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  • @candygram501
    @candygram501 6 лет назад +2056

    I lost an earring almost 30 years ago. I kept the single earring for those 30 years, just in case I found the other one.Finally I threw it out because it was so silly.Then, I found the missing earring in a box at my mother’s house. Life is weird.

    • @candygram501
      @candygram501 6 лет назад +109

      Also, I have to say it, this man looks like a cross between Steve Buscemi and David Bowie, with the body language of Fred Rogers, no?

    • @marcarrera4904
      @marcarrera4904 6 лет назад +8

      Oh no!!!

    • @Abeta.S.A
      @Abeta.S.A 6 лет назад +25

      Finally, it's just an earrings .

    • @drfix2020
      @drfix2020 6 лет назад +12

      Similar thing happened to me too!

    • @supercrazydesi
      @supercrazydesi 6 лет назад +37

      I get rid of things because I didn’t use it for a year or two and then I need it ...duh!!!

  • @Teresa-ig4op
    @Teresa-ig4op 8 лет назад +3032

    Love people,
    use things.
    The opposite never works.

    • @lunalevi7482
      @lunalevi7482 8 лет назад +18

      good quote

    • @MFJared
      @MFJared 8 лет назад +38

      Somebody has been paying attention to the podcast.

    • @Teresa-ig4op
      @Teresa-ig4op 8 лет назад +9

      Yes, of course. ;)

    • @Ermude10
      @Ermude10 8 лет назад +15

      I think this is the first time I've heard Ryan say it though. Usually, it's Joshua who ends the podcast.

    • @supercooled
      @supercooled 8 лет назад +4

      Tessa89 sorry to be thick but you mean don't use people a d love stuff?

  • @CrazyCollectorGirl
    @CrazyCollectorGirl 7 лет назад +408

    I'm just starting my minimalism journey. It's been especially hard for me because the only home I had ever known burned down when I was 15, and we didn't have house insurance. 4 days later, my parents split up, and in the middle of class my school counselor told me I was leaving my hometown for good. It's been over 10 years, and only just now did I donate the top I wore when I ran out of my burning house. Wish me luck on going through the bin of things that survived the fire. Wish me luck on finally moving forward from my depression, anxiety, and suicidal life. Wish me luck on an uncluttered, brighter future. I need it.

    • @cocolonger
      @cocolonger 6 лет назад +8

      Good Luck with all of that.

    • @donyeajennings1518
      @donyeajennings1518 6 лет назад +8

      I wish you luck girl and hope all is well

    • @supercrazydesi
      @supercrazydesi 6 лет назад +5

      Stay strong, keep calm and move on ...you will do great 👍🏻

    • @theculinaryschooldropout9040
      @theculinaryschooldropout9040 6 лет назад +4

      Logic Goddess praying all is well. Good luck on your journey.

    • @rajeshkr4150
      @rajeshkr4150 6 лет назад +6

      May be this reply is late, I wish you , your dream comes true, stay focus and strong

  • @mishkathlay
    @mishkathlay 5 лет назад +51

    taking photos of the sentimental "things" is a game-changer!!!!

  • @andrewavila7783
    @andrewavila7783 4 года назад +260

    One night I was by myself, extremely depressed, crying my eyes out, and having major alcoholism withdrawals. I had RUclips on this video came on. That's how i discovered minimalism. Its been a snowball effect ever since. I love what minimalism has done for me and i am forever grateful to joshua and ryan. This was a very powerful lesson.

    • @maidahw2848
      @maidahw2848 3 года назад +8

      I'm so proud of u!

    • @janiem6347
      @janiem6347 2 года назад +6

      That is so awesome!

    • @MindBodyFusionLLC
      @MindBodyFusionLLC 2 года назад +2

      Did it help you with releasing alcohol from your life?

  • @ChristalDawnn
    @ChristalDawnn 8 лет назад +845

    just started my minimalism journey 2 months ago ive gotten rid of so much so far and dont miss a thing and im so much happier

    • @GymClubHouse
      @GymClubHouse 8 лет назад +1

      good

    • @hollow_crown_
      @hollow_crown_ 8 лет назад +21

      I started my journey a few weeks ago. I wish you all the best :)

    • @anacruz-nm2km
      @anacruz-nm2km 7 лет назад

      we recently started our minimalism journey as well
      would love it if you dropped by our channel and checked it out!

    • @DontDooTooMuch
      @DontDooTooMuch 7 лет назад +1

      Christal Dawn what did you do with the stuff you got rid of? donate or sold?

    • @ChristalDawnn
      @ChristalDawnn 7 лет назад +2

      some of both depending on what it was, some i sold some i gave to friends and some i took to the op shop and sum of the junk just went into the bin

  • @NeThZOR
    @NeThZOR 8 лет назад +1694

    Da Vinci says it best: "Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication."

    • @lunalevi7482
      @lunalevi7482 8 лет назад +12

      yeah,i'm always right

    • @Izabell673
      @Izabell673 8 лет назад +3

      Haha xD

    • @coletivating
      @coletivating 8 лет назад +8

      +Cantwait4summer sophistication is oftenly labelled to someone or something with many features/accesories hence a typical phrase people in the 90's would talk about the latest gadget as 'sophisticated'. Simplicity is the basic form / ''stripped down" approach and so is sophisticated by it being the 'simplest' (less clutted )form of a thing.

    • @NeThZOR
      @NeThZOR 8 лет назад +2

      Well in modern times you can apply his quote to things like phones and people's schedules. Do you want your phone to do many things but in a very intricate and complex way or would you like it to do those many things in such a simple way that it feels intuitive?

    • @kassi4837
      @kassi4837 8 лет назад +1

      beautiful

  • @GamingandSocialfun
    @GamingandSocialfun 8 лет назад +658

    I will admit even as a poor person the minimalist life does help. I think it helped me by not caring so much about having more. To live within my means and to grow as a person. To a certain extent the poor are the original minamalist. However minimalism is not just having less its also a attitude. For me giving up the race for more and accepting less. Has helped my happiness and has increased my health. Since not focusing on getting more I focus on how to improve myself.

    • @Handgun777
      @Handgun777 5 лет назад +19

      ThoughtsandDreams I just had to write this comment down. I hope you don’t mind. I am in also on the journey of the decluttering my whole life. Thank you for sharing your story! Best regards.

    • @playnejayne5550
      @playnejayne5550 5 лет назад +22

      My minimalism came from being poor. Then I finished school and went without so-called necessities in order to double up on student loan payments. When buying a house and then a second house, I did the same to pay them off early. Now I am retired and able to live without working. Two paid off homes, one for a rental, and two paid off vehicles. The key is to be thankful for what you have and to never feel deprived.

    • @redcokamixed6716
      @redcokamixed6716 4 года назад +2

      ThoughtsandDreams I agree. But being minimalist and being poor is poor. Being a minimalist and being rich and having saving is hip 🤔

    • @lizamarie3472
      @lizamarie3472 4 года назад +13

      You health is your wealth. I wish more people realized working out, not eating junk, drinking more water, meditation, etc is ultimately free.

    • @user-ee5om8wy7u
      @user-ee5om8wy7u 3 года назад +7

      @@redcokamixed6716 living within or below your means makes you not poor. So even on low income, you're not necessarilu poor. While on high income, lots of people live above their means, which qualifies them as "poor"..

  • @khalidsafir
    @khalidsafir 8 лет назад +189

    "Love people, using things - because the opposite never works". That is so true and so important for our times. Thanks for that talk.

  • @ssedarius
    @ssedarius 4 года назад +60

    I love this whole concept: love people and use things. A few years ago, a friend of mine passed away and as I stood there in the remnants of his life watching his daughter overwhelmed with his clutter and battling her emotional ties to it, I made a decision to never put my children in that situation. Since then, I've learned to let go and I continue to do so. You are not your things. You can be so much more and people can see you more clearly when your things are not in the way.

    • @nikitha515
      @nikitha515 4 года назад +1

      🖤🖤

    • @katieleung87
      @katieleung87 4 года назад +6

      when my grandparents passed away, I realised they hardly had any clutter for us to deal with. that was when it hit me really hard - as you've said it well - you are not your things. thank you for reminding me of this again today.

    • @rachelknight6028
      @rachelknight6028 4 года назад +1

      What a wonderful analogy... I'm doing the same with my life for my kids one day...

    • @shaec3405
      @shaec3405 3 года назад +1

      My best friend just went thru this...

  • @drfix2020
    @drfix2020 6 лет назад +33

    I'm working on my path to becoming a minimalist!......Truth is,
    The more things you have, The more things you WORRY about!

  • @caronward4042
    @caronward4042 7 лет назад +60

    Josh used to come into the coffee shop where I worked in Lebanon, OH. I used to tease him about being related to Christopher Walken. Ryan was my daughter's brother-in-law. If I had been able to talk to Josh very long, he would have known I was also a minimalist. I inherited a LOT of things from my parents. But I found that you either own your stuff or your stuff OWNS YOU. I hardly ever miss anything I've let go of--- and in the end, we really have to let go of it all.
    Love. People. Love is the only eternal thing.

  • @EnEvighet7
    @EnEvighet7 8 лет назад +627

    "The greatest wealth is to live content with little"
    - Plato
    "He is rich who is content with the least, for contentment is the wealth of nature"
    - Socrates
    "The greatest wealth is poverty of desires"
    - Seneca
    "Wealth consists not in having great possessions but in having few wants"
    - Epictetus
    Remember our virtue of Sophrosyne.

    • @stephenfiore9960
      @stephenfiore9960 7 лет назад +16

      ................ Paul of Bible fame says in the Book of Timothy 6:6 "But godliness with contentment is great gain." And in the Book of Phillipians chapter 4 vs 11& 12 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.

    • @panash6
      @panash6 7 лет назад +2

      EnEvighet7 very well said.

    • @automationsolution
      @automationsolution 7 лет назад +1

      Greek magnificence! Noted them. Well done my friend. Love for the west from the east.

    • @bonganijwara441
      @bonganijwara441 7 лет назад

      EnEvighet7 jjhhgggggg

    • @goodearth5584
      @goodearth5584 6 лет назад +2

      by leading a simple life, with care & consideration for others, life becomes fulfilling & meaningful & for such a person life is a beautiful & happy journey

  • @Bethelightjourney
    @Bethelightjourney 8 лет назад +806

    I love the minimalist lifestyle and what it stands for, but I find it hard for others around me to understand it. I have a lot of people in my life who want gifts, they love commercial products & packaging. I've tried to convince them for years to try to reduce the gifts they buy me for birthdays and holidays, but it never seems to stick. I'd rather just spend time with them, and cook a meal together. Was wondering if anyone else had any challenges like this, and how have you dealt with them?

    • @emanalmutawa8564
      @emanalmutawa8564 8 лет назад +119

      I know it might be tough, but you really don't have to convince anyone! its your choice! and the gifts that you receive are a sign of love and appreciation, thank the ones that gave them to you and you can pass them to someone else to use them!

    • @antine2598
      @antine2598 8 лет назад +187

      Lauren Nihill I usually ask for 'experiences'. Plane tickets, museum tickets, theatre tickets, a day to the beach, a cooking workshop, etc. That way relatives can still give you something, but it won't clutter your entire house.

    • @Bethelightjourney
      @Bethelightjourney 7 лет назад +10

      Antine Reddingius I love these ideas!

    • @anacruz-nm2km
      @anacruz-nm2km 7 лет назад +6

      we recently started our minimalism journey as well
      would love it if you dropped by our channel and checked it out!

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 7 лет назад +11

      Otie, most of us have friends and family who don't know each other. Do your in-laws from your wife's side hang out with your side of the family? But you have to keep track of who gave the gift, or it could get awkward. I've heard of people who regifted the item to the same person who gave it in the first place.

  • @emmilittlemuffin
    @emmilittlemuffin 7 лет назад +47

    I've been minimalistic/zero waste since I moved out, not that my parents were hoarders but working 2 full time jobs at 17 to afford rent without a roommate means you just don't have time to buy stuff. Husband adopted my mentality of experiences vs things and now we have a baby and an adoption almost ready to go through and our two kids will hopefully see our example and grow up happy.

  • @shadmansudipto7287
    @shadmansudipto7287 8 лет назад +315

    When u wanna buy something, ask yourself 3 questions. 1.Do i want it? 2.Do i really need it? 3.if i get it, will it give me peace of mind?

    • @CtStr
      @CtStr 6 лет назад +25

      Shadman Sudipto I use the, “Cost to use ratio.” If you buy a $2000 bike and use it once, you bought a $2000 bike. If you use it 2000 times, you bought a $1 bike.

    • @francophysique5192
      @francophysique5192 6 лет назад +3

      CtStr how would you apply this to a car purchase?

    • @JohnSmith-dn4ry
      @JohnSmith-dn4ry 5 лет назад +3

      also ask yourself "do i feel like taking care of this ?"

    • @alexp4785
      @alexp4785 5 лет назад +1

      I always ask myself the question "If I moved now would I be happy to pack this up". I'm *VERY* fresh on my minimalism journey but I'm trying to get out of the situation I'm in and I've put that limit on myself. My end goal is to be able to move in just a suit case that I can fit on a plane.

    • @RalphJBater
      @RalphJBater 5 лет назад +4

      Another key question to ask before you buy anything, is "Where is this going to go?"... you need to plan a place where things will go before you bring them into your life so they do not become more clutter..

  • @JohnAudioTech
    @JohnAudioTech 8 лет назад +606

    I began my minimalism journey earlier this year. 5 carloads of items to Goodwill, sold things on Craigslist and eBay (sold $170 in things just this week). Even hauled a pickup truck load of stuff to the dump. It has been refreshing but still I have a long way to go. I was never a hoarder but is amazing of how much crap I have acquired over the years.

    • @brandyvasco1066
      @brandyvasco1066 7 лет назад +1

      JohnAudioTech

    • @sugarsweet8598
      @sugarsweet8598 6 лет назад +5

      So how's it going?

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 6 лет назад +4

      yeah bud..my war has just begun....

    • @supercrazydesi
      @supercrazydesi 6 лет назад +2

      We buy what we need, very less wants and declutter twice a year. We are amazed every time on how much we have to get rid of.

    • @mobubabe
      @mobubabe 5 лет назад +2

      @@deaddropsd1972 Why does it need to ba 'a war'?
      If that's something you enjoy it should be easy.

  • @Bigboss-xe6lm
    @Bigboss-xe6lm 4 года назад +28

    Been selling most of my unused stuff for the last few years. It took me almost 2 years and i sold for round 20k total. It feels goddamn awesome! Plan on scaling down. Smaller house, smaller debt, smaller cravings, smaller space to "put stuff into" and have an easier life all together. Its the frugal and wealth building steps to take to live a more free life. Now and forever.

  • @rachelknight6028
    @rachelknight6028 4 года назад +11

    Watching this brought me to tears...
    I finally found the correct video for my life. This show showed me how I can "let go" of the emotional attachment. Trying to start is a mind-block nightmare but this guy showed me... It's easy, open the wardrobes and cupboards and get rid of it! The memories are in your head.. in your heart. My Late Mother isn't in her dinner sets and old clothes... my mother in law isn't in her old handbags and jewelry... I'm not a huge consumer... I'm a tightwad.
    Im an emotional hoarder.
    Thank you guys for helping me find the first step to setting myself free and making my daily life lighter and easier to manage. ❤️

  • @30dayu69
    @30dayu69 6 лет назад +3

    Imagine changing the world for good in all we do in life by living the simplest life possible.
    A minimalistic way to be, live, learn, and grow while living in complete balance and flow is much much easier than would ever imagine!
    I would love to share with anyone wanting to be completely free in all you do in life.
    Keep it simple!
    Vitorio

  • @BlueYanYan
    @BlueYanYan 8 лет назад +184

    From the wise words of Mahatma Gandhi:
    "Live simply, so that others may simply live."

  • @showmercytoothers4059
    @showmercytoothers4059 6 лет назад +87

    I JUST DUMPED 85% OF MY HOUSEHOLD JUNK, in a week.! YAY ME

    • @utub1473
      @utub1473 3 года назад +1

      @JamesO19991 Wow...

  • @arielbickel7627
    @arielbickel7627 4 года назад +14

    I appreciate that you both make it clear that what we part with is a choice - it's neither mandatory, nor a judgement on ourselves. For me, this quote by William Morris consistently keeps me focused on my truest intention: "Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” Thanks to you too, as well, for bringing this concept into the light of day once more. Lovely to see others living their lives as their mission.

  • @dollreemappmmk14
    @dollreemappmmk14 5 лет назад +11

    When he said in actuality he was "a well organized hoarder". It all looked good. EXACTLY!!!! Less stuff equals less stress. MUCH less stress. ✌️❤️😊

  • @beverlybelury4789
    @beverlybelury4789 6 лет назад +52

    I can remember getting stuck when it came to a few things that were precious, meaningful and/or were part of my family history. Not a lot of things. Maybe a box full. Such as a scrimshaw whales tooth from many generations back. Here's what I did, it may help those who also may want to reduce their "tough to get rid of" stuff. I thought...if I were dead who would I want to have it? Who would find joy in having it? I have a family member who is deeply connected with the ocean, who sails and lives by the water. I gave it to that person who loves it. Mounted it and placed it on a shelf. Talks about the history of whaling and refers to the tooth. Isn't that more fulfilling than being hidden in the bottom of a dark box?

  • @atemhauch
    @atemhauch 8 лет назад +51

    "the more action you take, the more you want to take action" great quote

  • @ericddenison4016
    @ericddenison4016 7 лет назад +55

    Minimalism is: having enough (not too little - poverty - and not too much - self-indulgence, but simply enough and grateful; content).

  • @Future_Pheonix
    @Future_Pheonix 8 лет назад +67

    Great lecture. I tend to think about this a lot. It seems to me that people tend to use objects as some sort of emotional proxy or just something to project and deflect their feelings into in some form of escape instead of living through their emotions and openly expressing them and dealing with them, which only leads to more misery. (sorry, it's kinda hard to explain what I mean, but I hope it's somewhat comprehensible. saying that different emotions and feelings are being channeled through objects is another way of putting it). It takes a lot of bravery to change that sort of thing.

  • @katelynneriehl4386
    @katelynneriehl4386 5 лет назад +6

    I started my minimalism journey 2 years ago. It’s now a habit. You get used to finding multiple uses for one object rather than purchase a new item for every single use.

  • @chelseamortensen6541
    @chelseamortensen6541 8 лет назад +68

    Reminds me a lot of the book: "The Life- Changing Magic of Tidying Up". Total game changer!

  • @maddalena2529
    @maddalena2529 6 лет назад +5

    Hi guys, thank you very much for your words and your work, what you do is amazing. Two years ago I was in the same situation : good job, money, husband, big apartment and lots of stuff and i realize that i didn't ask for it, it wasn't my choice. So i ask myself what i really want to be happy. I started with selling and giving stuff, I stopped shopping and buying and i changed my job. I was a psychologist and i became a pastry chef and now I'm so freaking happy !!! I watched your documentary 2 times because i love it and it makes me fell so good. So thank you ! I send you lots of love from Paris and maybe one day I will also have a hug from you ! 😊

  • @bohobutterflies3074
    @bohobutterflies3074 6 лет назад +9

    I love the idea with minimalism, I just cant get over the memories of old journals and things because I believe they hold a que that signal memories we would typically forget about . With my own experience I relive memories I forget about until I read old journals and it brings me a certain flood of life. I could never get rid of my old journals.

    • @elizabethcarden393
      @elizabethcarden393 5 лет назад +4

      Keep things you love like that. Get rid of other things. Keeping well loved journals doesn't mean you have to keep dishes you don't use or clothes you don't wear.

  • @Hairitage2023
    @Hairitage2023 5 лет назад +19

    This video is one of the most poignant and deeply moving videos I think I’ve ever watched thus far. It totally resonates with me and answers some of the questions I’ve been wrestling with for a long time. Thanks so much...

  • @Sherrilynn27
    @Sherrilynn27 6 лет назад +12

    Wonderful!
    Losing my father, a number of years ago, helped me realize that my memories are not in 'the stuff'.
    Raised three girls who are grown now and the youngest is ready to move out. I'm still working on a 'final' purge.
    Thanks and happy minimizing to everyone.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 8 лет назад +5

    I never saw a Ted talk with the silent action to go along with the talk. Really appreciated it and the humor. Very inspiring and creative. I'm going to definitely incorporate this thinking into the new year.

  • @madilopez7492
    @madilopez7492 Год назад +1

    This is it, for me this is my beginning into minimalism! I am coming back in a year to review my post and prove to myself how happier I've become, how meaningful my life has become following this valuable mindset and philosophy. I wish everyone would give in into this idea of "less stuff - Less waste" For our future but also for our beautiful planet.

  • @Johnmsweeney5
    @Johnmsweeney5 8 лет назад +252

    These guys ooze coolness. And are probably the most genuine and humble people you could meet. Cut the bullshit berating their talk. It has value and authenticity, what more can you ask for? :)

    • @kafizola5695
      @kafizola5695 8 лет назад +1

      John M Sweeney Some people are more visual.

    • @ellenc.1093
      @ellenc.1093 7 лет назад +24

      But doesn't the fact that they "had it all" at one point make their message even clearer? Sometimes it takes achieving materialistic success to realize that it does not bring happiness.

  • @kesiadlf1941
    @kesiadlf1941 8 лет назад +8

    Thank you guys! After watching your documentary we revamped our journey to minimalism. We had accumulated a 4 bedroom house full of stuff and felt so trapped by it, and there are only 3 of us! We are now letting go and giving away boxes full and selling the rest. Still have a lot to go but I feel better every day.

  • @Modeltraveling
    @Modeltraveling 6 лет назад +6

    Listening this as Im clearing my home to encourage me to continue going. Goal is to eliminate 15% of my stuff and make sure everthing I own "has a home" in my space, if it doesnt and there is no room for it, then time to let go. Best of luck to all the rest of you! And I also love that minimalism--consuming less--assists the planet!

  • @minimalisticjoy628
    @minimalisticjoy628 4 года назад +1

    This is the Ted Talk that started it all for me. This speech not only speak to my heart, it spoke to my hard to crack brain. And I have nvr been happier.

  • @lornaparong9
    @lornaparong9 6 лет назад +8

    Thank you so much. My mom just recently passed away. I was saving a lot of her stuff in my already cluttered house. I'm going to donate her stuff and just keep a few things. I'm also going to get rid of a lot of stuff that I don't need.

  • @indigometanoist6475
    @indigometanoist6475 6 лет назад +5

    My great grandma recently passed from lung cancer. I had this same realization about her things before & after she passed.

  • @Amandahugginkizz
    @Amandahugginkizz 5 лет назад +4

    When I'm going through stuff now the thing that's helped me the most is repeating "make a decision and make it now" because really that's all I'm doing is delaying making a decision.

  • @christineaguilera4511
    @christineaguilera4511 7 лет назад +2

    I never realized I was ona minimalism journey. It all started in 2012 when I passed by the library and rummaging through the aisles found a book by Marie kondo on the art of tidying up, which helped me start my minimalist journey. I didn't think it would become so popular. After reading the minimalists blog 6 mo this ago, I finally have the courage and understanding to treat my minimalism practice the right way. Not just getting rid of it to get rid of it, but to let go WITH purpose and appreciate what I have been left with. Thank you Marie kondo for opening my eyes and inspiring me to start this journey and to the minimalists for igniting a new purpose for my minimalism journey.

  • @rosiecruz5926
    @rosiecruz5926 6 лет назад +7

    Loved loved this presentation!!! This society forces you to value the material things in life. Holidays have turned into a shopping spreed. You can hardly enjoy a holiday with all these sales taking over your life.
    I was a shopaholic for many years, but not I'm transitioning into a minimalist, which is not easy! BUT I like it!

  • @joshoarita
    @joshoarita 4 года назад +1

    My minimalism journey started in January, satisfying journey of declutering my space and mind

  • @blendandsnap1367
    @blendandsnap1367 8 лет назад +20

    Watched your documentary. Then this. Mind blown. I love this. I've started my journey after visiting your website.

  • @LivingFree207
    @LivingFree207 8 лет назад +52

    We did the same with taking pictures of things we got rid of when we downsized and moved from Ohio to Florida. Honestly, I don't even remember what I took picture of or where I have them stored. It goes to show you how we THINK things are so important until they are gone....they are not important. I love this video. I think exactly the same. We are downsizing again and plan on living out of a suitecase and traveling the world. Yes, we will have a tiny pod with some things stored that I'd like to keep like my violin and family pictures and old letters from my dad during WW 2. But stuff in general and clothe....I don't need much :)

    • @CocoOPNY
      @CocoOPNY 8 лет назад +6

      Living Free Forever awesome! I hope it goes well for you!

    • @LivingFree207
      @LivingFree207 8 лет назад +4

      Coco S Thank you!

  • @christyplumlee570
    @christyplumlee570 3 года назад +3

    I am literally cleaning my closet as I listened to you. Thank you for the inspiration.

  • @richardbambenek2601
    @richardbambenek2601 6 лет назад +1

    I heard that last message on the radio many years ago said by a pastor. He said. "In years past we used to love people and use things but now we love things and use people" That is so true of our consumer driven world and it does so much to give our lives false meaning and differentiate us from one another. We have let things define us. It's no longer who we are as a people but what we own that gives us value to others. But look at how people and businesses survive, they need to sell things and people need to buy them. To become minimalists means there needs to be a change to how we exist on this planet.

  • @mom2peaches
    @mom2peaches 8 лет назад +217

    These guys have brought simplicity into my life...let go of stuff that has no value.

  • @BRuthable
    @BRuthable 3 месяца назад

    After listening to Josh and Ryan a few times I am learning so much. I always wanted less, felt free with less, but didn't really know what it was all about. These talks have inspired me. So many photos saved over 55 years are going to be scanned. However, getting married 55 years ago and losing my husband almost 8 years ago has left me with more than I need or what adds value to my life. I have donated quite a bit, but at the same time I have bought so much that I now feel was "comfort" items dealing with the loss of my husband. I can now go ahead and let go of so much more that I haven't be able to. Thankful for this information.

  • @chrisl418
    @chrisl418 2 года назад +6

    I taught my kids by saying over and over and over..."People first, not things. Love people, not things." I wanted to instill goodness in them. I wanted them to act with kindness towards people and to put their effort into thinking of others not in gaining things.
    Thank you guys for reminding me that it is not my stuff that holds memories of my loved ones. I hold them in my mind.

  • @annieragin1680
    @annieragin1680 6 лет назад

    Viewing this Minimalism youtube is righ on time. I had was in a car accident unable to manuver around all this stuff that I have thought was so needed until my life was interrupted. Near death experiences put a whole new spin on life. I am the "just in case" "You never know" and "someday" person." No more!

  • @lilyau83
    @lilyau83 6 лет назад +4

    I've recently have been into minimalism as well as the vast amount of debt that we as a society have. I am glad that other people feel the same way! It honestly makes you feel so much happier to let go.

  • @arissarawuttiket6379
    @arissarawuttiket6379 6 лет назад +2

    It's so powerful. Than you. Fire me up every time I tired of cluttering my house. I found more way to persuade my family to be more minimal.

  • @anacecilia8391
    @anacecilia8391 8 лет назад +4

    Love these guys. I watched their docu on netflix and I'm feeling inspired to surround myself with things that bring value and meaning to my life rather than mindlessly owning something.

  • @busybeenature9092
    @busybeenature9092 6 лет назад +2

    I am tidy, I am organised, I have always been under this impression. I am not a hoarder. I am not a discontent person. But suddenly I have become so much concerned about the stuff that are lying one on another in my entire house, which is quite big, as big as four houses, full of clutter. I have come to know the value of having less and be happy doing something beautiful in life. So I have started getting rid of unnecessary things, which I thought are keeping the memories alive. What will happen when there will be no power left, physical and mental both? Thank God to give me light before that.
    Well what you have said is so true and you are so young to realise all this. God bless you.

  • @aimankhan6289
    @aimankhan6289 8 лет назад +39

    This is amazing! I'd be looking forward to get rid of all the "just in case" stuff from my closet.

  • @SEANMCAD
    @SEANMCAD 3 года назад +1

    Part of Minimalism is also finding its not needed to expended a great deal of effort and energy to find yourself on a stage telling people what they (deep down inside) likely already know. one might call it superfluous inspiration

  • @MariasJournal__
    @MariasJournal__ 8 лет назад +17

    I absolutely love these guys!!! They are such an inspiration, love their podcasts and would love to meet them in person one day. Thank you for putting things in the right perspective! 🙏

  • @zenmusic3429
    @zenmusic3429 3 года назад +1

    Nothing can grow that's constantly moving. It's only when one stands still in solitude can one figure out what is really important in one's life. Experience with reflection equals wisdom.

  • @anga.6891
    @anga.6891 8 лет назад +102

    this really opened up my eyes.

  • @Jack_rabbits_sage_brush
    @Jack_rabbits_sage_brush 6 лет назад +1

    I started a weekend ago. I pulled out a whole truck load of stuff and took it to the dump. What a great feeling that was to get rid of it. I am now looking at downsizing my whole house. I really love this. It does feel good. Less stuff, less waste! is a great point!!!!!!

  • @ReflectingShadow
    @ReflectingShadow 8 лет назад +485

    if you love something, let it go
    if you hate something, let it go
    basically let everything go who cares anyway

    • @soonersciencenerd383
      @soonersciencenerd383 8 лет назад +38

      RS just don't buy stuff. recycle, remake, repurpose.

    • @soonersciencenerd383
      @soonersciencenerd383 7 лет назад +6

      i always think about buying anything. will i use it a lot, do i need it, and if so, i will research it on the internet and youtube, and see if it is worth buying.
      otherwise, i''ll wait on it, and then, decide again.

    • @deancassady7373
      @deancassady7373 7 лет назад +10

      Stupidest thing I've ever heard.

    • @pierreroche8337
      @pierreroche8337 7 лет назад +6

      Yes The Minimalists are quite right! What they is wise... Stuff is the enemy of an healthy life! We must be courageous enough to mov on and stuck by stuff!

    • @gogoclovertigo1
      @gogoclovertigo1 6 лет назад +1

      RS I love this!

  • @prosperopedia
    @prosperopedia 6 лет назад +2

    I feel that the true art of letting go is being honest with yourself in asking if that thing is necessary in your daily activities-if it's productive to your self development and if it makes you a better person. The answer to the majority would be "no".

  • @suescimeca4388
    @suescimeca4388 8 лет назад +3

    Loved watching this. There are times when I want to put everything in my house on the front lawn with a sign.. "Free". Of course, that's a little extreme and I wouldn't do that. But every so often I go on a sweep through my home and clean things out that I really don't need. But I need to do more and dig deeper. This video just makes you think harder about what you have and why you have it. When you go to Goodwill and see brand new things offered for pennies on the dollar, or your neighbors three car garage is so full he has to keep those two brand new cars outside in the weather, you know something is wrong with our society. George Carlin said it all "Our houses are just stuff boxes for our stuff."

  • @Literarycat8
    @Literarycat8 3 года назад +1

    Minimalism also applies to people. Cut-off people who weigh us down, who doesn't contribute to our growth, who negatively impacts our well-being. I've started cutting down my so-called 'friends' on Facebook. What a difference it made.
    But these guys' stories inspired me. I'ma get rid of junk in my life, so I can start travelling again.

  • @AnotherBeerMovie
    @AnotherBeerMovie 7 лет назад +16

    Possession leads to Attachment,
    Attachment leads to fear of loss - And then your possessions start to own you.
    Remember, the King is always alone, he may be powerful but he fears to lose that wealth and power, then he starts to doubt whether there is a plot to overthrow him amidst his court that tells him what he wants to hear. Then he seats at his table for a feast and wonders whether his food or drink has been poisoned or not.
    Doubt leads to Uncertainty and Uncertainty can lead to Madness.

  • @congat5270
    @congat5270 3 года назад

    I'm finding how to live like a minimalist. And I realized, if you going to be a minimalist, just started with your blanket when you woke up.
    what a meaningful video

  • @SociedadePsicotica
    @SociedadePsicotica 7 лет назад +12

    I am so happy to see that almost a million people have already watched this... Thanks TEDx. Keep'em coming!

  • @sunhengtain
    @sunhengtain 6 лет назад +1

    Ever since I became a minimalist, my life is improve a lot, positively. I am less stressed due to not having to worry about what I need to consume next in order to make me feel like I am doing something right or achieving certain things. My goals and plans are clearer to accomplish and work on. Basically there is so many benefits so being a minimalist. It also saves you A LOT of money especially living in the U.S as a low income citizen. What the guy in the video says is true. Things are meant to be used, and people are meant to be loved but in modern society, it sadly is the opposite. We need to change this perspective of giving more values to things than people. We can also start with ourselves.

  • @tiffanynelson9537
    @tiffanynelson9537 8 лет назад +5

    Excellent message, Joshua and Ryan! I saw you guys in person at the Chicago doc. screening. Thanks for sharing your message; it guides my life daily! I am a more intentional person now. (P.S. to everyone: it isn't just about stuff, reducing your stuff and focusing on the most important is the first step to minimalism, but it doesn't end there. You start re-thinking relationships, your musts, your tasks and habits, and revealing what is essential and your desired goal in life).

  • @silviafitti
    @silviafitti 5 лет назад +2

    Taking pictures of old stuff as memory´s trigger is a great idea! It really works to decluttering.

    • @MissPickles1980
      @MissPickles1980 3 года назад

      A photo doesn't capture smell though. I am keeping the teddy bear my nan knitted me until the scent of her soap fades completely. I'm not ready to swap a less intense memory from a photo for the one I currently get from a smell. I tried it with something else connected to my wedding day and ended up ditching the photo as well; it just didn't work for me - I guess I wasn't as attached to the memory as I thought.

  • @nuttypRofesa
    @nuttypRofesa 8 лет назад +3

    wow thank you that was amazing. Your message has excited me. I've been trying to declutter my home but didn't have a focus point, which led to being unmotivated. The key messages are simple but powerful. I now look forward to starting this journey.

  • @andrewgodly5739
    @andrewgodly5739 8 лет назад +133

    It's funny, I just saw an advertisement, before this video, trying to convince me to buy something I don't need and which wouldn't bring much longterm joy to my life

    • @theyayo
      @theyayo 7 лет назад +4

      use an adblocker bro

    • @YouveBeenRead
      @YouveBeenRead 6 лет назад +1

      And they get $$$ for that and their books and whatever else they are selling. They have money to make a documentary traveling to cities to promote what they are selling.

  • @budhee
    @budhee 6 лет назад +1

    Hamlet's last words ... 'The rest is silence .. ' these guys are Stage 1; respect ..

  • @rabinlenscom
    @rabinlenscom 6 лет назад +4

    As I broke person, I am happy and looking for stuffs I don’t need in my parents house, where I live. I am trying to convince my dad that we don’t need that old TV and old sofa, oh old furnitures in basement that we never use. I am still digging the stuffs that I can discard.

  • @knywtn
    @knywtn 8 лет назад +1

    I was feeling this way for the past year now. I didn't know minimalism was the term. I want to experience more. Meet more people. Go more places. Create memories with the people I care about. This video is very inspiring. Hopefully my channel will reflect this philosophy more and more!

  • @epicwriter96
    @epicwriter96 7 лет назад +6

    I'm working on decluttering. It's amazing.

  • @goldsilverandiamonds
    @goldsilverandiamonds 6 лет назад +1

    I'm just starting my Maximalism journey. Just bought a bunch of cool stuff I'm going to use and enjoy while helping the economy and help employ others so they can feed their families and live well.

  • @mobubabe
    @mobubabe 5 лет назад +5

    "Don't know what else to throw out of the house to make it clean to the max?
    Throw yourself out!
    People are also an eyesore for the house!
    Aaah, that's perfect!

  • @panash6
    @panash6 7 лет назад

    i like both these guys messages n speech. One of the bestest talks on TEDx Talks....these two men impressed me a lot with their simplicity. Now, what I learned is that, "I will let go thingsin past that m carrying all along as a big burden ", those things are not letting me move on. so I have to let them go. Thanks Josh

  • @seanmarie4653
    @seanmarie4653 7 лет назад +173

    we are moving out of our large 3 bedroom to a double wide mobile home that we payed cash for# we will save 1100 a month and I think it's the craziest coolest thing we've ever done! :-)

    • @susanlansdell863
      @susanlansdell863 7 лет назад +3

      sean marie good luck with your move.x

    • @chrisrandall5235
      @chrisrandall5235 6 лет назад +6

      How's the new crib?

    • @lamoabird
      @lamoabird 6 лет назад +7

      We kind of did that... It wasn’t easy, expectations of friends and society... Letting go of the stereotypes of stuff, a fancy house and cars = successful... I found it to be a tough journey... nonetheless, very liberating...

    • @lamoabird
      @lamoabird 6 лет назад +4

      sean marie I think that a lot of people who have huge mortgages on their huge houses have no idea how liberating it is not to have one... we paid ours of with a lot of hard work and penny pinching, and it feels amazing!!! I would live pretty much anywhere not to have one!

    • @HPCAT88
      @HPCAT88 6 лет назад

      Godspeed

  • @dlongoria7133
    @dlongoria7133 4 года назад +1

    Mothers hold on to stuff their kids make or did in school. After awhile you do get rid of some stuff but it fun sometimes to look at.

  • @motopolak
    @motopolak 8 лет назад +6

    I have been transforming my mindset into a minimalistic one for the past several months now and it has contributed a lot of positivity and learning for me. I keep thinking of a quote by Dave Ramsey (yes, THAT Dave Ramsey!) which I think perfectly sums up our American consumerism today: "Too many of us buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like."
    Helping people and building relationships are things that matter! All the "stuff" we have won't do anything for us when we are gone, but the people we loved and spent time with and had fun with will always remember us.

    • @Lassevj
      @Lassevj 6 лет назад +1

      Aleks Ulmer its a quote from 1928 by Robert Quillen.

  • @razzmatazz1974
    @razzmatazz1974 7 лет назад +2

    Interesting that i came across this. Although i am not a huge consumer, actually i almost never use my credit cards, own no car and use public transport. i have always had trouble getting rid of things like books i wont re read, highschool notebooks, etc. Since i turned 40 i started to think that i could actually let go of those things and that the time was now. I got rid of several bags of clothing, papers and this week i put many of my books for sale/trade. I will check your website to keep me motivated, the new year is a great time to start anew and stick to this purpose.

  • @Alexis-lp1vd
    @Alexis-lp1vd 6 лет назад +17

    I’ve been trying to be a minimalist for an year now. And threw away so much stuff. I over 7 bags in I only have a room. Not a whole apartment smh. But I’m going to try the 30 day challenge.

  • @kathleenmatrale
    @kathleenmatrale 6 лет назад +1

    amazing!...less is best!..thank you both! hope more people are able to take the time to listen...

  • @madlibbz1
    @madlibbz1 7 лет назад +7

    living a meaningful life with less is key!

  • @Ampsinthejump
    @Ampsinthejump 3 года назад +2

    Everything I own fits into one travel bag, and life is great.

  • @vignesh0208
    @vignesh0208 4 года назад +17

    You don't need a 1000 friends on Facebook; you need a few good friends that bring value to your life.
    You don't want a million Likes and followers on Instagram; you want to do work which can change the lives of people irreversibly for the better.
    Lose Social Media. Go Minimalist

  • @LuckyGuu
    @LuckyGuu 4 года назад +1

    Using the word co- mingle proves that he's somebody that we should listen to

  • @dotBdot
    @dotBdot 8 лет назад +18

    thank you so much for the inspirational speach ☺ I feel like am drowning in my room I keep buying stuff I think I need but I never use them only once or twice 😤 ... I will start with your advice of letting go of 1 item at a time day by day 😶 and I will see how it turns out

    • @CocoOPNY
      @CocoOPNY 8 лет назад +1

      dotBdot I highly recommend the Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, it's a bit silly at times but the principles are excellent

    • @MichiruEll
      @MichiruEll 8 лет назад +5

      If you're interested, these guys have a podcast (you can find it on youtube). They also have a thing called the 30-day minimalism game. Where you let go of 1 thing on day 1, 2 things on day 2, and so on. More challenging, but quicker if you really have a LOT accumulated.

  • @candiceburgess557
    @candiceburgess557 2 года назад

    love listening to them. they so right life is more than the materiel possessions

  • @esmeraldamunoz8803
    @esmeraldamunoz8803 8 лет назад +3

    Thank you, very beautiful and thoughtful talk.

  • @rohitrajmishra2696
    @rohitrajmishra2696 8 лет назад +1

    love and value people.. the greatest happiness lies in to love and being loved... live life to its fullest

  • @SpookyStorkRunningWild
    @SpookyStorkRunningWild 6 лет назад +5

    This has changed my life.

  • @donellagallo7079
    @donellagallo7079 7 лет назад +2

    so good and so true! I love your message and it helped me to eliminate 30 years of a houseful of stuff.....liberating is the best word to describe how it feels....keep up the good work!

  • @hardikjain7063
    @hardikjain7063 8 лет назад +766

    I deleted all my 5000 pictures on my iPhone which I never even checked. My phone feels a little better now.

    •  8 лет назад +23

      Is your phone very happy?

    • @luxxart
      @luxxart 8 лет назад +35

      Well, at the same time you deleted memories. You'll forget those situations sooner or later. Your memories are part of your identity. "All those moments will be lost in time like tears in rain..."

    • @skellymom
      @skellymom 8 лет назад +45

      How do you know what type of photos he deleted? Could have been photos of his meal, out of focus pics and inconsequential things. I have thrown out huge amounts of family photographs when printing on paper was a thing (before digital). Many of the photos were duplicate reprints, blurry, head cut off, pics of fingers or feet. Don't miss them one bit and saved room for the few photos that count.

    • @hardikjain7063
      @hardikjain7063 8 лет назад +31

      luxxart Notice that I mentioned, "Which I never ever checked."

    • @CocoOPNY
      @CocoOPNY 8 лет назад

      Hardik Jain 😂