the REAL reason I stopped making music (the truth about the industry) STORYTIME

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  • @simplynessa15
    @simplynessa15  Год назад +29

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  • @TM-je5es
    @TM-je5es Год назад +136

    The fact that you spent your own money just to make music and these sick freaks still pushed up on you and invaded your personal space……the nerve. The audacity. The disrespect. The industry is so gross.

    • @Acebooya
      @Acebooya Год назад

      It's her fault for letting it slide she never put her foot down fucking annoying your supposed to tell people how your feeling nouone knows how your feeling in your head

    • @Acebooya
      @Acebooya Год назад

      Like she said as an adult if you don't like something tell them and it still looks like she can't put her foot down even after kids so easy

  • @tnyamusic4769
    @tnyamusic4769 Год назад +85

    I love your song obsessed and meditate. You should seriously just get your own little set up at home with a microphone,mixer and computer with editing equipment on it and record your own music at home. Don’t let those demons stop your gift.

  • @Lena-ds2oh
    @Lena-ds2oh Год назад +94

    Girl if you ever get back into
    Music, trust id support because I still play ur music. It’s sad that the world we live in, it’s sad that u don’t feel okay to even share your beautiful God given gift. It’s so sad, definitely have to protect your heart from all this. Definitely doing it on your own is a good alternative for sure!!! It’s on your own time and you can even have raw vocals and send them to ppl to have edited.

  • @maddiejane3751
    @maddiejane3751 Год назад +36

    NOT THE SHAKE IT UP GUY LMFAOOO

  • @abieatsyou
    @abieatsyou 3 месяца назад +2

    i have the hugest dream to create music for myself and others to feel and relate to on deeper levels than just entertainment and jamming, but damn i just started watching your videos and hearing all these terrible stories about all these terrible people in the places that i would love to be in the most breaks my heart. i’m 17 years old and i’ve been sheltered most of my life, so i always pictured LA and studios and everything about the entertainment industry as exciting and soul freeing but seeing your reality opens my eyes and makes me grow up a little bit and realize i don’t wanna be put in those conditions. i’m not saying that my dream is completely crushed, but it sure has gotten a bit of reality to it. thank you for spreading awareness and you are so brave with all of your stories and the danger that you could possibly be in for talking about this stuff. you are a girls soldier 🤍 much love

  • @ivyneblanca
    @ivyneblanca Год назад +50

    i was so obsessed with your music, so i was waiting for this story for so long, so thanks for sharing nessa! I got into producing not too long ago and i totally think you should look into it!

  • @alegnaroviya8856
    @alegnaroviya8856 Год назад +74

    I remember being like 14 and being so excited to make lyric videos for your songs, but then you just stopped ;(
    I've always wondered why

  • @nichellem5400
    @nichellem5400 Год назад +33

    I LITERALLY was just thinking about your music. To this day I still listen to Meditate on repeat. You’re amazing and will go far no matter which avenue you take. ❤ Sending love from NY. 🥰🙌🏽

  • @TynearadaVinci
    @TynearadaVinci Год назад +15

    I understand sis this is why I started recording myself. Sexual harassment in the workplace is a thing but nothing to protect ARTISTS!! You are brave for speaking on it boo!!!

  • @CuppaV2
    @CuppaV2 Год назад +120

    Unfortunately the entertainment industry remains rotten to it's core. Hope you find the right person to produce for you because you're amazing and we love to support you

  • @Its_tiy
    @Its_tiy Год назад +4

    Girl the sound of rain in the background is soothing me so much on top of the storytime like everything I needed rn lol 🤍

  • @truthfullytiggy5860
    @truthfullytiggy5860 Год назад +30

    I used to play the saxophone in middle school, and I literally self-taught myself how to play Meditate….so yeah I definitely was one of the people wondering where the music was 💀, but I also think prioritizing your peace is more important and I can’t fault you for doing that after hearing the full story!
    I definitely think if music is still something you’d want to pursue, that maybe you should learn more about how to produce everything on your own so you don’t need to answer to anybody who’s acting weird.

  • @matthaughton
    @matthaughton Год назад +14

    the og jhene intro music brings me back to those DAYSSSSSS omg

  • @sar7202
    @sar7202 Год назад +9

    NESSA!!!!!!! thank youuuuu i literally listen to meditate every day not bull shit girllll. it’s in my favorites playlist😭 much love baby🫶🏻

  • @JaniceIcheYT
    @JaniceIcheYT Год назад +11

    Girl, me too. Started producing my own music, I almost lost my life cause of all the abuse in the industry. Making my own music is the only way I've been able to keep being in the industry,

    • @nicestar2198
      @nicestar2198 9 месяцев назад +1

      tell me what happened

    • @JaniceIcheYT
      @JaniceIcheYT 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@nicestar2198 sexual abuse babe - rape and a whole lot of enablers trying to be quiet about everything

  • @hislonelystar
    @hislonelystar Год назад +6

    i still listen to Meditate till this day. it never gets old.

  • @Lookinassmalcolm
    @Lookinassmalcolm Год назад +5

    Omg to this day I listen to “ meditate” every single day, it’s in all my most played playlist. It helped me get through a really dark time and I was in such a toxic relationship and situation but I would listen to this song while I’m smoking and it just gave me peace that I was coping in a normal way. Hands down one of my favorites. That “ smoke this blunt to help me breathe , liquor got me feeling ways, whatever puts my heart at ease “ . I guess I discovered that song at the right time but I’ve always wanted to tell you the impact that the song still has on me today. I always wandered why you didn’t go full force so I appreciate this video of you just being real . I’ve also put almost everybody in close to on the song lol ❤

  • @mrs.graham
    @mrs.graham Год назад +8

    One of my podcasts mentioned you the other day and all your Hollywood stories I was like okay den they even said “messy nessy” haven’t heard that in years 😂

  • @crims0nchin
    @crims0nchin Год назад +12

    THANK YOU FOR ALL THE UPLOADS I REALLY APPRECIATE THE CONTENT LOVE U SO MUCH LOVE THE STORY TIMES BESTIEEE

  • @shadem376
    @shadem376 Год назад +7

    The old theme song making a come back🥺❤️"cause everything is okay right here"

  • @MissJhane
    @MissJhane Год назад +10

    You are one of the few who speak up about it. Women should feel SAFE when going to a studio. Happened to me too, makes you don't want to be in a studio at all, I WISH there were more exposure back then of what can happen when going to a studio or pursuing the entertainment industry. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @gemmaneri2834
    @gemmaneri2834 Год назад +29

    Produce your own stuff, you have talent, and I love you and your music

  • @avi-rai7873
    @avi-rai7873 Год назад +16

    hate how men with a little bit of power or status ruin shit 😔 we can’t have anything 😡

  • @sikejae
    @sikejae Год назад +8

    You had so much potential and I always thought that!

    • @sikejae
      @sikejae Год назад +1

      I still randomly sing the chorus to obsessed all the time, it’s one of my favs 😂🥲

  • @amysocool7
    @amysocool7 Год назад +4

    im so sorry this happened to you literally when i was younger i tried posting myself online and i remember this dude that owned a studio said he wanted me to work with him, but it scared me and plus i was extremely green as grass and grew up sheltered like i didn't know how to flirt at all and i just got the most weirdest vibes from him and then i said i want to bring my older brother and i got completely ghosted....and i had so many other weird incidences trying to become a model and singer just like Whitney Houston

  • @kileylandis6204
    @kileylandis6204 Год назад +11

    i totally think your music could blow UP. i don’t think you should stop trying to find a reliable producer to help you with your music. you have an amazing voice and you have HELLA potential. ❤

  • @CapitalCH
    @CapitalCH Год назад +7

    Social Suicide is still one of my most played songs ever. the creepy producer story reminds me of that old married producer guy that was making out with Lia Marie Johnson in the studio when she was strung out.

  • @muaabukar5827
    @muaabukar5827 Год назад +20

    sis be independent we wills support you are so talented, FL studio is a great engine to use if producing yourself!

  • @ThePuca
    @ThePuca Год назад +8

    ey mama, I have my own studio set up at home. Get yourself a condenser mic, a pop filter, an XLR cable, mic stand, an audio interface, external hard drive, and a computer. You can simply start with garage band and work your way up to any audio engineering program. Doesn't matter what program you use, just learn how to master your tracks because that's where it counts. Don't over edit your vocals, try to limit your effects from little to none and it will sound great. You can create a booth by wrapping a sheet around your mic in a square from the celling, (big enough to stand in), to cancel out the noise around you. OR record inside your closet, which most people do to get the cleanest sound. Then, all you have to do is purchase beats from producers online.

  • @ElizaBrownSugar
    @ElizaBrownSugar Год назад +6

    Everything that you have been saying about the industry, I know to be true So I completely understand the need to pull back from it all. However, I hope you find your way back to the music. Not the industry, but just the music, as an Independent artist. Because your voice is Amazing and should be shared with the world. I personally really liked the vocals at the 17:40 mark. Theres a classic vibe type of element to it. Don't give up on the dream...just make your own path to reach it. Your terms, Your own way. Dont' give up on your dream. Just do it your way.✨

  • @rinlashea1414
    @rinlashea1414 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m glad you were able to get out of that situation that’s so scary!!!

  • @LeonardAlexander
    @LeonardAlexander Год назад +1

    omg the intro 🥹 it brings me back to 2015 cuz i’m an og. nessa i’m so sorry about ur awful experiences in the industry :( if you ever come back do it on your terms and in a safe comfortable way! i can’t believe it’s been over 5 years since meditate. i had the music video in my rotation for months you ate that up

  • @greeenishblue
    @greeenishblue Год назад +2

    You laugh at ‘my boy’ but girl you ate it up, i remember rewatching too and making me want to practice 😂

  • @xorayne_
    @xorayne_ Год назад +3

    meditate is still my song! i play it all the time

  • @Justcallmetamari
    @Justcallmetamari Год назад +2

    The intro 🥺 brings me so much joy

  • @nevayagrace6334
    @nevayagrace6334 Год назад +1

    ALSO GIRL UR HAIR LOOKS BOMB!! YOU SHOULD DO ANOTHER HAIR JOURNEY VIDEO ! :)

  • @Meg_andmogg
    @Meg_andmogg Год назад +1

    I still loveee your music and honestly you helped me get through a break up after 7 years ❤❤

  • @jewelzofthasea
    @jewelzofthasea Год назад +1

    I literally have your song Bet! Running through my playlist all the time! I love your music Nessa! 💕💕💕

  • @BlazedandCornfuzed
    @BlazedandCornfuzed Год назад +1

    WAS JUST About to blast you and ask why u stopped in the music industry!!! I always LOVED UR MUSIC!!! Still do and blast that shit girl ❤

  • @harryg6967
    @harryg6967 10 месяцев назад

    social suicide was my shittt, it was in my spotify wrapped for two years straight, still one of my fav songs. i forced my friends to love it

  • @nyasimoneee
    @nyasimoneee Год назад +2

    girlll i never stopped listening to meditate that is my jammm

  • @ambradanielle
    @ambradanielle Год назад +4

    Girl Meditate was my song, listened to it FAITHFULLY!❤

  • @smbavuitton
    @smbavuitton Год назад +12

    I miss your music so much honestly!!! I listen to your music and still till this day all your songs are on my top 25 most played. I understand why you stopped but I hope one day you’ll get back into it 🖤

  • @BlazedBaddie
    @BlazedBaddie Год назад +2

    Before you even said the sponsor mt first thought was oh my god her hair looks so amazing and healthy!! That shit is WERKING

  • @ryanadams7485
    @ryanadams7485 Год назад

    I still listen to your music DAILY. Love you down!

  • @Natasha_-_
    @Natasha_-_ Год назад +1

    0:01 I've truly wondered because I fw your music "bet" and "meditate" I have them on my playlist and listen to them from time to time still ❤❤❤

  • @liiihdz7245
    @liiihdz7245 Год назад +3

    Girl if you don’t get back into making music !!!!!! Your voice is amazing

  • @BlazedandCornfuzed
    @BlazedandCornfuzed Год назад +5

    U have the following to write and make music YOURSELF! Independent labels and music is the new wave. U have the resources and followers and I would love if you made more music. ❤

  • @kayleemichelle9775
    @kayleemichelle9775 Год назад +2

    I still listen to meditate, such a fire song!! I hope you’re able to make music again one day, you have so many people here to support you 🩷

  • @nicemmmm
    @nicemmmm 10 месяцев назад

    You have such an angelic voice❤️🎶 i hope one day you find the right person to help u make some more music, love u queen

  • @izzy25xo
    @izzy25xo Год назад

    the intro song is so nostalgic i love the remix added to it💗

  • @sebastianmartinez5500
    @sebastianmartinez5500 Год назад

    Nessa, whatever u do don’t stop. Don’t EVER stop bein yourself ilyyyy❤

  • @Priscillababyie
    @Priscillababyie Год назад

    Bc of thisss I gottt my mdhair products !!! Excited to fr tryyy I even started hair skin and nails 😩😩

  • @aniyah.m
    @aniyah.m Год назад +131

    I’m sitting here trying to figure out who bossed up with the r&b singer 😂

  • @nicoleoyejola5091
    @nicoleoyejola5091 Год назад +1

    I love her music literally stream her music all the time

  • @happynae6400
    @happynae6400 Год назад +1

    Honestly I would love for you to do music again!

  • @erinmctague7188
    @erinmctague7188 Год назад

    I still listen to your songs and I still enjoy them so much. Do whatever you feel is right for you no matter what we will support you.

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld Год назад +5

    ayo why was ROSHON FEGAN there asdkjjlakcsj my childhood crush girl 😭

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins Год назад +2

    Girl a lot of those people are weird and want people to do weird things for some change. I pray you can get back into it and find some people who are trustworthy your voice is so beautiful. But wait the makeup is gorgggg 😍

  • @pcsout
    @pcsout Год назад

    Meditate and Obsessed are BANGERS

  • @sarahdanielle12
    @sarahdanielle12 Год назад +1

    i hope one day you could possibly try to get back into it! 💗💗 you deserve to live out your dream no matter what 🫶🏽🥰

  • @_spl
    @_spl Год назад +4

    YOU HAVE SUCH A NICE VOICE ❤❤❤❤❤ I think u should get into it but this time, make it ur own brand I’ll support u ☹️🫶🏽

  • @316zaul
    @316zaul Год назад +8

    Yay another Hollywood story 👀👀

  • @NaomIXoXo
    @NaomIXoXo Год назад +8

    girl at this point just make your own studio! doja does it, i think she's self taught. don't have to rush it since you have the babies, but its something to think about.

  • @karina2litt841
    @karina2litt841 Год назад

    GIVING ME NOSTALGIA EITH THE INTROO😭😭🩷🩷🩷

  • @abulexa5548
    @abulexa5548 Год назад +2

    Actually love your music and I think you have true talent, not just with singing, but also with song writing. Your lyrics are nice. You should keep going even if it’s just a hobby.

  • @lolok6338
    @lolok6338 Год назад

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!!

  • @brookemercedes4206
    @brookemercedes4206 Год назад +2

    Girl let me tell you how my local dispensary was playing one of your songs the other day!! As soon as I heard it I started recording

  • @rasheemwyattreid3351
    @rasheemwyattreid3351 Год назад +6

    Meditate and Social Suicide is still in my 2023 Playlist.

  • @kailamaree4402
    @kailamaree4402 Год назад

    im always finding your videos right after i roll up😂 thank you for all the vids lately💛

  • @cherrychromed
    @cherrychromed Год назад +2

    i still listen to your music and love it

  • @linaxxbina
    @linaxxbina 11 месяцев назад +1

    You should keep making music! Ik it’s gets hard cuz weird stuff happens but, ur really good! Hope you come back to it. So many people record themselves. I do and my songs always come out better anyway that way. I have usually not gotten the results I wanted when someone else records me. Plus it’s FREE every time to do it yourself.

  • @Celiiimar
    @Celiiimar Год назад +2

    Girl, I still listen to Meditate. Would be nice if you come back to music you have a beautiful voice. I been watching you for years!

  • @katt3001
    @katt3001 Год назад

    I was literally just listening to Meditate by you. I love your music!!

  • @ashlynnhubbard4457
    @ashlynnhubbard4457 Год назад +1

    OMG YES LOVE THE INTRO. also love meditate :) sad girl songs for the win

  • @potato32salad
    @potato32salad Год назад

    I still listen to Meditate that shits so good

  • @TianiMcLoyd
    @TianiMcLoyd Год назад +2

    My boyfriend records his own music and lets other artists come over to his house to record as well and he has a really professional setup. You have to look up videos and stuff on youtube thats how he learned but yeah. U save way more money recording your own stuff and it can still sound super professional. As long as you dont have background noise (which may be tough with the kids) all youd have to pay for aside from the mic and the programs and stuff would be someone to mix and master it. And thats def cheaper than studio time. You can def get back into it if you really want to, just would take some adjusting and in house work.

  • @diamond3170
    @diamond3170 Год назад +1

    LMAOOO the other long distance relationship was a TIME

  • @johnsonebenezera
    @johnsonebenezera Год назад +4

    I love your voice nessa 😊❤

  • @kamnole5051
    @kamnole5051 Год назад +1

    I still listen to meditate and I have saved to my Spotify 😩 I was recently wondering why

  • @cathyy8512
    @cathyy8512 Год назад

    I still listen to your music to this day 💖

  • @ashlynnhubbard4457
    @ashlynnhubbard4457 Год назад +1

    LMAO 17:01 is that hostage ???? i have the same video of a black screen and me singing it in my car lmaooo

  • @Saaywil
    @Saaywil Год назад +2

    Roshon Fegan from shake it up😭😭😭

  • @92murdah
    @92murdah Год назад +2

    Of you look amazing girly 💕 it’s been a while since I’ve been on RUclips too much thing I’ve been having to get done and I’m finally here clicking and watching all your videos again lol 🫶🏼 can’t believe I’ve been keeping up with your blogs since almost 2013ish 🙌🏽💕💗🤍

  • @raincoathaveli
    @raincoathaveli Год назад +1

    Obviously always do what is best for you, your family and your mental health but I hope one day you get back into music because you are a great singer and the songs you released were fire.

  • @apricatts
    @apricatts Год назад

    i reallt hope you make music again one day but do it when your comfortable enough. ive been watching you since 2016 and ive seen you go through so much stuff and get knocked down but one thing i know for sure is you always get back up!

  • @sirreenuh
    @sirreenuh Год назад

    Missed your music meditate and bet be my daily❤

  • @jazminenorfleet3393
    @jazminenorfleet3393 Год назад

    I’m a little obsessed with your voice. come back pls.

  • @stefnotfound
    @stefnotfound Год назад +4

    If you DO decide to produce music again in the studio, I hope it’s with a female producer😭😭 it really sucks that some men cant keep their their disgusting comments and HANDS to themselves🙄

  • @masonstuckey1869
    @masonstuckey1869 Год назад

    Obsessed was too 20 most streamed of 2019 SO GOOD

  • @juliaolszewska2360
    @juliaolszewska2360 Год назад

    I literally love ur song meditate 😫💕

  • @oriananichelle
    @oriananichelle Год назад

    Girl I still have Mediate on my phone. Got me THRU

  • @nicanickol6601
    @nicanickol6601 Год назад

    damn nessa skin is clear and glowing drop the routineeee

  • @inezgalore
    @inezgalore Год назад +5

    I have been WAITING for this answer girly. and tell me why I was listening to Bet! the other day ❤️❤️

    • @simplynessa15
      @simplynessa15  Год назад +3

      Thank you for still supporting my music ❤

  • @MissAri23
    @MissAri23 Год назад +2

    Eating my City BBQ and watching lol ! Perfect timing

  • @danixlle
    @danixlle Год назад +1

    Roshon Fegan doing a $100 breathing lesson is hilarious

  • @ali_sparks
    @ali_sparks Год назад

    I’m sorry you had that experience smh

  • @foreverlis
    @foreverlis Год назад

    omdss no way nessa 🥹 this is so irrelevant to the topic of the video but u put ur og intro song back 🥰 the way i’ve been waiting for u to do this again 🤣 brings me back to ur old yt days💗
    i remember, with this intro u had - (back then ), it included the lyric where it said “cos everything is okay right here” and u mentioned back then that u included that part because u wanted ppl to know that when they’re on ur channel it’s a safe place and everything is okay right here. I still think abt that everytime i watch ur videos💗

  • @Archivedvampire
    @Archivedvampire Год назад

    I still love meditate but you already know that 🥰