Thank you for being so open and honest in your video I just wanted to say things wilI get better. I went through something very similar with my partner in my 3rd pregnancy. We had a boy and girl together at the time and my partner was happy with the two we had but like you I did want another. Anyway we didn't plan our 3rd baby and my partner didn't react very well to the news either, he supported me throughout the pregnancy and came to all the appointments etc but he will admit himself he was quite closed off and didn't want to really get involved which for me was hard because I could see how he was feeling and I just wanted him to he as happy as I was and it made me feel quite alone in the process. But the moment our son was born he literally fell in love with him straight away and 5 years on he still adores him and couldn't imagine life without him x
I just want to squeeze you. My first wasn’t planned last two were that feeling when it isn’t and your not sure if it’s something you want or in my case ready for I can understand how Steve felt/feels I was there. For a long time. Even say first 18m of my eldest life I just went through motions but the again don’t we all first time I dunno. Your wonderful parents and this baby is very lucky to have you both xx welcome to crazy world of 3 kids it’s mental. Amazing and truly exhausting I am excited to see your real take on it
I must say as 2 adult people who already has 2 children surely Steve should be fully aware and probably not so hard on you for the fact that you fell pregnant x he knows how it works ...there are people falling pregnant using the pill or condom or even coil so of course natural method can fail too. Just try and take it easy xxx congratulations x
First off congratulations! Second your emotions around the shock of pregnancy are very okay & I can still see so much excitement in your eyes. It will all work out awesome 🌸 also that lil bump at the end nawh how gorgeous 💕
Thank you for being so honest. It took a long time for my husband to get on board about trying for our 4th, and I know he would have been more than happy to stop at 3. No one ever talks about this issue! We are due number 4 in March and I know it will be a big adjustment but I'm hoping it won't be long before it feels like baby has always been here. You take care! Looking forward to following your journey! X
Huge congratulations to you all ❤️ planned or unplanned a new baby to love and cherish is a blessing and I'm so happy for you. Thanks for being brave enough to share your life with us and continuously rise above the negativity 💪🏻 your channel is a joy to watch!
So refreshing for your honesty more need to be like this to show life is not all rosey, I'm 41 now I had my first at 17 obviously we didn't plan but after I had our son found out my husband never actually wanted children so we got on he loved our son they became a gang then at 24 fell pregnant after being unwell that was a testing time don't think we spoke for first 4 months daughter was born we became a team of 4 daughter has a disability so last 16 yrs as been the most testing time and I'm still shocked we got through 23 yrs but deep down I'll always regret never having more I never felt done finished which ever ppl call it but I do also have to respect my husbands feelings plus he is 13 years older than me , you will both get there ❤
Firstly congratulations to you both! Secondly, this is exactly why I am subscribed to you and have been for some years, because you are “real”, you put yourself out there whether good or bad and I admire you for this. You have a beautiful family and soon to have an even more beautiful family. Steve sounds very much like my hubby, I think men take a little bit more time to accept and come to terms with change whether that be good change or bad change, it’s a man thing ☺️ It will all work out in the end. These things happen for a reason ☺️ (P.S I’ve just bought the Lumi off you via Facebook if you recognise the name 🙂) xx
I am in exactly the place as yourself. A few years ago I really wanted another child (already got a daughter and a son), just felt I wasn't done. I spoke to my hubby and he didn't share the same views. Anyway, at time he agreed not to prevent anything, and I felt I couldn't ask more than that. Unfortunately, at the time we didn't get caught, ibwas really upset but like I said couldnt ask anymore of my husband. Then Covid hit, life got a bit more crazy (both work for NHS), I put it all to the back of my head. And then....July 2021 we found out baby number 3 is on their way in March 2022! Currently 33 weeks pregnant and it's been a flipping journey! 6 more weeks and he will be here, can't wait to see his little face! Congratulations and all the best with your pregnancy x
Thank you! You too! We both felt the exact same at the beginning, it just doesn't feel real and I was worried because it wasn't really what he wanted. He has even said to me its not what he wanted by choice but he wouldn't change it either and he also can't wait to meet little man. Sometimes life has other plans. X
Aw congratulations,a new baby is always good news. Did Natural Cycles fail or did you stop using that method?? If so,why was it such a surprise? Thinking of using it myself,but won’t as if it isn’t effective xx
Was there ever an option for you to terminate? I only ask because my ex didn’t want children at all and when I had a late period, he told me I’d have to terminate. Or did Steve come round quickly? (I’m in a much better relationship now with someone who does want children!)
I 100% think some people on RUclips act happy in pregnancy announcements just to have that perfect moment to share online when its not always the case. It's refreshing to see a more realistic version 😂 xxx
Really appreciate how hard it must have been to be so honest and open, I was in a similar position with my second. My first was only 9 months old when I fell pregnant, but it was the opposite for us... he really wanted a second and I wasn't so sure at first, I was terrified and I hate to admit this now but a fleeting thought of having a termination went through my head initially. I took the pregnancy test while he was at work as I wanted to deal with the feelings and emotions myself for a few hours, without his input and him being all excited ... anyway we continued with the pregnancy and I'm so glad we did, no regrets whatsoever and Steve will feel the same, he's probably on board already since you filmed this. But also wanted to reassure him that it's a natural reaction. A baby is a big thing. xx
So happy for you but I was in your boat and my heart was wanting something only I wanted, can’t talk as my last text was taken of because I said Steve should get a snip of the top of his head 😉😉😉 but I understand so much, but it was ment to be, so so happy take care and things will be as you wanted it, I send you so much love and here if ever you want to moan I’m here as I have been in your place take care of you please we all love you and your family xxx
I'm sorry you've had some sadness about this pregnancy, Rebecca. My daughter and her husband had no. 3 baby in 2020, just as the two older boys were becoming a lot easier to manage - we were all shocked! However, this little boy has completed their family so beautifully, and the big boys fell in love with him immediately and are so patient and loving with him. I think you and Steve will feel a sense of your little family being complete when this baby is born, and I wish you both the best!
Thank you for being so honest, and realistic! I’m so pleased for you all! I saw your rant on Instagram, and you’re so right. They are sad little people, who should really get a life. Regardless, you’re amazing. Lots of love. 💕
When we lost a baby,we were desperate to get pregnant again,but when we did I was obviously so so happy, as was my husband,but at the same time petrified! Even when they are planned it can be so scary ! They're a lifetime adjustment aren't they... But everything happens for a reason and this baby will be loved. I saw your video where you tell the boys and it was the sweetest reaction!!!x
Congratulations Rebecca. 💗 I'm sorry Steve is struggling but you're right, it's not something he wanted and it will take him some time to digest it all. He's a fantastic father though and he will love the new baby just as much as the boys. I am a strong believer that there are no coincidences and that God gives you a child when He sees fit. Enjoy your blessing ❤ Can't wait to follow along the pregnancy and birth.
Congratulations!!🥰 To be fair he should have had a vasectomy if he was that convinced he didnt want a no 3🤦♀️😂 takes two to tango!! All the best for your family xx
Love how open and honest you are ❤️ - like you say real life is not what we see on Instagram and you tube. I always believe things happen for a reason and baby number 3 is definitely meant to be for you. Watched your announcement video and Alfie’s sheer joy and reaction to the news had me in tears. Huge congratulations again to you all and keep us all posted with your updates 😍 xx
I love how real you are Rebecca. So many of us have our own stories to tell & it is nice when people share their real experiences 😊 sending you all positive vibes ❤ x
Congratulations x at the end of the day its two people having sex and it's to people who make a baby so even if Steve was upset at first he must understand he was half the reason your pregnant. Its a blessing its never the right time and your both amazing loving parents already and you will be again 💖
So refreshing that you have shown your honest feelings over it all. Everything happens for a reason lovely lady, I honestly believe that. Congratulations to you all. I’m sure the baby will be a very welcome addition to your beautiful family. You take care of yourself ❤️ xx
I am 8 months pregnant with our 3rd ‘surprise’ baby! Also used app! 🙄 it was a huge shock- I was about to hand in my resignation! But after two boys we are having a little girl (would have been happy either way) and now my husband says it’s the best ‘mistake’ we’ve ever made! It’s not always happy but they are so worth it and everything definitely happens for a reason! xxx
Watching this a second time, and I just want to let you know I so feel you and love you for your vulnerability with us. You and Steve are going to okay. Of course it’s stressful because a baby is huge! I’m soon to be going through things like, as I’ll be moving to England at 4 months pregnant, finding a home etc. so stay strong my love xxx
Awwww this is why we love watching you your so honest & real ,, I was gobsmacked to find out I was having my last baby especially with my older child being 6 and we were done etc . Well fast forward a year and I'm not gunna lie it's been a rollercoster at times , sleep now doesn't exist but my lil babba is 1 this week and it's like he's never not been here. I hope your doing OK, looking forward to following your journey xx
It does feel soo strange to say doesn't it- I still have to remember I am now I forget! I think maybe it's being so busy with children you just get on don't you without time to think. I found 3 fitted in really nicely its a lovely way to complete your gorgeous family. I'm so happy for you all 🥰❤
Awe hun what a emotional video 😭🥺 It takes 2 Hun so I’m sure Steve understands that! I’m sure he will be fine your a beautiful family! You have got this 💪🏻 Mum of 3 my self my 3rd was a nice surprise 😍 It’s meant to be I believe in that Can’t wait to watch your pregnancy journey Thank you for being honest xoxox
Oh I’m so pleased for you all sweetheart!! 💓 EDIT my husband is desperate for another baby so am I but with our daughter she was IVF. I can totally understand it was very testing for you both but these things happen for a reason….I can not wait for baby updates now! Take care sweetheart xx
Thank you for being so honest. I always love that about your channel, compared to other RUclipsrs you're so real and honest. Best of luck to you and your family, it will all work out 💕
Never did believe that Natural Cycle app! You will both forget about this rough time the minute you see your new baby & wonder why you worried so much 💜 This baby will slot into your life and routine easily - chin up 🥰
Congratulations! My husband had a vasectomy right after our 2nd. Son was born, but like you I could have had another. He has little patience for children especially his own unfortunately. We are making it work. Stay strong mom and just love those babies.
My third is turning 1 in 2 days, if I had been serious about being happy with 2, I would have had the vasectomy earlier, and even being semi planned I still freaked out a little for a while. It's all an adjustment period and everyone is different in how they handle it, can't wait to see it progress over the next year.
Things happen for a reason sweetheart, I'm sure Steve will be fine when he's digested it properly, he's a great Dad to the boys so I know deep down he's going to be awesome with the new baby of course he will, when you announced it I was so happy for you, I know from watching you over the past few years you wanted another baby, I remember you getting emotional when woody stopped breast feeding, I knew you wasn't finished, it will all work out love, I wish you , Steve, & the boys all the best, we've just become grandparents for the first time in September to Rosa, love her with all my heart xx
Congratulations gorgeous!! This was so refreshing to watch, so thank you for sharing with us!! You're such a beautiful family. Blessings often come when you least expect it. Xxx
Well first of all Rebecca……well done for being sooo honest. I can understand your feelings both Steve and yourself. You have two gorgeous boys who will love their new baby😁. You will all get Through this together. I will look forward to following your journey. Take Care and be Happy all of you. 😎😎❤️
Congratulations love everything happens for a reason 🥰 and I'm sure this baby will be loved and bring just as much joy as the boys have brought you. Hoping you keep well and have a fabulous pregnancy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 xxxxxx
Awww hun that was the exact same with us my baby is 8 months old we now have 4 boys! And we weren’t expecting to have another baby! And we went thru the exact same things! And it was hard but he’s here and he’s obsessed with him things will b good in the end xxxx
Thank you for being so honest it’s nice to see I used natural cycle and now 36 weeks pregnant it was a massive shock and at times has affects my mental health as it wasn’t the plan but I agree in it’s meant to be and I can’t wait To hold my little girl now 💕
Well, I am so pleased for you all! I’ve hoped you’d to have baby no3 for so long 🥰 yay! Sending lots of love eeeeeek!! Looking forward to the pregnancy updatessss 💗🤩
Hiya lovely, I think it's always a shock for the men in our lives even when it is planned. They seem to take the news differently to us women. He'll come round don't you worry about that. Right now he's taking it all in and may even talk to someone who is going to reassure him that having another baby is a good thing. I think he, like other men is content that he has 2 beautiful sons who are now growing up and now is going to go through it all again...well, say no more! When I fell pregnant with my 2nd baby, my husband couldn't believe it and he was at work at the time and I couldn't help but phone him to give him the 'good news' but when he got home he wanted to see the pregnancy test and for me to do another one just to make sure! It took him about a month for it to sink in and then he was as happy as me and seeing I was over the moon was all it took! So Steve is like every other man out there! No bad feelings towards him at all. You stay strong and enjoy your pregnancy and bump is showing already lol. Oh, what I did tell my husband at the time was, if he didn't want any more babies, he should have put something on it!!!! Take care, oh, CONGRATULATIONS 💚
Aw Rebecca congratulations! I’m sorry it’s been tough for you guys, I really hope you can both work it out and enjoy your last pregnancy. Sending lots of love xxxx
Congratulations, so happy for you all such a lovely raw video such a real person literally love you and your videos and I cannot wait to follow your journey ❤️
Aw Rebecca ❤ thing's will be ok. Our second baby came as a bit of a shock but after a few weeks we both got used to it and it was my best pregnancy! She's 9 now and she's the apple of our eyes. We went on to have another so have 3 now too. It will be ok .. Hope your sicky feeling eases, its the worst xx
Our third baby was a surprise too, definitely meant to be though and couldn’t imagine life without him! Can’t wait to follow along with the rest of your pregnancy 😊xx
Ah Rebecca ❤️❤️ only just started watching. It’s so good you shared this I think. Did Steve know you had bought the tests/ took them? Congratulations again though!! It was meant to be ❤️✨❤️xxx
Congratulations 💖 love your honesty my hubby only wanted 2 we ended up with 2 more surprises 🤭💖💖 youre an amazing mummy and you’ll love having a bigger family lots of love
Congratulations being waiting for this video so happy for you. I wondered as you have being eating really well too that can sometimes help to get pregnant xx
We was in the same place 3 years ago we had 3 and husband didnt want more but then we had a surprise number 4 . he came round to the idea once he got his head in the right place. I think some men think about a baby differently to women but im sure he will be absolutely besotted when little bean is born x
Congratulations!! Another natural cycles user here 19weeks pregnant with a little surprise baby, maybe husband was also shocked and is still getting his head around baby number 3 on the way. Xx
LOL I was about to do natural cycles....but I think I'll reconsider 😂🤔 I'm not ready for a 3rd yet I've not long had my second baby. Congratulations hun xxx
@@emmaclairehughes9467 no I used an app and then ovulation tests, would be intimate after my period then wait for 48 hours after a positive ovulation test worked for 8 months until we had sex when I was due to ovulate 🙈 one thing people don’t tell you is your sex drive is so much higher when your due to ovulate! My sister in law has used the thermometer version for 4+ years though and never caught x
Love the video!! Very brave of you to do this my love!! You guys are a lovely family and a third baby will fit in just fine 🥰 Steve will come round 😊 I wish you guys all the best and this little baby is so lucky to have you as a mummy ❤️ xxxx
Congratulations to you all hope your feeling as amazing on the inside as it radiates on the outside pregnancy looks good on you, you look amazing! Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy journey. Xx
This is so refreshing to see real life. I think so many men are in the same boat as Steve they just don’t get the same wish for loads of babies like us. I was actually considering the app omg 🤣 maybe not then lol. This baby was meant to be it will all work out xx
Congratulations!!! I'm so chuffed for you! Imagine if you have a little girl!💗💗obviously the sex doesn't matter! Were you using natural cycles when you fell pregnant? I was considering using it x
Fair play to you.. you're honestly is so refreshing. I'm sure lots of other couples are going through the same situation. Good luck to you and bless your beautiful family
Congratulations! I’m kinda in the same boat as you, my partner doesn’t want another baby and I’d love one, I sadly lost our 2nd baby 2 weeks ago and I would have been pretty much due the same time as you, I’m so excited to follow your journey 🤍
Congratulations to you all… I also had a surprise 3rd baby and my hubby was like Steve not wanting a 3rd or prepared but soon came round and she was the best blessing ever and completed our family. Lovely little bump already! Excited to see your journey 💕
What's meant to be will always be ❤ I love how real you are! I also want another baby but my partner keeps changing hes mind I completely understand the feeling xx
Your feelings are exactly the same as mine 🤍 I don't feel done yet and would love a 3rd baby. I hope everything goes smoothly for you and your family 🥰
Ah bless you i really felt for you watching the video I'm happy for you and know it's going to be a happy ever after for you and Steve and you're beautiful boy's 🥰
Your both absolutely amazing parents, the boys are a credit to you both, this little bundle of pure joy, will bring the warrior out in ste , he's already in love with the little bean, I think the shock will be zilch before he watches this video ××
Congratulations again, we had our surprise baby in Sept 2020 after 13 years and my partner wanted no more and she is the best lil girl in the world and so loved. Your lil baby will just slot into place. She loves her big brother idolises him
Thank you for being so open and honest in your video I just wanted to say things wilI get better. I went through something very similar with my partner in my 3rd pregnancy. We had a boy and girl together at the time and my partner was happy with the two we had but like you I did want another. Anyway we didn't plan our 3rd baby and my partner didn't react very well to the news either, he supported me throughout the pregnancy and came to all the appointments etc but he will admit himself he was quite closed off and didn't want to really get involved which for me was hard because I could see how he was feeling and I just wanted him to he as happy as I was and it made me feel quite alone in the process.
But the moment our son was born he literally fell in love with him straight away and 5 years on he still adores him and couldn't imagine life without him x
I just want to squeeze you. My first wasn’t planned last two were that feeling when it isn’t and your not sure if it’s something you want or in my case ready for I can understand how Steve felt/feels I was there. For a long time. Even say first 18m of my eldest life I just went through motions but the again don’t we all first time I dunno. Your wonderful parents and this baby is very lucky to have you both xx welcome to crazy world of 3 kids it’s mental. Amazing and truly exhausting I am excited to see your real take on it
I must say as 2 adult people who already has 2 children surely Steve should be fully aware and probably not so hard on you for the fact that you fell pregnant x he knows how it works ...there are people falling pregnant using the pill or condom or even coil so of course natural method can fail too.
Just try and take it easy xxx congratulations x
First off congratulations! Second your emotions around the shock of pregnancy are very okay & I can still see so much excitement in your eyes. It will all work out awesome 🌸 also that lil bump at the end nawh how gorgeous 💕
Thank you for being so honest. It took a long time for my husband to get on board about trying for our 4th, and I know he would have been more than happy to stop at 3. No one ever talks about this issue! We are due number 4 in March and I know it will be a big adjustment but I'm hoping it won't be long before it feels like baby has always been here. You take care! Looking forward to following your journey! X
Huge congratulations to you all ❤️ planned or unplanned a new baby to love and cherish is a blessing and I'm so happy for you. Thanks for being brave enough to share your life with us and continuously rise above the negativity 💪🏻 your channel is a joy to watch!
So refreshing for your honesty more need to be like this to show life is not all rosey, I'm 41 now I had my first at 17 obviously we didn't plan but after I had our son found out my husband never actually wanted children so we got on he loved our son they became a gang then at 24 fell pregnant after being unwell that was a testing time don't think we spoke for first 4 months daughter was born we became a team of 4 daughter has a disability so last 16 yrs as been the most testing time and I'm still shocked we got through 23 yrs but deep down I'll always regret never having more I never felt done finished which ever ppl call it but I do also have to respect my husbands feelings plus he is 13 years older than me , you will both get there ❤
Firstly congratulations to you both! Secondly, this is exactly why I am subscribed to you and have been for some years, because you are “real”, you put yourself out there whether good or bad and I admire you for this. You have a beautiful family and soon to have an even more beautiful family. Steve sounds very much like my hubby, I think men take a little bit more time to accept and come to terms with change whether that be good change or bad change, it’s a man thing ☺️ It will all work out in the end. These things happen for a reason ☺️
(P.S I’ve just bought the Lumi off you via Facebook if you recognise the name 🙂) xx
I am in exactly the place as yourself. A few years ago I really wanted another child (already got a daughter and a son), just felt I wasn't done. I spoke to my hubby and he didn't share the same views. Anyway, at time he agreed not to prevent anything, and I felt I couldn't ask more than that. Unfortunately, at the time we didn't get caught, ibwas really upset but like I said couldnt ask anymore of my husband. Then Covid hit, life got a bit more crazy (both work for NHS), I put it all to the back of my head. And then....July 2021 we found out baby number 3 is on their way in March 2022! Currently 33 weeks pregnant and it's been a flipping journey! 6 more weeks and he will be here, can't wait to see his little face!
Congratulations and all the best with your pregnancy x
Aww huge congratulations xxxx
Thank you! You too! We both felt the exact same at the beginning, it just doesn't feel real and I was worried because it wasn't really what he wanted. He has even said to me its not what he wanted by choice but he wouldn't change it either and he also can't wait to meet little man. Sometimes life has other plans. X
Aw congratulations,a new baby is always good news. Did Natural Cycles fail or did you stop using that method?? If so,why was it such a surprise? Thinking of using it myself,but won’t as if it isn’t effective xx
I’d be interested to know also
Was there ever an option for you to terminate? I only ask because my ex didn’t want children at all and when I had a late period, he told me I’d have to terminate. Or did Steve come round quickly? (I’m in a much better relationship now with someone who does want children!)
I 100% think some people on RUclips act happy in pregnancy announcements just to have that perfect moment to share online when its not always the case. It's refreshing to see a more realistic version 😂 xxx
Really appreciate how hard it must have been to be so honest and open, I was in a similar position with my second. My first was only 9 months old when I fell pregnant, but it was the opposite for us... he really wanted a second and I wasn't so sure at first, I was terrified and I hate to admit this now but a fleeting thought of having a termination went through my head initially. I took the pregnancy test while he was at work as I wanted to deal with the feelings and emotions myself for a few hours, without his input and him being all excited ... anyway we continued with the pregnancy and I'm so glad we did, no regrets whatsoever and Steve will feel the same, he's probably on board already since you filmed this. But also wanted to reassure him that it's a natural reaction. A baby is a big thing. xx
So happy for you but I was in your boat and my heart was wanting something only I wanted, can’t talk as my last text was taken of because I said Steve should get a snip of the top of his head 😉😉😉 but I understand so much, but it was ment to be, so so happy take care and things will be as you wanted it, I send you so much love and here if ever you want to moan I’m here as I have been in your place take care of you please we all love you and your family xxx
I'm sorry you've had some sadness about this pregnancy, Rebecca. My daughter and her husband had no. 3 baby in 2020, just as the two older boys were becoming a lot easier to manage - we were all shocked! However, this little boy has completed their family so beautifully, and the big boys fell in love with him immediately and are so patient and loving with him. I think you and Steve will feel a sense of your little family being complete when this baby is born, and I wish you both the best!
Thank you for being so honest, and realistic! I’m so pleased for you all! I saw your rant on Instagram, and you’re so right. They are sad little people, who should really get a life. Regardless, you’re amazing. Lots of love. 💕
When we lost a baby,we were desperate to get pregnant again,but when we did I was obviously so so happy, as was my husband,but at the same time petrified! Even when they are planned it can be so scary ! They're a lifetime adjustment aren't they... But everything happens for a reason and this baby will be loved. I saw your video where you tell the boys and it was the sweetest reaction!!!x
Congratulations Rebecca. 💗
I'm sorry Steve is struggling but you're right, it's not something he wanted and it will take him some time to digest it all. He's a fantastic father though and he will love the new baby just as much as the boys.
I am a strong believer that there are no coincidences and that God gives you a child when He sees fit. Enjoy your blessing ❤
Can't wait to follow along the pregnancy and birth.
Congratulations!!🥰 To be fair he should have had a vasectomy if he was that convinced he didnt want a no 3🤦♀️😂 takes two to tango!! All the best for your family xx
So refreshing to see some honesty on RUclips! Thank you x 😘
Love how open and honest you are ❤️ - like you say real life is not what we see on Instagram and you tube. I always believe things happen for a reason and baby number 3 is definitely meant to be for you. Watched your announcement video and Alfie’s sheer joy and reaction to the news had me in tears. Huge congratulations again to you all and keep us all posted with your updates 😍 xx
I love how real you are Rebecca. So many of us have our own stories to tell & it is nice when people share their real experiences 😊 sending you all positive vibes ❤ x
Congratulations x at the end of the day its two people having sex and it's to people who make a baby so even if Steve was upset at first he must understand he was half the reason your pregnant. Its a blessing its never the right time and your both amazing loving parents already and you will be again 💖
So refreshing that you have shown your honest feelings over it all. Everything happens for a reason lovely lady, I honestly believe that.
Congratulations to you all. I’m sure the baby will be a very welcome addition to your beautiful family. You take care of yourself ❤️ xx
I am 8 months pregnant with our 3rd ‘surprise’ baby! Also used app! 🙄 it was a huge shock- I was about to hand in my resignation! But after two boys we are having a little girl (would have been happy either way) and now my husband says it’s the best ‘mistake’ we’ve ever made! It’s not always happy but they are so worth it and everything definitely happens for a reason! xxx
Watching this a second time, and I just want to let you know I so feel you and love you for your vulnerability with us. You and Steve are going to okay. Of course it’s stressful because a baby is huge! I’m soon to be going through things like, as I’ll be moving to England at 4 months pregnant, finding a home etc. so stay strong my love xxx
Awwww this is why we love watching you your so honest & real ,, I was gobsmacked to find out I was having my last baby especially with my older child being 6 and we were done etc . Well fast forward a year and I'm not gunna lie it's been a rollercoster at times , sleep now doesn't exist but my lil babba is 1 this week and it's like he's never not been here. I hope your doing OK, looking forward to following your journey xx
It does feel soo strange to say doesn't it- I still have to remember I am now I forget! I think maybe it's being so busy with children you just get on don't you without time to think. I found 3 fitted in really nicely its a lovely way to complete your gorgeous family.
I'm so happy for you all 🥰❤
Awe hun what a emotional video 😭🥺 It takes 2 Hun so I’m sure Steve understands that! I’m sure he will be fine your a beautiful family! You have got this 💪🏻
Mum of 3 my self my 3rd was a nice surprise 😍
It’s meant to be I believe in that
Can’t wait to watch your pregnancy journey
Thank you for being honest xoxox
Oh I’m so pleased for you all sweetheart!! 💓 EDIT my husband is desperate for another baby so am I but with our daughter she was IVF. I can totally understand it was very testing for you both but these things happen for a reason….I can not wait for baby updates now! Take care sweetheart xx
Thank you for being so honest. I always love that about your channel, compared to other RUclipsrs you're so real and honest. Best of luck to you and your family, it will all work out 💕
I’ve always adored you for being so real❤️ It was meant to be. I hope you are doing okay❤️
I love your honesty!! So refreshing ❤️
Good on you for being so honest, not a lot of people would!xxxx
Never did believe that Natural Cycle app! You will both forget about this rough time the minute you see your new baby & wonder why you worried so much 💜 This baby will slot into your life and routine easily - chin up 🥰
Congratulations! My husband had a vasectomy right after our 2nd. Son was born, but like you I could have had another. He has little patience for children especially his own unfortunately. We are making it work. Stay strong mom and just love those babies.
My third is turning 1 in 2 days, if I had been serious about being happy with 2, I would have had the vasectomy earlier, and even being semi planned I still freaked out a little for a while. It's all an adjustment period and everyone is different in how they handle it, can't wait to see it progress over the next year.
Things happen for a reason sweetheart, I'm sure Steve will be fine when he's digested it properly, he's a great Dad to the boys so I know deep down he's going to be awesome with the new baby of course he will, when you announced it I was so happy for you, I know from watching you over the past few years you wanted another baby, I remember you getting emotional when woody stopped breast feeding, I knew you wasn't finished, it will all work out love, I wish you , Steve, & the boys all the best, we've just become grandparents for the first time in September to Rosa, love her with all my heart xx
Congratulations gorgeous!! This was so refreshing to watch, so thank you for sharing with us!! You're such a beautiful family. Blessings often come when you least expect it. Xxx
Well first of all Rebecca……well done for being sooo honest. I can understand your feelings both Steve and yourself. You have two gorgeous boys who will love their new baby😁. You will all get Through this together. I will look forward to following your journey. Take Care and be Happy all of you. 😎😎❤️
Congratulations love everything happens for a reason 🥰 and I'm sure this baby will be loved and bring just as much joy as the boys have brought you. Hoping you keep well and have a fabulous pregnancy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 xxxxxx
Awww hun that was the exact same with us my baby is 8 months old we now have 4 boys! And we weren’t expecting to have another baby! And we went thru the exact same things! And it was hard but he’s here and he’s obsessed with him things will b good in the end xxxx
Thank you for being so honest it’s nice to see I used natural cycle and now 36 weeks pregnant it was a massive shock and at times has affects my mental health as it wasn’t the plan but I agree in it’s meant to be and I can’t wait To hold my little girl now 💕
Well, I am so pleased for you all! I’ve hoped you’d to have baby no3 for so long 🥰 yay! Sending lots of love eeeeeek!! Looking forward to the pregnancy updatessss 💗🤩
Hiya lovely, I think it's always a shock for the men in our lives even when it is planned. They seem to take the news differently to us women. He'll come round don't you worry about that. Right now he's taking it all in and may even talk to someone who is going to reassure him that having another baby is a good thing. I think he, like other men is content that he has 2 beautiful sons who are now growing up and now is going to go through it all again...well, say no more! When I fell pregnant with my 2nd baby, my husband couldn't believe it and he was at work at the time and I couldn't help but phone him to give him the 'good news' but when he got home he wanted to see the pregnancy test and for me to do another one just to make sure! It took him about a month for it to sink in and then he was as happy as me and seeing I was over the moon was all it took! So Steve is like every other man out there! No bad feelings towards him at all. You stay strong and enjoy your pregnancy and bump is showing already lol. Oh, what I did tell my husband at the time was, if he didn't want any more babies, he should have put something on it!!!! Take care, oh, CONGRATULATIONS 💚
Can’t wait to follow your journey. A massive congratulations ❤️
Aw Rebecca congratulations! I’m sorry it’s been tough for you guys, I really hope you can both work it out and enjoy your last pregnancy. Sending lots of love xxxx
Congratulations, so happy for you all such a lovely raw video such a real person literally love you and your videos and I cannot wait to follow your journey ❤️
I use the natural cycles with the thermometer. I think I’m a day behind you in pregnancy. Definitely doesn’t work 😂😂
Aw Rebecca ❤ thing's will be ok.
Our second baby came as a bit of a shock but after a few weeks we both got used to it and it was my best pregnancy! She's 9 now and she's the apple of our eyes. We went on to have another so have 3 now too.
It will be ok ..
Hope your sicky feeling eases, its the worst xx
Aww congratulations amazing news.. I've only just started following you and I love your videos , such a nice family. X
Hi Rebecca, So proud of you doing a vlog like this it must of been so hard ❤ So Happy for you all cant wait for all the new adventures 👨👩👧👧 👶 💕💕💕
Our third baby was a surprise too, definitely meant to be though and couldn’t imagine life without him! Can’t wait to follow along with the rest of your pregnancy 😊xx
Congratulations! Everything happens for a reason! ❤
Ah Rebecca ❤️❤️ only just started watching. It’s so good you shared this I think. Did Steve know you had bought the tests/ took them?
Congratulations again though!! It was meant to be ❤️✨❤️xxx
Congratulations 💖 love your honesty my hubby only wanted 2 we ended up with 2 more surprises 🤭💖💖 youre an amazing mummy and you’ll love having a bigger family lots of love
Congratulations being waiting for this video so happy for you. I wondered as you have being eating really well too that can sometimes help to get pregnant xx
We was in the same place 3 years ago we had 3 and husband didnt want more but then we had a surprise number 4 . he came round to the idea once he got his head in the right place. I think some men think about a baby differently to women but im sure he will be absolutely besotted when little bean is born x
Congratulations!! Another natural cycles user here 19weeks pregnant with a little surprise baby, maybe husband was also shocked and is still getting his head around baby number 3 on the way. Xx
LOL I was about to do natural cycles....but I think I'll reconsider 😂🤔 I'm not ready for a 3rd yet I've not long had my second baby. Congratulations hun xxx
It works if you use ovulation tests or temp checks along side x
@@heatherjane4760 Yeah it comes with a thermometer doesn't it? Do you do it? X
@@emmaclairehughes9467 no I used an app and then ovulation tests, would be intimate after my period then wait for 48 hours after a positive ovulation test worked for 8 months until we had sex when I was due to ovulate 🙈 one thing people don’t tell you is your sex drive is so much higher when your due to ovulate! My sister in law has used the thermometer version for 4+ years though and never caught x
@@heatherjane4760 that's amazing xx
Congratulations 💕💕 I saw your insta of you telling the boys and it brought tears to my eyes xx
Don't be so hard on yourself.Everything happens for a reason .Stay positive and look to the future.
Love the honesty so real!! Congratulations 💕💕
Love the video!! Very brave of you to do this my love!! You guys are a lovely family and a third baby will fit in just fine 🥰 Steve will come round 😊 I wish you guys all the best and this little baby is so lucky to have you as a mummy ❤️ xxxx
Thank you for being so honest , congratulations ❤️❤️
Awh babe there is plenty of love in your relationship for another little person.God Bless you all.xx
Congratulations! The universe knew exactly what you needed 💗💗
Congratulations to you all hope your feeling as amazing on the inside as it radiates on the outside pregnancy looks good on you, you look amazing! Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy journey. Xx
This is so refreshing to see real life. I think so many men are in the same boat as Steve they just don’t get the same wish for loads of babies like us.
I was actually considering the app omg 🤣 maybe not then lol.
This baby was meant to be it will all work out xx
Congratulations ❤️ I love how honest you are. Cant wait for you to share your journey xxx
Congratulations!!! I'm so chuffed for you! Imagine if you have a little girl!💗💗obviously the sex doesn't matter! Were you using natural cycles when you fell pregnant? I was considering using it x
Oh you've just said! Thank you for mentioning it!
A massive congratulations to you !! Well done 💕❤️😍
Fair play to you.. you're honestly is so refreshing. I'm sure lots of other couples are going through the same situation. Good luck to you and bless your beautiful family
Congratulations! I’m kinda in the same boat as you, my partner doesn’t want another baby and I’d love one, I sadly lost our 2nd baby 2 weeks ago and I would have been pretty much due the same time as you, I’m so excited to follow your journey 🤍
Congratulations to you all… I also had a surprise 3rd baby and my hubby was like Steve not wanting a 3rd or prepared but soon came round and she was the best blessing ever and completed our family. Lovely little bump already! Excited to see your journey 💕
Thank you for being so honest congratulation looking forward to following your journey xx
What's meant to be will always be ❤ I love how real you are! I also want another baby but my partner keeps changing hes mind I completely understand the feeling xx
Your feelings are exactly the same as mine 🤍 I don't feel done yet and would love a 3rd baby. I hope everything goes smoothly for you and your family 🥰
Everything happens for a reason! ♡♡
Congratulations on baby number 3 💕 xx
Ah bless you i really felt for you watching the video I'm happy for you and know it's going to be a happy ever after for you and Steve and you're beautiful boy's 🥰
Thank you for keeping it real 💜. Sending hugs 🤗 xx
Your both absolutely amazing parents, the boys are a credit to you both, this little bundle of pure joy, will bring the warrior out in ste , he's already in love with the little bean, I think the shock will be zilch before he watches this video ××
Same feelings for us aswell when we were having our fourth,but he came around eventually like Steve has glad you spoke about it tho and was real.
Congratulations gorgeous💕💙 more baby name videos??????:)
Congratulations to you all 🥰 very excited to watch your next chapter unfold. Beautiful family xx
Babes just fit in the routine you have, steve will be fine, im sure.
Congratulations everything happens for a reason!xx
Congratulations! Hope you are doing ok xx
Congratulations i knew were gonna have anouther baby before came on and Announce it its weird my brother gonna have another baby so be Auntie again 🙈🤗
Congratulations 👏 🎊 💐 🥳 👏 🎊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
So excited to follow your journey 💞
Everything happens for a reason. It’s a blessing 🤗
It good that you haveing a baby..hope it baby girl
Congratulations again, we had our surprise baby in Sept 2020 after 13 years and my partner wanted no more and she is the best lil girl in the world and so loved. Your lil baby will just slot into place. She loves her big brother idolises him
Congratulations ❤️ love how real and true you are x
Honesty is best policy xx
Real & honest. Thank you for sharing this x
Congrats!!👶🏻💖
I just wanted to give you a big hug xx
Congratulations on your news and good luck