I'm an older person. I picked a job and stuck with it. I never found out what I was meant to do. It's good to have a social circle but something I have avoided, as I am a loner. I often wondered how my life would have turned out if I made deep friendships when I was younger. I am pretty stubborn though lol.
Hi friend, personally I appreciate I have deep friendships although my social circle is very small, I can always find something new about myself and relationship between. However I also know very true that life is a lonely journey and never expect someone by my side forever. So I would say wish you can be the best friend of yourself, and enjoy the time when spending with others.
I feel you, really, don't know your age but currently I am 24, quit my office job last year to write novels and set up my channel, not an easy journey but here I am, phew= = RUclips basically is hell for beginners (views and subscribers, etc) but I could say a lot of famous RUclipsrs've been through that stage. We came from the same place, you could always change your life if you're desperate to, maybe you could try volunteering in foreign countries? I am not sure about your definition of "quit", but I wish you good luck and all the best!
You're doing very well! I'm sure you will find the way. I also recommend you to read "Ecclesiastes", it's short, but really deep. Your situation reminded me of it.
@@lynnfromChina I would like to learn Spanish. I studied in high school. Listening is the hardest because all the words seem to blend together. Thats why I am impressed that you learned English so well where you can think in another language besides your own.
I feel encouraged to live! I too struggle to live in the present. Right now I am an eager 22 year old who got laid off from my job and so I gave myself a month to focus on art, so I could enter an art academy and go pro. But I find it difficult to focus on studies when I always give my attention away to: youtube, videogames and other quick hits of dopamine. I can recall you saying that you don't desire any distractions and that made me super happy !!! You don't make the battle for your dream life impossible by engaging with more shit on the daily basis then you need to, huge respect. You seem like a person with a very strong heart, so as long as you let yourself pursuit the image that you want your life to look like, you'll make it a reality, no doubt about it. Anxiety is probably here to stay, but it is what it is... :D This video left me fired up ! :D Thank you for sharing your thoughts, you got this!
Hey art academy? GO FOR IT! You probably know most of the people stop learning and reading when they are an adult. Learning and growing is a lifetime mission isn’t it? I’m encouraged too thank you!!
Lynn, you are just starting. you have a long road ahead. keep on, if you run into someone you can team up with, even if humble, but otherwise a good match, build your family. the other choice would be a materialistic meaningless life, no matter how much you like what you do. life is hard, it will always be hard. A big empty house is no match for small house with kids. how many kids can you have in china as of now? just curious, i know even just one is a big expense.
Hi! Thank you so much for your advices!! Very useful and practical, 20s is so hard but important and cherish, try to make it good. We can have 2-3 kids now, but you know very well even marriage and one kid small family could be unreachable for many young generations due to the living pressure and the career uncertainty etc.
Before quitting just try working a bit less and spending that time on yourself, you may find that your problem is not work itself but overworking. Also, I know it sounds counter-intuitive but feeling obligated to work to support family/kids feels better than not having any reason to struggle at all. That's just how the human brain is evolved to function. BTW, is your name "Lín" in Pinyin? I'm just starting to try to learn some Mandarin.
Work hard to earn enough to have a good life. Even more importantly, get married and have two kids. If you're a lesbian, get kids through donor. Family is the only good investment for the future. Everything else is all fleeting. 加油！
I would say if you want time and choice freedom, you'll need financial freedom, which will require investing. The most important component of investments is time due to the compounding effect. I think since you are young, you should look into this now. If you can put some money into‚ for example, quality stocks and index funds or ETFs that track the S&P 500, your future self will thank you. I don't know how investments are regulated and taxed in China, but I'm sure you can find out the appropriate investment account types and suitable investments.
Thank you for your advice!! I did invest a little in Hongkong stock. For US stock we cannot buy directly but there are some rare etf found we can buy in China. I’m a very newbie in this. Will try thank you again!!
No matter wat ur age ,believe in yourself ! The path may be very difficult
@@yeoweehuathuat8926 thank you！❤️
Congratulations. There’s a lot of wisdom in this video.
Thank you ❤
I'm an older person. I picked a job and stuck with it. I never found out what I was meant to do. It's good to have a social circle but something I have avoided, as I am a loner. I often wondered how my life would have turned out if I made deep friendships when I was younger. I am pretty stubborn though lol.
Hi friend, personally I appreciate I have deep friendships although my social circle is very small, I can always find something new about myself and relationship between. However I also know very true that life is a lonely journey and never expect someone by my side forever. So I would say wish you can be the best friend of yourself, and enjoy the time when spending with others.
keep it up. you got this. doing vlogs helps with the mindset and being able to listen to yourself years down the road. thank you for sharing
Thank you for your kind words❤
You are still young❤
Here i am 31 no job, no girlfriend😢
Hi hi, at least we are still alive, nothing can be worst, only good things will come then!!
Chinese people are interesting to me. Glad I found your channel
Thank you I hope you enjoy watching.
I feel you, really, don't know your age but currently I am 24, quit my office job last year to write novels and set up my channel, not an easy journey but here I am, phew= = RUclips basically is hell for beginners (views and subscribers, etc) but I could say a lot of famous RUclipsrs've been through that stage. We came from the same place, you could always change your life if you're desperate to, maybe you could try volunteering in foreign countries? I am not sure about your definition of "quit", but I wish you good luck and all the best!
Thank you so much for your sharing this! Your channel looks amazing! Good luck! ❤
You're doing very well! I'm sure you will find the way.
I also recommend you to read "Ecclesiastes", it's short, but really deep. Your situation reminded me of it.
Thank you so much! And thanks for the recommendation. I will check! ❤
Keep searching and finding your way. Keep hopeful and positive. People like people who just share their lives and adventures and are honest..
Thank you!! I will. 😉
You speak English so well. I wish that i could learn a foreign language like you.
@@Megaterranova Thank you sweetheart! Which language are you interested?
@@lynnfromChina I would like to learn Spanish. I studied in high school. Listening is the hardest because all the words seem to blend together. Thats why I am impressed that you learned English so well where you can think in another language besides your own.
I feel encouraged to live! I too struggle to live in the present. Right now I am an eager 22 year old who got laid off from my job and so I gave myself a month to focus on art, so I could enter an art academy and go pro. But I find it difficult to focus on studies when I always give my attention away to: youtube, videogames and other quick hits of dopamine. I can recall you saying that you don't desire any distractions and that made me super happy !!! You don't make the battle for your dream life impossible by engaging with more shit on the daily basis then you need to, huge respect. You seem like a person with a very strong heart, so as long as you let yourself pursuit the image that you want your life to look like, you'll make it a reality, no doubt about it. Anxiety is probably here to stay, but it is what it is... :D This video left me fired up ! :D Thank you for sharing your thoughts, you got this!
Hi friend, I appreciate your words!! You are a young dreamer. How beautiful you are with dream in heart ! Keep going!!❤❤
Hey art academy? GO FOR IT! You probably know most of the people stop learning and reading when they are an adult. Learning and growing is a lifetime mission isn’t it? I’m encouraged too thank you!!
@@lynnfromChina Thank you ☺ I WILL !
Keep growing your channel ❤
Thank you, I will try！
Lynn, you are just starting. you have a long road ahead.
keep on, if you run into someone you can team up with, even if humble, but otherwise a good match, build your family.
the other choice would be a materialistic meaningless life, no matter how much you like what you do.
life is hard, it will always be hard. A big empty house is no match for small house with kids.
how many kids can you have in china as of now? just curious, i know even just one is a big expense.
Hi! Thank you so much for your advices!! Very useful and practical, 20s is so hard but important and cherish, try to make it good. We can have 2-3 kids now, but you know very well even marriage and one kid small family could be unreachable for many young generations due to the living pressure and the career uncertainty etc.
@@lynnfromChina that is true.
千里之行，始于足下
fire bro, you better keep it up then
Thank you for your encouragement!!
You have wonderful hair. A hair routine video would be nice to see
Ahaha thank you, I actually have the natural curly hair but it is irregular shape hard to make it in shape 😂😂.
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I have no energy left for work as well. In my 20's also
Work is not the only solution, I wish you have the energy for life!!
Before quitting just try working a bit less and spending that time on yourself, you may find that your problem is not work itself but overworking. Also, I know it sounds counter-intuitive but feeling obligated to work to support family/kids feels better than not having any reason to struggle at all. That's just how the human brain is evolved to function.
BTW, is your name "Lín" in Pinyin? I'm just starting to try to learn some Mandarin.
Thank you! Good point, responsibility could be the motivation of life. My name in Pinyin is Dai Qilin. Glad to know you are interested in Mandarin 😊😊
Work hard to earn enough to have a good life. Even more importantly, get married and have two kids. If you're a lesbian, get kids through donor. Family is the only good investment for the future. Everything else is all fleeting.
加油！
Thank you so much! That’s true.谢谢！
I would say if you want time and choice freedom, you'll need financial freedom, which will require investing. The most important component of investments is time due to the compounding effect. I think since you are young, you should look into this now. If you can put some money into‚ for example, quality stocks and index funds or ETFs that track the S&P 500, your future self will thank you. I don't know how investments are regulated and taxed in China, but I'm sure you can find out the appropriate investment account types and suitable investments.
Thank you for your advice!! I did invest a little in Hongkong stock. For US stock we cannot buy directly but there are some rare etf found we can buy in China. I’m a very newbie in this. Will try thank you again!!
我是外国人，你可以来北京市吗
You look like 葛曼棋
No one cares.
you care
lol
you are so well-articulated 🩷 good luck on your journey! you can do this!
Thank you sweetie!!