Let's not get it twisted.All things been equal,if things are really working back home,how many people will went to leave their home country and travel to someone else's country.
This world is very Spiritual,some of the women and the man are doing this too much,what ever u see in relationship u guy hv to be Smart. Love is game,love those who love u and just forget those who don't value u period
Indeed, his wife may not have handled the situation well, but looking at how he was speaking, it seems like he was still holding onto the traditional Ghanaian style of marriage where the woman is expected to do all the housework. This could have been a contributing factor to the breakdown of their marriage. My advice to Ghanaian men is that they should try and adjust to the new environment they find themselves in. For example, from this man's speech, he complains that his wife doesn't make the bed when she wakes up. To me, this shouldn't be a problem.
You are right to some extent but he made clear the woman wasn’t working. So, if she wasn’t working why wouldn’t she do the bed? About 80% of Ghanaian men living abroad do the house shores because they understand their women works too.
Stop twisting what the man said to suit your own narrative. He spoke in context. If the woman wasn't working, what the hell was she doing in the house not dressing the bed. Women will always make it about them and find flimsy excuses for their bad behavior. They have NEVER believed in ACCOUNTABILITY and always throw it to the dogs. They speak differently when it suits and doesn't suits them - always flip flopping. Per your weird logic, if marriage abroad ain't like traditional marriage in Ghana, then why wasn't the woman also working? On the flipside of the coin, I bet she will say "bɛɛma na Ɛkɔ pɛ sika ba fie, na ɔbaa ahwɛ fie" if the man probably asked her to work. They simply don't know what they want in life - it always about them, and loyal to their feelings.
Man what are you saying? He’s the only one working in a family of 6. What do you want him to do in the house after all those hours? Be objective and apply wisdom.
Traditional Ghanaian ?as if the modern western style of family works here in abroad! do u know what is going on here in the west do they have the family system even?Which group still have the strongest families even in abroad it is the Indians ie asians in general.Western family system is not working go read some books and do ur research..it is collapsing.
It’s simple the women never loved them. It happens many times when the couples in Italy moved to another country like Germany and UK they leave their men. It’s because in Italy the men only worked so the women have no option than to be sober but when they go other countries where social system is good then you see who they really are
@ bro Francis sometimes must of the men in italy are wicked they don't buy anything for their wives ,because u are not working, they o my buy food fufu chicken and rice finished they want the family to eat this foods everytime so when they move to another country and the women get work they see that money is no problem so they start to change the life styles that a lead to divorce am a witness to this problems....
My dear if you only knew how some of the men in Italy treated their wives all because they were not working you will be amazed.Some women were emotionally abused severely so as they came to UK and found out how they can get help they just move.I am not condemning anyone of them because as you can see we only hear that of the man’s side.I can tell you for sure that some women have really suffered from their husband’s hands.
Marriage is something else oo. Some parents are pressuring their wards to get married all because they think they’re growing. Such marriages don’t even keep long 😢 Marriages are collapsing every now and then. I still doubt the fact that marriage was instituted by God 😔
At least she had kids for him. It’s happened to someone I know and in this case there were no kids involved. My advice is don’t bring any woman abroad period!
@@vdapaahwhen have men left women for social benefits? How many woman bring men from Ghana abroad compared to men who bring women from Ghana? Why do women always defend women right or wrong? Is there a class on unaccountability that you all take? Feminism indeed!
Because of this stories we are hearing from the UK and US my husband won lottery, left Ghana for the past 11 yrs preparing his documents as an unmarried person without Children, saying his friends advice. It takes two people for marriage to work.We all are not the same.
I met a man in same situation from Italy. UK brings their real intent out. Luckily the man has met a younger woman for companionship. Men be careful who you choose for the life journey.
A wise woman use her hands to build and a foolish woman use her hands to destroy! How can you destroy the marriage you have built woman? Women should be careful how they listen to other women! Is really sad!
You bring these women to abroad you impose 50/50 on them then you want typical Ghanaian marriage at same time! You are also not that innocent sir. That’s my opinion
If you see the treatment they give their wives in Italy because they are not working. It’s really disheartening. So most of the women suffer in silence to get their passports and be independent from these men. They charge their wives for bringing them abroad and do so many things. Before the divorce happens in the uk it was already broken in Italy before moving to the uk
What Ghanaian men has to learn is when you bring a woman from Ghana it doesn’t mean you bought the woman If a woman is happy she won’t leave Some of the men force their wife to go for single parent benefit This man is not innocent Kofi ask the woman’s side of the story one sided
Always giving flimsy crap excuses! What the hell do you mean by she won't leave if she is happy. Its always about you women huh. You obviously didnt listen to the man's story. Per your jaundiced logic, are you saying the man has been happy throughout the marriage?
Nkwaseasɛm kwa, do you know the details of the matter for you to say the man is not innocent? Why do you always want to give reasons for bad behavior. Abɔdamsɛm kwa.
This is a wise man cuz he never even answered Kofi’s qtn if he’ll advise one to bro g their spouses. Some men also do same to their wives, worse. It might help some & it might not help some, such is life, we learn some & we move but may God help us all
Kofi TV, when are those in Ghana also going to use tap tap send to send us money? Always it is all about receiving in Ghana but the same highly religious Ghanaians who quote every part of the Bible will tell you blessed is the hand that gives than the one that receives. So when are they going to send us in the western countries money? I guess they also need the same blessings.
Marriage has always been about resources ooo and not love especially on the part of the woman. I am speaking in general terms. In most case the men provide all the resources but are alienated by the woman. Please we should not depend on someone body for happiness
My friends uncle brought the whole family from uk to Ghana for holidays…. Fast forward after seeing all the kids i sensed some abnormalities in my head because the last born looked completely different… and he was around 3 years. The man is diabetic and his doctor told him he can’t have kids upon knowing the man had a little boy…. Not knowing the woman he brought from Ghana dey eat a younger guy in the UK and even the naming ceremony the real father of the child was present🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ghanafo) ankasa we are greedy
I married my husband because I look him but he never loved me. Why do I say this Are married couples meant to stay separately. Is it a crime for a wife wanting to live with the husband at the stay place,for a hundred to say that he regretted marrying the wife because,she is telling people he the husband doesn't want to wife to come to the US. This is the story of a Nigerian woman.
This is how money destroy marriage, the love of money is the root of evil, the love of money has destroy what God Almighty have bind together, very shameful for some Ghanaian women, they will reap what they sow
Which abusive marriage? You Ghanaian women don't respect your husbands when you travel abroad, Indians are not any different from Ghanaian men,but their women still respect them and don't leave them
Madam women have always been unhappy people who always dump their happiness on men as if a man is some kind of god. Was Adam a bully in the garden of Eden? Was there another pleasant situation outside what she had with the husband?was her husband poor,cheating and unlovable..Yet she found a way to mess up what she had….women will always be unhappy all the time and when a man gets to know this u save yourself and keep ur peace!!!Am 45 and I can confidently tell u that if u make a woman’s happiness ur priority u are doomed cos even a perfect condition ultimately will start making them unhappy!!!!
Some men do not give their wives money in Italy that's why they did that when they get to UK . They should give their wives a little money we also need money.😂 If not every day there will be a divorce some men don't give their women money most of them especially in Italy that's why it's happens like that i am talking with my experience 😢
Not this man alone ooh I know more than 20 stories same from story . They will do everything to provoke you and bring a reaction and then accuse of abuse all Cus of benefits. My advice is as man think that anything can happen and invest wisely sometime invest without her knowledge quietly
The mentality you were living with in Ghana is what you took there.. But the system there doesn't permit it. You want her to help you succeed, what did you also do to help her.?
Waa see, if your husband succeed Isn’t the family succeeding??. Did you hear him say the woman even didn’t work for 2 months in 6 years….no wonder she wanted government free money,
Let's take a good look at the main causes of Marriages breaking now a days and stop attributing it to ; My wife left me because I bought her to UK or US. There couples also in UK or US whose marriages are working,what are they doing differently, please learn from them and stop the, victim attitude, I know it all attitude and I brought you from Italy,Ghana, Nigerian or wherever to the UK or US. Thank you
Sorry father! But some Ghanaian men do not understand these things, the government's money for the kids is given to the woman to take care of the kids not the man. This has led to many dicorce in abroad but still.....eeii asɛm ooo
Most of them are in Birmingham, when it comes to weekends, herr go and see the way they partied 🎉🍾🥂💃🍬🍭 I mean the women who has left their husbands. Hmmmm 🙄
@@bernardaboagye7381 goes to show the ignorance of some of our people , they don’t read, they just jump, they have stress and insult at everything that come at them good & bad
Let's not get it twisted.All things been equal,if things are really working back home,how many people will went to leave their home country and travel to someone else's country.
Sorry daddy .....everything will be fine
This world is very Spiritual,some of the women and the man are doing this too much,what ever u see in relationship u guy hv to be Smart. Love is game,love those who love u and just forget those who don't value u period
I know him at Pordenone in Italy he is a good man
I know him in PN Italy, he's a very good man..
Young men, avoid marriage at all cost. It will ruin you!!
What this man is saying is 💯 true. They even do more than this is very serious.
Clearly,the man is frustrated..Daddy take heart,It is well🙏
African women and Welfare money? America is different. You can divorce and live independently but you won't get any welfare money
Indeed, his wife may not have handled the situation well, but looking at how he was speaking, it seems like he was still holding onto the traditional Ghanaian style of marriage where the woman is expected to do all the housework. This could have been a contributing factor to the breakdown of their marriage. My advice to Ghanaian men is that they should try and adjust to the new environment they find themselves in. For example, from this man's speech, he complains that his wife doesn't make the bed when she wakes up. To me, this shouldn't be a problem.
You are right to some extent but he made clear the woman wasn’t working. So, if she wasn’t working why wouldn’t she do the bed?
About 80% of Ghanaian men living abroad do the house shores because they understand their women works too.
Stop twisting what the man said to suit your own narrative. He spoke in context. If the woman wasn't working, what the hell was she doing in the house not dressing the bed. Women will always make it about them and find flimsy excuses for their bad behavior. They have NEVER believed in ACCOUNTABILITY and always throw it to the dogs. They speak differently when it suits and doesn't suits them - always flip flopping. Per your weird logic, if marriage abroad ain't like traditional marriage in Ghana, then why wasn't the woman also working? On the flipside of the coin, I bet she will say "bɛɛma na Ɛkɔ pɛ sika ba fie, na ɔbaa ahwɛ fie" if the man probably asked her to work. They simply don't know what they want in life - it always about them, and loyal to their feelings.
Man what are you saying? He’s the only one working in a family of 6. What do you want him to do in the house after all those hours? Be objective and apply wisdom.
Traditional Ghanaian ?as if the modern western style of family works here in abroad! do u know what is going on here in the west do they have the family system even?Which group still have the strongest families even in abroad it is the Indians ie asians in general.Western family system is not working go read some books and do ur research..it is collapsing.
Please it's not about that, the women are very greedy
Bro kofi u are doing great work 👍👍👍👍👍
A man or a woman who does not love you will do things to you without looking back.
It’s simple the women never loved them. It happens many times when the couples in Italy moved to another country like Germany and UK they leave their men. It’s because in Italy the men only worked so the women have no option than to be sober but when they go other countries where social system is good then you see who they really are
Bra. Kofi, 👍
Is very true
@ bro Francis sometimes must of the men in italy are wicked they don't buy anything for their wives ,because u are not working, they o my buy food fufu chicken and rice finished they want the family to eat this foods everytime so when they move to another country and the women get work they see that money is no problem so they start to change the life styles that a lead to divorce am a witness to this problems....
My dear if you only knew how some of the men in Italy treated their wives all because they were not working you will be amazed.Some women were emotionally abused severely so as they came to UK and found out how they can get help they just move.I am not condemning anyone of them because as you can see we only hear that of the man’s side.I can tell you for sure that some women have really suffered from their husband’s hands.
Marriage is something else oo.
Some parents are pressuring their wards to get married all because they think they’re growing. Such marriages don’t even keep long 😢 Marriages are collapsing every now and then.
I still doubt the fact that marriage was instituted by God 😔
Let’s be very careful if you are a man and see red flags in your relationship run for your life
At least she had kids for him. It’s happened to someone I know and in this case there were no kids involved. My advice is don’t bring any woman abroad period!
Where are the kids now?
How do you even believe a woman like that is telling the truth about the true father of the kids .....
Agreed
@@vdapaahliar.more men brings their wife to abroad than women
@@vdapaahwhen have men left women for social benefits? How many woman bring men from Ghana abroad compared to men who bring women from Ghana? Why do women always defend women right or wrong? Is there a class on unaccountability that you all take? Feminism indeed!
First here🎉🎉🎉PIMPINAAA NIE
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Bibinii!!
Embrace the New Force!
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Because of this stories we are hearing from the UK and US my husband won lottery, left Ghana for the past 11 yrs preparing his documents as an unmarried person without Children, saying his friends advice.
It takes two people for marriage to work.We all are not the same.
I aside with you.
I met a man in same situation from Italy. UK brings their real intent out. Luckily the man has met a younger woman for companionship. Men be careful who you choose for the life journey.
A wise woman use her hands to build and a foolish woman use her hands to destroy! How can you destroy the marriage you have built woman? Women should be careful how they listen to other women! Is really sad!
You bring these women to abroad you impose 50/50 on them then you want typical Ghanaian marriage at same time! You are also not that innocent sir. That’s my opinion
U are a big fool. It will reach ur tùrn
If you see the treatment they give their wives in Italy because they are not working. It’s really disheartening. So most of the women suffer in silence to get their passports and be independent from these men. They charge their wives for bringing them abroad and do so many things. Before the divorce happens in the uk it was already broken in Italy before moving to the uk
What Ghanaian men has to learn is when you bring a woman from Ghana it doesn’t mean you bought the woman If a woman is happy she won’t leave Some of the men force their wife to go for single parent benefit This man is not innocent Kofi ask the woman’s side of the story one sided
You are like her wicked wife. I pity your husband. Shame unto you.
Always giving flimsy crap excuses! What the hell do you mean by she won't leave if she is happy. Its always about you women huh. You obviously didnt listen to the man's story. Per your jaundiced logic, are you saying the man has been happy throughout the marriage?
Nkwaseasɛm kwa, do you know the details of the matter for you to say the man is not innocent? Why do you always want to give reasons for bad behavior. Abɔdamsɛm kwa.
@@brownoppong834 They have never believed in ACCOUNTABILITY! They always throw that to the dogs 🐕.
If the woman is happy...waooo. Is there anything on earth that satisfies this greedy and selfish gender? Stop massaging your ego.
There are always two sides to every story. A lot of the women whose husbands took them to Italy are treated like sh.t
Kofi come to Edmonton we got more to tell you.
Not all women in UK are treating their husbands bad
I feel your pain Daddy ! Don't worry kama will catch her ,mark it today she will come back to beg u , how can u be so wicked to your lovely husband
Every story has two sides please don’t listen to one side. Africa men don’t always speak one side.
Sorry to hear this. Not long to go before enjoying your pension.
May God strengthen you papa
Marriage is about collaboration. If you are not ready to collaborate, just stay alone!
It is not the system. It’s their plan from
Day one to leave when they get to abroad. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please daddy, go home after retirement so you can enjoy the labor of your hard work.
This is a wise man cuz he never even answered Kofi’s qtn if he’ll advise one to bro g their spouses. Some men also do same to their wives, worse. It might help some & it might not help some, such is life, we learn some & we move but may God help us all
Kofi TV, when are those in Ghana also going to use tap tap send to send us money? Always it is all about receiving in Ghana but the same highly religious Ghanaians who quote every part of the Bible will tell you blessed is the hand that gives than the one that receives. So when are they going to send us in the western countries money? I guess they also need the same blessings.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 too right! The winter bills are coming! We need remittance from Ghana
U support u
😂 you just made my day.
WoYɛ serious dea😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My ribs
It's important we really know who we are getting married to. Let's also not ignore the red flags before marriage.
So the conclusion of the matter is, its about money and selfishness. Okay fine. This thing called marriage 33h. Okay vhim
Money Money Money
Oh Boss
Take it easy
Oh Boss
Take it easy
Marriage has always been about resources ooo and not love especially on the part of the woman. I am speaking in general terms.
In most case the men provide all the resources but are alienated by the woman.
Please we should not depend on someone body for happiness
I've already watched on Facebook.. Kofi ay3 late😂😂😂
DONT BRING HER ABROAD !!!!! HMMMM!!!!
I can feel his pains..🤔
How does he start all over again hmmm
Do you people know what most men are passing through in that UK
The agenda of the average Ghanaian is clear .
Very sad.I am wondering if the ex-wife was much younger than the husband.
My friends uncle brought the whole family from uk to Ghana for holidays…. Fast forward after seeing all the kids i sensed some abnormalities in my head because the last born looked completely different… and he was around 3 years. The man is diabetic and his doctor told him he can’t have kids upon knowing the man had a little boy…. Not knowing the woman he brought from Ghana dey eat a younger guy in the UK and even the naming ceremony the real father of the child was present🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ghanafo) ankasa we are greedy
I pray God strengthen you it shall be well
Single and searching for partner ❤
Hey
I married my husband because I look him but he never loved me.
Why do I say this
Are married couples meant to stay separately.
Is it a crime for a wife wanting to live with the husband at the stay place,for a hundred to say that he regretted marrying the wife because,she is telling people he the husband doesn't want to wife to come to the US.
This is the story of a Nigerian woman.
I always say this,never take a woman abroad…period
This is how money destroy marriage, the love of money is the root of evil, the love of money has destroy what God Almighty have bind together, very shameful for some Ghanaian women, they will reap what they sow
Thank God for removing connected woman problem from you, God you and kids
Ghanaians women are tired of abusive marriage, but the guys will come and complain
Which abusive marriage? You Ghanaian women don't respect your husbands when you travel abroad, Indians are not any different from Ghanaian men,but their women still respect them and don't leave them
Madam women have always been unhappy people who always dump their happiness on men as if a man is some kind of god. Was Adam a bully in the garden of Eden? Was there another pleasant situation outside what she had with the husband?was her husband poor,cheating and unlovable..Yet she found a way to mess up what she had….women will always be unhappy all the time and when a man gets to know this u save yourself and keep ur peace!!!Am 45 and I can confidently tell u that if u make a woman’s happiness ur priority u are doomed cos even a perfect condition ultimately will start making them unhappy!!!!
Ghanaian men are tired of your greedy, selfish, and insatiable nature.
Is it only women that go through abusive marriage?
Ɛyɛ asɛm o😢somethings are beyond control
Sometimes I ask myself, why do you women do this?
KOFI TV, wanna collab I really liked it
Benefits Britain is to be blamed
Some men do not give their wives money in Italy that's why they did that when they get to UK . They should give their wives a little money we also need money.😂 If not every day there will be a divorce some men don't give their women money most of them especially in Italy that's why it's happens like that i am talking with my experience 😢
Abrokyire for u the system nodi bewo weni
Kofi, the volum is not working
Man suffer so hard including risking deaths, only to bring a wife and she betrays you painfully
Most Men and women no longer have the fear of Jehovah Almighty.They all go to their so called Churches because of what they went to hear.
Oh my God, l know both of them, l am very sad, bro kwesi it is well.
VOLTA WOMEN NORMALLY DON'T DO THAT. I KNOW A LOT OF AKAN WOMEN DIVORCED THEIR HUSBANDS AFTER BRINGING THEM ABROAD
She will not allowed him to train his children hmm sad
May God help us.
Very sad story, i didn't marry a woman here because of the way they treat men😂😂😂
Good day Bro Kofi, please I would like to talk with you. How can I contact you? Thank you
Please next time give the child benefit to the woman if want peace in your marriage.
Kofi how do i contact you???
Not this man alone ooh I know more than 20 stories same from story . They will do everything to provoke you and bring a reaction and then accuse of abuse all Cus of benefits. My advice is as man think that anything can happen and invest wisely sometime invest without her knowledge quietly
The mentality you were living with in Ghana is what you took there.. But the system there doesn't permit it. You want her to help you succeed, what did you also do to help her.?
@@akuaoforiwaa2510 he brought her to Abroad precisely UK madam learn sense ofuiii
Waa see, if your husband succeed Isn’t the family succeeding??. Did you hear him say the woman even didn’t work for 2 months in 6 years….no wonder she wanted government free money,
No wonder u are single and suffering in ghana
My brother has the same problem why
Same here
Let's take a good look at the main causes of Marriages breaking now a days and stop attributing it to ; My wife left me because I bought her to UK or US.
There couples also in UK or US whose marriages are working,what are they doing differently, please learn from them and stop the, victim attitude, I know it all attitude and I brought you from Italy,Ghana, Nigerian or wherever to the UK or US.
Thank you
Kwasia you said she converted to Christianity so what concern we the Muslims?
Sorry father! But some Ghanaian men do not understand these things, the government's money for the kids is given to the woman to take care of the kids not the man. This has led to many dicorce in abroad but still.....eeii asɛm ooo
Where is it written the money is given to the women? Men can not take care of a child?
@francisappiah1542 you probably have no experience with that, so I will save my explanation....
Nonsense. ..itsnt the man who care for home? So technically the money has to go to the man
Italian wives who came to UK, most of them are greedy..😅😅
Is not their fault because they've not seen benefit before. 😅
😢😢😢😢😢😢
Most of them are in Birmingham, when it comes to weekends, herr go and see the way they partied 🎉🍾🥂💃🍬🍭 I mean the women who has left their husbands. Hmmmm 🙄
You were an obstacle to her welfare money, so she had to push you out 😢
First to cement 😊😊
The volume is too low
Nanakunu Kofi
Did I hear Bologna?
I heard Pordenone.
I
Awo ben mu
Hi
Rasta Man😅
I'm a Ghanian but you them lot are all trickster's mmn
Kafra
Hmmmm
SHE MET A MORE HANDSOME MAN, LET'S US BOLDLY TELL HIM
Sua nyansa wati. Gyimifuo
Do you even know how she also looks? Just be careful on your comments
Bro Kofi how do l contact you please
Robert Wayoe from uk 🇬🇧 east London Stratford. Kofi is summer time. Why are you wearing jacket.
Your summer is his spring 😂😂😂😂
@@kingshomes8546 wutrumu kankan GYEMEE Aboa ofui John boooooooooo
@@RobertWayoe-es7mu you need to seek professional help , you are sick 😂
@RobertWayoe-es7mu Ah boss but he never insulted you. He is making fun of Kofi. Chaley boss relax. Dabiaaaa edidi atem. Ah
@@bernardaboagye7381 goes to show the ignorance of some of our people , they don’t read, they just jump, they have stress and insult at everything that come at them good & bad