Why Do People Love Bomb And How To Deal With Love Bombing
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Have you experienced a love bomb or maybe you're just worried about it happening to you. It's not a pleasant experience and it will leave you feeling shellshocked and wondering wtf just happened. It's usually connected to narcissists but why do people love bomb and to deal with love bombing.
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Thank you for educating me. Never again will I let a narcissist Love bomb me.
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Last year, started talking to a man who I thought I'd liked. It all started off with lovebombing. As months progressed, it all began to die down ( as always ). He then tried to gaslight and manipulate me. I identified it quickly so I found myself gaslighting and manipulating him back. He most likely knew I was returning the favour. He has since disappeared. He may be back in a couple of months to abuse me again but Ill abuse him back as I am good at reversing games back on him.
He is trying to get me to fall in love with him quickly but Im just not feeling it. Feels like hes just sticking around until he has " conquered " me but....... That'll never happen. He will never make it through my walls.
He needs to focus on easier prey 😂
Sounds awful. Why don’t you block him from coming back?
You sound emotionally immature tbh. The fact that you're prepared to abuse him back and are expecting his return shows how you're just as toxic, regardless if he did it first. Why don't you just block him and move on with your life? Is it that fun thriving off with negativity?
Great 👍 inspiring ❤
Thank you!
My interpretation is that love-bombing is like a "one size fits all" attention-seeking short period of time (like a few weeks to a few months), and then a near-dump, or a full-on dump. True cherishing/loving is personalized to you and if you think about it, it would be customized to ONLY be for you. Their words and promises actually come true if it's the real deal.
They follow through and introduce you to their family and friends, and they want to take pictures with you, and they ask you about where you want to be in the future and are curious about your past (not too creepy or prying but out of true interest in who you actually are). They ask questions about your friends and family. They aren't secretive with their phone, and they want to be seen with you out and about, morning~night/ including weekends and holidays. Even if they are busy with work/family, they will make time .
In-person, their actions match up with their texts and phone calls. If social media is a "thing" for them, they will proudly boast and put pictures of you up on that platform. If he Says he loves you, why isn't that up there for everyone to see? You won't feel like a secret if it's for real; on the other hand, if it's a love bomb situation, he probably won't be adjusting facebook and so forth to make room for you. That's my two cents
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Thank You 😊
lmao the shrapnel got me ☠
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A man once called me “sophisticated” which is not a personal trait of mine. How a do you correct a person without sounding like you have low self esteem 🥴?
Personally I wouldn’t. Either you’re wrong about yourself or the more likely option is they either aren’t good at interpreting people or they are just trying to make you like them. Either way I’d just say thank you
@@AlexGoldie I just don’t want a situation where someone thinks I’m just the best thing since sliced bread and then gets let down when they realize that I’m only human. I feel like those types of people will have a field day with trying to belittle you later in the relationship, if that makes sense.
@@boucoupthick504 definitely and I have been on the wrong end of this before. All you can do is be the most authentic you that you can possibly be. Be open and honest about everything. And don’t pretend to be or like anything just to please them.
@@AlexGoldie being open and honest doesn't work with a narcissist cuz they have a plan with you of which you know nothing about (if you aren't aware of their games).
Help! How do I know if I’m love bombing? I feel I’m being respectful and complimenting her. I’m not making promises or feeling as if she can’t have family time. I feel different about this woman and I want to show her without alarm lol how do I love without the love bomb? I don’t get it I’m just being nice..