Marlo Hampton Tries to Explain Why She Needed Her Nephews Out | RHOA Sneak Peek (S14 E19) | Bravo

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  • @ishas6071
    @ishas6071 2 года назад +641

    Marlo’s words are not landing simply because of her actions. Sis needs to mature and stop dishing what she can’t take

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад +6

      *Kenya Moore Hair Care✴Twirl✴Twirl✴

    • @idkkkk12567
      @idkkkk12567 2 года назад

      it really doesn't matter you can't invalidate someones past experiences/trauma just bc you don't like their actions on a show. everybody on this show had a moment where they was doing crazy stuff but does that mean they lying about what they've been thru in the past? kenya's whole story about her mom should be invalidated bc she bullied kim fields & treated porsha so bad in the beginning? or does that only apply to marlo? pls lol marlo ain't doing no worse than anybody else in the past seasons. 😊

    • @tanishahunter1058
      @tanishahunter1058 2 года назад

      That part

  • @FashionAndFace32
    @FashionAndFace32 2 года назад +305

    Marlo is trifling. She’s almost 50 years old. Her childhood trauma doesn’t give her the right to be vile to other people. What I don’t understand is how Sanya can sit there and nail Drew to the cross for an incident w/ Sheree but Marlo’s behavior is utter garbage and she’s so accepting of it.

    • @tanishahunter1058
      @tanishahunter1058 2 года назад +2

      Thaaatttt

    • @rosiegold8114
      @rosiegold8114 Год назад +3

      Because she trying to get more attention on the show by being with the most Messiest one on the show. She don't even have a valid storyline.

    • @aidenfiddler5703
      @aidenfiddler5703 Год назад +1

      Reminded me when bethenny told Ramona “OMG YOUR 60 YEARS OLD”💀

    • @devesongs
      @devesongs Год назад

      I know someone in their 60s still pushing childhood trauma on others. Trauma has no age limit especially if you are not doing the work from within to help yourself change and deal with it.

  • @jordanllorens
    @jordanllorens 2 года назад +823

    it may be time for andy to stop hosting these reunions. we need someone who isn’t biased or who’s able to hold EVERYONE accountable.

    • @preciouswilliams22
      @preciouswilliams22 2 года назад +112

      It's BEEN time, he's lost the ability to be fair & objective!!

    • @HoneytheSiren
      @HoneytheSiren 2 года назад +35

      Absolutely

    • @jdugg5461
      @jdugg5461 2 года назад +37

      I agree! It’s so clear he has favorites and he is literally feeding Marlo lines!

    • @nancyismyname
      @nancyismyname 2 года назад +7

      AMEN!!!

    • @honey5848
      @honey5848 2 года назад +3

      And don’t start me with free!!!

  • @mingissmile2841
    @mingissmile2841 2 года назад +277

    5:14 I can tell kandi is done with Marlo trauma dumping. Like we get it, Marlo. You had a hard life growing up but you were still being vile and mean to other people

    • @mammajamma4397
      @mammajamma4397 2 года назад +30

      YES! That's the phrase! Trauma dumping is exactly what she's doing

  • @snicky82
    @snicky82 2 года назад +1363

    Its hard to feel bad for Marlo because of her actions! Yes, she had a rough life but that’s not an excuse.

    • @TheMrsilverscott
      @TheMrsilverscott 2 года назад +41

      Exactly, she's been nasty on the show for years so I don't care about her story at this point smdh

    • @aceofcups3493
      @aceofcups3493 2 года назад +16

      It's not an excuse. It's an explanation.

    • @meannoharm1561
      @meannoharm1561 2 года назад +31

      @@aceofcups3493 i don't care what it is it's wrong. all wrong. we all have issues. if everyone react to things because of their upbringing it would be a complete murderous world

    • @mikaivy60
      @mikaivy60 2 года назад +12

      It's not about feeling bad for her it more so hurt people do hurt things and I just feel like , at least we all know her story & hopefully 🙏🏾 she seeks help for her slef and for her nephews

    • @aprilt.3868
      @aprilt.3868 2 года назад

      Marlo needs to grow up. Most people have hurt and pain about some childhood experiences. However, SHE IS mean, bitchy, rude, nasty, and a gutter snipe. No one says nice things about Marlo except Sanya. I pray that the people at Netflix and the production for the new opportunity keep it professional with Marlo. Don't let her in.

  • @jasmineartis5754
    @jasmineartis5754 2 года назад +1480

    Marlo needs to be honest. She can dish it but can’t take it, she has so much tears for the foster homes she was in but told kenya her own mom doesn’t want anything to do with her cause she’s evil. She wanted those boys as a storyline nothing more.

    • @tosinajayi3411
      @tosinajayi3411 2 года назад +130

      Mind you Kenya was a three days old baby when I mom gave her away, so that means Marlo is calling a three days old baby an evil baby. SMH

    • @Angierob1
      @Angierob1 2 года назад +20

      Thank you, thank you, well said

    • @teejaybee9
      @teejaybee9 2 года назад +51

      I think that she bit off more than she could chew taking the boys in. Mentally, she needed to gather herself. Teenage boys as a single woman, who's not even their biological parent is extremely hard. Marlo doesn't have the family support that a lot of the other ladies have. There's no non-custodial father to send them to. She's took them in as a mother but still walking in the shoes of an aunt. She's going to have to develop structure, discipline (that she can stick to) and a strong line of communication. Even then it will still be hard.

    • @Mary-qe9xp
      @Mary-qe9xp 2 года назад +19

      They all dishonest to certain points.especially kenya but u not suppose to come for her unless she send for you? Kandi the same way? This all here is one of there best qualities on the show is joyriding and crash on others parade seeking attention for there pay when all along neither bring nothing interesting to the show .basically the last time Kandi did something as all for herself are her family.the last trip they gave was together and it was horrible?

    • @diamolyn4991
      @diamolyn4991 2 года назад +6

      @@Mary-qe9xp 🤥

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 2 года назад +598

    BYE MARLO! THANK YOU Kenya for not allowing her to use her past as an excuse👏

    • @lashondat2867
      @lashondat2867 2 года назад +8

      💯💯

    • @mazwide9400
      @mazwide9400 2 года назад +27

      I'm tired of people like her! She used her past trauma to terrorized others! She don't belong to this show,if she's going to play dirty like this.

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 2 года назад +8

      Exactly

    • @tavareseuells3789
      @tavareseuells3789 2 года назад +6

      Kenya does the same thing though 😑

    • @ybeckom
      @ybeckom 2 года назад +1

      @@tavareseuells3789 Thank you

  • @sashal6593
    @sashal6593 2 года назад +495

    Marlo is so phony and superficial. She likes to weaponize her childhood trauma as an excuse to abuse others. She's so emotionally abusive. She is just like the women who hurt her (her mother)

    • @Winniegirl85
      @Winniegirl85 2 года назад +15

      Factsssss

    • @claudiacanales2662
      @claudiacanales2662 2 года назад +16

      Sasha exacly! She acts most of the time to get sympathy and attention!

    • @pritypantee9248
      @pritypantee9248 2 года назад +2

      That's commonly what abused ppl do be mad but don't negate her struggles it is real it just manifested a bad person.

    • @sashal6593
      @sashal6593 2 года назад +7

      @@pritypantee9248 Marlo's trauma doesn't negate the way she poorly treats people. You sound like a sociopath as well trying to excuse her passing her abuse onto the cast. I hope you both get the therapy you need instead of making poor excuses.

    • @pritypantee9248
      @pritypantee9248 2 года назад

      @@sashal6593 insulting sad girl shut up I acknowledged and held her accountable before stating facts that your now tryna argue with carry on fool I said what I said and I mean it.

  • @dragontalesss
    @dragontalesss 2 года назад +499

    Marlo deserves an Emmy for this acting performance she’s putting on.

    • @jermaphobic8308
      @jermaphobic8308 Год назад +18

      I wouldn’t even give her that cause it was horrible and not believable. Thank God for Kenya to call her out

    • @allspotsclean
      @allspotsclean Год назад +4

      A razzle award at Best

    • @dawnjohnson9726
      @dawnjohnson9726 Год назад

      She's a fraudulent, fake person who lacks depth. Childhood trauma and strife can lead to building character and depth of perspective.. however in Marlo's case she gets a little money and she selfishly blows it on fashion.
      It'd be one thing if she was selfish and just blew it on character building travel, college degrees. But she blows her money on materialism and trying to "out do" other women. Like she sold her soul for money and now she thinks she's above others by dressing up a polished turd.
      I just get a fraudulent vibe from her, that there's nothing sincere, deep or genuine about her.
      Whereas Kenya seems hurt, but deep down she's a sweet fun girl, but has struggled to make sincere friendships because she's so stunning and thus has put up a wall.. but there's something deeper about Kenya, that Marlo just lacks.
      It doesn't seem like Kenya is obsessed with fashion and labels like it's her identify..
      I just think Marlo is gonna reach her 60 and be a miserable hollow she'll, because Noone will care that she has labeled clothing

    • @drakecomegetthiscake
      @drakecomegetthiscake Год назад

      She is literally the worst actress ever.

  • @MrsATLienStan
    @MrsATLienStan 2 года назад +368

    I saw something and I thought of Marlo. Maturity is working through your trauma and not using it as a never ending excuse of bad behavior.

    • @resecup3584
      @resecup3584 2 года назад +8

      Well said!!

    • @shanon1144
      @shanon1144 2 года назад +11

      Right Kenya was the same way and when she worked through her trauma we saw change. Marlo needs to get help. Hurt people hurt ppl.

    • @candycane7601
      @candycane7601 2 года назад +2

      How'd Marlo come to mind? Only because she's a peach holder. If not this would fit perfectly for Kenya.

    • @MrsATLienStan
      @MrsATLienStan 2 года назад +2

      @@candycane7601 I was watching the reunion and saw the post on social media. Marlo discussed her childhood trauma.

    • @mrs.haynes-r5z
      @mrs.haynes-r5z 2 года назад +2

      Very well said

  • @truthhurts8819
    @truthhurts8819 2 года назад +382

    Love Kenya. Marlo had a horrible past but that is not a excuse to be nasty to others.

    • @thecutbeautii3399
      @thecutbeautii3399 2 года назад

      Kenya cannot help herself. She lives for kicking people while their down

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад +13

      Kenya ain’t no better…..please…….

    • @UnbiasedStrays
      @UnbiasedStrays 2 года назад +12

      Narcissistic people seem to think that’s normal.. “I’ve been through a lot so the world owes me” and it can be too much and too toxic

    • @marztitus3472
      @marztitus3472 2 года назад +16

      @@mrshp2392 y’all hate kenya . It’s weird

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад +13

      @@marztitus3472 *Kenya Moore Hair Care✴Twirl Twirl✴

  • @notmyrealname9110
    @notmyrealname9110 2 года назад +324

    Marlo isn’t connecting because it’s not coming from a good place. Her actions contradict her words.

    • @nellyc1002
      @nellyc1002 2 года назад +23

      Just like Kenya said

    • @suzs3770
      @suzs3770 2 года назад +22

      Kenya always says what I’m thinking and she is very good with her words.

    • @Mary-qe9xp
      @Mary-qe9xp 2 года назад

      Yes putting it here way or no way? Is why she sitting were she at? PORSHA, NENE, EVEN TANYA, PHAEDRA, KEPT HER NEXT TO ANDY ALL THOSE SEASON ON THE SHOW BC THEY WERE HER STORYLINE? MARC BROOKLYN RHOP AN TRULEY NOT BRING THAT TARNISH TOXIC FAKE STORYLINE MARRIAGE AN BROOKLYN BIRTH TO THERE NETWORK. RHOP Truly who pick this show up for Production after bravo drop them all from RHOA FRANCHISE .GOING BY THE BOOKS U GET WHAT U BRING N BOTH KANDI KENYA BRAVO CHECK 🥺🤫?

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад

      Kenya ain’t shit BB

    • @notmyrealname9110
      @notmyrealname9110 2 года назад +3

      @@nellyc1002 literally starting righting that as Kenya said it. I was like yes Kenya!!!!

  • @preciouswilliams22
    @preciouswilliams22 2 года назад +71

    Andy is full of💩 for providing Marlo this redemption arc like this!! Marlo hasn't done anything to deserve THIS much of grace!! ANDY, DO BETTER!!

  • @businessnow2499
    @businessnow2499 2 года назад +341

    Marlo turned out to be very hateful and mean woman towards other women because her past experiences growing up! That doesn't mean give Marlo a pass at all, but she needs to take a break from tv because she is falling apart. She rambles when she talks and the way she did her nephews, she's lashing out past realities on other people!!

    • @Jasmine-y4v
      @Jasmine-y4v 2 года назад +8

      Totally agreed‼

    • @bernadinetinker3028
      @bernadinetinker3028 2 года назад +2

      "Lashing out past realities on other people!!" She needs to stop while she is ahead. A new storyline for her would be getting long term therapy. Her newphews will need therapy for repeated abandonment alone. Actually, there are other housewives similiar to Marlo. We all have a Marlo in our lives.

    • @businessnow2499
      @businessnow2499 2 года назад +1

      @@bernadinetinker3028 You have a Marlo but I don't! Another reality show shouldn't further exploit this woman or her nephews trauma to views or checks!

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 2 года назад +2

      @@businessnow2499 - Marlo and Sanya need their pink slips ASAP. Both are verbally abusive, and Sanya's husband Aaron has zero business intervening in a conversation between her and Kenya. If Sanya cannot handle a conversation with a woman by herself, she has no business being on RHOA. The show is about housewives, not husbands. OR, Bravo can give the peach to Aaron, and he can be a man pretending to be a wife/woman.

    • @businessnow2499
      @businessnow2499 2 года назад

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 Agreed

  • @meeerreacts2220
    @meeerreacts2220 2 года назад +1023

    It’s hard to feel bad for Marlo bc she so miserable.

    • @aprilt.3868
      @aprilt.3868 2 года назад +9

      She said or beat them.

    • @bjsimon8755
      @bjsimon8755 2 года назад +36

      Don't believe that Mess. My sister is just like her she's a narcissistic sociopath. LOL she couldn't even force herself to cry LOL

    • @princessbc9791
      @princessbc9791 2 года назад +6

      @@bjsimon8755 Exactly!

    • @UnbiasedStrays
      @UnbiasedStrays 2 года назад +4

      🎯‼️

    • @bjsimon8755
      @bjsimon8755 2 года назад +2

      @@princessbc9791 sis I know what I am talking about

  • @MichellleAustin
    @MichellleAustin 2 года назад +340

    This is frustrating why is Andy behaving as Marlo’s publicist? We’ve all watched this season and nothing can excuse her behavior.

    • @jprice1928
      @jprice1928 2 года назад +9

      What are you talking about? He’s asking her questions just like with all of the other girls. It’s the reunion. That’s his job.

    • @MichellleAustin
      @MichellleAustin 2 года назад +25

      @@jprice1928 No what are you talking about? Listen how he leading her with both questions and answers…duh!
      ….and not one question about her unprovoked mean behavior towards Kandi and Kenya.

    • @keekee3385
      @keekee3385 2 года назад +11

      Her behavior has been like this since she been on here. It got worse since she got her peach!

    • @jprice1928
      @jprice1928 2 года назад +4

      @@MichellleAustin Marlo’s thing with her nephews was her biggest storyline this season so obviously he’s going to ask a lot of questions about it because the fans want to know. I don’t think he’s excusing her i think he’s trying to hold her accountable for her behavior. As for her attitude towards kandi and Kenya that’s pretty much old news at this point marlo is nasty towards everyone.

    • @TASconfidential
      @TASconfidential 2 года назад +3

      He’s not acting as her publicist at all. He’s doing his job and playing the neutral role here.
      Leave it to her peers on that stage (and the audience), to evaluate what they think of her and chose how they’ll hold her accountable.
      Think about the amount of backlash he would get for being unfair and biased, if he simply called her out and roasted her?

  • @tishawnmitchell8098
    @tishawnmitchell8098 2 года назад +70

    They gave Marlo a VERY generous edit this entire season, this reunion included, and for the life of me I can’t understand why.

    • @trillviaplath
      @trillviaplath 2 года назад +2

      My guess? Nene! She and Marlo fell out last season after she still wasn’t asked back & Marlo didn’t spend her airtime advocating for her, then she sues & alllll of a sudden they give Marlo this peach. Nene was the only reason this woman got airtime! But instead of sticking it to Nene, Marlo royally fvcks up and everyone wants her gone. Andy and his lackeys are trying to save face, and to think this was the best they could make her look all season??? The horror!

  • @pamorpamelaa5821
    @pamorpamelaa5821 2 года назад +329

    Her nephews are going to remember this and it may later in life affect them adversely especially if she continues to speak about all their business in publicly on media platforms for the world to know and talk about. They have friends that may tease them. She ought to know that fame does not shield you from pain but more often is the greatest source of your pain.

    • @meannoharm1561
      @meannoharm1561 2 года назад +8

      marlo is her mother all over again and she knows it. she said the last time her mother was with her she got mad and knocked on marlo's neighbors doors talking about her

    • @smith7388
      @smith7388 2 года назад +13

      Yes. Her parading those boys for her own personal gain (story “on be) is going to affect them and Bravo should be ashamed.

    • @lelecheesy
      @lelecheesy 2 года назад +1

      They’ll probably never trust

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 2 года назад +3

      And now they’ll be expecting to be kicked out again every time they mess up.

    • @pamorpamelaa5821
      @pamorpamelaa5821 2 года назад

      A response to Nina B's reply to my comment:
      My reply is not a blame game but a fact of the potential reality of more harm being done to Marlo's nephews. Children are emotionally and mentality damaged/scarred not just from having parents that live troubled lives that include crime, abuse to the kids or the parent is unable to take care of them, etc but their are other major negative events that happens in a child's life that adversely affect them either immediately or in adulthood that the child is not even aware of until something triggers those memories to surface and result in some form of negative behavioral, emotional, and mental change. Look at Marlo, being on this show brings up her past and what she went through even when she's not talking about it...just look at some of her behavior [verbal & nonverbal]. Children who have good loving parents that divorce can negatively be affected/harmed cause their parents divorced.

  • @damarcusmomm05
    @damarcusmomm05 2 года назад +244

    Kenya had a horrible childhood too, Marlo is phony 🥴

    • @vanessacs538
      @vanessacs538 2 года назад +21

      Still is to have a mother who treat you like you don't exist in her world is damaging to a child and a adult, Marlo mother does acknowledge her so I think on her end she has it a lot better than Kenya....

    • @UnbiasedStrays
      @UnbiasedStrays 2 года назад +10

      @@vanessacs538 yes that’s the initial comment is insinuating.. Marlo is full of it

    • @suburbcinderella
      @suburbcinderella 2 года назад +5

      How? She had a loving dad n grandmother

    • @jennapitts8373
      @jennapitts8373 2 года назад +15

      No, Kenya had it better. She had her grandmother , aunts , cousins and her father and siblings there for her. She was not in a house with a drug addicted mother. She was not out in foster homes. I’d rather not be around my mother than deal with Marlows mothers mess

    • @marztitus3472
      @marztitus3472 2 года назад +20

      @@suburbcinderella you act like that replaces the love of her mother . Are y’all this absent minded ? Like be for real

  • @TheMimosaChronicles
    @TheMimosaChronicles 2 года назад +891

    The fact that Andy is giving Marlo this much grace is absolutely SHOCKING!!!!! The way he eats up Kenya and runs her through the ground off any little comment is insane. It’s obviously from the reunion couch to WWHL he has his favorites and PURPOSELY puts Kenya in the hot seat.

    • @yoso5934
      @yoso5934 2 года назад +109

      He thinks that’s how black women should be. Broken 🙄

    • @jesusaceves3893
      @jesusaceves3893 2 года назад +25

      Because he wants her to be a housewife but she did go through a lot as a kid which doesn't excuse her for being how she is.

    • @onyinyeobkia2645
      @onyinyeobkia2645 2 года назад +9

      Hmmmmm seems like someone is talking about one of their favorites.

    • @tianahaley9913
      @tianahaley9913 2 года назад +117

      🤔 Andy is full of s... and he ain't never like Kenya he's only keeping Kenya around because he knows she's a fan favorite and she brings the ratings my opinion🤷

    • @macyprimm7201
      @macyprimm7201 2 года назад +11

      @@tianahaley9913 👍💯

  • @Breanna_monique
    @Breanna_monique 2 года назад +207

    Marlo was crying with no tears. Amazing

    • @SpicyOriginal
      @SpicyOriginal 2 года назад +19

      It was an inner cry!! - Tiffany “New York” Pollard 😂😂

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад

      *Oooo I Thought It WuZ Da Edible*🤣😂🤣*

    • @lovelygivan1442
      @lovelygivan1442 2 года назад +11

      Weird, I saw tears

    • @nancyismyname
      @nancyismyname 2 года назад +1

      ZERO TEARS

    • @georgia8592
      @georgia8592 Год назад +2

      ​@@lovelygivan1442 same her face was wet but they wear so many layers of make up for tv you could barely see it.

  • @TheBrookeAshley
    @TheBrookeAshley 2 года назад +263

    Marlo is hateful, miserable and vile and she needs some serious help. Therapy would help her tremendously. For someone who has gone through so much, you’d think she would be nicer. I was shocked to see Andy let her just tell her sob story for that long. It’s the same old song with Marlo and we’re all tired.

    • @shaunettehoney3514
      @shaunettehoney3514 2 года назад +5

      He was over it too. He sighed, rolled his eyes and said Kenya were you saying something. Remember he saw all the things she said to Kenya at the trip that we didn't see. He also had his 2 kids through IVF so that dig could go for him too.

    • @effiepreston5650
      @effiepreston5650 2 года назад

      And andy

    • @youknowwhatflav9916
      @youknowwhatflav9916 2 года назад +1

      I agree

    • @tanishahunter1058
      @tanishahunter1058 2 года назад

      Agree

    • @user-nk1rk2uo8p
      @user-nk1rk2uo8p Год назад

      You need some therapy too

  • @THATGIRLCANREACT
    @THATGIRLCANREACT 2 года назад +80

    Marlo was just trying to make a good season!!!! But she did it at the cost of a real friend ship with kandi and kenya!!!!😡😡

  • @tally_martinlove
    @tally_martinlove 2 года назад +66

    If anyone truly believes marlo is a genuine person is clearly delusional.

    • @UltimateBrody
      @UltimateBrody 2 года назад +7

      I can’t wait until she turns on Sanya. She’s going to look like a FOOL! Marlo is a friend to no one but her designer clothes.

    • @arealwoman1534
      @arealwoman1534 2 года назад

      Absolutely

  • @kareen6353
    @kareen6353 2 года назад +55

    Andy is so absolutely bias it is irritating at this point. Why is Marlo being allowed to basically go unchallenged?? Everything seems coached and them tears dried up really quick

  • @Yawn54
    @Yawn54 2 года назад +302

    Marlo says the most vile things out of all of the housewives. Yet Andy doesn’t scold her, yet he scolds Kenya and candiace who doesn’t say things as half as bad as Marlo.

    • @christopherphillips5485
      @christopherphillips5485 2 года назад +16

      Agreed 💯% I can't with Andy anymore! He's sitting there feeding Mar~Low lines after lines, no accountability but holds Kenya and Candice feets to the 🔥. I need someone, who's not bias to Host the reunion going forward.

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад

      Girl bye what show you watching……..Kenya done way worse shit than anyone

    • @Yawn54
      @Yawn54 2 года назад +3

      @@mrshp2392 give me an example of Kenya hitting below the belt.

    • @lynnelindsey4043
      @lynnelindsey4043 2 года назад +6

      @@Yawn54 I’ll give you one… she literally said Marlo’s got a square reader between her legs. Lol

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад +12

      @@Yawn54 r u serious you must just started watching…..I can give you a whole lot hella people can 🙄

  • @virtuallyglorious
    @virtuallyglorious 2 года назад +173

    You can't be conscious enough to know what happened to you was wrong and damaging but not be conscious enough to know you shouldn't do it to others.

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 2 года назад +7

      This!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @alamoja
      @alamoja 2 года назад +8

      All of this! I said the same. She did the exact thing to her nephews.

    •  2 года назад

      Exactly 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @BlueBabyAkaAj
    @BlueBabyAkaAj 2 года назад +47

    Two things can be true. Marlo can be hurt and have a lot going on. And be mean at the same time.

  • @JaeD904
    @JaeD904 2 года назад +81

    Kandi’s facial expressions 😂😂😂she’s not trying to hear what Marlo says.

    • @debbyvibbert3177
      @debbyvibbert3177 2 года назад

      Heard it before. Marlo pattern attack apologize repeat someday the bear she pokes will rip her head off her shoulders. You are a middle aged former sugar baby GROW UP & SHUT UP.

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 2 года назад +4

      I love Kandi! She keeps it real.

  • @shawnpreston1639
    @shawnpreston1639 2 года назад +97

    Exactly…hold her feet the fire and don’t let her tears distract from her bad behavior. A lot of us had broken childhood and parents who couldn’t be who we needed them to be; but, the moment you start victimizing others is the moment you no longer are the victim. Your pain might explain your behavior but it doesn’t excuses your behavior. Kandi and Kenya didn’t come to play or have pity parties at this reunion, and I love it! Drew has definitely earn her peach for next season.

    • @YTuser874
      @YTuser874 2 года назад +5

      Alright doctor psychiatrist therapist Shawn 👏🏾👏🏾 you are on POINT!!!!!! You are so right with everything you said !!!

    • @metrocustomer7164
      @metrocustomer7164 2 года назад +3

      Love this explanation, on point!!!!

    • @johnivory3245
      @johnivory3245 2 года назад +2

      Very well said!

  • @aquarius478
    @aquarius478 2 года назад +52

    Marlo wants us to feel bad for her being kicked out of foster homes but she can't even empathize with her own nephews. Sorry Andy but this redemption attempt is flopping

  • @MsLOBunnie
    @MsLOBunnie 2 года назад +71

    Kenya can see through the bs bc she was also a troubled runaway and she actively worked on healing her inner child and sees that Marlo uses this as a excuse for her fucked up ways she doesn’t want to change

  • @valadawilsonpaige402
    @valadawilsonpaige402 2 года назад +59

    Ms. Tucker said it plain and simple. Love the way that she explained it to Marlo.

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад +3

      *IAMKANDI *BOZZLADY*

    • @christophernewton8531
      @christophernewton8531 2 года назад +4

      She rly did it felt like it came from a place of concern it takes alot of maturity to be supportive to someone who has said some shady shit...Kandi could have let her drown in her narrative she didn't n made It nice n thoughtful marlo tries Kandi again I'll remember this

    • @MsJustSayin
      @MsJustSayin 2 года назад

      Kandi is not smart. Her take is so basic. There more to it than “I want to do better.” This is why when people experience trauma they are more likely to do it to others: abusive childhood, you beat your kids; sexual assaulted as a kid, you let it happen to your kids or do the offense; have a deadbeat parent, you are now the deadbeat.

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад

      @@christophernewton8531 ALL DA HARTERS GONNA HAVE THERE NEGATIVE OPINIONS*ONELOVE*

    • @KhrysPKreme
      @KhrysPKreme 2 года назад +3

      MRS 🎉

  • @tyzayiawatkins9344
    @tyzayiawatkins9344 2 года назад +15

    SHUT UP SANYA! 😂😂😂 kandi’s face said it all when she spoke up for marlo lmfaoo

  • @mrspat4409
    @mrspat4409 2 года назад +67

    Marlo is now talking about her child hood. As an excuse for her RAZOR MOUTH. she says horrible things about people. Now she wants us to feel sorry for her.

    • @mrs.haynes-r5z
      @mrs.haynes-r5z 2 года назад +1

      Yes it's her mouth words that she spews be awful but now she wants to play victim

  • @bjsimon8755
    @bjsimon8755 2 года назад +67

    Giving Marlo's personality disorder she is probably lying about why she was put out of those foster homes.... I'm willing to bet she was tormenting those foster parents biological children or causing some other kind of havoc and of course everyone wants peace in their homes and she had to go

    • @sexyazzniecy6755
      @sexyazzniecy6755 2 года назад +18

      Annnnnddddd you just assume that? How about they were either molesting her or touching her 💁🏾‍♀️ I’m from St.Petersburg where Marlo is from. For her to make it out of that with her sanity is a blessing

    • @bjsimon8755
      @bjsimon8755 2 года назад

      @@sexyazzniecy6755 I have a family member that acts EXACTLY like Marlo! I'm asking you to believe me.Marlo is not being truthful . THESE type of people only know exploitation ,abuse and lies to further promote themselves

    • @sexymodelboy
      @sexymodelboy 2 года назад +2

      Good point

  • @MsJoyce-mq9mv
    @MsJoyce-mq9mv 2 года назад +30

    Marlo that is so hit & miss with me. I foster kids & I have been in the system. When kids go to numerous home, most of the time it’s bc they disrupt their placement by their own actions. Marlo talks crazy to the other cast members, but feels attacked when they talk crazy to her. Side eye 😒

  • @mammajamma4397
    @mammajamma4397 2 года назад +62

    Kandi face looking like, here comes the BS 😂

  • @juanitasings3071
    @juanitasings3071 2 года назад +29

    Marlo with the fake tears for $500 Alex.

  • @DeniseTBrown52
    @DeniseTBrown52 2 года назад +16

    Is this the Marlow show? Enough already, Andy! You are taking the fun and banter out of RHOA!!

  • @shamswt
    @shamswt 2 года назад +19

    So all 3 parts are going to focus heavily on Marlo and her crocodile tears? Guess I won’t be rushing to watch the rest of the reunions. Part one was a drag with the Marlo pity.

  • @lizzay6037
    @lizzay6037 2 года назад +35

    She has yet to take accountability???

  • @muriel11111958
    @muriel11111958 2 года назад +34

    She deserves an award for this performance, it should make her humble, Bravo Marlo great PERFORMANCE

  • @breeoniebrooks217
    @breeoniebrooks217 2 года назад +15

    It's hard to feel bad for someone that tries to make people feel bad. I know hurt people hurt people but your a whole grown woman.

  • @real_abiola
    @real_abiola 2 года назад +30

    Wait! Did Mharlo say she beat the boys too? Did anyone else catch that? She’s a monster. She used them for a storyline. Sick!

    • @Just_Visiting316
      @Just_Visiting316 2 года назад +4

      😳😳😳😳

    • @tiffxyz2532
      @tiffxyz2532 2 года назад +14

      She said she didn't want to beat the boys like her mother did her. It's not a storyline, it's reality that no one can watch over the boys but her and her sister who's a full time mother to 3 children already.

    • @jennapitts8373
      @jennapitts8373 2 года назад +4

      It is a storyline if it is playing out on National TV

    • @calvinsykesii5834
      @calvinsykesii5834 2 года назад +7

      @@tiffxyz2532 she is exploiting these two young men. What "mother" goes on national TV and expose her children like that. Auntie or not she is wrong and it feels so disingenuous. Showing their rooms, telling ppl she kicked them out to stay in a packed trailer is disgusting more than like they will have disdain for this era in their lifes regardless of her providing a better home financially.

    • @tiffxyz2532
      @tiffxyz2532 2 года назад +1

      @@calvinsykesii5834 An Orange County Housewife showed her son going to court and juvenile detention center because people are supposed to show their real life.

  • @robinwalker9588
    @robinwalker9588 2 года назад +16

    Latoya actually turn my stomach with her narcissistic ways! She doesn’t hear herself in the moments that she becomes a total monster right in front of our eyes! No one is ever suppose to retaliate on Marlo when she decides to go ham on anyone especially Kenya! I would never have a personal conversation with Marlo ever again! Point Blank!!

  • @travisdrummond9163
    @travisdrummond9163 2 года назад +11

    Marlo needs to stay a FRIEND of the show.

  • @aaroncohoon5603
    @aaroncohoon5603 2 года назад +4

    At 2:17 Kandi looked just like mama Joyce when Marlo began to tell about the break in lol😅

  • @notmyrealname9110
    @notmyrealname9110 2 года назад +144

    I think people need to understand that generational trauma is real. And sometimes unintentionally we repeat then because we weren’t taught to break the cycle. Unfortunately we are witnessing what generational trauma looks like. I agree she definitely needs to work on herself and break that cycle .

    • @ericaruggles6309
      @ericaruggles6309 2 года назад +17

      👏🏾👏🏾Did not agree with what she did, but once she told her story I knew exactly what happened and you put all together so perfectly.

    • @mammajamma4397
      @mammajamma4397 2 года назад +27

      I think most people can recognize that her trauma is real. But she hasn't, and probably won't ever, do anything to stop hurting others just because she's hurt. And that is NOT okay.

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 2 года назад +8

      We see generational bondage and trauma, at least I do, on a daily...Grew up traumatized, and I could NEVER be as lowdown as that piece of work. I'm an empathetic person, but the moment she said what she to Kenya about her Mother not being able to stand her, it was a wrap for me, and she lucky it was Kenya and not PORSHA, in my Nene Leaks voice.

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 2 года назад +2

      We see generational bondage and trauma, at least I do, on a daily...Grew up traumatized, and I could NEVER be as lowdown as that piece of work. I'm an empathetic person, but the moment she said what she to Kenya about her Mother not being able to stand her, it was a wrap for me, and she lucky it was Kenya and not PORSHA, in my Nene Leaks voice.
      And please know that I am not trying to disrespect or disregard your view or opinion, and if I'm coming across as that, I truly apologize..I'm a lil over opinionated some (most) times🫶🏾😉😆

    • @faithlovehope5957
      @faithlovehope5957 2 года назад +2

      Amen!

  • @thequeenashd9421
    @thequeenashd9421 2 года назад +10

    Kandi and Kenya faces 😂😂😂. They aren’t taking Marlo serious lol

  • @Srpskiiiv
    @Srpskiiiv 2 года назад +28

    Not the fake crying

    • @aprilt.3868
      @aprilt.3868 2 года назад +3

      With the one year sitting under her eye and never fell.

  • @sabriyahsmith346
    @sabriyahsmith346 2 года назад +7

    Call her OUT Kenya!! Call her out Kandi!!! Marlo been talking trash for YEARS and YEARS!!! The bottom line is that if she talks trash she should be able to accept trash!!!!

  • @shamswt
    @shamswt 2 года назад +11

    Marlo needed to get that pre-rehearsed speech out chile.

  • @theRealAmorJae
    @theRealAmorJae 2 года назад +19

    I just don’t understand how Marlo for all these years was rubbing in Kenya’s face that her mom didn’t love her or want her but……. Her mom doesn’t want shit to do with her either. Like wtf

  • @mykoniichistorychannel
    @mykoniichistorychannel 2 года назад +13

    Marlo is such an unsympathetic type of person. She’s been through a lot, but it’s no excuse to be a rotten human being.

  • @nellyc1002
    @nellyc1002 2 года назад +23

    The tears were fake!

    • @tianahaley9913
      @tianahaley9913 2 года назад +5

      🤔What tears? I didn't see any🤷😩

    • @nellyc1002
      @nellyc1002 2 года назад +1

      @@tianahaley9913 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nicolemitchell9762
    @nicolemitchell9762 2 года назад +11

    This is how I feel. The boys have already gone through enough. She’s aware. We are too because she allowed us to be. Her putting them out because she was over whelmed 😢. I’m not going to lie it disgusted me . It broke my heart. If she felt that way . Why couldn’t you have made that decision off camera and months before you started filming. She could have totally shown her role in their life in a better way. That film will always be here.They don’t need that replayed for the rest of their lives. It’s just. Why?

  • @allthingstrea6419
    @allthingstrea6419 2 года назад +24

    🤚🏾 nah she kept coming for Kenya and Kandi unsolicited

    • @sashal6593
      @sashal6593 2 года назад +4

      Jealousy is the reasoning. Marlo wants Kenya's beauty and Kandi's success.

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад

      @@sashal6593 wtf ever BB

    • @sashal6593
      @sashal6593 2 года назад

      @@mrshp2392 wtf ever BB

  • @virtuallyglorious
    @virtuallyglorious 2 года назад +10

    Sanya interrupted to say nothing.

  • @pamorpamelaa5821
    @pamorpamelaa5821 2 года назад +11

    Is she that ignorant to think that out of all the billion of people in this world she is the only person to have had to live a life as she stated she did prior to becoming a celebrity. If she does think that, then more than likely she has not helped anyone that is still living in that unfortunate and tragic state. She had no compassion for her nephews or their mother to put them out of her house cause they were preventing her selfish self from having some her time. She probably took them in to gain applause and a new storyline.

  • @211sweetypie
    @211sweetypie 2 года назад +5

    Do you see how Kandi complimented Marlo for how she cared for the boys at the end even though she knows how bad Marlo talked about her? Some people like to bash Kandi but she has the purest heart on the show. I’m a Taurus woman too and I sometimes try to see the good in people who hate on me.

  • @scorpio54williams96
    @scorpio54williams96 2 года назад +8

    Going through a hard time in life does not excuse a person for being evil. That is a choice.

  • @loudialafontant4041
    @loudialafontant4041 2 года назад +46

    I love how Queen Kenya held Marlo accountable.

    • @ElleBrOw
      @ElleBrOw 2 года назад +7

      Queen of what exactly? Please share thank you. Unless you mean queen of CVS which who shops there? Walmart would’ve been 5 steps higher 😂 Right now she’s the wig queen that holds no crown because they’re alllllllll wig wearers & Kenya’s looks a 🗣 MESS

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад +5

      @@ElleBrOw *No Sis 🤔What Stores Carrying Your Hair Products*Gotta Start Somewhere*

    • @ElleBrOw
      @ElleBrOw 2 года назад +3

      @@anngoodman9454 Searching comments are we? I started young & retired young with a whole pension. What you doing?

    • @lovelygivan1442
      @lovelygivan1442 2 года назад +8

      "QUEEN KENYA?" 😂😂😂😂

    • @anngoodman9454
      @anngoodman9454 2 года назад

      @@ElleBrOw No👌🏽 Happen To See This Negative Opinion Your Business Is You're Retired🙏🏾Wonderful Thank God For Your Blessings🙏🏾I'm Retired As Well Loving Life*OneLove*

  • @sabuaspiller3935
    @sabuaspiller3935 2 года назад +14

    All fake Marlo! She is crying for her next peach 🍑.

  • @petitlefrancais7680
    @petitlefrancais7680 2 года назад +42

    Kenya and kandi are definitely OGs. They will tell it like it is no matter who you are and no matter what!!!! That's why their chemistry is strong because they speak the same language and they see the same things that others can't seem to see lol

    • @selinedirroco1860
      @selinedirroco1860 2 года назад +1

      No they're not.

    • @petitlefrancais7680
      @petitlefrancais7680 2 года назад +4

      @@selinedirroco1860 that's your call nobody cares

    • @petitlefrancais7680
      @petitlefrancais7680 2 года назад

      @Leila Murphy we don't know what show you watching and which kenya and kandi you talking about, the ones I'm speaking of are kandi and Kenya from the real housewives of Atlanta.!!

    • @selinedirroco1860
      @selinedirroco1860 2 года назад

      @@petitlefrancais7680 .Who the fuck are you? Just because I have a different opinion, doesn't mean that you have to disrespect a person you don't even know; Just like the people you defend don't know you. It's not that deep.

    • @selinedirroco1860
      @selinedirroco1860 2 года назад +1

      @Leila Murphy......Where does this We come in, when HE'S the only one making disrespectful comments to viewers about people that don't know him? You're right! Both are arrogant and manipulative people. Ole G and this We bizz and he's the only one commenting about a Reality show, got it twisted. It's not that deep to degrade people you don't know over a difference of opinion. I can't wait until they cancel this Flop of a show that alot people stopped watching when Nene became the target to alienate.

  • @TheMrsilverscott
    @TheMrsilverscott 2 года назад +6

    Kenya is no angel but she's dead on about Marlo wanting sympathy for her sad upbringing after doing nothing but talking negatively about some of the other women 😒

  • @darrylskylar8757
    @darrylskylar8757 2 года назад +8

    Marlo’s actions negate any sympathy a person has for her.

  • @LoveyLand
    @LoveyLand 2 года назад +8

    One thing I know. Is no one is gonna get at Kenya. You know she got machine guns in the walls. Kenya ready for they asses 😂😂😂

    • @tyjuniel7103
      @tyjuniel7103 2 года назад +3

      And she is highly trained.

    • @LoveyLand
      @LoveyLand 2 года назад +2

      @@tyjuniel7103 exactly!!! Between the eyes Kenya. Between the eyes 👀❤️

  • @paige4128
    @paige4128 2 года назад +7

    There are many people on this earth that have dealt with much worse, and they don’t say the underhanded, nasty things she says. She’s a survivor so who’s to say she’s sharing with the public what she went through just to save her peach and garner sympathy? Folks from the streets are slick. Don’t be fooled.

  • @Hotwingzlover84
    @Hotwingzlover84 2 года назад +4

    Marlo! Nobody is going to come forward about sleeping with you. Please shut up saying that.

  • @Winniegirl85
    @Winniegirl85 2 года назад +12

    What’s happening what are we looking . Is this a pity party. For Marlow

  • @TALKTRUTHJAMAICA
    @TALKTRUTHJAMAICA 2 года назад +1

    LMFAOOOOOO KANDI’s face at 1:43 😩😭😂😂😂😂😂

  • @LoveyLand
    @LoveyLand 2 года назад +6

    Very Ramona “when u grow up abused…” and Bethany saying “oh my god! ur 60 f years old.”

  • @truthtorpedo4068
    @truthtorpedo4068 Год назад +2

    "Spawled"? Spoiled?
    The woman wanted those boys for a peach, she got the peach and now she wants them GONE!

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 2 года назад +34

    Marlo is all about herself.

    • @suzs3770
      @suzs3770 2 года назад +2

      Period boo

    • @aprilt.3868
      @aprilt.3868 2 года назад +3

      Marlo has a bag of tricks and lies add to her selfish ways.

    • @mrshp2392
      @mrshp2392 2 года назад

      If so she wouldn’t have got her nephews girl bye

  • @jamaljackson3751
    @jamaljackson3751 2 года назад +6

    I’m actually surprised Marlo didn’t kick them out earlier. Hurt ppl hurt ppl. If you have been abandoned your first instinct will be to abandon others

  • @amlowe40
    @amlowe40 2 года назад +4

    Everyone is not meant to be parent, just because u can afford to be a parent doesn't mean it makes u a good parent. Two different lanes. She kept it real 💯.

  • @Dan-pd9ys
    @Dan-pd9ys Год назад +3

    I get Marlo’s story and I can’t even fkng imagine, honestly, but Kenya has a point too. Cuz you can’t use your trauma to then turn around and be hypocritical and demean others. Trauma is not an excuse, (Exhibit A Kenya’s mom comment from her). I understand though that trauma like that really burns you and makes it harder to be a better person when you’re hurting inside.

  • @e.l.c.4298
    @e.l.c.4298 2 года назад +5

    Marlo isn't smart enough to gain sympathy...she's an absolute monster

  • @queenjj201
    @queenjj201 2 года назад +4

    Andy is trying to fix the mess MarLOW has made this entire episode. I don't feel NOTHING for MarLOW. Kenya was a runaway as well. She don't inflict her pain on others.

  • @roamingramon6517
    @roamingramon6517 2 года назад +6

    We do not want Latoya Hutchinson. BYE

  • @stevenwashington2656
    @stevenwashington2656 2 года назад +10

    Marlo is playing an old housewife’s game on a very tenured show; we know you are lying. Just be honest so we can love you more.

  • @pattyr2747
    @pattyr2747 2 года назад +9

    We've all had ish to struggle with you. But Marlo Hampton uou are a trash talker and can't take it. You dish it but you can't take it

  • @dermainedibbins9157
    @dermainedibbins9157 2 года назад +7

    Marlo is like that supporting character on a TV show that gets their own show and it fails. Example - Florence on the Jeffersons and Jackie Harry on 227. Their characters got their own show that bombed. Sometimes the supporting character is best just being the supporting character. That is Marlo whose lane is being a friend. It was a mistake giving her a peach. Andy knows it which is why he's allowing Marlo the chance to redeem herself.

  • @jprice1928
    @jprice1928 2 года назад +5

    Kandis face when Sanya started talking 💀

  • @elizabethstokes64
    @elizabethstokes64 Год назад +3

    Kandi wil never allow her to bully her😊😊😊

  • @ValeneseB
    @ValeneseB 2 года назад +5

    I know someone like Marlo. These type of women are bullies, jealous, conning, and very manipulative and they seem to never remember saying things or things happening that way.
    Pray for them, it’s normally some underlying issues that stem back to childhood traumas that were never addressed.
    These are little girls trapped in grown up bodies.

  • @queenof2kings299
    @queenof2kings299 2 года назад +3

    When Marlo was talking about kicking the boys out vs her back story, that is what Kenya meant about, The Hypocrisy of it all. Yes, I know she did what she knew...but I'm just saying

  • @skinbytat7305
    @skinbytat7305 2 года назад +6

    Marlo is a hot mess and not housewife material and hates her backlash! This lady has ALSO cut up another woman’s face so bad she killed herself like stop the sob story

    • @kamariatoure42
      @kamariatoure42 2 года назад

      Oh well. that's what happens when you grow up on the streets.. you are exposed to many things including violence.. you talk s*** you get cut.. that's what you call a Hard Knock Life. Marlo is the realest one sitting up there! They all talk trash and run up on each other but at least we know Marlo can back it up. Didn't Kenya tell Phaedra she would knock her teeth out when she was pregnant? and didn't Kandi tell Cynthia she was going to drag her in this b****? All these women are hypocrites

    • @Winniegirl85
      @Winniegirl85 2 года назад

      Exactly she’s vile

    • @macyprimm7201
      @macyprimm7201 2 года назад +1

      Exactly 💯 all Marlo has are excuses. She play crazy but she knows how to turn it on and off.

  • @sweetiekash5619
    @sweetiekash5619 2 года назад +2

    Lmaoooooooooo 😂😂Lol Marlo tryna cry - is too funny!!!!!!!

  • @lynnelindsey4043
    @lynnelindsey4043 2 года назад +3

    Kenya asking to be on a conference call to get all information… you can’t know everything if you are a possible suspect to the crime. Not saying she is responsible, but the police officers don’t know that until their investigation is complete. So just chill and make sure all your security is on the up and up. On top of that… Y’all not friends anyway … you’ll get the full details when the rest of them get it from Marlo or whoever.

  • @Exxtol1
    @Exxtol1 2 года назад +16

    Marlo is mad because when she goes low Kandi and Kenya going low right with her.

    • @nnekam6153
      @nnekam6153 2 года назад +6

      They don’t even go as low as Marlo does ! Example if Kenya gave her the same energy she gave when she talked about her mom; she could have used her own childhood too as a weapon ; that’s an example of going low !

  • @Amiakatee
    @Amiakatee 2 года назад +5

    Andy so bias, did he forget Kenya’s pass

  • @tamuyoung6536
    @tamuyoung6536 2 года назад +2

    Crying with NO TEARS! NO TEARS

  • @claudepolicano1632
    @claudepolicano1632 2 года назад +8

    Marlo was acting its was obvious

  • @jairygarcia7157
    @jairygarcia7157 Год назад +2

    Marlo needs to quit pretending that she doesn't recall saying certain things, the cameras don't lie boo

  • @oliviadevoe993
    @oliviadevoe993 2 года назад +7

    Not buying it...she give me powder head vibes 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @mourriahstone8317
    @mourriahstone8317 2 года назад +2

    Marlo has a true story and people like Kenya should be rebuked to comment.

  • @Oceans1313
    @Oceans1313 2 года назад +5

    Marlo is entertaining and sometimes I like her - but I can see why Kenya is upset after what Marlo said about Kenya’s relationship with her mom a few seasons ago - if she wants empathy for what she went through then she has to give it with other peoples situations- and what she said about kandi and her past relationships was mean - so I can see why some of the ladies aren’t receiving her the way she would like

  • @phillypretzel
    @phillypretzel 2 года назад +9

    Kenya wasn’t here for the fake self victimization. Kenya has a similar story in-terms of abandonment, and she for the most part doesn’t go below the belt with her jabs. She is crazy, messy, and a gaslighter. However, she still has fun and humor with her jabs. Marlo’s insults are just mean and hurtful.