THIS is What Put My Wife Through Hell
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
- There are 8 main types of childhood traumas. I have 7.
Marriage with trauma is anything but easy. But it can also be beautiful.
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My husband was abused physically and had cancer as a child, when i met him he stuttered so bad he could barely state his name. Today he speaks clearly, is cancer free, and a great father to both our children. The victory belongs to Jesus!!❤❤❤HES ALL I NEED!!!👍🏽🙋🏾♀💯✌🏾🙏🙏
What a mighty God we serve!
Amen 🙏
Thank you JESUS 🛐
May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉@@1footballfanandmom428
Awww amen! That’s so beautiful 💙🌷
Glory!!!!! This inspires me so much! ✝️💪🏽✌🏽
Amen to that! ❤ 🙏
“Everyone is flawed but the real question is whose flaws are you willing to commit to dealing with for the rest of your life.”- Deep Marriage Advice.
When you're truly born again of the holy spirit there is no way you will be comfortable in sin expecting someone to put up with your sin for the rest of their lives. At some point you will have to turn from sin and chase a life that pleases God.
@@MarthaMokwana-gw5qo Well, that comment is for us that know that we have some areas of growth but for you that’s all grown, perfect and fully sufficient in all ways. The above comment is not for you!
Having spent 3 years in a very toxic relationship, I believe if the person you are with first admits they have an issue, then are willing to work through it, then it’s worth the work….although there will be trying times. If they are not willing, then you decide how much you can take, and for how long.
Not cheating
I can relate and totally get you Lacrae. I've heard all kinds of things but this right here is grace!
I’m thinking of the women who stuck by their man like his wife stuck by him only to never get the acknowledgment that he gave his wife. A lot of women have to walk away broken, hurt, wasted time, low appreciation for trying to show their man they will stick it through, work with them etc
I so appreciate him making this video. ❤
Blessings to his bloodline, his family
You just spoke to my heart. I’m hurt but I have the love of the almighty, I will get thru.
Nope these women don't get acknowledgment they're shame. So many messages today shame those women and that's unfortunate
Amen ❤❤❤
The thing is we walk in obedience to God, and fight for our husbands. If after all of that, he chooses to leave, then I look at God and smile because I know that He is pleased with me. Your time and prayers for your husband are never wasted with God no matter the outcome. We hold our heads high and continue to walk in peace and love because our Heavenly Father is happy with us and that's all that matters.
@@Kaylee.Bear06 well said
As a therapist, it was refreshing to hear about generational brokenness. Thanks for your transparency Lecrae❤
hello from a fellow therapist (in training) :)
I was in a college ministry with Lecrae and his wife. I know them before they started dating; His wife is such a sweet person. This testimony is so touching. Thanks for sharing.
The “putting my wife through hell” trope is so wildly accepted amongst men.
I pray to God I don’t marry a man like him
wheeewww
Ab 👏🏽 so 👏🏽 lutely 👏🏽
I'm going through this right now, I've dealt with 7/8 of those childhood traumas and didnt realize how much it jacked my life up until i started therapy. I've put my wife and family through so much, please pray for me. God bless
Better late than never, good luck on your new journey. It’ll be worth it when you look back and see all the areas where you have healed.
@@samotrill5879 thanks I appreciate that
What type of therapy did you go through? I’m currently seeing a therapist but she doesn’t really help me uncover or dig into things. She just wants me to not look back and move forward but my past really has so much to do with who I currently operate as.
@@treasurekanoa I went to multiple pastors and ministers. I take a little from each of them. I found a Christian therapist too, but what's been helping the most is fasting and praying, I've been spending a lot of time with God, that's been the most effective.
PLEASE FIND A NEW THERAPISTS!❤❤❤
Mannnnnnn whyyyyyyyy is this conversation NOT a MORE frequent one?!?!?!?! I greatly appreciate the TRANSPARENCY and the willingness to slow walk verbally through these heavy topics that a lot of MEN bottle up especially within the Christian faith!! Thank you bro for the realness and the purest of heart 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Man Lecrae, I really could just write a whole letter to you on my appreciation of your vulnerability and authenticity. It’s what this generation needs. It’s truth. It’s real. It’s inspiring. I’m a processor and a deep think like yourself, and you truly inspire me. In this podcast you have, in your music you have (especially Restoration). God has blessed you with the gift to be able to articulate. Through your music, through your speech on this Pod, keep allowing Jesus to use you as a light. Can’t tell you how much love and appreciation I got for you G. I’m 24 and you’ve blessed my life tremendously with perspective and wisdom. Just needed to give my flowers. Thank you Lecrae.
Thanks for sharing. 🙏🏾
Uhh… that part ☝🏽lol
Thank you for sharing you are saving lives and marriages
Couldn’t have said it any better
Omg for real! You’re amazing Lecrae!!
When someone can spend 45mins listening to a man talk about his traumas, it says a lot about all of us and the need to hear other people going through real issues.
Kudos lecrae
Thank you Lacrae
Just comming out of SIN, I have been taking COMMunion (wine) for a couple of years. I REPENT😢
Interesting challenge. I like it.
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I have always had trouble following trends as we youngsters like to do. Now I realise I'm very moved by the words I absorb, to the point it becomes a part of how I live. I realise that nothing I do for entertainment is just entertainment. It always makes a mark in my life. I'm glad to have come across Lecrae when I did. This is the content I've been looking for. I can bob my head to his music but they leave a positive mark when I'm not conscience.
Thanks for going off the deep end Lecrae🙏🏽
Whew! Brother you are ministering….”Love is not a feeling, it’s a sacrifice, it’s a state of being, it’s a choice, feelings come and go”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“Yes it’s not on the beach. We aren’t holding hands on the beach but we are holding hands on Aisle 5. And it’s great!” 😂 This podcast has been filled with wisdom and experience. Thank you for sharing your story!!
😂 funny but true!
Facts Lecrae. Real facts. Thanks for the word.@@LecraeOfficial
When I got out of prison in 2010 it was your music that helped me keep focus on Christ. Today I'm a pastor praise Jesus, I have a great family. God has just done so much good through your music thank you brother for being a mouth piece. Love you brother
Wonderful
“You’re always going to be in a dysfunctional relationship if you don’t deal with your trauma.”
Powerful!
“Go to therapy before you get married” I agree with this as a person who is currently in therapy, and would like to be married one day. I think therapy provides you with the tools to maintain health relationships and boundaries. Often times we think nothing is wrong with us until we get in a relationship or marriage we learn more about ourselves through the other person. It’s so important to try and work through what you can to maintain your marriage, but it’s also important to know when something no longer serves you.
Lecrae, keep releasing what the Lord has built inside of you. So many people need to hear it. So much love to you.
My husband has been physically and verbally abusive for years. Please pray! He is in jail now and has been for 3 months. Pray for him to truly find Jesus!
Abuse doesn’t count…
If your husband beats you up you need to do yourself a favor & leave…
I pray you don't return to him GET OUT FOR GOOD YOU DESERVE BETTER
I pray he stays in jail and you GET OUT!!!!! Only a demon would put his hands on you. A sensible man would never do that.
He’s out now and in rehab but I don’t think it’s working. Keep praying!
Awesome Testimony 🌹🌹 Now let's go home & heal our houses saints
I was always there for my husband, prayed, stood by his side with music and ministry. Tried to help him with past traumas but he didn’t want to change. He abandoned me and our three kids, had another lady paying his bills. I sent this to him and his response was thank you and how his girlfriend was his rock and supports him in his ministry. We have been married 10 years going on 11. Stuck through verbal and emotional abuse and I prayed he would get the help he needed for us and be the man of god I always seen in him. Now he is for his mistress. I love hearing how marriages get restored and how God completely heals spouses to become better. I just wished our was like this.
May God remember you
I hope you find freedom from seeing yourself through his limited, fragmented, broken view. You are worthy of getting FREE from his foolishness, even without his acknowledgment or apology.
Im sorry to hear this 😒...but just know that he's showing u that he is a BUM...I don't know why he even thinks he can do ministry because God doesnt even see him..."A man that does not provide for his own especially those of his house his worse than a non-believer an infidel"...he has no business in a pulpit at all God does not honor it and he's doing it for no purpose God doesn't even respect it at all! U just keep doing the right thing, he better repent and change his ways nothing good gonna come out of it in the end...that's a fool...sorry to say that about your husband but it's the truth he's a bum!
Unfortunately, some of us can be and have been the footstool that gets someone healed. We can be there just for a moment and then when it’s over, the light comes on for that person to be a better person. The damage is done and too far often, it’s disappointing when the healed person has moved on with someone else all the while, broke you. It hurts. It cuts deep. Pray for your own healing now.
God bless you and I pray for your healing and peace.
Praying for your healing, peace, and strength ❤ I pray that the Lord shines his light on you and your babies❤
Thank you Lecrae! When there is not healing in a relationship there is death/divorce. As a man it took me a while to grow with emotional intelligence.
The brutal honesty from you hit me like a ton of bricks. As a new husband, I needed this more than anything you know.
And will continue to be reminded throughout your marriage. I will be married 11 years next month and man… there was some refinements that God had to do in me that my wife put up with for me to be where I am now. Awesome stuff that you’ve noticed things in your life now. God bless you and I will be praying that God continues on in you and that you received that growth
Keep fighting. 💪🏾
@@MrSeans2 God bless you
To be honest. This is why more & more women don’t want to get married. Men address your traumas before marriage. Women shouldn’t have to go through unnecessary hell. It’s not a compliment to us when you say you put us through hell but we stayed. The compliment is you showed up the best healed & single version of yourself & your wife stood by your side when life got rough.
True but our society has forever discouraged men to address much less deal with and acknowledge that they have an issue. I am happy that we are finally being open about struggles and issues
Sometimes people, both men and women, don’t know they even experienced trauma. Even with the recent acceptance of getting therapy, some people are still un aware of what resources are out there. Also, rough times come to all marriages. The Bible says everything had to be tried by the fire. Some things don’t appear until years later that will test both people in a marriage. A person can try to prepare, which is good to do so. There is just things that you can’t even foresee, that will come up and cause you to question yourself and your marriage. I think that it is important that both have a relationship with Jesus, because complete sanctification won’t take place until we have been glorified with Christ. It’s a process.
Thank you for speaking on this. My heart is broken for lecres wife. Like, God didn’t want better for her? God is cool with us constantly going through this kind of thing?
@@SoFocusedonTheMarkWell said, trauma does not discriminate against gender, and it is difficult to detect until something within the marriage or life brings it out, I know this firsthand, but God is good and he made a way where it seemed there was no way.
Wisdom. If you haven’t sought healing…seek it now. You can’t change where you’ve been but you can change where you’re going!
My prodigal has put me through Hell as well. I can relate to your wife. He walked away from ministry, our marriage, kids and life. Living for the world chasing the wrong things. What hurts is he knows and admitted this is not what God wants for him but the choice he is making. I won’t give up. Gods promises are Yes and Amen
My goodness I am going through this same situation with my husband. He had a traumatic childhood and he is really struggling with addictions and acting out. I pray for him all the time, it’s extremely exhausting right now and I’ve entertain the thought of getting out of this marriage numerous of times.
I asked GOD to help me with this situation I don’t know what to do. I tried asking my husband to go to therapy and we can do marriage counseling he just says for what. I’m leaving it in GOD’s hands.
DIVORCE
Praying for you
@@Jaycarbrownie12 pray for them don't advise divorce let her hear the Holy Spirt in prayer
People with addictions can easily be controlled by demons. Hence, the "acting out". Leave until he gets over the addictions. You must take care of your own mental health and overall well being. Were there red flags prior to marriage?
You had me from "I function in my dysfunction" because I always say I am dysfuntionally functional. More and more, I have accepted that my traumas have made it difficult for me to show that I care. It took a lot of talking to God to understand that. Thanks again. I needed this reminder.
This doesn't mean that someone should stay in an abusive, verbally abusive, mentally abusive, don't want to work, stealing from you, and disrespectful relationship. Learn the difference from a disagreement and disrespectful relationships. Some folks you are pouring into are like a cup with a hole in the bottom. Know matter how much you pour into the cup, it will never become full. The pain of staying in those relationships can wear you out over time, and if you are not completely focused on GOD, pain will cause you to do some sinful things. Use discernment in your relationships. Sometimes, holding on will destroy you and your relationship with GOD.
Wow! This is profound!
So true
My opinion of Lacrae just drastically changed after listening to this. I hear a lot of wisdom and discernment that came from a lot of pain and suffering... lessons of hard knocks. Wisdom that came from following in the steps of Solomon (chasing after vanity). I can't relate to the childhood traumas, but my wife can. My fears, weakness and insecurities caused me not to be there for her because I put up walls to protect myself which left her isolated and alone to some degree. Trials and pain reveal our strengths or lack thereof. There's a lot said that is convicting for me because i like control, and I don't like pain, so if I can control the environment, then I can control the risk of pain... to some degree. I would force change in others if I could... absolutely... but I have to learn to live in and dwell in grace rather than "rules". I find security in "rules" and tend to be like the older brother of the prodigal... thinking of myself. Rules are good, but when they are applied selfishly, then you have legalism and oppression. It's sin of elevating my opinion above God's which is idolatry of self.... my biggest struggle.
Before watching this, I didn't think Lacrae could teach me anything, but I was wrong. Thank you, Lacrae. I needed to hear that.
It's refreshing to hear a man be transparent and demonstrate healing and emotional intelligence.
This is absolutely the most important body of work you have ever put out into the world. More impactful than any song you could ever create. Thank you.
Thank you Lecrae for sharing your marriage and life experiences! May God continue to bless you and your family!
You are so welcome
I commend women like that, but I am not just built that way.
This was excellent! I would love to hear your wife speak on being a graceful wife.
Great suggestion!
I would really love to see/hear that too. I'm going through a similar transition with my husband and I really need the encouragement right now. I want to see my marriage and my family thrive.
I 3rd this sentiment! Please have her share her side about extending grace during those rough times.
I would definitely love to hear her side and how she was able to navigate, forgive and stay 💚
I absolutely love your transparency. Your wife is amazing and I pray you guys grow old together.
For years I feel like you’ve mentored me through your music, books, and transparency in faith; I really love what I’ve been seeing these past few drops with these podcast. I salute you Bro! Onward!!!!!
Wow, thank you!
This video made me realize there are traumas that I need to address in my life that I have. Thank you so much Lecrae God is using you so much. you doing amazing things man God bless.
You got this!
I got a lot out of this video. Thank you for being courageously honest about your struggles. It’s making a difference in people’s lives.
Wow, this is a message I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your story, and about your wife! I was at my breaking point with my partner, thinking being a relationship with someone broken was a punishment. Thank you for shedding light on REAL relationships, giving me hope that your wifes endurance is the answer to my prayers.
Same!
Being in a relationship with someone broken is a Red Flag. Get out!!! A marriage is different. His wife was trying to save a marriage. But if you are not married, leave and let him heal. What about your own mental health and overall well being?
What his wife endured is not necessarily the same things you are enduring. Why stay with a broken man you are not married to? And isn't his brokenness a Red Flag?
Thank you for being so real, it helps so much
Teach! Get healed before getting married. Take accountability for any wrongs and change. I love how he said she does not have to stay for continued mistreatment.
This is so beautiful. I love what you said about don’t be a repeat offender to respect when grace is shown. It’s a huge problem today with the standard woman must deal with repeat abuse and cheating etc. this blessed my soul thank you!
WOW! This is a whole Masterclass on marriage from a credible source... Thank YOU Lacrae for loving Jesus so much that you willingly shared His love with me by sharing your marriage experience. God bless you and your wife's union with MANY more healthy years together 🙏🏽❤️
Can’t wait his last 2 have been great and has got me thinking about my life as well in different ways , I have even sent this to my family, men’s group and coworkers everyone has enjoyed this. Thank you lecrea for being very open about this cause it’s a great teaching lesson for all of us who are Christian and even non Christian. I know through God all things are possible and we can all be healed in his name, Amen 🙏 💯
Yessir he’s a pretty good speaker I hope this episode is good as well
Thank you LeCrae & Dara for this powerful testimony. I am sorry your Dad couldn’t pull it together for you, you deserved better. Ironically YOU are Fathering a Generation of Fatherless boys with your guidance and dedication to this powerful ministry.
Thank you again and again! God Bless your life and marriage 100 fold.
This why I love Lecrae he's just raw and real and makes you think
I have been a huge fan for years! I grew up in a Christian household and also a broken household. At one house I could only listen to worship music and at my dads he would listen to hip hop all the time. I got turned on to your music and it inspired me so much. Your testimony is powerful. I think it is telling how strong of a leader you are with your willingness to dive deep and to get vulnerable. I am recently married and have been with my girl for over 6 years, and I too did not deal with my traumas. My father committed suicide when I was 15 and I started to cope with that in a very negative way. I became addicted to porn and realized a lot later that my father was heavily addicted which led to my parents divorce due to infidelity. I grew up with a similar mindset, I want to be nothing like my father and want to break those generational sins that have been passed down. I had a moment where everything came to the surface and my wife decided to stand by my side because she too believed that the Lord would pull me out of my rut if I truly repented and put forth the effort. Praise be to the Lord that I was able to get my act together and I am closer to Jesus than I have ever been. Your message is inspiring, your music is still inspiring and I hope you know that the Lord has given you this platform to help people like me. Your testimony is powerful and don’t ever believe that you’re unworthy because of your fall. Much love!
I would encourage you to plug into The Basement 😊
Pastor now Podcaster Tim Ross
He speaks on this and practical ways on how to deal with it and just a safe place to be vulnerable 😊
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As someone who has been through all the types of childhood trauma, including all the trauma Lecrae mentioned, this really hit home for me. I really needed to hear this, especially as a “baby in Christ” who’s been a Christian for a little over a year, but I didn’t truly start following Jesus until late 2020… This not only encouraged me to share my story and testimony, but it also convicted me. And I REALLY needed that conviction. Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable in sharing just part of your story Lecrae. I’ve been really inspired by your music and all your podcasts here on RUclips. You are anointed and God is using you in big ways for the Kingdom of Heaven. I’ve been praying for you and your family and just prayed for y’all again. Seriously thank you for keeping it real and raw. I needed this inspiration and encouragement ❤
I look forward to the day when Black Women are no longer are expected to suffer for love. I look forward to the day when Black Women are more consistently met with people who showed up for themselves BEFORE entering relationships vs. expecting us to endure abuse. I look forward to the day when Black Women aren't still being told to submit to foolishness and chaos and harm and neglect.
Yep. Choosing YOU and releasing a video airing out her newfound trauma BECAUSE OF YOU is now the world's definition of humility. She's humiliated, and YOU get the applause. God is not pleased.
Preach sister
Amen.
Amen
@@pria7538but that what marriage is… a humiliation ritual
My wife's style of loving me is acts of service and speaking love to me (not in lovey-dovey way) but through affirmations. What you said to "live in reality" hits home. I'm learning how to love my wife after 12 years of marriage and I'm finally getting it. She's the realist and I'm the romantic.
Yes! Thanking God for your candid vulnerability. We are 30+ years in and the unreconciled trauma during our disenchanted last 10 years is wearing us thin. But I'm going to hang in here because I know God put us together. Prayers requested
Not only am I grateful that you shared it I'm grateful that God gave you the grace you and your wife to go through such an amazing journey ❤️
Owning up to your baggage and listening and loving your blk queen through Christ is important. Thank you brother for being transparent and honest ❤
So blessed by your testimony of growth, maturity, wisdom, confession and faith‼️🙏🏾🤍
This pod is a blessing. Your honesty and vulnerability through music, interviews, books and podcasts have been such a blessing to a lot of us man.
I pray for more grace on your marriage, family and ministry at large.
Thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability and truth. This has helped greatly. God bless brother 🙏🏿
So many gems!! Lecrae, thank you! From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being honest, transparent and real with us. You've dropped so much wisdom, encouragement, chastisement, counsel and reassurance for me (for us). I hope this helps people who feel skeptical about therapy and marriage counselling to try it out. I also think Christians need to be more open to the truth, skills and empowerment that therapy brings to our real lives. All truth is God's truth and the truth in therapy CAN CHANGE LIVES! It's expensive (in most cases) but worth it (always!) I really appreciate what you've said about true, real love. There's a lot of societal pressure to have ''Instagrammable love'' but life is hard, and we need real love! Also, shoutout to all the wives who are battling, supporting, praying for, upholding and holding their husbands accountable in secret...Away from the limelight. This series would not be as impactful without Mrs. Lecrae's dedication and love for her husband. Thank you Ma'am!! :) Lastly...(lol) THANK YOU JESUS for your faithfulness, for your healing, for your transformation in Lecrae's life and everything that you are doing in our hearts and lives! You are the true Healer and Redeemer of our souls. (This restores my hope in what God is doing in this generation!) k, baaai! :)
I just want to thank you from man to man you've help me along my journey and my wife also but know matter what I'm not going to give up God has a plan for me and it's so much easier this way God bless
This is the definition of marriage. Thank you so much for sharing. many comment are saying come healed and so on. None of us are ever fully healed thats an ongoing process daily. For the entirety of the marriage people don't show up as the best version of themself everyday.
I don't know if i ever heard a Chrisitan put out his business like you just did. But whats is more, is that I can relate to your story. I can identify with it. One thing you said was you were becoming what you where trying not to be. And I remember saying the other day I'm going back to the person I repented of being. There are other things you said that I can relate to. I thank God you put the podcast together. Even if its not a long running podcast for years. You already blessed at least one person by it. Me.
God is Good!!! My Husband and I just Acquired a new House here in Notting Hill, Despite all the ups and down in House Crisis in U.K... As you Congratulate me your own testimony awaits you. Praise God!♥️
Can I also do it??? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
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Wow I'm shocked you mentioned Mrs Anne Mayfield Jones services, I also trade with her and my family is happier than ever, I get to pay my son tuition fees and students loans.
Frr, I have been hearing lots of wonderful things about this woman on CNN but didn't believe it until now.
My neighbour also trade with her and mrs anne mayfield jones services helped him pay his rent and utilities including his family loans.
My mama always said, you either you grow together or you grow apart in a marriage
So True
True
True
this was the marriage therapy session i needed for the 8 years i was married. you articulated how i feel so well. i learned so much from the (ex) husband's perspective... this is excellent.
What a beautiful testimony, praise God. God always has a plan if we are faithful. Thank you for sharing. 🙏
I hear this word many of us come from broken homes and families this is so important to be discussing so we can allow each other to heal and walk into wholeness
Some of us are broken and we don't even understand that
14:42 Legit! The start is so lalaland! 🤣 Thank you for sharing your married life testimony, Lecrae! ❤I'm listening to your podcast while working. God bless you and your marriage life !
30:50 love is not a feeling...
18:07 counselling is like change oil / maintenance
32:40 Healing before getting married
38:28 ❤what an encouragement!
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What an awesome and beautiful sermon Bruh. I thank Yahweh for You. Even though I am older than You, I have gained so much wisdom from your life based on what You have allowed me to know. I see where The Lord is leading You and I pray that those feet that You prayed for will stay on that path. I am over 50 but ever since I first heard Your music on the way to church in 07 ( I'm Praying for You) I have been on CHH. I pray for You and your family. God put You here to help old heads too.
I needed to hear this desperately. I look forward to being healed and sharing my journey without shame. Thank you for your transparency, sincerely.
“Love is what God said Love is “ period! Thank God for you Crea
This 45 minutes was worth more than any multitude of counseling for me! Thank you Lecrea for your service thru this! ❤
Thank you Lecrea. Going through mental issues and this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you and may God bless you.
Hey bro, Just know that you matter and God Loves you. I pray that the lord reveals the answers to your questions/ situations.
Thank you for the prayers
Thank you, Lecrae for remaining consistent and authentic in your music and now this! I am forever grateful to God for you!! Thank you for being Unashamed!!
Lecrae, I swear we could best friends. I had Thanksgiving yesterday (Saturday) with 2 friends, 2 sisters and my niece. The only guy there, he asked my family and friend questions about relationships. He is 35, has a teenage son, comes from a broken home and is the ONLY one in his family breaking the cycle. This, for the most part, is spot on what to what they were telling him.
I so appreciate your vulnerability in telling your story, warts and all. I have loved your music, i have read your books and while I hate that you have had to endure these traumas in your life, I do belive that this generation both balck and white need your success, your story. There are people just like you but will not share because of being ashamed.
I don't always get to watch these videos but I feel like this one right here, with your story, was His intervention so that I can pass it on to my friend. Much love and respect. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Lecrae, Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate it deeply ! I wish I could speak to your wife and receive her guidance from a woman's perspective as well.....The man I love has chosen not to "sweep his side" which has led to an end to our relationship. While I love him deeply, I will continue to do my own healing and pray for him as I am aware I am not perfect either. Thank you so much again for this.
Respect.🙏🏾
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Wow 🤩 this hits right on point ! Been praying for the Lord to send my prodigal back ! I was able to
Hear the Lord
Speak
To me
About
The kind of
Wife I need to be Video
Just popped up on my feed! Glory to God!
So good! 🔥🔥🔥
"My scars demonstrate others can heal"... POWERFUL MESSAGE
WE NEED A 👕 WITH THIS MESSAGE 🙏
So many gems in this. Thank you for sharing what you have learnt from experience 🙏🏽
You’re such a great communicator. Thanks for your wise words.
Thank you for keeping it 💯. God bless you. This message made sense.
Really Liking this series man
I am a 55 yr old woman, and this has been a blessing to me, I pray that men and women, young and old will be able to see/hear this. May God continue to bless you and your wife your family! And may God continue to use both of you in helping other couples 🙏🏾
I wasn’t sure what to expect with the title and put off watching for a while, I’m so happy that the algorithm kept putting this in my face. This was healing, helpful and comforting for me. Thank you for sharing.
My thing is some women put up with a lot from some men but the moment she does it (give him a taste of his own medicine)he loosing his mind
This is like free therapy. Healing for me. Thank you.
So needed this! Thank you 🙏🏾 for sharing! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Beautiful thing you said there about therapists and counsellors working closely with Pastors 💪🏾
I have really been appreciating these conversations. You can feel the authenticity in your story.
If it's not okay then it's not the end just hold on He'll Carry You through 😪
"why do you chew like that?" I freaking lost it 😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard. Lol. My spouse was playing guitar in the other room then herard my laugh..the guitar playing got quieter. Pfffft
Married for a decade.
Been following you since 2013, when a co-worker introduced me your music.
Looking forward to your podcast. Just found it this week.
This is sooooooo real!!! Thank you for sharing
Thanks for sharing this with us LeCrae, much encouragement, wise counsel and warnings here... may we all learn to walk in this direction... fighting the good fight and learning to love and serve one another in truth and sincerity just as you have brought out in great detail... Acts 20:24 God bless brother
Lecrae… effortlessly funny and extremely wise. I took nuggets upon nuggets from this and the Lord done opened up my eyes to my own issues. Therapy it is
Wow!!! Thank you so much Lecrae for sharing your testimony. Because I am just realizing I have anxiety attachments issues because abandonment issues and dis function. Wow please pray for me because I need healing
Wow....this just spoke to me in so many unexpected ways when I clicked on this. Both regarding my childhood, what I put my now husband through and all my relationships before him...including my walk and journey with the Lord..as a baby Christian learning to trust Jesus. Man...the words from me lack to thank you. God used u to speak this to me...I needed it. I don't struggle with drugs/alcohol but I struggle in other ways...seeking approval from others, worried about people leaving, trying to force relationships and deep emotions..so many things. Thank you. I prayed for thr Lord to show me areas I need to work on...now that I see..I can place it at his feet and ask him to help grow me on the inside and work on this area. Thank you for opening yourself...flto help us.
I love the podcast, you are helping a lot of people. May God continue to use you in as many channels as He chooses to spread light and healing to as many people as possible. 🙏🏼
Yes & Amen! 🤟🏾💜 #promisesofGod
My husband is so mean and angry I pray so often for him. All day for years nothing has gotten better. I pray so often for God to help me... why does he answer some prayers but not other. Why did he restore your marriage but not mine 😢 I'm so hurt from him and i keep praying. He's so mean and I'm still kind. I have lost any hope. 😭 how many prayers before God helps.
Your husband has to be willing. God created us with free will, we’re not robots. He will not force your husband to change. He might put situations and trials in front of your husband to tell him or convict him to change his ways, but He won’t do it for him.
I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Please get involved in a church. Please get marriage counseling. If he doesn’t go, still go. Stay prayed up and get more strong women around you.
If he’s abusing you, leave! Be strong and courageous. Praying for you Kelsey.
And personal opinion, as a man- you should tell him to man up and to stop treating you like a punching bag. It’s not fair to you and it does not honor God. That is of course as long as he’s not abusive… otherwise that could end badly. In that case I’d suggest you get divorced.
Matthew 18:18 what so ever you deem unlawful on earth bind on earth and in heaven and loose what you deem lawful in heaven on earth… (paraphrasing)
There is a lot I could release but first know that arming yourself with the armor of Christ and binding up any satanic or strife/mean spirit in the house that is influencing him is a big part of attacking what is coming against you… the enemy wants to use the closest vessel to come against you
You love him… but love him while you rebuke that which is coming against you and your marriage
You have power! You can ask the Holy Spirit to help you fight and to war against the things you can’t see and then you can speak life over him, yourself and your home!
The blessing and life is in the tongue. It’s so much easier said than done but once the tears are gone get mad not at your husband but at the enemy and you be reminded of who you are in the word of God that you cling to and see the peace of God manifest in you while your husband is undone by the peace that surpass both your understanding… and then stand in doing all you can in the war room of prayer while getting focused on Jesus and allowing him to cleanse you, prepare you for the calling in the marriage as who you are as a woman, wife and mother of children and talents and gifts he gave you from birth.
I hope this helps!
I'm really sorry:( Jesus is so gracious toward us. Keep pressing into Him, maybe your husband will see your kind heart and slowly start to change
@@rebeccacirillo2494she shouldn’t waste her life on someone like that. She needs to leave
Wow this is amazing ! You are ministering to many; many men if we are willing to work on our marriage cause so many of our men comes from broken homes! Dysfunctional families is many ! You really need to reach more men with your video! Thank you ! So True
Thank you for sharing this. It was such a blessing to me.
Maaaaaannnnnn! God bless you for your testimony and for allowing God to speak through you to share this! This is hitting me at a time where I'm going through real times right now. Thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you because a lot of what you shared are the same things my wife has told me. Praying for the "Deep End" videos, your team, and most of all your family. May this video bless other marriages and relationships so that we can show the world how God loves❤
Glad it was helpful!
This could have not come at a better time. Really needed this for a reality check.
I met you a few months back when you were filming with Montell Jordan at his house church. I was blessed enough to sit on the couch with you guys. I appreciate this story because a lot of it is relatable. I hope this is something you keep doing it. And deep end is one of my favorite songs. God bless🙏🏾
Am glad I stopped by ....this podcast is a blessing. You so real and that is so helpful. Each word from your mouth is wise.