Anton Says NEVER Marry a Single Black Mother, It's a Thankless Job and Men Get NOTHING In Return 🤔
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Being a stepfather is thankless charity
Pointless
Same as being a stepmother is thankless.
Being a step father is like leaving heaven for hell 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@soulfullysowingseeds no one talking about a stepmother this time. The topic is stepfathers.
@@Kyronetta I know that the video did not imply only stepfathers.
There is NO sane reason to even get involved with an unwed mother let alone _marry_ one ...
Unwed mother? I wouldn’t get involved with a unwed parent period, mother or father
@@T.Denise , lol. BW are such trash.
Doobie Powell brother?
Lol Anton applying that pressure he got his foot on the toxic single moms neck 😂 🤣🤣😂😂
And the fact they try to justify it is ridiculous my g.
A woman with kids does not disqualify her from having standards. It just disqualifies her from men who have standards...
Its both lol
Women with kids don't gave standards because they've lost they're sexual market value
Well said.
@@blacklyfe5543 But they just can't bring any person around they kids, who knows if they may molest them. She should still want a good man at minimum, but yea it does disqualify her for a high value man tho, 100%.
Step daddy = All the downsides of being a parent and none of the upside
Anton is right. The woman who gave her personal example only looked at it from a child's point of view. But, what if she didn't accept the new man, and acted out quite vigorously whenever he was around, then what? Should the 2 of them proceed with the marriage, with the hope that the child will come around? I know someone that happenedto. They never got married, but what if they had? The child wouldn't have improved and, therefrom the proper respect and deference from the child would not be given. The child doesn't have to accept the new relationship. And the. there's discipline. He's going to be 'Head'. Can he discipline the child the way H-E see fit to? Of course, there are other things, but those came to mind .
@@bryantworley2922, most times no. The man is only expected to provide and protect, but rarely discipline.
@@user-cs1mc4vg7q Exactly, he's a body guard and an atm machine. He's expected to risk his life for kids that aren't his and pay for them. Even if they end up having kids of their own, he has to split resources between his kid(s) and hers, essentially robbing from peter to pay paul.
Why would you want to marry a woman with kids anyway. Find a single woman make your own child/children and you don't have to deal with that!
That’s why you avoid all these issues by not dating or marrying a single mum. Don’t bring no stress into your life
Mom not mum
We not meant to have blended families because these issues getting too complicated. Nobody has answers for this!
Yes we do. Get back with the babies father.
@@TheUzamaki9000 true
Anton so brutally honest, he's making the women in the panel crazy...
That’s bc they want to engage in reckless behavior, and always have someone else clean up the mess.
If the man you gave a child to don’t want you, neither do I
I ordered just the Big Mac sandwich not the Combo
Anton is on point here.
The guy: "So, what do you bring to the table besides someone else's kids?"
Dont ever, EVER do it. Been there and done that. Thank goodness I didn't get married in said situation. And for any woman who want to claim why should a woman get with a man who has kids?
1. Women do it all the time and specifically with Pookies.
2. When a single woman gets with a single father the expectations from the man are always different. More times than not a single father will elect to remain single to avoid bringing a bad influence around his own.
Anton is all about the money.
I’m with it. 😂
If it doesn’t make money, it doesn’t make sense.
They tell you what it really is if you let them talk ...
The black community is horrible, all this step mama step daddy multiple baby father's mother's this ish is terrible
Too complicated. Yah better than me!
Agreed
It is terrible, dysfunctional, and disgusting. I always tell the women with the children to get back with the babies father. I don’t care if you don’t like him, get back with him and build a family and leave people alone with your mess.
Lets not blame that on the " Black Community." This Baby Momma Babys Dad Step Father and them stuff been going on Day 1 off the slave boat. Slave Master was the first baby daddy not to forget the brothers, sisters, mothers and fathers were separated at the auction. Some people think that's why the Black Community calls one another bros and sis because our ancestors was swapped out, sold, and split up over and over again.
@@BigAmp2012 true. Although not even slavery destroyed the black community. Welfare and feminism destroyed the black community. And the war on drugs/ mass incarceration was the nail in the coffin!
I agree with Anton on this.
Getting involved with a single mother is risky, and it's better to avoid.
Think about it: most baby mothers are modern women, and they likely don't think highly of men. If you decide to get involved with one, you're most likely going to be the third most important person in the situation -- she will put her child(ren) first, she will be second (because modern women will never put a man before them), and you will be last. Why would you put yourself in a scenario in which you are the least important person with minimal authority?
Herself 1st kids 2nd if the kids were 1st she’d be with the baby father because that’s what’s best for the kid
It’s upsetting men that take on children that aren’t theirs don’t get respect for doing such a thing. Especially when the real father ain’t there and didn’t care for the children. It really is a thankless job.
Nah they might get maimed or killed too.
It’s sad, but it’s the truth.
We can make this reaaaal easy, say no to single mothers.
Who dreams of having a use car damn everybody paused
Funny how all the mistakes women make they try and normalize it men (black men) have no room for error
Being a step-father may be the most thankless job in society.....Knowmatter the situation 9× out of 10 unless the man has raised the child from infant/ toddler stage it's going to end up a terribly frustrating headache that smart men would rather avoid at all cost.
NOBODY EVER DREAMS OF BUYING A USED CAR!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m DEFINITELY using that bar
Nah you know whats insane and dysfunctional is bringing another man or woman around your child when they already have a mother or father who is in their lives but not around because yall can't get along.
Bringing a step parent into the household is the child's first prominent example of their mother or father putting their own needs above whats best for their children and 9 times out of 10 a child will have unresolved resentment issues over being introduced to a step parent.
BINGO ! That's exactly what it is. No child should call a step parent dad/mom ...they should only call their actual parents that name
Exactly smh
Do not save these women. Know your worth, never settle.
💯 its a NO W for the man. And every man willing to step into that position is willing to do the full job. BUT it’s usually the woman who stops him from being the full man/father that he’s supposed to be, just as she stopped the real dad most likely leaving him.
Leah was 2 years old when I became her stepdad, she began calling me RyRy...
I still remember the day when she was four years old and she asked her mom if it was okay if she calls me Dad. I earned it. Still didn't keep her mom from fooling around with my uncle and breaking our family up after 10 years and two more daughters with her.
😂😂😂 play stupid games and win all the prizes
Anton said, "Eff them kids." Well-stated. The parents need to get back together and raise those kids if he isn't toxic, abusive or a habitual cheater.
Tukay is on a whole nother level.
You looking at it from the benefit of you💯
That TuKay cat be talking for shock value and laughs.
As a Man that never has, or will date a married women, I think stepfathers are simps.
There are far better ways to give to charity
Me & my sister actually have the same mother & father and we were born in wedlock..... WEIRD RIGHT..............SAD......😂😂😂
That same rule applies to single fathers with kids.
Exactly some of them are fathers thinking this don’t apply to them, no sir, I don’t need money going towards another household neither
No it don't 😂
@@d.jerome4011 it definitely does. And I’m speaking from experience. I always tell young women to avoid men with a kid. It’s too much. Gotta deal with a whole other woman, the child, you have no say so in how the child is raised, and his money will be going to another woman’s household, heck no. It’s definitely the same
@@d.jerome4011 yes it does. I married a man 25 years ago with full custody of his two sons.
@@T.Denise single fathers w kids are no different than sing mothers.
The only time love is brought up is to convince men to benefit walking into a bad decision. If the single mother decides to leave that man, every dime, time or rhyme was wasted.
that was kind of gross when she said “they were young they were dumb they were full of _____.”
“I hope not” 😂😂😂
Being a step dad only works if the child is an infant and they never deal with the other side of his lineage. But in any other case, you'll always be second rate
Anyone who wants a child who’s not theirs to call them dad or mom is very weird. Just because the one parent married somebody that doesn’t mean the child has to call them mom or dad you’re the step parent.
keep up the great work Anton!!! agreed never marry these days especially a single mother thankless job might as well just forge a sugar daddy dynamic since u r spending the money anyways at least spend it on a quality product lol , get the fun of the box without dealing with the stresses lol ...
Being a stepfather(simp) is negative equity
s/o to the step fathers that stepped up but stop taking single moms serious 😂 go back & right with the mother of your child
Once i heard the women talk that was all the gratification i needed not to ever marry a single mother.
You will neva in a billion light-years catch me even attempting to marry a single mother, let alone date one.
Like DAFUQ!
In this day and age with all the information....It F blows my mind till this day. Why are stable men dealing with single mothers? Like why?
2k illustrations be off the chain 😂😂
4:53 I can't with this 😂
Shoutout to Anton for trying to save the manhood of these young fools.
I've disqualified 3/4 of sistaz bc of it. I've dated a few & it's never the kids but the moms. They're finished, done, undateable, & marriage is not even worth a mention. It's enough trouble with the childless ones. The single moms are another level of burdensome stress & drama that's just not worth it.
"I got two kids running around the house " lol we can tell big mama, u a part of the problem
I love how tukay broke it down.
Here comes Quinton with his cape 🦸🏽
If if if 😂all the what if’s….don’t do it men
No I'm not ok if the stepfather is called Dad
JR apologized to Yanie and split ways with Anton because he is trying to appease his single mother girlfriend and the baby momma network. She would have never went for Lapeef before she had a child. Anyone who disputes this is naive. That's why they dislike Anton over there😂
😂
BD still be tapping
If the wife respects to you then the kid will also the kid is a reflection of the parent who has raised them.
Facts Anton!!!! Run for president my brother… lol
It’s a bad investment take it from me I’ll ever do that shit again
Back in 2014 my girl of 3 years passed away from stage 4 breast cancer, she had full custody of both her kids, the father wouldn’t even take the kids for an extended time while she dealt with chemo and just didn’t want her babies to see if in that condition… she passed on December 4 2014, the father fought for full custody against her mother and won, fast forward 10 years I haven’t seen or spoke to the kids who are now young adults and it never sat right with me… granted the circumstances were through death but it add a new depth of this argument… I spent everyday with these kids for years and once the mother passed away i couldn’t even see them again because the father chose so.
Son said if you want me to be a father to your bastard child respect me as one simple but these black heifers don't even respect the step father , he's just there.
The first person to give advice is a single mother talking with her long cat nails.. 🤦🏽♂️
0:08 bruh you disrespected yourself first by marrying a baby mama 😂. Anton, let Six be great! 🤣😂💀
AD and Jap on 🔥 right now on these single mother flossies 😂😂
Step kids have to address you with a “Ms. Or mr” is wild and formal lol
FDK!! 😊😊😊😊
Funny how when that lady asked about Anton’s mom she got shut down really quick. Black women love to bring up somebody momma.
y is it wrong to seek validation if ur taking care of some one else’s kids
I’d marry a single mom in a heartbeat if she lets me have a side chick.
Bria makes plenty of sense. She makes a good point about why you shouldn't be a stepmom or dad. The parents should get back together with each other and call it that.
Women dont really like being stepmothers compared to a man being the american normalized standard stepdad. Black men especially or just men in general think its some type of golden reward or some type of achievement which is stupid because its not becuase they love u. They just look at u as a provider and object .
yeh i think all moms would feel a way if a man referred to his kids as son or daughter n referred to the step moms kids by there first names..that creates a separate n different thing in the house hold..many step parents r just tied to the mom n the kids r allowed to be separate yet the man is expected to treat that child like he’s there’s from jump …its a weird situation
I am trying to stay in form to listen to islandgirlQ monologue but her high pitch voice or perhaps the audio equipment is causing my ear trauma 😂
You are correct, Sir!!!
"Who dreams of having a used car." YESSIR. Nobody says: "What I would love to do is buy a 10 year old Toyota corolla with miles and problems."
😂😂people dream of restoring muscle cars
Never marry a single mother in general..
Marrying a single mother is literally no different than leasing a used car with high mileage and even higher maintenance than comes with previous owners kids that u are also responsible for..oh and just cuz u pay your monthly car note and take care of the kids that comes with the car you're also responsible for doesn't mean u can drive the car anytime u want to..u can only drive it when the dealership " feels like" u can drive it...
Now does that sound like a car u would want to deal with?😂
If not then stay away from single mothers, they're the car with high mileage ( higher Body count) with even higher maintenance ( her Bills plus pay for everything else she wants) and Comes with previous owners kids...
That's a single mother..
I was relieved when my mother let me know this is my father my step father.
I agree...you will not call me by my first name..I'm ol school..level of respect ...or Mr. Or Mrs.
How do I get on these video call chats?
I'd never do it.
If I did, there's no way any child living in my house is going to call me by my first name.
Its a bad deal period, i am with Anton
Lol dodge single moms like the matrix
Who dream of having a used car lmao
Where's part 2
Anton like usually is the only one making sense
Anton is 100% right on this one....i did the step dad thing and felt weird the whole time. Those kids will never respect you no matter what you do for them.... They'll run to thier real dad and think about you in their third or fourth thought. It's a no win.... But men will do it because most of the time the woman will give sex more easily. The issue that these men face is how much disrespect and problems can i tolerate to get this sex. And is the sex worth it??? I'm a real person who has done this and i advise strongly against doing it.... You waste money time and effort..
One’s testimony does not make the best example.
Real simple don’t do it
This is why men don’t do this!
I'm not doing it so I agree with the Caption of this video
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️💀⚰️ Too Funny but seriously nah I’m good. Why would you waste money & resources on child that’s not your seed.
Aunty or uncle show respect!!!!
Since ive been in california ive noticed thats the thing men with lots of money do out here .
Real parents don't want them step parents don't want them bless these kids
lol They want your resources, bruh, and that’s it.
Noway how many dadies will the kids have ,that guy is wrong ..
More of Anton’s bragging about how fortunate he is.
My kids not calling no one daddy if he doesn't feel comfortable too kids don't work like you would need to make the child feel as if your their biological parent