You had to leave this person behind because they would not step up..

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @11Virgo11
    @11Virgo11 4 месяца назад +69

    I am just learning about “Avoidant Dismissive Attachmen” style. This explains so much and I’m realizing he gave me more than he’s ever given anyone. It’s not me, it’s him. I hope he heals 🤍

    • @Divinelyprotected-c2w
      @Divinelyprotected-c2w 4 месяца назад +1

      Me too

    • @intothelight999
      @intothelight999 4 месяца назад

      Same here too.

    • @lesclark2193
      @lesclark2193 4 месяца назад +1

      Me too!

    • @katrinac.6735
      @katrinac.6735 4 месяца назад +6

      It's so interesting how many people are going through a similar experience at the same time.
      I just learned that my ex has that attachment style. It's tough to be on a receiving end.

    • @lindsay1770
      @lindsay1770 4 месяца назад

      Same here

  • @mingold1974
    @mingold1974 4 месяца назад +14

    I just stopped messaging him as I was tired of his ignoring behaviour all the time😢😞it's been 2 and a half month now,he's egoistic person.Its really depressing and hurtful but trying to move on now 😢
    thanks ❤️💯🙏🏻

  • @just1giuleejae1234
    @just1giuleejae1234 4 месяца назад +15

    This person was a catalyst twin flame. He left me for his ex-wife. And then got himself in a karmic connection that he's very unhappy with. Four years ago I met my true twin flame. He's the one I'm choosing. I don't want the catalyst anymore. And I definitely don't want his trauma anymore. Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @MariaRodriguez-le5ty
    @MariaRodriguez-le5ty 3 месяца назад +1

    I pray for his healing, and thank him for showing me where I need to heal still. I know it won’t go well together now, but life goes on as sad as we both are. Thank you so much for your reading! It popped up on my face and is very accurate. The third party is his landlady and exwife.

  • @lynellekristine
    @lynellekristine 4 месяца назад +3

    Your readings have been so spot on. His ex wife is the whisperer. Have never met her. Just still holds onto him…had to free the energy. Known each other in this life for years and past lives…focused on work and life and balancing inner energies. Expanding gifts and consciousness so much. Such peace
    Thank you!!

  • @reesamma8
    @reesamma8 4 месяца назад +4

    i hope to stop missing him

  • @adrianamendoza3095
    @adrianamendoza3095 4 месяца назад +9

    I tried to text him twice and he didn’t respond so after a lot of thinking I blocked him. I’m not begging. I have my dignity.

  • @ElismaGoliath-jr7vk
    @ElismaGoliath-jr7vk 3 месяца назад

    Thank you. I have set my boundaries..

  • @andycampano
    @andycampano 4 месяца назад +10

    Yeah it's too bad and so sad but maybe someone else loves me more...

  • @teetee50415
    @teetee50415 4 месяца назад +6

    I am so sick of this freaking human!!! Just when I don’t think of him the thoughts storm in. Our energy is still connected and I’ve tried many different things to break it. It’s fading thank god above but I need it gone

    • @xxg0t3mxx
      @xxg0t3mxx 3 месяца назад

      Dealing with this also… I tried to cut em off the other day and they blamed me and said I’m in my head everytime they turn it around on me.. and I care and love her so much that I end up just saying it’s me and deal with it..

  • @ingriddavies3236
    @ingriddavies3236 4 месяца назад +4

    Yes I have blocked scorpio as had enough of his mind games.

  • @matanatarot
    @matanatarot 3 месяца назад +1

    You have such a sweet and soft energy.

  • @sashathompson1729
    @sashathompson1729 3 месяца назад +1

    Amazingly accurate - thank you! ❤

  • @averageinvestor2529
    @averageinvestor2529 4 месяца назад +3

    Even though she ended it. I set the boundary but yes she is moved very slowly and yeah she hasn't shown any feelings from before. We msged the other week. First time in months. Then she just disappeared again. Feeling like I just need to let it all go

  • @marataylor3698
    @marataylor3698 4 месяца назад +4

    I’m really mixed. I’m so tired of this whole situation. I’m not taking scraps of communication.

  • @risingsunstudios8377
    @risingsunstudios8377 4 месяца назад +1

    The title and reading are 100% accurate ! ❤

  • @nikkicarr8816
    @nikkicarr8816 3 месяца назад

    Love watching youre videos youre amazing at what you do. Ive blocked him i will continue too move forward love my self continue too heal i got tired got nothing in return i did my bit i gave a lot. I took my energy back i wish him all the best. I waited 9 month never gave up got nothing in return he really hurt me didnt even act like i excited all games too him i told him i dont play games. I cannot believe i even kept trying for that long he knew We where sussposed grow together he didnt want too change! I deserve nothing but the best i believe the universe has only the best for me. I am blessed Amen 💫 ✨️ ❤️ 🙏

  • @Miko-yw5xt
    @Miko-yw5xt 20 дней назад

    we agreed to be friends after an unfortunate incident that made it clear we're not romantically compatible, but he was rude crude and mean at times. I had to call it out. he gave me the silent treatment, so I'm guessing friendship is out as well. it's an awkward/ immature situation, which professionally is unfortunate...x

  • @gracepoer3580
    @gracepoer3580 4 месяца назад +2

    I don't think we will bump into each other. He lives in a different state. We shall see what happens.

  • @MrCoffey23
    @MrCoffey23 3 месяца назад

    Amen, i claim this positive energy
    ❤❤❤❤Sharon❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Cuhryzwrmz
    @Cuhryzwrmz 3 месяца назад

    how are you so spot on, lol this girl I was talking to blocked me and I use a different profile to check her post cause I care for her and hope she's okay. If it is forever i'll let it be. Might be coping but I feel like she talks to me through these.

  • @Markismaximis
    @Markismaximis 3 месяца назад

    I pray they find their peace. ✌🏽🙏🏽💖✨🙏🏽🕊️

  • @julieguzman4289
    @julieguzman4289 3 месяца назад

    Accurate. On point. Too many interferences 3rd parties. Have my guard up for he did wrong to me in the past. I moved away. He not doing enough.

  • @ethaniel254
    @ethaniel254 3 месяца назад

    The reading feels so true. Ive said my goodbye after months of no contact after he ended things.
    I want to focus on living my life but Shelly is right, if he makes an effort to reconcile i will embrace the chance again. I dont know for sure if this is the end of us but i am preparing for the worst so i can move past the pain & hurt.
    He's my twin flame and my "one" & only. But for now ive made peace with myself that he never actually loved me. If he did, he wouldve kept fighting for us.💔

  • @terrylowe1958
    @terrylowe1958 4 месяца назад +6

    He blocked me after I found out he was engaged the whole time we were in a relationship and I confronted him about it.

  • @marletleroux579
    @marletleroux579 3 месяца назад +1

    It’s over from my side

  • @charvijain8039
    @charvijain8039 3 месяца назад

    Reunion I claim positivity

  • @ReneeAustin-vf9on
    @ReneeAustin-vf9on 4 месяца назад +3

    He knows how to contact me,he doesn't want to.😊❤

  • @AB-fg4mh
    @AB-fg4mh 4 месяца назад +2

    it hurts when i'm told i mean the world to them, but i'm the last person invited to parties by them. And they are "best friends" with a karmic. This karmic holds onto me too and they both put me in the middle to fix what they couldn't in each other. It's an ugly and sad situation.

  • @Cuhryzwrmz
    @Cuhryzwrmz 3 месяца назад

    I felt like half this reading was from her side and half was for me to let me know.. lol I knew that day when I woke up she would block me and it happened that night around 9pm I felt confused and was curious cause I didn’t say anything mean or hateful, I told her how she made me feel ditching me and ignoring me… and then she told me, there was some miscommunication when I went back and looked at the msgs, I felt stupid lol…I don’t think she’ll keep me blocked forever but as you said in the video, maybe I’m in denial. Lol she could kee me blocked but I feel like we are both lurking each others posts etc.. she use to lurk my stuff any ways and I know that.
    I know I care for her hope she does the same for me. I just feel like she needs some space.
    She was the only person I really had there for me though.
    One door closes and another opens always though, day after she blocked me this person I watch that’s a streamer added me on some socials and have been a little more talkative towards me. Hopefully I’ll be able to game with her some since the other girl ditched me.. it’s a streamer we both watched as well lol. Soo kind of ironic.

  • @TammyOliver-r3y
    @TammyOliver-r3y 3 месяца назад

    He had to choose and he made his choice after false promises to me. I waited for years and now it’s over. Hurts extremely badly but time will tell if I meant honestly anything at all. Praying I have courage and strength to move on. Thank you 🙏🏻💕

  • @Widget96
    @Widget96 3 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @connietaylor3701
    @connietaylor3701 4 месяца назад +2

    Completely accurate ~ blocked and done ~ ty! ❤

  • @Nicole-ly1ub
    @Nicole-ly1ub 4 месяца назад +3

    Its sad about are connection we both been through really bad relationships, when we got together we both had mask on we both love each other but either of us didn't want to say anything so we wouldn't get hurt again. So i walk away since it wasn't gonna go any further.( I know i could of said something but again didn't want to get hurt)

  • @fatimaseedat9678
    @fatimaseedat9678 4 месяца назад

    Shelly's hair looks amazing

  • @handerson-vl7df
    @handerson-vl7df 4 месяца назад

    Very accurate ❤ Thank you

  • @angeliquevisser6921
    @angeliquevisser6921 4 месяца назад

    Yes spot on 😅I left thank y it for this reading 🙏🏼❤️🦋

  • @gurjeetkaur9963
    @gurjeetkaur9963 3 месяца назад

    Thank you claim it 😊

  • @carlashupe3348
    @carlashupe3348 4 месяца назад

    This title is very appropriate.

  • @mb4308
    @mb4308 3 месяца назад +1

    Again this reading is 💯
    correct, i blocked her and she has let her feelings be known ,,but only very slowly, ive asked her and before she tells me she denies it saying she doesn't love me but yet she is still chatting to me , and every now and again she will tell me sh loves me , since i met her i have the feeling she is fighting her feelings for me, now we have stopped talking i lnow she has been looking at the messaging app we use to see if ive messaged her. She's in a different country and I'm in the UK,,,so that makes it hard from the start , i don't know if she's feeling it,,, hard on her as it is for me , she does have work commitments so I will wait to see if she does get in touch In 4 weeks
    I actually said to her that because she's blocked me again never to message me again

  • @bolajitosin1120
    @bolajitosin1120 3 месяца назад

    Even if he likes he should crawl, I don't need his karmic situation again. I have moved on. He should be with his karmic and enjoy his choice 😅

  • @xxg0t3mxx
    @xxg0t3mxx 3 месяца назад

    I have to learn it isn’t me it’s them.. nobody can match my energy.. it’s caused so much depression and thoughts of emptiness taking me into the dark..

  • @janicegentry2860
    @janicegentry2860 4 месяца назад

    Thank you,his daughter interfered,😢❤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇦🇺

  • @eulaliagandia1216
    @eulaliagandia1216 4 месяца назад

    You are so good!

  • @SuperColymon
    @SuperColymon 3 месяца назад

    It could be his wife!

  • @ajkeys4718
    @ajkeys4718 4 месяца назад

    💙🥶Wow I call her Elsa because she looks like the Ice Queen.

  • @ALex2000th
    @ALex2000th 4 месяца назад

    I love tarot ❤

  • @Number_5
    @Number_5 4 месяца назад

    Thanks 🙏

  • @siphuxolosomandi8402
    @siphuxolosomandi8402 4 месяца назад

    This is good.

  • @janekakkuratov
    @janekakkuratov 4 месяца назад

    SO TRUE.

  • @ingriddavies3236
    @ingriddavies3236 4 месяца назад

    I was wondering about your ring when you mentioned it.

  • @ingriddavies3236
    @ingriddavies3236 4 месяца назад

    Scorpio's mate made trouble between us as he lied about what I said.

  • @sibellewillman2563
    @sibellewillman2563 4 месяца назад

    I blocked him and I don’t have feelings for him anymore 🙏🙏

  • @Shoeshoe1
    @Shoeshoe1 3 месяца назад

    If your going to approach then do it

  • @WillisMcManus-nq5ox
    @WillisMcManus-nq5ox 4 месяца назад

    Bless u ❤❤

  • @JaiMak-i4c
    @JaiMak-i4c 4 месяца назад

    I spoke to my husband today after 2 months of him ghosting me and abandoning me. He told me he wants a divorce and that he is going to file a divorce my heart is absolutely destroyed broken but at least I know now.

  • @classicsonicgaming4208
    @classicsonicgaming4208 3 месяца назад

    I never blocked him he texted me by phone and blocked me from FB Messenger and he ran away and I set boundaries with him but I'd just forgive and just get the apology I deserve from him and he's being chicken about coming forward and being a sloth about it

  • @TequilaSheila730
    @TequilaSheila730 4 месяца назад

    I had to pull away from my TF, an Aquarius, quite a few months ago. He never responded to my last text message, and I never reached out again. I didn't block him. I sent him a friend request on fb, after some time had passed, he deleted it and blocked ne from friending him. I can still see his profile.

  • @jaynober8519
    @jaynober8519 4 месяца назад

    Odalis ❤❤❤❤❤❤love

  • @kimm1003
    @kimm1003 4 месяца назад

    Shelly we have a no contact court order until September 26th 😢😢😢😢

  • @susanvershay3944
    @susanvershay3944 4 месяца назад

    Over and done

  • @yaelboyer446
    @yaelboyer446 3 месяца назад

    It's not a question of time and place as he will be narcsist and scammer anyway so i find it ridiculous that he s me and tries to manipstade me back haha

  • @Islandgirl198
    @Islandgirl198 4 месяца назад +1

    No he’s not ready for a relationship, i gave him a 2n’d chance he blew it. I’m done set the boundaries to leave me alone.

  • @joycerobinson5292
    @joycerobinson5292 3 месяца назад

    He cheated on me with a girl who used to come over my house I walk away and September no communication since ❤️🙏🏾

  • @Tori-bf2oq
    @Tori-bf2oq 4 месяца назад

    My ex is stalking me and yes I did said about me

  • @marylockhart6340
    @marylockhart6340 4 месяца назад

    Been no contact. Past was sweet n passionate. Waiting for him n will take him back as long as he is willing to do it my way this time. I do go on an occasional date. Nothing serious or physical. I really want my past love back n hope he makes contact soon. Thanks Shelly. Amazing as always. I have some hope. What's a few more wks to wait...❤

  • @tianabreault9813
    @tianabreault9813 4 месяца назад

    ❤ 🙏 ❤

  • @ItzSassiiClassi
    @ItzSassiiClassi 4 месяца назад

  • @nadagrgic6106
    @nadagrgic6106 4 месяца назад

    🙏🥲❤️

  • @shabinak86
    @shabinak86 3 месяца назад

    He blocked me 😢😢

  • @forjusticeandtruth
    @forjusticeandtruth 4 месяца назад +2

    Lol he wants to take some opportunity that isnt even available to him anymore 😂 he turned out to be a weirdo and a stalker, blocked him and he wont leave me alone like a psycho. It REALLY is over, he is sooooooo insane omg.

  • @blissubliss8618
    @blissubliss8618 4 месяца назад

    🤗🤗

  • @fionas80
    @fionas80 3 месяца назад

    Thank you 💚

  • @farahfarah-pn1px
    @farahfarah-pn1px 4 месяца назад

    Thanks❤❤

  • @gaildavis4211
    @gaildavis4211 4 месяца назад

    🪄🎩🐇