Pick up Put down Sleep Training method WORKS!!! 14 month old baby!
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- Pick up put down method works for my 14 month old Babygirl! Less than a week and she learned to put herself to sleep through the night without me nursing her!
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Thank you very much. Gave my strength to continue as you are a REAL mom, not another stupid video with "sleep consultants" trying to sell you something! hehe xx
literally!!
Wow. This honestly almost brought me to tears. I have a 13 month old that I nurse to sleep. Last night was sooo hard. He woke up 10x. You have encouraged me to try this… I’ll be trying this in a couple days.
Did this work for you?
@@lauraclarke2901 no.. it didn’t. My son got sick a couple times and I wanted to comfort him at night. I’ll try again when he’s better. When he’s sick, I wanna hydrate him. 🥹
@@rosekannada1067 awww when they are sick, give them all the cuddles they want. And then just try sleep training again. Hope your baby is now okay
Hope your boy is better now! Did you try this? I am attempting this at 12mths once he starts drinking full fat milk just to ensure he is getting enough to eat.
Do you think it’s too soon to try this at 3months ? Normally I wouldn’t dare. She is my third. I nurse my first two babies to sleep all the way through. And I couldn’t successfully sleep train. But my circumstances really changed now and I also have very sore back and chest this 3rd time. I want to try this already.
This video was beautiful and I'm feeling so much better to try this method. I like that you're by their side, I feel like it builds their trust better. Thankyou for sharing your experience!
I've been doing this with my almost 5 months old baby but didn't know it's an actual sleep training method lol.
Has this worked for you ?
I am shocked at how well and quickly this worked. My little one went to sleep within 10 minutes on the first day. He typically wakes up once during the night but I am so happy to be able to get decent sleep (at least as good as possible at this stage).
Will this method work if the cot is next our bed? Also did you breastfeed before you start the pick up put down
I need help I sleep trained my baby about 1 Month ago but I have to get up 10x every night because he doesn’t know how to lay down alone help ?😢
I’m on Day 2 and my son is adjusting sooooo well!
That’s awesome! Keep doing it your baby will thank you later 😘
How old was your baby when you tried this?
I’m gonna try that with my 6mo. I’m going through hell I can’t sleep and this makes me feel depressed. I don’t sleep and my baby also don’t sleep I tried the Ferber method but it didn’t work for us. Hopefully 🤞🏻 I can get some results in a couple of days
I hope you do hun. The worst part is the first night and it should get better the following days.
My almost 12 MO has suddenly started throwing herself as soon as I put her down. She ends up banging her head against the cot sometimes. Is this expected? How can I avoid this? We have resorted back to rocking to sleep, as I couldn't possibly see her hurting herself..
Im sorry to hear that. How about maybe putting something soft on the railings so when she tried to do that she won’t hurt herself? And of course just remove them once she fall asleep. Hope this helps
@@Pinay_at_home thanks for your response. I wanted to know if this is expected and is there a way I can stop her from doing that?
Did it get to a point where you could leave the room and your child sleep? I am afraid if I do this our son will only fall asleep with me in the room with him.
Yes I leave the room once she fell asleep. She’s 3 now and she been sleeping through the night since then.
My daughter is 18 months so I hope this can work for her as well. Thank you for this video! 🤍🤍🤍
I hope it works for you. Patience is the key momma 🙂
Is it works with ur baby?
What a wonderful calm way of explaining this. Going to try it! ❤
Thank you, I did ferber with my first not knowing about this method. It worked in about the same time as this but I've always felt so my guit. This method is more gentile and ill try it on my second
My 10 m old...gets hungry therefore he wakes up to drink bottle...any suggestions???
Thank you for sharing ! Will try this out
Thank you for this, I hope to use this method to get my 8 month old to sleep without stressing him and letting him cry, he’s very stubborn and cry it out was awful
How did it go??
It worked pretty good, then I realized he was trying to be fed more often and had to work on that lol, they keep you on your toes!😅
I’m going to train starting today 12 months old baby boy.
Good luck! You can do this 😄
Please tell later if you get any result. I want to teach my baby too, but I'm a bit afraid))
Unfortunately it didn't work for me 😢 I tried this method for over an hour hoping that my son will get tired and sleep off. But he kept coming back crying. I had to finally give up and then rock him to sleep.
@@Maddy44979 I’m sorry it didn’t work out for u.it took me more than an hour and a bunch of picking and putting her up until she fell asleep. Maybe try it some other nights.
I’m trying this method with my son. We just started last night. He will be one in 12 days!!!! He co sleeps, rocks to sleep, nurse to sleep, even held to sleep. Wakes up constantly…I tried Feber will not do that to my son! He needs a gentle method!
I hope it goes well for u guys. Patience is the key! Good luck!
My 8 month old can’t stand up on his own yet. But as soon as I lay him down in his crib when he’s awake, he’ll just cry and cry. What do I do if he cries instantly? Thanks
@@tetsu3117 hello wow it’s been awhile my daughter is now 4. My advice is just let him cry and kind of reassure him that you are there with him and it’s time to go to sleep. I think the point Of this training method is to let them cry but you will be there close to them. I’m not an expert but that’s based on my experience. Hope that helps ❤️
Thank u so much für sharing your experience ❤❤
Can you incorporate dream feeds with this method? For younger babies that still need 1-2 night feeds? Thank you
Sorry hun my baby is almost 3 years old now but can’t even tell you base on my experience because we co sleep before I sleep trained her. So if you’re doing this method, I’d suggest to just pick up your baby when it’s time for her/him to eat again.
So did you stop nursing cold turkey?
No i didnt. I still nurse her when she wakes up in the morning and before putting her to bed.
this video was so helpful and encouraging thank you so much!
You’re very welcome! I’M glad I could help. Have a blessed day and your baby
Hey sweetheart, thank you so much for this information. I am at my end with my 14 months old and have the exact same situation as you had!
I’m nursing him to sleep, but can I just start with this method and wean the night at the same time? Or do i have to night wean first?
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@@SK-gr5qb in my opinion, I think you can do both. I hope this helps ❤️
sprry for my late response, but i come here to tell you that my 14mo ALSO slept through the night after 3 days!!
I can’t believe it? He was also up constantly for my boob cause i fed him to sleep since 4 months.
Thank you so much for this video you made, I finally can sleep after 14 months!! ❤
How can you do this with an 8 month old baby that can’t get up yet but cries lying down?
Hello there! Personally I would just let her cry as long as she is already fed and have clean diaper. Maybe just reassure her that you are there and u love her and all that good stuff. But u know your baby better so listen to her cues and respond accordingly. Hope this helps 😔
My 9 month old wakes up so much throughout the night and comfort feeds numerous times. I'm soooo exhausted 😫 I will be trying this tonight.
@@shareacrowell7432 I feel you. Remember patience is the key 🤗 Hope all goes well 🙏
Feeding to sleep is a common mistake - baby depends on milk to fall asleep. Instead, feed when baby wakes up from naps and in the morning when they wake up from bed time. My baby would wake up many times at night and I did sleep training using Tracy Hogg s advice - EASY. When they wake up from naps or in the morning from bedtime, feed baby then, then play until it is time to go to bed again. This will break the need of the baby to wake up in the middle of the night to feed (as long as you r baby is 6 months old). Aside from this you do this method but it may take a few days to few weeks to work.
Thank you so much . Very good explanation. I will try it.
Is crib mandatory???
I think it depends on your babies age. If she/he isn’t mobile yet, then I’d think this method would work but if they’re older, I’d suggest a crib or else your baby would go to u if that makes sense. Consistency is really the key here ❤️ Hope that helps
Thanks for adding the video at the end! I will be try this soon
Hi. I came across your video when i was searching for sleep training. If you dont mind me asking, how does the sleep training works on your baby after a year? Can still sleep through overnight? Or she’d forget after some times?
Hey there! My daughter is now 3 years old and she been sleeping throughout the night ever since the sleep training.she sleeps on the average of 10 hrs a night 😌
@@Pinay_at_home great i love that!! Really thank you for the video. Im gonna try this to my 15 months baby.
Thank you for sharing. I will try this tonight. ❤
Hope it works for you. Patience is the key ❤️
I’m definitely trying this method!
So for a 7 month old how would this work? Would I pick her up once she starts crying?
I would think so. I’m sorry as my experience is my baby can get herself up that’s why u have to pick her up and lay her back down.
Thank you for this. will definitely try
How young can this be started, is 5 months too young.
It really depends on you and your situation. I am a stay at home mom so I was fine having to cosleep with her for 14 months.
Hi! I have a question
Do you still have to stay in the room until she falls asleep?
Did you figure out the answer to this question? I would think during the training you’d have to but once they got it down you wouldn’t? Would love to know the real answer
I did because I am a stay at home mom so I have all the time to snuggle with her. As soon as she fall asleep, I exit the room and she sleeps til morning. It was my choice but of course you definitely don’t have to do that.
Woow.. good job, mummy!
Please, an advice.. all day i have to stay with mai 6 months baby, no time to eat, go to bathroom.. he cries after me Or daddy! What can we do?🤦♀️
Thank you! Wow that’s a tough one when the baby don’t want you to leave his side 😔. I am no expert on that what as long as the baby is well fed, clean diaper and already slept, I think it’s okay to let them cry for a bit. I usually talk to my baby letting her know I’m still here as I do what I need to do.
So hard. Feel for you
Hi i have a question
When my son sits up, do I still have to pick him up and put him down or only when he stands up?
I would say only when he stands up. If he is sitting down he might eventually lay down once he gets tired. I hope it works for you
@@Pinay_at_home gracias
Hi!! Thank you for the advice! So you completely stopped breastfeeding at night? Do you still breastfeed during the day?
You’re so welcome! I only breastfeed my baby before bed and when she wakes up in the morning. I still breastfeed her on demand at daytime and she is now 19 months 😅
@@Pinay_at_home Hi, my baby is 10months old, breastfed, can't even put him in his bed anymore for nights or naps... your video is really reassuring, I will try this method as soon as I can as I can't let my baby scream his lungs out and not intervene ... in regards to the feeding though, how long before you put your baby to sleep to you suggest to breasfeed him/her ? 'Cause I know my baby CAN sleep without, but he desperately cries for it before bed and of course I give him but the way you do it is the way I would like it to be : once before bed (how long I dont know) so he can sleep through the night and not wake up every 2hours asking for it ... thanks for your help ☺️ I will also get the white noise machine as right now it has been ordered, I feel it might much help him...
Can you plz let me know u started sleep training at day naps or nighttime ?
I started at night and continue even at nap time.
Does this work for 3 and 2 years old toddlers too?
What if baby is crying too much, should I pick pick her up? My baby is 8mo, She wants to be rocked to sleep.
Also do you offer pacifier?
Is there a time limit on how long I should be holding him for? What if he falls asleep in my arm during I calm him? My baby is 8 months old
I would only hold him until he calms down then put him back down.
Thank you. But hold with rock or just hold?
I’d say just hold because if u rock him, then he can associate the rocking to sleeping. I hope it works for u
Thank you so much for answering me. Tomorrow will be the second day of training. I hope it works for my baby ♥️
Thank you for your video. I am about to sleep train my 6 month old. He has the bad habit of nursing to sleep and I am always tired of offering him my boob every hour.So with this method when I pick up my baby can I rock him to calm him down and then put down after he goes completely quiet? What if he falls asleep in my arm during this time? Is there a time limit on how long I should be holding him for?
I would just hold him and maybe talk to him like I love u goodnight and put him back down when he stops crying. Just a heads up, there will be a lot of picking up and putting down on the first night and it should get better the following nights. But of course, every baby is different and do what’s best for your baby… listen to his cues. Good luck 👍
Wow. Breastfeeding your baby to sleep is NOT a ‘bad habit’ ! That’s so sad of you to say that
Can you blame her with all the pressure and obsession pushed into mother's faces online about sleep training your child once baby is 4 months old? And being told to avoid feeding baby to sleep because it creates a tough to break association? It is tough for mom's out there, lay off the guilt @@IamMinnie90
Thank you for sharing your valuable experience!
This sounds so encouraging thanks for sharing mamma. Just a question- do you keep lights off throughout the night, never turning them on again? Because of space constraints my 9 month old baby's cot is next to ours. I think this method would work for us just wondering to keep lights low or turned off.
Aww thanks! It’s totally dark in her room. The darker the better. She has white noise and black out curtain in her room.
@@Pinay_at_home thanks xx
LMAO, my toddler would physically outpower me if I try to put him down like that. How do you address a toddler stronger than you.
Also a toddler that's temperment is 100x worst than your sweet soul iin this video haha
I've come to the conclusion that I'm definitely doing something wrong.
It's been 10 days and she still gets up when I put her in her crib, even though she's very sleepy. now it takes less time and SOMETIMES she cries just a little, i talk to her and she sleeps. Other times she screams and i dont know if i keep talking to her ultil she stops, or if you guys that succeds leaves them to self sooth.
When you succed, what happens in the moment of put them on the crib?
Sshe's always lying down without getting up?
And About the crying, when she cries did you leave her in the room until she stopped?
if you have any forums, blog anything I can see, I don't want to inconvenience you. but the book already read and I have these doubts. I don't know what to do. Thank you so much 💗
Honestly sometimes my baby sleeps right away but there are also times that as soon as I put her down she gets up right away and cries but I put her right back down and she does it between 5 seconds to 20 mins. For me it’s still fine as long as she sleeps through the night. I hope you will find the best way that works for u momma ❤️
Your footage really helped me cause my baby also gets up in the second I put her down I tough I was doing something wrong.
But she also gets upset when sees me aproaching to put her down and throw herself in the crib.
And when I put her down she resists, arching her back and cries i really don’t know what to do.
My baby did/does the same thing. There are nights were it’s so hard to put her back down but I just keep putting her back down safely. The most she cried was 30 mins. But once they get the hang of it, they will not even put up a fight.
@@Pinay_at_home thank you so much for answering me! this night was so much better! It only took 30 minutes. Thanks! Good Bless you and your family💗
@@Pinay_at_home When she REALLY cries, like, screaming desesperetaly, would you pick her up? Or confort her and wait 30 minutes? I just did the nap and the end was so hard.
At least she was stayng lyinh down but she was cring so hard I pick her up a couple times until she was calm and when she stopped crying put her in the crib again. I dont know if i did right cause she is almost 9 months, already stands in the crib i thin you supoose to just lay her down. But whe you daughter was cryind REALLY HARD would you pick her up?
@@emanuellesampaio664 at the time of sleep training, I didn’t pick her up. But you know ur baby. Do what you think is best momma. I can tell my baby was screaming for me but I thought it was just her frustration. First 2 nights was the hardest but after that, she sleeps through the night. Now, the longest she cries is 20 mins but most of the nights, no crying at all.
@@Pinay_at_home Thank you so much for answer me! Today was so much better. Yesterday she cried desperately and twice i took her in the nap and twice at night. Today it wasnt necessary, she cried just a little and was not screaming.
I read Tracy’s book, watched videos, blogs and still have doubts so THANK YOU SO MUCH💗.
Do you sleep trained the naps too?
Thank you, thank you!
God Bless you and your family, make all yout dreams come true! Sending you and your baby all my love and gratitude
It’s wrong what you are Doing don’t give into your baby let her cry
All she’s doing it for is the Attention she will do it all the more
You are truly disgusting. I hope you never have children.