Hey bro, I understand growing up without a father figure. You search it out in either teachers, friends etc.. I’m truly sorry you have to live without a father but I promise you. You have a Father. Your Heavenly Father God. Check out the Parable of the Prodigal Son it’s a short story with a huge meaning.
Today (December 31, 2024) I finally yelled at my father what I should have said a long time ago. I've always had a strange relationship with him. He never let me go without anything, but only because he needed it too, if you know what I mean. He never gave me what I really needed: affection, love. We never said "I love you" or something like that because you know, it sounded strange to him and I really wish he had said it to me or would say it to me. I don't think he ever will. I went into a very bad depression 2-3 years ago and he didn't notice anything, I owe everything to my mother if I'm still alive today and feeling better. My father, on the other hand, is totally apathetic to relationships, he doesn't care about them at all. I would have liked to do so many things with him, things that I saw my friends do so naturally with their dads. It's late now, he's 61 and he'll never change his mentality and even when, we won't be able to do those things that father and son do: go fishing, go bike riding together, watch a game together, drink a beer together, talk about girls, those chats that teach you how to live life. He hasn't done any of that and I hate him for that. If one day I were to die, he wouldn't care, he'd just keep on watching his favorite game shows or hoping for luck on some useless lottery ticket. How much all this pisses me off. But he taught me one thing. If I ever have a son tomorrow I will not make the same mistakes as my father, I will never be distant with him.
Same struggles with my dad. Sometimes I wish if he had left it would have been a lot better. I really dislike him. I've hoped and hoped that he change but he didn't now it's late and I'm still pretty sure he won't change. This has had its toil on me but I've managed to pull through it all and at this point, if I don't kill myself I'm pretty sure I'm not going to have myself a kid because I can't trust myself not to make the same mistakes he made. No one really ever showed me how to be loved by a dad. Movies and other people can only do so much but nothing beats experiencing it for yourself
" if you want someone to do something you do it first if you want someone to say something you say it first but you can't just stand there waiting for someone else to do everything" idk this just came to my head I think I made this quote ( if not then comment a quote simular)
The title speaks volumes I had a role model father who taught me so much throughout my life but we didn’t always have the best relationship. Faults were on both of our sides. I’m grateful for our relationship now and I’m also grateful for my other father figures and my own personal experiences that taught me so much. Never forget: you were given this life because you were strong enough to have it.
MOVIES: 1-Ferris Bueller’s Day Off 2-Kung Fu Panda 2 3-Thanos 4-The Joker 5-Brain Dump 6-Equaliser 2 7-Yoda 8-Spiderman(2002 Toby Maguire ver) 9-Equaliser 2 again 10-Vinny Paz(boxer) 11-Suits 12-The Equaliser 13-Fortune’s Truth 14-Dragon’s Race To The Edge(How To Train Your Dragon) 15-The Equaliser again 16-The Wolf Of Wall Street 17-Snowfall 18-Suits again 19-Shrek 20-Unbroken 21-Coach Carter 22-Avatar the Last Airbender 23-Harry Potter And The Prisoner Of Azkaban
back when I was kid I always wonder why adult people questioning themselves about who they are. Once grow up I realize now I become one of them, asking to myself "who am I" or "what I wanna be".
I was about to exit the video.. something said stay till the end. To hear Uncle Iroh, one of my favorite characters.. listen to that still voice inside. It knows.
These things are things my father never cared about never teaching me but I had other father figures to teach me this and my mom and my friends thanks for helping me realize that ❤❤
Young men focus on yourself and your craft. Find yourselves. God bless🙏🏽
the title is pretty hard since i never had a father figure and im 14 now and still dont have on so this is perfect
Hey bro, if you not used to it, you will, i havnt had a dad for almost 18 years, imma be 18 soon, keep your head high and your chin higher
Hey bro, I understand growing up without a father figure. You search it out in either teachers, friends etc.. I’m truly sorry you have to live without a father but I promise you. You have a Father. Your Heavenly Father God. Check out the Parable of the Prodigal Son it’s a short story with a huge meaning.
Pull through, friend. Been without one for 20 years now, it'll get easier, promise
Same as me 20 years strong just keep pushing forward and it does get easier but it will still hurt ❤
Just remember all you learned and went through when you have a family and be everything you father wasn't, because you know what's its like.
Today (December 31, 2024) I finally yelled at my father what I should have said a long time ago.
I've always had a strange relationship with him. He never let me go without anything, but only because he needed it too, if you know what I mean. He never gave me what I really needed: affection, love. We never said "I love you" or something like that because you know, it sounded strange to him and I really wish he had said it to me or would say it to me. I don't think he ever will. I went into a very bad depression 2-3 years ago and he didn't notice anything, I owe everything to my mother if I'm still alive today and feeling better. My father, on the other hand, is totally apathetic to relationships, he doesn't care about them at all. I would have liked to do so many things with him, things that I saw my friends do so naturally with their dads. It's late now, he's 61 and he'll never change his mentality and even when, we won't be able to do those things that father and son do: go fishing, go bike riding together, watch a game together, drink a beer together, talk about girls, those chats that teach you how to live life. He hasn't done any of that and I hate him for that. If one day I were to die, he wouldn't care, he'd just keep on watching his favorite game shows or hoping for luck on some useless lottery ticket. How much all this pisses me off.
But he taught me one thing. If I ever have a son tomorrow I will not make the same mistakes as my father, I will never be distant with him.
Fr fr😭🖤🖤❤️❤️
Same struggles with my dad. Sometimes I wish if he had left it would have been a lot better. I really dislike him. I've hoped and hoped that he change but he didn't now it's late and I'm still pretty sure he won't change. This has had its toil on me but I've managed to pull through it all and at this point, if I don't kill myself I'm pretty sure I'm not going to have myself a kid because I can't trust myself not to make the same mistakes he made. No one really ever showed me how to be loved by a dad. Movies and other people can only do so much but nothing beats experiencing it for yourself
Damn, that scene from coach carter still hits HARD!!
“Cody’s this Cody’s that, Cody’s me bro let me be me”😎
" if you want someone to do something you do it first if you want someone to say something you say it first but you can't just stand there waiting for someone else to do everything" idk this just came to my head I think I made this quote ( if not then comment a quote simular)
These videos always hit hard 🫡
The Inception soundtrack is my favorite piece of music and I can confidently say it always will be.
sometimes a person or something can take ur happiness and in the inside u feel empty we can just focus in future but the past will come back for u 😔🖤
The equalizer is one of those film series that is very good for modeling yourself
I'm 23 and I felt every word in the video.
The title speaks volumes
I had a role model father who taught me so much throughout my life but we didn’t always have the best relationship. Faults were on both of our sides. I’m grateful for our relationship now and I’m also grateful for my other father figures and my own personal experiences that taught me so much. Never forget: you were given this life because you were strong enough to have it.
MOVIES:
1-Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
2-Kung Fu Panda 2
3-Thanos
4-The Joker
5-Brain Dump
6-Equaliser 2
7-Yoda
8-Spiderman(2002 Toby Maguire ver)
9-Equaliser 2 again
10-Vinny Paz(boxer)
11-Suits
12-The Equaliser
13-Fortune’s Truth
14-Dragon’s Race To The Edge(How To Train Your Dragon)
15-The Equaliser again
16-The Wolf Of Wall Street
17-Snowfall
18-Suits again
19-Shrek
20-Unbroken
21-Coach Carter
22-Avatar the Last Airbender
23-Harry Potter And The Prisoner Of Azkaban
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back when I was kid I always wonder why adult people questioning themselves about who they are. Once grow up I realize now I become one of them, asking to myself "who am I" or "what I wanna be".
Sometimes we have to work inside and not show what we truly are. We work inside the building and not outside.
I was about to exit the video.. something said stay till the end.
To hear Uncle Iroh, one of my favorite characters.. listen to that still voice inside. It knows.
2:32 Nice. Gotta have Star Wars here.
These things are things my father never cared about never teaching me but I had other father figures to teach me this and my mom and my friends thanks for helping me realize that ❤❤
Thanks for sharing
Thank you
You're welcome 😊
scars do in fact fuckin heal over time. no scar is permanent if you live long enough.
@nomercyinc6783 ... YT : Disciple - Scars Remain
This shit is cold as fuck 🥶
Movie name of a ghost and a man on a couch
Not the Wolf of Wallstreet speech💀
the moral of the story is:
early to rise and early to bed makes a man healthy but socially dead
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Something nice😅😅😅😅😅😅
Movie name at 1:10 plz ?
Try looking up the character name he said to the ghost
hotdiggedydemon -youtube channel that did the short story
Brain Dump
@@harshmahindrakar7014 huh
Brain dump
7:13…MaW!!
My dad teached more than that...
Taught*
I guess he didn’t teach you basic grammar.
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I don’t like the wolf of wall street’s quote.