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If you kids wanna be popular I’d suggest 1 thing: practice emotional intelligence. And the best way I’ve found to practice that is to meditate. When you meditate, your focus should be to think about nothing, and when you do that immediately random thoughts are gonna pop up in your head. Thing is, when you meditate, you disassociate from your thought. So normally when you have an angry thought, YOU are angry and you identify with the thought. During meditation, YOU are not angry, you just identify an angry thought arising from within you. But since you are detached from the thought you can observe it and perhaps even ask questions like, why did this thought arise in me? Either ways, you start to develop observation over your emotions and, as a result, will come off as cool and mature to your peers. Trust me this method has worked for 1000s of years.
Alright so here’s how I made friends in like 2 days You want to walk home as much as possible with people your age in YOUR street! If the convo is awkward, relate things and if it’s terrible, try to ask questions that aren’t just a yes or no. For example, “Do you have any socials we can maybe talk on?” Or “do you play any games?” If you really wanted to, you could ask “Do you have any plans? Maybe we can hang out sometime since we live near each other.” Trust me. It works! Next, your going to try make friends in class. To be honest, this isn’t really that hard. All you have to do to start off, is talk to some people around you time to time. Not a full conversation, though. Keep it cool! Breath mints and pencils. At first, if somebody looks like they don’t have a pencil, tap them on the shoulder and ask if they need one. If you think they are a nice person deep down, then the probably are! When you have one or two full conversations, ask them if they want a breath mint or gum. Make sure you have it though. If you don’t, you will just look silly. BE 👏🏻 YOURSELF 👏🏻! THIS IS LITERALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE! If your start to show your real side, they can be shocked or no prepared for your real personality. They also might be suspicious at the start and not really that interested. If you use your real self, it’s so less awkward! Don’t be dry. Just don’t. Please don’t be dry. If y’all need help, I’ll give you a head start. 1. Instead of ‘😂/lol’ use: BAHAHHA’ or ‘LMFAOOO’ or you could even do ‘PLSS-‘ 2. If you say ‘ok?…’ your toxic 🤡 3. Learn the emoji abc 🤠 4. Go download Pinterest right now girlie 5. Use “Bitch”, “Queen” Or “girlie”. Not Shit like “4LIFERR” or “PARTNER IN CRIMEE” Don’t say swear words just to be ‘cool.’ You look toxic. In tiktok, search ‘Tips for girls’ and it helps a bunch. Don’t do any of the tricks though, the could be fake. Don’t be a pick me and say old memes(e.g. AND HES NAME IS JOHN SENA)! Don’t say A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G like “and I Ooop skskks” Know who are the toxic people in the school. Please. If your in primary school (At any grade), Bring lollies for you and your close friends. Don’t give them to anybody you don’t know because they are just using you. Don’t be rude unless they ask a lot. At first say “No, sorry. These are only for me and my friends. I haven’t given them to anybody else haha” and if they ask again say “I got these at [shop you bought them from]. You can get them at there! There’s also some at Walmart.” *Should I do this for new students?*
I'm sorry I'm pretty late but I'm going into the 8th grade and this video inspired me alot! I've always been the quiet kid and I want to change a little and make 8th grade memorable
@@taehyun1fan831 bro I used to be such and extrovert in my old school I’m new as well since I moved schools like 2 weeks ago and when I first came I was so awkward and shit and really now I’m starting to think that people think I act like that always. I just miss my old friends but i guess changes happen 😕
At my school almost every new kid already knows a popular kid and becomes popular or is related to popular people and become popular or no one know them and I become friends with them which takes down my popularity level like 30% each time it happens not to mention every best friend I’ve ever had at my school has moved away
THIS IS SO TRUE. At my school literally every new kid becomes popular and I've became friends with so many new kid friends who all left me for popularity and act like they are better than me. Great world we live in
I’m friends with someone but they don’t talk to me anymore ever since the new girl came. I’ve never said anything because I don’t wanna seem crazy, the only time I get to really talk to her is in the phone or when the new girl isn’t at school. I wanted to be able to talk to the new girl but she thinks I’m weird. That’s amazing.😔✌️
I have another tip I found about how to be popular. This is mostly for people still in school but it can be applied for those outside of it too. Join clubs and sports! I joined sports to help me lose weight and to meet new people. I was new kid at my school and I wanted to make a couple friends. I joined just two sports and I made so many friends in so little time. Sports teams bond a lot since you’ll see your teammates almost everyday. I used to not even like sports but it’s great a way to stay in shape and meet new people. Also just like she said go to every single event. Go to prom and go to school games. If you want to be popular go to all the events. Also the most important tip be GENUINE! Trust me people can tell when you’re fake and you’ll just be seen as a mean popular girl/guy. Also socialize with everyone. Don’t just go for the popular kids. Like she said being smart and having good grades will make you more popular. Don’t brag about it though. Stay humble. However, high academics will make people take you seriously. Also strive to be life of conversations. Like that one friend that when they leave the conversation it’s just not the same. It will make people appreciate you. Also stay drama free. It’s okay to hear the drama but don’t get involved because it’ll make you seem untrustworthy. Oh just wanted to say that the gum hack works great too.
i really needed this! i struggle with making friends and it’s my 3rd year and i still have no close friends . i’m trying to leave school with some good friends and memories but i don’t have any yet
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I can relate to this so much... I was the popular girl at first and then when I changed my school in 2nd grade I was literally getting bullied .... And pple thought that I was introverted and all that... And during quarantine when I had a major glow up pple literally started to like me even tho i didn't even talk to them often like... And I feel like it's all about the mindset that u have bout yourself.... And I can relate to this bcz I felt confident and it's more important to feel confidence and not to like only show it bcz of others to like u
I am a freshman in high school and I came into high school only knowing 3 sophomores at my school because I was going to a different middle school than the people at my high school. I’m currently pretty unpopular and even my teachers forget to give me my work. I can’t even find groups for projects most of the time unless they are assigned to me. I’ve been watching a lot of videos lately trying to change the way I act and also trying to improve the state of my body by eating healthier trying to lose weight exercising more and taking better care of my skin and general hygiene.
@@swirlbunny I’m basically the same, although I’ve been getting closer to some new people and I’ve had a little bit of weight loss success. My teachers seem to enjoy me. Although I’m not as far as I’d like to be I’m getting closer.
Read this if you’re still in high school and you struggle with making friends/having people like you. I’m 22 now and my “friends” in school always called me annoying, were jealous or simply left me out. I just quickly want to remind you that most likely the people that are popular in high school will not be the ones that are popular in life! Most of the time it’s exactly the ones that were left out when they were younger simply because they are different. Always know your worth and in the end true friends will like you for who you are and you don’t need anyone else than those friends ♥️ But also I totally get that you want to have friends lol so try your best but keep in mind that even if you don’t have friends you’re an amazing human being and do you true friends will come ♥️
This advice seems pretty trustworthy… I’m going to a new school this year and I’ve always been really shy- I have 3 old friends that go to the school I’m transferring to but idk if they have new friends since it’s been a long time (2 years) I’m still in contact with one of them and hang out with her sometimes but I really hope this school isn’t filled with stuck up brats 😗
If you go into school with the attitude that the kids there will be stuck up brats you will not be popular or make many friends. It’s better to keep a positive mind set and have an open mind! I hope this helps
Thank you so much for the advice … I’m moving to a new and pretty big school and have a hard time having friends and socializing with people, this video really helped me out! 💗
I'm so glad it helped 💖 I know how it feels because I had to change schools when I went to high school and I also this year just moved to study abroad for uni and it was HARD at first, I swear to god I'm gonna make another video because I feel like I picked up so many more tips lol I also made a video on using subliminal for making friends if you want to you can check it out 💖 here's the link ruclips.net/video/jEVU-IclyNI/видео.html
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As an international student who speak Mandarin instead of English as the first language. It is REALLY HARD to make friends at school...... Those small talks are so awkward :( Any advise guys?
For small talks I would recommend starting off with talking about things you all have in common, the talk also doesn’t have to be long (eg how did you find the test? It’s so cold today!), you should also express interest in what their trying to say and encourage them to keep talking (like ask them to expand on their sometimes simple answer) good luck :D
When you're walking around school, say a friendly "Heyy!" or "hi!" to people in your year/grade. Acting approachable always makes people talk to you. When you're stuck with some people, for example you're waiting for a lesson to start, say something about the weather, or ask about the homework etc. My favourite conversation starter is "Have you done the homework?" and you can carry on that convo talking about if it was easy or hard, etc
luckily, most people don't talk to me, so if i suddenly start using the nickname "love" for everyone, no one would question it cuz i already use it with my friends :>
1. Use the word LOVE , it releases oxytocin. 2. Touch ( handshakes, high fives, brush ur hand on their shoulder gently) 3. Share gum , classical conditioning. 4. Follow nd ask for their socials WHILE U ARE TALKKNG. 5. Be on the same team ~ show interest when they're talking ~ mention their name ~ mirror their body language
thank you so much for this! I'm trying to fix my relationship with people in school because i am known as being friends with a histrionic person that always finds a way to create a big dramatic scene over some small issues and basically being toxic and stuff. i have managed to put some space between me and her but everyone had already labeled me as "the close friend of THAT girl" and it's annoying because people seems to underestimate me and thinks that i am just like her. if anybody has suggestions on how to solve this please reply i am in need of help :)
same bestie im tryna change my wardrobe and improving my social anxiety becuz in 6th grade it was BAD,also im practicing running for track hopefully it pays off!!
I pretty much don't talk much unless someone talks to me which is mostly to ask for gum or something. I will admit I am very shy and if anyone were to sit by me at lunch i would be more than happy :,)
There are a hell lotta videos on the same topic...but those aren't that relatable that helpful for me personally...but i freakin relate to your videos sm nd it frekin helps me sm...i love your content , i love u...and yeah thanks for your advices! It really works, it does...love yaa
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Ive been bullied so many times, and i struggle with confidence since noone really likes me :( im going to highschool next year so yeah i hope this helps :)
Tysm for this! I’m gonna use these hacks on Monday on this girl who i kind of already am friends with but hope to be closer to her and to make more friends. I’m a introvert to most people and I have anxiety and I get really shy around people or sometimes I become annoying but not intently. So I will try these ty! Btw I love the edits :)
Update- IT WORKED OMG! I tried it and its starting to work! The girl that I have been admiring for years we are actually friends now! Tysm for the tips! I also made other friends as well! The gum thing and complimenting and talking about them really works!
Gee how's life after high school? I'm a freshman and I hate growing up already, it seems scary, they say you cam go to college, straight to the army, or start working. May I ask you, what do you regret not doing in freshman year?
@@user-so3yw8tr1x hey! :) It's pretty good for me. I still need to explore and experience life. I went to college because it was my safest option to achieve a certain lifestyle i aim for. Still looking for a job tho. I actually regret being a people pleaser. I was seeking acceptance from my peers who had completely different paths and interests from mine. I wish i lived my teenage years like i wanted. I regret not having enough fun and adventures. I was great at school naturally, so i don't regret anything belongs to my academic life. P.S. Don't worry about growing up, it's A LOT easier than it looks like. If only people put their mental health first! Be self aware as much as possible, this is the key to both enjoying and surviving life. Thanks for listening! :)
aww I'm sorry that used to be me too but honestly if you want to change it you can, but if you feel pressured to have a lot of friends and be popular just bc of other ppl don't! there's literally nothing wrong with having 2 close friends, as the saying goes it's better to have 4 quarters than a thousand pennies 💖💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ okay but like if you have 1k pennies you can go to a bank and trade it in for 10 bucks but your stuck with a dollar if you have 4 quarters
My problem is that the fisrt week i take the initiative and make people confortable but after they put themselves together and idk who to hang out with
Despite Me Being A Boy, This Still Helps Me Alot, I Use The Oxytocin Method, I Offer People Gum Alot, I Save Seats For My Friends, I Say “Love” Alot, Like I Say “I Love Coffee” & “I Love Books 📖 ” I Also Use The Chameleon Effect On My Friends Alot Copying Their Walkspeed, & I Hype People Up. And On Top Of That, I Try To Have Trending Clothes And Have A Nice Hairstyle (I Have A Tiktok Boy Hairstyle) And I Try To Attend All School Events I Have (ex; School Dance, Football Game, Homecomings) This Video Helps ALot, Thank You ☺️
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I’m going to a new school today, I’m changing schools bc I got bullied a lot in my old school and I’d really like to be one of the cool/popular kids so wish me luck!
I have always been the shy kid but after therapy and pills to cure my anxiety and depression i am finally gonna try and be popular! Ty for this video love
ur welcome also I know what it's like I had the same thing 😕 social anxiety especially I even made a video about it you can check out that one too if you want ruclips.net/video/UcY-PHv3bOc/видео.html
I hope I can move to a new school(if my parents allow me) Because everyone there is mean just because I'm Indian,most of my friends only talk to me for assignments,Homework anything we have to solve for ourself,I'm very shy,I usally stay so quiet in class so I hope I can start a new fresh school and change and not be shy.
Ok so here is my problem and i need your advice! I just moved 3 weeks ago and i just left my hometown of 11 years so I don’t know a single person here like i havent met anyone. So how can i make friends quick?
Omg the day after tomorrow is my first day of this school year and yk after COVID-19 we didn’t make a lot of friends when school started last year, so i was wondering about what should i do this year and i watched ur AMAZING VIDEO now i have the real confidence to do what you said and tell us , thank u so much love 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
You see, what happened to me is that 2 weeks ago i got kicked out of my toxic friend group for being weird and they spread rumors about me now. I do have ppl to talk to but most ppl in my year don't like me and I mostly spend break and lunch alone Any tips on how to get new long lasting friends?
I'm moving to a new school that I've already went for a trial day on. This school is also an international school like the my now old school so I have mutual friends. I usually make friends easily but I haven't been the "new kid" for 3 years now ;-;
VERY LATE:/ but thanks!!! I'm literally starting school in 5 MONTHS, but i'm getting excited over attending a new school so who cares. I'm going to attend the school where my dad works at next school year and will be starting the swedish equivalent of highschool, i've always been the quiet, unpopular kid, so i want to change it up before my school experience is over. I've always been intelligent, thoughful, kind, along with being fairly attractive but basically my autism, not having social media and my reserved personality play this lil' game each year called "dodge popularity". I have been excluded ever since daycare, along with being bullied for a fair chunk of my childhood, though i'd say all that trauma made me more confident in myself and mature, but i still kind of want to avoid that at all costs. At the bare minimum, i want to be quiet but be able to be atleast liked, though i hope any autism accomodations i might get at the next school won't make others exclude me. Again, thank you!!!!!! You're tips are pretty useful.
For me the gum one doesn’t really work. There’s a popular girl at school who asks me for gum sometimes and when I have gum, I give her a piece, but then she just never really talks to me unless she wants something.
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If you kids wanna be popular I’d suggest 1 thing: practice emotional intelligence.
And the best way I’ve found to practice that is to meditate. When you meditate, your focus should be to think about nothing, and when you do that immediately random thoughts are gonna pop up in your head.
Thing is, when you meditate, you disassociate from your thought. So normally when you have an angry thought, YOU are angry and you identify with the thought. During meditation, YOU are not angry, you just identify an angry thought arising from within you. But since you are detached from the thought you can observe it and perhaps even ask questions like, why did this thought arise in me?
Either ways, you start to develop observation over your emotions and, as a result, will come off as cool and mature to your peers. Trust me this method has worked for 1000s of years.
Alright so here’s how I made friends in like 2 days
You want to walk home as much as possible with people your age in YOUR street! If the convo is awkward, relate things and if it’s terrible, try to ask questions that aren’t just a yes or no. For example, “Do you have any socials we can maybe talk on?” Or “do you play any games?” If you really wanted to, you could ask “Do you have any plans? Maybe we can hang out sometime since we live near each other.” Trust me. It works!
Next, your going to try make friends in class. To be honest, this isn’t really that hard. All you have to do to start off, is talk to some people around you time to time. Not a full conversation, though. Keep it cool!
Breath mints and pencils. At first, if somebody looks like they don’t have a pencil, tap them on the shoulder and ask if they need one. If you think they are a nice person deep down, then the probably are! When you have one or two full conversations, ask them if they want a breath mint or gum. Make sure you have it though. If you don’t, you will just look silly.
BE 👏🏻 YOURSELF 👏🏻! THIS IS LITERALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE! If your start to show your real side, they can be shocked or no prepared for your real personality. They also might be suspicious at the start and not really that interested. If you use your real self, it’s so less awkward!
Don’t be dry. Just don’t. Please don’t be dry. If y’all need help, I’ll give you a head start.
1. Instead of ‘😂/lol’ use: BAHAHHA’ or ‘LMFAOOO’ or you could even do ‘PLSS-‘
2. If you say ‘ok?…’ your toxic 🤡
3. Learn the emoji abc 🤠
4. Go download Pinterest right now girlie
5. Use “Bitch”, “Queen” Or “girlie”. Not Shit like “4LIFERR” or “PARTNER IN CRIMEE”
Don’t say swear words just to be ‘cool.’ You look toxic.
In tiktok, search ‘Tips for girls’ and it helps a bunch. Don’t do any of the tricks though, the could be fake.
Don’t be a pick me and say old memes(e.g. AND HES NAME IS JOHN SENA)! Don’t say A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G like “and I Ooop skskks”
Know who are the toxic people in the school. Please.
If your in primary school (At any grade), Bring lollies for you and your close friends. Don’t give them to anybody you don’t know because they are just using you. Don’t be rude unless they ask a lot. At first say “No, sorry. These are only for me and my friends. I haven’t given them to anybody else haha” and if they ask again say “I got these at [shop you bought them from]. You can get them at there! There’s also some at Walmart.”
*Should I do this for new students?*
Thank you! I'll see tomorrow if I can make any friends lmfaoo-
Thank you so much for these😩❤️
Tysm!
Bruhhhh
BUT HOW TO LEARN EMOJIS ??
I'm sorry I'm pretty late but I'm going into the 8th grade and this video inspired me alot! I've always been the quiet kid and I want to change a little and make 8th grade memorable
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Same and I'm going to a new school☹️☹️
@@taehyun1fan831 bro I used to be such and extrovert in my old school I’m new as well since I moved schools like 2 weeks ago and when I first came I was so awkward and shit and really now I’m starting to think that people think I act like that always. I just miss my old friends but i guess changes happen 😕
I am also like you ,l am also in grade 8th but still my close friends circle is not so wide and l have also always been a quite kid
It's the end of my junior year when I'm watching it so don't worry you're not too late😂
I love how she puts small scenes of high school musical the musical the series in the video
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Losers be like:
Just kidding if you let that get to you your not popular
Just kidding! 😂 have a good day
At my school almost every new kid already knows a popular kid and becomes popular or is related to popular people and become popular or no one know them and I become friends with them which takes down my popularity level like 30% each time it happens not to mention every best friend I’ve ever had at my school has moved away
THIS IS SO TRUE. At my school literally every new kid becomes popular and I've became friends with so many new kid friends who all left me for popularity and act like they are better than me. Great world we live in
Same
DUDE SAME
I’m friends with someone but they don’t talk to me anymore ever since the new girl came. I’ve never said anything because I don’t wanna seem crazy, the only time I get to really talk to her is in the phone or when the new girl isn’t at school. I wanted to be able to talk to the new girl but she thinks I’m weird. That’s amazing.😔✌️
I have another tip I found about how to be popular. This is mostly for people still in school but it can be applied for those outside of it too. Join clubs and sports! I joined sports to help me lose weight and to meet new people. I was new kid at my school and I wanted to make a couple friends. I joined just two sports and I made so many friends in so little time. Sports teams bond a lot since you’ll see your teammates almost everyday. I used to not even like sports but it’s great a way to stay in shape and meet new people. Also just like she said go to every single event. Go to prom and go to school games. If you want to be popular go to all the events. Also the most important tip be GENUINE! Trust me people can tell when you’re fake and you’ll just be seen as a mean popular girl/guy. Also socialize with everyone. Don’t just go for the popular kids. Like she said being smart and having good grades will make you more popular. Don’t brag about it though. Stay humble. However, high academics will make people take you seriously. Also strive to be life of conversations. Like that one friend that when they leave the conversation it’s just not the same. It will make people appreciate you. Also stay drama free. It’s okay to hear the drama but don’t get involved because it’ll make you seem untrustworthy. Oh just wanted to say that the gum hack works great too.
I’m a bit late but I’m not really good at anything tbh I am worried that it’s like a team and not really practise
im on a team but i only made one friend and the other dont really til to me T^T
i really needed this! i struggle with making friends and it’s my 3rd year and i still have no close friends . i’m trying to leave school with some good friends and memories but i don’t have any yet
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Aww I hope you make some I have a good range of friends BUT I am not popular
Same
me neither
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I can relate to this so much... I was the popular girl at first and then when I changed my school in 2nd grade I was literally getting bullied .... And pple thought that I was introverted and all that... And during quarantine when I had a major glow up pple literally started to like me even tho i didn't even talk to them often like... And I feel like it's all about the mindset that u have bout yourself.... And I can relate to this bcz I felt confident and it's more important to feel confidence and not to like only show it bcz of others to like u
same exact thing happened to me i was popular before 2nd grade
I am a freshman in high school and I came into high school only knowing 3 sophomores at my school because I was going to a different middle school than the people at my high school. I’m currently pretty unpopular and even my teachers forget to give me my work. I can’t even find groups for projects most of the time unless they are assigned to me. I’ve been watching a lot of videos lately trying to change the way I act and also trying to improve the state of my body by eating healthier trying to lose weight exercising more and taking better care of my skin and general hygiene.
Heyy! How did it work out for u?!
What happened?
@@swirlbunny I’m basically the same, although I’ve been getting closer to some new people and I’ve had a little bit of weight loss success. My teachers seem to enjoy me. Although I’m not as far as I’d like to be I’m getting closer.
Read this if you’re still in high school and you struggle with making friends/having people like you. I’m 22 now and my “friends” in school always called me annoying, were jealous or simply left me out. I just quickly want to remind you that most likely the people that are popular in high school will not be the ones that are popular in life! Most of the time it’s exactly the ones that were left out when they were younger simply because they are different. Always know your worth and in the end true friends will like you for who you are and you don’t need anyone else than those friends ♥️ But also I totally get that you want to have friends lol so try your best but keep in mind that even if you don’t have friends you’re an amazing human being and do you true friends will come ♥️
This advice seems pretty trustworthy… I’m going to a new school this year and I’ve always been really shy- I have 3 old friends that go to the school I’m transferring to but idk if they have new friends since it’s been a long time (2 years) I’m still in contact with one of them and hang out with her sometimes but I really hope this school isn’t filled with stuck up brats 😗
If you go into school with the attitude that the kids there will be stuck up brats you will not be popular or make many friends. It’s better to keep a positive mind set and have an open mind! I hope this helps
ME TOOO- similar thing for me 😭
Thank you so much for the advice … I’m moving to a new and pretty big school and have a hard time having friends and socializing with people, this video really helped me out! 💗
I'm so glad it helped 💖 I know how it feels because I had to change schools when I went to high school and I also this year just moved to study abroad for uni and it was HARD at first, I swear to god I'm gonna make another video because I feel like I picked up so many more tips lol I also made a video on using subliminal for making friends if you want to you can check it out 💖 here's the link ruclips.net/video/jEVU-IclyNI/видео.html
@@AngelGrey_ sorry for the late reply, but thank you sm!
Im so happy I found this ur actually giving good advice
aww thank uu btw I love ur profile pic Ariana is the best 🥰💖💖💖
I've been waiting for this one 💛
Can I just wanted to say that your editing is sooo good I'm proud of you gurl and I loved your vlogs
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Omg thank u so much i work really hard on editing it usually takes 10 hours to edit a video and this is one of the simple ones I didn’t do many overlays here
@@AngelGrey_ that's Ok don't worry about it everything is good because I enjoy your channel and you are amazing
@@edwardleecaliforniausa thank you so ,uchh 💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ awwww of course 💗💗💗 I'll stayed connected with you hope you do same
As an international student who speak Mandarin instead of English as the first language. It is REALLY HARD to make friends at school...... Those small talks are so awkward :( Any advise guys?
For small talks I would recommend starting off with talking about things you all have in common, the talk also doesn’t have to be long (eg how did you find the test? It’s so cold today!), you should also express interest in what their trying to say and encourage them to keep talking (like ask them to expand on their sometimes simple answer) good luck :D
Compliment their looks/clothes c:
When you're walking around school, say a friendly "Heyy!" or "hi!" to people in your year/grade. Acting approachable always makes people talk to you. When you're stuck with some people, for example you're waiting for a lesson to start, say something about the weather, or ask about the homework etc. My favourite conversation starter is "Have you done the homework?" and you can carry on that convo talking about if it was easy or hard, etc
The best way to make small talks less awkward is by not doing small talk
I love the music she puts in her videos 😍
thank you so much 💖
luckily, most people don't talk to me, so if i suddenly start using the nickname "love" for everyone, no one would question it cuz i already use it with my friends :>
1. Use the word LOVE , it releases oxytocin.
2. Touch ( handshakes, high fives, brush ur hand on their shoulder gently)
3. Share gum , classical conditioning.
4. Follow nd ask for their socials WHILE U ARE TALKKNG.
5. Be on the same team
~ show interest when they're talking
~ mention their name
~ mirror their body language
I am always alone- there was a new girl who used to be my classmate, and I realized the first day she already had so much.. so much friends.. i-
thank you so much for this!
I'm trying to fix my relationship with people in school because i am known as being friends with a histrionic person that always finds a way to create a big dramatic scene over some small issues and basically being toxic and stuff. i have managed to put some space between me and her but everyone had already labeled me as "the close friend of THAT girl" and it's annoying because people seems to underestimate me and thinks that i am just like her. if anybody has suggestions on how to solve this please reply i am in need of help :)
Schools almost ending and I wanna glow myself up during the summer and make the most of 8th grade and of middle school in general :)
Omg, same girl! Good luck :)
same bestie im tryna change my wardrobe and improving my social anxiety becuz in 6th grade it was BAD,also im practicing running for track hopefully it pays off!!
I pretty much don't talk much unless someone talks to me which is mostly to ask for gum or something. I will admit I am very shy and if anyone were to sit by me at lunch i would be more than happy :,)
You’re my hero! Thank you soooo much. My insecurities really got the best of me!!!
glad I could help
There are a hell lotta videos on the same topic...but those aren't that relatable that helpful for me personally...but i freakin relate to your videos sm nd it frekin helps me sm...i love your content , i love u...and yeah thanks for your advices! It really works, it does...love yaa
Aww thank u so so much💖 i know there are so many videos like this and they just say idk dress cool or something basic and im like i want to take something that actually works for my subscribers 💖ily
@@AngelGrey_ ly 2 💞
This is the most helpful video by far, and your soooo underrated 💕✨ Im about to watch part 2!
Aww thank you!!!
I’m ironically planning to wear yellow on the first day
Hahahha
Ive been bullied so many times, and i struggle with confidence since noone really likes me :( im going to highschool next year so yeah i hope this helps :)
i hope it does too I'm sorry about your experience 😕
TYSM you give out great vibes I love your energy ! This video is all I needed, and the psychology tips I love it !!
Thank u so much it means so much to me💕💕💕
I am moving to a new school and I am very shy girl and have less confidence , hope so I can get confidence and make new friends .
Tysm for this! I’m gonna use these hacks on Monday on this girl who i kind of already am friends with but hope to be closer to her and to make more friends. I’m a introvert to most people and I have anxiety and I get really shy around people or sometimes I become annoying but not intently. So I will try these ty! Btw I love the edits :)
Update- IT WORKED OMG! I tried it and its starting to work! The girl that I have been admiring for years we are actually friends now! Tysm for the tips! I also made other friends as well! The gum thing and complimenting and talking about them really works!
@@lolzstew1611 update?
I'm 22 and looking for a job.... still addicted to these videos 😭
Gee how's life after high school? I'm a freshman and I hate growing up already, it seems scary, they say you cam go to college, straight to the army, or start working. May I ask you, what do you regret not doing in freshman year?
@@user-so3yw8tr1x hey! :)
It's pretty good for me. I still need to explore and experience life. I went to college because it was my safest option to achieve a certain lifestyle i aim for. Still looking for a job tho.
I actually regret being a people pleaser. I was seeking acceptance from my peers who had completely different paths and interests from mine. I wish i lived my teenage years like i wanted. I regret not having enough fun and adventures.
I was great at school naturally, so i don't regret anything belongs to my academic life.
P.S. Don't worry about growing up, it's A LOT easier than it looks like. If only people put their mental health first!
Be self aware as much as possible, this is the key to both enjoying and surviving life.
Thanks for listening! :)
I've been waiting for this one too
Im so glad 💖💖🥰🥰
I love having social anxiet , 2 friends and being awkward af 🙂👍
aww I'm sorry that used to be me too but honestly if you want to change it you can, but if you feel pressured to have a lot of friends and be popular just bc of other ppl don't! there's literally nothing wrong with having 2 close friends, as the saying goes it's better to have 4 quarters than a thousand pennies 💖💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ okay but like if you have 1k pennies you can go to a bank and trade it in for 10 bucks but your stuck with a dollar if you have 4 quarters
My problem is that the fisrt week i take the initiative and make people confortable but after they put themselves together and idk who to hang out with
So happy to be this early!😄😄
Omg yayy💖💖
Obsessed with back to school videos ATM! ❤️
Your videos are always amazing!
Btw thanks for the book recomendations! 📚
If you like fary tale retailing stories i think you would like a series of books called the land of stories
Oo never heard of them but gonna check them out 🥰
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Can you make a video on how to talk to people. I mean some formula for this ?
and what can we talk about with people?
Despite Me Being A Boy, This Still Helps Me Alot, I Use The Oxytocin Method, I Offer People Gum Alot, I Save Seats For My Friends, I Say “Love” Alot, Like I Say “I Love Coffee” & “I Love Books 📖 ” I Also Use The Chameleon Effect On My Friends Alot Copying Their Walkspeed, & I Hype People Up.
And On Top Of That, I Try To Have Trending Clothes And Have A Nice Hairstyle (I Have A Tiktok Boy Hairstyle)
And I Try To Attend All School Events I Have (ex; School Dance, Football Game, Homecomings)
This Video Helps ALot, Thank You ☺️
just make sure u don't over use it lol
i got so excited when u said classical conditioning bc i didnt think anyone knew what that was ♥
Hahaha I study psychology sooo
Omg when you said love i had to smile so badly and i realized i might have just released oxytocin😂😂😂
Lol
Girl, I love you ❤️❤️
Thank you for this video 🥰
ur welcome 💖💖
LOVE HER VIBE 💗💗
Aww thank you so much 💖💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ yw💗💗❤️❤️
I’m going to be going to uni in a few years (I don’t have enough savings yet) and I’m just prepping lol. Building my way up ;)
the most help a video has gotten me. btw you just won yourself a life time suscriber
💖💖glad you liked it
I just found your channel and honestly i'm OBSESSED!!!
Omgg welcomeee 💖💖💖and thank u
All my fav songs, all my fav music vids, all my fav people in this vid. NEW SUB! Also thx for putting Olivia/nini in it
omg hii 💖 welcome to the fam and I'm obsessed w the music and ppl I put in this vid 💖I watched all seasons of high school musical the series, I even made videos about it lol
@@AngelGrey_ oo wow
" i love ur fit " " i love ur style " " i realllyyyy love (fav thing(s))" and " i really love u
I’m going to a new school today, I’m changing schools bc I got bullied a lot in my old school and I’d really like to be one of the cool/popular kids so wish me luck!
I have always been the shy kid but after therapy and pills to cure my anxiety and depression i am finally gonna try and be popular! Ty for this video love
ur welcome also I know what it's like I had the same thing 😕 social anxiety especially I even made a video about it you can check out that one too if you want ruclips.net/video/UcY-PHv3bOc/видео.html
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Really good advice, thank u :)
Glad u liked it💖💖💖
Great video really well set I love it keep up the work
Thank u so muchh💖
3:10 honestly youre right. could it be boring? sure but atleast ill be glad i did it
I have no friends and I think this might help thanks you so much
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The live was great💖
Thank u so much i loved talking to u💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ me too
Wow! Your advices really work!
hahaha really happy about that
Please make a vdo on crushes they are really helpful 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘💖
don't worry thats most likely the next weeks video 💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ thanks 😊
I am trying to make a gang in my school with group of atleast 5-6 members where boys and girls will be involved in it I hope your tips works for me😊
I’M SO HAPPY PPL ARE TALKING ABT OPPOSITE OF ALWAYS!! It’s SO 🙌GOOD👏
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Thanks for your help I am a poplar now
i love you angel grey
Ily tooo🥰🥰🥰
Lol i’m pretty popular at my school all ready lol!!!🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️ Thanks you for this video:))
happy for u and thank u for watching 💖💖💖
@@AngelGrey_ lucky
that was a really good video 💖💖
thank u 💖💖
Omg thank you I been feeling like everyone hates me :( and when you said when your the new kid I do make new friends I was lonely as well thx
I hope I can move to a new school(if my parents allow me) Because everyone there is mean just because I'm Indian,most of my friends only talk to me for assignments,Homework anything we have to solve for ourself,I'm very shy,I usally stay so quiet in class so I hope I can start a new fresh school and change and not be shy.
i hope you will be able too but also if you don't get to move you can always change things where you are rn💖
@@AngelGrey_ thank you!
the gum thing rlly works like if u have candy gum or snacks sharing them will definitely be a big help
Ok so here is my problem and i need your advice! I just moved 3 weeks ago and i just left my hometown of 11 years so I don’t know a single person here like i havent met anyone. So how can i make friends quick?
Thank's it helped me sooo much because kids at school make fun of because i don't talk too much i hope it will work on me thank's again
thank you so much for this !!
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Thank you for such amazing tips
aww thank you so muchh 💖💖
Omg the day after tomorrow is my first day of this school year and yk after COVID-19 we didn’t make a lot of friends when school started last year, so i was wondering about what should i do this year and i watched ur AMAZING VIDEO now i have the real confidence to do what you said and tell us , thank u so much love 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
aww this comment made me so happyy ur the best u got this 💖💖💖
WAIT YOU LOVE DOM OMG IVE MEET HIM SO MANY TIMES IM OBSESSED
ur videos are so inspiring, thank u so much! 💕
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I am good at making friends but they always have other bffs so like im always last and sit alone at lunch.
Damn that’s sad, they’re excluding you from the group :(
I wish I knew this when I was in school....15+ years ago
You see, what happened to me is that 2 weeks ago i got kicked out of my toxic friend group for being weird and they spread rumors about me now. I do have ppl to talk to but most ppl in my year don't like me and I mostly spend break and lunch alone
Any tips on how to get new long lasting friends?
You’re so positive I love it thxxxx❤️ helped a lot
Thank u so much so happy to hear that 💕💕💕
I've been looking everywhere and all the videos I found say you have to dress better! Thank you for giving real tips!
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I ADORE YOUR ROOM 💗💗💗💗🎀
Omg thank u🥰💖💖
OML U HAVE TSITP! THE SHOW IS THE BEST! RIGHT?! ITS THE BEST SHOW EVER!
Thanks so much your videos help me get popular and
also- did that weight loss subliminal work???👀👀
I'm moving to a new school that I've already went for a trial day on. This school is also an international school like the my now old school so I have mutual friends. I usually make friends easily but I haven't been the "new kid" for 3 years now ;-;
Love ya
Love ya too and ur amazing profile pic💖💖
great I'll use this for grade 6
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Good luck 🖤
I have a lot of “friends” at school but I feel like nobody wants to hang out with me outside of school what do I do?
Middle school is hard to get friends rn ngl 😅
u can do it
I swear, you’re a lifesaver ❤thanks!
VERY LATE:/ but thanks!!! I'm literally starting school in 5 MONTHS, but i'm getting excited over attending a new school so who cares. I'm going to attend the school where my dad works at next school year and will be starting the swedish equivalent of highschool, i've always been the quiet, unpopular kid, so i want to change it up before my school experience is over. I've always been intelligent, thoughful, kind, along with being fairly attractive but basically my autism, not having social media and my reserved personality play this lil' game each year called "dodge popularity". I have been excluded ever since daycare, along with being bullied for a fair chunk of my childhood, though i'd say all that trauma made me more confident in myself and mature, but i still kind of want to avoid that at all costs. At the bare minimum, i want to be quiet but be able to be atleast liked, though i hope any autism accomodations i might get at the next school won't make others exclude me. Again, thank you!!!!!! You're tips are pretty useful.
For me the gum one doesn’t really work. There’s a popular girl at school who asks me for gum sometimes and when I have gum, I give her a piece, but then she just never really talks to me unless she wants something.
so cool
I start school tomorrow at a new school and I want to make a good first impression- plus i think being popular would be nice lmao
update ❤?
@@getreadywitheveandhailey I actually forgot about this lmao- but my last day was today and I have so many friends!
woo very helpful, I have so many friends now it worked
Yes I’m going to try and take a change this year it’s my senior year
Thank you so much I'm friends with like everyone in my class believe me this works