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  • @planojag595
    @planojag595 5 лет назад +51

    This was a powerful ballad from the 80s that hits me a lot harder now that I am a father. I wouldn’t ever want my boys to think or feel this way toward me. The lyrics are raw and the video really does a good job hitting you right in the feels.

    • @DarkAngel1985Mike
      @DarkAngel1985Mike 2 года назад +1

      This hits deep because of my relationship with my father, and which is why I’m my early 20’s straight out of high school I became the full time caregiver for my nieces totaling to 4 one which ended up my nephew because I raised them to be proud who they are since I came out as bisexual in the 6th grade

  • @mah4769able
    @mah4769able 3 года назад +10

    One of my favorite songs that has real meaning to me. Biological father was never in my life and now those feelings are just starting to surface in my older years. 57 years old and I still talk to myself!!!

    • @happymountaineer9134
      @happymountaineer9134 2 года назад +1

      That feeling never goes away. I'm 49 and still talking to myself... the feeling I made sure my sons never felt growing up. I'll love this song forever bc it was and is exactly how I felt then and still feel now. Nobody can fix that feeling I evade it most days but it creeps through whenever it wants.

    • @roya.cathcartjr.5042
      @roya.cathcartjr.5042 2 года назад

      My parents separated when I was 10 years old over his infidelity in their marriage and he visited every other weekend until their divorce when I was 12 years old and his visits stopped and were replaced by excuses as to why he has to cancel.
      My paternal and maternal grandfathers became surrogate father's to me until my paternal grandfather died when I was 18 and my maternal grandfather when I was 23 and I just afterwards saw my father as someone I share a name with and 50% of my genes and nothing else.

  • @stephenmcgraw8871
    @stephenmcgraw8871 2 года назад +4

    The singer,Taime Downe,wrote this about his father when he left his mom and him when he was little.....was an emotional experience in the studio for him....I grew up,was part of this genre,and know how real most of this music was,how much talent it took for the songwriting and actual musicianship and millions will back me....thanx for playing tis.....

  • @danjennings8618
    @danjennings8618 5 лет назад +19

    Faster Pussycat has been in my playlist since the 80s. Great band that has been overlooked. Saw them once in Toronto with Slaughter, Kiss and Whitesnake.

  • @russellschoen3222
    @russellschoen3222 5 лет назад +21

    This is a great song. Very emotional message, about something a lot of children in America have to deal with, regardless of race.

  • @kenbradley1480
    @kenbradley1480 5 лет назад +30

    Man I haven't heard this song since I was a kid, great powerful song if you actually listen to the lyrics.

  • @annsteiger3531
    @annsteiger3531 5 лет назад +7

    This came out the year my son was born. WOW!! Such powerful and thought provoking lyrics. I could just cry hearing them now.
    My dad NEVER apologized for the crap he put us through. But I forgave him anyway. Not for him. I did it so I could move on with my own life. Anger & hate we're eating me up until I let it go.......

  • @jessicachance1926
    @jessicachance1926 5 лет назад +7

    I instantly clicked when I saw you reacted to this lol. I love FASTER PUSSYCAT.

  • @MRM-Wendy
    @MRM-Wendy 5 лет назад +11

    Loved when music and songs had a story. A lot of people could listen to it and it helped. I guess I'm stuck in my music era from50-90s and early 2000s. I dont get that feeling anymore for music.

    • @rickwebster7966
      @rickwebster7966 5 лет назад +3

      That's cause music itself isn't being set down and thought over like then.i agree something desperately needs to change

    • @MRM-Wendy
      @MRM-Wendy 5 лет назад +2

      @@rickwebster7966 i agree.

  • @sharonholsapple
    @sharonholsapple Год назад +1

    Loved this song since the 80's!! Powerful message!!

  • @carolinafine8050
    @carolinafine8050 4 года назад +3

    “Wasn’t I worth the time? Boy needs a daddy like a dance to mine...”. Damn. A son needs a dad so that he can see how to handle suffering, how to treat other people, how to be a honorable man (a dance to mime).

  • @leebassa1545
    @leebassa1545 5 лет назад +3

    This song broke my heart when it first came out, but now my 11 yr old son is going through this with my husband who is not around for him. He's actually past being hurt by his dad not coming around. Now when I tell him his dad is going to pick him up, he begs me not to make him go. He said he doesn't know him anymore and it's awkward for him. Sometimes I think I'm doing it wrong by covering for his dad and randomly saying things like "your dad said to tell you he loves you and misses you" "your dad saw your report card and said to tell you he's proud of you" and when he says something mean about his dad, i'm quick to jump his butt and remind him that he is still his dad and even though he doesn't come around but once a year, he does love him. It's getting harder to convince him - he's 11 yrs old, not 2 yrs old and he's not stupid. 🙁🙁🙁

    • @mikenastasi8927
      @mikenastasi8927 Год назад

      So sorry. I don't get fathers like that. My ex cheated on me. I got custody of my 3 kids. During the divorce it could go to trial or I could have custody if she didn't have to pay child support. I said done. Didn't care about child support, I just wanted my kids.

  • @katrinamitchell3785
    @katrinamitchell3785 5 лет назад +3

    Absolutely love the "Hair Bands" ballads! Always have, always will. It just grips your heart and soul! Thank you for doing this reaction video!

  • @jbrock917
    @jbrock917 4 года назад +3

    I have heard that this song is about the lead singers childhood. I feel his pain. I had a simular upbringing.

  • @vanhouten7377
    @vanhouten7377 5 лет назад +11

    Faster Pussycat - Bathroom Wall

  • @Harv72b
    @Harv72b 3 года назад +2

    Saying that Faster Pussycat wasn't exactly known for deep introspective lyrics prior to this song would be a massive understatement. Yet out of all the power ballads to come out of the hair metal era, "House of Pain" is one of the few that's really held up over the years. Definitely among my top 5 in that genre.

  • @jasonstagg9238
    @jasonstagg9238 5 лет назад +6

    Another song with a similar message, Everclear - Father of Mine
    Makes me think of my child hood and the love I have for my wife and child now.
    My father sat my sister and I down (I was 5 and my sister was 7) and told us he was getting married to a new woman and they were going to have a baby, so he couldn't be our dad anymore.

    • @chelley855
      @chelley855 5 лет назад

      Jason Stagg oh man. What a hit to the gut that must of been! Man hope and pray you have or will forgive him. Its not for him Its to help you heal! When we hold on to anger and don't forgive somebody it doesn't hurt them! They go on with their life and keep living.. We are the ones hurt by holding on to the anger and not forgiving! Take it from someone who held on to anger too long. It takes a toll on everything in your life and the other person is just moving forward and getting on with their stuff and it affects them none! I figured that out too late. Or it took me too long to figure it out. After i forgave and started healing... I wish I had done it years ago. I feel like a new person. It wasn't easy to forgive. I had to figure out that I was only hurting myself and the ones I loved! Hope and praying for you..

    • @DarkAngel1985Mike
      @DarkAngel1985Mike 5 лет назад

      Jason Stagg those 2 songs are some of my favorites because they resonate with me because I had a similar life story with a abusive and then after the divorce an absentee father

    • @RayfordRaySiegel
      @RayfordRaySiegel 5 лет назад

      Wow. That's big. I hope that you're Mom got re-married, and that you had a good Dad around, but even then, there must have been a hole, having a Father that you knew that walked out on you. Luckily, I never knew mine, but had a Dad. It's so bizarre to think about a parent having a whole other family.

  • @OffRoad-jh1do
    @OffRoad-jh1do 5 лет назад +2

    The most underrated music of all time 80's hair bands! So talented!!!

  • @72Gaslight
    @72Gaslight 5 лет назад +2

    Having grown up in a healthy and happy home this song was still a huge part of my late teens, well the band was to be honest but this song has become a bit of an emotional anthem and it's definetely one of many reasons why I decided to be a huge part of my sons life after separating from his mother. Huge part as in more than an emotional support, or just being there physically when called for. There's a whole lot more to it since I don't ever want to trigger that feeling of being alone in that house of pain. Intellectual, emotional, physical, mental support and guidance - parts of that actually came from this song. And it really makes me sad, to this day, when I hear it.

  • @carolinemccollum4476
    @carolinemccollum4476 4 года назад +1

    Oh my I'm an 80's baby lol. Awesome message at the end or reaction. But I can answer your question as low I felt as broken as I was, some boy played me this song by guitar in grade school. Lol I later married that man an had two his beautiful babies. May he rest in peace 6yrs now. But hey I got his trophies. Thank you for the memory ❤️

  • @sotnec1596
    @sotnec1596 3 года назад +2

    I heard this song growing up and said to myself I will never ever be this kind of dad, but sadly this is all too common for children today

  • @carolinafine8050
    @carolinafine8050 4 года назад +4

    The lyrics for this song are just insane. This wasn’t something they just whipped up in a studio. There’s too much wisdom the words for that... this came from true suffering

  • @windwarattack2300
    @windwarattack2300 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your a good man "Modern"...great advice so we can forgive and move on

  • @thetomgibson
    @thetomgibson 5 лет назад +7

    First two Faster Pussycat albums filled completely with great songs. The third album had about half of good songs.

  • @bigmoney4635
    @bigmoney4635 3 года назад +2

    My dad wasn’t around my first 15 years. I was taken from my mother at 4 because of her drug addiction. Then was raised by abusive foster parents. Then after running away my father reconnected with me at 15. I appreciate the fact that he tried to make things right but nothing can take away the loneliness and desperation I felt as a kid just wanting my parents to help me

  • @nreising2722
    @nreising2722 5 лет назад +1

    You're amazing! Thanks for doing all you do for the betterment of humanity! Love your work, blessings, N.

  • @ShaneZettelmier
    @ShaneZettelmier Год назад

    Great song. That’s what I like about a lot of the 80s metal, you were talking about they wrote it from their experience. Those 80s bands made that music they weren’t studio productions where they had songwriters and copied other people songs and recorded them they created all that they made all that music they wrote all those songs and Did it themselves and that added a huge depth to it. Plus it was a time when you didn’t have sampling and easy recording and digital where you can do things over and over and over and practice and learn them and edit them. Those bands practiced and played the whole song every time and most of them went and cut demos in studios where it was very expensive to put stuff on tape so they just went in there and played it so it was much more real. I think that makes it a lot more personal, you go to see a band and it’s their heart sport out on stage they’re not just professional musicians singing somebody else’s songs they wrote all the notes they wrote all the words they put it all together and created it themselves so when you go and watch it there’s a pretty strong connection. I grew up in LA around Hollywood in the 80s and my mom wrote for a couple of music review magazines so we got on a lot of guest list and basically these clubs three or four nights a week and got to do that for several years right in the middle of the 80s. I got to see bands like Mötley Crüe when they were first coming out all those 80s metal bands we pass out flyers and worked for ticket agencies and producers and got to meet a lot of them and it was a great time but it’s very different than the rest of the music industry wise in a lot of ways. When a lot of other music became very commercial and pop and yeah people like Madonna who basically saying karaoke they would bring her songs give her a tape she would play it over and over learn it and then go re-record it and go do a tour with choreography and dancing and all that and it was cool of people liked it but it was a corporate production. These bands had to make it on their own they had to be good enough to figure it out go out and earn enough money to put a few grand down on a studio to get two or three songs down on tape. Now you can do it on your iPhone and record 100 songs and edit them and make them perfect and it’s not a big deal but back then it was analog and it was horribly expensive and you got one shot at it And then they had to find a way to get that to you the music company just to get something on an album. Now we’ve got Internet and it’s so easy to produce it and get good quality recordings but back then it was just a struggle and it was kind of a miracle just to get anything out there and see all these bands you just created everything from scratch was pretty awesome. I know not everybody likes the whole hair band and metal thing but it was a great time in music and because of technology it was kind of the last era of truly independent music creation. People still do that today and some are great at it but that 80s rock scene that went from blues bass rock and classic rock into hair metal bands and then grunge, that was an organic creation that was just what those people came up with and did on their own without outside influence. there’s always been some element of that but it went kind of from country to blues and that kind of branch off into the classic rock scene and the blues based rock went into hairbands and metal and kind of evolved into grunge but by then we had technology and it was a booming industry and it got pretty cheesy And Corporate and that was kind of the end of an era of some thing uniquely American. That country to blues was something new and out of that came classic rock and it spread all over the world. There was so much of it and some of it sucked but it was very real.
    It’s hard to find a day you get a ton of music today and a lot of it’s really good but a lot of it lacks that sincerity and with the technology it’s very easy to produce and very polished and there’s a ton of money behind it and it lacks a certain innocence and organic Aspect of it. Don’t get me wrong there’s still great stuff coming out but this was a struggle, these guys were out there mowing lawns trying to buy guitar strings and spending all their money on flyers that they ran around and handed out themselves plastering flyers on phone poles and signs and bridges and everywhere they thought people could see them. We didn’t have the Internet we didn’t have cell phones and these people went out there and hustled and practiced for hours on end in a garage because they had to play that stuff live you couldn’t fake it in a studio you had to be able to reproduce this live every time and it made for great life shows. Now half the stuff out there is pre-recorded we all know about Milli Vanilli in the tracks people play and lip-synch at a live show. These guys had to go out there with two bats and make it work every night. It was a great time in history, And it was kind of the end of the era of organic American music. There’s still good stuff coming out but stuff just seems better when there’s struggle built into it when you write the songs yourself it’s usually because you lived it and they wrote the music and they had to hustle and put a ton of effort into it just to get out there so people could even hear them. It was a great time.
    I was a huge fan of Faster Pussycat and saw them when they were coming up and they were very weird unique kind of party band but they did a really good songs and this was definitely one of them.
    The thing about this song is for my generation, I’m just a little younger than these guys but we were the first post modern feminist movement the first generation growing up without fathers in the home and in broken families and kind of growing up on her own and they did a pretty good job of capturing that.

    • @ShaneZettelmier
      @ShaneZettelmier Год назад

      I don’t think the song was specifically about his dad being a bad guy it’s talking about a broken home. It’s talking about growing up alone and having a hole in your life. It wasn’t just the dad was bad necessarily it’s just divorce and kids stayed with mom mom went and worked kids spent a lot of time alone dad was out working then That whole modern thing where they try to get everybody to be independent and attack the family structure end modern feminism, it split people apart and it left a lot of kids growing up trying to figure out things on their own mom always tired at work and dad gone most of the time, they called us latchkey kids. We were very independent and just kind of found our own way. It’s not that her parents were bad it’s just when you split a home apart mom asked to go to work dad asked to go to work he doesn’t live there anymore and kids are confused and left alone to figure it out. The feminist movement in the 60s and early 70s was huge and all of a sudden you had a generation where half the kids grew up in broken homes and had holes in their lives and at least some scars. I think that’s what this song was going for it don’t think it was necessarily the dad‘s fault It’s just modern society, today it’s very normal but back then it was pretty alienating because in the 50s and 60s it was all about family and everybody had the mom and the dad and brothers and sisters and community and there was a lot of tradition and continuity in society but this modern progressive movement tears all that apart and tries to isolate people to control them and they attack the family and faith because that’s exactly what they want they want isolated lonely people who are a little desperate for some attention so they can be manipulated they want people separated divided a little scared a little angry and lost. The thing I remember about it was society was going from very family oriented normal mentally healthy where everybody was generally happy in life was pretty decent and then this whole progressive socialist movement came in and started attacking all that and we were just kind of sitting there alone mom is at work dad‘s at work living somewhere else our friends are all hanging out with their families and we just kind of went out and try to meet up with our other friends and fill that void somehow but it was very weird and abnormal at the time because we’re coming out of an era of family structure and all of a sudden they’re all these kids just wandering around with nothing to do trying to figure things out on their own. Now that’s become very normal broken homes and no families and society and media and everything else trying to be very controlling and you have all this tribalism and people being raised in groups by different aspects of society trying to fill that void and it’s very damaging but it’s become kind of normal now. Back then it was a little weird because you have a block with all the houses on it and an apartment building or something like that and most of the people would have their families still and then there would be a few kids here and there that just didn’t have that and just sort of wandering around and did whatever. So maybe that’s just my perspective but I think that’s where they were going with the song they were just showing that it was more of the broken home aspect and that kind a void not being filled, I don’t think they were necessarily talking about the dad being the bad guy but that could just be my perspective and music usually means a little something different to everybody because you kind of reflect what they’re putting out off of yourself but that’s the way I took it. Luckily music kind of became my outlet and going into my teenage years when things were starting to get kind of bad and could’ve gone very bad that’s when I kind of found my faith from a band called Stryper in the 80s I thought Pasadena city College. Everybody was baggy on them because they were these long-haired glam metal dudes But the music was good and we went to check them out and they just started talking about God and this Jesus dude and I’ve heard it before but never paid a lot of attention and they talked about how it was real and this was a real person this isn’t some made up story and sort of clicked. I think that was the first generation of a lot of people having broken homes and a lot of those people growing up that way gravitate towards music because it’s something kind of universal where we can click and find other people and sort of build a parallel to the normal family we don’t have.
      Anyway good video and that was a great old song and I remember it well.

  • @gbaumessr.8435
    @gbaumessr.8435 3 года назад +1

    If this song doesn't hit your heart, you don't have one.

  • @robclark8889
    @robclark8889 2 года назад

    First time I heard this song was when I as 16. After hearing he song it resonated in my mind that I would never marry and separate to bring that type of hurt to my kid. I finally married at 34. Wife and I have had 2 great kids. Been over 20 years we have been together. Kids know we will not only do everything we can for them but that here will not be a broken home. Not something a kids parents can promise them nowadays. Sorry, but we are old school.

  • @renee-kingsdaughter5584
    @renee-kingsdaughter5584 5 лет назад +5

    Hello MRM, from the great state of Texas!! House OF Pain from Faster Pussycats is a great song!! You should check out their make of 'You're So Vain' originally fro Carly Simon!!

    • @IanMcgrath-wn7fd
      @IanMcgrath-wn7fd 5 лет назад +1

      Hi i see from your post you are from Texas,if you ever get the chance please have a listen to a song by Chris Rea callled TEXAS, i think you may like it,best wishes from Bonnie Scotland.

    • @renee-kingsdaughter5584
      @renee-kingsdaughter5584 5 лет назад

      @@IanMcgrath-wn7fd ....... Hi!!! I'll have to check it out! Thank you

    • @renee-kingsdaughter5584
      @renee-kingsdaughter5584 5 лет назад

      @@CurbsideLife ..... Yes, I enjoy it very much!!

  • @dickthedorkwing6082
    @dickthedorkwing6082 5 лет назад

    I've lived this song...as a father I was a proud and doting daddy. For reasons unclear to me my now ex wife decided to take my children from me and shack up with someone else. I was lucky enough to get custody of my children for a year and then she found a sympathetic judge to overturn my custody order. I ended up with no contact with my children for going on 12 years save seeing them in passing. I miss them every day and I know they have been brainwashed by their mother and her parents to blame me. Luckily my youngest son seems to see through the lies he was fed but my daughter is damaged goods, on meds for depression and anxiety...she was 7....she is now 18...

  • @CrueHead18
    @CrueHead18 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for reacting to this band!

  • @grannyshirt
    @grannyshirt 2 года назад +2

    Nah man, screw that. This song was my life growing up. We would all love that Hallmark ending of reaching out to this person and them not being the same individual who committed these acts and forming a new relationship. If that person truly was different and caring now, they would have reached out first to mend the wounds they caused. People like this are assholes and create new little assholes when they do it. I've tried to be different than the people who raised me, but in moments of unhappiness and feeling helpless, I lash out just like those before me. I wish I had an answer to how to fix someone's mind after experiencing this, but I don't.

  • @slothbros7607
    @slothbros7607 5 лет назад

    So...this is Faster Pussycat. Years ago my brother and husband bought tickets for the one and only Eric Clapton. Stupid me looked on the tickets that they had just purchased that day and said" oh my gosh the concert is today not tomorrow!!" So they jumped in the car and drove 40 miles to the venue, waited in a long line of cars to get in, only to notice on the marquee that "Faster Pussycat" was playing. They were both ready to choke me when they got home. :) So, they had to drive the 80 miles round trip again the next day.

  • @TheDeadwood11
    @TheDeadwood11 5 лет назад +1

    Pantera-- 5 min alone..Pantera the reason I went from country music to metal as a lad. awesome music video and killer slow motion shots

    • @rosalievaldes5647
      @rosalievaldes5647 5 лет назад

      Woahhhh, country to metal. That was quite the 180. My guess is you were probably getting tired of the direction of commercial country music and you started branching out?

  • @kylekinney9455
    @kylekinney9455 2 года назад

    Much props on you're bass guitar and piano skills man...I play guitar but I've always been fascinated by bass such a much more heartfelt groove sometimes to it...but the piano man...I can only dream of having that kind of motor control and hand-eye coordination...anyways just wanted to give u shout out for your talents and approach to healthy lifestyle God Bless you man, or whichever deity and religion you believe in

  • @mistyrain520
    @mistyrain520 2 года назад

    It's definitely the singer's real story. He got to make up with his dad before the man passed away years ago, but from what he's said in interviews, for a long time he was very angry and hurt over his dad walking out on the family.

  • @patriciaunderwood897
    @patriciaunderwood897 3 года назад

    I didn't know you we're a preacher much love for you...amen

  • @waynekelly2810
    @waynekelly2810 5 лет назад

    Hey what's up MRM when I was growing up I had alot of homeboys and homegirl whose father's left them and me being really good friends with them I felt their pain that's why I really like this song .

  • @chrisgaskins5153
    @chrisgaskins5153 4 года назад +1

    Love this song. I'm divorced from the mother of my kids and I make sure this song is never their story.

  • @bobbyecrockett9032
    @bobbyecrockett9032 5 лет назад +2

    The song really hits the heart! Check out Harry Chapin's "Cat's In The Cradle"! Enjoying all the songs that I have not heard in so long along with your other videos! Am in love with Baylain! Our Golden Retriever, Archie likes to watch him!!!!🐕💛

  • @christophershaw5271
    @christophershaw5271 5 лет назад +1

    Wow, I don't think I've heard this song since high school. I do remember that all the "cool girls" loved Faster Pussycat.

  • @stevemoore120
    @stevemoore120 5 лет назад

    Great reaction! This song pulls up so many memories good and bad. Great time to be young when this came out

  • @vaudreelavallee3757
    @vaudreelavallee3757 5 лет назад +2

    This song is a sort of Cats In The Cradle meets Payola$'s Where Is This Love
    It seems that, after the incident, the father sort of shut down and threw himself into his work - becoming emotionally unavailable. Maybe it was the fear of doing what he did again - that he was so afraid of being violent again that he avoided his family.
    You really should do Payola$ Where Is This Love
    In the little boy's opinion, being a dad who spends time with his son is more important than being the breadwinner. In those days, that is likely how the father justified his distance. Also, in those days, dealing with one's feelings was not something me of his generation were taught to do - so, in his mind, his options were to be violent again or to shut down.

  • @chelley855
    @chelley855 5 лет назад

    Love your new introduction! Mad cool. It should definitely make people, check out the rest of your video content! You were already awesome... But you're mad awesome now!

  • @joelmcentyre7772
    @joelmcentyre7772 5 лет назад +2

    Something to believe in by Poison next please I’m sure you will like it!

    • @peggysullivan6760
      @peggysullivan6760 5 лет назад

      And every Rose !

    • @gbaumessr.8435
      @gbaumessr.8435 3 года назад

      Everyone talks about every rose but I think something to believe in was a much better song

  • @JustMe-vk4fn
    @JustMe-vk4fn 5 лет назад +2

    "There's no one home in my house of pain". I watched my husbands kids through the years. They've grown into fine people with families of their own now, but I never felt sorrier for them than when they were little and just. couldn't. understand. why their mommy and daddy didn't live together any more. I wish some adults would just understand how a kid blames themselves when parents split up even though the kids had n.o.t.h.i.n.g. to do with it. Some people make mistakes, others just want to hurt other people and the kids are simply collateral damage. Either way, it hurts kids.

  • @dirtbeard108
    @dirtbeard108 5 лет назад

    saw this group many times in Baltimore MD at Hammerjacks around 1990.

  • @shaneboegeman8638
    @shaneboegeman8638 5 лет назад

    These guys were the best of the 80's hair bands. Never had the sales or acclaim as some of the others, but they churned out great music.

  • @71dean
    @71dean 5 лет назад +2

    owww yeah ...my hair generation. Tyketto - Forever young please .

  • @kenmanor5476
    @kenmanor5476 3 года назад

    words hurt worse..bruises go away. the words last a long long time..im 55 and i still struggle with things that happened to me.

  • @reid1boys
    @reid1boys 5 лет назад

    I grew up on hair metal in the 80s. I also grew up a child of a broken home. At about 3 years old I watched my dad beat my mom, and I grew up seperated from my father. I NEVER did have a relationship with him and now as a 49 year old father of 4 daughters, it pains me that I refused to see him as I got older. He died 7 years ago. *0s hair bands dont get near the credit they deserve as great song writers and musicians and here I am listening to this song, close to thirty years after it came out and it is seriously making me think about what I do with my own kids.

  • @e.f.g.garcia.6987
    @e.f.g.garcia.6987 3 года назад

    Pray for childrens abandoned by parents, great reaction my bro

  • @pleasant_screams903
    @pleasant_screams903 3 года назад

    Singer wrote this about having a deadbeat dad.

  • @coryb6810
    @coryb6810 2 года назад

    Fathers are so underrated!!!

  • @cbilky2914
    @cbilky2914 5 лет назад

    Got to love hair bands of the 80s..I remember MTV played this video all the time.

  • @mikemasiello5965
    @mikemasiello5965 5 лет назад

    This guy does a great job!

  • @pleasant_screams903
    @pleasant_screams903 3 года назад

    Yes! The singer had a deadbeat dad. I related hard. I had one too.

  • @darrinkelly3446
    @darrinkelly3446 2 года назад

    I didn't really know my father. I did know he wasn't there. I am a father and I did a little better by at least being available and supportive both emotionally and financially but it wasn't enough. Now my kids have kids. I hope they are better at it than I was. I have great kids but I have no illusions. It's not because of me it's in spite of me.

  • @carolinafine8050
    @carolinafine8050 4 года назад

    You said “eventually you’ll have to forgive”... EXACTLY! You have to move past the anger and hate. It will consume over time. You think that you can control it “i only hate this one thing....”, impossible because it always bleeds out and stains other areas of your life.

  • @carlosibarra4041
    @carlosibarra4041 Год назад

    GREAT SONG 👌!

  • @woodysdrums8083
    @woodysdrums8083 2 года назад

    Great show

  • @Jimmy_Phantom
    @Jimmy_Phantom 5 лет назад

    Other songs you might want to check out by Faster Pussycat are Please Dear and Poison Ivy. For a good father/son song, check out I Will Be There, by Kiss..

  • @djsapo33
    @djsapo33 5 лет назад

    That's my jam - damn

  • @DarkAngel1985Mike
    @DarkAngel1985Mike 5 лет назад

    This is one of my favorite songs because I connect to it because I had a abusive and then absentee father

  • @infomanone2801
    @infomanone2801 2 года назад

    Strong reaction. I like it.

  • @BLSdarrin
    @BLSdarrin 5 лет назад +1

    Singer Taime Downe said his father committed suicide when he was a kid ,he told the crowd at a show I was at a couple years ago

    • @RayfordRaySiegel
      @RayfordRaySiegel 5 лет назад

      Hmmm. I wonder of he left, first. I saw this, about the song.
      www.songfacts.com/facts/faster-pussycat/house-of-pain
      I don't know how credible it is.

  • @aheadrick6944
    @aheadrick6944 5 лет назад

    One of my favorite sad songs!

  • @timmewolff
    @timmewolff 5 лет назад

    Most under rated band of the 80’s.

  • @caa1000
    @caa1000 5 лет назад

    Hey Ty! Thanks for the flashback to early 90s!
    At the beginning, did you thought it was hip hop band House of Pain (Jump Around) singing?
    Just a basic fact, the music video for Faster Pussycats "House Of Pain" was done in 1989 and it was directed by a younger Michael Bay, long before Armageddon and 'The Transformers' 5 movie series.
    Just this past year, Bay became part producer for the 'Bumblebee' movie, but not the director.
    I did liked the way you interpreted the lyrics. I don't know if there was a personal experience involving the singer, but apparently he loss his dad at a young age. But the song in general is about a child living without a father experience.
    The lyrics to the song goes:
    ♪ Five years old and talking to myself.
    ♪ Where were you? Where'd you go?
    ♪ Daddy, can't you tell?
    ♪ I'm not trying to fake it
    ♪ And I ain't the one to blame.
    ♪ There's no one home
    ♪ In my house of pain.
    Another song worthy of checking out should be "Cats In The Craddle" (Would prefer Ugly Kid Joe 90s version, but originally done in the 70s by Harry Chapin) and it has the same feel as the one above.

    • @chelley855
      @chelley855 5 лет назад

      caa1000 if he lost his dad at a young age..Then it makes perfect sense, thats why he wrote it. He was in a house full of pain. And his dad wasn't there.. So there was no one in his house of pain. Just my take from it dude 😧

  • @MisterLobb
    @MisterLobb 5 лет назад

    Interesting perspective. The music got in the way of my hearing the message. Good lesson, you need to listen hard sometimes when the delivery clashes with your personal interests.

  • @scottparks6924
    @scottparks6924 5 лет назад

    Seen them live in Saginaw MI they opened up for David Lee Roth

  • @sombergirl2886
    @sombergirl2886 5 лет назад

    I have always like Faster Pussycat the singer went on to the band The Newlydeads then reunited Faster Pussycat again but putting his dark spin on their music cuz that's what the Newlydeads were doing

  • @420returns
    @420returns 2 года назад

    your a good man

  • @wampatan9
    @wampatan9 5 лет назад

    Soul Asylum - Runaway Train. This song really got me in the feels too when I saw the music video for the first time.

  • @SteveMcCoy.
    @SteveMcCoy. 5 лет назад

    Always liked this song!

  • @the80sguy72
    @the80sguy72 5 лет назад

    Many kids experience this story

  • @MRM-Wendy
    @MRM-Wendy 5 лет назад

    I owned some Faster Pussycats cassette tapes in my teenage days..lol

  • @vladmoriendi
    @vladmoriendi 5 лет назад

    Words can hurt. Check out Eric Church - Kill a Word.

  • @ryant3600
    @ryant3600 5 лет назад

    you should check out some Great White like Love is a Lie and some White Lion..

  • @maronorichards
    @maronorichards 3 года назад

    Literally how I’ve felt because of my dads bullshit... but I’m the father figure in this . I never wanted my son to feel this but his mother made it come too pass.. it’s a shitty cycle. I’m here feeling bad because he doesn’t know how I really feel because of her. I’m stuck feeling like me in all this. I’m shit according to her. What can I do?

  • @harryhastings9659
    @harryhastings9659 3 года назад

    you have to forgive to be forgiven

  • @tourmentedsoul71
    @tourmentedsoul71 2 года назад

    I agree that words hurt. My birth mother once told me she wishes she used a coat hanger when she was pregnant with me. It cut deeper then any slap she gave me. I know deep down she didn't mean it but it still cut deep. Yes I forgave her before she passed. But yes sometimes words hurt more then physical abuse.

  • @mowm88
    @mowm88 5 лет назад

    Yeah that song is kinda my life a bit. This one really hits.

  • @pleasantscreams1978
    @pleasantscreams1978 3 года назад

    It's a massive lie. I'm friends with the band and I was honored to sing this song with them. I had a deadbeat father. It meant a lot to sing this with the band.

  • @carolinafine8050
    @carolinafine8050 4 года назад

    Hey, good video... you should react to White Buffalo’s cover of this song ... also called House of Pain

  • @pleasantscreams1978
    @pleasantscreams1978 3 года назад

    Unfortunately in my case, they that deadbeat father never came around.

  • @briangoodie3420
    @briangoodie3420 5 лет назад

    If your looking for another music video like this, you got to check motley crue your all I need.

    • @RayfordRaySiegel
      @RayfordRaySiegel 5 лет назад

      Oh, yeah. That's a creepy song. It's great for a Halloween playlist.

  • @robyanez1825
    @robyanez1825 5 лет назад

    Very hard to watch.
    I went through the same thing and its very hard to watch. I love the ballad though.

  • @MetalMonkey
    @MetalMonkey 5 лет назад

    I'm surprised I've never heard of this song or band

  • @rickwebster7966
    @rickwebster7966 5 лет назад

    Man looks like u might do alot for your community

  • @mikenastasi8927
    @mikenastasi8927 Год назад

    Sage advice

  • @daveharryman6390
    @daveharryman6390 Год назад +1

    That was me , I would cry myself to sleep asking God to bring me back my dad , he never came

    • @michellerichardson1427
      @michellerichardson1427 5 дней назад

      I was the same!
      I actually got letters from him when I was grown.
      He left our family, and went to Missouri where our family is from.
      He moved my Momma and me and 2 brothers down to FLA.
      He stayed long enough to get our Momma pregnant with our youngest brother.
      He was a fugitive because he strong armed a young pregnant woman at the gas station, and other place.
      Nobody could ever figure out WHY he did such a heinous crime?!
      He says he went crazy, yeah Right!
      He worked running a giant crane at the docks in Tampa Florida.
      He made plenty of money!.
      Mom said 2000 or more $'s were in
      In his wallet from work!!
      Hey stayed low in Missouri and started a life with an ugly fat woman, my Mom is small and is very beautiful!
      His new girlfriend and him had a little girl,al I always wanted A ❤❤❤sister, I am a woman, but when I was smalbecause I grew up with 3 brothers and a bunch of boy cousins.
      Sorry for the long ass text.
      May God Bless you and your Family!
      THANK YOU FOR SHARING THESE STORIES,

  • @cristianandreschacanazeped7454
    @cristianandreschacanazeped7454 5 лет назад

    Steelheart - she 's gone

  • @furnas71
    @furnas71 5 лет назад +1

    What's this "premiere in 5 hours" about???? I really like this dude, but with my ADD... I JUST CANT..

    • @chelley855
      @chelley855 5 лет назад

      Leah Furnas what's my add? If you don't mind me asking?

  • @IanMcgrath-wn7fd
    @IanMcgrath-wn7fd 5 лет назад

    Hi from Bonnie Scotland Ty i dont know to to request a song,but with the world the way it is now if you get this post could you sometime play Chris Rea, Nothing To Fear,thank you best wishes from Bonnie Scotland.

  • @giantsfan8872
    @giantsfan8872 4 года назад

    I hate how the video misses the best part to the intro

  • @Kazigiri
    @Kazigiri 5 лет назад

    The music video actually shortened the song.

  • @pleasant_screams903
    @pleasant_screams903 3 года назад

    Unfortunately I know it all too well.

  • @antoniocharo1726
    @antoniocharo1726 5 лет назад

    Great song/ just brings up some shitty childhood memories.
    Be cool man! Peace!