Hey, friends! Please give a warm welcome to the wonderful Alexis Blake. She is an awesome, super intelligent, and beautiful trans woman who began her transition and RUclipsr journey not too long ago, but she has already become the real deal!! Leave her some love in the comments please and subscribe to her channel if you haven’t already. Love buck ❤
I am obsessed with Alexis. She’s one of the kindest RUclipsrs while always speaking so much sense. She has some of the most amazing feminine energy about her and is very respectful. Love that you had her on 🤍
Having been very lucky to meet Alexis in person a fortnight ago, she really does radiate feminine energy, and is super sweet and lovely! I could have talked do her for ages!
@@Elstro1988 awwh lucky you indeed. Hopefully she will write a book one day. It will be a perfect quide as reference for women to have a better understanding of trans women. She certainly helped me. 🙏🥰
I love Alexis' channel. It isn't even that she's trans, it's that she's a delightful person, full of grace, with a great sense of humour, never taking herself or life too seriously. Both she and Liam always cheer me up when I'm down. These qualities are so rare on social media, which is why their channel is so refreshing and unique.
To add to that, I love that Alexis implements so much regular, every day content into the mix. Not everything is focused on her being trans or commenting on/reacting to things related to the subject of trans. We simply get to see her just living life and that is such a joy to watch.
Puberty was hell for me. I was a tomboy and one day i had breasts and was bleeding, it was so painful (physically, mentally, emotionally). I didn't know my place in the world, didn't know how to be a woman.... My best friends started acting differently, i was no longer one of the boys. It was a struggle. I would have been an easy victim for everyone selling this dangerous ideology as a cure .
Same here. I hated EVERYTHING about being a girl when puberty hit. I even said to my mum, "I wish I'd been born a BOY." Which worried her til I explained I'd not have been going through that HELL of pain and shame and fear if I had been. If I were to say that these days, I'd be on testosterone before I could finish my sentence!!!! That is SO disturbing. I feel so sorry for those struggling with puberty these days.
That woman is gorgeous and I’d never guess. And she’s so open, especially about categorizing herself as a “ trans - woman”. She’s making no bones about it.
@@sarral2008that’s not your place. Don’t dare say women need to agree with you. I don’t want him in me and my daughters’ spaces. He may be nice but has to stay out of women’s spaces so the nasty men can’t get in.
@@AsMr-km6ex Ngl, this isn't a realistic expectation. Because on the flip side you are also asking transmen (who look like Buck) people who look like biological MEN with beards even though they aren't, TO BE in the same space with you and your daughter. Which is something you also don't want and it's not something you would realistically know. The middle ground is not letting the people who are obviously (they are very obvious tbh because they don't tend to transition or do it partially) not transexuals into the bathrooms. As you can see, Alexis would likely be thrown out of a restaurant just like Blaire White was if she was to go into the men's bathroom. Perception is everything and in this case it seems to be rather clear who will respect those spaces and transition long before entering vs those who don't or half ass it just because they want to be in those spaces for fetishistic purposes.
So glad to see Alexis’ channel growing! My girlfriend showed me her over a year ago and she’s still her favorite trans woman RUclipsr along with blaire. We love her! Awesome interview, Alexis! ❤❤
My son came out as transgender at 12, (he's now 16 on Tuesday) I never shut him down or invalidated him, I accepted him immediately, however I did talk to him and explain that until he can consent to change anything physically it wouldn't be happening. It has nothing to do with not wanting him to feel on the outside who he is on the in but I do believe as a child who's developing and changing constantly it's such huge decisions, it has to be theirs when they have the full understanding of what they are about to do with their bodies, he completely agrees, we got him some therapy to support him while he learns all about this journey he's on, he's entire family and friends have welcomed him whole heartedly, and he's doing so incredible, I've seen his opinions on certain things change over the years which has shown me making him wait till he's an adult is the right choice. He's 100% transgender however the more he learns about risk to surgeries and so on the more he makes educated decisions. Thank you for speaking out for trans people like my boy, who wants nothing more than to just be the boy he feels inside, not these fakes that are making this community look like it's just full of wronguns
Good for you. And I believe it's so important for kids who believe they are trans go through puberty as for a large number of them, they do grow out of it when the hormones kick in. If they still feel the same after puberty, then by all means, do what feels right for them and they can go into it 100% sure, which leads to the best outcome.
Absolutely. My son, now grown up, was gay, trans, bi and straight throughout his teenage years. A lot of teens wonder where they fit and what sexual orientation they are. I always told my son, whatever his preference or gender he decides is right for him, I'm here for him but to just find his way until he's got passed puberty because he'll be better equipped to make an informed choice once his hormones have settled more.
Buck, I am a 72 year old transsexual male. I transitioned over a year and a half ago. It was my decision and I was not swayed by any one. I also am married to a wonderful man who has never questioned my decision to change. I’ve had top surgery and am currently taking testosterone. I’m in therapy with a wonderful trans woman who has been a great therapist and mentor. I’m also a retired clergy who has wanted to walk the earth as a man since I was young. It’s hard being trans in Texas but it’s doable if you can pass and don’t act crazy. I really appreciate your style and your perspective. Keep up the good work and blessings ❤
It's never too late to live your dreams. Be happy and healthy with your newly found joy of being who you wanted to be. I am in no way trans but your comment is inspiring to those of us who may feel we are behind based on our age. Thank you.
I agree with other commenters that we don't usually hear from older trans men. May I ask, what do you think of medical transition for kids (teens)? The severity of the drugs is what I am concerned about & not the social implications, but with your lived experience, would you have supported yourself at 16 doing this? I am genuinely curious to hear your perspective. ❤
Acknowledging our differences makes it easier to accept this, for all of us. She's fabulous and the conversations she has on her channel, with her boyfriend are brilliant.
Alexis, as a woman who has had transwomen in my bathroom for years, I want to say that you are the kind of transwoman I welcome with open arms into my spaces. You are beautiful, kind, and smart as all get out. I appreciate your respect for us women. Thank you.
@@blackharvest13 No. Most women don't want men around when they change, or their daughters do. And it's not only safety. It's our women's community. When we are alone, without men. If you are a woman, shame on you.
@@blackharvest13 No, we are not. I don't know what happened to my comment. But we are not, and don't claim that. Are you a woman? Our female community will be destroyed. Both sexes must have their own, separate world. Men too, need that. Those who long to be the sex they are not, must create their own world, their own spaces. It's not my problem.
61 y.o. bi woman here. I love you guys and you are soooo spot on with the LGBT + community losing ground. Hard fought ground I might add. Never been on steroids, I have man hands. My grown adult daughter ( biologically) is 5'11" and wears a size 11 shoe. PLEASE, PLEASE keep this up!!!!! You are NEEDED right now.
Alexis and Liam are such an adorable cute couple. I so recommend going to her channel and subscribing. It is so much fun to see them interacting with each other, you see the love between them, they are like couple goals. Alexis is so classy.
So happy to see Alexis on your channel Buck. She so deserves a bigger audience. She is so respectful of biological women and I love her for it. Thank you both for what you do ❤
You are two of my FAVORITE voices in content creation! The kindness, the humor, the wisdom...I have so much respect for you two. I'd love a cuppa with you both!
Alexis is great. She seems very based and rooted in reality with her opinions. I have always appreciated how she is open to discourse with women and other trans folks, changing her opinion and taking accountability when she feels it's right. She is a very genuine person.
I love how Buck puts a thumbs up when he strongly agrees as so not to interrupt Alexis and allowing her to finish her thoughts. Much love to Buck, Alexis and Blair - I’m such a huge fan!
When my friend came out as a trans woman I had no problem welcoming her into my space because she never forced it, she never expected it, she passed as female even before transitioning, she’s been very respectful and that’s all we ask
Love to see Alexis on your channel. I’ve been following her, and Liam’s story for quite some time. You are all killing it with the common sense. Love to see it as sense is no longer common.
@@BuckAngelOfficial absolutely! You have no idea how much your channel is needed. I was born and raised in Southern California. I owned a beautiful salon. And I fled in May because I couldn’t take it anymore. It was heartbreaking to have little 12 and 13-year-old girls schedule appointments to get their haircut like their true gender identity as boys right before their top surgery. And to see the parents celebrate it. And I witnessed personally a couple of young boys playing girls soccer, and some girls no longer have upper teeth. This is just madness. So my pup and I are peacefully living in Kentucky and I guess I’m technically retired now. I will never step back in California. So excited to see that Blaire White is going on tour. We plan on going to see her in Nashville in October. Thanks so much again for your channel. This has been going on for so long and I don’t understand why no one sees that we’re damaging children forever. Thank you so so much.
I have been listening to Alexis for a very long time. I love her. She gives me so much as a transwoman. Who's transitioned in a different situation? She gives me so many answers. I so much appreciate her voice? Thank you for sharing her with the world buck❤❤❤
Thank you both for common sense!!! Im a woman and have no problem sharing my space with actual trans women. Please don't erase us and please be respectful of our sports ❤
She understands that woman's spaces were designed to keep woman and girls safe. When out safety is threatened we will push back. She makes me feel safe 🙏🏼 it's mostly energy less about looks
Well also her looks make it clear that she is really serious about being trans. These dudes with facial hair-- they just seem like they're exploiting a trend.
I appreciate how you are speaking out. I’m stunned that these fetish and myoginists don’t care about anyone but themselves and don’t care about how hard the ‘true’ communities have worked so hard for rights. The few ‘true’ trans I know are being brandished with the same backlash and have never acted how these guys are. And us biologically women are being shushed. How can our society have so rapidly back tracked so fast?
❤great show, I am a 45 yr old lesbian, I came out at 15 in the 90's... I am totally on the same page as you. Luv you Buck!! When I think "Family" you are there with me❤❤ I am now subscribed to Alexis😁
By allowing anyone to self-identify as trans, it’s making actual trans women specifically unsafe. I do think social media and the pandemic both played a roll.
Alexis, you saying in the beginning that (paraphrasing) the reason spaces are separated by sex is to keep people safe. That's a great, simple way to put it. I loved this conversation and I appreciate you both!
The BEST collab! Such a fan of Alexis, thank you for having her on your channel ❤️ I am a biological woman and I appreciate Alexis’s perspective on respecting women’s spaces!
Thanks for making it easier to understand and accept. I feel a lot of people who claim your community talk down to those who don't understand any of this and instantly claim we are homophobic. Much respect to the both of you
As a biological woman, I have so much respect for the both of you. You are amazing at keeping it real. And Alexis is right, respect is earned not demanded. Much love to you both and have been waiting for this collab. Enojoyed watching. :)
Alexis Blake popped up on my youtube feed yesterday and now I happen to see her here with Buck! she is so lovely and I agree a lot with her perspective on this issue. She has such a big heart, it shows through in this interview, a truly beautiful human. She's got a new subscriber in me 🥰💖🫶
Awesome collaboration!! I absolutely love Alexis! I love the points made about women appreciating and recognizing effort being put into a transition and that being a huge part of us accepting trans women into our spaces. I work with a visibly trans woman, but she does her hair and makeup and has had surgeries and has a very feminine energy. If she walked into a public bathroom, people would know she was trans, but they wouldn’t feel threatened at all.
I have a great nephew (sister in laws grandson) that decided to transition at 20 (he is gay but his mother wouldn't accept it). He went to the doctor and immediately got hormones - no psychological examination at all. Just oh, your trans - here you go. And nothing was discussed about the negative effects of the hormones. He has since started therapy to accept his sexual identity and has stopped the hormones. But it was so scary to me how easy it was for him to start.
I have many gay friends. Many of them say that if their parents had not been as accepting of them they could easily have gone down this route as they felt so much stigma from outside forces to do just that. Children pick up on vibes as well as language and actions. Children want to be accepted and they will tie themselves in all kinds of knots just to get that acceptance many times.
@jujutrini8412 that is exactly why he wanted to do it. He felt his mom would be OK with him being with men if he transitioned. He didn't tell her what he was doing. I am pretty sure she would have lost her mind when she found out. And I can only imagine what that would have done to him.
Lesbian here. I've heard this scenario a few times, and it really confuses me. If a family wouldn't be accepting of a gay or lesbian kid, how would that kid fare any better with that family by transitioning? It's not like the typical phobic family loathes gay people but is fine with trans people.
❤❤ the thing I love about Alexis is just how classy she is. How wonderful to see the both of you sharing these discussions with us, lots of love to you both. ☺️
When I came across Alexis TikTok, I didn’t realise she was a transwoman. She is honestly beautiful. I’m a bio woman and am so thankful that these conversations are happening. Thank you Buck for holding space for these kinds of convos.
So glad you had Alexis on!! I have been watching her for awhile and think she has such a beautiful soul. That a younger person like her has such a level head and such a firm grasp of how women feel is so great to see. I forget that there are people like this are out there after seeing all the hate and ridiculous out there. A big thank you to you both.
My brother in law had AGP. Once, he stole a bunch of my dresses. He would wear my clothes and walk the dogs and get excited when people mistook him for me.
Two of my favorite people on the internet! You're both (and Liam!) So genuine and beautiful inside and out! Keep up the amazing work! Love you all, God Bless! 🙏🐱💚
Her hands are beautiful 😭 I wish i had long, slender fingers instead of short, stubby, fat fingers. 😅 Buck is spot on. It's in your head, love. Nothing wrong or 'suspicious' about them. ❤
I've been waiting for this!!! Love you both!!! So much respect!!! Even just 15 minutes in and I'm loving this collab!! Discussing the misogyny and AGP. I thought this would be good and it is great!!! You are so enjoyable together, vibing along and bouncing off of each other. I could watch you for hours together.
Omg! I saw Alexis on TikTok a long time ago and LOVED her! I’m so happy to see her on here with you! This is my fav episode you’ve done so far, thank you for having alexis on she speaks such sense! ❤
AHHHHHHHHHH 🥰😱 I am SO HAPPY RIGHT NOWWWWW!!! Been following Alexis since pretty much day 1 of her RUclips presence and I have LOVED watching her grow. Representing the UK we *_finally_** have an INCREDIBLE Trans-Woman* to teach the British LGBT youth how to not be insane “Wokies” and follow science/factual reality that we actually live in.
The way Alexis described gender dysphoria (sp?) is the best way I have heard it described to where I actually understand what it is. I am learning a lot from your channel and Blair's channel. Thank you all for putting your voices out here!!!❤
I just discovered Alexis and now she shares the place with Blaire as my favorite transwoman influencer. And you, Buck, you share the place of my favorite transman with Marcus Dibb (I hope I spelled his name right) ♡
Theres no way you can watch this interview and say they are hateful or selfhating transpeople. Alexis is so lovely which is why I love her channel, and you mix that with buck's idgaf attitude and it made this wonderful episode❤
This is such a great collaboration. I follow you both as a straight woman who loves to hear this rational side of being transgender. There is so much madness out there, you too are so balanced and sane, it’s refreshing to hear.
That’s our Alexis 🩷 We’re so proud of her here in the UK. She has already done so much to advance the cause of trans womanhood and she’s only just getting started. The world will one day understand and accept that trans women make up part of what it means to be women due to girls like Alexis and Blaire.
As a straight woman, i appreciate Alexis and Buck. I totally support Blaire and Marcus Dibs as well. It is about respect and entitlement. When these activists try to tell me they are women, it devalues my nature experiences as a woman that they could never understand. Thank you to you both!!!
So glad to see Alexis on here! I stumbled across her early on in her RUclips career and have been following her ever since. Love to see how much her platform has grown!
I have long awaited this conversation. Alexis is such a wonderful transwoman and Buck is the most on point transman. He tells it like it is. Alexis is so sweet and she tries so hard not to be negative ❤ them both
OMG 2 of my favourite trans creators in one space. Although my real life experience of trans people is limited, they have all been genuine trans people, who are just living their lives. Your voices are so important.
My favorite episode! I'm a huge fan of both of you. I'm a biological woman, and would like to add my sincere Thank You. Huge respect and gratitude to both of you. 🙏🦋
Love love LOVE Alexis! She is seriously so amazing. You can really tell that she is the exact same person in real life that she is on screen. She is such a lovely, genuine person.
❤ Alexis ❤ is the best voice to represent transpeople - she's very sensible in her positions, extremely likeable and uncontroversial, perfectly real in her feminine energy, empathetic and kind, but firm in her beliefs. I cannot imagine anyone having anything against her, though sadly I'm certain there are many at both sides.
Oh my goodness YAY Alexis!!!! Seeing this thumbnail just made me jump for joy. I haven’t even watched the video yet and am already SO happy that you guys collaborated!! 😆
I have to say I think that is one of my favourites I have ever watched. I've followed both you & Alexis for quite some time now and to see such genuine lovely people really does show how caring and kind you both are. Love you both and wish you all the best as you're doing a great job ❤
I'm thankful that your man and you understand trans women. I'm a woman and I'm grateful. This is really an amazing interview thank you. I'm thankful that you understand that women need their space.
I love you SO MUCH Buck! ♥️ Alexis is absolutely lovely! She is gorgeous on the inside and out. I have ZERO problems sharing the female space with her and others just like her! Thanks for having her on, I will definitely follow her channel. Love from Texas ♥️🤠🌴
I have so much respect for you both, love Alexis and you Buck, so much respect and wisdom coming across, also my hands are bigger than my daughter's lol she's in her 30's and has baby hands 😂
Thank you so much for this collab, I have so much respect for Alexis and the way she delivers her content. What a lovely human to give a wider platform to, especially in the trans youtube space. More Please
OH MY GOD ALEXIS!!! I'm so proud of you ❤❤❤ I'm a long time follower and admirer of yours (and Liam) and it's amazing to see you're views, influence and love spreading across the pond (and the platform). Well done girl, you've got this 😘
I'm so happy to have the privilege of your conversation. As a mother in the UK having supported my daughter's best friend (since birth) going through her/his transition aswell as endure attacks over my stance on the the fact of biology in young sexual space; to hear you both reiterate exactly what I've been saying to safeguard the space of transition for both the parents and children...it's deeply moving and so necessary. I had to speak up about the dead naming ; you speak about so eloquently, to my daughter's dearest friend. He's now my grandson's godfather. But I know that because of me he listened and grasped both the nuance and grief it caused us all for him. As elders His hating of Hannah prooved that his relative relationship needed to come to a place of value of Hannah in a way he hadn't been able to before. We constantly reminded them that they were loved regardless and that there was plenty of space, time & support to explore their reality. Especially as he's had a difficult path negotiating the influence of social media and his own peergroup. Thank-you both so much. Such a valuable contribution and validation to this incredibly important conversation. I will send this to him.I know that he will appreciate it so much. Bless you both ❤
As a biological British woman i really love watching both your chanels and respect and support you both for the decent caring human beings you are ❤ keep up your voices of reason and rationality 🙏❤
Alexis has worked hard on passing both physically and in her voice. Buck, you have, too. If I wasn't told in advance, I would have though you were born female and male.
Oh, how lovely! Alexis, you may be a guest, but you are so welcome. I'm keen on the OG experience of Buck and the current experience of the younger Alexis. It's refreshing to see trans folks so genuinely comfortable in their skin, not the sort of typical hateful TikTok activists. ❤
I'm a straight lady but I like to listen to reason. Funny I was just watching her today for The first time and she's on your channel today. Be safe and happy
Buck and Alexis (and Blaire) are so refreshing. I feel bad for the crazy representation they have in their community when they are so incredibly normal as people.
Hey, friends! Please give a warm welcome to the wonderful Alexis Blake. She is an awesome, super intelligent, and beautiful trans woman who began her transition and RUclipsr journey not too long ago, but she has already become the real deal!! Leave her some love in the comments please and subscribe to her channel if you haven’t already. Love buck ❤
Love you both !! Great interview!!! My two favorite RUclipsrs !!
What an awesome collab! You are both such beautiful souls
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@@BuckAngelOfficial ❤️🌈
Isn't she just lovely?? I've been watching her channel for quite awhile now. I positively adore Alexis 😊❤️
Alexis should be a social worker or a therapist of some sort...she is naturally empathetic and balanced
She’d also make an excellent mainstream news anchor woman or something along those lines.
She's in human resources so it's close, and make sense... I love Alexis!!
I am obsessed with Alexis. She’s one of the kindest RUclipsrs while always speaking so much sense. She has some of the most amazing feminine energy about her and is very respectful. Love that you had her on 🤍
Yes, her female energy is palpable( no pun intended)😅, she is very natural about it. She is not"camp " at all.
YES!!! ❤
YESS ❤
Having been very lucky to meet Alexis in person a fortnight ago, she really does radiate feminine energy, and is super sweet and lovely! I could have talked do her for ages!
@@Elstro1988 awwh lucky you indeed. Hopefully she will write a book one day. It will be a perfect quide as reference for women to have a better understanding of trans women. She certainly helped me. 🙏🥰
Legendary collaboration!
Two people who are great at representing the understanding and humble side of trans people.
Thanks so much 😭♥️
Transexuals
I love Alexis' channel. It isn't even that she's trans, it's that she's a delightful person, full of grace, with a great sense of humour, never taking herself or life too seriously. Both she and Liam always cheer me up when I'm down. These qualities are so rare on social media, which is why their channel is so refreshing and unique.
To add to that, I love that Alexis implements so much regular, every day content into the mix. Not everything is focused on her being trans or commenting on/reacting to things related to the subject of trans. We simply get to see her just living life and that is such a joy to watch.
THE COLLAB WE HAVE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR 🥹😭🫶🏼💙
Agreed!❤❤❤❤❤
LITERALLY
Yesssss!!!❤
Hell yeah ❤❤
Old heterosexual guy here. I loved listening to this conversation! Massive respect for you two!
Ditto, they're lovely. And refreshing
@@TomGreenManwoman here I agree most folk are now live and let live but he ptb like the chaos to divide us. 💜
Puberty was hell for me. I was a tomboy and one day i had breasts and was bleeding, it was so painful (physically, mentally, emotionally). I didn't know my place in the world, didn't know how to be a woman.... My best friends started acting differently, i was no longer one of the boys. It was a struggle.
I would have been an easy victim for everyone selling this dangerous ideology as a cure .
Same here.
Same!!
Same
Same here. I hated EVERYTHING about being a girl when puberty hit. I even said to my mum, "I wish I'd been born a BOY." Which worried her til I explained I'd not have been going through that HELL of pain and shame and fear if I had been. If I were to say that these days, I'd be on testosterone before I could finish my sentence!!!! That is SO disturbing. I feel so sorry for those struggling with puberty these days.
Omgosh, yes!
That woman is gorgeous and I’d never guess. And she’s so open, especially about categorizing herself as a “ trans - woman”. She’s making no bones about it.
That’s not a ‘woman’ buddy
A a biological woman I am so grateful for you speak about this. I don’t appreciate how the community is turning into a Pharaoh mentality 🙏
It's simply our moral obligation.
I totally welcome people like Alexis to our female spaces. She has female empathy.
@@sarral2008that’s not your place. Don’t dare say women need to agree with you. I don’t want him in me and my daughters’ spaces. He may be nice but has to stay out of women’s spaces so the nasty men can’t get in.
@@AsMr-km6ex I was talking about this particular woman, not nasty men. I can sense a nasty man from a long distance. He is not welcome.
@@AsMr-km6ex Ngl, this isn't a realistic expectation. Because on the flip side you are also asking transmen (who look like Buck) people who look like biological MEN with beards even though they aren't, TO BE in the same space with you and your daughter. Which is something you also don't want and it's not something you would realistically know.
The middle ground is not letting the people who are obviously (they are very obvious tbh because they don't tend to transition or do it partially) not transexuals into the bathrooms. As you can see, Alexis would likely be thrown out of a restaurant just like Blaire White was if she was to go into the men's bathroom.
Perception is everything and in this case it seems to be rather clear who will respect those spaces and transition long before entering vs those who don't or half ass it just because they want to be in those spaces for fetishistic purposes.
So glad to see Alexis’ channel growing! My girlfriend showed me her over a year ago and she’s still her favorite trans woman RUclipsr along with blaire. We love her! Awesome interview, Alexis! ❤❤
same
Mine too! Though Amber Amuadi is close behind.
Alexis is a doll 😍✨
@@CharliStarI love amber she a cutie and doesn’t give af.😂
Amber Amuadi is also a gem 💎 and fairly new on youtube 💓
My son came out as transgender at 12, (he's now 16 on Tuesday) I never shut him down or invalidated him, I accepted him immediately, however I did talk to him and explain that until he can consent to change anything physically it wouldn't be happening. It has nothing to do with not wanting him to feel on the outside who he is on the in but I do believe as a child who's developing and changing constantly it's such huge decisions, it has to be theirs when they have the full understanding of what they are about to do with their bodies, he completely agrees, we got him some therapy to support him while he learns all about this journey he's on, he's entire family and friends have welcomed him whole heartedly, and he's doing so incredible, I've seen his opinions on certain things change over the years which has shown me making him wait till he's an adult is the right choice. He's 100% transgender however the more he learns about risk to surgeries and so on the more he makes educated decisions. Thank you for speaking out for trans people like my boy, who wants nothing more than to just be the boy he feels inside, not these fakes that are making this community look like it's just full of wronguns
Good for you. And I believe it's so important for kids who believe they are trans go through puberty as for a large number of them, they do grow out of it when the hormones kick in. If they still feel the same after puberty, then by all means, do what feels right for them and they can go into it 100% sure, which leads to the best outcome.
Absolutely. My son, now grown up, was gay, trans, bi and straight throughout his teenage years. A lot of teens wonder where they fit and what sexual orientation they are. I always told my son, whatever his preference or gender he decides is right for him, I'm here for him but to just find his way until he's got passed puberty because he'll be better equipped to make an informed choice once his hormones have settled more.
Buck,
I am a 72 year old transsexual male. I transitioned over a year and a half ago. It was my decision and I was not swayed by any one. I also am married to a wonderful man who has never questioned my decision to change. I’ve had top surgery and am currently taking testosterone. I’m in therapy with a wonderful trans woman who has been a great therapist and mentor.
I’m also a retired clergy who has wanted to walk the earth as a man since I was young. It’s hard being trans in Texas but it’s doable if you can pass and don’t act crazy. I really appreciate your style and your perspective. Keep up the good work and blessings ❤
It's never too late to live your dreams. Be happy and healthy with your newly found joy of being who you wanted to be. I am in no way trans but your comment is inspiring to those of us who may feel we are behind based on our age. Thank you.
This is amazing, maybe it's just me, but I see so few elder transmen. Thank you for telling us your journey
Why not try accepting God's creation? Trying to change gender is the ultimate lack of acceptance of life and God's will.
I agree with other commenters that we don't usually hear from older trans men. May I ask, what do you think of medical transition for kids (teens)? The severity of the drugs is what I am concerned about & not the social implications, but with your lived experience, would you have supported yourself at 16 doing this?
I am genuinely curious to hear your perspective. ❤
I have always been vehemently against trans women coming into our spaces, but people like Alexis just soften my heart about the whole issue.
Acknowledging our differences makes it easier to accept this, for all of us.
She's fabulous and the conversations she has on her channel, with her boyfriend are brilliant.
It is!! I love her because she respects bio women.
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MOTHER AND TRANPA TOGETHER AT LAST!!!!!! Instant like before the video even starts!!! 😄😄😄💕💕💕
Great comment, spot on! ❤
And Blaire White is our aunty that let's us drink when our parents aren't looking 😂
Alexis, as a woman who has had transwomen in my bathroom for years, I want to say that you are the kind of transwoman I welcome with open arms into my spaces. You are beautiful, kind, and smart as all get out. I appreciate your respect for us women. Thank you.
But you can only welcome them into your own space. Not public women's spaces. Because other women don't want her there.
@@ls-l1518most women are welcoming of trans women who are as respectful as Alexis
@@blackharvest13 No. Most women don't want men around when they change, or their daughters do. And it's not only safety. It's our women's community. When we are alone, without men. If you are a woman, shame on you.
@@blackharvest13absolutely we are
@@blackharvest13 No, we are not. I don't know what happened to my comment. But we are not, and don't claim that. Are you a woman? Our female community will be destroyed. Both sexes must have their own, separate world. Men too, need that. Those who long to be the sex they are not, must create their own world, their own spaces. It's not my problem.
Yay so glad you got to talk to Alexis! She's just wonderful
She is!!
61 y.o. bi woman here. I love you guys and you are soooo spot on with the LGBT + community losing ground. Hard fought ground I might add. Never been on steroids, I have man hands. My grown adult daughter ( biologically) is 5'11" and wears a size 11 shoe. PLEASE, PLEASE keep this up!!!!! You are NEEDED right now.
Honestly 11 size shoe for that tall is pretty small 😂😂 nnoice
@@aynodurnegw not in her world. Lol
Absolutely!
I just love her, oh my goodness. So glad you caught her Buck.
She’s the best!! Thanks for watching friend ❤❤
Alexis and Liam are such an adorable cute couple. I so recommend going to her channel and subscribing. It is so much fun to see them interacting with each other, you see the love between them, they are like couple goals. Alexis is so classy.
So happy to see Alexis on your channel Buck. She so deserves a bigger audience. She is so respectful of biological women and I love her for it. Thank you both for what you do ❤
You are two of my FAVORITE voices in content creation! The kindness, the humor, the wisdom...I have so much respect for you two.
I'd love a cuppa with you both!
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I feel the same way( straight woman here) !! I love them both keep up the amazing work!!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Alexis is great. She seems very based and rooted in reality with her opinions. I have always appreciated how she is open to discourse with women and other trans folks, changing her opinion and taking accountability when she feels it's right. She is a very genuine person.
I love how Buck puts a thumbs up when he strongly agrees as so not to interrupt Alexis and allowing her to finish her thoughts.
Much love to Buck, Alexis and Blair - I’m such a huge fan!
2 of my favourite RUclipsrs , thank you gorgeous people
Thank you so much my friend! thanks for watching and for the comment ♥️
When my friend came out as a trans woman I had no problem welcoming her into my space because she never forced it, she never expected it, she passed as female even before transitioning, she’s been very respectful and that’s all we ask
Love to see Alexis on your channel. I’ve been following her, and Liam’s story for quite some time. You are all killing it with the common sense. Love to see it as sense is no longer common.
Aww thank you friend♥️♥️♥️
@@BuckAngelOfficial absolutely! You have no idea how much your channel is needed. I was born and raised in Southern California. I owned a beautiful salon. And I fled in May because I couldn’t take it anymore. It was heartbreaking to have little 12 and 13-year-old girls schedule appointments to get their haircut like their true gender identity as boys right before their top surgery. And to see the parents celebrate it. And I witnessed personally a couple of young boys playing girls soccer, and some girls no longer have upper teeth. This is just madness. So my pup and I are peacefully living in Kentucky and I guess I’m technically retired now. I will never step back in California. So excited to see that Blaire White is going on tour. We plan on going to see her in Nashville in October. Thanks so much again for your channel. This has been going on for so long and I don’t understand why no one sees that we’re damaging children forever. Thank you so so much.
@@BuckAngelOfficial The NY Times just exposed the hypocrisy and embezzlement happening at GLAAD.
@@lizmercer3287wow, and people are constantly saying that no children are transitioning! So sorry you had to experience that
I have been listening to Alexis for a very long time. I love her. She gives me so much as a transwoman. Who's transitioned in a different situation? She gives me so many answers. I so much appreciate her voice? Thank you for sharing her with the world buck❤❤❤
Thank you both for common sense!!! Im a woman and have no problem sharing my space with actual trans women. Please don't erase us and please be respectful of our sports ❤
She understands that woman's spaces were designed to keep woman and girls safe. When out safety is threatened we will push back. She makes me feel safe 🙏🏼 it's mostly energy less about looks
Well also her looks make it clear that she is really serious about being trans. These dudes with facial hair-- they just seem like they're exploiting a trend.
Yaaaaaay!!! I'm so glad you had my girl Alexis on your show, Uncle Buck!! Everyone loves Alexis. She's just so darn likeable!! ❤
I appreciate how you are speaking out. I’m stunned that these fetish and myoginists don’t care about anyone but themselves and don’t care about how hard the ‘true’ communities have worked so hard for rights. The few ‘true’ trans I know are being brandished with the same backlash and have never acted how these guys are. And us biologically women are being shushed. How can our society have so rapidly back tracked so fast?
Woke agenda and liberal bullies. Money talks and the woke/trans agenda is a cash cow for big pharma and healthcare.
❤great show, I am a 45 yr old lesbian, I came out at 15 in the 90's... I am totally on the same page as you. Luv you Buck!! When I think "Family" you are there with me❤❤ I am now subscribed to Alexis😁
By allowing anyone to self-identify as trans, it’s making actual trans women specifically unsafe.
I do think social media and the pandemic both played a roll.
Exactly. This whole self-ID thing is ridiculous & it's hurting women & genuine trans people.
@@kimc555 Even India Willoughby, who I usually disagree with, said that self identification was harmful and set back the trans community.
Alexis, you saying in the beginning that (paraphrasing) the reason spaces are separated by sex is to keep people safe. That's a great, simple way to put it. I loved this conversation and I appreciate you both!
The BEST collab! Such a fan of Alexis, thank you for having her on your channel ❤️ I am a biological woman and I appreciate Alexis’s perspective on respecting women’s spaces!
Buck has so much knowledge and life experience about this. Thanks for educating us, Buck! 🫶🏻
Thank you heather!! ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for making it easier to understand and accept. I feel a lot of people who claim your community talk down to those who don't understand any of this and instantly claim we are homophobic. Much respect to the both of you
As a biological woman, I have so much respect for the both of you. You are amazing at keeping it real. And Alexis is right, respect is earned not demanded. Much love to you both and have been waiting for this collab. Enojoyed watching. :)
Alexis Blake popped up on my youtube feed yesterday and now I happen to see her here with Buck! she is so lovely and I agree a lot with her perspective on this issue. She has such a big heart, it shows through in this interview, a truly beautiful human. She's got a new subscriber in me 🥰💖🫶
Alexis!!! You’re a queen! Thank you for keeping it real!!
She is❤❤
Awesome collaboration!! I absolutely love Alexis!
I love the points made about women appreciating and recognizing effort being put into a transition and that being a huge part of us accepting trans women into our spaces.
I work with a visibly trans woman, but she does her hair and makeup and has had surgeries and has a very feminine energy. If she walked into a public bathroom, people would know she was trans, but they wouldn’t feel threatened at all.
I have a great nephew (sister in laws grandson) that decided to transition at 20 (he is gay but his mother wouldn't accept it). He went to the doctor and immediately got hormones - no psychological examination at all. Just oh, your trans - here you go. And nothing was discussed about the negative effects of the hormones. He has since started therapy to accept his sexual identity and has stopped the hormones. But it was so scary to me how easy it was for him to start.
I have many gay friends. Many of them say that if their parents had not been as accepting of them they could easily have gone down this route as they felt so much stigma from outside forces to do just that. Children pick up on vibes as well as language and actions. Children want to be accepted and they will tie themselves in all kinds of knots just to get that acceptance many times.
@jujutrini8412 that is exactly why he wanted to do it. He felt his mom would be OK with him being with men if he transitioned. He didn't tell her what he was doing. I am pretty sure she would have lost her mind when she found out. And I can only imagine what that would have done to him.
Lesbian here. I've heard this scenario a few times, and it really confuses me. If a family wouldn't be accepting of a gay or lesbian kid, how would that kid fare any better with that family by transitioning? It's not like the typical phobic family loathes gay people but is fine with trans people.
Amazing to see you two together in a video!!! 🎉❤
Thank you for watching my friend!!❤
❤❤ the thing I love about Alexis is just how classy she is. How wonderful to see the both of you sharing these discussions with us, lots of love to you both. ☺️
When I came across Alexis TikTok, I didn’t realise she was a transwoman. She is honestly beautiful. I’m a bio woman and am so thankful that these conversations are happening. Thank you Buck for holding space for these kinds of convos.
I am SO happy to see Alexis on here!! I love her and Liam and their channel so much! Thank you so much for having her Buck! ❤ Alexis....well-done!
So glad you had Alexis on!! I have been watching her for awhile and think she has such a beautiful soul. That a younger person like her has such a level head and such a firm grasp of how women feel is so great to see. I forget that there are people like this are out there after seeing all the hate and ridiculous out there. A big thank you to you both.
My brother in law had AGP. Once, he stole a bunch of my dresses. He would wear my clothes and walk the dogs and get excited when people mistook him for me.
Wow, that’s insane!
Yikes
That's disturbing 😳
He stole your clothes??? Oh Hell no. !!
It turns them on to wear women's clothes.
Yay!!! I am so happy you and Blake got to talk! She is so smart and amazing ❤
She is amazing
Me to ❤👍
Two of my favorite people on the internet! You're both (and Liam!) So genuine and beautiful inside and out! Keep up the amazing work! Love you all, God Bless! 🙏🐱💚
Her hands are beautiful 😭 I wish i had long, slender fingers instead of short, stubby, fat fingers. 😅 Buck is spot on. It's in your head, love. Nothing wrong or 'suspicious' about them. ❤
I totally agree. Alexis has beautiful hands. Long, slender feminine fingers. They're gorgeous.
I've been waiting for this!!! Love you both!!! So much respect!!! Even just 15 minutes in and I'm loving this collab!! Discussing the misogyny and AGP. I thought this would be good and it is great!!! You are so enjoyable together, vibing along and bouncing off of each other.
I could watch you for hours together.
Omg! I saw Alexis on TikTok a long time ago and LOVED her! I’m so happy to see her on here with you! This is my fav episode you’ve done so far, thank you for having alexis on she speaks such sense! ❤
AHHHHHHHHHH 🥰😱 I am SO HAPPY RIGHT NOWWWWW!!! Been following Alexis since pretty much day 1 of her RUclips presence and I have LOVED watching her grow.
Representing the UK we *_finally_** have an INCREDIBLE Trans-Woman* to teach the British LGBT youth how to not be insane “Wokies” and follow science/factual reality that we actually live in.
The way Alexis described gender dysphoria (sp?) is the best way I have heard it described to where I actually understand what it is. I am learning a lot from your channel and Blair's channel. Thank you all for putting your voices out here!!!❤
I just discovered Alexis and now she shares the place with Blaire as my favorite transwoman influencer. And you, Buck, you share the place of my favorite transman with Marcus Dibb (I hope I spelled his name right) ♡
@@BuckAngelOfficialOMG you replied meeeee I'm so freaking happy!!! ❤ Thank you! Sending you tons of love from Brazil! ♡
Theres no way you can watch this interview and say they are hateful or selfhating transpeople. Alexis is so lovely which is why I love her channel, and you mix that with buck's idgaf attitude and it made this wonderful episode❤
This is such a great collaboration. I follow you both as a straight woman who loves to hear this rational side of being transgender. There is so much madness out there, you too are so balanced and sane, it’s refreshing to hear.
Alexis is such a beautiful soul ♥️
totally!!
That’s our Alexis 🩷 We’re so proud of her here in the UK. She has already done so much to advance the cause of trans womanhood and she’s only just getting started. The world will one day understand and accept that trans women make up part of what it means to be women due to girls like Alexis and Blaire.
As a straight woman, i appreciate Alexis and Buck. I totally support Blaire and Marcus Dibs as well. It is about respect and entitlement. When these activists try to tell me they are women, it devalues my nature experiences as a woman that they could never understand. Thank you to you both!!!
So glad to see Alexis on here! I stumbled across her early on in her RUclips career and have been following her ever since. Love to see how much her platform has grown!
I have long awaited this conversation. Alexis is such a wonderful transwoman and Buck is the most on point transman. He tells it like it is. Alexis is so sweet and she tries so hard not to be negative ❤ them both
OMG 2 of my favourite trans creators in one space. Although my real life experience of trans people is limited, they have all been genuine trans people, who are just living their lives. Your voices are so important.
My favorite episode! I'm a huge fan of both of you. I'm a biological woman, and would like to add my sincere Thank You. Huge respect and gratitude to both of you. 🙏🦋
Love love LOVE Alexis! She is seriously so amazing. You can really tell that she is the exact same person in real life that she is on screen. She is such a lovely, genuine person.
I can confirm that she is just as lovely in real life! x
❤ Alexis ❤ is the best voice to represent transpeople - she's very sensible in her positions, extremely likeable and uncontroversial, perfectly real in her feminine energy, empathetic and kind, but firm in her beliefs. I cannot imagine anyone having anything against her, though sadly I'm certain there are many at both sides.
Oh my goodness YAY Alexis!!!! Seeing this thumbnail just made me jump for joy. I haven’t even watched the video yet and am already SO happy that you guys collaborated!! 😆
Been waiting for this crossover 😃 👋
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Oh, I am so happy you had Alexis on! She is so kind and beautiful!
I have to say I think that is one of my favourites I have ever watched. I've followed both you & Alexis for quite some time now and to see such genuine lovely people really does show how caring and kind you both are. Love you both and wish you all the best as you're doing a great job ❤
I'm thankful that your man and you understand trans women. I'm a woman and I'm grateful. This is really an amazing interview thank you. I'm thankful that you understand that women need their space.
I love you SO MUCH Buck! ♥️
Alexis is absolutely lovely! She is gorgeous on the inside and out. I have ZERO problems sharing the female space with her and others just like her! Thanks for having her on, I will definitely follow her channel.
Love from Texas ♥️🤠🌴
I have so much respect for you both, love Alexis and you Buck, so much respect and wisdom coming across, also my hands are bigger than my daughter's lol she's in her 30's and has baby hands 😂
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Yes finally! The collab we've all been waiting for!
Thank you so much for this collab, I have so much respect for Alexis and the way she delivers her content. What a lovely human to give a wider platform to, especially in the trans youtube space. More Please
OH MY GOD ALEXIS!!!
I'm so proud of you ❤❤❤
I'm a long time follower and admirer of yours (and Liam) and it's amazing to see you're views, influence and love spreading across the pond (and the platform).
Well done girl, you've got this 😘
Omg I clicked so fast ! I love you both ❤️
Alexis Blake is AMAZING!!! Love her! So glad you got her on your show Buck!
I'm so happy to have the privilege of your conversation. As a mother in the UK having supported my daughter's best friend (since birth) going through her/his transition aswell as endure attacks over my stance on the the fact of biology in young sexual space; to hear you both reiterate exactly what I've been saying to safeguard the space of transition for both the parents and children...it's deeply moving and so necessary. I had to speak up about the dead naming ; you speak about so eloquently, to my daughter's dearest friend. He's now my grandson's godfather. But I know that because of me he listened and grasped both the nuance and grief it caused us all for him. As elders His hating of Hannah prooved that his relative relationship needed to come to a place of value of Hannah in a way he hadn't been able to before.
We constantly reminded them that they were loved regardless and that there was plenty of space, time & support to explore their reality. Especially as he's had a difficult path negotiating the influence of social media and his own peergroup.
Thank-you both so much. Such a valuable contribution and validation to this incredibly important conversation. I will send this to him.I know that he will appreciate it so much.
Bless you both ❤
As a biological British woman i really love watching both your chanels and respect and support you both for the decent caring human beings you are ❤ keep up your voices of reason and rationality 🙏❤
Awesome mash up!! Thank you both for being reasonable people who happen to be able to bring perspective to the current cultural climate 🖤
Woohoo, love love love both of you. This does so much more for the image and perception of the trans community. Long may you both continue x
I have been waiting for this!!!! I love Alexis, she is just the best. My two favorite people! ❤❤
I love Alexis; she and Liam have a fantastic YT Channel.
For sure, they’re wonderful humans!
First time i love youtube algorithm, two of my most respected people together, awesome!!!!
Alexis has worked hard on passing both physically and in her voice. Buck, you have, too. If I wasn't told in advance, I would have though you were born female and male.
Oh, how lovely! Alexis, you may be a guest, but you are so welcome. I'm keen on the OG experience of Buck and the current experience of the younger Alexis. It's refreshing to see trans folks so genuinely comfortable in their skin, not the sort of typical hateful TikTok activists. ❤
As an English woman, I love Alexis. She brings in a British view point. She is always welcome in our women's spaces. ❤
With everything we get about Brittain in the news in America, it's good to find some sane point of views. I love Alexis.
I adore Alexis & her husband Liam!❤ They are the sweetest couple!!! 😍😊
I'm a straight lady but I like to listen to reason. Funny I was just watching her today for The first time and she's on your channel today. Be safe and happy
❤🇬🇧we love Alexis and Liam. Thank you for your collaboration!! X
I'm so happy to see alexis here!! I love her and her channel so much
Thanks for an interesting discussion. Always refreshing when 2 people can disagree on some things and it not end up in a screaming match.
So good to see Alexis on your channel, she's has a beautiful energy.
Buck and Alexis (and Blaire) are so refreshing. I feel bad for the crazy representation they have in their community when they are so incredibly normal as people.
I loved this whole conversation! You two will always have a space at my table.
I've been waiting to see you two together ❤️ def was not disappointed ❤