I liked how Abby comforted Ellie. She didn’t yell at her and say “save your tears for the pillow” but she still gave her some tough love and told her that’s what it’s like in the business.
The fact that Stacey actually was smiling like she’s super happy with all this drama that’s about to go down after she said the “get out” part to Yolanda just proves how much of a pathetic person she is. I feel bad for Lilly, and everyone thinks Yolanda is the hypocrite please check again because the real one is Stacey
@@billiejeanellero2263 no it’s because she better + when lily did the straight jacket solo she won even with having half of her body and Ellie lost and Ellie always got pretty lyrical and contemporary which is what winning numbers are and she still loses
I feel so bad for Elliana. She probably knows that the show manipulates the drama and how the moms are viewed. She also probably knows that her mom is the most “hated” based on how she raises Elliana. I wish everyone can stop with the hate and realize that this is all fake drama.
ByeBitch 《 the producers are staging everything this season and Abby has proved everyone right!!! Like pressley and Brady never messed up the lift!! Lilly didn’t mess up as bad as they portrayed it!
3.14159 2653589 the producers are already upsetting me on the new spoilers because “apparently Gianina and Pressley are not friends anymore!!” And they made a whole RUclips video together!!!
Elliana is a gorgeous and talented young lady. I truly believe she will accomplish amazing things. She just needs to ignore her mom’s reaction to everything and all the drama that’s going on. Poor girl
i think a lot of it has to do with communication tbh. abby seems to like it more when a kid calmly confronts her and tells her why they’re stressed / upset / need help. when all they’re doing is crying and their moms are yelling, that’s when abby gets fed up
Hannah's mom is so sweet, by far one of the kindest mom's on this show. I have so much respect for her and the way she tries to lift others up rather then bring them down.
Stacey was rude. Joanne and Ann were trying to be positive saying that Pressley and Elliana were good, and Stacey scoffed and said that she struggled to pick up the rope. Lilly was the only one that was there before and she messed up four or five times in six weeks. Keep in mind that she had 90 minutes to learn and rehearse and still did a spectacular job. The rudest part was when Stacey said “You guys shouldn’t even be here, period, so get out.” If anyone deserved to be there it was Elli, she is an amazing dancer, and she worked hard to be on the team.
It’s ironic that Stacey is talking about Ellie messing up, when Lilly messed up like 5 times already this season. It also seems like Stacey is manipulating the other moms to not like Yolanda
Ever since Bryn’s panic attack Abby has really gotten better with handling the stress the kids go through! I guess she’s learned from the other kids that being mean and harsh to them will only make them not want to associate themselves with her.
Clearly they are jealous, Eliana received the best dancer title at the dance awards Vegas competition which is literally the most difficult and competitive dance competition!!! Did anyone see her recent performance at the dance awards😱😱 she is way beyond her years!!!!
When Abby let that thing fall and Gianna was laughing but then Abby turns around and Gianna is looking on her computer or to the flour had me dying ahah
Boulevard Of Aldc Dreams that’s not at all what happened. she was being a good mom by letting elliana know what was happening. elliana has the maturity to handle it, and it’s much better than keeping her out of the loop
@@evelynryan839 Nah that's adult business, Yolanda shouldn't be telling her daughter her problems and make her stress over it. Also Elliana was crying over it so it obviously wasn't a good decision.
Adriana Suarez Elliana is bound to be upset, it sucks, but it’s better for her to know beforehand rather than be surprised when another mom comes and attacks her to her face. Her mom took her aside and made sure she knew the facts. As I said before, that shows maturity in both of them.
not only is elliana a beautiful dancer, but she’s also a smart little girl! so mature and speaks her mind with strong vocabulary! yolanda a little wild, but she’s raising a sweet girl
I feel absolutely terrible for Elliana. I love that child. She's the sweetest, most hardworking dancer out there and is being manipulated and broken down by a GROWN woman.
elliana is amazing and we all know that. there is honestly no one that competes with her technique and flexibility (and performance tbh). lilliana is amazing just as well, but there’s something about ellie - she seems much more mature (if that makes sense) in her dancing. i hope she does well these next few episodes!
I’m trying not to laugh because Abby comes out of her position in her seat a broom falls she spins like two times and then just says let’s go like😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yolanda literally did nothing but watch her kid dance. Stacey is just a jealous dance mom and it’s getting annoying. Like Lily Can stay but Stacey has got to go today
Hillary N she’s really not crazy at all, she has a big personality and she’s expressive but her heart is just as big as her personality. she truly is a kind person and she just wants what’s best for her daughter, and I’m sure the fact that she’s coming into this knowing that production and all of the other moms are going to treat her and ellie like crap doesn’t help either. she’s doing her best, I think people really need to give her a break.
So disgusting that women have to pick other children apart ..... and for what to get under each other’s skin ? Wasn’t ok in any other season sure as hell not ok now
Stacey is just insanely jealous because elli improved so much in two years and lilly didn’t. Stacey just wants elli to leave because she knows elli is gonna beat Lilly this season. She’s incredibly sneaky because she also got Brady to leave and now she’s doing it with elli. She’s just trying to get everybody who’s better than lilly out of the studio so they won’t beat lilly. I really hate Stacey this season. Plus, Stacey has nothing to say about elli messing up her dance because lilly messed up all the choreographies since the beginning of the season.
It’s crazy how Elliana misses her rope barely once and Lilliana’s literally messed up many group dances - screws up side aerial, faces the wrong way in the group dance, places 2nd and cries, messes up the side aerial in the trio, but Stacey has the nerve to say that Elliana’s solo basically wasn’t great when she literally learnt it on the day of the competition and it’s her first week. Madness
omg when gianna stopped smiling right after abby made the broom fall and was turning around: it’s like when ur zoning out at work but ur boss comes back jsusjshd
Did stacey just said that? I mean Lilly fell 2 times and went the wrong direction she almost always messed up in group and she hasn't even won anything yet
aldc girl Yea and Lilly has been there for seven weeks messed up multiple times and hasn’t won 1st yet. And ellie has been there for only one day, learned her solo in 45 minutes and won first her first day back
This whole hatred for Yolanda from Stacey came from when lilianna lied that Yolanda was yelling at her and the whole choking thing happened. And then Stacey got all high and might and went after so many kids
Yolanda has changed. Stacy is still immature, instead of yolanda fighting she just walked out like she said stating she doesnt really care, while stacy is just being plain rude. And looking bad asf🤦, good job yolanda🕺
Elli: They're making her look like a bad person and she´s not and I don't want my mom looking like that. Abby: Well I´ve never said that that´s crazy. Abby in an interview: That woman is batsh*t crazy. Yeah, sure Abby. P.S I do understand Abby though. Elli does not need to hear ¨Well she is¨ right then.
Gianna’s face trying not to laugh when Abby knocked the broom down 🤣
What time?
@@LucySquarey it at the end
@@LucySquarey 1:56
Claudi B Original that part was so funny
Abby was like wtf was that
I liked how Abby comforted Ellie. She didn’t yell at her and say “save your tears for the pillow” but she still gave her some tough love and told her that’s what it’s like in the business.
I like how Ann was trying to be nice to Yolanda and Elliana even when Stacy was being mean to them.
DSTY you mean Abby?
No, she means Ann, Ann told her Elliana looked good on stage ✌️
Ann is how a mother should be . Her Hannah should be proud of her 💖
Ann is the Holly of this season
Aaron Quiseng I actually think she is nice for real.
The fact that Stacey actually was smiling like she’s super happy with all this drama that’s about to go down after she said the “get out” part to Yolanda just proves how much of a pathetic person she is. I feel bad for Lilly, and everyone thinks Yolanda is the hypocrite please check again because the real one is Stacey
No it’s Yolanda and everyone knows that and Yolanda always acts like the victim and she is not the victim
And she always complain about nothing because she is jealous of Lilly because lily always beat eliie
@@CousinsVlog-fm7jh you know why Lilly always wins because eil is always set up to lose
@@billiejeanellero2263 no it’s because she better + when lily did the straight jacket solo she won even with having half of her body and Ellie lost and Ellie always got pretty lyrical and contemporary which is what winning numbers are and she still loses
is anyone dying at giannas face when she was trying not to laugh when abby knocked down the thing at the end 💀💀💀
YH IKR
MEE
Bro yesss
*the mop
THE MOP
naia casaus broom
1:55 Gia's face, wanted to laugh and then quickly realised that would be a death sentence. 😂
😂 It was funny cause its awkward and unexpected. I think she didn't wanna seem like she was laughing AT Abby
Ann is honestly the nicest mom, she tries to make peace with everyone.. even YoLaNdA
Ann is the Holly of this group 😂
@@bridiemolloy8643 I agree
IKR I love Ann❤️💖💜💙
Yolanda didn't even do smth Bad there..I mean stacey randomly started a fight
"Your kid missed her rope two times"
*"Your kid messsed up almost all of the group dances"*
Stacey is such a hypocrite and it shows 😑
No she didn't don't be so mean she just messed up one group dance and one trio nothing else
I feel so bad for Elliana. She probably knows that the show manipulates the drama and how the moms are viewed. She also probably knows that her mom is the most “hated” based on how she raises Elliana. I wish everyone can stop with the hate and realize that this is all fake drama.
Elliana is literally the sweetest little girl but her mom is something else...
even without the editing, yolanda needs to get her shit together. its like shes on drugs or something. shes acting like a three year old. seriously
ByeBitch 《 the producers are staging everything this season and Abby has proved everyone right!!! Like pressley and Brady never messed up the lift!! Lilly didn’t mess up as bad as they portrayed it!
Angel it’s true but the show is not telling us the full story. It could be that it’s all edited to make it seem like she is crazy. Who knows
3.14159 2653589 the producers are already upsetting me on the new spoilers because “apparently Gianina and Pressley are not friends anymore!!” And they made a whole RUclips video together!!!
Elliana is a gorgeous and talented young lady. I truly believe she will accomplish amazing things. She just needs to ignore her mom’s reaction to everything and all the drama that’s going on. Poor girl
I love how abby handles the girls' emotions and mental health now! She has more advise than just saying "save the tears for tour pillow"
i think a lot of it has to do with communication tbh. abby seems to like it more when a kid calmly confronts her and tells her why they’re stressed / upset / need help. when all they’re doing is crying and their moms are yelling, that’s when abby gets fed up
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol !!
I would too lmao
I would tell everyone to shut the f up or I’m not helping anyone...
Abby is much nicer this season
Rishona Peace tbh I’d argue she’s meaner in this season, but I agree with a previous comment saying that it’s probably due to better communication
Hannah's mom is so sweet, by far one of the kindest mom's on this show. I have so much respect for her and the way she tries to lift others up rather then bring them down.
Stacey was rude. Joanne and Ann were trying to be positive saying that Pressley and Elliana were good, and Stacey scoffed and said that she struggled to pick up the rope. Lilly was the only one that was there before and she messed up four or five times in six weeks. Keep in mind that she had 90 minutes to learn and rehearse and still did a spectacular job.
The rudest part was when Stacey said “You guys shouldn’t even be here, period, so get out.”
If anyone deserved to be there it was Elli, she is an amazing dancer, and she worked hard to be on the team.
Zina Unicorn it was probably the producers that made her say that.
Well u cant blame her yolanda tryed to choke her last season
@@jaylaw564 Yeah but when Jamie and Maesi came along they were best friends??
Malex Stacey didn’t say anything rude and this is all for drama I met Stacey and Yolanda and they were like best friends soo byyee.
I so agree and I'd like your comment but it's at 666 and I’m evil sooooo
i haven’t watched dance moms since season 6 and it’s crazy how much Elliana has changed. she’s such a beautiful girl
It’s ironic that Stacey is talking about Ellie messing up, when Lilly messed up like 5 times already this season. It also seems like Stacey is manipulating the other moms to not like Yolanda
That little hypocrite
yup and stacey is also meant to be a psychologist
Exactly what I said
Exactly what im thinking
That woman is jealous jealous jealous
This is why I’ve never liked Stacey since she can’t handle the fact that other children better than her own
I love how supportive Abby was to Ellie in this clip
That "psychologist" is SO NOT professional. Holly was so beyond graceful compared to this (woman)...
Ever since Bryn’s panic attack Abby has really gotten better with handling the stress the kids go through! I guess she’s learned from the other kids that being mean and harsh to them will only make them not want to associate themselves with her.
I respect Hannah’s mom the rest are really pathetic
Taniaya Moore Ashlee isn’t too bad!!!
Ashley too😊
Tatiana Swanson Ashlee and Ann are my 2 favorites
@@Iavenderhazes same their the best their respectful and kind and Ashley speaks facts and Anne is high spirited love that
Ashlee is not bad neither is Ann
Ellie has a heart of gold and dances like a goddess.. I wish her the best whether she continues with the team or not ♥️
Clearly they are jealous, Eliana received the best dancer title at the dance awards Vegas competition which is literally the most difficult and competitive dance competition!!!
Did anyone see her recent performance at the dance awards😱😱 she is way beyond her years!!!!
HS AL she was also on dancing with the stars junior which I think is pretty dope
Korri Fraser and that this girl has an amazing resume at a young age
And she is getting to play Clara in radio music halls production of the nutcracker with the rockettes!
All Collins Yes, she won the YAPG Hope Award in 2018, you can look it up on the YAPG website
@@eileenvb she won a scholarship from yagp
1:56 Gianna trying to not laugh when Abby knocked the mop😂🤣😂🤣
Ik lol
When Abby let that thing fall and Gianna was laughing but then Abby turns around and Gianna is looking on her computer or to the flour had me dying ahah
I know lol but like why is Gianna’s laugh got
Lmao
atleast elli hasn’t ruined nearly every group number this season. stacey brings so much bad energy into the room, i can feel it through the screen 🤒
Nature Duran-Smith that was Lilly
Nature Duran-Smith ikr Stacey is fake a so toxic she like toxic waste
@@KH-le5hd it was FAKE
the productors told her to say that
Why are you being mean to lily
@@cami5431 it’s the truth tho.
Yeah so Stacey is literally jealous of ellie because she is a threat to lily
edit; yeah i agree stacey is awful
Elliana has self esteem
Boulevard Of Aldc Dreams that’s not at all what happened. she was being a good mom by letting elliana know what was happening. elliana has the maturity to handle it, and it’s much better than keeping her out of the loop
@@evelynryan839 Nah that's adult business, Yolanda shouldn't be telling her daughter her problems and make her stress over it. Also Elliana was crying over it so it obviously wasn't a good decision.
Adriana Suarez Elliana is bound to be upset, it sucks, but it’s better for her to know beforehand rather than be surprised when another mom comes and attacks her to her face. Her mom took her aside and made sure she knew the facts. As I said before, that shows maturity in both of them.
Boulevard Of Aldc Dreams are we surprised?
In this clip Yolanda has really changed a lot. Usually she will argue and go back and fourth but what she did was so mature
I love how the girls are so sweet to each other no matter the moms situation.
Pressly not so much
not only is elliana a beautiful dancer, but she’s also a smart little girl! so mature and speaks her mind with strong vocabulary! yolanda a little wild, but she’s raising a sweet girl
And you tell me Stacey is a psychologist? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Her education on the human mind makes her an excellent destroyer of it. She is using her knowledge of the mind to play mind games on Yolanada. Sicko
@@JosedeJezeus Exactly! People that use their knowledge and education for bad are the worst type of people.
Lol
Eli you're a SURVIVOR, LEADER, TALENTED..... dont care about what they say about you or your mother👏
Literally Abby said that Yolanda was shit crazy
Balmore kun love how you’ve censored out Bat but not shit in ‘bat shit crazy’ 😂
She used to say similar things about Christi (Chloes Mom) Mom I think lol
I feel absolutely terrible for Elliana. I love that child. She's the sweetest, most hardworking dancer out there and is being manipulated and broken down by a GROWN woman.
Stacey really shouldn't be talking when her daughter has messed up like 15 times lol
3 times
Yass exactly!
So Ellie deserve to be there.
@@Lilixnx27 i know, it was just an exaggeration. My point still stands.
Sofia Alves it was a hyperbole 😭🤦🏾♀️
ABBY SLOWLY SPINNING WITH NO SOUND FUCKING HAD ME
elliana is amazing and we all know that. there is honestly no one that competes with her technique and flexibility (and performance tbh). lilliana is amazing just as well, but there’s something about ellie - she seems much more mature (if that makes sense) in her dancing. i hope she does well these next few episodes!
I can say a lot of people who can compite with her flexibility and technique and won
I’m trying not to laugh because Abby comes out of her position in her seat a broom falls she spins like two times and then just says let’s go like😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
YOLANDA DIDN’T EVEN DO ANYTHING Stacy is being so freakin annoying
Chrissy Ss if I was Stacy I’d forever hate Yolanda for choking me I completely understand her behavior
Korri Fraser yeah but why does she have to discredit Elliana when she didn’t do anything
Bbajj Jsuhsj to piss off yolanda
Korri Fraser yeah but she doesn’t have to say anything to elliana
XoxoGurl Channel exactly
I was in this serious mode but when I saw Abby stroll up like that in 0:40, it had me dying. My sense of humor is weird man.
“ your kid drop the rope”. Stacy ur kid messed up EVERY SINGLE DANCE.
Elliana is such a sweet child honestly 🥺🥺🥺
It so sad how these young girls and young minds have to be involved with such toxicity between parents at a young age. It’s so harsh 😑
I love how Abby dropped the mop, and then there’s was a lot of silence, she looks at it and goes “we’re ready to go outside” LOL
Yolanda literally did nothing but watch her kid dance. Stacey is just a jealous dance mom and it’s getting annoying. Like Lily Can stay but Stacey has got to go today
Say it louder for us in the back plzzz
Yeh Stacey should let the whole ‘’choking’’ incident go imo, especially for the kids sake.
@@louismulveen3171 yeah but at the same time she shouldnt be there stacey has a reason
Lilly is actually rude watch when season 8 cast react to the ogs
@@louismulveen3171 she choked stacey
When stacy said you guys shouldnt even be here and then said get out a small part of me thinks she was talking to the camera crew.
I think it’s sweet how much they depend on each other as friends, not just mother and daughter
Eliana is a CHILD. She should not be her moms friend listening to adult business
Whenever I see Abby in that chair i always sing in my head- “They see me rollin’, they hatin’”
I swear Ann is the sweetest mom in dance moms
stacey has actually changed so much it’s unbelievable. she thinks she owns all the moms because the og moms are gone. it’s so funny istg-
I truly felt bad for Yolanda and Ellie.
Same
Ik Yolanda can be a bit much at times but I'm probably the only one who doesn't think she's crazy and actually likes her
Hillary N she’s really not crazy at all, she has a big personality and she’s expressive but her heart is just as big as her personality. she truly is a kind person and she just wants what’s best for her daughter, and I’m sure the fact that she’s coming into this knowing that production and all of the other moms are going to treat her and ellie like crap doesn’t help either. she’s doing her best, I think people really need to give her a break.
@@hillaryc7109 no me tooo
Ellie is a b*tch she messed up five f*king times so I agree with Stacey
0:20 I was really proud of Yolanda for not giving Stacey the reaction she wanted I really don't know who's side I'm on
So disgusting that women have to pick other children apart ..... and for what to get under each other’s skin ? Wasn’t ok in any other season sure as hell not ok now
When Abby knocked the mop down😂💀💀
Stacey is just insanely jealous because elli improved so much in two years and lilly didn’t. Stacey just wants elli to leave because she knows elli is gonna beat Lilly this season. She’s incredibly sneaky because she also got Brady to leave and now she’s doing it with elli. She’s just trying to get everybody who’s better than lilly out of the studio so they won’t beat lilly. I really hate Stacey this season.
Plus, Stacey has nothing to say about elli messing up her dance because lilly messed up all the choreographies since the beginning of the season.
1:53 I was laughing so bad😂😂😂😂
I feel sorry for Elliana. She is talented and sweet. She deserves better.
the sad thing is, is that when elli is an adult she will never get to look back on her childhood and say she had a good one. poor kid.
I just hope that all of the girls have a healthy relationship with each other and dont worry about the moms
When she knocked the broom down 😂 Giana’s face when she was trying not to laugh omg I’m dying 😂😂😂😂😂😭
This time Stacey was pushing Yolanda! Then she plays the victim. I'm glad Yolanda walked right out and didn't choke her again.
liz M It’s all fucking fake!
XoxoGurl Channel Lmao look it up 😂
XoxoGurl Channel they edit it, they tell them what to say sometimes😂
@@murleshaven4481 it's been confirmed multiple time's, even by the og team.
Choke her again yolanda
It’s crazy how Elliana misses her rope barely once and Lilliana’s literally messed up many group dances - screws up side aerial, faces the wrong way in the group dance, places 2nd and cries, messes up the side aerial in the trio, but Stacey has the nerve to say that Elliana’s solo basically wasn’t great when she literally learnt it on the day of the competition and it’s her first week. Madness
It broke my heart when Elli cried. And Stacey, I hate her.
omg when gianna stopped smiling right after abby made the broom fall and was turning around: it’s like when ur zoning out at work but ur boss comes back jsusjshd
Awe. And now Stacy begins to lose her mean girl entourage. Haha
Abby is kind of supportive and kind in a twisted way
This is why i stay up late on tuesdays
I love how elliana knows that abby will listen to her even though she can sometimes yell and get out of control 💕
Elliana is the best Female mini dancer in the country.....I would be jealous too😂😂😂
I love it how Abby causally turned around at the end 😂😂
Why is it that the phsycologist is driving me crazy
stacy is so jealous of ellie it’s insane
After everything Abby had been through I feel like she is finally acknowledging the kids mental health
I love how Ann was trying to be nice to everyone and make everything seem fair.
Did stacey just said that?
I mean Lilly fell 2 times and went the wrong direction she almost always messed up in group and she hasn't even won anything yet
aldc girl Yea and Lilly has been there for seven weeks messed up multiple times and hasn’t won 1st yet. And ellie has been there for only one day, learned her solo in 45 minutes and won first her first day back
@@2006-j7z exactly
This whole hatred for Yolanda from Stacey came from when lilianna lied that Yolanda was yelling at her and the whole choking thing happened. And then Stacey got all high and might and went after so many kids
2:06... when you fart in the middle of class and everyone looks at you
Wdym
There’s something wrong with Stacy honestly, one second she’s like “u shouldn’t even be here” and then she’s like “so now you’re leaving
Stacey causes lots of drama. OMG I’m so pissed
NOT YOLANDA ACTUALLY LEAVING (0:23) 😂 idc what y'all say, I fricken love Stacy
I'm not saying the show is scripted but like I think they plan certain situations to make the show more interesting
I love how she cares about her mother so much !!
Hannah is in her solo costume at 0:31 Lifetime if you’re going to cut a solo from being aired at least do a better job at hiding it
0:24 *sips tea*
Yolanda has changed. Stacy is still immature, instead of yolanda fighting she just walked out like she said stating she doesnt really care, while stacy is just being plain rude. And looking bad asf🤦, good job yolanda🕺
lillianna and ellianna have changed so much since they first came in dance moms they used to be so close
The producers should just turn it into A DANCE SHOW NOBODY HECK CARES ABOUT THE DRAMA COS WE ALL KNOW ITS FAKE
the drama makes me wanna watch tho
SS the competition are fake Bc of child labor laws
SS ok fine
SS yeah but it’s mainly drama
Angie Liang it’s not scripted it’s just somewhat planned and very manipulated
Ann is so kind to everyone and Hannah is such a amazing dancer all these girls are
Elli: They're making her look like a bad person and she´s not and I don't want my mom looking like that.
Abby: Well I´ve never said that that´s crazy.
Abby in an interview: That woman is batsh*t crazy.
Yeah, sure Abby.
P.S I do understand Abby though. Elli does not need to hear ¨Well she is¨ right then.
When Abby knocked the mop I would’ve burst out laughing but those girls know better😂
Didn’t Stacy and Yolanda become friends when they did the Jordan Matter photo shoot
Kyann it’s the producers
I love how Abby just roams in her wheelchair so smoothly, it’s almost funny to watch.
Lily has messed up so many of the group dances she has no right to point out anything Ellie did wrong
This is how many people agree with me
👇🏼
Lilly messed up 1 group dance so don't be mean
Lol that mop! I’m dead!
I honestly think that if Stacey could just shut it everything would be fine!
Giana was lauging when Abby droppes the cleaning stick 😂 1:53
i feel bad for elliana 😭
small youtuber here btw ✨
No body:
Abby: *dramatic wheelchair turn* ...and we’re ready to go.
For only having a night to learn her dance I think ellianna was amazing and even though you hate Yolanda you shouldn't be mean to Ellianna Stacey
When the mop falls 😂
Lilly=like
Elliana=comment
Let’s see who win!
JJEE 4EV Eli!
elli
Elli
What kind of parent goes crying to their kid that someone is mean to them you know it's worrying when abby sounds like a better parent