demeanor after we talk in private.
That’s a great strategy
That’s the way it’s supposed to be. Never argue in front of the kids. My wife does the same thing. And I do it to her sometimes. We can disagree on punishments and figure them out together but our kids only see a united front
What kids don’t realize is we aren’t “talking in private”, we are just letting you stew over the excessive punishment. Then when mom “comes to the rescue” she just reduces the sentence to what was already agreed on and the kids are thrilled about it. 😂
Now the kids “owe their mom” so it incentivizes them to act right. The best part is the additional leverage this gives mom with the classic “wait till your dad gets home” line.
Parenting is Chess not Checkers
@@EOTG_AKThat is some very well thought out parenting lol. Honestly, this is how it goes, but is not planned at all as you described. It usually goes like the video showed, genuinely, for our household. 😅
Her acting was 10/10
What’s her name
Soooo damn accurate 😂😂😂 "if u just say sorry"
this is a bad parent moment
Bruh, I tried that and I almost end up in the ICU for a month
@@fixer1140when I messed up that bad my mom would say just go for a walk so she could calm my dad down
@@bigsmooth2001 you were able to walk away from it? I grew up in latinamerica so that's not an option lol
@@fixer1140 sometimes I had to run lol
The head shake after “and u dont listen” got me
My favorite Canadians
🫱🏼🫲🏽😎
@@AustenAlexanderTV get back to drawing up those plays for McRae!
Someone once said, "You can tell, just by the way someone says "Sorey" that they're Canadian! Sorry, I'm just relaying that message! But, I've also heard that Canadians are the nicest and most genuine people you could EVER meet! I so wanna go there! ❤
Have been watching her skits and she is beyond talented.
The eye contact is so relatable
She plays a 37 year old mum very well
With a teenage child, the mom would likely be 40+ 😉
@@AntjeRoestenburgare you always this pedantic? If you have kids at 20, you’d be 33 when they hit teens. The guy even said 37,which is almost 40. Keep your mouth shut next time
@@AntjeRoestenburgsays who? Can you not have kids in your early 20s?
@@prepped8551 sure you can have kids while still studying and not settled yet, but most people don't. So most mom's of teenage kids are 40+ 🤷♀️
@@AntjeRoestenburg I wouldn’t comment either way without seeing data. Sounds like you’re making a gigantic assumption.
The dad ranting about the thing the kid fucked up and then suddenly switching to "AND YOUR ROOM'S A MESS" out of nowhere got me 😂
So spot on
At this point it's tradition 😂
I do that to my son 🤦🏾♂️
“I’ve got a call my Gotta get a quote…”And then he goes to “and your room is a mess”
Classic dad
I love these too together. Chemistry was on point! Well done 👏👏👏
This guy is such a good actor omg
This is why it is so important to have a father. The authority is completely different here. There is a balance between a mother and a father.
You both are so Funny Hilarious Great Sense of humor yet true 🤣🤣🤣
Holy smokes. We just had the same conversation with our teen. Almost verbatim 😂😂
This guy is such a papa.
I love it so much.
Totally My Family. To-date. Mum is the Antidote to all rage. She knows just what do have us do or say to calm things down. Ain't Mothers the Best ever?!
She’s gorgeous
it’s insane there aren’t more comments about this
@johnnosmith1067 maybe because people like the content and prefer not to be apart of some simp squad ?
@@attila_the_hunk9685…try just facing reality…she is gorgeous, yet I would never be interested in her if circumstances allowed. No simping here, and she’s still gorgeous. 🙄
Hahaha I’m a dad to twin daughters and I’m definitely the mom and my wife is the dad in this skit😂 I can’t be mad at them they’re my angels 😇
Elegant lady...love it
I love how accurate this is vs the video when mom’s the one who is mad and dad doesn’t really care. Too true 😂
Both v accurate
We lived in different homes bud, both of these make perfect sense.
@@samuelcampbell1205…that’s quite literally what I said 😂 What part of “too true” and “I love how accurate this is” made you think I didn’t think it’s true or accurate 😂😂
@PMTcommenter it was the "vs" for me. Meaning "love how accurate this is compared to the other one that wasn't accurate at all." Based on ur second comment that's not what you actually meant but it seems like that's how it came across to me and everyone else. Btw.. VS-> versus->opposite of.
@@anime4life384yes… vs… opposite of. Congrats on knowing English? In the video where the mom is mad, the dad is the cool one… *VS… the video where the dad is mad and the mom is the cool one. Which is very accurate, like I said. You not knowing how to read is your problem, not mine. Stop trying to gaslight me. You were wrong. Just own it and stop trying to force blame on me. Why is it so hard for people to say “sorry” or “my bad”. You really have to try to make your inability to read or comprehend my fault 😂😂 the ego on you😂
I'm not a talent scout but I think these qualify as good characters.
Gorgeous mom.
These are the best one’s you do👍🏻
I love how they did this skit to each side once about mom once about dad lol it's brilliant.
They are so good together! I hope to see more of them!
Love how you mix it up
She looks like a mix between Sarah Jessica Parker and Megan Markle
Why would you say something so bold yet so true
Segan Parkle
Soooo true
That's all I see now lol
lmao their acting was so good why i feel like they were talking to me
Never had parents. But i think life would be good with a mom like her.
She's a phenomenal actor.
Mom grew up in a “yelling” household and doesn’t want to hear it lol I can feel her anxiety from here
Ohhhh no no no. Lol you need to see the Mom video
Flasback to my childhood not the repairs .but mom always calming things down
These two as a duo are amazing together 😂❤ these videos never get old 😂❤
That freaking head wobble while maintaining eye contact
I almost thought I was the one in trouble pfiouu 😅😂
I’m not going to lie you guys are literally perfect for eachother
What I love how they both do this to the other one. This is how parenting really works, one person freaks out and the other has to calm them down and manage the situation. Teamwork!
Both good actors
The compounding problems “and your rooms a mess” 😂😂😂
Love the pair❤
that final - *"yes!"* from Dad 😂😂
After 3-4 times of my mom telling me to clean my room, my mom cleaned it, and took all of my toys ( including GI Joes, Scuba suits, rafts, etc) to the Salvation Army. She then took me there to see my toys in the display case. I was heart broken, but over the next 6-7 years, she never even had to tell me to clean my room. THAT was great parenting. Parents today don't have the stones to parent like that!
It was always so comforting when my mom would take my side when I messed and say that “just say sorry”
the reason that having a dad is important
She is soooo good, very talented❤
I like the mom bad dad good version lol
Chewing gum while looking for stuff to add to 🔥🤣🤣🤣
You guys, are amazing!!!!
Just discovered you❤
The pause while chewing gum before adding something else lol
The head shake 😂😂
The walk in after she tell him to say sorry😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was my life just a lot more tears and it went hands on 9/10 times lol love my dad though!
LOL you and me both
How come that you still love your dad if I may be so rude to ask?
If my father got physical with me 9/10 we had an argument I would probably not even be able to speak with him due to the sheer anxiety alone. A friend of mine which I had known my entire life who I always saw as my "Guardian" (As a 2m tall really buff dude he literaly did for a good chunk of my life) got physical once 5 years ago and I to this day can't speak with him. My therapist says that is apparently due to my C-PTSD but I digress..
Given the uploader of this short seemed to agree with you it might be my several anxiety disorders which make me fail to understand your POV.
I am genuinly curious about your experience with this though as it is seemingly so far away from my own.
Mayhabs it's similare to me and my brother who is 7 years older than me. He used to bully me relentlessly but I still love him...That only happened after I turned 14 and was strong enough to physicaly stop him..that and I never saw him as a "guardian" which I would see my father as.
Having all this said I basically would ask you to tell me how what you descripted came to be :)
I really appreciate the care you took in choosing your words, it means a lot to me. And I'm truly sorry you had to go through all that.
When it comes to my dad, my love for him runs deep because I've come to understand that he's just like the rest of us.. flawed and imperfect. Yeah, he messed up pretty bad when I was a kid, but he's still my father. As a Christian, forgiveness is something I am called to, and he's been there for me since day one, providing for me and now being an amazing grandpa to my 4 kids. Sure, he's said sorry, but even if he hadn't, I'd still love him and forgive him. I mean, who am I to hold onto grudges when I've got my share of sin against others as well?
And let me tell you, it's not just my dad. The army threw some serious curveballs my way, but I've managed to forgive all of them too. Don't get me wrong, I still have moments where I feel that anger burning up inside, but then I remember the bigger picture my Lord and savior Jesus Christ, the people I love, and all the blessings He gave me in my life.
I've made my fair share of mistakes, and I'm constantly reminded of my own flaws and shortcomings. That's why I can't help but extend forgiveness to others, knowing full well the grace I've received from both God and people I have wronged. Forgiveness isn't always easy, but it's a calling I'm committed to, rooted in faith, compassion, understanding, and the universally shared human experience of imperfection.
I am not special. I am a sinner just like everyone who ever has and will exist. I love everyone and pray you will know this peace that God gave me for all the struggles I’ve encountered and continue to go through everyday.
Love you man 👍
@@pullsane hope that helps 😅
@@lukeleonard3382 Wow.
That was genuinly a really good read.
First off I would like to extend your thanks back to you. It seems like you took your time writing this comment and truly thought about what I had asked about instead of giving a one sentence reply. I appreciate this a lot!
I hope I don't offend you by stating this but I am not christian by faith (Though I used to attend church under roman catholic believe until I was 14. I don't know how exactly Christianity works outside of german speaking countries btw). Yet I strongly resonnate with your general sentiment in regards to sin and forgiveness. I too believe that we are all full of sin and should restrain ourselfs from casting the first stone as that would be hypocritical and more importantly it would be vain. I don't want to boast that I have been without rage and contempt for things that have been done to me in the past and when my mental health declines I even sometimes catch my self in beeing wrathfull. "I want to destroy everything that is holy to them just like they did to me. I want to see their suffering with my own eyes and perhabs then they understand what they were doing is truly attrocious." But for me atleast the important part is comming to terms with what has expired and letting go.
Letting go off all that rage, all that anger.
Beeing wrathfull towards another is like drinking poison and expecting the other to die.
Hate and Spite are easy, Love and Forgiveness are hard and we need to work hard everyday to strive for a brighter future!
I think what you said is quite inspirational. It seems like you used to have a lot of anger. I don't deduce this through you beeing hostile in any case but by you seemingly beeing a calm and content person. I wouldn't necessarily say that you need to have been angry a lot to become like that but one seldom seeks for such levels of enlightenment if one hasn't struggled tremendously before and you seemingly having succeeded in atleast party letting go in all of that (As we both know man cannot be without sin) and accepting love and tolerance instead. That is really inspiring. I mean it.
I used to have such a love for everything this planet has gifted us but then I started hating the world...hating others and...myself the most. I fell down into a ravine where no sunlight was to be seen and the only comfort I had were sponatious blurs of warmth I could hallucinate when I decided to blend everything else out. I then saw glimpses of light, hands beeing reached out to me and for the first time I genuinly started to believe that life could get better.
I won't lie I am not good with entirely forgiving someone but I get better every year and knowing that one day I might turn out like you is a very comforting thought.
All that beeing said I think it to be curios that I didn't even think about the possibility that you were hatefull instead of fearfull towards your father.
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It took some time, a lot of therapy and me not heavily disassociating 5 times a week but I think I can finally genuinly say that I don't hold any contempt for this one friend who tried to r@p3 me and all the other men in my life who sexualy assaulted me anymore. If anything I feel pity for them. Beeing so f**ked in the head that you'd do that must not be fun either. I don't want to excusse their behavior in any means since me still not bering able to talk to this former friend because it's so triggering for me that I genuinly lose my grip on reality might be a bit worse. I had to block him on all socials and basicly move to the city to feel save again. He tried to contact me a few times to apologize (He was so drunk that night he only found out months later when I was at my wits end and broke of all communication with him) but I still just can't...
In my head space you were terrified of your father and managed to overcome your fears instead of having to overcoming anger. To me normaly your father is your protector, your guardian. That was sadly not really a possibility for my father so when my friend became my protector, my guardian and then tried to do what he did I didn't even feel any rage I just felt so completly and utterly unsave in this world. If my father was my protector, my guardian and physicaly assaulted me I think I would have reacted in a similare manner to the one that had actualy transpired. So apologies for my presumptions and projections. Though it's interesting to see that your sentiment turned towards anger instead of crippling fear. Humans can be so different :o.
I mean you probably felt both emotions it's just that one is the stronger motivator. It also sounded like you were able to talk to your father and change things in your relationship that didn't work out.
To be frank I have been typing all of this for probably 30 minutes and my head is starting to act up so sorry if the end is not as coherent as I would wish it was.
Well, I am happy for you!
Sounds like finding god and jesus really helped you with your struggles and you seemed to fix things with your father :)
Tangentingly I want to add that eventhough I personaly don't believe in God and having had very bad experiences with the church I am always overcome by joy when I met someone who virtues the "true" meaning of what beeing a christian means. My Religion teacher and his wife my ethics teacher are both very prominent very religious people in my towns community and when I was so afraid of telling my religiously conversative family that I was not getting a confirmation and that I was very much queet they both told me so many nice and encouraging things like "Don't worry if they make a fuss we will talk with them about it. You'll be loved by god and jesus regardless and if you are queer, well god didn't make a mistake but just made you a bit different to spice things up a bit down here on earth. You are a present just the way you are". Man that shit hit deeper than most things I had and have ever heard in my entire life.
I don't know how to end this but I want to.
1. Thank you for your thorough and kind answer
2. Thanks for reading all of this!
3. I feel quite inspired by your words so thanks for that as well.
4. Thanks for making christianity the cool thing it should be instead of spreading the hate the cathlic church as been for centuries.
edit: Holy cow this took 50 minutes 😂
Yoooooo! The chewing of the gun is priceless!
These are so on point!!!! 😂😂😂😂
Her acting is amazing his acting is pretty good
🤣🤣🤣 Get'em dad😂😂😂
Both my parents switch roles depending on what it is I did wrong😂😂😂
“Your parents..” part 😂
The emphatic side-to-side head shake combined with the disappointed facial expression is high quality stuff.
I love y’all’s videos 💯😂
"Pare- mom" best quote 😂
The gum chewing is so accurate 😂
The gum though 😂
“Yes it’s very serious.” 😂😂😂😂
help this is literally the most relatable thing i’ve seen all day😭
This parenting is why we have the kids we have today
Those Canadian “sorries” at the end 😂
I’m sorry, Dad! 😩
It’s fine…
Literally my dad
So relatable
I love how she has a moment when he says "probably more than what I was predicting" and she makes a face like "ehh, that's true..."
Very relatable, this and the angry mom skit has happened exactly that way multiple times in my life
my mom is definitely the more
chill
one
That head shake was violent
I love this content. Can send it to friends its great
The chewing dad.....!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
❤ mom!
Damn Alan Wake has a tough parenting style...
LMAO not quite alan wake but close
So relatable god it’s good
Once put a hole in the drywall while playing football in the basement. Mom was angry and said "Wait till your father gets home." We were really scared because when my dad got angry he was scary. Mom didn't tell him what happened just brought him downstairs. He took one look and burst out laughing. Caught us all off-guard. He used it as a teaching experience for fixing drywall.
“Head Coach Eddie Johnson” sounds great
This is wayyyy too accurate
It’s better to have these parents than the ones that beat you up when you mess up
The gum chewing is what gets me😂😂😂😂
The accuracy!!! 😂😂😂
lol I felt like my parents were yelling at me for a second.
I can relate
This is too real 😂