Matt And Abby Have Always Been A Nightmare

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
  • Hey everyone and welcome to Matt And Abby Have Always Been A Nightmare

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  • @ammyrobinson9171
    @ammyrobinson9171  Месяц назад +86

    I am *soooooooo* sorry for the audio! Like I say my MIC wasn’t turned on so is effectively just a prop in this, I ran out of time today to re-film 😭 x

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Месяц назад +11

      I don't think I'd have even noticed!

    • @ammyrobinson9171
      @ammyrobinson9171  Месяц назад

      @@whims6278I’m so used to having a MIC now that it sounds really noticeable if it’s not being used 😅x

    • @Joy-qw3wm
      @Joy-qw3wm Месяц назад

      Ammy ,don`t worry ,it was fine.Just enjoying a new video whilst having a well earned cuppa:)

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Месяц назад +3

      Matt needs a nice red out fit..
      Hes a walking RED FLAG 😢

    • @julierichardson284
      @julierichardson284 29 дней назад +1

      Would be curious to know your thoughts in Connor and Liana? I feel torn because I feel like they are 2 genuinely lovely people but I dislike that they show so much of Koazy and almost have him perform for camera

  • @innocentnemesis3519
    @innocentnemesis3519 Месяц назад +641

    Matt ignoring his wife for two days right after she gave birth is what really made me dislike him. That’s literally the time you’re the most vulnerable as a woman, and he made it all about him as if he didn’t have 9mo to prepare for the second baby

    • @Anna-no8th
      @Anna-no8th Месяц назад +54

      that part makes me sick… she just HAD YOUR BABY!!! Says everything you need to know about him. ME ME ME

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Месяц назад +25

      Seriously. My partner who'd been by my side 24/7 for the first 5 days left to drive our 6yo to her granny's and I SOBBED because I felt so alone and abandoned (even though I wasn't lol) so I can't even imagine how she must have felt.

    • @jillr759
      @jillr759 Месяц назад +23

      That is such a narcissistic move he’s a text book version.

    • @SocietalNoob
      @SocietalNoob Месяц назад +23

      but he still takes the time to set up a camera and record his wife

    • @cazfloss1990
      @cazfloss1990 Месяц назад +26

      Don’t forget about the song he wrote, where he sang he missed the woman she was before having his children.
      What a charmer!

  • @izzywest6965
    @izzywest6965 Месяц назад +404

    He just feels so creepy? It’s not just that he’s speaking for her, but he’s also condescending her the entire time. She’s not a saint, but there’s something off about him.

    • @Tinkerbell-d3j
      @Tinkerbell-d3j Месяц назад +6

      Thank u

    • @sgough83
      @sgough83 Месяц назад +18

      She's afraid of him. I've gotten vibes of some form of ab*se. He's very narcissistic and I get such immature vibes.

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Месяц назад +14

      The way they have their own roles..
      Yet she seems to get the lions share of the work. Whilst he balances the books and video edits.
      I know for a fact Matt decided to leave the kids unattended.

    • @smbledsoe21
      @smbledsoe21 Месяц назад

      @@sgough83I thought I was the only one who thought this. He just gives major abusive asshole vibes

    • @Rumne
      @Rumne 20 дней назад +2

      @@sgough83what instances make you say she’s afraid of him? I believe you, just never saw that post personally 😅

  • @aliaelle322
    @aliaelle322 Месяц назад +293

    He also called c sections cheating. As in cheating real birth like a c section is easier. He said it on one of their podcasts.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад +35

      He has never seen a freaking youtube video about how many layers of body tissue they cut???? What does he think a c section is, is a very invasive procedure, thats why men should never make laws about women bodies ....men cry when they get the flue and axt like they arebp dying ans have you seen the videos on men screaming in pain for the period simulators and if women usd them they say """is nothing and they seem so unbother"

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Месяц назад +15

      Never had one never wanted one but the huge RISKS to C sections and post baby. She's risking everything because HE WOULD NOT USE PROTECTION.
      His videos are ME me My wife My wife his PROPERTY not Abby the person the mother.

    • @kittyroxs
      @kittyroxs Месяц назад

      Meh. I ended up needing a c section and it definitely felt like the easier option.

    • @strawberrymilk418
      @strawberrymilk418 29 дней назад +5

      Currently pregnant. Most women who have c sections require c sections. A lot of women feel guilty about needing a c section because they planned to give birth, some feel less about it. Being sliced opened while your hormones are all over the place and you’re awake while it’s happening is traumatic. He’s an idiot lol.

    • @emskeeeee
      @emskeeeee 27 дней назад +1

      Oh hell no.

  • @Wubbit_Reacts
    @Wubbit_Reacts Месяц назад +322

    “I did kinda combine the holidays” umm, Matt’s birthday isn’t a holiday 😂😂

    • @javanjunkindahouse6625
      @javanjunkindahouse6625 Месяц назад +14

      😂 I mean …fr

    • @MrsPete-mq4tv
      @MrsPete-mq4tv Месяц назад +15

      Exactly. As if he wasn’t a part of making the baby.

    • @nrmmom
      @nrmmom 29 дней назад +16

      And apparently they got back from a vacation that day too. Isn't that enough??

  • @whims6278
    @whims6278 Месяц назад +206

    My 1st daughter was over two weeks late, and came the day before her dads bday. He cried and said it was the best bday gift ever. Being upset that fathers day and your bday fall on the same day is just a bit self absorbed, and to then seemingly blame your pregnant spouse is just cruel. He just suuuuucks.

  • @MariaMartinez-er5se
    @MariaMartinez-er5se Месяц назад +175

    They both annoy me and seem immature for their ages, but Matt doesn't just annoy me he worries me. He is a giant walking red flag.

    • @AmysAttitude
      @AmysAttitude Месяц назад +13

      Absolutely. This dude screams creeper vibes.

  • @brookeswapp5871
    @brookeswapp5871 Месяц назад +164

    Matt is the biggest red flag ever. I would hate to be married to him. Being pregnant is so hard and so is postpartum. You won't need a man child being a jerk to you during it all.

    • @MrsPete-mq4tv
      @MrsPete-mq4tv Месяц назад +4

      Exactly. I hv 4 kids and my husband did his best when I had my last baby , but when he came to bring the 3 to see me when I had the last one I felt so bad with my daughter hair all over the place . I actually went home a day early and the nurses was very concerned. I ended up hvn bad postpartum and it was the worst feeling in the world. I went to a women’s group to help me and he was very supportive. Thank Goodness he was not like this Man Boy Bec we wld hv never made it. She needs to think about the future of her boys . She doesn’t want them to hv this sassy pants as a role model.

  • @ClurAvocado
    @ClurAvocado Месяц назад +253

    My prediction is he’s a corn addict. He’s hyper critical of his wife, commented on her “feeling” different and pressures her to be a certain size. Not using protection (loss of sensation/ probably pressured his wife to not use protection to “feel it” more) even when his wife was not ready for another child yet. Follow on signs; being self absorbed, needing validation, unhappy with life (ie his song/ nothing is ever enough for him) and the lack of empathy. He makes my spidey senses tingle, from my experience.

    • @EdenthelRei
      @EdenthelRei Месяц назад +31

      I believe they are Christian. He probably uses the "if it's God's will" excuse

    • @pineapple2681
      @pineapple2681 Месяц назад +25

      I think you’re on to something. My ex was exactly like Matt and yeah he was kind of a corn addict you can say

    • @currandero
      @currandero Месяц назад +11

      spot on, he absolutely is

    • @scoobydoo02
      @scoobydoo02 Месяц назад +4

      OMG so abhorrent

    • @marilyne4324
      @marilyne4324 27 дней назад +5

      And they used to have a really big friend circle. But now it's very small.
      Isolation is such a big sign of abuse.

  • @babycakes.
    @babycakes. Месяц назад +144

    the whole hospital tiktok made me pause doing my dishes and seethe with anger. YOURE NOT THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE MATT AND NOT EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE SHARED oh my days

    • @MrsPete-mq4tv
      @MrsPete-mq4tv Месяц назад

      It’s DISGUSTING. This shows how self centered and Narcissistic he actually is. Even when he told her there were times he wasn’t attracted to her… azz meet foot !!

  • @cherylmayers5236
    @cherylmayers5236 Месяц назад +151

    Your annoyance with Matt is absolutely justified! I don't believe I've ever heard of them before the cruise ship incident but I absolutely can't stand him and I don't buy their "explanation". It most definitely is all about HIM, the rant about Father's Day being the same day as his Birthday is about as childish as it gets, I think a lot of men would be honored.

    • @ammyrobinson9171
      @ammyrobinson9171  Месяц назад +11

      Yeah it’s so strange!! X

    • @cazfloss1990
      @cazfloss1990 Месяц назад +9

      I had my first on Mother’s Day. Best gift ever!

    • @sassycatenthusiast
      @sassycatenthusiast Месяц назад +7

      I’m a childless lady, but my birthday regularly falls on Father’s Day (in Aus it’s the first Sunday in September). I love it when I get to share my bday with my dad on Father’s Day, and afaik he’s never had an issue with it either.
      Matt is a POS and I worry for those two babies ❤

  • @JustAGirl8242
    @JustAGirl8242 Месяц назад +82

    Special shoutout to Matt taking on all of the bill/business responsibilities and makes Abby take on all of the kid responsibilities and then Matt doesn’t pay the water bill for 7 months and gets the water turned off!

  • @corazon7160
    @corazon7160 26 дней назад +46

    "taking care of my healing wife". Dind't he say in the podcast that he didn't talk to her for 2 days straight.
    And in these clips he made it look like he was really a loving and caring husband.
    What a liar

  • @vaneira5218
    @vaneira5218 Месяц назад +119

    I dont understand why it's so sad to have father's day and his birthday on the same day. Father's day falls ln my birthday sometimes, I am NOT a dad, and I enjoy sharing the day with my dad and grandpa.

    • @cazfloss1990
      @cazfloss1990 Месяц назад +5

      Because he’ll only be spoilt and the centre of attention for one day! Poor diddums.

    • @kaylabrown1873
      @kaylabrown1873 Месяц назад +2

      Me too, June 12 ! I always celebrated Father’s Day and my birthday together. I loved it, now my dad is passed and I wish I could again ❤.

    • @AmysAttitude
      @AmysAttitude Месяц назад +4

      You probably aren't a self absorbed narcissist then. 😉 Matt seems unable to get his attention off himself.

    • @thousandreasonswhynot
      @thousandreasonswhynot Месяц назад +1

      Lol I have been sharing my birthday with Labor Day every couple years or so my entire life 😂 what gets me is he is THIS OLD being bothered by something that's been true HIS ENTIRE LIFE. Also my son's birthday is close to mine and even at his age he isn't bothered at all, I can't really understand this guy at all

    • @thousandreasonswhynot
      @thousandreasonswhynot Месяц назад +1

      ​@@AmysAttitudeyeah there is definitely something to his personality that his self esteem must be really fragile or perhaps some kind of clinically diagnosable thing like you mentioned, dude should maybe see a therapist or read a book or something in my non expert opinion

  • @spaceybun
    @spaceybun Месяц назад +77

    3:53 they’re fkn 25 and 26-that’s not even unusually young for parents! the way people say “they’re young!!” I really thought they were like 20 and 21 (and still thought that was too old to neglect child safety)

    • @AndreaDiaz-rc3iy
      @AndreaDiaz-rc3iy Месяц назад +2

      I mean, for a lot of countries that’s still young, but still, no excuse

    • @Stephinachan13
      @Stephinachan13 Месяц назад +3

      I was 27 when I had my first, I barely wanted to leave the house alone (baby home with her very capable father), I personally just didn't want to be out doing things alone, evwn if it was just to get groceries or rum errands. During peak pandemic times so we tried to limit our daughter's exposure.
      Hearing/Seeing everything they say and do.... are they from another planet or just mentally stunted at like 10, cause non of it makes sense.

  • @just_katrina1065
    @just_katrina1065 Месяц назад +77

    As a fellow female, brit and kind of a human being I can say I fully support you in your disdain with that man. Maybe both, but definitely him 😤

    • @ammyrobinson9171
      @ammyrobinson9171  Месяц назад +7

      Amen 🙏 😆 x

    • @krystinaxxlea
      @krystinaxxlea Месяц назад +13

      As a female, American, human, and mother. I agree with both of you beautiful women. Dude needs help

    • @aenlen
      @aenlen Месяц назад +12

      As a fellow German woman without children, I also agree that Matt is the main problem.

  • @emmagardiner8890
    @emmagardiner8890 Месяц назад +45

    I never liked him. He always rubbed me the wrong way. He is absolutely a narcissist and they are only in it for the money. Abby isn’t as bad but she definitely has her faults. I think they absolutely left the kids alone. She has done it in the past. Announced in a video she was leaving the kid home alone while enjoying pizza at the neighbors house. It’s happened before and it will happen again, they just won’t be so stupid as to announce it as a “hack” next time around.

  • @sg3sara
    @sg3sara Месяц назад +42

    he says that a c-section is cheatong but then complains it feels different down there. he us just so cringy

  • @kimiak6886
    @kimiak6886 Месяц назад +42

    They are literally multiple millionaires. HIRE A TRAVELING BABYSITTER

  • @Anna-no8th
    @Anna-no8th Месяц назад +49

    They literally posted it themselves like it was a parenting hack and nowhere did it say that someone was watching them… these people makes me feel ill. Matt is the biggest walking ick I have ever come across. they are LYING

  • @robinholcombe4366
    @robinholcombe4366 Месяц назад +46

    Our first child (daughter) was born on my husband’s 21st birthday and he couldn’t have been happier!

    • @bunniie143
      @bunniie143 20 дней назад

      Thats because your husband is a man, not a selfish walking red flag.

  • @user-ux1ok7kr5i
    @user-ux1ok7kr5i Месяц назад +50

    don't forget the time he talked about how her who ha feels different after 2 kids and isn't the same YIKES

    • @EdenthelRei
      @EdenthelRei Месяц назад +1

      Yeah that shouldn't have been discussed publicly. But if your wife asks you a question you should answer honestly. She brought it up

    • @jerichonikolai
      @jerichonikolai Месяц назад +4

      First of all, who cares if it's different? YEAH A BABY CAME OUT ITS GONNA BE? if a man can't handle a different who ha he shouldn't be allowed to have kids imo

  • @CatCatCaat
    @CatCatCaat Месяц назад +42

    I am not wishing misfortune on others, but I can assure you these people will divorce in a few years when Abby realises how sh*tty matty is

  • @bdstairways
    @bdstairways Месяц назад +52

    They come across as two very young minded spoiled entitled individuals. They have a lot of growing up to do. And Matt gives me the ick too.

    • @EdenthelRei
      @EdenthelRei Месяц назад +1

      They've been together since teens. Never had to grow Learn or change for anyone

    • @AmysAttitude
      @AmysAttitude Месяц назад +1

      ​@@EdenthelReiThis is a parenting issue. They were raised and allowed to be this way.. it doesn't just develop out of nowhere.

    • @jerichonikolai
      @jerichonikolai Месяц назад +2

      ​@AmysAttitude yes! I'm guessing Matt's parents bailed him out of everything and Abby's sheltered her too much and didn't teach her what a good partner should do.

  • @rae_gem
    @rae_gem Месяц назад +40

    I don’t understand how they have such a big following. They act so immaturely. I saw another creator say that they felt like it was all for clicks and they’re just really committed to their bit, but it’s annoying to me.

  • @courtneyabbott9108
    @courtneyabbott9108 Месяц назад +57

    Let’s not forget Abby constantly telling us she workouts 5 days a week. She also body checks and makes sure everyone knows she is a size 0.

    • @LitcheTheArsm
      @LitcheTheArsm Месяц назад +7

      Thats so messed up.. 💔 not only is she harming herself but potentially triggering anyone who views their content

    • @chelseastacy6782
      @chelseastacy6782 Месяц назад

      Abby may be hot cuz shes skinny. In reality shes like a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10

    • @MSmith-su6zj
      @MSmith-su6zj Месяц назад +5

      She literally says she weighs "123 AND A HALF pounds" Nice healthy body positive outlook.

    • @Merrellina
      @Merrellina Месяц назад +1

      … she’s a size zero?

    • @tiegz9770
      @tiegz9770 Месяц назад +11

      She lost the weight waaay too quickly I feel like Matt pushed her to do it. I doubt it’s healthy

  • @leeleeg4267
    @leeleeg4267 Месяц назад +35

    Does anyone think abby feels like she has to work out cause Matt would not like it if she didn't? As in she needs to stay fit because the way he looks at her? And really they need to stop being on RUclips. So, much drama because of everything they do. oh and my goodness dude chill about birthday and father's day.

    • @tiegz9770
      @tiegz9770 Месяц назад +11

      Absolutely. He even bought her workout clothes as a “gift” that was too small for her. Like he wanted to get back to that size. She lost a lot of weight very quickly and I’m sure it’s to do with Matt. He is all about exterior

  • @christieoneill4277
    @christieoneill4277 Месяц назад +24

    He's too selfish to be a father.

  • @tigerkitten8352
    @tigerkitten8352 Месяц назад +16

    I HATE matt. He is a POS, a TERRIBLE father and the WORST husband. Abby needs to leave him so desperately. She will. I guarantee she will divorce him by 30.

  • @Joy-qw3wm
    @Joy-qw3wm Месяц назад +22

    Wait ,they sleep in separate rooms??!! So ,basically she`s the nanny ,house maid ,whilst he continues as normal!God forbid he should lose out in any way ,shape or form!! I wouldn`t last a month with this manchild ,and that`s being generous!

    • @chancyross9126
      @chancyross9126 27 дней назад

      They slept in separate rooms for the first 6 wks of each baby to allow Abby to sleep. He took the night shift because she was feeding every 2-3 hours through the day.

  • @HollisterDenimDress
    @HollisterDenimDress Месяц назад +36

    I can’t stand either of them.

    • @ashleyr.6953
      @ashleyr.6953 16 дней назад +1

      Me neither. They both are selfish but in different areas.

  • @thisisit2082
    @thisisit2082 Месяц назад +18

    Another content creator (I'm sorry, I don't remember who) has clips of just how horrible, mediocre, and stupid this Matt dude is. He had one duty in the house, paying the water bill. Didn't pay it for six months, and their water was shut off. He didn't call them. He didn't set up an online account to do auto pay. Nothing. It got so bad that Abby had to do a TT to justify it when in the initial clip, she looked so defeated. Her parents had to move in with them to help her. That tells you everything.

  • @smprobst
    @smprobst 29 дней назад +8

    Being a young parent isn’t an excuse, I had my first child at 19 (while my husband was in boot camp and didn’t get to meet our son until he was 7 months old), second child at 20, and third child at 22. I would never dream of acting how they’re acting. My youngest was born the day after my husband’s birthday, I was in labor during his birthday and he was hoping she’d come on his birthday. He wasn’t upset that we couldn’t celebrate his birthday the way he wanted because we had to go to the hospital. I cant fathom being with someone so self absorbed that their wife is second place over himself.

  • @phiz8092
    @phiz8092 Месяц назад +23

    He is just gross I can’t watch him lmao all he does is complain

  • @gardenj59
    @gardenj59 Месяц назад +24

    9:27 no freaking way he just did a heal click to THAT I really despise him. I fear for Abby

  • @itsmemaggie8886
    @itsmemaggie8886 29 дней назад +5

    It’s really nice seeing a young mom talk about this, age isn’t an excuse for abandoning your baby,just because you’re young doesn’t mean you didn’t know what you were setting up for. It doesn’t change the fact that the child is helpless and needs to be watched over 24/7

  • @rosamaria4u
    @rosamaria4u Месяц назад +14

    He doesnt seem at all happy that hes a father, that he has children..which grown conscious adult makes a big deal about their birthday n father's day being on the same day? 😅

  • @seradeanmcforston
    @seradeanmcforston Месяц назад +10

    I 100% think that Matt actively dislikes Abby. He is just staying with her because their channel is how he makes money and he knows if he had his own channel, no one would watch it.

  • @jenniferbueller6761
    @jenniferbueller6761 Месяц назад +11

    With regard to breast-feeding in the first few days, Matt is so uneducated. First of all the baby is not hungry the first few days of life. They are born with extra fluid and naturally shed up to 10% of their body weight during the first 48 hours so they are not dehydrated nor are they “hungry “. If he wanted her milk to come in, then he should have had her only work to latch the baby and not introduce formula. All decent hospitals have lactation consultants that can come in and work with new moms to help babies latch and get breast-feeding off to a good start. I breast-fed all my children for approximately two years each. The beginning was rough with my first and I had a lactation consultants come and help me more than once. And with my third baby, he was not gaining enough weight and in order to keep my milk production high, we breast-fed at every feed, and then supplemented with 1 ounce of formula afterwards until he was at a healthy weight and my milk had come in enough. You don’t have to know everything when you have a baby, but you do need to trust the experts and not think that your own theories of what’s best for baby are correct.

  • @Stephinachan13
    @Stephinachan13 Месяц назад +7

    "They are young parents they are learning"
    Last i checked there are 12year old who babysit and know not to learn baby alone and have more common sense then M&A combined . . So try again 😂

  • @petitepersianperspective3468
    @petitepersianperspective3468 Месяц назад +12

    I feel sad for Abby. Not a fan of either of them but Matt is an asshole and she just has to accept it. I can easily see these two divorcing once Abby hits 30-35!
    Oh, and I had my oldest two children at 20 and 22 also. Being young is NOT an excuse to be a negligent parent.

  • @elizabethankers7005
    @elizabethankers7005 Месяц назад +3

    As someone with older twin brothers that have their birthday one day before mine, the problem with "combining of the holidays" is crazy to me. Your birthday isn't a holiday to anyone besides your family. I grew up celebrating all three birthdays at once. Our parents always gave us the choice to celebrate separately but when we were little it was fun to have a big party all together and bow that I'm older, I don't need a full day to celebrate my birthday. A dinner and a few presents are plenty and could absolutely be combined into another holiday. With family all over, its not uncommon for us to combine fall birthdays with Thanksgiving when we are together, etc. Celebrating Father's Day and a birthday together sounds very normal to me, especially to a grown adult. I know other people have different birthday traditions but for his pregant wife to feel that she "failed" him for not separating the days is so self-centered and crazy to me.

  • @julierichardson284
    @julierichardson284 29 дней назад +6

    The stuff about them butting heads over breastfeeding really annoyed me. Lots of babies cry and fuss when theu are a couple of days old and breastfeeding takes time to establish. She didnt need him undermining her and then telling the internet all about it. She needed his support and reassurance

    • @bunniie143
      @bunniie143 20 дней назад +2

      ...also thats insanely private. She needed him to protect those private moments instead of posting it for everyone and their mom to form opinions on.

  • @RachelIlacqua14
    @RachelIlacqua14 Месяц назад +5

    Boo hoo my birthday often falls on Mother’s Day and if anything I feel honored to share my birthday with the strongest, most resilient, caring and awesome mothers that I know and look up too!!!

  • @onceuponamelody
    @onceuponamelody Месяц назад +3

    Girl, I also uploaded a video recently with my mic not working. The struggle is real. I could hear you fine, though, and these two are both INSUFFERABLE.

  • @krabby2010
    @krabby2010 20 дней назад

    new subscriber! love your take on young parents who, in my experience, are some of the most caring and cautious parents out there. they get a bad rep!

  • @CatCatCaat
    @CatCatCaat Месяц назад +6

    How many more cancellations and things coming out until they are cancelled? I am so tired of them and family vloggers in general

  • @9eyeswideopen
    @9eyeswideopen Месяц назад +5

    I’d dare say if it was anything Matt wanted to do music etc he’d put up with it because his doing what HE WANTS to do.
    In time Abby will look back and see all the 🚩 she’s put up with. I hope for her sake and the children she wakes up to his behaviour before she has the burden of more children.

  • @Tacoheart
    @Tacoheart Месяц назад +6

    They been together since they were legit kids. It’s all they know lol all she knows 😅 think that says a lot

  • @CassilovesMocha
    @CassilovesMocha Месяц назад +5

    I never understand people who complain about having to stay for 48 hrs. Yeah it's not a resort, and the food sucks but it's a precaution for the safety of your partner and child.
    But I had my daughter vaginally and still had to stay for 48 hours.

  • @Tempted_Lotus
    @Tempted_Lotus Месяц назад +2

    Her looking at him after every few words/sentences gives the feel of looking for approval could just be me but it's weird that they have to look at each other, rather than addressing the "audience"

  • @nataliesansone8687
    @nataliesansone8687 Месяц назад +8

    I said to myself today that Matt and Abby are giving a bad name to young parents. Just because I had my son at 21, doesn’t meant that I would ever leave him unattended.

  • @tiffanymcdonald1902
    @tiffanymcdonald1902 16 дней назад +1

    It still baffles me even after all of these years that this is what humans do with their time. Spending their precious time, which does run out eventually by the way . investing their emotions and opinions in complete strangers who offer nothing to your life, not even some sort of talent ( acting, music, comedy, etc). Number one, nobody is perfect, and number two, Matt and Abby are opening their precious lives and children to the world when you should be protecting it with your whole soul. Focus on who's next to you ,not who's in your phone. You will actually find peace.

  • @mareekatz
    @mareekatz 29 дней назад

    I had my first baby at 18 !!!!! Don't get me started !!!! Thanks for this video Ammy.✌️❤️

  • @MrsPete-mq4tv
    @MrsPete-mq4tv Месяц назад +4

    This dude is a real card!!! My husband’s Birthday is the week before Fathers Day and NEVER HAS HE COMPLAINED ABOUT IT. This Cat wldnt be a Father if she didn’t make him one. The Level of chop him in the throat !!! It’s sickening to hear him act like a CHILD AND OFFENSIVE TO HER. There is no way . I wld hv dropped the fkn Mic and walked off. How dare you complain ABOUT SOMETHING YOU HAD A CHOICE IN!!!

  • @kaylaarnold687
    @kaylaarnold687 Месяц назад +8

    New follower - love your content!

  • @Tinkerbell-d3j
    @Tinkerbell-d3j Месяц назад +4

    Most of their videos/short it all about matt abby needs to open her eyes and divorce him

  • @toriladybird511
    @toriladybird511 Месяц назад +4

    " the physical pain" WHAT PAIN did he suffer? Lack of sleep boo blooming hoo she had a C section and shes nursing.
    Whats he gotta do diaper changes and fetching Abby food and water and assistung her to sit stand lie down and get to the toilet.

  • @hideflen6078
    @hideflen6078 Месяц назад +1

    Rant away-you’re so right!

  • @ednakravitz2738
    @ednakravitz2738 15 дней назад +2

    Abby is very likable

  • @jillb3072
    @jillb3072 Месяц назад +1

    She probably didn’t voice her pain in fear of her husband! I have seen this as an anesthesiologist and checking my c-section patients quite a bit or a member of my team, I’ve had one myself under general, and it’s MAJOR surgery. Which post op on the ward your vitals and the baby’s will be checked hourly up to 12 hours. On the LD ward I was on, we had a public shower for partners to use, as they can’t use the full bathroom in post delivery rooms, because of infection risk to the one’s who just have given birth. As well we have waterless shampoo, conditioner and packs of body wipes meant for all of the body, and antiseptic packs for pre and post op patients to freshen up and this is in Canada, not a probably private Hospital (by the look of the amenities that the hospital had and I worked in the USA for almost 10 years after med school!

  • @otdtyh
    @otdtyh 20 дней назад

    the way he calls her "my wife" more than Abby makes me want to screech.

  • @kimymarie596
    @kimymarie596 Месяц назад +1

    Mother’s Day baby here! He’s such a sook

  • @thathobbitlife
    @thathobbitlife 18 дней назад +2

    Dude. Omg. baby's stomache is the size of their fist- like a little bigger then a GRAPE and they cant drink MILK yet! The mother starts producing colostrum, the yellow pre milk golden miricle liquid- it gives baby all the good biotics and antibodies and all the important things they need immediatly. After a few days moms milk willcome in, and babys tummy grows with the supply. Their need/demand drives the supply mom makes.

  • @bunnywar
    @bunnywar Месяц назад +1

    The video of him being reckless with the baby really got on my nerves, before that there was the way he talked when they found out she was pregnant again. I haven't watched a lot of their stuff because the stuff pushed by yt made me uncomfortable

  • @nowistime8070
    @nowistime8070 Месяц назад +2

    I agree with everything you said. and I dont have children

  • @lauraclark7497
    @lauraclark7497 Месяц назад +11

    So Abby has quite a few problems herself. She was acting like a baby because Matt put too many ice cubes in her water glass after he had surgery and he was trying to take care of the baby, clean, and wait on her. She took a nap, and Matt let her sleep and when she got up, she had a fit he let her sleep because people would think bad of her. She is always putting him down on camera saying things like can't you stop that or telling people personal stuff about him. Then she moves her parents in, that has to be hard living with your in-laws. But the worst was when she was pregnant with their 2nd child and they went to visit Matt's family. Her sister-in-law just told everyone she was pregnant and Matt and Abby had to also announce their 2nd pregnancy right then also. I mean let the poor girl have some of the limelight for her first just like you had. Wait a day or two.

    • @toriholmes1923
      @toriholmes1923 Месяц назад +12

      The Ice cube situation was just after Abby had had surgery and Matt was filming it trying to get a rise out of her when she clearly wasn't in the best state of mind.

    • @jerichonikolai
      @jerichonikolai Месяц назад +6

      Okay to be fair the surgery bit, she was on some heavy meds and none of that should be filmed. She was in pain. People act differently when in pain. I've said some horrible things (very childish and mean) after I've had surgery. Esp recovering with medication. She's childish otherwise but focusing on that situation is sort of wrong because on medication is just a whole different can of worms.

    • @sgough83
      @sgough83 Месяц назад

      @@toriholmes1923hernia surgery

    • @8bitky43
      @8bitky43 26 дней назад +1

      ​@@jerichonikolaiand her moving her parents in was because Matt had literally one job of paying the water bill and completely forgot until it shut off. They needed a lot of help because he couldnt step up.

  • @bunniie143
    @bunniie143 20 дней назад +1

    From my understanding, they've been together since they were kids basically. Abby doesn't know life without him. She needs to. It's hard not to believe that hes fully in control and shes just trying to keep everything together.
    I could be wrong, but the root of the issues all seem to stem from Matt. She doesn't really seem to have a voice or interests that can't be traced back to his criticisms.

  • @melissareynolds6520
    @melissareynolds6520 Месяц назад +1

    Are people forgetting that family was there and were also ok with leaving their grandkids alone. I can't imagine bei g ok with that!

  • @Kknderbueno
    @Kknderbueno 19 дней назад

    I would feel so betrayed and unsafe if my husband behaved the way Matt did during Abby’s birth/hospital stay. I don’t know how you could trust your spouse again.
    I want to know/feel that no matter what personal or relationship issues are happening, my spouse and I know when something is more important and all the other issues need to be set aside. I feel confident now that literally anything could be happening with my husband but if I’m in hospital and need him, he will be there for me. When you plan to spend life together, all the other stuff can wait.
    I think Matt’s whole “omg my whole life is going to change” is a totally normal thought. But he dealt with it totally inappropriately.

  • @sgough83
    @sgough83 Месяц назад +1

    I believe she didn't want to vlog her second child's birth. Somehow it happened anyway. Matt's doing

  • @shellydavis855
    @shellydavis855 22 дня назад +1

    Abby looks dead inside

  • @Wereagreatbunch
    @Wereagreatbunch 27 дней назад

    I was 18 when I had my first son, just a month before my 19th birthday.
    I was alone. I had gotten an apartment while pregnant with hand me down furniture. Had the baby blues for a week straight. Trouble breast feeding. A very fussy baby that woke me every two hours. The stress Abby’s body went through is just crazy. I didn’t have a c-section but have had my appendix out & that was painful.
    Matt is a selfish, self centred man child. I do not like this couple but I have empathy for Abby. You can tell she’s insecure. Shes pretty & could find a much better man than him. One that is sympathetic to her needs. The changes & all the stuff that comes along with having a baby I’m sure Abby wanted 5 showers & her own bed more than Matt.
    This man is narcissistic & it seems like having a child is an inconvenience to him. It ruined Father’s Day for him too. Waaaa waaaa ,poor pathetic Matt

  • @persephoneosander5421
    @persephoneosander5421 Месяц назад +1

    They also got pregnant the second time bc neither of them knew she could get pregnant while BF a baby

  • @janetsavoy6677
    @janetsavoy6677 20 дней назад

    I sincerely believe that they were waaaay too young to get married!

  • @trusha_tungare
    @trusha_tungare 22 дня назад

    He will one day cheat on his wife and get caught and then make a messy apology video saying "god has forgiven me"! This is my prediction😂 Mark my words! Gonna happen 💯

  • @MileyObsession96
    @MileyObsession96 27 дней назад

    The annoying this is I used to watch and love their videos, they radiated positive vibes for me at the time (either they weren’t always problematic, or because of my mental health and own issues, it was “positive” energy for me at the time) and I’m sure I watched them for a few years, just over a year something like that? I loved the never have I ever videos, the like main channel videos, the q&a’s, they just gave off “best couple” vibes at the time for me. I was so happy when she got pregnant, I even predicted she was having a boy, and then all of a sudden, about a year or so went by and I never watched? Same with the second kid, I barely watched the pregnancy stuff, so unless they hid more off camera and they seemed good at the time and then the pregnancy thing kinda showed their (mainly his) true colours and I couldn’t watch anymore or whatever I don’t know but I swear I remember thinking they were the best people ever. I don’t know what happened? I’m gonna assume like I said it’s potentially that pre-baby/pre-parenthood, they could hide a bit more or Matt showed more “authenticity” because Abby was always saying that he was always complimenting her, always reassuring her, giving her what she needs without asking, this and that in the q&a’s and she was always so appreciative of him, so what changed? The babies? Did I just suddenly wake up one day? I don’t know but I’ve not watched them properly since before their first kid, around the time they started renting/renovating a home kinda thing and doing some kinda Airbnb thing, setting up the nursery and all that was when I was watching, so maybe like 2022? It’s so weird to think that one day you can go from “omg best couple ever” to “woah, what the heck is this, this is actually disgraceful” and it makes sense as to why I stopped watching but the fact that I was even a Matt and Abby fan in the first place baffles me. It’s giving Miley Cyrus and Liam hemsworth vibes, I was so happy when they got married and sad when divorced, and then as I got older realised their whole relationship was toxic and I remember wanting her to have kids with him.

  • @robertsmithisrad
    @robertsmithisrad 24 дня назад

    it's also SO worrying that all their comment sections are flooded with people idolising their relationship, and praising Matt for being such a sweet and supportive husband when he's literally doing THE BARE MINIMUM and not even that most of the time 😐

  • @Be_An_Esther
    @Be_An_Esther 29 дней назад +1

    What he does to abby is mental cruelty/abvse. Hope she leaves him

  • @Polish_Spaghetti_Mama
    @Polish_Spaghetti_Mama 24 дня назад

    Jeesh. The way he’s narrating this video it’s almost like he’s the one that gave birth 😅😅😅

  • @mm7365
    @mm7365 18 дней назад

    If family was there, show pictures of them on the cruise with you

  • @JustAGirl8242
    @JustAGirl8242 Месяц назад

    you are so right!!!

  • @owkwqaqw3721
    @owkwqaqw3721 Месяц назад +4

    You are so beautiful!

  • @tgrey4827
    @tgrey4827 18 дней назад

    Just colostrum is enough, and in fact exactly what the baby needs until the milk comes in! Freaking out and stressing your wife out while she is trying to get to know and build the nursing relationship with a new baby is so deeply stupid and infuriating.

  • @janetciminello9599
    @janetciminello9599 Месяц назад

    First time here. I enjoyed your rant

  • @heezypeasy8611
    @heezypeasy8611 6 дней назад

    Matt is gross and so full of himself. He has always been super creepy to me, and i truly don't believe he has any redeeming qualities.

  • @moxiemedia4350
    @moxiemedia4350 15 дней назад

    I think their youtube popularity triggered? narcissist behavior and mindset. Where did his empathy go? When did his resentment and misogyny start revealing itself? I don't remember him being like this in the beginning.

  • @skyt3265
    @skyt3265 Месяц назад +3

    they both suck but I feel bad for Abby becsuse of him

  • @tutu3909
    @tutu3909 Месяц назад +3

    Men ☕️

  • @loisruhl764
    @loisruhl764 25 дней назад

    Well. A real man and human being would suck it up for birthday and Father's day for his kids and family because those events always come and go but your family is most important and loving them. Making sure you are taken care of is just as important. The family also supports and takes care of the man. I just throw holidays out the window anyway because they come and go, seasons change, and who is always there, family, as long as you are caring for them, and keeping them with you. Holidays are a luxury and my family didn't have that. Being grateful for what you have is a basic quality. My dad didn't see that and the manchild behavior, the bachelor behavior is gonna continue depression and internal struggling because the attitude to change is not there.

  • @shellydavis855
    @shellydavis855 22 дня назад

    You know this relationship is soooooo fucking bad behind closed doors

  • @reneecailloux2573
    @reneecailloux2573 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Ammy! Don't get me wrong, That guy makes me cringe at best. Here's what I want to say, You and I are not the target audience. I can see young people, late teens, early 20s as the target audience. For us, they are just very self centered but they might be useful for this specific audience who dives into life without one afterthought and this young couple shows them what to expect. when he says how he feels, other young guys will hear them and might not lose it when they become dads. Again, I am not saying that I like the dynamic in the couple ... Let me know what you think.

    • @notcomplicated000
      @notcomplicated000 29 дней назад

      I agree with you. I've watch them a few times before all this drama and I thought wow how refreshing. I can't believe YT is blowing up and being so critical of them. I think it takes a lot to open your life up to social media and they are just being vulnerable and unfiltered. But for those who don't like them or feel bad for Abby, they just don't get their videos. I wish people would leave them alone

  • @chancyross9126
    @chancyross9126 27 дней назад

    They slept in separate bedrooms to allow to Abby to sleep. He got up with the baby at night. He’s just being brutally honest about his feelings. Everyone struggles with life’s transitions. Sure, they’ve made mistakes. Sure, he may not always say things the “right” way, but I think this judgement is highly critical, because from people that don’t know them personally. I guarantee if we all put our lives out there like they do, people would find things to crucify each and every one of us over. However, I do feel like the whole Father’s Day thing is immature. Most men wouldn’t give this is a second thought. As parents, we all get 2 days a year that’s about us, birthdays and Mother’s/Father’s Day. I can understand wanted to have 2 separate days, it’s just not as important to some. I feel like if a woman said this it would be received very different. Idk, in the grand scheme of things, it just seems very harsh.

  • @MrsPete-mq4tv
    @MrsPete-mq4tv Месяц назад

    This dude is a real card!!! My husband’s Birthday is the week before Fathers Day and NEVER HAS HE COMPLAINED ABOUT IT. This Cat wldnt be a Father if she didn’t make him one. The Level of chop him in the throat !!! It’s sickening to hear him act like a CHILD AND OFFENSIVE TO HER. There is no way . I wld hv dropped the fkn Mic and walked off. How dare you complain ABOUT SOMETHING YOU HAD A CHOICE IN!!!The excuse about them being young and learning is bullshyt. You LEARN WITH THE FIRST KID . You shld know by the second . Just like the Luvs commercial lmao

  • @nataliekate2176
    @nataliekate2176 Месяц назад +1

    These two are the worst

  • @kristenhlady4079
    @kristenhlady4079 Месяц назад +2

    6:39 everyone Matt speaks I want to drink 🤬

  • @kaylans.6638
    @kaylans.6638 Месяц назад +1

    Okay all im gonna say is i dont feel bad for abby she defends him and what he posts she has said she sees what hes gonna post before he does it. And the way their marriage is is on both of them. If youre gonna defend your husbands bad actions then youre just as bad

  • @MeezCheese
    @MeezCheese 29 дней назад

    I think all of this rage bait. They know exactly what they’re doing and it’s making them a ton of money.

  • @Light-tc8xc
    @Light-tc8xc Месяц назад

    Omg, did they really wear white? At this point, that’s just poking fun at the apology.

  • @isabelfernandes778
    @isabelfernandes778 Месяц назад

    💜💜💜