Side Effects | Original Version - CalArts 2018
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- My first year film at Calarts!
A guy who loves to take care of others learns that he needs to take care of himself too.
Film by Eleonora Stella Hariyono Oei
Music by Alia Martin
I learned a lot from making this film, I'm looking forward to make more films in the future! Special thanks to everyone who helped me out throughout the whole process!
Vimeo upload: vimeo.com/2647...
This makes me feel like you can rely on others but you shouldn’t overwhelm others of your problems but share them.
You're probably one of the ppl who disliked it
And also, realistically, we can't, no matter how much we sincerely want to, give 100 per cent of ourselves to Everyone All of the time!🌿🌱
@@loveex767 where are you getting the impression he disliked it?
@@loveex767he didn’t dislike it? He’s just saying that you need boundaries
As corny as it might sound, this really sums things up and tells a very good story for some people.
It’s never easy to be there for others and it’s always vital to know you should take care of yourself, too, even when it’s not easy or obvious - it’s not as simple as petting a dog though.
As an NSPL phone operator, this really touched me. Thanks for this animation.
I can't care for myself. If others can't care themselves and need my help
Mr Doge that’s very selfless of you, but that doesn’t make it any easier.
It can get very hard if you don’t practice some self care, so I implore you to have some introspection once in a while - some time to yourself.
@@nilkuan4199 i usually meditate and stuff. And liberate stress by practicing sport.
So i think im ok even though some days i have my personal breakdowns
Thank you for helping so many people every day in your work as phone operator!
Preach 👏🏻
The way the dog is all shaded in too at the end from missing their owner...
Melanie Ranee oh shit yeah
not owner, their dad
Not owner, Guardian or Mom or Dad 😊🐶🐱💖
Dug
A better best friend has never been
I lost my Max a month ago
and I miss him terribly
He knew how to put a smile on my face
9 happy years
The black thing is an imagery for sadness. At least for me it seems.
2face guy true
True
Ye
No shit
did you just blow in from stupid town?
I came here from another video on Facebook. They didn't even credit you and used some slow emo song in the background. I'm extremely glad I found it, you will not believe how many more people have loved this to bits and just don't know this is the original!
Same but reddit and no music
Music went with it
I know what this feels like actually.
I spend a lot of my time letting my friends vent to me, tell me their problems and ask me fore advice.
One of the joys of being an empath is that when people lay out their feelings on you, it really starts to weigh you down.
Any other empaths out there?
Addilynn Shae Henson i relate so much. I’m very empathic and it hurts me when people suffer. Is it weird that when you help others, they don’t help you any way when you cry, even in-front of them?
icetheice Ice, where do I even begin? So many people have done that to me and it hekin sucks doesn’t it?
You really start to figure out who your real friends are and who’s just using you for attention. The hard part it trying to stop helping those people who are using you.
Addilynn Shae Henson my real friends still do the same thing, but they just don’t appreciate how I try to help them XD.
icetheice Ice, oh dear??
Most of my friends happily take my advice.
The other, when she vents to me, she not only puts me in situations where I quite literally don’t know what to say to her, she also doesn’t take my advice. She also does the whole thing where I tell He she looks nice or pretty she goes
“No i don’t”
And I’m over here like
“Just accept the fricken compliment!!”
Don’t get me wrong I love helping people out as much as I can but it really puts my day into a downward spiral when they dump everything on me and and I end up really tired or just depressed about my own problems😅
Same
“It’s better to be hurt than hurt others. Nice people can be happy with just that.”
In 1minute and 30 seconds you've summed up a lifetime of experiences for some people that are often difficult to explain - myself included. Wonderful work.
This is about how much pets mean to you theres always a day everybody hates and when you leave home your dogs miss you and when your out in public or school or sum and bad stuff happens to you it's always good to come back home to your dog because they will always be there for u at any point in life :)
Love this - it popped up as "Life of an Empath" and that is exactly what it's like. So glad to follow the trail to original creator.
Everytime i watch this i know im going to cry but i watch it anyway because of how good it is
I would like to say i’m a pretty strong-willed person that avoids crying at almost all costs.
This video makes me weep.
The doggo cures all ales, ALL HAIL DOGGO ALL HAIL DOGGO
I agree dogs help everybody feel better
wish i had a doggo.
@@juicy8909 I have one
I like cats.
@@MB-yu7ss yeah their cool
The way he walk back after helping others sad and defeated. Why do I imagine Robin William's like this 😭
I kinda understand this, so the darkness on him grows as he takes up burdens from other people, but it feels like it's getting heavier each time and when he finds a time for himself, he let's it go... this is how I feel sometimes, I'm not depressed or anything, but sometimes you worry about other people, you forget to think about yourself, that's how I see this film!
Remember : helping someone is the best thing you could ever do. Listening to someone in their time of need can be vital for them. Although letting them vent to you is amazing and a great way to show you care, after a while it can become extremely draining. I’m not saying you should totally ignore them, but just step away for a day or suggest they talk to a therapist. Listening to others problems for long extended times can cause more harm than good and can be damaging to you, so be conscious next time a friend vents.
Thank you for being You. The dark and light feelings of our emotions are like a second sense to animals. Not everyone has a dog or cat. I have a good friend whose dog always wanted a fuss made of them. It always changed my emotions like a weight taken away.
Notice that when he helps someone and takes on their misery for them, they immediately leave and forget about him.
Well that's basically counseling but and counseling it takes longer to get back to a good state of mental health
This is very underrated, nice work by the way~ keep up the great work~ :D
it happened to me in the past when I had been a listening ear to someone who always shared his problems with me to the extent that I just couldn't cope with them. It made me have a sense of guilt when I could not offer any solution. To the extent that I found my mind being pre-occupied with those problems shared with me when those were not my problems to begin with.
Wow I wish I could stop crying! Thank you so much for this
Helping other people before yourself. Although you are helping other people, pain and depression goes to you
Man maybe I'm just too sensitive but this made me all teary eyed
this is literally the best thing i've ever seen.
I rarely get touch and get sad to an animation/videos/movie. This one moves me, so thank you for this.
Listen my feelings were hurting just a little and then that dog scene happened and fellas, I'm crying.
Foudn this shared on Twitter and thought it was wonderful!
When I help others, I feel better. It gives my life meaning. When I accidentally cause harm to others, that's when the darkness in my mind spreads. Kindness leaves all involved better off than they were.
I love that the dog also had a heavy day before its human came back
This video speaks volumes about how we help each other and the joy a pet brings to us. LOVE IT.
I’m going to show this to counseling students and trainees in mental health fields. It does a great job of illustrating how we can internalize the struggles of our clients, as well as the need for self care. Great video!
this is me. literally me.
and I don't have a dog.
imagine that.
yeah rather than feelin sorry for yourself... go adopt one... i knew from your name maybe you are moeslem and prohibit to get dog... but i've seen some moeslem people in my country.. they have dog and still be okay with it.. as long as dog did not lick at you right?...
i hope it help...
Dogs really do change your life!! ❤
It’s a painful truth I have to live, but I’m glad I could find the video that explains it. Maybe, when they see this...they’ll understand a little more.
this is the type of plot twist that makes me happy.
1:06 insert Love Stereo here
Many dont notice the tough times people go through, one negative or one positive effect can change their entire life.
As an empath I feel this on a daily basis... The ability to absorb other people's emotions...
Me (an empath) sensing that you are upset (you look upset)
When encouraging others we may become sharers of their burden. Thus the animation is called "side effects" since that is the side effect of helping others. Then in turn bearing all of that stuff (it could be different things) can start weighing us down. So we need something that can lift us up. I guess one thing is pets and as shown here it benefits both parties as a result.
I feel the same. I'm a suicide attempt survivor and I saved three people from killing themselves nine years after my second and latest attempt in 2012. One woman tried to jump from a bridge after her best friend fatally jumped from it and I was the only one who managed to talk her out of it. We cried, we hugged and she made it home. Two years ago, I had an omen that a coworker was depressed and manic. Ten days after, I saved her from jumping off six stories and whilst everyone thanked me, I broke down so bad that I collapsed on the ground, sobbing uncontrollably. I took hits to protect others at the expense of my life. I'm the friend who will wipe your tears until toi feel safe. I'm the person who will console someone grieving. I'm the person in the subway who will give you a tissue if I see you crying. I will a buy a full-course meal to an homeless man. I will help a friend pay their rent and be the first to talk to them for hours if something ever happens to them. They will confide in me ans cast their inner secrets on me. I will cry with them and help. I will rush to anyone's defense in the face of danger even if I have to get injured or killed. I'm always someone's helper. It gives me comfort to help but sometimes, it's draining and I often cry because of it. I feel despondent. But happy to bring a smile on their face. The weight of the world is often on my back because I try to protect and help everyone around me and see beyond their eyes. I feel others' sorrow and joy and it's like I CAN'T prevent myself from taking up for others from friends, family members to strangers. I'm very loyal and keep an open heart even though I have a tough, blunt and aloof nature. And all of those who've ever known me or still know me today told me that my heart is my biggest asset and it makes me one of a kind. But I'm a bear with argile feet. However, I'll always come for everyone in need because this is the core of who I am and maybe that's my purpose. However, I also need to not forego myself for the sake of others. It's so difficult because I carry a lot on my shoulders. Maybe I'm only human but doing something is what humans should do. Maybe being an empath is my fate.
Oh boy, I found this reuploaded to Instagram and it was a battle to find the original but I am glad I did!
Just shared this with my therapist after she got a new dog
I’m for everyone, but nobody is for me.
A masterpiece. A short video with enduring and deep meaning & value.
This hits hard.. I feel this with every fiber of my being.
Darn it you made me cry in front of my family
I just came across this video as a gif on FB so I did 5 minutes of searching to find you, the original artist. Bravo! A beautiful piece of work!
same!
Me too! I'm so glad the GIF does at least include one frame of the title and your name! This is completely brilliant and I am sharing the original and complete version far and wide.
My dog and I watch it together. :)
Sometimes all someone need is a hug.
The black is sadness...
AND THE FREAKING DOG WAS SAD THAT THE OWNER WAS GONE OMG MY HEART
This minute and thirty second video expresses so much emotion
You can help as many people as you want but soon you are going to get tired and sad too then you will need someone too
This video also says that dogs are way to good for us and we don’t deserve them 😂 it’s true
There is an invisible thread that connects us together with love, that needs no words.
What a beautiful thought. It’s true. Some of us absorb too much of other’s pain but with time, we have to learn to build safeguards/walls to keep that out and become internally stable. Dogs are amazing to help cope.
THE LIFE AND TRAGEDY OF AN EMPATH
That was my life.
Thank you for regaining my memories.
Beautiful works. 🐶❤️
100% Black Rabbit Approved . no words needed
this should be viral!!!
this makes me unbelievably happy
I feel this so deeply. It relates to me so much. Continue doing well at Cal, it's a great school.
beautiful and amazing
Never forget the ones who helped you
*This is exactly what I want to do once I become a psychologist. ❤️❤️ I want to be able to listen to people, give them support, and advice them on how to deal with their problems and emotions. This is my dream: to Help Others because I know what it feels like to be lonely, depressed, neglected, rejected, anxious, and fearful since I have lived those things myself *
Does this mean he can say the n-word now?
Y E S
Max L yeah😍
No, he'll get ligma if he does.
@@MasterHandFinalDestination whats ligma
Master Hand a dead meme comment with an even more dead one inside I like it
Thanks for this! I cant stop cry, this is my dog life!
This is the most simple animation, yet the one with the biggest voice. 💕
This Is emotional
Hi. Today I was having a really bad day. This made me feel a little better. Thank you so much.
Great movie! In such a simple way, he shows the complexity of interpersonal relationships in which there is epathy and understanding for others.I especially recommend it to psychotherapists who face the danger of internalizing the struggles of our clients on a daily basis.
It is not easy to be with others at all. It is also important to know how to take care of yourself. It's not that simple. It is not enough to pet a dog at the end of the day and it is good to spare close people who do not face so many feelings of others...
Empathy may not be necessary to work with people, but it is healing and is at the very core of the relationship of trust, understanding and a special kind of closeness that is built during the psychotherapeutic process.
empathy and loving faithful dogs are the keys to our joy!
This was an interesting way to show how people empathize with emotion. It was really well done! Smooth animation and everything said through music and visuals. No words needed. Nice job!
Beautiful.
Lmao this is actually me irl
Glad someone made an animation about this.
That actually warmed my heart. Glad I found this randomly in the middle of the night 🙂
I really think you should enter this in film contests. It's Oscar worthy for sure.
The black things symbolize problems.
When the black things transfer from one character to another, it means the character who originally had the black things told their problems to the other character, so the weight of the problem is passed on from one person to another, usually these are social or mental problems, (the ones that usually cannot easily be solved physically) things like their anxiety, their fears, their insecurities, their poor social life, etc etc. Usually these problems can be solved by talking to someone, the feeling of them listening to you makes you feel special because someone went out of their way to help you but this has an effect on the person listening, when the problems leave, it's unloading the emotional baggage they carry around and putting it on the person who listens. the more the black things cover their body, the more severe the problem is, (seen with the girl who was about to commit suicide)
So when this guy can't handle any more problems, be goes home to his dog to unload all of that by telling his dog the problems that have been collecting, there is no load put on the dog because the dog cannot understand human language but knows his owner is talking to him so he listens anyway because he is a good boi. The load is lifted off the dog because the only problem the dog carries is the worry of losing his owner, the problem is lifted because the owner is now right before him, leaving him nothing to worry about.
Wow... that was... beautiful and made this even more clear! Good Job!!! 😊
So, black people are just people full of sadness?
Yes
Thanks man!
Inspiring
I love it when I suck people’s feelings into my arms
Elenora, I’m so sorry about all of the rude comments that were said about your work. I really enjoyed it and the message was beautiful. It’s excellent, creative, and very well done. I hope you can make more like it if you ever find the time. :)
Truly deserves more attention. Took me a while finding it here
As many mentioned, there is an edited version on Facebook with a sad melody...
I prefer the original here!! Gret job, lovely story 🥰
This is such a moving & touching video.
I love this soooo much ❤ And I just spent 20 mins looking for the name of the artist who made this original - and I finally found you! ❤ It’s a such a beautiful, deeply touching cartoon ❤ it has been remixed 10000000 times and It makes me so sad that people remixing it do not quote you as the artist, and that it’s soooo hard to find you! ❤
One word:
*underrated*
Well, it's 2021. I guess it's in order to represent this beautiful story with a re-addressing of the colorways. 🌿🌱
This needs more views.
is it normal to cry every time i watch the end?
at the time i saw this vdo...m ur fan....it made mah day....reallly loved it....keep up the good work
So beautiful!
0:27
Notice how everyone has Darkness all over them and their head is the last thing to be covered, except for the one girl who hit the one dude, notice how they only have Darkness on their head being concealed by their hair.
I have a lesson that goes with this story, and to be honest, I think it fits very well!
“Sometimes, you need to walk in the darkness so that others can see the *Light!* “
Such a beautiful message, thank you for creating this - I LOVE IT 🥰
Thank you for this film
finally Eleonora, i found you. I´ve been looking for the author of this short to mention it in a research. People chopped your video and is on internet with other audio and no credit, too bad. Anyways if you read this, thank you and nice job!
This is truly one of the most relatable videos I've ever seen. 😊🙌🏼🐶💖
Beautiful work!!! Thank you for sharing!!!
Awww that was so adorable
I tear up every time…this is almost my everyday working at the pediatric hospital…
I teared up-
THIS IS SO CUTE IM IN LOVE
I actually love this
Beautifully made
INSTANTLY STARTED CRYING OMG
awesome video with most morality
Gosh. This is great.