Jovanna Shocked her Date still Lives with His Mom😳 | First Dates New Zealand
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- Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024
- James goes on date with sassy Jovanna - is she really that sassy?
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Why is she acting that a 21 year student living at home is a bad thing. If he is studying and not working full time surely living at home is more sensible than getting into extra debt. She seems extremely judgemental.
Yeah. She's very judgemental and thinks she's sooooo old and experienced😂
It struck me that the pain of losing her mother at such a critical time in her early adulthood, while getting her nursing degree and seeing to it that she's there for her younger brother shows she is caring, but is covering up a lot of pain with a very hard shell. She doesn't seem vulnerable at first blush but I think she is. Her pain is deep and its effects are telling.
@@2615ParkAvenueAssociatesa defence mechanism that will keep her single and out of love forever
Absolutely id encourage all
Young people to stay at home longer to save instead of being swallowed up by debt
I am 28 living at home dear living out.
Wow. She's harsh AF. Calling it sarcasm is an excuse for rudeness.
The phone call was revealing. Her "friend" was quite coarse and I'm guessing feeds her worst traits.
In online dating women don't ask why, they typically don't return a text after that.
She is rude and he is a gentleman.
In most countires living with your parents till your 30s is completely normal, it's just this irrational western pressure that call it a failure that make it seem weird.
Exactly, the capitalists want to exploit the impressionable weak people.
I hear ya, especially after living in Asia for the past 12 years. However, it would have been awkward to have an adult relationship with someone who didn’t have his own place. They would have always been at her place just to have privacy on an average day. Plus, living with your parents or in anyone else’s house means adhering to their rules and boundaries, even though some parents may charge their adult children some nominal rent to stay. It might have been hard for them to have a late-night date or something overnight. Plus, she is just in a different life phase, so I can understand why she chose not to go further with this guy.
Facts
I found her so abrasive and lacking in warmth
Agree!
He is still studying and just 21, so it's absolutely understandable that he lives with his parents. And she looks like a 35 year old...
granny actually
They both look like they are in their late 30’s 😅…. what is going on in NZ
So true 😮 she looks older than me and I'm 38
@@eddycarpenter8989 Blame Jabcinda and NZ's complete overreaction to covid for putting 10-15 years on every Kiwi.
@@CannabrannaLammer If that's a recent photo of you, you are looking good for your age. But yeah she does look way older than she is, I think maybe the extra pounds she carries, don't help in this regard either.
She is a massive red flag my god… he deserves a really well rounded down to earth mature thinking woman. She is so crude, immature and condescending.
I'm a doctor in america. I lived at home until I was 26 because it helped me save for school. I didn't know women cared about that so much.
Don’t worry, not all do. Some of us think it’s smart, sweet and fine:)
She's obviously got serious mental issues that she needs to work on before she can actually have a healthy relationship she seems very angry and still grieving the loss of her mother
We don't
@@Berighteousone absolutely
Sensible ladies are not
Age aside I don't get how someone who lost their parent be so horrible and judgmental to someone who still lives with theirs.
Im sad that you dont understand this. . Ok,, Let me explain.
Parents teach you how normal relationships should go. They teach you who you can trust and not. How to behave in a unit and what to do essentially. They also teach you from a young age the concept that you can form normal human bonds that you are worthy of love. READING ASSIGNMENT: Lookup Erik Erikson's Psychosocial Developmental Stages he outlines this.
Her dad abandoned her. Her mom died from breast cancer at a young age. She had to raise her sibling. She is only 22 years old and has learned based on her experiences 1. Not how a normal romantic relationship goes 2. That anyone she forms a connection with will leave her. Thus she rejects them by making herself unlikable so that she has control over the situation and so she can protect herself. She rejects others before they reject her because her lack of dad and mothers death taught her that it isn't safe to love anyone. Shes protecting herself from pain . She also expects more from others because more was unfairly expected from her from a young age. Got it?
I think she had a great time. But here is a clue.... notice she WONT EVEN HUG HIM. Any form of connection is prohibited in her world. She has to pay. She cant hug him and even with that pathetic handshake she belittles him.
I wish people took a step back and looked at the entirety of a situation and pieced together what was going on. It would make the world better . Anyways, there is the answer. I'll just keep trying lol.
Envy.
She should find it a blessing to live with family. She's awful
That just shows that she’s not as mature as she thinks
She's a bit off putting and rude. Why go on a blind date if you're going to act like that
please read my response above Im trying to educate
@Be1smaht you don't need to educate anyone. We aren't simple.
Here's the thing with sarcasm. It's great only when it's subtle. So to say "I'm very sarcastic" as a selling point....no, that doesn't look good.
She didn't have to do my boy James like that at the end with the hand hug. He didn't deserve that. Talk about adding insult to injury. I wish her the best of luck, she's going to need it.
lmboo I've never seen a hh b4
women let us bring the hh w/ us into this next era
@@AmaniStudio The whole hand hug alone is why she has NEVER been in a relationship. Its sooo bad how she is friend zoning the guy without giving him a chance.
Did you notice though that she swung into him though and wanted to touch him . And he was like over it .
That phone call with her friend said it all. We know what we're dealing with here.
I thought she was physically attractive, but has a very prickly personality. She was extremely critical and judgemental towards her perfectly nice, intelligent and handsome date. He deserves better than her. As for her, it's not hard to understand why she's never had a relationship with a man by age 22.
She will be a cow by 30. Pregnant and single
Physically attractive?! Eye exams are available in your city.
Poor girl, I feel she's got baggage - but he was a genuinely nice guy!
Oh my, since she was so rude during the date, he should have known she’d be rude answering the see you again question. He should have just said no, or said as a friend first. He doesn’t have a mean bone in his body. She does.
Stay at home kids, save your money and savour as much time with your parents as you can.
I was sympathetic that he still lived at home, and then I realized I'm 21 too, so I was extra sympathetic
Someone tell her sarcasm is the lowest form of wit.😏
Self described, "sassy" is enough. Upon deeper inspection, her body language and especially micro expression do not spell out kindness, maturity, and a pleasant character. I'd dismiss her asap if I were him. Do not tolerate this kind of disrespect gents.
She's only 22 and acting (and looking) like that? Imagine her at 30?! No thanks.
He deserves better than her. I hope he keeps looking, he is a good, clean and nice catch. She is not!
Why is that an issue. The way this economy is and in many many cultures this is normal. He's too good for her. Move on
I stayed with my mom and dad till I was 27. I saved money and got to spend extra time with my dad who’s now passed away. I get some people move out right away and that’s awesome but that’s not the case for everyone.
There's no way he's 21; he looks 40. She also looks like she's in her 30s. What's going on in NZ?!
They are evenly matched lookswise
Just because you don't find somebody attractive as a person doesn't mean you shouldn't at least try to show them a good time regardless.
She could use some therapy.
Good for her for stepping up and raising her siblings... but I think she's really hurting inside.
And.... I think most females her age can't make a roast either -- why should he know how?
FINALLY .Faith in humanity restored. You got it. Im like why dont people get this. This is Psych 101
Girl needs serious therapy.
That's it!
She definitely has too much sass and she is not hot enough to have that much sass. She is way too judgmental on where men are in their life. She will continue to be single for a long long time.
He can do better than her. She lived up to EVERY negative stereotype when it comes to nurses and women from New Zealand/Australia. I guarantee he will be in a much better relationship and place in life than she will by the time they are both 30+. TBH she already looks 30+ probably got a body count above 30 too
The mean girl to nurse pipe line.
Given her occupation and all the snogging that happens in hospitals, I would not doubt the body count.
She had no intention of going out with anyone. Just a time waster looking for a free meal.
Thats not it, she just confused
Yes
I think she wants a partner but is just rigid in her expectations. Given that he’s a full-time student, I doubt she was expecting a free meal out of him.
She needs to get over herself. So high on this weird pedestal she's put herself on, yet doesn't belong on
If her parents were still alive, she wouldn't have been like this.
How do you know?
I think most men would just stay in the friend zone if they were smart about her.
She needs to get a grip on dating. Can’t see her getting a boyfriend anytime soon. She’ll be single living with cats.
This guy is actually pretty good. Has chat and can definitely work on the life skills she’s complaining about
I feel bad for her having lost both her parents. I think she is being a bit guarded and using her rudeness as a cover. She's got a shell
well done
She comes across as a very hard person. I'm a bit surprised she's a nurse because I wonder if she lacks empathy. It's OK if she's not attracted to him, that's just a preference. I thought he was very genuine, kind and attractive. I can see him finding a partner much sooner than she might.
She's a 5 out of 10. He's out of her league
Nurse should be calm and nice..
He's only 21. Leave him alone!
I only moved out younger because I got a student loan, but guess who has the debt.
Let the boy live.
The only time its bad is if someone is 30 or something and have never been independent
I wish he said no, i mean it was obvious she was gonna friendzone him!! maybe he just young nd needs to work on his self-esteem!! he can grt better i swear!!
He seems rather unimpressed with her attitude.
Because he's so much more mature. Ironic, huh?
Unlike most people in this chat, He understood why she behaved that way. Its due to trauma
Whats wrong with homie living at home doing work and saving money? Hes a bad guy for having goals? That girl thought she was cuter than what she is. Looked aged. I wouldve guessed her for 34 not 22.
She doesn't deserve such a great young man.
Is she really 22 though?
She's most likely hard-edged like that because she's been hurt by the loss of her mother and the difficulty of raising her brother. No doubt she pushes people away preemptively to avoid any potential pain. Sadly, nice-guy James became collateral damage.
God, she is so guarded. He is a Mr. Darcy.
I bet she would give anything to live with her Mum again....
James is lovely inside & out, & has had a 6-month relationship. Jovarna may be beautiful outside, but with that acerbic personality, she won't have 6 months' worth of relationship put together by the times she's 90. James rather dodged one.
SHES 22 mate
I'd imagine the bulk of 21 year olds are living at home/returning from Uni skint, etc.. living at home at 41 a different matter but a good relationship with his Mum bodes well
She looks like the type who enjoys watching other people being in pain?
😂 She is interviewing him like he is going cook her fancy meals. What is funny is....she acts like more of age, 52 with the rudeness.
i like them both but sense she is defensive and has a guard up. i supposed being the caretaker earlier in life screws up your mind. i hope she finds healing and can soften a bit to allow various types of love grow in this seemingly cold world .
Jovanna don't be so judgemental, he's a really nice guy and there's not many of those. And, not bad looking.
So sad lost her mom still very young .
he's only 21 , i don't know how life style in there but it's expected some people still lives with parents even at 50's .
This guy can do alot better than her. He's better off just going out and playing the field
He dodged a bullet there!
He should judge her for being overweight
I think instead of looking down on a guy who lives at home you should talk about it. Why? And what you fear.....
Like, do you do it to save money? Do you know how to take care of yourself? I fear that you might not learn how to cook and clean and exept me to or expect me to teach you...that is a huge turn off. I dont want to be your mother as thats very unsexy
He's a good guy and such a gentleman, especially for his age. He is inexperienced and doesn't realize he dodged a massive bullet. If that girl has that type of negative and low-level attitude now, just imagine how much worse she will be as she ages and becomes more bitter. I also have to mention that she looks way older than 22 and whatever looks she thinks she has now will be go out the window.
She's very plain even now
Her DMW is low at 22 and it will never improve, only decrease.
Poor thing, she got her gates so closed and high 😔 she can't see him at all. He's a f. jewel.
Honestly idk how young people afford to live alone it’s getting really bad and I don’t think I’ll move out until like 25 but even then it’s a push
She looks like she's in her 50s. But someone that age would probably hold their liquor better.
I think she envies him because he still has a mother.
She made a fool of herself, and she’s RUDE!
Gee😬 give the dude a break, his only 21....!
He dates model types. yeaaah 🤣
Sorry lady, but, You ain't All
That Special!!! 🙄🙄🙄
He wins by Not going to be with her! 🍀🍀🍀
Very nice guy! 🎉🎉🎉
See our man James dodge a bullet.
In my country living with parents are normal. I get out early when you get married.
They made a good looking couple. The show did right by these two also. She should have given him a 2nd and 3rd date, just to be 100%, I think.
he was amazing! he lost nothing, she's a failure
For all she knew he'd just moved back home, his mum was ill and was looking after her, shes rude and he's dodged a bullet 😂
Why are women so up themselves , nasty , angry these days ? What did he say or do wrong ? Maybe she is part of the feminist movement or got a chip on her shoulder or something !!!! Forget her bro , Just move on or stay single.
Hes 21! Im 24 wnd live at home
Always find it funny watching young people get worked up about maturity. Only because it's a clear sign of a lack of theirs.
He is a really nice guy . He has some substance . I think that he is cool .
You know, its not cheap to rent your own place Karen.
read my comment above shes not a Karen. Karens are very very different. I explain everything
She got issues.
dumb girl vs wise man
Nothing wrong with living with mom at 21 for free but quoting your mother "My mother tells me I only go for models" sounds like he hangs out with mommy too much. Hopefully he does his own laundry, learns how to cook and helps around the house.
She was in the middle of university when her mom passed away and raised her little brother. Her dad left so she had to grow up fast. Nursing is a great career that helps people.
I can see the direct abrasiveness of what she says. She is quite intense but I also think that she has a lot of walls up. I can tell she had to grow up quite young and be responsible for a lot. I think her core worries are surrounding independence and for her partner to be able to take care of himself and her. Perhaps she would be better off dating a little older and established or someone who has high autonomy. She needs someone on her level who is patient and understanding of her world views and willing to work with her avoidant tendencies that come across as cold and intense.
Interesting date. She came across as guarded and aggressive but I think it's a self-protection thing. Having lost her mother at a vulnerable age, she's built up a barrier to stop herself getting hurt. The guy seems nice but confused by her behaviour.
I am a grown man and live with my parents get married as a man then get a divorce where the state doesn't enforce equitable divorces, and you too can have a fabulous lifestyle like mine... I assumed this would be the reaction if they continued to speak to me after, I don't think one has ever asked why.
When the girl tells you she wants to see you again as a friend only, what she really said, is that she does not want to see you again. So dude, don't go there again, she wil find a boyfriend and you will be nothing to her, but you will still like her
She was awful for him. Poor guy!
I think F/D needs to make it up to him.
Although they are only 15 months apart, I mean she is in a different phase of her life and is already in her career and on her own. Plus, she has already had to take on the responsibility of helping raise someone. I understand her not wanting to date someone who is not at the same general stage in their lives. Maybe in the future, their paths will cross and be more conducive to them being a couple.
so far from what I have seen by a series of videos, women have a major issue with their psyche/mentality/attitude/personality. So this implies that we shall better take our time in finding a partner and not rush things. Until a real decent mature and loving woman comes along (describable a woman you feel the connection with). There is no need to be in a rush guys, focus on your career and studies. Besides, living at home with your parents has benefits too. You save a lot of money and be better prepared in the future.
Well, count me as one of the people who doesn't get either of their senses of humor. They both led with how funny they are. But they bored me to tears.
Wouldn't go near her.
This lady is so immature. 13 year old live in a 30 year olds body
It's not his fault that she has to raise her little brother while his mom looks after him.
She was dreadful
Hes self assured because hes had normal relationship with his parental units. She hasnt. He could help her.
Lovely young man is James
A nurse!? I feel bad for the sick. 😮😮
She's too much into herself and arrogant to be ready for a relationship
I feel like she’s lovely, but is self sabotaging herself. He’s a good guy & she’s had a tough life so has barriers up
Her: You live at home????????? Him: Yeah Her: (Um, I don't)
Him: You're 25 lbs overweight?????? Her: Yeah Him: (Um, I'm not)
Oh dear.... appalling, bloody hell. LOL.
Guy dodged a bullet