Spot on pile 1. So interesting I picked the same card with the same massage as ur last video, my ex is dealing w an addiction that he can’t promise right now to let go, but wants me to hold his hand and be his support system, he wants me to be his rock, he sees me as this out together (empress) I got it all figured out. He said that the word that pops up in his mind about him his nurturing, mothering, safe. He says he needs that type of energy to move forward. But what he doesn’t understand is I had to do a lot of work spiritually emotionally physically to get where I am right now. I didn’t have anyone to hold my hand. I feel lots of pressure to be okay w this addiction that he is trying to let go, it’s set him behind a lot in life. I ended things , conversations was going smoothly but he thought I was going to leave in a nurturing way like I usually do but this time I with held and he got upset. (Which I mentioned) I’m letting go they need to do the work on their own
Pile 1 resonates for me. We've been friends for a long time and have admired each other, but this is our second separation. They kept avoiding a convo so I said 💜🙏👋
Wow I wasn't sure I would get anything from this reading but pile 1 is exactly what's going on in my life now. My husband had a stroke in 2012. He has healed a lot but is still partially disabled. I think he relies on me way more than he needs to, to the point where I feel taken advantage of. It's been making me exhausted because he doesn't help out much. I feel like our connection isn't what it once was and we want different things in life now. I've lost myself and am going crazy from rarely getting alone time. I've been trying to prioritize myself instead of always doing what he wants. I want to encourage him to do more for himself and get out without me.
I chose pile 3 and I feel you were spot on! I’m a Capricorn & he’s an Aries with a huge ego and control issue. Needless to say I got tired of giving in! I’m a strong, independent woman, not the type he’s used to for sure!
Pile 3: This situation is hard to let go of. We had an intense passionate relationship. It felt one-sided. When I asked him to do more, he pulled away more. Mistletoe is a parasite too.
1 resonates with me. My bf and I have been arguing so much over the past few weeks. He’s been really clingy, smothering, and not given me space yet out of his own insecurities whilst withholding the type of attention I actually need. He doesn’t listen to me and takes everything I say about my emotions as a criticism/attack, which makes me not want to communicate at all. So it ends up with him just always talking and directing the narrative while I stay quiet. I’ve been so stressed lately trying to communicate with him it’s been starting to affect me to the point I’ve felt our relationship hasn’t been worth it and have thought about breaking up with him. I don’t want to do that because I love him, and I communicated that with him but our arguments are just impacting me so much I don’t want to be in a relationship that is this difficult. He kept asking childish questions like “shall I not text you, shall we not talk while you’re away” and I just said “fine! Don’t talk to me or text me” because he just says this stuff to get me to chase after him which is just not my style. We’re supposed to go to a wedding together later this month :-/ wish us luck I hope we clear things and have a good time
Yayessss!!! #3! my person's pride and ego has prevented any further movement.... I had to walk away, the 'stagnation' was too difficult to deal with. My faith, patience & unconditional Love has not faltered... now to see if she makes the right choices. Thank you for your astute and intuitive reading!
Pile #2 She called it quits 3wks ago out of anger and impulse because i called out her toxic behavior, she claimed crying over the 3rd party and wants to forget, she cant decide. She said this is my last msg goodbye. I never said anything and never contacted her. Yes she is stubborn, she admitted a 3rd party. I believe they are together, posted an fb story together. Idk anything but it seems she wants reactions from me but nah. We havent removed each other on socmed.
Wow Melissa, you deserved a lot of recognition from a lot of viewers who enjoyed watching Tarot videos! ❤ you always giving the blunt and most realistic and 100% related with my situation! but if the reading was negative, you still give me advice and don’t let me hanging with the negative outcome ❤ Pile 2. yes, we’re in this situationship where she definitely not want me to let go, wanting to be with me all the time, but wanted to make the rule all by herself (she mad if i text other person, but she still reply to other person texts, yes we agreed to this situationship or relationship without any status or label) but with her doing things with what she wants and feel comfortable is kinda disturbing for me😂
3 non-romantic. A well known parasite they expected me to be an enabling host and give them whatever they want. I've no intention of letting them use me the way they have used others. Really interesting, yes they need to be more independent and responsible for their behaviour/habits. Set boundaries and walked away due to their behaviour.
Pile 3, i met this person online and its long distance for now. This person do come to my country and its very quiet right now. But i am gonna let the person be. Doesnt make sense until we meet next to figure out our connection in person. Whats weird is this person is not looking for relationship.
3- She disempowers herself thru laziness and willful ignorance. I collaborated w her in a project- that’s how we met. I was impressed w her work ethic. She has since earned tenure. I recommended her for a job that I didn’t want. It was a promotion for either of us. I tipped her off to the job, put her name in the hat to admin, prepped her for the interview, interviewed her, promoted her to the panel that interviewed her, trained her and she HATES that I’m her subordinate and she has no clue what she’s doing. She is drunk on her title which has next to no power. She is rude to everyone. She has pissed off the whole team, is beyond disrespectful and entitled. Now I suspect she wasn’t doing her work but was hiring it out. She is really dishonest. Her attributes are lost on her attitude and sucky interpersonal skills.
Pile 3 doesn’t make sense cause i have given them more than enough time and space and all they’ve done is run away give the bare minimum and taken advantage of my time. My standards lately are no where near to high. Their pride and ego needs to be checked far more than mine
Spot on pile 1. So interesting I picked the same card with the same massage as ur last video, my ex is dealing w an addiction that he can’t promise right now to let go, but wants me to hold his hand and be his support system, he wants me to be his rock, he sees me as this out together (empress) I got it all figured out. He said that the word that pops up in his mind about him his nurturing, mothering, safe. He says he needs that type of energy to move forward. But what he doesn’t understand is I had to do a lot of work spiritually emotionally physically to get where I am right now. I didn’t have anyone to hold my hand. I feel lots of pressure to be okay w this addiction that he is trying to let go, it’s set him behind a lot in life. I ended things , conversations was going smoothly but he thought I was going to leave in a nurturing way like I usually do but this time I with held and he got upset. (Which I mentioned) I’m letting go they need to do the work on their own
When someone is battling addiction, it’s hard to be in a relationship without it being co- dependent. Love and light to you 💕💕
Pile 1 was ridiculously spot on. I can't even.
I almost did a spit take when you pulled the parasite card. Nailed it.
Pile 1 resonates for me. We've been friends for a long time and have admired each other, but this is our second separation. They kept avoiding a convo so I said 💜🙏👋
Wow I wasn't sure I would get anything from this reading but pile 1 is exactly what's going on in my life now. My husband had a stroke in 2012. He has healed a lot but is still partially disabled. I think he relies on me way more than he needs to, to the point where I feel taken advantage of. It's been making me exhausted because he doesn't help out much. I feel like our connection isn't what it once was and we want different things in life now. I've lost myself and am going crazy from rarely getting alone time. I've been trying to prioritize myself instead of always doing what he wants. I want to encourage him to do more for himself and get out without me.
I chose pile 3 and I feel you were spot on! I’m a Capricorn & he’s an Aries with a huge ego and control issue. Needless to say I got tired of giving in! I’m a strong, independent woman, not the type he’s used to for sure!
This is a helpful reading thank you. More of this please thank you
Pile 3: This situation is hard to let go of. We had an intense passionate relationship. It felt one-sided. When I asked him to do more, he pulled away more. Mistletoe is a parasite too.
Melissa, I can't believe how accurate this reading was. Uncanny, thank you so much ❤
You’re welcome!
The pile i picked made a lot of sense and seemed accurate. Ty! I reslly like this topic
1 resonates with me. My bf and I have been arguing so much over the past few weeks. He’s been really clingy, smothering, and not given me space yet out of his own insecurities whilst withholding the type of attention I actually need. He doesn’t listen to me and takes everything I say about my emotions as a criticism/attack, which makes me not want to communicate at all. So it ends up with him just always talking and directing the narrative while I stay quiet. I’ve been so stressed lately trying to communicate with him it’s been starting to affect me to the point I’ve felt our relationship hasn’t been worth it and have thought about breaking up with him. I don’t want to do that because I love him, and I communicated that with him but our arguments are just impacting me so much I don’t want to be in a relationship that is this difficult. He kept asking childish questions like “shall I not text you, shall we not talk while you’re away” and I just said “fine! Don’t talk to me or text me” because he just says this stuff to get me to chase after him which is just not my style. We’re supposed to go to a wedding together later this month :-/ wish us luck I hope we clear things and have a good time
this is exactly the reading I was looking for !!!! Thank you so much
You are so welcome
Yayessss!!! #3! my person's pride and ego has prevented any further movement.... I had to walk away, the 'stagnation' was too difficult to deal with. My faith, patience & unconditional Love has not faltered... now to see if she makes the right choices. Thank you for your astute and intuitive reading!
Pile 3 my friend being an energy vampire I had to place boundaries on her. She was trying to take over my life.
Pile #2
She called it quits 3wks ago out of anger and impulse because i called out her toxic behavior, she claimed crying over the 3rd party and wants to forget, she cant decide. She said this is my last msg goodbye. I never said anything and never contacted her.
Yes she is stubborn, she admitted a 3rd party. I believe they are together, posted an fb story together. Idk anything but it seems she wants reactions from me but nah. We havent removed each other on socmed.
First two piles ❤ Very accurate dear.. Thank ypu so much and Merry Christmas 😊🎄🎅
Pile 2: so accurate!
Wow Melissa, you deserved a lot of recognition from a lot of viewers who enjoyed watching Tarot videos! ❤
you always giving the blunt and most realistic and 100% related with my situation! but if the reading was negative, you still give me advice and don’t let me hanging with the negative outcome ❤
Pile 2. yes, we’re in this situationship where she definitely not want me to let go, wanting to be with me all the time, but wanted to make the rule all by herself (she mad if i text other person, but she still reply to other person texts, yes we agreed to this situationship or relationship without any status or label) but with her doing things with what she wants and feel comfortable is kinda disturbing for me😂
Pile 2, he IS my passion.
Love this series!
Hi Melissa . New subbie. Love your shorts. Thanks for all you do
You’re welcome. Thank you for subscribing! ❤
3 non-romantic. A well known parasite they expected me to be an enabling host and give them whatever they want. I've no intention of letting them use me the way they have used others. Really interesting, yes they need to be more independent and responsible for their behaviour/habits.
Set boundaries and walked away due to their behaviour.
Pile 2 very accurate!!!
Thank you God 🙏
so accurate mel ❤ 3
Pile 3, i met this person online and its long distance for now. This person do come to my country and its very quiet right now. But i am gonna let the person be. Doesnt make sense until we meet next to figure out our connection in person. Whats weird is this person is not looking for relationship.
3- She disempowers herself thru laziness and willful ignorance. I collaborated w her in a project- that’s how we met. I was impressed w her work ethic. She has since earned tenure. I recommended her for a job that I didn’t want. It was a promotion for either of us. I tipped her off to the job, put her name in the hat to admin, prepped her for the interview, interviewed her, promoted her to the panel that interviewed her, trained her and she HATES that I’m her subordinate and she has no clue what she’s doing. She is drunk on her title which has next to no power. She is rude to everyone. She has pissed off the whole team, is beyond disrespectful and entitled. Now I suspect she wasn’t doing her work but was hiring it out. She is really dishonest. Her attributes are lost on her attitude and sucky interpersonal skills.
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Pile 3 doesn’t make sense cause i have given them more than enough time and space and all they’ve done is run away give the bare minimum and taken advantage of my time. My standards lately are no where near to high.
Their pride and ego needs to be checked far more than mine