@@AmberScholley I know you may not see this but could you do a collab with Colby Brock? (Not a ship!) just you guys are so funny and a iconic duo! If not it’s totally fine again you may not see this lol so it’s ok! Ofc 😅 LOVE UR VIDEOS BTW!❤ they make my day! Love xoxo!
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please) So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤ Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse. Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please) So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤ Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse. Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
You are the reason I started caring about my body rather than if it looked good. You have helped me in so many ways you have no idea. Please never stop doing what you do 💚
@@AmberScholldon't make an onlyfans. It isn't funny, it's a serious situation and website that some girls have to resort to, don't make a joke out of it.
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please) So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤ Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse. Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
Girl you’re so real and I love that. You’re honest and you own your shit. So refreshing to see an influencer that actually influences people in a graceful yet powerful way💜
The part about the stretch marks answer, made me cry so hard. I don’t have stretch marks but I have self harm scars all over my body. And at 22 It’s hard to look at my own body at times. But. You helped me look at it through another lens, and for that, I’m so grateful. Thank you Amber.
I have a few self harm scars from a few years ago and when I see them they remind me of what my mental state was. But like Amber said, we are art! Even though we have scars, it prove that we struggled and made it through. It gets tough, but we are strong enough to make it. You are a gorgeous being! :D
@@glowcherryblossoms4241 I covered most of my SH scars with tattoos, but even now, when I get them accidentally I’m like “F*UCK YEAH! I GOT THESE ON AN ADVENTURE!” And it turns into a badge of honor from a funny/crazy memory, it’s kinda like the joker… im like “YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I GOT THESE SCARS?!… no seriously… do you? It’s a really funny story”
I love that amber is so open to girl talk. like shes the type of girl that would give the best advice, and would help you out with ANYTHING ambers the kinda girl that i would LOVE to have sleepovers with ❤❤
Don't worry you're not the only one who thought they might be pregnant even when it wasn't possible. When I first started my period it was severely irregular and I once didn't have my period for 2 months, I thought I was pregnant for a few seconds but then straight away I realised, "of course I can't be pregnant, I haven't had sex". So yeah not alone.
This is the most embarrassing thing I’ll ever post on the internet…. when I was a teen thought I was pregnant because my brother and I shared a bathroom 😭🤦🏻♀️…. I was very sheltered okay?
SAMEE. When I was a teen I hated my period extremely, so when it was late I was happy but then started getting worried after 2 months and no sign of it coming. At that point I was literally hoping for it to come because I was so concerned. I usually told my mom whenever my period started every month, so when I kept saying it didn’t come yet, she was getting increasingly worried. She scheduled a doctors appointment and before we left the house- she asked THE question if I participated in intercourse and told me to tell the truth because she’ll know the truth once we get there anyways. I was terrified (since my family never talked about the topic of boys and avoided it, so it was very straight up), me, being the young child thought “I’ve never done it before, but is it possible to get pregnant from just touching yourself?” And was stressing over whether I should tell her that part despite not sleeping with anyone before. In the end, I chose to just say no. When we got there, the doctor just casually said “oh yeah that’s normal at that age, very common.” And my mom was relieved while laughing and said “ohh! That makes sense, cause I asked her if she’s done it before- and obviously she didn’t!” We never spoke of the incident again 😂
I have the "You are art" necklace and I swear your energy rubs onto me every time I wear it and I love it! Following on that, I recently got two nude paintings of mine comissioned by a very talented female artist that precisely, loves to empower women through her work, presenting all of us as goddesses, leaving any beauty standards out of the equation. Thank you, Amber, for inspiring me to love myself. 💚✨
I swear any content you make it doesn’t matter how absurd, how magical or legit ANYTHING! I am soooo quick to just click and watch it. Its your energy that pulls me in you freaking angel ♥️
@AmberScholld on't make an onlyfans. It isn't funny, it's a serious situation and website that some girls have to resort to, don't make a joke out of it.
You have helped me feel confident in my body! You have also taught me multiple lessons on how to treat myself better rather than to just do what others want and expect of me. Thank you for that amber, love you!❤
Your quote to believe in yourself “ah what if it does” pushed me to fully transition, and never settle. Now i have the best BF and we just bought my actual dreamhouse waterfront cottage together :) live and chase your fairytale
For the person at 1:38 I lost my virginity (well I would say my first time ever bc I don't believe in the concept of virginity) at 28 yo, it was amazing and you know why? Bc I never had sex pressured by society and never did what others expected, for many people's concern I'm still pretty virgin and for many they think I "lose" it a long time ago, idc what everybody say. YOU DO YOU, have sex is always about concent, caring and information. You are doing amazing sweety.
I wanna contribute too! I lost it at 25 (33 today) with a close friend of mine (not a lover) and I honestly wouldn't have done it earlier. I felt safe, respected, supported and cherished. I took my time to make proper research about every doubt I had and to ask around without being pushed. 10/10 recommend following your own intuition.
I was 18, I had been out of high school for about a year. I did it when I felt ready, and I don’t ever regret it. I never listened to anyone, I just said one day “okay, this is something I’d like to try”. It’s been a long time but I lost my virginity to someone who was kind, patient, lovely, and I felt safe with. He’s passed now sadly, but I still remember my first time as a very special and intimate memory and glad I waited until I felt ready.
I’m glad to have read this comment, and I love how she talked about this in the video. I used to be ashamed of never having sex with someone before, but then I realized there’s no rush for it, and society glorifies it and makes it seem like you’re missing out on life if you’re not doing it. I’ve been pressured into certain sexual things in the past and now I think to myself ‘Thank god that person wasn’t my first,’ they wouldn’t have deserved that. Always remember that you shouldn’t feel pressured, you should feel safe, and it should be consensual!!
Been a fan for quite a few years and seeing honest videos like this show how far you have come. I feel that you have helped whoever is in your community grow and it has been great to see. Also- proud to support 333 & co. The quality is great and so is customer service. My bf had gone back and forth with size issues for an anniversary gift but all is right and I love my ring and hope we helped you get something extra for the skycastle!
amber i love you so much i have been watching your videos since i was properly 11 im 16 now. you have changed the way i look at life. i hated my body for so long and you made me look at it differently and i was depressed too for like 3 years i just wanted to end it all put your videos really help me . Thank you so much💞💞
Amber is the big sister I never got. She brings me so much comfort!! I have a close relationship with my mom, but so many of these things I would never feel comfortable talking with her. I also have a hard time making close friends. So sincerely thank you Amber for all that you do and all the comfort you bring to those who need a friend
I miss these kind of videos where you just chill and talk to us. I've been watching you for a very long time and it always make me feel like I'm talking to a lifelong friend ❤ I'm currently going through an unknown phase where I have no idea where my head at and the feeling of an incoming change, hopefully a good one. Just wanted to share, I love you 🦋
Thank you for being you and being on this planet the same time I am here. I have always hated myself and felt like a waste of space and you’ve taught me my own uniqueness is okay and words can literally kill you or make you have a better view. It’s hard but I try everyday to be kinder to myself and laugh at myself more
life is just so hard right now but after watching your vids u always make me remember that i’m the magic in my life 💗 ilysm amber thank you for existing
it’s so nice to see someone who’s so body positive and just be a overall amazing person . you really do give the best advice and i don’t think you’ll ever know how many people who’s confidence or self esteem you’ve helped just by your vids ❤
Amber you have no idea how your words could save a life and create new and magical perspectives in life. i love you and your vids never stop inspiring people please❤
I really loved this video. I’ve been watching your videos since forever but in this video I don’t know …it feels like you have grown into yourself and it’s really wonderful see. Love your content and can’t wait to see the sky castle progress ❤
girl you are literally my CHILDHOOOODDD I grew up with you and I’m so grateful that you are still making content. Keep doing what your doing and don’t stop !! Xoxo 💋
when you talked about making sure not to settle for things. Because for the longest time, especially with men, I struggled with having standards for them. And then I did and made sure that I was confident in what I wanted and now I am dating the literal dream man. Thanks for the encouragement. You helped me out girl!
Your makeup always looks phenomenal but this eye makeup is literal perfection🙌🏽❤️ and yes, when I was a virgin I had many pregnancy scares. Period would be late like a week and I'd be like oh no 😔
Giiiiirl I struggle so much with my body image and my scars and hearing you talk about them like they make me wo I am brought tears to my eyes because I literally JUST started seeing them that way (I'm almost 30)
I’ve never thought about my body in the way you just perfectly said it. I love that! What a wonderful way to start thinking about our bodies in the way you described. I make sure I continuously speak kindly to my (inner) self, but, I rarely look at my body with that same kindness. I will definitely start looking at myself with that same mindset. That’s a great analogy of comparing our bodies to the lives, history and memories of who we truly are. Also, for you younger girls, the kind of ladies you want as your friends have never thought any of the negative things you have thought about your yourself-because they are focused on their own body image insecurities-so BUILD EACH OTHER UP! _Always!_ If your gal pals tell you that you look fire in them jeans and yellow is your color, they are telling you the truth, so listen to your (*true*) friends’ compliments, listen to Amber’s advice and remember, there’s always someone out there who believes you 🫵🏼 are prettier than they are. And, remember, no body gets disappointed over a compliment. That’s free currency, babes! 🩷💖🩷
Awww Amber I know you obviously dont know me but from watching your videos I feel like youre a friend I never met.. youre always so inspiring and on my lowest days you always seem to cheer me up with your positive energy and I just want to say thank you for being that friend from a distance you truly are an AMAZING person!
Thank you Amber I really needed this episode about tmi questions, and teaching me a lot of things that are taboo that my mom never spoke about with me. You have helped me in so many ways thank you.
I just love these vids, they're so real and reassuring. Sometimes we as girls dont have anyone else to ask these questions to, whether it for personal or backround reasons. I just love them.
You are the reason I believe in dreams. I finally found the perfect guy for me and I feel good about myself. You have come such an inspiration to me. I love you
This is a bit cheesy but everything u said about bodys and strech marks ans smiles i love everything you do with talks and outfits and makeovers just make me so so happy please dont stop what your doing ❤
Loved this and I always love how honest you are and deep you are with a lot of subjects! I feel like I’m sitting chatting with a girl friend! 💖🥰 Thank you Amber! ✨
Amber I love your makeup it’s so pretty every day you should do a makeup video but can I just tell you, you are so beautiful and I am so glad you make these awesome videos for me to watch.❤ and you are the reason I accept my body bc I was so insecure I didn’t eat for a day and a half and I passed out but know I realized that my body is perfect! And now one can change that!❤️
To the person worried about how their cooter looks: Don’t waste your time feeling self-conscious. Your future partners won’t care about how it looks!!! If they do, get rid of them ASAP!
So it to be said. I am twice your age Amber....and I have been watching you for years....years grrrl. And I just REALLY ENJOY all of your content this right here is just beautiful and intimate and just showcases HOW GENUINELY ADORABLE you really are! BLESSED energy to YOU ALWAYS💜💯😂🙏💪🤍🤝🏻
Hii Amber, I just wanted to tell you, how much I appreciate these kind of videos, bc it really makes me feel like I'm not alone with these "girl problems". Also, yes I have taught that I was pregnant as a virgin too, even multiple times🤧
you saying you want the theme of your channel to be chasing your dreams because your channel is the reason i started youtube! i’ve been watching you since i was 16 i turn 22 in 6 weeks lol.
omg i’m going to pepperdine this august as a freshman!! hearing that you went there just made me 10x more excited!! watching your videos makes me feel like i can truly do anything i put my mind to 💗💗
I love you amber you remind me to dream big I LOVE your aesthetic and you are truly an inspiration. I know this is an old video and you probably wont see this but I want you to know you make me feel like i can do anything. Much love and happiness - queen Ari
Literally last week my niece (she’s 22) and I talked about how Amber is making foot fetish content and doesn’t even know it. I laughed so hard at that second question.
Hi I’ve just discovered you and I just want to say your energy is so pure and you’re so sweet and beautiful, I just love your authenticity and your voice is soothing girl ugh❤️❤️
As for the pregnancy scare when a virgin; when I was like 16 my period was late, and it kept not coming, like I missed my period for 3 months or something. I hadn't even kissed a boy, let alone hugged one or held hands! But I was a little nervous I'd magically gotten pregnant from like sperm on a toilet seat or something crazy. I remember the day my period finally came and I literally sighed in relief and was happy lol. Now, 8 years later and married, I look forward to missing my period because my husband and I want a baby so bad. No luck yet.
You have helped me so much! You're such an inspiration for me :) Never stop doing what you love, or being you. I honestly would love to be you're friend in real life ♥
“Smile lines are a history of happiness”-I will never be the same
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New jewelry design ❤
@@AmberScholley I know you may not see this but could you do a collab with Colby Brock? (Not a ship!) just you guys are so funny and a iconic duo! If not it’s totally fine again you may not see this lol so it’s ok! Ofc 😅
LOVE UR VIDEOS BTW!❤ they make my day! Love xoxo!
@@karlamclaren7038I agree
Ugh i love that 🥲💖
Amber making "taboo" topics not so taboo is my favorite thing! Some things need to be talked about
i try 😂 somehow even filthy things are wholesome when i do it it’s a talent lmaoo
@@AmberSchollguessing on you was fun😂🎉❤
@@AmberSchollruclips.net/video/ltvasZqCTiA/видео.html #Batgirl
Tbh I don’t find this taboo at all, maybe thats just me tho cus apparently I’m blunt
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please)
So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤
Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse.
Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
i think believing you’re about to be the next virgin mary is a universal girlhood experience
it literally has to be i refuse to believe i’m alone in this
@@AmberSchollno bc its so true LMAO, i remember being terrified of this thought as a kid
what does the virgin mary mean 🥺
@@balqismaroofi5939bring a virgin but thinking your pregnant like jesus mum uknow 🤣
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please)
So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤
Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse.
Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
You are the reason I started caring about my body rather than if it looked good. You have helped me in so many ways you have no idea. Please never stop doing what you do 💚
oh my HEART ♥️ all love to you sweet angel
@@AmberScholldon't make an onlyfans. It isn't funny, it's a serious situation and website that some girls have to resort to, don't make a joke out of it.
@@AmberSchollI rlly appreciate your videos ☺️ they help me a lot ❤
@@thesweetestbeardawg what
@@emily.shortss did you not watch the video? She said she was going to get one for 24 hours as a joke, a lot of women don't find that website a joke.
the virgin mary pregnancy worry is 100% real and probably, a universal female experience. love you amber!!!
I’m almost 22 and I agree with ur niece
yesss I was the same way!! I feel like all women experience it lol
Girls, sex is -NOT something you have to agree with- and it also applies in a relationship/relationships. You know, men just made up with this shit that ”sex is required in a relationship” just so they could have access to out bodies! Womens bodies can get pregnant, why we only should have sex when we plan to have a babie togheter (birth controll pills -ARE NOT natural- so don’t take it please)
So say no when you don’t want to have sex, set boundaries. If he tells you that he will leave you if you don’t want to have sex with him, umm first tell him that he can realise the ”horny energy” by himself with his hand:) if he still require sex, then leave him. Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t respect your body and boundaries?❤
Sex is happening when two (or more persons) have the mutual ~horny energy~ that needs to be realised. If both (or everyone) ain’g having this ~horny energy~ but that person who ain’t horny anyways gets involved in the sex, then it’s not sex it’s sexuall abuse.
Please set boundaries and take care of yourself. Ask yourself this question before you have sex with a man ”Would I want my kids to be like him?”.
i don't have sex and everytime my period is late i convince myself im the next virgin mary 😭😭
Girl you’re so real and I love that. You’re honest and you own your shit. So refreshing to see an influencer that actually influences people in a graceful yet powerful way💜
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@@AmberScholllove you boo thank you for being an absolute sweetheart 💕
The part about the stretch marks answer, made me cry so hard. I don’t have stretch marks but I have self harm scars all over my body. And at 22 It’s hard to look at my own body at times. But. You helped me look at it through another lens, and for that, I’m so grateful. Thank you Amber.
oh sweet angel 🥹♥️ sending u all the love in the whole world
I have a few self harm scars from a few years ago and when I see them they remind me of what my mental state was. But like Amber said, we are art! Even though we have scars, it prove that we struggled and made it through. It gets tough, but we are strong enough to make it. You are a gorgeous being! :D
@@glowcherryblossoms4241 I covered most of my SH scars with tattoos, but even now, when I get them accidentally I’m like “F*UCK YEAH! I GOT THESE ON AN ADVENTURE!” And it turns into a badge of honor from a funny/crazy memory, it’s kinda like the joker… im like “YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I GOT THESE SCARS?!… no seriously… do you? It’s a really funny story”
I'm 24 with them in multiple places and when I look at them i see so much pain and it really triggers me sometimes 💔💔
I love that amber is so open to girl talk. like shes the type of girl that would give the best advice, and would help you out with ANYTHING ambers the kinda girl that i would LOVE to have sleepovers with ❤❤
Don't worry you're not the only one who thought they might be pregnant even when it wasn't possible. When I first started my period it was severely irregular and I once didn't have my period for 2 months, I thought I was pregnant for a few seconds but then straight away I realised, "of course I can't be pregnant, I haven't had sex". So yeah not alone.
When I was 17, I had cramps SO bad I thought I was going into labor 😅. But there was no way that was possible.
This is the most embarrassing thing I’ll ever post on the internet…. when I was a teen thought I was pregnant because my brother and I shared a bathroom 😭🤦🏻♀️…. I was very sheltered okay?
@@Lowdermoomoo😂😂😂😂
SAMEE. When I was a teen I hated my period extremely, so when it was late I was happy but then started getting worried after 2 months and no sign of it coming. At that point I was literally hoping for it to come because I was so concerned. I usually told my mom whenever my period started every month, so when I kept saying it didn’t come yet, she was getting increasingly worried. She scheduled a doctors appointment and before we left the house- she asked THE question if I participated in intercourse and told me to tell the truth because she’ll know the truth once we get there anyways. I was terrified (since my family never talked about the topic of boys and avoided it, so it was very straight up), me, being the young child thought “I’ve never done it before, but is it possible to get pregnant from just touching yourself?” And was stressing over whether I should tell her that part despite not sleeping with anyone before. In the end, I chose to just say no. When we got there, the doctor just casually said “oh yeah that’s normal at that age, very common.” And my mom was relieved while laughing and said “ohh! That makes sense, cause I asked her if she’s done it before- and obviously she didn’t!”
We never spoke of the incident again 😂
@@Lowdermoomoonoooo😭😭
I have the "You are art" necklace and I swear your energy rubs onto me every time I wear it and I love it! Following on that, I recently got two nude paintings of mine comissioned by a very talented female artist that precisely, loves to empower women through her work, presenting all of us as goddesses, leaving any beauty standards out of the equation. Thank you, Amber, for inspiring me to love myself. 💚✨
"Wrinkles are the history of your happiness", Amber those words are so so beautiful, thank you!!!
I swear any content you make it doesn’t matter how absurd, how magical or legit ANYTHING! I am soooo quick to just click and watch it. Its your energy that pulls me in you freaking angel ♥️
Amber is so awesome and inspiring, like her talking about body image and bodies as being art is so amazing❤ we stan a queen who's beautiful and kind🌹❤
@AmberScholld on't make an onlyfans. It isn't funny, it's a serious situation and website that some girls have to resort to, don't make a joke out of it.
"I love men, tragic" best quote ever Amber! 😂💖💖💖
Amber gives big sis/aunt vibes and I'm here for it
You have helped me feel confident in my body! You have also taught me multiple lessons on how to treat myself better rather than to just do what others want and expect of me. Thank you for that amber, love you!❤
I love how honest you are during this q&a (even with some difficult topics)
Your quote to believe in yourself “ah what if it does” pushed me to fully transition, and never settle. Now i have the best BF and we just bought my actual dreamhouse waterfront cottage together :) live and chase your fairytale
oh my heart 🥹♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@AmberScholl i love you 🥹 thank you for everything:)
your honesty, kindness and thoughtfulness is amazing and you’re beautiful inside and out. hope you’re doing amazing🤍
For the person at 1:38 I lost my virginity (well I would say my first time ever bc I don't believe in the concept of virginity) at 28 yo, it was amazing and you know why? Bc I never had sex pressured by society and never did what others expected, for many people's concern I'm still pretty virgin and for many they think I "lose" it a long time ago, idc what everybody say. YOU DO YOU, have sex is always about concent, caring and information. You are doing amazing sweety.
I wanna contribute too! I lost it at 25 (33 today) with a close friend of mine (not a lover) and I honestly wouldn't have done it earlier. I felt safe, respected, supported and cherished. I took my time to make proper research about every doubt I had and to ask around without being pushed. 10/10 recommend following your own intuition.
I was 18, I had been out of high school for about a year. I did it when I felt ready, and I don’t ever regret it. I never listened to anyone, I just said one day “okay, this is something I’d like to try”. It’s been a long time but I lost my virginity to someone who was kind, patient, lovely, and I felt safe with. He’s passed now sadly, but I still remember my first time as a very special and intimate memory and glad I waited until I felt ready.
I’m glad to have read this comment, and I love how she talked about this in the video. I used to be ashamed of never having sex with someone before, but then I realized there’s no rush for it, and society glorifies it and makes it seem like you’re missing out on life if you’re not doing it. I’ve been pressured into certain sexual things in the past and now I think to myself ‘Thank god that person wasn’t my first,’ they wouldn’t have deserved that. Always remember that you shouldn’t feel pressured, you should feel safe, and it should be consensual!!
"Love me with everything you have or goodbye" is really beautiful. It's how I am with my friends, family and relationships.
amber is literally so nice to look at, i could never get bored by her
Been a fan for quite a few years and seeing honest videos like this show how far you have come. I feel that you have helped whoever is in your community grow and it has been great to see. Also- proud to support 333 & co. The quality is great and so is customer service. My bf had gone back and forth with size issues for an anniversary gift but all is right and I love my ring and hope we helped you get something extra for the skycastle!
amber i love you so much i have been watching your videos since i was properly 11 im 16 now. you have changed the way i look at life. i hated my body for so long and you made me look at it differently and i was depressed too for like 3 years i just wanted to end it all put your videos really help me . Thank you so much💞💞
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The pregnant while being a virgin 😭😭😭😭😭 I was young but damn I thought I was SO dumb so I'm so happy to hear i'm not the only one 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amber is the big sister I never got. She brings me so much comfort!! I have a close relationship with my mom, but so many of these things I would never feel comfortable talking with her. I also have a hard time making close friends. So sincerely thank you Amber for all that you do and all the comfort you bring to those who need a friend
I’ve been watching you for 6 years now and I feel like you’ve been such a constant comfort ilysm
Amber is literally the icon of my life. I love her so much!
I miss these kind of videos where you just chill and talk to us. I've been watching you for a very long time and it always make me feel like I'm talking to a lifelong friend ❤
I'm currently going through an unknown phase where I have no idea where my head at and the feeling of an incoming change, hopefully a good one. Just wanted to share, I love you 🦋
When she said it's a shield for a soft heart I felt. Bcz I never could explain it to anyone. And she is the inspiration queen. ❤
Thank you for being you and being on this planet the same time I am here. I have always hated myself and felt like a waste of space and you’ve taught me my own uniqueness is okay and words can literally kill you or make you have a better view. It’s hard but I try everyday to be kinder to myself and laugh at myself more
"Think of your body as the palette of the life you're living" made me cry. Truly such beautiful nd helpful advice
life is just so hard right now but after watching your vids u always make me remember that i’m the magic in my life 💗 ilysm amber thank you for existing
Amber made me feel loved and unique. I am so happy that i started watching her, she made me less insecure💗
i really hate my body, hate myself.. but you are giving me what i need, start loving myself and be who am i, so thank you amber! love you 🫶🏻
She’s such an inspiration to all women and men♥️♥️♥️
Amber is my comfort RUclipsr. I actually started to care about my body because of you, thank you ❤
I love the “wrinkles near our eyes show the smiles”. ❤❤❤
it’s so nice to see someone who’s so body positive and just be a overall amazing person . you really do give the best advice and i don’t think you’ll ever know how many people who’s confidence or self esteem you’ve helped just by your vids ❤
Amber you have no idea how your words could save a life and create new and magical perspectives in life. i love you and your vids never stop inspiring people please❤
I really loved this video. I’ve been watching your videos since forever but in this video I don’t know …it feels like you have grown into yourself and it’s really wonderful see. Love your content and can’t wait to see the sky castle progress ❤
aw thank u! this is such a pure compliment 🥹
I just admire Amber she's unproblematic I've never seen her in any drama.
amber is such a queen, she doesn’t judge anyone! I wanna be her best friend so badly
girl you are literally my CHILDHOOOODDD I grew up with you and I’m so grateful that you are still making content. Keep doing what your doing and don’t stop !! Xoxo 💋
You're like a older sister who tells all the girl secrets and tips. I love it smm.
when you talked about making sure not to settle for things. Because for the longest time, especially with men, I struggled with having standards for them. And then I did and made sure that I was confident in what I wanted and now I am dating the literal dream man. Thanks for the encouragement. You helped me out girl!
Your makeup always looks phenomenal but this eye makeup is literal perfection🙌🏽❤️ and yes, when I was a virgin I had many pregnancy scares. Period would be late like a week and I'd be like oh no 😔
drake celeb crush did not age well 😭
Giiiiirl I struggle so much with my body image and my scars and hearing you talk about them like they make me wo I am brought tears to my eyes because I literally JUST started seeing them that way (I'm almost 30)
I always get so excited every time Amber posts a new video
Only amber can make a juicy q&a classy! I love you amber, you are my biggest inspiration ♥️
You are honestly one of the most genuine girls I keep up with on RUclips and I just love you 🥹
I’ve never thought about my body in the way you just perfectly said it. I love that! What a wonderful way to start thinking about our bodies in the way you described. I make sure I continuously speak kindly to my (inner) self, but, I rarely look at my body with that same kindness. I will definitely start looking at myself with that same mindset. That’s a great analogy of comparing our bodies to the lives, history and memories of who we truly are.
Also, for you younger girls, the kind of ladies you want as your friends have never thought any of the negative things you have thought about your yourself-because they are focused on their own body image insecurities-so BUILD EACH OTHER UP! _Always!_ If your gal pals tell you that you look fire in them jeans and yellow is your color, they are telling you the truth, so listen to your (*true*) friends’ compliments, listen to Amber’s advice and remember, there’s always someone out there who believes you 🫵🏼 are prettier than they are.
And, remember, no body gets disappointed over a compliment. That’s free currency, babes! 🩷💖🩷
Awww Amber I know you obviously dont know me but from watching your videos I feel like youre a friend I never met.. youre always so inspiring and on my lowest days you always seem to cheer me up with your positive energy and I just want to say thank you for being that friend from a distance you truly are an AMAZING person!
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Thank you Amber I really needed this episode about tmi questions, and teaching me a lot of things that are taboo that my mom never spoke about with me. You have helped me in so many ways thank you.
14:56 LITERALLY. I’m so glad someone brought it up 😭
I just love these vids, they're so real and reassuring. Sometimes we as girls dont have anyone else to ask these questions to, whether it for personal or backround reasons. I just love them.
GIRLLL I WAS THE TACO QUESTIONN!!!!!!!!😂😂😂 love you Amber❤!
Amber helps me embrace so much about myself. She is truly such an inspiring girly.
Thank you Amber, I love you!!!❤❤
Oh my gosh amber looks so good
she seems like such a good friend
You are the reason I believe in dreams. I finally found the perfect guy for me and I feel good about myself. You have come such an inspiration to me. I love you
Amber is one of my favorite RUclipsrs because she always promotes looking good for yourself and nobody else
This is a bit cheesy but everything u said about bodys and strech marks ans smiles i love everything you do with talks and outfits and makeovers just make me so so happy please dont stop what your doing ❤
Loved this and I always love how honest you are and deep you are with a lot of subjects! I feel like I’m sitting chatting with a girl friend! 💖🥰 Thank you Amber! ✨
Amber I love your makeup it’s so pretty every day you should do a makeup video but can I just tell you, you are so beautiful and I am so glad you make these awesome videos for me to watch.❤ and you are the reason I accept my body bc I was so insecure I didn’t eat for a day and a half and I passed out but know I realized that my body is perfect! And now one can change that!❤️
omg at 5:34 you can see Amber left this text "so how it works: IPL is BLAH BLAH BLAH" , so funny thinking you forgot to edit that! haha ily Amber!
The only person on you tube I Still watch. So genuine. ❤️ And the kiss on the forehead is the BESTESTESTESTEST!!!!
Can you PLEASE recreate Fran Fines outfits from The Nanny?! ❤❤
You have bo idea how much i’ve waited for this !!! 🤯
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Ugh you are just my favorite human
Love your answers Amber they are so uplifting. It’s nice to see someone who shares the same values as me!
To the person worried about how their cooter looks: Don’t waste your time feeling self-conscious. Your future partners won’t care about how it looks!!! If they do, get rid of them ASAP!
So it to be said. I am twice your age Amber....and I have been watching you for years....years grrrl.
And I just REALLY ENJOY all of your content this right here is just beautiful and intimate and just showcases HOW GENUINELY ADORABLE you really are! BLESSED energy to YOU ALWAYS💜💯😂🙏💪🤍🤝🏻
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Her aesthetics are like angelcore+glam ✨💖
I love how I watched how you won the lottery in one video and I've been watching you ever since. I just love you Amber and your videos! ❤
Amber you have encouraged us for years through all your ups and down you have made me feel such love and joy for life. 🤍
Hey Amber! If you are reading this just know ily and you have helped me build my confidence a lot !!! Lots of love 💕
12:50 love what you said there ! Heartbeat example of the ups and downs
I LOVE this idea and the answers are SO USEFUL
Hii Amber, I just wanted to tell you, how much I appreciate these kind of videos, bc it really makes me feel like I'm not alone with these "girl problems". Also, yes I have taught that I was pregnant as a virgin too, even multiple times🤧
you saying you want the theme of your channel to be chasing your dreams because your channel is the reason i started youtube! i’ve been watching you since i was 16 i turn 22 in 6 weeks lol.
I love the body comments about the donuts and smile lines! Thank you for making me feel confident
omg i’m going to pepperdine this august as a freshman!! hearing that you went there just made me 10x more excited!! watching your videos makes me feel like i can truly do anything i put my mind to 💗💗
AHHH HAVE THE TIME OF UR LIFE ❤
@@AmberScholl thank you amber!!!!💗💗💗💗
13:12 added this to my notes, such a beautiful analogy🤍
Girl were waiting from your decorate living room like i was so excited from your video so REALEASE IT
I love your videos and they really have helped me with confidence and loving myself rather than caring about others opinions ❤
Just one thing I want to say you amber "Always be happy"
thank you amber I have been watching you for a long time now you are like the big sister I never had thank you!!❤
Amber you really do help us in many ways and appreciate you so much 💓
I love how real you are. You are truly beautiful & kind inside & out.
I love you amber you remind me to dream big I LOVE your aesthetic and you are truly an inspiration. I know this is an old video and you probably wont see this but I want you to know you make me feel like i can do anything. Much love and happiness - queen Ari
Hey u do meditation?
thanks to you, i am welcoming my feminine side more and more! I appreciate your existence
Literally last week my niece (she’s 22) and I talked about how Amber is making foot fetish content and doesn’t even know it. I laughed so hard at that second question.
When Amber makes eye contact through the phone screen ahhh it's the best thing ever ❤❤❤
i've been waiting on an update on your IPL journey!! this was my sign to get it
It’s so crazy that she’s actually doing videos like this because I watch Amber when I feel like I need a friend.
Hi I’ve just discovered you and I just want to say your energy is so pure and you’re so sweet and beautiful, I just love your authenticity and your voice is soothing girl ugh❤️❤️
As for the pregnancy scare when a virgin; when I was like 16 my period was late, and it kept not coming, like I missed my period for 3 months or something. I hadn't even kissed a boy, let alone hugged one or held hands! But I was a little nervous I'd magically gotten pregnant from like sperm on a toilet seat or something crazy. I remember the day my period finally came and I literally sighed in relief and was happy lol. Now, 8 years later and married, I look forward to missing my period because my husband and I want a baby so bad. No luck yet.
You have helped me so much! You're such an inspiration for me :) Never stop doing what you love, or being you. I honestly would love to be you're friend in real life ♥