I feel bad for Mr Ibu’s wife. However, experience taught me that it’s important to set limits for yourself when it comes to how much you will allow yourself to endure and for how long. I’m pretty sure she saw red flags after the first two children she had for him but she decided to press on hoping more efforts and more babies will make her husband change. Unfortunately things only got worst; the side chicks are now calling her out in front of the world, no more hiding…and now she’s 16 years&4 kids in with nothing to show for the kids, the years spent, and the sacrifices. Telling her to move on makes sense but…move onto what??? Telling her to stay and fight makes even more sense but that would likely lead her to her own sick bed because it would be stressful.🤷🏽♀️I have no advice for the woman but younger ladies should use this as a cautionary tale 1. Insist on having something for yourself and 2. Set limits for yourself and stick to them or else you risk wasting your time
Have something doing is very important.This could have been my self pity story, I said capital NO and move on. The time frame they are discussing it is very bad because of the man.
Men really have it easy. Married first wife, Married second wife, have outside kids with other women while in marriage and now adopt alleged side chick and in all of that, the wife is the person being attacked.
lesson for everyone to learn from Stella when a man is building his career and improving on himself you as a woman too should better do same. marriage is not just about the man only its about every member of the family
You are right, but d problem here is that d man is married twice b4 tis wife now. He even said he is not lucky in his marriages. Is only God that knows how and where his issues and problems. Any man wit woman situation, marry tis and the other should kno that there is coma? So many things will be fishing here and there. Throwing Stone from different sides.
The wife, should move on. Start frying akara, plantain or yam with tasty sauce. It's never too late. As long as she has life, limbs, health, woman, start working hard. Lots of women have been in her shoes, got up, worked hard, and built homes for themselves. Got tenants, and enjoying their hard work. It's not easy, determination, strong will, self control with assistance from some few good-hearted human beings, she'll be fine. She has to fend off laziness, and dive into changing her dire situation. Most importantly, pray pray pray, for God's guidance, mercies and, divine favour. Not worth it, wallowing in self pity. My two cents. Her decision. GOD bless.
💯..what my mother did.and look at her today she is doing million times better in the city than her ex husband (my father)in the village.he still can’t believe he’s eyes that my mother (poverty striking woman that couldn’t finish school cause her family is a poverty striking family) Is now owning House’s and a car. My mother is my Hero ❤
No wife should accept intermediator within her marriage. If the lady is his biological child no problem but someone that is not even a family member it is disrespectful to the wife both religious and legal law
@@simbiatsadiku9516 It is still not in the place of a daughter to come in between husband and wife. In such situation let the elders in church or marriage counselors handle that. When the bible said what God has joined together let no man put asunder. He was equally referring to family members. 80% of marriage breakdowns are caused by third parties including family members
My dear sister, unfortunately there are jasmines everywhere. In the office, church, neighbourhood etc. They can't maintain a home but they are experts in running someone else's. They are the ones that knows a man' s wife is wicked, doesn't take care him, gives him pressure. They start showing unsolicited support and concern for another person's husband. Unwise men will also enjoy this and enter their trap😢
You're a natural and gifted storyteller. Your narratives are so engaging and compelling that they're impossible to ignore. Once anyone starts listening, they can't switch off. Well done, and thank God for your talent. 🙏🏾
Thank you for the update Neze. It's unfortunate that women still find themselves in this pathetic situation for whatever reason. However, I think Mrs Ibu should be calm,and continue to care for her husband. The reality is that the situation is not in her favour as it stand. Mrs Ibu and as many that love her should consider making her financially independent. Start a business to support her self and her children ASAP
It's not impossible that they are dating. When it comes to a human being don't trust a man with either money or a woman and vice versa. All I want is just a quick recovery to Mr Ibu
Sometimes when Neze gives the 2 schools of thoughts in a case I can tell which school she belongs to😊. The way she reiterates it and the energy she exudes. Great job Neze
Neze! Good job as always. ❤ Men who remarry after a failed marriage have a way of emboldening an incoming wife that gives the impression that the former wife is inconsequential. As long as the children of the first wife don't welcome her, Stella is in a truly big mess. I wouldn't counsel her to walk out of the marriage but she must make genuine efforts to develop herself, it's never late. Mr Ibu's rascality has made him bring comedy into his marital life. Ibu strikes me like one of the many men out there who see women as pieces of furniture in their homes, without emotions. As for the adopted daughter (abi na side Chic?), it is not possible to make an informed comment without being privy to how her relationship with Stella evolved. What is obvious presently is that she has no respect for the woman that is supposed to be her 'mother'. In all, Mr Ibu is the only one that can bring out something admirable in this rather theater of mistrust and hate. I HOPE HE HAS THE BALLS TO REWRITE THIS COMIC SCRIPT THAT HE AUTHORED.
I wish mr Ibu quick recovery. From the videos you posted so far between Mr Ibu and Jasmine nnem, is too close for comfort and no woman will condone it.
Having a side hustle as a woman will earn you respect from your husband, as an African, I believe a woman who is able to fend for herself regardless of how little it might be is capable of taking care of herself when white turns yellow... As much as you might be in the process of turning the yellow back to white but at least thru the process you are able to put something on the table for you and the fruits that the Lord God had blessed you with. *my opinion*
Mrs Ibu should wait for Mr Ibu to recover. She should not divorce him for now but the moment he is fully recovered she should ask him to set her up with a very good business
This is the same story of ignorant African men and ignorant in laws always seeing the wife as evil and incompetent. But doesn't make the effort of divorcing her if she's so wrong for him. Ladies walk away from this kind of wahala, it's not necessary. Let's empower ourselves by working for our own instead of getting embarrassed by sidechicks in the name of " adopted daughter "because of money.
The people insulting May are mad, I like the fact that she picked herself up. Left and leaving her life. That's why you don't allow a man to ask you to stay home. Most of these men are abusers who want to be able to do whatever they like with you. Most of them are not able to properly take care of you but would pin you down for their selfish reasons. Now, her children will struggle because she can't afford it.
Nigeria does not have an Intestate Succession Law? Ghana has had one since 1985. Priority is wife and children. This law has served very well. Even where there is a Will left behind, minor children and a wife can apply to court for reasonable provison from the estate of their father or husband if they are disinherited.
This is why l have always advised women, whether single or married, to be financially independent so that they will not remain in a depressive relationship.
Since I was born and now I'm old I have never seen an adult adopted. I have seen a child adopted. Never have I seen a grown up adult adopted. Mr ibu case is a peculiar one and something is fishing about it
Mr ibu adopted jasmine when she was a little child, her late father is Mr ibu friend, jasmine is living with her mother, when Mr ibu was sick and his wife was not taken care of him, jasmine flew in from Cyprus to care for him, so kini big deal, Mr ibu is life today is because if the way jasmine is taken care of him, it got to a stage that jasmine have to brought ibu to her own house when he was sick but the lazy Stella maris don't care for him bloggers can say anything I order to get traffic but am not move.
@calistermadukwe7977 Where are you getting that fiction? How many years has Jasmine been dancing and showing off with (sugar) "Daddy" together on social media BEFORE he fell ill and took over the finances, her husband, his mobile (that's why the wife has to liaise with Jasmine for funds for the upkeep of the family home and the children Mr IBU abandoned). Mrs Ibu is financially dependent on her husband because he instructed her to stay home and take care of their children. However, it's way past time for Mrs Ibu to build herself up.
Hold up hold up! Let's all give it up to Neze cos she is super super good...a captivating story teller and a brilliant lawyer to say the least...wow! Neze take ur flowers 💐
It's difficult for me to advise unless l hear a statement from Mr lbu himself. He's the principal actor in this family drama. He's got to do something about this matter.
What is happening is unheard of under normal circumstances. But, in this scenario, when money is coming from Jasmine, Mrs Ibu is comfortable & Jasmine is accepted as a daughter. When she isn’t giving, there is no peace between the two women. What woman in her right senses, accept a grown up lady as an “adopted daughter” no matter what the husband says😱🤷🏻♀️! This so called Jasmine, fell from heaven? I mean, where are her biological parents? Hmmmmm, Jehovah bu Eze!
Both parties man and his side. But in this case sir, it is the young woman that was born yesterday, that wants to run another woman's home and husband, as what? No respect at all. These kind of women has professional home reckers and proudly so with no shame or remorse. It sad what many women go through an endure in silence.
@@marianj5865 You'd rather have the man dead, abi? The adopted daughter is taking care of him in his low state. The wife refused, and only interested in money she can grab.
I always put out God's word, that goes thus; though hands join to hands, the wicked shall never go UNPUNISHED. GOD who sees in secret, will hand down His judgment, at the appropriate time. GOD bless.
Mr Ibu simply cannot run his home period, he empowered Jasmine and has created problems in his home in his life time. You can imagine what will happen when he dies. As for Stella Maris she missed it all by not fending for self and taking charge of her home. Women empower yourselves by educating yourselves and working hard to be happy with yourselves.
Indeed Neze as a lawyer you may have seen so many cases like this where a vulnerable man or woman is targeted , manipulated and used by a friend, a family member or even a strange woman so he can turn against others for the financial benefit of the manipulator. The heart of man is wicked who can know it. ? The case in hand should serve as a lesson to most men and also help them understand the dire consequences of the decisions and choices they make in life . What we have in hand is a very serious one and other men should learn from it. I fear for Mr Ibu and his wife because they are surrounded by enemies ( Rottweilers ) who portray themselves as friends to the whole world. Mr Ibu’s son who is allegedly secretly having an affair with Jasmine is fanning this flame behind closed doors.
Since Jasmine knows how to manage the home very well and bring everybody together why was she not able to manage her own home and she allowed her marriage to break just to come into another woman's home to become the chief managing officer. I am not trying to make mockery of her failed marriage but her actions are way to the extreme. Mrs Ibu should try as much as possible to continue to play her role as a wife while she awaits her husbands recovery. Once he is back on this feet fully, they can address the issue and she can take her stand, but in the main time she should look for something to do, a little business will do, she can save up from the little upkeep she's getting for now and start up a business, build it for the rainy days ahead, for her mental wellbeing, the welfare of her children and whatever the outcome of her husband's decision afterwards will be.
@nondochirau9664 Jasmine has been living with them since she was a kid, they said so during the last issues. Even ibu's wife and sons confirmed it. Also Jasmine's father was Mr Ibu's close friend, her mother is still alive.
The first day i saw their video together years back i was shocked to see how they hug and touch each other and told my friend that the father daughter relationship is weird i never knew she was adopted....a wife most times knows when their husband is cheating ....women don't be a housewife ooo even if your husband is very rich...Mrs Ibu knows what she's talking about...Mr Ibu made his bed pls he needs to sleep on it...MEN!!!!
She needs to pick herself up, prioritize herself and children and leave IBu and his mistress alone. I believe all she needs is financial assistance to help her move on and start a business that will sustain her and the kids. Otherwise stigking around will make her run mad.
Jasmine should know that one day what she is sowing now she will reap it some days. If you make a woman's house hot as a side chic, you will surely meet it in the journey of your life period.
This is my first time on your channel, but your deliberations on this issue and clear communication is quite amazing. You have enchant me to subscribe to your channel. Thank you for what you do. Least i forget, congratulations for your beauty
Good morning Barrister Neze, this is what some women has failed to understand! Most men don't keep their marriage vows . Like you rightly explained, if it were the wife, reverse would have been the case .
Honestly stuff like this don't happen in Ghana oo. Honestly this is unbelievable 😂 Also I think Nigeria's Parliament need to do something about their wills Act precisely their intestate succession. It's too backward
That jasmine would have suffered greatly. Even the Hospital wont allow her into his bedside for her to continue her nonsense. She has no place in that marriage. So its so laughable. That last fon record is so pathetic.. their acting denia has failed. 😂😂😂
Mr Ibu should divorce his wife and stop behaving as a dog who does not want a bone but holds on to it to prevent others from having it. Why do men stop their wives from working only to punish them later on. Women open your ears please. Have a career, a business of your own. Stop being totally dependent on men who will use you and dump yo for the next model. Stellamaris could have learnt a craft and work from home, she chose no to. She has made her bed, if it no longer provides comfort and peace, wake up and smell the coffee.
😂😂😂😂I laugh in Swahili, which Nigeria parliament 😂😂😂😂 they are busy buying bullet proof cars worth millions of naira, what concerns them with family matter, you funny oooo, ibu wife is idle woman, she us not working or trading, did she tell you that she don't her baby boy as her friend? Omo leave matter for Mathias.
He acted well, Just like you said, they should dig the root of this on the reason why he prefers the adopted daughter over his wife. She may not want to kill him, but there are issues that aren't clear about them.
This girl is shameless, how can you enter and destroy another woman's marriage. Mr. Ibu is the one creating all of this mess. Total nonsense and irresponsible as a family head. The devil 👿👿👿 is in total control of Mr.Ibu. He will realize when the time comes.
our culture and traditions is polygamic in nature. Better take care of your husband and build a cordial relationship rather than accussing the devil. this devil do suffer shaaa
Mr Ibu is a grown-up man, an adult who is still in his right sense. His marriage with Stella Maris is not even his first marriage. So he is grown as far as marriage is concerned and can make the right decisions for himself. Everyone on social media is talking from their own angle of view. He alone knows what is best for him.
This is main reasons why I love watching your videos because you're a very smart and well spoken woman, may God bless you sis, I blame the man he is the one that mess up his marriage and family for real, I will never take that foolishness, it is very sad that his wife is going through this😢😢😢😢😢, this girl should be jailed she will meet a match soon, I don't hate her but I just don't like her behavior towards this woman.Get well sir oh it pains me😢😢 to see our amazing super star like this oh lord 🙏 please come through.
Hello Neze, You did well presenting the two scenarios and views without inserting your own idea or how you feel. I could see your stand only because I, too, would struggle the same way. The way we Africans view the union call marriage is a bit behind. In fact, we are competing with the Indians and some South Asians. I saw the video sent the other day where Mr Ibu was Tell Srella off about Jasmin, and the way he showed frustration over over Stella representation surprised me. Also, you are correct. Children of the first wife support the third woman, be it wife or not, in polygamous marriage. Whereas the problem isn't these women in the contest, the problem is the system. IAlso, I would say the problem isn't the man particularly in the equation but if the problem is tge system which is controlled my men and their view, I might maintain that men has questions to answer, whether extricasies or intricacies. Worthy of north that Stella Marrys is a victim of the problem of similar women in Africa's descent. The same appearing the vlcentre of all. Men are too powerful according to our culture. Women in a marriage are the man's property. The way our society view the men is different to their women counterpart. It felt so emotional the way you described Jasmin position being engineered by Mr Ibu and Stella incapacitated by Ibu. Those of us from Polagamous do really resonate. We must do something about the position our condition is our tradition placed women. My advice is, no matter how sweet, women should not be solely dependent on their husband.
Hummmmm. Wonders shall never end. This is a great lesson to every married women. The law of carma will meet with you, Yasmin. I am very sure of this. God is watching you.
Every married women should learn a lesson from mr Ibu case and start working even if the husband is rich. Love is not gallantee because it can die at anytime as far as marriage is concern. Oga Mr please, please and please you will not die without rewriting your family's wrong . Please fix your home
I agree with you Neze that Mr Ibu should be blamed for all this drama in his family. Ibu and Jasmine denying their sexual relationship is not the issue. Of course, what do you expect his wife, Stella to say when she is being disrespected in her marriage if not that this two are having sexual relationship even if they are not. I pray God help them out of this issue. Women should just learn how to be financially independent even as stay at home mum to avoid situations like this.
IN MY OWN OPINION, ONCE IBU RECOVERS HIS WIFE SHOULD START UP SOMETHING EITHER WORK OR BUSINESS. PERIOD. SHE HAS BEEN BENEFITING FROM JASMINE FINANCIALLY THAT IS WHY SHE SEE HER FINISH.. NOTHING LIKE BEEN FINANCIAL INDEPENDENT.
Only God knows what Stella's role was in Ibu's first marriage. Stella Maris is not a wife, nothing is holding her,so she can leave the marriage. The first wife is still very much alive and thats the person Heaven recognises as wife. I rest my case here
Well, my own view is that you look beautiful and you're killing it😊... Nice presentation... my advise is that you should keep it up... God bless you... I NO GET POWER TO DEY ADVISE WHO NO READY TO DO THINGS RIGHTLY...
I can see you are more detailed on this video than the last one...seeing things from a different perspective.... well this interference from the adopted Daughter is a cause for concern ..you are the first person who is bringing this to light ..i guess this is woman supporting another woman
There is nothing Stella can do as long as Mr Ibu continues to misbehave, she should be very careful for her life. She should give them space, concentrate on her children, I bet you they will soon clash.
Stella's problem is simple, "LAZY" Jasmine said the woman never worked in her life. This is not the case of Mr Ibu telling her not to work and all that. Another very important question is, why does it have to be now that there's accusations of her wanting the funds to buy a car and other stuffs that she suddenly realized that same Jasmine she was always calling for funds is a strange woman in her home? And please explain to me what you mean by SHE WAS BUSY BUILDING A HOME WHILE HER HUSBAND WORKED when she couldn't keep her husband's love and attention, instead abandoned him to the hands of another woman who has now made the man very attractive and appealing. Barr Neze there's only one truth here, that lady is lazy, else she wouldn't have accepted Jasmine from the onset. We all saw how May Edochie stood her ground and refused to accept Judy in her home instead she picked the pieces of her life and moved on, without fear of what happens to her because while she was building her home, she was also building her life, her confidence and self esteem and she was sure of who she was. Something I can say for Stella. If Ibu says Jasmine stays, she can either accept her as she's done before or leave. Simple
This is painful truth,,,, it’s different for us woman to accept some comments, but it’s 100% truth Mrs Ibu please move out work and at least take care of yourself.
True words spoken.she is too lazy.In Africa women even work under the sun with baby‘s on their backs.Stella is too lazy.for her it’s even easier to make it cause she is Mr.ibu okafor‘s wife. The whole mr.ibu okafor family never liked her and she is still there..waiting for hands out from them to survive.mtcheew
Its only mr Ibu that can put his family together. The did has been done. My sister stella, a stitch in time sames nine. Look for something to do to make your own money. If you had means of livelihood no man will mess with you. Go to God in prayers and stop opening your mouth. A praying woman is a winning woman. May the almighty God fight your battle and put your enemies to shame in Jesus name.
Your words are calm, peaceful and deep for the first time i enjoyed a mature woman speak i mean a real who is not supporting evil kudos to u @Nezeville. Whomsoever supporting her may she witness same and to us men out there we can only lay on our bed same way we laid it, i pray for fast recovery but won't fail to say the first wife nemesis still roaming around. Jasmine can never be a better than StellaMaris same way StellaMaris can never be better than the first wife i come in peace
Secondly, i cherished and love your personality, spoken English and gesticulations in fact you have a sterling beauty for a good man to be with if it is garnished with good character.
For the first narrative, I belong to the first school of thought. For your second narrative, the second school of thought is it. Your final analysis is very correct. Please let us allow Mr Ibu get well and live.
Stella Maris compounds her problem by not developing herself. If she is not dependent on Mr Ibu for salt and pepper he would have have rest for her. These days no man want a full house wife. The woman is still young instead of asking for money everyday, she should ask for money to start a business. As for Jazmine, she knows better than to stand between a husband and wife. Karma is also waiting for her in the future.
If you watched the Daddy freeze interviews from there last drama the two eldest sons were backing Jazmin. They all said that the wife was greedy and she only only cared about money and not Mr IBU’s health. When all the donations started coming for him, the wife came on Daddy Freeze and then said they all made up. That move made her look greedy as they said. Also Daddy Freeze interviewed a family friend a day ago, and it was said that the two older sons were controlling the money not Jazmin.
Let Mr Ibu be abeg, I like this girl Jasmine and how beautiful she is inside and outside. The fact that she is creative and can make money is an added advantage to Ibu. Let Mr Ibu's wife change her ways and stop being money conscious
My prayer to God. Please if, I'm bless to get married, bless my home with happiness. I don't go around married men, you can't be praying for peace of mind but you are a threate to someone happiness. I don't see myself getting married to a man from a broken marriage, I rejected one in 2022😅. He was like , i don't want you as girlfriend, i want to married you but he couldn't tell me why is wife left him. It is better to be a happy single woman, than to be a frustrated married woman.😢 Respectfully open to corrections 🎉
Women never allow any man to tell you to stay home. Tomorrow is not guaranteed, and have children that you can afford when a man changes his mind.
Truth . Tnk you !
Facing almost samething for several years now. My life is in God's hands.
Or dies. Remember our lives belong to the creator
Very much true
very true
No woman is happy to see her husband closer to anyone than her
I feel bad for Mr Ibu’s wife. However, experience taught me that it’s important to set limits for yourself when it comes to how much you will allow yourself to endure and for how long. I’m pretty sure she saw red flags after the first two children she had for him but she decided to press on hoping more efforts and more babies will make her husband change. Unfortunately things only got worst; the side chicks are now calling her out in front of the world, no more hiding…and now she’s 16 years&4 kids in with nothing to show for the kids, the years spent, and the sacrifices.
Telling her to move on makes sense but…move onto what??? Telling her to stay and fight makes even more sense but that would likely lead her to her own sick bed because it would be stressful.🤷🏽♀️I have no advice for the woman but younger ladies should use this as a cautionary tale 1. Insist on having something for yourself and 2. Set limits for yourself and stick to them or else you risk wasting your time
Have something doing is very important.This could have been my self pity story, I said capital NO and move on. The time frame they are discussing it is very bad because of the man.
@serene goddess, perfectly said!!!!!!!!!!!
A cheating husband is always not comfortable with his wife especially when he knew that his wife is aware of his evil activities.
Wow 😮fact indeed.
Never thought of this.
Gbam that’s what cheating men do.
Very true.
In 5 marriages and all 5 women were the problem except him. He had insecurities obviously and mental health is not balanced.
Men really have it easy. Married first wife, Married second wife, have outside kids with other women while in marriage and now adopt alleged side chick and in all of that, the wife is the person being attacked.
Sad
THIS is the comment right here!!
It's the bane of being a woman. No matter what happens, the blame falls on the woman.
lesson for everyone to learn from Stella when a man is building his career and improving on himself you as a woman too should better do same. marriage is not just about the man only its about every member of the family
@funke God bless you dearly
You are right, but d problem here is that d man is married twice b4 tis wife now. He even said he is not lucky in his marriages. Is only God that knows how and where his issues and problems. Any man wit woman situation, marry tis and the other should kno that there is coma? So many things will be fishing here and there. Throwing Stone from different sides.
The wife, should move on. Start frying akara, plantain or yam with tasty sauce. It's never too late. As long as she has life, limbs, health, woman, start working hard. Lots of women have been in her shoes, got up, worked hard, and built homes for themselves. Got tenants, and enjoying their hard work. It's not easy, determination, strong will, self control with assistance from some few good-hearted human beings, she'll be fine. She has to fend off laziness, and dive into changing her dire situation. Most importantly, pray pray pray, for God's guidance, mercies and, divine favour. Not worth it, wallowing in self pity. My two cents. Her decision. GOD bless.
Gbam!
Taa be reasonable
💯..what my mother did.and look at her today she is doing million times better in the city than her ex husband (my father)in the village.he still can’t believe he’s eyes that my mother (poverty striking woman that couldn’t finish school cause her family is a poverty striking family)
Is now owning House’s and a car.
My mother is my Hero ❤
Very nice one! Well said!!
@@TheBestinMe143 send my love and best wishes to your mother.
No wife should accept intermediator within her marriage. If the lady is his biological child no problem but someone that is not even a family member it is disrespectful to the wife both religious and legal law
Even if the daughter is biological.
Marriage is between a husband and a wife not for three parties
@@HTWJVery well said, not just a comment but Biblical..
Even when the wife displays untrustworthy attitude 😊
@@simbiatsadiku9516
It is still not in the place of a daughter to come in between husband and wife.
In such situation let the elders in church or marriage counselors handle that.
When the bible said what God has joined together let no man put asunder.
He was equally referring to family members.
80% of marriage breakdowns are caused by third parties including family members
Jasmine is not really the problem. Ibu wife is not accepted by the family and I guess he is still in the marriage because of the children.
My dear sister, unfortunately there are jasmines everywhere. In the office, church, neighbourhood etc. They can't maintain a home but they are experts in running someone else's. They are the ones that knows a man' s wife is wicked, doesn't take care him, gives him pressure. They start showing unsolicited support and concern for another person's husband. Unwise men will also enjoy this and enter their trap😢
You're a natural and gifted storyteller. Your narratives are so engaging and compelling that they're impossible to ignore. Once anyone starts listening, they can't switch off. Well done, and thank God for your talent. 🙏🏾
Neze would have made a world class investigative journalist
😂 I swear !!!
Absolutely true. First time I jam her video I followed without hesitation. Very captivating
Absolutely correct...hard to ignore her videos ✅
Wow..Education is the key...the way you speak and your intelligence makes me like you Ma...bravaaaa . A real lawyer indeed..Bravaaaa...
May the good Lord heal mr Ibu so that he can solve this problem
Everyone reaps what they sow. This mr. Ibu is already reaping but doesn't realize yet. More is to come for him. Keep watching.
Yes more and more is coming for him and that Jasmine she will weep bitterly in future.
Thank you for the update Neze. It's unfortunate that women still find themselves in this pathetic situation for whatever reason.
However, I think Mrs Ibu should be calm,and continue to care for her husband. The reality is that the situation is not in her favour as it stand.
Mrs Ibu and as many that love her should consider making her financially independent. Start a business to support her self and her children ASAP
It's not impossible that they are dating. When it comes to a human being don't trust a man with either money or a woman and vice versa. All I want is just a quick recovery to Mr Ibu
Imagine her audacity,having access to all the family details. The fact that she knows how much the family land was sold alone is absurd.
Sometimes when Neze gives the 2 schools of thoughts in a case I can tell which school she belongs to😊. The way she reiterates it and the energy she exudes. Great job Neze
She’s very learned ❤😂✌️
Yes...she seemed to be attacking Jasmine....she's matured.... thirty something years.... matured woman....etc.
Ofcourse she stands with the latter school of thoughts,
My question is why is he not trusting his biological daughters like that so called adopted daughter its a big lie something is fishy
The worst of Stellar - Maris woes, battle and nightmare is not having a source of livelihood and being able to stand up for herself.
VERY TRUE
True
Neze! Good job as always. ❤
Men who remarry after a failed marriage have a way of emboldening an incoming wife that gives the impression that the former wife is inconsequential. As long as the children of the first wife don't welcome her, Stella is in a truly big mess. I wouldn't counsel her to walk out of the marriage but she must make genuine efforts to develop herself, it's never late. Mr Ibu's rascality has made him bring comedy into his marital life. Ibu strikes me like one of the many men out there who see women as pieces of furniture in their homes, without emotions. As for the adopted daughter (abi na side Chic?), it is not possible to make an informed comment without being privy to how her relationship with Stella evolved. What is obvious presently is that she has no respect for the woman that is supposed to be her 'mother'. In all, Mr Ibu is the only one that can bring out something admirable in this rather theater of mistrust and hate. I HOPE HE HAS THE BALLS TO REWRITE THIS COMIC SCRIPT THAT HE AUTHORED.
I wish mr Ibu quick recovery. From the videos you posted so far between Mr Ibu and Jasmine nnem, is too close for comfort and no woman will condone it.
Having a side hustle as a woman will earn you respect from your husband, as an African, I believe a woman who is able to fend for herself regardless of how little it might be is capable of taking care of herself when white turns yellow... As much as you might be in the process of turning the yellow back to white but at least thru the process you are able to put something on the table for you and the fruits that the Lord God had blessed you with. *my opinion*
Mrs Ibu should wait for Mr Ibu to recover. She should not divorce him for now but the moment he is fully recovered she should ask him to set her up with a very good business
This is the same story of ignorant African men and ignorant in laws always seeing the wife as evil and incompetent. But doesn't make the effort of divorcing her if she's so wrong for him. Ladies walk away from this kind of wahala, it's not necessary. Let's empower ourselves by working for our own instead of getting embarrassed by sidechicks in the name of " adopted daughter "because of money.
Fact
You nailed it.
The people insulting May are mad, I like the fact that she picked herself up. Left and leaving her life. That's why you don't allow a man to ask you to stay home. Most of these men are abusers who want to be able to do whatever they like with you. Most of them are not able to properly take care of you but would pin you down for their selfish reasons. Now, her children will struggle because she can't afford it.
Hmmmmmm. Really sad.
Exactly ohh
IBU took comedy into his marriage, he will reap dearly! He can't do such a thing to a woman who carried his kids in her womb! Absolute nonsense!
Best comment😂
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Nigeria does not have an Intestate Succession Law?
Ghana has had one since 1985. Priority is wife and children. This law has served very well.
Even where there is a Will left behind, minor children and a wife can apply to court for reasonable provison from the estate of their father or husband if they are disinherited.
Kudos to theGhanian government. I wish Nigeria would wake up.
This family drama eh
Seasonal movie.
It's only Mr Ibu that knows exactly what's going on
This is why l have always advised women, whether single or married, to be financially independent so that they will not remain in a depressive relationship.
Since I was born and now I'm old I have never seen an adult adopted.
I have seen a child adopted. Never have I seen a grown up adult adopted. Mr ibu case is a peculiar one and something is fishing about it
Mr ibu adopted jasmine when she was a little child, her late father is Mr ibu friend, jasmine is living with her mother, when Mr ibu was sick and his wife was not taken care of him, jasmine flew in from Cyprus to care for him, so kini big deal, Mr ibu is life today is because if the way jasmine is taken care of him, it got to a stage that jasmine have to brought ibu to her own house when he was sick but the lazy Stella maris don't care for him bloggers can say anything I order to get traffic but am not move.
@calistermadukwe7977 Where are you getting that fiction? How many years has Jasmine been dancing and showing off with (sugar) "Daddy" together on social media BEFORE he fell ill and took over the finances, her husband, his mobile (that's why the wife has to liaise with Jasmine for funds for the upkeep of the family home and the children Mr IBU abandoned).
Mrs Ibu is financially dependent on her husband because he instructed her to stay home and take care of their children. However, it's way past time for Mrs Ibu to build herself up.
Hold up hold up! Let's all give it up to Neze cos she is super super good...a captivating story teller and a brilliant lawyer to say the least...wow!
Neze take ur flowers 💐
If it’s possible let’s people come to her help financially so that she can stand on her own.
It's difficult for me to advise unless l hear a statement from Mr lbu himself. He's the principal actor in this family drama. He's got to do something about this matter.
What is happening is unheard of under normal circumstances. But, in this scenario, when money is coming from Jasmine, Mrs Ibu is comfortable & Jasmine is accepted as a daughter. When she isn’t giving, there is no peace between the two women. What woman in her right senses, accept a grown up lady as an “adopted daughter” no matter what the husband says😱🤷🏻♀️!
This so called Jasmine, fell from heaven? I mean, where are her biological parents? Hmmmmm, Jehovah bu Eze!
The gross disrespect of women in Nigeria continues to astound me🎉
Not only Nigeria, but many African country's.
And who is disrespecting here the man or the woman who is controlling another woman's man
Both parties man and his side. But in this case sir, it is the young woman that was born yesterday, that wants to run another woman's home and husband, as what?
No respect at all. These kind of women has professional home reckers and proudly so with no shame or remorse. It sad what many women go through an endure in silence.
My dear, the orchestrator in this case is the man😢
@@marianj5865 You'd rather have the man dead, abi? The adopted daughter is taking care of him in his low state. The wife refused, and only interested in money she can grab.
Nollywood should make a movie out of this saga. It will be successful. "Money on my mind"
Very true! Asake soundtrack... 🤣
I always put out God's word, that goes thus; though hands join to hands, the wicked shall never go UNPUNISHED. GOD who sees in secret, will hand down His judgment, at the appropriate time. GOD bless.
Mr Ibu simply cannot run his home period, he empowered Jasmine and has created problems in his home in his life time. You can imagine what will happen when he dies. As for Stella Maris she missed it all by not fending for self and taking charge of her home. Women empower yourselves by educating yourselves and working hard to be happy with yourselves.
I can’t imagine how that little brat was shouting at Mrs Ibu.
What nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mr Ibu is a finished man. Im sorry for him
Even calling her by name 😢
Chief judge, you are not God that will say time up to anyone. Do you even know how you will end up?
Indeed Neze as a lawyer you may have seen so many cases like this where a vulnerable man or woman is targeted , manipulated and used by a friend, a family member or even a strange woman so he can turn against others for the financial benefit of the manipulator. The heart of man is wicked who can know it. ?
The case in hand should serve as a lesson to most men and also help them understand the dire consequences of the decisions and choices they make in life . What we have in hand is a very serious one and other men should learn from it.
I fear for Mr Ibu and his wife because they are surrounded by enemies ( Rottweilers ) who portray themselves as friends to the whole world.
Mr Ibu’s son who is allegedly secretly having an affair with Jasmine is fanning this flame behind closed doors.
I'm standing with the second group or opinion. Get well soon Mr. Ibu 🙏
That's not an adopted daughter that's a concubine period 😮😢. IBU is in a mid life crisis like Yul they are in a confused state
Exactly!
Since Jasmine knows how to manage the home very well and bring everybody together why was she not able to manage her own home and she allowed her marriage to break just to come into another woman's home to become the chief managing officer. I am not trying to make mockery of her failed marriage but her actions are way to the extreme.
Mrs Ibu should try as much as possible to continue to play her role as a wife while she awaits her husbands recovery. Once he is back on this feet fully, they can address the issue and she can take her stand, but in the main time she should look for something to do, a little business will do, she can save up from the little upkeep she's getting for now and start up a business, build it for the rainy days ahead, for her mental wellbeing, the welfare of her children and whatever the outcome of her husband's decision afterwards will be.
Just to correct one thing. After marriage, Jasmine found out that her husband was married with children. That's why she left!
I wonder kkkk.At her age what does she even see in this man,who is old to be her grandfather 😅😅😅
@queenrose6603 She left but she can come in this marriage pretending to be a daughter yet she is side chick.
@nondochirau9664 Jasmine has been living with them since she was a kid, they said so during the last issues. Even ibu's wife and sons confirmed it. Also Jasmine's father was Mr Ibu's close friend, her mother is still alive.
She found out her husband was married with kids in us and hide it from her making her to divorce him When she found out the truth.
Both ibu and his old woman adopted daughter and sidechick will surely reap their reward,amen
The first day i saw their video together years back i was shocked to see how they hug and touch each other and told my friend that the father daughter relationship is weird i never knew she was adopted....a wife most times knows when their husband is cheating ....women don't be a housewife ooo even if your husband is very rich...Mrs Ibu knows what she's talking about...Mr Ibu made his bed pls he needs to sleep on it...MEN!!!!
She needs to pick herself up, prioritize herself and children and leave IBu and his mistress alone. I believe all she needs is financial assistance to help her move on and start a business that will sustain her and the kids. Otherwise stigking around will make her run mad.
Jasmine should know that one day what she is sowing now she will reap it some days. If you make a woman's house hot as a side chic, you will surely meet it in the journey of your life period.
This is my first time on your channel, but your deliberations on this issue and clear communication is quite amazing. You have enchant me to subscribe to your channel. Thank you for what you do. Least i forget, congratulations for your beauty
Good morning Barrister Neze, this is what some women has failed to understand!
Most men don't keep their marriage vows .
Like you rightly explained, if it were the wife, reverse would have been the case .
Honestly stuff like this don't happen in Ghana oo. Honestly this is unbelievable 😂 Also I think Nigeria's Parliament need to do something about their wills Act precisely their intestate succession. It's too backward
That jasmine would have suffered greatly.
Even the Hospital wont allow her into his bedside for her to continue her nonsense.
She has no place in that marriage. So its so laughable.
That last fon record is so pathetic.. their acting denia has failed. 😂😂😂
Mr Ibu should divorce his wife and stop behaving as a dog who does not want a bone but holds on to it to prevent others from having it.
Why do men stop their wives from working only to punish them later on.
Women open your ears please. Have a career, a business of your own. Stop being totally dependent on men who will use you and dump yo for the next model.
Stellamaris could have learnt a craft and work from home, she chose no to. She has made her bed, if it no longer provides comfort and peace, wake up and smell the coffee.
Not true.
😂😂😂😂I laugh in Swahili, which Nigeria parliament 😂😂😂😂 they are busy buying bullet proof cars worth millions of naira, what concerns them with family matter, you funny oooo, ibu wife is idle woman, she us not working or trading, did she tell you that she don't her baby boy as her friend? Omo leave matter for Mathias.
I will prefer entrusting my life in the hand of any person i feel safe with than a wife I don’t have any atom of trust on.
He acted well,
Just like you said, they should dig the root of this on the reason why he prefers the adopted daughter over his wife.
She may not want to kill him, but there are issues that aren't clear about them.
I've been one of your silence subscribers for the past 2 years now. Always liking your videos... and this is my very first time commenting.
Thanks 😊 for commenting
Same here kkkk.She is indeed good ❤
This girl is shameless, how can you enter and destroy another woman's marriage.
Mr. Ibu is the one creating all of this mess. Total nonsense and irresponsible as a family head. The devil 👿👿👿 is in total control of Mr.Ibu. He will realize when the time comes.
our culture and traditions is polygamic in nature. Better take care of your husband and build a cordial relationship rather than accussing the devil. this devil do suffer shaaa
REMEMBER THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN STOP THIS DRAMA IS NOBODY BUT MR IBU REGARDLESS?
I met Mr ibu in 2018 and he was hitting on my friend nonstop it was so awkward.
Mr Ibu is a grown-up man, an adult who is still in his right sense. His marriage with Stella Maris is not even his first marriage. So he is grown as far as marriage is concerned and can make the right decisions for himself. Everyone on social media is talking from their own angle of view. He alone knows what is best for him.
I am very proud of you madam! You are just fantastic! Kudos!
I belong to the 2nd school of thought. That adopted daughter don pass her boundary.
Jasmine must find her own husband and practice that perfection in her own house
Can we see the adoption papers. This adoption sef, is Jasmine parentless 😂😂😂😂
This is main reasons why I love watching your videos because you're a very smart and well spoken woman, may God bless you sis, I blame the man he is the one that mess up his marriage and family for real, I will never take that foolishness, it is very sad that his wife is going through this😢😢😢😢😢, this girl should be jailed she will meet a match soon, I don't hate her but I just don't like her behavior towards this woman.Get well sir oh it pains me😢😢 to see our amazing super star like this oh lord 🙏 please come through.
Hello Neze,
You did well presenting the two scenarios and views without inserting your own idea or how you feel. I could see your stand only because I, too, would struggle the same way. The way we Africans view the union call marriage is a bit behind. In fact, we are competing with the Indians and some South Asians.
I saw the video sent the other day where Mr Ibu was Tell Srella off about Jasmin, and the way he showed frustration over over Stella representation surprised me.
Also, you are correct. Children of the first wife support the third woman, be it wife or not, in polygamous marriage. Whereas the problem isn't these women in the contest, the problem is the system. IAlso, I would say the problem isn't the man particularly in the equation but if the problem is tge system which is controlled my men and their view, I might maintain that men has questions to answer, whether extricasies or intricacies.
Worthy of north that Stella Marrys is a victim of the problem of similar women in Africa's descent. The same appearing the vlcentre of all. Men are too powerful according to our culture. Women in a marriage are the man's property. The way our society view the men is different to their women counterpart.
It felt so emotional the way you described Jasmin position being engineered by Mr Ibu and Stella incapacitated by Ibu. Those of us from Polagamous do really resonate.
We must do something about the position our condition is our tradition placed women.
My advice is, no matter how sweet, women should not be solely dependent on their husband.
Hummmmm. Wonders shall never end. This is a great lesson to every married women.
The law of carma will meet with you, Yasmin. I am very sure of this.
God is watching you.
Mr Ibu brought all these to himself
He should set his house in order and May God show him mercy
Every married women should learn a lesson from mr Ibu case and start working even if the husband is rich. Love is not gallantee because it can die at anytime as far as marriage is concern. Oga Mr please, please and please you will not die without rewriting your family's wrong . Please fix your home
Mr Ibu himself is a narcissist in my opinion and that explains everything
You are very right i think the same thing
Yes..very manipulative..they act funny in public but horrible inside..
I agree with you Neze that Mr Ibu should be blamed for all this drama in his family. Ibu and Jasmine denying their sexual relationship is not the issue. Of course, what do you expect his wife, Stella to say when she is being disrespected in her marriage if not that this two are having sexual relationship even if they are not. I pray God help them out of this issue.
Women should just learn how to be financially independent even as stay at home mum to avoid situations like this.
IN MY OWN OPINION, ONCE IBU RECOVERS HIS WIFE SHOULD START UP SOMETHING EITHER WORK OR BUSINESS. PERIOD. SHE HAS BEEN BENEFITING FROM JASMINE FINANCIALLY THAT IS WHY SHE SEE HER FINISH.. NOTHING LIKE BEEN FINANCIAL INDEPENDENT.
Mr Ibu need to set a healthy boundaries
U are blessed with wisdom Neze let Stella pick up her self and care for her children her feature will be blessed
Only God knows what Stella's role was in Ibu's first marriage. Stella Maris is not a wife, nothing is holding her,so she can leave the marriage. The first wife is still very much alive and thats the person Heaven recognises as wife. I rest my case here
Ibu did not legally married to those boys mother, be guided
Keep it up with the update.
Jasmine is wild and must step back for the marriage to work
Mr Ibu is abusing his wife mentally and emotionally. This is sad.
With dementia He is vulnerable and has no recollection of his wife or anybody 🙏
Jasmine's voice of debunking sounded guilty 😅😂😂😂
Very 😂😂😂😂😂
She’s guilty 😢
Mrs Ibu should get something doing and move forward
Leave Ibu and his adopted daughter.
Well, my own view is that you look beautiful and you're killing it😊... Nice presentation... my advise is that you should keep it up... God bless you...
I NO GET POWER TO DEY ADVISE WHO NO READY TO DO THINGS RIGHTLY...
I am so pained on how things are I wish things were well known before now however, let Mr. Ibu heal first.
So d way Mr IBU acts in movies is his real life story? I really feel for his wife 😢😢😢
When a man is guilty thats how he behaves. Mr. Ibu is behaving guilty
I can see you are more detailed on this video than the last one...seeing things from a different perspective.... well this interference from the adopted Daughter is a cause for concern ..you are the first person who is bringing this to light ..i guess this is woman supporting another woman
There is nothing Stella can do as long as Mr Ibu continues to misbehave, she should be very careful for her life. She should give them space, concentrate on her children, I bet you they will soon clash.
Stella's problem is simple, "LAZY"
Jasmine said the woman never worked in her life.
This is not the case of Mr Ibu telling her not to work and all that.
Another very important question is, why does it have to be now that there's accusations of her wanting the funds to buy a car and other stuffs that she suddenly realized that same Jasmine she was always calling for funds is a strange woman in her home?
And please explain to me what you mean by SHE WAS BUSY BUILDING A HOME WHILE HER HUSBAND WORKED when she couldn't keep her husband's love and attention, instead abandoned him to the hands of another woman who has now made the man very attractive and appealing.
Barr Neze there's only one truth here, that lady is lazy, else she wouldn't have accepted Jasmine from the onset. We all saw how May Edochie stood her ground and refused to accept Judy in her home instead she picked the pieces of her life and moved on, without fear of what happens to her because while she was building her home, she was also building her life, her confidence and self esteem and she was sure of who she was. Something I can say for Stella.
If Ibu says Jasmine stays, she can either accept her as she's done before or leave. Simple
A woman taking care of 4 children while her husband works is lazy and does not work?
Are you married?
With upto 4 children?
This is painful truth,,,, it’s different for us woman to accept some comments, but it’s 100% truth Mrs Ibu please move out work and at least take care of yourself.
True words spoken.she is too lazy.In Africa women even work under the sun with baby‘s on their backs.Stella is too lazy.for her it’s even easier to make it cause she is Mr.ibu okafor‘s wife.
The whole mr.ibu okafor family never liked her and she is still there..waiting for hands out from them to survive.mtcheew
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God bless you jareeh, ibu son is SA said that jasmine is his sister, that they grew up together.
Beautiful narrative story as you always do. Thanks for entertaining me.
Its only mr Ibu that can put his family together. The did has been done. My sister stella, a stitch in time sames nine. Look for something to do to make your own money. If you had means of livelihood no man will mess with you. Go to God in prayers and stop opening your mouth. A praying woman is a winning woman. May the almighty God fight your battle and put your enemies to shame in Jesus name.
Also Mr Ibu had earlier stated that he is no longer interested in his marriage to Stella Maris, there seems to be a lot of trust issues here
🤣😂🤣😂🥹suing who na? Abeg let them leave Jasmine alone. Mr. Ibu is being cared for and that’s what we want to be seeing.
Your words are calm, peaceful and deep for the first time i enjoyed a mature woman speak i mean a real who is not supporting evil kudos to u @Nezeville. Whomsoever supporting her may she witness same and to us men out there we can only lay on our bed same way we laid it, i pray for fast recovery but won't fail to say the first wife nemesis still roaming around. Jasmine can never be a better than StellaMaris same way StellaMaris can never be better than the first wife i come in peace
Secondly, i cherished and love your personality, spoken English and gesticulations in fact you have a sterling beauty for a good man to be with if it is garnished with good character.
The lines had been broken when she allowed him to absurdly have multiple outside children. Every relationship must have respect as a main ingredient.
I love this blogger❤❤❤ best bloger ever🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Adopted 'daughter' dimentia foods and stuff did the job for ultimate cash out with boyfriend from Ibu's video appearances. PRAY for Mr. John Okafor🤞
For the first narrative, I belong to the first school of thought.
For your second narrative, the second school of thought is it.
Your final analysis is very correct.
Please let us allow Mr Ibu get well and live.
Stella Maris compounds her problem by not developing herself. If she is not dependent on Mr Ibu for salt and pepper he would have have rest for her. These days no man want a full house wife. The woman is still young instead of asking for money everyday, she should ask for money to start a business. As for Jazmine, she knows better than to stand between a husband and wife. Karma is also waiting for her in the future.
If you watched the Daddy freeze interviews from there last drama the two eldest sons were backing Jazmin. They all said that the wife was greedy and she only only cared about money and not Mr IBU’s health. When all the donations started coming for him, the wife came on Daddy Freeze and then said they all made up. That move made her look greedy as they said. Also Daddy Freeze interviewed a family friend a day ago, and it was said that the two older sons were controlling the money not Jazmin.
Peace ! peace,!! get well soon Mr Ibu and fix this mess you have started, thank you.
Let Mr Ibu be abeg, I like this girl Jasmine and how beautiful she is inside and outside. The fact that she is creative and can make money is an added advantage to Ibu. Let Mr Ibu's wife change her ways and stop being money conscious
My prayer to God.
Please if, I'm bless to get married, bless my home with happiness. I don't go around married men, you can't be praying for peace of mind but you are a threate to someone happiness.
I don't see myself getting married to a man from a broken marriage, I rejected one in 2022😅. He was like , i don't want you as girlfriend, i want to married you but he couldn't tell me why is wife left him.
It is better to be a happy single woman, than to be a frustrated married woman.😢
Respectfully open to corrections 🎉
This whole thing is not clear to us the Ibos. Wife is wife !!
Children has feelings. He is not only hurting there mother but also them.
Love u so much madam Nez, u can make story so beautiful ❤
Our born lawyer, nice and very explicit. Thanks
The line includes privacy and trust.