I think she wants him to make more money, but is going about it all wrong. Cause nail money isn’t too much to ask for. Her delivery is completely rude, but regardless she’s correct. He needs a career. Not 2 dead end jobs. He works very hard, but they’re barely making ends meet. My fiancée works long hours, but i dont have to pay bills or work so the loss of quality time is worth it to me.
The other women can have him. His goal is to just have sex and pay bills. He needs a simple never been on plane women. A women that has never been out of her city. A women that likes mcdonalds on sundays. She wants ore to life that what he wants.
Star has started to kinda fill the void left by Toler. I have watched half of one episode with Faith and she was better on her show, not divorce court. I have been looking for this comment.
This is hard to get through because the wife is annoying af! However, I like Star Jones so far. She's been keeping it real while also giving wise advice.
I really think the wife wants to explore perhaps she’s not even into men going to Brazil alone most men feel like that’s a trip for them to see beautiful women almost naked maybe she’s thinking like a guy and wants to act like a guy !
If she works so hard, then she can afford whatever she wants, or save for it and then buy it herself. I understand wanting gifts from your husband but she's doing way too much. She wants him to have a goal but it's only to her benefit. Is that supposed to motivate him? Sorry Mr McDowell, she's checked out! The chat with Robert at the end was the highlight of this episode. Great comments from Judge Star!
Classic case of an independent woman being in a marriage. Don’t marry a man who makes average income and expect trips to Brazil. She needs to get off the internet and appreciate the man she has. The streets are cold.
@@nicolecummings4597 she was very clear the entire case, “I work hard and I deserve” that is independent woman to a T. At least in my community. Reminds me a lot of my mother.
She knew this man wasn't on her level of financial stability, and she's emasculating him on tv. For one she's loud, and thinking she's all that. Nothing wrong with us women having a career, being independent and making money, but don't belittle this man. He seems to be doing what he can only do job wise, but honestly, he need to take up a trade and try to better himself. If I was him, I would let her go. She's obnoxious!!
His wife is correct. Yall going too easy on this man. She’s probably saying it rudely now cause she’s tired of telling him to go educate himself for a better job. Too many men are comfortable at the bottom and dont want to pull themselves up. He needs a trade period.
@@jasminegreene8159 but she met him at the bottom…she knew he wasn’t educated as well…but now she wants to change him…she wants him to take her to Brazil when he couldn’t even afford to give her $200 that’s just unrealistic of her…
She really thinks she’s entitled to whatever she wants… now treating her is one thing. Demanding is another thing when you know there are finances that are a bigger priority… I am so disappointed in our society🤦🏾♂️
@HunchoSeason She actually isn't asking for much. If she works in Corporate America, she does have to present herself in a particular manner. The problem is that he is uneducated and broke. I guarantee you she's the one that carries the household.
@@chocolateangel8743 Yes, she is asking too much from a man that is "uneducated and broke". He's broke because she wants $200 mani-pedis. He's probably paying $150 - $200 every time she gets her locks retwisted too. Her nails look really basic (4:23 mark) so she could do those herself. Hell, he could probably do them. He does need to get more job skills so he can get a better job. Being beat down & belittled by his wife is NOT helping him. Hopefully, by then he'll leave his selfish wife.
@@neededtobesaid4275 We live in a patriarchal society, where men have an economic advantage over women. A woman wanting a man that can provide isn't selfish. It's totally normal. In non-black communities, it's expected. It's just that, in the black community, BM have been failing for so long, BW are just expected to carry the load -- but without getting anything in return.
If my man is covering the bills I've got my nails and hair groceries too and household products however I believe a man deserves some of his hard earned money too
@@chocolateangel8743 In my family the men provided for the family and their wives had jobs too but they also made money too my grandfather was the TRUTH at fixing things he worked as a machinist my son got a job through him and my son brings home over 70k+ with OT and he's not as good as my grandpa
EXACTLY. He needs to Free himself. She acts like she is so much better than him and it's sad. Money should never define a person. IDC care how much they make.
If she wants him to make more money then she should encourage a trade or some other education. Trades, certification, business, contracting work, or a degree. She seems selfish.
listen. my husband and i were not in the same place when we got married. but we understood that, had similar values, ambition, and goals, made plans to grow and get there, and pour into each other, and we are doing it. it’s hard but also a beautiful journey. it’s possible but she has extremely unreasonable expectations.
She’s been with him since she was 14 years old, she doesn’t have a clue as to what’s out here. She’s delusional. That’s a good man but she doesn’t know that. Smh
I agree she saying if he don't take her to Brazil she wants a divorce no man gonna wanna be with a woman who is like that sounds like a gold digger to me
The wife seems spoiled and extra! The husband seems patient and sweet. He’s trying so she needs to tone it down some and they both work together. He needs to find a way to get his money game up for himself and his family.
Well I think she should stop working at the non-profit jobs and go get a job for real profit and slow down on these $200 a week. Manicures and pedicures..... That's a start for him to get his money up for his family... But that might make too much sense...lol
@@zulu3274 I only meant that the husband should get a career so he can work smarter and not so much harder with the 2 jobs. I do believe that people who work at non profits are paid but volunteers are not? I agree about her stopping those $200 mani/pedi. My hubby and I earn a sizable 6 figure income but still I do my own hair and nails and even help hubby to keep his head shaved and I also do pedi on him too. That’s part of our quality time together which is my love language and physical touch which is his. The wife needs to stop being so materialistic and bratty and the husband should work on getting a career instead of having to work all those jobs burning himself out.
@@ritacox3275 Thank you!!👏🏾👏🏾 I would rather be with a man that I appreciate that’s working 2 job than to be with a man that doesn’t work at all. I agree..he is the only one that’s handling his business..paying the bills & taking care of his family & what is she doing..? using his money on herself that act’s like she’s a wannabe celebrity. all I hearing from her is me me meee & money but not thinking about him & their kids best interest. it’s funny that a woman like her say he needs a job yet..it isn’t going anywhere, now she saying he needs a well, higher paying job but complain about he working to much. she acting more like a 4yrs old child that demands to be treated like a princess then being an adult woman taking care of her family well being.
Girl Bye! But I do understand what she means about him not living up to his potential. No one over the age of 40 should have to work 2 jobs to make ends meet UNLESS they want to, not because they have to. He needs to study for a trade or something. If she works so hard…pay for your own trip!!!
I could not be with a woman who does not respect me and is too materialistic. She needs to lose the good man she has. She will find out the hard way what it feels like to be older, and single in todays society. She is no spring chicken. There are a lot of ladies out there that would love and respect that gentleman. He seems to be fit. I hate to see people mistreated. She even called him a fool on public television. I think this guy needs to man up and take his balls back. But I know he's willing to suffer because of the Children. He's a better man then me because I would definitely walk away for that situation.
He's a good man!! She keeps talking about she wants to be appreciated but isn't reciprocating. She's all about money. Her expectations are too high. If she wants to go to Brazil, then she needs to put money away
They would get rid of her. She's too demanding. If she with him since 14 where did his ex wife come from??? Is she much younger than him? I thought they went to school together? Confused 😕
I’ve enjoyed Divorce Court for a number of decades. Each judge had their unique way and deliverance of their judgements on each case. Judge Toler and Faith was fantastic and insightful. There is no comparison and no competition; and now there’s Judge Star Jones. I remember her from back in the day but had not known she went and got her credentials to become a legitimate Judge and she wears it well. She is well spoken, elegant, and colorful. I’m enjoying her immensely. She too, like the others, demands/commands respect and her proper applause in the seat she’s occupying now. She too has integrity, character and her moral compass is on the mark and properly set! Each Judge makes a woman proud to be a woman with good sensibilities, which is very rare nowadays. I’m just glad that such women still walk among us🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God bless you Judge Star on this new journey/endeavor/opportunity to show the world that we ain’t all out of our minds❤😂
From a woman's perspective it's so clear, she don't love him anymore but she still want his love and attention and of course his money. I always say men are way more committed than us in relationship even study shows 80% of divorces are initiated by women for various reason with finance being #1 in the list. There's so much violence towards black women right now in the US if a black woman is already in a stable relationship where she feels safe with the guy, she'll do herself a disservice by going out there to take such a risk
I'll bet that Ex will appreciate him more. She's going to keep being an unappreciative wanna-be gold digger, and run him right back to the other woman smh
He looks worn out 🥺 like one of these days he'll be gone...then she'll really be complaining for nothing 😔 Seriously how did men lose their place like this??
Young man. I say, let her go and she can pay for her own pedi, mani and eyebrows. Life is too shorts for the dumb stuff. If she is paying $200.00 for that, somebody owes her a huge refund
If my man says I have to pay a bill before I can get you a mani-pedi.....OH HE DEFINITELY ABOUT TO GET SOME THAT DAY...Nothing turns me on more than a man that's got his priorities in order!
If he pays the bills... Where does her money go? She should have enough to take care of things. She has champagne and caviar taste, but needs to bring it down to box wine and spam the man is breaking his back to make ends meet. She is picking and selfish.
She's what we call ghettobougie. Ghetto but bougie tastes that they want but can't afford. The lady makes my banking account shiver. She can do her own beauty care for so much cheaper
I don't condone or support cheating, but she has definitely made me understand why a man would cheat on her. NOTHING he does satisfies her. A job, no job, or two jobs!!
She only married to say she’s married. My momma called it “putting on airs”. AND… She doesn’t want the ex to have him back. So she’s holding unrealistic expectations over his head.
I understand her HOWEVER… she’s going about assisting him with improving himself the wrong way. She really don’t want him to improve himself because if he really steps up he’ll leave her. She simply wants him to work FOR her and make just enough for him to buy her stuff. She’s not focused on the team. What she needs to do is give him a year, while she supports the home, to get a trade and a better paying job. After that he’ll be able to grow from there. He’s going to stay stuck if he stays with her. I hope he sees that.
Poor guy. Doing all he could do and it’s still not good enough or appreciated. Life be so unfair to the good ones. Let her go and let her find out if what social media putting on is really the reality.
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997 I was looking for this comment. He's stable which is great but better can be done. She keeps saying she works so hard though but wants all the man's money.
I use press on nails for 7 bucks and for a one no ten supply it costs 30 bucks. She needs to learn to improvise, you don’t always have to go to a salon to get your nails done
After hearing the trip to Brazil I said to myself bish please. My uncle had a wife like that, he worked himself to death, literally having a heart attack at work. She took the life insurance policy money and married a new man a year later. She’s a pass, if things don’t improve cya.
She's known this man since they were children. She knows his abilities and level of education. If it wasn't good enough for her, she should have left him alone. Not to mention the fact that he has 4 children with his ex that must be supported. Maybe if she helped him, he could do better, but she doesn't give a damn about his success, only her own. If she truly loved him, she would help him better himself with more education. Instead of a trip to Brazil, how about invest in some training for him perhaps in computer sciences. She left that man behind a long time ago. Now she's reduced him to her employee, who's only job is to make her look good on her continued climb upward.
Unfortunately this seems to be the common theme today with the men on divorce court. this is why I’m glad I work and take care of myself because you can’t count on men out here today .
I understood what Ms. McDowell is saying about his employment situation. Everyone’s situation isnt the same, but every grown person should aspire to have a career that allows them to work 40-50 hours a week at one job and make good money. Not have 2 dead end jobs, working tirelessly, and still cant make ends meet. But surely she knew his situation prior to marrying him. She should not make him feel bad when clearly she accepted it by accepting his marriage proposal.
If she is going to remain married to him she has to accept that maybe he has low ambitions and just can't support her high maintenance lifestyle. I think at this point she knows exactly who she married and now wants him to achieve more for himself so he can contribute more as the man of the house but he has to develop a drive within himself to want more for himself instead of washing dishes and cleaning up. They have a family to support so they both need to come up with financial goals to get them where they need to be. Bills and savings first, mani pedis and trips to Brazil later. Your money is his and his is yours, TEAMWORK!
She knew before she married this man that he had other financial responsibilities and she still chose to marry him. She can't now expect the man to ignore those responsibilities and fund her a lavish lifestyle. She needs to be willing to sit down and plan with him.
I hope he has been staching money like she said he is, she's a financial vacuum. She said hiking is how she stays in shape 😂😂! Ladyyyy, you got some explaining to do. Although I like this judge, Judge Lynn would have told this woman off.
If she wants him to be a better provider, they should make a financial plan. Have him quit one job and have him go to trade school and in that time she cover a larger portion of the bills until he completed the trade and become a financial match for her.
I can understand her wanting to keep herself looking nice, hair done, nails and feet looking sweet. She should pay for those things herself with money from Her job. Better yet, save that money and care for your own hair, nails and feet. The man is NOT going to, nor should he, work and not have anything for himself. Actually, you both better think about how you're going to be able to afford food from the grocery store...or what you're going to do when the food on the store shelves are no longer there. To hell with your hair and nails when SHTF. 💯
I think this episode is staged.it isn't real.if you give me such a condition i won't even take two seconds to say i am not giving a dime.go ahead with the divorce. What is this nice guy doing with a gold digger.she made me sick in my stomach.what will i be doing with such a woman?not a single pair of shoes in two YEARS and all you want is 200dollars for your filthy toes?what is even wrong with this guy that he can't think?
So many stories of men getting married and still asking for sex…WHY GET MARRIED?!?! Just to sacrifice your life for a woman’s happiness ?? Sad sad shame 🤦🏿♂️ men, learn from this and focus on yourself first
The sex was there...the had kids, we're married but then it dried up. It's not that the sex was never there but she's clearly there for the money, it's hard to change someone who's that way.
The husband should definitely divorce this woman immediately. She does not want a partner - she wants an ATM!
Exactly
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I hope they both read this, and behave accordingly, because she's the only one that does not realize that her husband deserves better.
I think she wants him to make more money, but is going about it all wrong. Cause nail money isn’t too much to ask for. Her delivery is completely rude, but regardless she’s correct. He needs a career. Not 2 dead end jobs. He works very hard, but they’re barely making ends meet. My fiancée works long hours, but i dont have to pay bills or work so the loss of quality time is worth it to me.
@@jasminegreene8159 I will say you and her 're same
She'll be mad as hell when another woman wants him.
😅 sexually starving a man is a EASY way to make that happen....lol
Technically that can be applied to anybody though...💯
@@zulu3274 facts. But he's loyal and working. Most women over 30 are desparete for a man with these 2 characteristics.
@@willmallory9085 😁...💯
Got that right
The other women can have him. His goal is to just have sex and pay bills. He needs a simple never been on plane women. A women that has never been out of her city. A women that likes mcdonalds on sundays. She wants ore to life that what he wants.
I was worried, but I enjoy Star much more than Faith. But I really miss Judge Toler!
Star has started to kinda fill the void left by Toler. I have watched half of one episode with Faith and she was better on her show, not divorce court. I have been looking for this comment.
@@4022029 I agree. I didn't know what to expect at first from Star Jones but she has pleasantly filled the Judge Toler withdrawal's
Faith will be back but she's pregnant so she won't be back for awhile
She did good but I think judge Toler would've scolded that heffa a lil bit more with that foolishness. Cause it seems her husband has to buy her love.
Yes, I agree 100%.
She is childish, he needs to make her the next ex..Tragic
Did I hear her saying something about that is how she stays in shape, BIG SHIRLEY SHOULD STOP🤣🤣
Does it mean she can't spend her own money
@@chudiksc she didn't say her money, she said she wanted him to send her on a trip to Brazil..Good luck with that..
@@cynthiaward4512 the lady got to go
@@chudiksc she is going alright..
This is hard to get through because the wife is annoying af! However, I like Star Jones so far. She's been keeping it real while also giving wise advice.
Very annoying
Very!
Lmao
It is so annoying especially because she thinks the things she is saying are cute and they are just gross.
I really think the wife wants to explore perhaps she’s not even into men going to Brazil alone most men feel like that’s a trip for them to see beautiful women almost naked maybe she’s thinking like a guy and wants to act like a guy !
If she works so hard, then she can afford whatever she wants, or save for it and then buy it herself. I understand wanting gifts from your husband but she's doing way too much. She wants him to have a goal but it's only to her benefit. Is that supposed to motivate him? Sorry Mr McDowell, she's checked out!
The chat with Robert at the end was the highlight of this episode. Great comments from Judge Star!
She trying to get laid in Brazil by some other dude.
I honestly think judge star was way too soft on this one. Should've roughed her up some more
Classic case of an independent woman being in a marriage. Don’t marry a man who makes average income and expect trips to Brazil. She needs to get off the internet and appreciate the man she has. The streets are cold.
She bout to find out that social media been lying to her but it'll be too late...
She is a basic woman looking for fillet mignon
Independent? She has high expectations. If she wants money from him it’s not called independent.
@@nicolecummings4597 she was very clear the entire case, “I work hard and I deserve” that is independent woman to a T. At least in my community. Reminds me a lot of my mother.
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This is sad. This man is begging for sex and affection and time.
This woman is selfish as hell. She just want to use him.
I definitely Agree!! She too selfish 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
So trifling
I ain't ever able to give sex when I'm not getting my needs met. He needs to work on a career. She needs to calm her delivery.
All I can say is Ouch! Judge Star is rocking the green 💚
Yes she is!!!
She knew this man wasn't on her level of financial stability, and she's emasculating him on tv. For one she's loud, and thinking she's all that. Nothing wrong with us women having a career, being independent and making money, but don't belittle this man. He seems to be doing what he can only do job wise, but honestly, he need to take up a trade and try to better himself. If I was him, I would let her go. She's obnoxious!!
but she's the type that gets called a "queen" when she's anything but
His wife is correct. Yall going too easy on this man. She’s probably saying it rudely now cause she’s tired of telling him to go educate himself for a better job. Too many men are comfortable at the bottom and dont want to pull themselves up. He needs a trade period.
@@jasminegreene8159 but she met him at the bottom…she knew he wasn’t educated as well…but now she wants to change him…she wants him to take her to Brazil when he couldn’t even afford to give her $200 that’s just unrealistic of her…
I definitely Agree! She’s too full of herself 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I was routeing for her in the beginning, but she became annoying!
She really thinks she’s entitled to whatever she wants… now treating her is one thing. Demanding is another thing when you know there are finances that are a bigger priority… I am so disappointed in our society🤦🏾♂️
@HunchoSeason She actually isn't asking for much. If she works in Corporate America, she does have to present herself in a particular manner. The problem is that he is uneducated and broke. I guarantee you she's the one that carries the household.
@@chocolateangel8743 Yes, she is asking too much from a man that is "uneducated and broke". He's broke because she wants $200 mani-pedis. He's probably paying $150 - $200 every time she gets her locks retwisted too. Her nails look really basic (4:23 mark) so she could do those herself. Hell, he could probably do them.
He does need to get more job skills so he can get a better job. Being beat down & belittled by his wife is NOT helping him. Hopefully, by then he'll leave his selfish wife.
@@neededtobesaid4275 We live in a patriarchal society, where men have an economic advantage over women. A woman wanting a man that can provide isn't selfish. It's totally normal. In non-black communities, it's expected. It's just that, in the black community, BM have been failing for so long, BW are just expected to carry the load -- but without getting anything in return.
If my man is covering the bills I've got my nails and hair groceries too and household products however I believe a man deserves some of his hard earned money too
@@chocolateangel8743 In my family the men provided for the family and their wives had jobs too but they also made money too my grandfather was the TRUTH at fixing things he worked as a machinist my son got a job through him and my son brings home over 70k+ with OT and he's not as good as my grandpa
Wheww she was irritating my nerves🙄
I have to give Starr Jones credit. She's doing an excellent job as Judge Starr!
Star Jones is killing it!
Both intelligent and Beautiful I totally agree with your assessment 💯
Yes she is! 🌟
He has two jobs and she's complaining? Lord help us.
EXACTLY. He needs to Free himself. She acts like she is so much better than him and it's sad. Money should never define a person. IDC care how much they make.
@@kg7032 TRue! TRUE! TRUE!
He has two low paying jobs
@@pattiamoh1136so what, at least he works. I don't know if medi and pedi are necessary for survival
She keep saying she works hard but wants him to spend all his money to try and keep him broke while she keeps hers.
He needs to release her. Let her come across some one the complete opposite of her hubby. Bet she will rethink her thought process then.
If she wants him to make more money then she should encourage a trade or some other education. Trades, certification, business, contracting work, or a degree.
She seems selfish.
“I like to hike, that’s how I stay in shape” lol!!! Must be the smallest mountain ever formed😂😂😂
I didn't want to say anything 🤔
You think you look perfect? She should be encouraged
listen. my husband and i were not in the same place when we got married. but we understood that, had similar values, ambition, and goals, made plans to grow and get there, and pour into each other, and we are doing it. it’s hard but also a beautiful journey. it’s possible but she has extremely unreasonable expectations.
Absolutely. The same for me and my husband. Have goals as a married couple and are working towards them.
@@A_-js8gm yes girl yes!
Exactly right. She needs to get it together cuz he may not be with her much longer.
Just say you dated beneath you, it’s common.
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997 i ont believe any human is above or beneath another
She’s been with him since she was 14 years old, she doesn’t have a clue as to what’s out here. She’s delusional. That’s a good man but she doesn’t know that. Smh
Yes. Let her get dogged out one good time by some of these guys out here and she will see that she messed up.
@@lh6784 For real!@
He was married to someone else so she had something too
If money is tight, learn to do a mani/pedi at home!
She too busy planing for her solo trip to Brazil
I agree ☝️
She can get a mani pedi for less than $200. She wants a champagne lifestyle on a beer budget. She seems very selfish
@@bee12355 well stated
He needs to leave her ungrateful self
Jania, you are absolutely right.
Umm he’s cheating
@@onegreenenvy he has damn good reason to. Do you see how she's behaving
She is selfish and childish
Extremely!!
I agree she saying if he don't take her to Brazil she wants a divorce no man gonna wanna be with a woman who is like that sounds like a gold digger to me
YOOO! I'm in the virtual AUDIENCE on this EPISODE! My reactions got me dying 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
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How was the experience?
are you the one above the wife’s left shoulder??
🤣 You're hilarious! Looks like fun. 😁
Which one are you?
The wife seems spoiled and extra! The husband seems patient and sweet. He’s trying so she needs to tone it down some and they both work together. He needs to find a way to get his money game up for himself and his family.
Well I think she should stop working at the non-profit jobs and go get a job for real profit and slow down on these $200 a week. Manicures and pedicures..... That's a start for him to get his money up for his family...
But that might make too much sense...lol
@@zulu3274 I only meant that the husband should get a career so he can work smarter and not so much harder with the 2 jobs. I do believe that people who work at non profits are paid but volunteers are not? I agree about her stopping those $200 mani/pedi. My hubby and I earn a sizable 6 figure income but still I do my own hair and nails and even help hubby to keep his head shaved and I also do pedi on him too. That’s part of our quality time together which is my love language and physical touch which is his. The wife needs to stop being so materialistic and bratty and the husband should work on getting a career instead of having to work all those jobs burning himself out.
He's already working two jobs, and handing over the paycheck. There's no appreciation here. She thinks she's a Star! (See what I did there)
@@kemi1486 🙂 I'm still with you...💯
@@ritacox3275 Thank you!!👏🏾👏🏾 I would rather be with a man that I appreciate that’s working 2 job than to be with a man that doesn’t work at all. I agree..he is the only one that’s handling his business..paying the bills & taking care of his family & what is she doing..? using his money on herself that act’s like she’s a wannabe celebrity. all I hearing from her is me me meee & money but not thinking about him & their kids best interest. it’s funny that a woman like her say he needs a job yet..it isn’t going anywhere, now she saying he needs a well, higher paying job but complain about he working to much. she acting more like a 4yrs old child that demands to be treated like a princess then being an adult woman taking care of her family well being.
Make your own money to get your nails done girl. I’d never ask my husband for any money, I make my own for anything I want.
Or if you do at least be thankful and humble. Humility goes a long way ^^
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Girl yes, mine is disabled, but by Grace &Mercy I hold it down!!!
@Tatum Bell 👍🏽
Agreed!
Girl Bye! But I do understand what she means about him not living up to his potential. No one over the age of 40 should have to work 2 jobs to make ends meet UNLESS they want to, not because they have to. He needs to study for a trade or something. If she works so hard…pay for your own trip!!!
agreed. and she should give
up some of her wants and time to support him to do so. then you can complain and talk about brazil 🤪😂
Maybe if the woman stops demanding the man won't need 2 jobs to survive 🤔
I feel she's playing around.
Star be dressed! She looks amazing at 60. Star: Girl, look at my eyebrows, my nails I'll let you see my feet and ain't paying nobody $200 🤣🤣
“Are you married or hookin?”
Star gonna keep it real period and I’m for it!
I like this program again. Judge Star is way more relatable than the previous judge.
I could not be with a woman who does not respect me and is too materialistic. She needs to lose the good man she has. She will find out the hard way what it feels like to be older, and single in todays society. She is no spring chicken. There are a lot of ladies out there that would love and respect that gentleman. He seems to be fit. I hate to see people mistreated. She even called him a fool on public television. I think this guy needs to man up and take his balls back. But I know he's willing to suffer because of the Children. He's a better man then me because I would definitely walk away for that situation.
He's a good man!! She keeps talking about she wants to be appreciated but isn't reciprocating. She's all about money. Her expectations are too high. If she wants to go to Brazil, then she needs to put money away
You have to date and marry people that’s on your level. She values money and needs to find a man who values a high income as well.
They would get rid of her. She's too demanding. If she with him since 14 where did his ex wife come from??? Is she much younger than him? I thought they went to school together? Confused 😕
The judge said, are you hookin or are you married???????🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I am living for these bright suits. The colors are beautiful 😍
I’ve enjoyed Divorce Court for a number of decades. Each judge had their unique way and deliverance of their judgements on each case. Judge Toler and Faith was fantastic and insightful. There is no comparison and no competition; and now there’s Judge Star Jones. I remember her from back in the day but had not known she went and got her credentials to become a legitimate Judge and she wears it well. She is well spoken, elegant, and colorful. I’m enjoying her immensely. She too, like the others, demands/commands respect and her proper applause in the seat she’s occupying now. She too has integrity, character and her moral compass is on the mark and properly set! Each Judge makes a woman proud to be a woman with good sensibilities, which is very rare nowadays. I’m just glad that such women still walk among us🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God bless you Judge Star on this new journey/endeavor/opportunity to show the world that we ain’t all out of our minds❤😂
She dont love him and if she did she stopped along time ago. Its all about her and what she can get.
From a woman's perspective it's so clear, she don't love him anymore but she still want his love and attention and of course his money. I always say men are way more committed than us in relationship even study shows 80% of divorces are initiated by women for various reason with finance being #1 in the list. There's so much violence towards black women right now in the US if a black woman is already in a stable relationship where she feels safe with the guy, she'll do herself a disservice by going out there to take such a risk
I'll bet that Ex will appreciate him more. She's going to keep being an unappreciative wanna-be gold digger, and run him right back to the other woman smh
He need to run. She's very petti.either Brazil ir divorce? Divorce is probably cheaper. lol
Everything is about her... not them!!! Why are they not planning for Brazil as a family 😕
He better happily grab those divorce papers, sign them and RUN!!!
He looks worn out 🥺 like one of these days he'll be gone...then she'll really be complaining for nothing 😔 Seriously how did men lose their place like this??
Young man. I say, let her go and she can pay for her own pedi, mani and eyebrows. Life is too shorts for the dumb stuff. If she is paying $200.00 for that, somebody owes her a huge refund
They are not equally aligned. Now she resents him for being the man she married. Never marry potential.
If my man says I have to pay a bill before I can get you a mani-pedi.....OH HE DEFINITELY ABOUT TO GET SOME THAT DAY...Nothing turns me on more than a man that's got his priorities in order!
all night long lol
Ms Star, "brah" 🤣 love it!
Wife's too much, there's still a braid in question tho 😆.
She could faked it lol
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😅 She got that braid from one of her non-profit co-workers... She trying to extort a trip out that man... It's a setup ...lol
@@zulu3274 😂
@@LIVEINPEACE2023 😁 People be running all kind of game out here... I don't trust her... lol
He is supposed to take care of his family can't do that with a minimum wage job. A trip to Brazil on minimum wage 😃😃GIRL STOP IT 😆😆😆.
That's the calculation and logic I was trying to make sense of. People don't think at times because minimum wage+brazil vacation=NO BRAZIL VACATION 😄
No this woman is selfish 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ The husband need to leave her women like her don’t appreciate a good man!!
I was pleasantly surprised at how good she is for this show. Great job Judge ⭐️
If he pays the bills... Where does her money go? She should have enough to take care of things. She has champagne and caviar taste, but needs to bring it down to box wine and spam the man is breaking his back to make ends meet. She is picking and selfish.
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box wine and spam¡!!! I'm dead!!! ROFL
a 40oz and some Vienna sausages
She's what we call ghettobougie. Ghetto but bougie tastes that they want but can't afford. The lady makes my banking account shiver. She can do her own beauty care for so much cheaper
@@princessplate209 or boughetto (pronounced boo-szhetto) 😂😂
I 💜 this judge. She’s very knowledgeable.
I don't condone or support cheating, but she has definitely made me understand why a man would cheat on her. NOTHING he does satisfies her. A job, no job, or two jobs!!
SHE is too much. GURL !!! BYE.
More ways than one dude
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Such a quarrelsome woman. I could never be with a person like her. The man looks exhausted.
I was exhausted from listening. A few minutes in and I was like 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
She’s tripping. She has that I complex. I think she’s cheating!
Yep, that's what I said...she bugging!!
Exactly
In addition to the genuity and overall breath of fresh air Judge Star has so necessarily brought, her fashion is impeccable! Stunning every episode!
“Are you married or hookin?” Damn Star!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I read this .5seconds before she said it 😂😂😂😂😂
@@ariamarshall5161 🤣🤣🤣
I'm loving Star in this role!!! She's of sound mind, brilliant, experienced, and sooooo professional! Please bring her back!!! Amazing!
Girl you better keep him! Grass ain’t greener on the other side.
She only married to say she’s married. My momma called it “putting on airs”. AND… She doesn’t want the ex to have him back. So she’s holding unrealistic expectations over his head.
She is absolutely ridiculous & I'm not even done watching the episode
I did and ,!!He need to sign those Divorce Paper and Run
a marriage is about two people coming together as one she is so damn selfish all about her she is not a team player
He needs to move on
She doesn't deserve him. He's a good man! She trippin'
I understand her HOWEVER… she’s going about assisting him with improving himself the wrong way. She really don’t want him to improve himself because if he really steps up he’ll leave her. She simply wants him to work FOR her and make just enough for him to buy her stuff. She’s not focused on the team. What she needs to do is give him a year, while she supports the home, to get a trade and a better paying job. After that he’ll be able to grow from there. He’s going to stay stuck if he stays with her. I hope he sees that.
Hiking is not doing the wife any good
And got the nerve to be extra and demanding... 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@@michealtyler9702 she is extra ...let me stop
I wish she had elaborated on that, I need answers 😂😂😂.
I have to look up the meaning of P.P.🤣🤣
Poor guy. Doing all he could do and it’s still not good enough or appreciated. Life be so unfair to the good ones. Let her go and let her find out if what social media putting on is really the reality.
He absolutely is not doing all he could. This is struggle love
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997 I was looking for this comment. He's stable which is great but better can be done. She keeps saying she works so hard though but wants all the man's money.
Run brother🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️!! Run!! Fast!!
Ladies you can pay for your own mani and pedicure, and brows. Also what salon is she going too where it's almost $200 for mani, pedicure, and brow?
I would like to know!!
I will say that I pay $150 for mine but that’s because I WAY tip my hardworking operator who only makes a percentage of what the salon charges.
I use press on nails for 7 bucks and for a one no ten supply it costs 30 bucks. She needs to learn to improvise, you don’t always have to go to a salon to get your nails done
Man, take the divorce and exist this marriage immediately.
After hearing the trip to Brazil I said to myself bish please. My uncle had a wife like that, he worked himself to death, literally having a heart attack at work. She took the life insurance policy money and married a new man a year later. She’s a pass, if things don’t improve cya.
I’m loving Star as the judge!
A nanny pedi is absolutely nearly $200 but sis you trippin with that Brazil trip
Bruh you can't afford her
I love when she says "Tag, you're it!" 🤣 Like come on with it! Lol And omgee, 60 where?! Star looks AMAZING 😍 You go girl!
3:15 "Mr. McDowell, tag you're it." I like Star already. 🤣🤣
😐”…I like to go hiking to stay in shape” 👀 😂
Earning minimum wage at age 40 with kids is unacceptable. He needs to do better. That's pitiful.
If he has been incarcerated he is probably doing the best he can
@@authorlydiagreen1862 still disagree. I know ex cons who work trades. One job making good money and taking trips.
She's known this man since they were children. She knows his abilities and level of education. If it wasn't good enough for her, she should have left him alone. Not to mention the fact that he has 4 children with his ex that must be supported. Maybe if she helped him, he could do better, but she doesn't give a damn about his success, only her own. If she truly loved him, she would help him better himself with more education. Instead of a trip to Brazil, how about invest in some training for him perhaps in computer sciences. She left that man behind a long time ago. Now she's reduced him to her employee, who's only job is to make her look good on her continued climb upward.
Unfortunately this seems to be the common theme today with the men on divorce court. this is why I’m glad I work and take care of myself because you can’t count on men out here today .
She made me spit my food out of my mouth when she said “I hike to stay in shape”. Lmao
I did a double take at her when she said that 😂
The wife don’t listen To Judge Star she just yap yap yap when Judge speaks
If her manni and peddi is required for her job then it should come from her income from not his
I like this new judge and the bailiff...this program is very entertaining. Also the Program's sound track is very jazzy and catchy.
I understood what Ms. McDowell is saying about his employment situation. Everyone’s situation isnt the same, but every grown person should aspire to have a career that allows them to work 40-50 hours a week at one job and make good money. Not have 2 dead end jobs, working tirelessly, and still cant make ends meet.
But surely she knew his situation prior to marrying him. She should not make him feel bad when clearly she accepted it by accepting his marriage proposal.
He does have children... Working two jobs in California Equals 90k.
@@JayloveTheFoodguy he said he is currently a janitor and applied for the position of a cook. He needs to educate himself to get a better job.
@@jasminegreene8159 or she needs to pay for her own nails not once did she say she does anything for him or the family...
@@JayloveTheFoodguy he needs a better job. Nails aside, what she offers aside, he needs a better job
@@jasminegreene8159 what about her helping to provide for the family?
If she is going to remain married to him she has to accept that maybe he has low ambitions and just can't support her high maintenance lifestyle. I think at this point she knows exactly who she married and now wants him to achieve more for himself so he can contribute more as the man of the house but he has to develop a drive within himself to want more for himself instead of washing dishes and cleaning up. They have a family to support so they both need to come up with financial goals to get them where they need to be. Bills and savings first, mani pedis and trips to Brazil later. Your money is his and his is yours, TEAMWORK!
The wife is full of it..she sounds controlling and selfish!!!
She does not love him fr.
Why doesn't she use her OWN money to get the mani peti
In this case it's cheaper to lose her!
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She knew before she married this man that he had other financial responsibilities and she still chose to marry him. She can't now expect the man to ignore those responsibilities and fund her a lavish lifestyle. She needs to be willing to sit down and plan with him.
I hope he has been staching money like she said he is, she's a financial vacuum. She said hiking is how she stays in shape 😂😂! Ladyyyy, you got some explaining to do. Although I like this judge, Judge Lynn would have told this woman off.
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Yeah, when she said hiking???? I waa like most folks that hike look like it or she hikes once or twice a year.
If she wants him to be a better provider, they should make a financial plan. Have him quit one job and have him go to trade school and in that time she cover a larger portion of the bills until he completed the trade and become a financial match for her.
Judge star fashion on point period 👌
JS should’ve sent that man away with a $200 gift certificate to footlocker and a week hall pass at the VERY least 😑 hope he leave her azz.
I can understand her wanting to keep herself looking nice, hair done, nails and feet looking sweet. She should pay for those things herself with money from Her job. Better yet, save that money and care for your own hair, nails and feet. The man is NOT going to, nor should he, work and not have anything for himself. Actually, you both better think about how you're going to be able to afford food from the grocery store...or what you're going to do when the food on the store shelves are no longer there. To hell with your hair and nails when SHTF. 💯
Girl don’t let people showing the traveling on social media fool you into dropping the last good man. Lol.
She doesn't deserve him smh by felicia 🤣😂
she is crayz
Ms. Star Jones you are doing an excellent job in Divorce Court! Take Care. Hugs send
I think this episode is staged.it isn't real.if you give me such a condition i won't even take two seconds to say i am not giving a dime.go ahead with the divorce.
What is this nice guy doing with a gold digger.she made me sick in my stomach.what will i be doing with such a woman?not a single pair of shoes in two YEARS and all you want is 200dollars for your filthy toes?what is even wrong with this guy that he can't think?
I was there in the audience, it wasn't staged... some people are just weird lol
I like the moments at the end where they give their thoughts on the case.
So many stories of men getting married and still asking for sex…WHY GET MARRIED?!?! Just to sacrifice your life for a woman’s happiness ?? Sad sad shame 🤦🏿♂️ men, learn from this and focus on yourself first
The sex was there...the had kids, we're married but then it dried up. It's not that the sex was never there but she's clearly there for the money, it's hard to change someone who's that way.
She doesn't want him. She wants stuff from him.
She thinks she has it going on!