Don't need to apologize for "loosing your shit" man, do whatever it takes to feel better, talk to us, cry, make music. We're here for you, from all around the globe.
Dude. My mom passed away one day ago. About 2.5 month ago she was a normal women, and cancer killed her way too fast. I remember how 3 months ago i was commenting your video, telling you some silly words of support. And now i'm there, in our home where lived with her 33 years, and now she's just ain't there. She was only 56. I'm just empty inside and crying all the time. So i feel you very well. Love you brother. Sorry for bad english.
Im so sorry to hear, my condolences. It's going to be hard for a very long time. I'm still learning to live without her and every day is a challenge but you will continue to live on and have a beautiful life, even if it may not seem like it now. Find comfort in the simpler things and give yourself patience. You are only human so there is no proper way to feel or process your grief. Take it a day at a time. Your English is great btw.
@@JonSudano, i can't express how much that words means to me, so thank you, my friend. I will try to do my best for keeping myself together, knowing how hard it will be. I believe now, that when we keep our shit together, we will make our moms proud for us more and more each day. Have a nice life bro
I'm sorry to hear it, my condolences😔😔 May your Mother rest in peace😔🙏🙏 Try to stay strong for rest of your life, as your mother will always want you good being even when she's resting peacefully in heaven👍🏿👍🏿
There's no stranger's words that can really help in a situation like this. Just some support and a reminder that time heal almost every wound. Stay strong my man
Crying isnt "losing your shit," bro. You are human. You are entitled to your emotions, and the space to express them as you need to. You're good, dude.
You are a phenomenal musician, artist & all around guy! You are an even better Son! There is a Heaven. Mom & Dad are both looking down at you. They will show you in time! You’ll see! Stay Strong like Mom would want you to! - your favorite detail manager
I am a fan from Brazil and I hope you find consolation knowing how far your beautiful heart and channel has reach. From the "smash mouth era", passing throught your musical stuff to now, has been an amazing journey getting to know more about such a great person (and now about his incredible mom!) Her memories and life are now living in our memories as well. Thank you to share such emotional and deep story. Big hug! Keep strong ❤️
This made me so emotional, especially the part about her waiting for a kiss. You're such a genuine person and a wonderful son to her. Lots of love bro ❤
Cancer sucks. My grandma got esophageal cancer and when COVID was new she got it and it finished her off. She was one of the strongest women I knew. She was 92. She did treatment and was also deemed cancer free(also rang the bell). Near the end of her life she wasn't able to eat solid foods and lost a lot of weight. Her quality of life wasnt there and I remember her telling my mom how she tried her best being a good woman and everything and how it's not fair all this was happening to her and how she was afraid to die. Maybe the last few weeks of her life she accepted her time was up. I miss her so much she was a second mom to me. We're all here for you man you're not alone stay strong
I’m so so sorry for your loss. It’s so insanely hard to lose someone so close and I hope you and your family are doing as good as you possibly can be 🙏🏽
Well sad sad news in case you haven't heard, Steve Harwell the lead singer of Smash Mouth is currently is hospice care due to liver failure and only has a few days left to live 😢
My heart goes out to you Jon. I am so sorry for your loss. Take your time, and let yourself heal, work through what you need to. You are an incredible man, don't ever forget that.
I feel you brother, my mother have cancer metastasis , to the brain and she is doing radiotherapy , i am very scared of losing her .And i am overthinking a lot , i pray to God everyday to save her .
I found this to be very heartwarming Jon. Well done. You are very introspective and able to recall so many moments of your life. You're inspiring us to be better people. Your Mom was lucky to have you, just as you were lucky to have her for 32 years. My Dad came from a family that struggled and suffered, and emotions were always on the surface. He was a warm hearted human being just as you are.
Losing a close loved one is never easy. Its ok to cry, scream, talk to your fans. Do whatever helps. Doing any of those things makes you no less of a man. Your fans love you. ❤️
Glad to see you again Jon. We all love you and are always supporting your back. Take what you need and be as happy as you can in these times. Praying for you and family. 💙
Hey Man, I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I knew your Mom and she was a great person. I’m sure she is in a better place and looking over you and is super proud of you. Keep your head up and keep rocking.
It's rough, man. I lost my mom when she was just a few years older than yours in 2016, and my dad passed very suddenly earlier this summer. I'm a complete orphan now, with no living parents or siblings, and I've just entered my 40s. In a weird way, I feel so much older than all of my close peers, but that's just how life goes sometimes. Don't be afraid to lean on your friends, partner, other family members, etc. As we get older, those people become more and more important to us. Also, I just read that the source of your success passed - I hope you'll do a funny, sincere tribute vid to celebrate his influence on your channel. He was a goofy guy, but it sounded like his last few years were hell. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Thank you for sharing. Also 32 here, also lost my mother recently (7 months ago). She somehow got COVID on top of her multiple chronic illnesses whilst home-ridden, and her health deteriorated rapidly. In less than a week she was gone and I didn't even know to be there. She was 76 and I had been mentally preparing of the eventual loss of my parents since I was about 15, but it still hit like a lightning bolt. I have the crappiest memory, but I will never forget the moments of hearing about my best friend's and my mother's passings. I will never forget the autopiloted events that followed the latter, either. These things do stick with you. I am slowly coping and so is my father, but to this day I feel there now exists a void that can never be refilled again. They say that the grief doesn't go away, we just grow around our grief. It is a good way to put it into words. Even so, I still occasionally cry, oft-times even in public, randomly remembering memories from the past involving my mother. There are a lot of different bittersweet emotions bundled up in those tears, but not shame. There's no shame in caring about our loved ones. Nothing to apologize for. Regardless of your age or gender or whatever. Your previous video suddenly popped up in my recommendations today, even though a few months late. I haven't even seen this channel before... As if the algorithm knew way more than it should... I suppose watching your video and writing this comment was some kind of therapy to me as well. I had a lot to think and cry about. It is liberating in its own way. All the best to you!
One of my best friends had to make that same decision to stop treatment for her mum last August and it was the most gut wrenching thing I’ve ever seen anyone go through. Her grandma is also still alive and she had to break the news. She supported you with RUclips, now we can support you with her 🖤
Hugs from Brazil mate, u are a good lad and a nice son, you did your best and you have a beautiful life, we're here for you my man, do what u need to do to be happy, saúde meu irmão !
Jon, you are an inspiration. To go through what you have and still having such a positive vibe is incredible!! You see the good. You got to have 1 more Birthday celebration with your mom. It must have been so bittersweet knowing it was her last, but still being able to. And like you said you still have to take care of yourself with your weightloss journey which is also inspiring. Keep going, brother. We will all be here when you are ready, but keep in mind music is the best medicine. 🤘😝
A man talking on the internet on a video is too sad to watch? Lmfao previous generations watched their friends die in wars, people experienced the holocaust, 9/11 all kinds of shit. It's sad how soft the world has become. If you can't handle a guy talking on the internet then how the hell do you handle the real world? Genuine question.
@@666Lachrimae666 It would be one thing if you were just a shitty teenager who hadn't finished growing up But your account was made in 2011...bro, you're a grown-ass adult. You're STUCK like this. Forever.
Jon I been watching you for two years and you've been nothing but honest and humble and I'm glad that we make you feel safe enough to open up to us and as you see we're here for you bro!✌😎✌❤🌎❤
Jon, so sorry to hear about your mom. I hope you can celebrate her life and appreciate the time you had with her. I hope you're doing well - you are looking great!
Wow! What a moving stury. We all cried with you. I certainly did. I lost my parents many years ago. Thanks for sharing. I came to your channel to see if you were doing to do anything for Steve Harwell.
Thanks for sharing this part of you with us Jon. I still remember the last 5 to 10 seconds of my dream before my mom woke me up, bursting tears, telling me that my grandma passed away from a brain tumor that had her in bed for her last 6 months of her life. Was kind of a silly dream for me now tbh, i dropped architecture that same year, and i was in technical drawing class. My classmates were telling me there was some homeworks that i didn't have to do, but i wanted to do'em anyways. It's curious how recurrent that dream has been since then, like once or twice per month for the last 6 years. Suffering compains us in this ludicrous path that is life, and the love persist with such burst that sometimes hurts like a shank. And man, still feeling like a teen, trapped in the body of an adult. I don't think anyone gets rid of that EVER. We'll be in our 60s or 70s and still watching NeoRUclips or wathever, and raging for vidya shit.
I just came across your channel. I'm sorry for your losses. Family tree can be disturbing to look into, but also interesting, especially from the perspective of systemic constellations, which can explain a lot of "coincidences", dynamics, roles, illnesses etc. I respect your bravery about sharing your feelings, especially because you're a man, I think that's very important to share. Also you have a very beautiful tattoo.
I missed this, but I'm glad you're doing better since last upload. You seem to be more comfortable talking about this and knowing it's in your better interest to talk about it.
I hope you're doing alright buddy. This is something I've feared for a long time - I only have my mother and sister as over time my family grew apart and things happened. The thing I always tell myself when I think about it is we are their living legacy. We are what they wanted and we'll complete their goal in life. One step at a time bro.
It’s an agonising decision to begin end of life treatment. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through all of that. I hope you continue to find an outlet for you to express what you’re feeling. Best wishes.
Hey man, I also lost my mom to Endometrial cancer a few years back. It was a very difficult time, but hearing your story helped put things into perspective. I hope you are doing better and are able to find some peace. Take care.
Stay strong, Jon. We'll meet in the end, as Ozzy once said. Take care of yourself. I'm watching this video to the end and feel like I'm sitting with a good and wise friend of mine. Thank you for being my friend.
I understand how you feel my dude, truly. My mother passed 2 years ago, suddenly, from a heart attack; she was 54, I was 32. I wish I could say that it gets easier, and maybe it does, but 2 years later, I'm still a mess. You are correct though, talking about it certainly helps. If you haven't already, I would suggest seeing a counselor for assistance in dealing with grief. Maybe even join an online or in person support group. Every little bit of support helps.
A friend of mine, whose mother passed 2 years before mine, sent me this message and it really helped and helps me to deal with the trauma: "I want you to know everything you are feeling right now is okay. It’s okay to not want to talk to people. It’s okay to be sad. It’s okay to be pissed off. It’s okay to not understand. It’s okay. You’re going to have to navigate through a LOT of feelings these next few weeks/months/etc. and whatever you are feeling is what you’re meant to be feeling in that moment."
It’s kinda strange how out losses match up. I’m 40. But my dad also died in young. It was 2005, he was 42. My mom is still alive, but my grandpa died in 2009 and it was sudden. My dad was suffering for years. He was diabetic. I’m telling you man, it does start to get better. But like you said, you never forget. You will get through this. Do what you need to feel better. :)
Wow you lost a lot of weight since your videos a few years ago!, my mom passed away in 2020 from an overdose, losing someone is sadly a part of growing up, my condolences. Love you dude.
I was recommended to look at some of your old videos and sadly came across this video. Im sorry man I left my nan at around 12.00pm and i came home about 3.30pm to find that she had passed away on the couch apparently 2.00pm according to the paramedics. Ive never seen a person deceased and it tore me apart as i tried CPR but it was too late. She was more than my Nan she was my best friend i know the pain. She died in july of 2021 Stay strong
Thanks for making this, Jon. You were already an engaging, talented and simply attractive dude. And as a fellow drummer, I was already biased in your favor. But it's real talk like this that makes you lovable as my human brother, because feel the same joy and pain that I do--that we all do. I know there are too many people out there that lack empathy and feel like they have nothing in common with the rest of us. And this is *exactly* the type of video that those people need to be watching, in order to cultivate that crucial empathy. We all must realize that you don't have to know someone personally to care about them, because their struggle is our struggle--THE struggle. Keep on keeping on, Jon Sudano...I love you.
I feel like I can relate to your story on a couple points. I lost my dad in late 2022, he was 63 and I was 34. Just like you also I typically feel like a big kid in an adult’s body. I never expected to be doing this at 34. A lot of that died that day though man. I lost a lot of that fun and silliness… it’s been over a year now and it does get better, I have had some pretty happy days here and there since then but I’m still not perfectly the way I was before.
I was born in June 1991 in South Jersey too :D (I know you said philly first) My stepmom passed in 2021 and my dad April this year but my mom is still there. Sorry for your loss. My dad also had heart problems when I was young we were lucky the medicine he started taking helped out.
Not that anything I say can make it any better but hang tight my dude. Work on yourself, make her even prouder than she already was. You have a lot of number 2 fans over here, no one can take the number 1 though. World is yours, much love ❤
This hasn't happened to me yet, but I'm old enough where I'm starting to think about it. If it means anything Jon, I now have a better idea of what I'm going to do when the time comes. So, thank you for this.
Cancer lost my battle with my mom about 22 year's ago, I'm 29 and while my Mom took cancer down with her. I know I was young when my Mom battled with it and took it down with her. I wish you the best and I know I just really found your channel, but we're here for you, it's been a little wild thinking that while my Mom passed away when she was 32 and I'm slowly coming up on that age now, it's strange knowing that I'll somehow in a way out 'age' my mom but really, she's been with me through everything I've gone through, and while I'm not really the religious or super spiritual type, I still believe she's help me guide my life for the better and do what I really wanna do, I wish you the best of luck through everything and you've got this.
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Don't need to apologize for "loosing your shit" man, do whatever it takes to feel better, talk to us, cry, make music. We're here for you, from all around the globe.
Just tell him "Hey now you're an all star get your game on go play"
Loose stools is not a good thing.
Dude. My mom passed away one day ago. About 2.5 month ago she was a normal women, and cancer killed her way too fast. I remember how 3 months ago i was commenting your video, telling you some silly words of support. And now i'm there, in our home where lived with her 33 years, and now she's just ain't there. She was only 56. I'm just empty inside and crying all the time. So i feel you very well. Love you brother.
Sorry for bad english.
Im so sorry to hear, my condolences. It's going to be hard for a very long time. I'm still learning to live without her and every day is a challenge but you will continue to live on and have a beautiful life, even if it may not seem like it now. Find comfort in the simpler things and give yourself patience. You are only human so there is no proper way to feel or process your grief. Take it a day at a time.
Your English is great btw.
@@JonSudano, i can't express how much that words means to me, so thank you, my friend. I will try to do my best for keeping myself together, knowing how hard it will be.
I believe now, that when we keep our shit together, we will make our moms proud for us more and more each day. Have a nice life bro
I'm sorry to hear it, my condolences😔😔
May your Mother rest in peace😔🙏🙏
Try to stay strong for rest of your life, as your mother will always want you good being even when she's resting peacefully in heaven👍🏿👍🏿
@@Mr.Pro55k, thank you brother, i will try my best.
@@NobleAss hey, how are you you doing? And rest in peace to your mother.
We are here for you!♥️
Just tell Jon "Your brain gets smart but your head gets dumb"
You are incredibly strong for sharing this Jon. You are an amazing human. I was cutting onions watching this.
There's no stranger's words that can really help in a situation like this. Just some support and a reminder that time heal almost every wound. Stay strong my man
Just Tell Jon "Get the show on, get paid "
@@DoctorFZerodude no one thinks ur funny get tf on somewhere 💀
Crying isnt "losing your shit," bro. You are human. You are entitled to your emotions, and the space to express them as you need to.
You're good, dude.
You are a phenomenal musician, artist & all around guy! You are an even better Son! There is a Heaven. Mom & Dad are both looking down at you. They will show you in time! You’ll see!
Stay Strong like Mom would want you to!
- your favorite detail manager
I am a fan from Brazil and I hope you find consolation knowing how far your beautiful heart and channel has reach. From the "smash mouth era", passing throught your musical stuff to now, has been an amazing journey getting to know more about such a great person (and now about his incredible mom!)
Her memories and life are now living in our memories as well. Thank you to share such emotional and deep story. Big hug! Keep strong ❤️
Just tell Jon "Somebody once told me the world is gonna roll me"
Also from brazil
Remember, we're your fans, we will always be here to support you bud. Best wishes ❤
Just tell Jon "Hey now you're an all star get your game on go play"
Much love to you, man. Thank you for sharing things in a sensitive & articulate manner. I've no doubt that your mom would be incredibly proud of you
This made me so emotional, especially the part about her waiting for a kiss. You're such a genuine person and a wonderful son to her. Lots of love bro ❤
Cancer sucks. My grandma got esophageal cancer and when COVID was new she got it and it finished her off. She was one of the strongest women I knew. She was 92. She did treatment and was also deemed cancer free(also rang the bell). Near the end of her life she wasn't able to eat solid foods and lost a lot of weight. Her quality of life wasnt there and I remember her telling my mom how she tried her best being a good woman and everything and how it's not fair all this was happening to her and how she was afraid to die. Maybe the last few weeks of her life she accepted her time was up. I miss her so much she was a second mom to me. We're all here for you man you're not alone stay strong
You are so genuine. You dont need to apologize for anything!! Just stay strong and always remember we're here for you my bro!!
Much love man, loved ones first, cheers from Barcelona.
I’m so so sorry for your loss. It’s so insanely hard to lose someone so close and I hope you and your family are doing as good as you possibly can be 🙏🏽
I appreciate you talking to us about this. It reminded me of someone I loved.
Well sad sad news in case you haven't heard, Steve Harwell the lead singer of Smash Mouth is currently is hospice care due to liver failure and only has a few days left to live 😢
My heart goes out to you Jon. I am so sorry for your loss. Take your time, and let yourself heal, work through what you need to. You are an incredible man, don't ever forget that.
who the fuck cares
My sincere condolences Jon. Thank you for sharing this ❤
I feel you brother, my mother have cancer metastasis , to the brain and she is doing radiotherapy , i am very scared of losing her .And i am overthinking a lot , i pray to God everyday to save her .
Dont know you but your content looks great and you seem like a sweet guy. 💜 Sorry to hear abt your mother. New sub here
Hey Jon, you doing alright after the news about Steve Harwell? Just doing a bro check in.
Best wishes to you and yous from Scotland, Jon.
May the road rise up to meet you, and the wind be always at your back.
Always look on the bright side of life man, I know it sounds impossible, but we’re with you. Sending prayers for you and your mother
I found this to be very heartwarming Jon. Well done. You are very introspective and able to recall so many moments of your life. You're inspiring us to be better people. Your Mom was lucky to have you, just as you were lucky to have her for 32 years. My Dad came from a family that struggled and suffered, and emotions were always on the surface. He was a warm hearted human being just as you are.
best wishes from Bristol, England!
We're here for you, love you Jon!!!
Losing a close loved one is never easy. Its ok to cry, scream, talk to your fans. Do whatever helps. Doing any of those things makes you no less of a man. Your fans love you. ❤️
Glad to see you again Jon. We all love you and are always supporting your back. Take what you need and be as happy as you can in these times. Praying for you and family. 💙
So sorry for you, man. Big fan here. Bless you and your mom. She never left you ❤
take your time.
We are here to support you my man, hope you feel better ASAP : )
Stay strong man, love from Sweden. ❤️
Take care Jon, absolutely love you.
Hey Man, I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I knew your Mom and she was a great person. I’m sure she is in a better place and looking over you and is super proud of you. Keep your head up and keep rocking.
know that you are loved, bro.. being vulnerable takes balls! but that's how you evolve and receive love. wishing you peace ✌️🕊️
It's rough, man. I lost my mom when she was just a few years older than yours in 2016, and my dad passed very suddenly earlier this summer. I'm a complete orphan now, with no living parents or siblings, and I've just entered my 40s. In a weird way, I feel so much older than all of my close peers, but that's just how life goes sometimes. Don't be afraid to lean on your friends, partner, other family members, etc. As we get older, those people become more and more important to us.
Also, I just read that the source of your success passed - I hope you'll do a funny, sincere tribute vid to celebrate his influence on your channel. He was a goofy guy, but it sounded like his last few years were hell. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Love you man! take your time and we are always here for you!
Hope you are better my friend. I love you and I truly think you are a precious soul.
Thank you for sharing.
Also 32 here, also lost my mother recently (7 months ago). She somehow got COVID on top of her multiple chronic illnesses whilst home-ridden, and her health deteriorated rapidly. In less than a week she was gone and I didn't even know to be there. She was 76 and I had been mentally preparing of the eventual loss of my parents since I was about 15, but it still hit like a lightning bolt.
I have the crappiest memory, but I will never forget the moments of hearing about my best friend's and my mother's passings. I will never forget the autopiloted events that followed the latter, either. These things do stick with you. I am slowly coping and so is my father, but to this day I feel there now exists a void that can never be refilled again. They say that the grief doesn't go away, we just grow around our grief. It is a good way to put it into words.
Even so, I still occasionally cry, oft-times even in public, randomly remembering memories from the past involving my mother. There are a lot of different bittersweet emotions bundled up in those tears, but not shame. There's no shame in caring about our loved ones. Nothing to apologize for. Regardless of your age or gender or whatever.
Your previous video suddenly popped up in my recommendations today, even though a few months late. I haven't even seen this channel before... As if the algorithm knew way more than it should... I suppose watching your video and writing this comment was some kind of therapy to me as well. I had a lot to think and cry about. It is liberating in its own way.
All the best to you!
Was thinking of you today. Just wanted to say you are loved ❤️
One of my best friends had to make that same decision to stop treatment for her mum last August and it was the most gut wrenching thing I’ve ever seen anyone go through. Her grandma is also still alive and she had to break the news. She supported you with RUclips, now we can support you with her 🖤
Hugs from Brazil mate, u are a good lad and a nice son, you did your best and you have a beautiful life, we're here for you my man, do what u need to do to be happy, saúde meu irmão !
Jon, you are an inspiration. To go through what you have and still having such a positive vibe is incredible!! You see the good. You got to have 1 more Birthday celebration with your mom. It must have been so bittersweet knowing it was her last, but still being able to. And like you said you still have to take care of yourself with your weightloss journey which is also inspiring. Keep going, brother. We will all be here when you are ready, but keep in mind music is the best medicine. 🤘😝
So sorry my friend, sending prayers❤
Stay strong, brother. Sending you love.
I've thought about this situation, its very sad to hear it had to be this way, gotta keep going strong
Too sad to watch but here to support you.
A man talking on the internet on a video is too sad to watch? Lmfao previous generations watched their friends die in wars, people experienced the holocaust, 9/11 all kinds of shit. It's sad how soft the world has become. If you can't handle a guy talking on the internet then how the hell do you handle the real world? Genuine question.
@@666Lachrimae666 Oh boy what do we have here? A keyboard warrior in his purest form... Interesting specimen.
@@666Lachrimae666 It would be one thing if you were just a shitty teenager who hadn't finished growing up
But your account was made in 2011...bro, you're a grown-ass adult. You're STUCK like this. Forever.
Thanks for sharing, Jon. I hope it was cathartic for you.
hey fam we're here for you ❤
Jon I been watching you for two years and you've been nothing but honest and humble and I'm glad that we make you feel safe enough to open up to us and as you see we're here for you bro!✌😎✌❤🌎❤
Jon, so sorry to hear about your mom. I hope you can celebrate her life and appreciate the time you had with her.
I hope you're doing well - you are looking great!
Wow! What a moving stury. We all cried with you. I certainly did. I lost my parents many years ago. Thanks for sharing. I came to your channel to see if you were doing to do anything for Steve Harwell.
Just lost my dad because of cancer... Hugs from Russia for you, man...
Walk every step making them proud, brother ✊
So sorry for you brother. Hang in there 🙏
Hoping the best for you, your brother and your family Jon. Take all the time you need to heal much love and please take care
I know she's doing good when she raised such a loving and wise son ❤
Thanks for sharing this part of you with us Jon.
I still remember the last 5 to 10 seconds of my dream before my mom woke me up, bursting tears, telling me that my grandma passed away from a brain tumor that had her in bed for her last 6 months of her life. Was kind of a silly dream for me now tbh, i dropped architecture that same year, and i was in technical drawing class. My classmates were telling me there was some homeworks that i didn't have to do, but i wanted to do'em anyways. It's curious how recurrent that dream has been since then, like once or twice per month for the last 6 years.
Suffering compains us in this ludicrous path that is life, and the love persist with such burst that sometimes hurts like a shank.
And man, still feeling like a teen, trapped in the body of an adult. I don't think anyone gets rid of that EVER. We'll be in our 60s or 70s and still watching NeoRUclips or wathever, and raging for vidya shit.
My aunt died today too, stay strong bud, you got a big and kind heart
Stay strong Jon, we are here for you and forever will. ❤
I just came across your channel. I'm sorry for your losses. Family tree can be disturbing to look into, but also interesting, especially from the perspective of systemic constellations, which can explain a lot of "coincidences", dynamics, roles, illnesses etc. I respect your bravery about sharing your feelings, especially because you're a man, I think that's very important to share. Also you have a very beautiful tattoo.
I missed this, but I'm glad you're doing better since last upload. You seem to be more comfortable talking about this and knowing it's in your better interest to talk about it.
❤ stay strong brother
I hope you're doing alright buddy. This is something I've feared for a long time - I only have my mother and sister as over time my family grew apart and things happened. The thing I always tell myself when I think about it is we are their living legacy. We are what they wanted and we'll complete their goal in life. One step at a time bro.
It’s an agonising decision to begin end of life treatment. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through all of that. I hope you continue to find an outlet for you to express what you’re feeling. Best wishes.
We're here for you, all the love in the world
Very brave video to make. Wishing you the best.
Hey man, I also lost my mom to Endometrial cancer a few years back. It was a very difficult time, but hearing your story helped put things into perspective. I hope you are doing better and are able to find some peace. Take care.
We are here for you, hugs Jon❤️
Stay strong, Jon. We'll meet in the end, as Ozzy once said.
Take care of yourself.
I'm watching this video to the end and feel like I'm sitting with a good and wise friend of mine. Thank you for being my friend.
I understand how you feel my dude, truly. My mother passed 2 years ago, suddenly, from a heart attack; she was 54, I was 32. I wish I could say that it gets easier, and maybe it does, but 2 years later, I'm still a mess. You are correct though, talking about it certainly helps. If you haven't already, I would suggest seeing a counselor for assistance in dealing with grief. Maybe even join an online or in person support group. Every little bit of support helps.
A friend of mine, whose mother passed 2 years before mine, sent me this message and it really helped and helps me to deal with the trauma:
"I want you to know everything you are feeling right now is okay. It’s okay to not want to talk to people. It’s okay to be sad. It’s okay to be pissed off. It’s okay to not understand. It’s okay. You’re going to have to navigate through a LOT of feelings these next few weeks/months/etc. and whatever you are feeling is what you’re meant to be feeling in that moment."
I’m FINALLY seeking counseling after my mom passed away 17 years ago when I was 16. I’m so happy to be finally working through my problems.
Stay strong brother and keep grooving
It’s kinda strange how out losses match up. I’m 40. But my dad also died in young. It was 2005, he was 42. My mom is still alive, but my grandpa died in 2009 and it was sudden. My dad was suffering for years. He was diabetic. I’m telling you man, it does start to get better. But like you said, you never forget. You will get through this. Do what you need to feel better. :)
Be strong man! Wish you all the best!
Dude, stay strong man. We love you.
Wow you lost a lot of weight since your videos a few years ago!, my mom passed away in 2020 from an overdose, losing someone is sadly a part of growing up, my condolences. Love you dude.
hey, been here since I saw your post on 9gag way back 2018, here for you bud! love ya
I was recommended to look at some of your old videos and sadly came across this video.
Im sorry man
I left my nan at around 12.00pm and i came home about 3.30pm to find that she had passed away on the couch apparently 2.00pm according to the paramedics. Ive never seen a person deceased and it tore me apart as i tried CPR but it was too late. She was more than my Nan she was my best friend i know the pain. She died in july of 2021
Stay strong
Thanks for making this, Jon. You were already an engaging, talented and simply attractive dude. And as a fellow drummer, I was already biased in your favor. But it's real talk like this that makes you lovable as my human brother, because feel the same joy and pain that I do--that we all do. I know there are too many people out there that lack empathy and feel like they have nothing in common with the rest of us. And this is *exactly* the type of video that those people need to be watching, in order to cultivate that crucial empathy. We all must realize that you don't have to know someone personally to care about them, because their struggle is our struggle--THE struggle. Keep on keeping on, Jon Sudano...I love you.
We love You bro
Stay strong Jon ❤
Sorry for your loss I just lost my older brother yesterday...
I feel like I can relate to your story on a couple points. I lost my dad in late 2022, he was 63 and I was 34. Just like you also I typically feel like a big kid in an adult’s body. I never expected to be doing this at 34. A lot of that died that day though man. I lost a lot of that fun and silliness… it’s been over a year now and it does get better, I have had some pretty happy days here and there since then but I’m still not perfectly the way I was before.
I was born in June 1991 in South Jersey too :D (I know you said philly first) My stepmom passed in 2021 and my dad April this year but my mom is still there. Sorry for your loss. My dad also had heart problems when I was young we were lucky the medicine he started taking helped out.
Not that anything I say can make it any better but hang tight my dude. Work on yourself, make her even prouder than she already was. You have a lot of number 2 fans over here, no one can take the number 1 though. World is yours, much love ❤
This hasn't happened to me yet, but I'm old enough where I'm starting to think about it.
If it means anything Jon, I now have a better idea of what I'm going to do when the time comes. So, thank you for this.
Cancer lost my battle with my mom about 22 year's ago, I'm 29 and while my Mom took cancer down with her. I know I was young when my Mom battled with it and took it down with her. I wish you the best and I know I just really found your channel, but we're here for you, it's been a little wild thinking that while my Mom passed away when she was 32 and I'm slowly coming up on that age now, it's strange knowing that I'll somehow in a way out 'age' my mom but really, she's been with me through everything I've gone through, and while I'm not really the religious or super spiritual type, I still believe she's help me guide my life for the better and do what I really wanna do, I wish you the best of luck through everything and you've got this.
I'm so sorry about your mom man. Do what's best for you and see you when you get back to posting.
Keep on moving dude, we all are always here for you, we care about you, cheer up dude
I hope you're doing well bro. Losing your mother is the greatest pain in this world. God bless🙏🏻♥
Hey Jon, no advice helps so I’ll be brief.
Remember she loved you and will always want the best for you, she was the best mom.
Love you dude!
Your mom is in heaven with a lot of good people. She is in peace. We are here for you.
Thank you for sharing ❤
I'm so sorry 😢
Love you, brother.
Love you man.
Stay strong bro
God bless, wishing you the best.
RIP steven Harwell