Indeed 1st time pregnancy and delivery both are life changing experiences, I was also induced upon completion on 40 weeks I did get minor contractions after induction but was not dilated at all. After being induced for 12 hours and no dilation the doctors decided to operate and did the C Section . I was admitted at 5:30 am and the baby was born at 8:35 via c section. I was in labor ward all alone seeing other ladies screaming and crying. Thanx for sharing your experience. C section does heal a bit late but it's not like you will be on bed for that long. I was on my feet with in 12 hours trying to walk inside the room and on the 3rd day I went to the car bt walking. You need to be careful only. Although C section is a major surgery and the scar and minor pain or itchiness stays for long but it's nothing when you are blessed with babies. Allah paak sabko olad jesi nemat se nawazey. I have 3 kids all with C Section. Alhamdulillah
A few things as I gave birth a few months ago. The med they give to increase the dilation is “Pitocin” the pain reliever gas is Nitrous Oxide also known as The Laughing Gas. N also epidural is not inserted in the spin it is inserted in the gaps between the vertebrae.
Awwww, watching as a 22 year old girl was very courageous and man how much a pain women goes through in delivering a baby, Salute to all the mom's. It's not at all easy. Many many congratulations 🎊 and love your vlogs, have been following them since a while.
I was on my last day of 39 week that is 40 week i started with the labour pain in the night 8.30 it was really minute like a cramp i went to the hospital the doctor checked she said u can go back and come tomorrow but I decided to stay at the hospital so gradually the pain increased by time i was with video call with my husband as he was out of country.... By the that didn't help no motivation u will get as u are too busy handling the pain .... The entire night i was crying and screaming because the intensity of pain was quite a alot i mean alot .... Unimaginable i was just complaining that no one told me the real truth of labour and all and was screaming ki c section karwa do doctor ko bula do and all i used to literally go near the wall face wall ko laga ke i was crying because walking really helps when the contractions come by the time it was 5 in the morning i literally gave up .... I was saying stuff like i don't want to live this is very painful nd all nd i was 6 cm in .... My sis my brother my dad came in the morning and was helping me walk as it was giving me little relief so when the doctor came around 8 i remember she checked me i Guess my water broke nd was bleeding.... She checked i was around 7-8 cm in .... But the baby heart rate was dropping she checked with different instruments to check.... But the heart rate was dropping.... If i wanted for an hour i would have normal delivery.... But Allah ki marzi the OT was prepped for someone else delivery but i was taken immediately.... The doctor held me nd took asap Didn't even gave me time to change my clothes as it had blood stains.... Alhamdulillah by 8.45 my baby girl was born i was more eager to know the baby eye colour as my husband has green eyes my mother too so it's in the blood i anticipated for blue or green eyes but they wer black i was happy to see my baby healthy... Alhamdulillah se i was able to walk on my feet next day but let me tell u the healing process is just so daaaaam tough.... If u sit u can't get up .... I used to take literally half an hour to just rotate nd stand up.... That really broke me i used to literally cry when i was soo helpless nd in pain .... ... Alhamdulillah my baby is good she is 6 months now i have very bad shoulder nd lower back pain i hope it goes away soon....
I had the similar story as your. I was screaming with pain. The pain was so intense that I almost gave up in the labour room and saying k mera c sec krdo I cant bear the pain. They weren’t listening me as the ctg was going smooth. But suddenly it starts to drop and I had an emergency c sec. I was 6cm that time but Allah knows the best.
@@iqrajabbar3105 i am so scared of normal delivery abhi se please give me some tips for 9th month and how long do the stretch marks stay ? Kab thak ye light joyenge ?
I had experience of both Natural and C-section delivery, i personally think natural delivery is easy. No doubt pain intensity is very high and it ended when baby is delivered, but in C-section everything is normal when baby is delivered but pain starts after the delivery and it takes months to heal. The worst feeling is depending on others . In Ceasern it is even hard to feed the baby. I think 1 day of pain is better than 2 months of pain.
Kiya yaad krwa dya abi 1 month pahly mera c sec hoa mashaAllah baby boy h mera . pr yakin kren after c section ap khud sy beth b ni skty baby ko feed krany ka bht dil krta h pr ap ni kr paty . meny bht himmt ki khud sy bethi 2nd din hi walk bina Sahary k khud sy ki baby ko feed b pori rat beth beth krawaya h day 2 sy hi hospital mei hi . mny apni trf sy pori koshish ki k mei ksi py depend na krun 😰 q k mjy acha ni ta lgta k hubby k ilawa koi or mri mother ya mother in law mjy sahara den onki is age mei onko mry kam krny pren mjy acha ni ta lgta. mei khud sy sb krti pain bht hota or sb sy chup k roti rhti q k pain stiches mei bht hota ta. Even k hubby ko b mny disturb ni kiya. Bs yi hasrt rh gyi k kash normal delivery hoti srf aik Khana jo mjy dosry pka k dety rhy wo b mei khud sy pka k khati agr normal hoti
I have an advise for Any mom to be here, I'm 21 yrs old and i gave birth to my first baby(girl) naturally some 2 months ago, allhamdullilah i had a 6 hours labor which was miraculous, when i was 39weeks i was do e being pregnant and tried an ancient totka after a lot of research, inducing labor with castor oil, i had 60ml of castor oil in a cup of black tea and slept, when i woke up i had period like cramps, i went to my dr and she told me i was 1cm dilated and sent me back home, so at 6pm i had another cup of black tea with 60ml of castor oil, went for a 30mints walk, had a full tin of pineapple, kept myself hydrated didn't had any big meals,just fresh juices, went to sleep and at 3am my water broke and very painful contractions started, at 6am we went to the hospital and she told me i was 6cm dilated already, then my contractions started getting more painful and got them every 2 mints later, at 8:20 i was 10cm dilated and pushed for 15,20mints maybe, and my baby was delivered nearly 8:40.
Hey glad you had a good experience with natural labour .. i am so scared its my 9th month and i am already scared by hearing people’s experiences please tell me if you had stretch marks i have got severe stretch marks on my belly behind my legs how longwill it take to lighten i know they wont fade completely but atleast get light
@@khadijashah9378 , keep the skin moisturized. If you can Palmers cocoa butter then it’s good otherwise just keeping the skin really well moisturized helps .
@@khadijashah9378 , they will fade slowly. I did not have any . And as I grew older my weight went up and down and I got them. You cannot entirely avoid them. Once they are there you can only do so much. Consider them as God’s finger paintings as a reward for carrying a baby.
I had my delivery 15 days back , was induced. Had similar experience. But tbh, after coming out of delivery room i decided to keep the secret of that room in that room and not tell about the experience i had to everyone because if i would have seen your video before my delivery mai shyd apna BP high krke beth jati ya apni halat khouf ki wajah se khrb krleti by listening k kitna pain hota hai. My friend had her delivery 5 days after mine and she lept asking me about my exp and i told her it was all good bus thora dard hota etc etc so it gave her strength and thats what i would suggest all the ladies out there k pls pls us kamre k raaz ko usi kamre main rehne dein. If Allh hasn’t disclosed that pain or whatever to everyone, dont do it.
I am so scared of people talking about their experiences its my 9th month of pregnancy and i am already loosing it i feel like i wont be able to do it normal . Please give me some tips for 9th month
When l had my son years ago in Ittefaq hospital in Lahore l had an amazing gynaecologist. She had studied abroad and we had already discussed my birth plan and the epidural was on top of my list. Being from the UK l knew exactly what l wanted and would be needing. I beared it for as long as l possibly could and knew when it was time for intervention. A good gynaecologist will always discuss your options with you.
@@rafiasaad8530 Dr Salma Safraz. She was a Senior in her department when she was in Ittefaq but that was a long time ago. She must be at least in her 60s/70s now. But any good Gynaecologist will be thorough and ahead in their field. You require someone who gets to know you and your concerns personally and will offer guidance accordingly. Best of luck to those who are going through pregnancy and birth. It may seem daunting but at least we have the benefits of hospital care and pain relief. When l hear about how my maid came home from work to give birth to her fourth baby all on her own and having had all her children at home l look at her with admiration
Anushae you took me back to my labour experience .. i went for c section because my labour did not progress.and i was like i cant be able to go through labour pains anymore.they are most intense pains a human body can have.bt you are so brave.. hats off to all the momies in the world.✨️ Childbirth is so much difficult. May you be blessed with good health nd speedy recovery💟
I had two normal deliveries without any epidural. My son was born naturally with labour pains and it was quick like it was my first baby but my labour was only 2 hours long. But in my second pregnancy with gestational diabetes my doc induced me at 37 weeks and that was painful but i had no contractions with 3 cm dilatation so my doctor had to burst my water bag and then the pain got started. I delivered my baby girl within 20 mins. Alhamdulillah 💖💖 she's 3 weeks old now and I'm still recovering from the episiotomy my doctor performed on me. Btw they were giving an episiotomy to everyone there in labor room at aghakhan.
@@khadijashah9378 bas himmat se kam lain. Allah ka nam lain us time or c section k baray me nhee sochen yehe sochen k mein krluge or confident rahain k apki normal delivery he hogi.
@@syedanoor2881 acha me samjhi ye jayenge h nahe inner thighs me bhi hn stretch marks and around my belly buhath hi wehshath hothi hai khud ko dekh k meri skin bhi buhath kharab hui hai neck ajeeb se dark hogaye hai
Mera 1 month phle c section hua hai and alhumdullilah next day he walk krhi thi and 1 week mai mera stitches ka pain bhi kafi bhtr hogaya tha sb kam krne lagi thi but 4,5 days bht tough thay ksi k sahare k begair bed se uthna azab hojata tha🥲🥲 c section mai jitna zyada active rhte hain utni jaldi stitches heal hote hain or jitna bed rest krte hain utna time lagta hai alhumdullilah i stayed active after my c section and now my stitches are completely healed ❤️
I delivered my baby girl naturally through induction at 41+2 days without any sort of pain relief. And it was an extremely painful experience but definitely worth the pain when i saw her for the first time.
@Laiba plz help me out. I am 39 week and 6 day now and my EDD is 20 November 2021 but I am only one centimeter dilated and my Dr wants to induce labor on 21 November 2021. What should I do now? Should I wait for the labor pain or go for induction?
@ Laiba Meri Dr ne mjhy Monday ko phr visit k liye bulaya h for CTG. She said if everything will be fine then she will wait for 4 or 5 days. I really wish k natural pain khud aa jayen ameen. I am doing yoga for inducing labor and I lost my mucus plug today. Hope so that labor start on its own.
@@yasminbasit6867 inshallah everything will be smooth. Do walk as much as you can.. also take warm milk with desi ghee in it right after your walk or yoga session.
At 6 cm (after 12 hours) i was begging for a c section.. . Thank god i got one. My back doesnt hurt at all and i ll never try for a vaginal delivery for any of my next baby.. it felt like i am dying with every contraction. After my c section i was moving about on second day. I felt so better. How ever i did take a lot of supplements and yakhni and keema. C section is fine vaginal birth is hell.. too too painful. It took me 12 hours to only get to 6cm.. also the worst is when the dr inserts her hand to see how much u have dilated.. tahts an other kind of pain.. and then getting induced .. salute to all The women who did it without epidurals and anaesthesia.
Ye kam bagher takleef k ho nahi skta normal or c sec ye kam aasan nahi hy still feel the pain after listening to this but so greatful to have been thru this alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah. Allah ye khushi sb ko ata frmain aur sb bachon ko Allah apny hifz o amaan me rakhen maa baap k saaye taly jawan kren aur maa baap ko apni aulad ki dheron khushyan dekhna naseeb frmain aameen.
I'm 8 cm dilated in unmediated labour it's take only 2 hours but when I'm 8 cm dilated then they take me for emergency c section because of baby heartbeat issue so Jo dard naseeb mae ho WO milta he hy ..I'm living in Dubai or Mae delivery k leye Pakistan ni ayi Ku k waha c section hoty hy zada PR naseeb Mae tha to ho gaya... But I'm happy k me and my baby is healthy alhamdulillah
I am going to experience that pain after 2 months.. And I can't imagine how painful it is.. But I had believe on ALLAH that he helps and make it easy for me.. IN SHA ALLAH
C-Section is not an easy way out, it is one of the major surgeries and the recovery period is also very long. One should never compare Natural delivery or C-section. Bringing a life in this World is not easy may it be Natural or Cesarean. I hope we can make a change in this World by being kinder.
I delivered my boy at 40+4 via c section. I was induced too. But i had no progress, my boy was floating in my belly (lol) but tbh very honestly within 2-3 weeks you can’t even recall you had a major surgery. I did hurt in first 2 weeks. Your lower abdomen hurts when you move, you’re scared if you move to your side while sleeping your stitches might open up and bleeding. But i still believe its a better option than getting stitches down there and getting all the pains. Im so paranoid about vaginal delivery
I had two cs! And i was on my feet the momment i got in the room because had nobody to get help from. Cs is not a big deal agar app body ko normal rakho gy toh. Girls bed rest itna leti hain toh body aur weak ho jati hai obviously i faced postpartum depression and anxiety but apne bachoun k liye normal hona para tha i cooked and cleaned yani jese operation hoa he nahi hai. Ab proud feel hota hai k meri body mei itni himmat taqat thi to stand up right away! al-Ḥamdu’lillāh Shortly it just depends on the mother!! Noone else even husbands bhi nahi kam atay 😅 i mean jab tak maa nahi chahe gi she can get back normal phir chahe jese bhi baby deliver ho unless YES agar health wise koi aur issues hain toh
Its entonox gas. Basically its just make you a bit unconscious so u don’t feel pain. It helps initially but in active labour it doesn’t help much. I had my 2 kids just with this gas and it basically stored my energy for main thing
I got episiotomy stitches 10 months ago and I think I still feel some change and light pinch sometime Its not a real pain its like a memory Our bodies are amazing 🙂
i also had my csection in 2022,,, c-section is one of the worst thing ever one experience....i got my water bag leaked on 36 week, i had intensed pain and dilated 10cm,, my baby head was also showing,,but my doctor was very very very pathetic,, she did not even help me to deliver naturally, i was just begging to her to have my normal delivery, but she dramatically made my family panic and took me to operation theatre... i will never ever forget this. my Doc was Doctor Attiya from university of lahore teaching hospital. i request you guys pls don't visit her, she is only money making doctor, she has no concern with the patient but she only need money... c section is worsttttttttttt,, you are not even able to feed your child... due to pressure i got my stitches open after a month... 😢😢😢 then again i rushed to the hospital and had further 25 days treatment to heal my stitches...
I had a C section two times and I breastfed both my babies. It's hard but not impossible. And in many cases C section is the life saving procedure for the baby so please don't scare people.
I got induced too at 34 weeks 6th day!!!! And I was 0 cm dilated at that time. And yessss!!! That ball sort of thing was terrible!!! I was in active labour pain for 22 hours long!!!! Contraction through inductions are more terrible than natural ones!!! It is still a nightmare for me! Those 22 labour hours were terrible trust me!!!! WOMEN ARE HEROES!
Nobody explains like u did . Thank you so much. Normal delivery is the best. Kindly explain more about pushing in normal delivery for all the new mommies to be 🥺 I'm having my delivery in April.
What a coincidence, I got married after a month of your wedding and also had first baby on 22nd august from same Dr 😀 I had c-section as I was 39 weeks and 4 days and my water broke unfortunately it was an emergency. Aur yar recovery c me bhi hojati h agar apne nutritional cheze khai h, I was doing house chores after 6 7 days of my operation and was perfectly fine after 1 month
I had a HBAC 1.st planned C-section: like u said its an exam without prep which gave me ppd for months or may be an year or more 2. Home birth: took child birth education, prepared well, and viola, the best experience ever.
I had my son a month back.. i can feel this i was in labor for like 39 hours.. was 8cm dilated naturally.. bearing pains with all my heart k nhi normal he honi chahia.. but it was a really long labor.. and baby already passed meconium.. n having caput succedaneum.. so ended up with csec.. it was actually the horrible experience..
Thanks Allah Mana itni pain nhi bardasht ki even on my check up when doctor told me ap ki labour pain start hn it's time of delivery aur ma haran thi mujhy q nhi release hua even mama dant rahi thi dant nadar kr nazar lagh jay ghi
I had a delivery story same as yours … but I didn’t take epidural … the best part is you didn’t remember the pain once the baby out .. my episiotomy took approximately 2 month 10 to 12 stiches i had .. .. happy motherhood ❤
Okay. Normally, I never comment on anything online as such but watching this video I just had to say this because of the way this video is done and also, knowing the kind of mentality and culture we live in, I really wanted to get a few thoughts out here. It's not me nitpicking but correcting some really misleading info, facts and perspective. 1) I think you meant a Cannula and not a catheter. Cannula is inserted into a vein in your hand or arm. It's where you receive all your intravenous fluids like your antibiotics, your drips etc etc. 2) It's Episiotomy and it's done to avoid natural excessive tearing of your muscles during vaginal delivery. Nothing to do with the use of forceps or vaccum. It's standard practice and will be done no matter what kind of situation you are going through in your natural delivery process. 3) You have spoken about method of delivery as if it's a choice that everyone just automatically has. Which is not true. No one can fully control how their child comes into the world. One can plan all they want but the situation at hand ends up telling us what's best for the child and the mother in that moment. Sometimes, it's a choice but even then it's not like a personal preference taken so lightly like "oh I feel like I want to deliver this way so I'll do that". I don't think you might have meant it that way. But it came off like that. 4) Please Please PLEASE STOP making a joke out of C-section. I don't know what you were trying to do or say by repeatedly saying C-section ho sakta hai. Whether you mean to or not. I've heard these phrase far too many times. Stop treating C-section like it's a trip to candy land. God! As someone who delivered via C-section, let me tell you this. It was the most scary procedure of my entire life and I've had many surgical procedures done on me from ages 25 days old - 20 yrs old. Stop treating C-section like an easy way out. Mazak nahi hai to have 7 layers of your body cut open and being awake during that procedure. To hear and smell everything. Longest 45 mins of my life. Both deliveries are extremely difficult and painful in their own way. Stop with the comparisons! Please use your platform and your influence to inform better and educate better. Better than this video did. Again, whether you intended it or not I found these points to be really really bothersome. Please discuss such topics with great care and consideration. Your info on epidural was also a little bit so-so.
I delivered my first baby 4 months ago and its a c section and i only stay one night in hospital next day I'm walking they examine me and i just leave the hospital and i literary doing everything by myself easily c section in modern world is so easy to deliver.. 💟
Oh my god you just took me back to my labor experience uffff it was so painful and exactly the story is same but I delivered my bay without epidural because I wasn't able to tell my doctor that what I need at that time. And my delivery process was 18 hours long and o my god it was just so so so terrible but the pain worth. I had a son and he is 10 months old ALHUMDULIHA
Ufff I can totally feel the pain ....same my story....same aik aik chez mere jaisi ...bus meny epidural ni liya par sub wesa he jaisa apka ....same himmat same cm story....sad ..
I live in Belgium n I am five month’s pregnent And there are 99% chances of normal delivery. This is my first child. And my husband is in pakistan And after watching this video I am litrly shvrng .I don't know wht gonna happen. Please pray for me 🥹
You can do it ! Call your husband over . And even if he cannot be there ( God Forbid) you can do it. Women are strong and our strength comes in times when you think you cannot do it.
Listen surah rehman every day and give sadqa every month or ayat kareema ziada perhain. I gave birth 3 month ego . It was very smooth delivery without epidural. Mery tu pait main 1% bi pain nhi hua. Sirf back pain hui thi. Mera bi first baby tha or bohat dari hui thi. Alhamdulilah jitna suna tha ky itna dard hota ye wo mery sath aisa nhi hua. Jitna ho skty chalty phirty Allah ka ziker Kero .
@@falaknazvoiceshayari8127 you had normal delivery? I'm also scared. It's my first time. Having my baby in April inshallah. I will listen to surah Rehman now inshallah
apne bht acha kiya himat kar k normal delivery krwa k i experience c section 3 times its not good backpain apka rehta he hai apne bhy acha kiya research ki n phir acha decision liya 👍
Yr back pain ka is se koi taaluq nahi wo sb ko hi hota he normal walon ko bi bt ye jo takleef he 12 ghanty bi lg jaty hain ye kise soorat bardasht nahi hoti
Experience of both deliveries i always suggest to not go for planned cs until baby or mum is in higher risk. Normal or natural way of birth is always the best
I had twins on 36 weeks via c section i opted for that. I recovered very soon maasha allah.8 felt free and out of this world how 2 weeks flew by didnt know.ufffff my pregnancy was tiring and tearing for me
You dont feel any pain after delivery, even stitches don't feel! I deleverd my baby 3 months and it was normal, I too wanted to take c secton mid but I push harder and she came out in 5 minutes because I dint take epidural and it was easy to push because when that pain comes you push sooooo hard!!! Touba goosebumps! Now baby care is 4th trimester
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is so important to share how strong we women are! On another note, here in the US, docs don't give anything to eat or drink after being induced to prevent vomiting or other gastric issues. I was given epidural then I was induced with my first (ended up having a c-section!), it's definitely an experience! So, I have had 2 c-sections and I was up and about within 2-3 weeks. My gyno is a surgeon, and the cut was very precise. My stitches came out in 5 days. He had me do sit-ups after 2 weeks to be able to strengthen the internal muscles. I was active with my 2nd baby in less than 2 weeks. C-section was the best!
yup had 1 emergency and second elective c section .it was painful for the first week but I wanted to avoid post vaginl delivery changes to my body so choose to have an elective one the second time .no regrets
I had a c section for my son and normal delivery for my daughter . C section is the best I feel. After 3 days you are good. It takes over two weeks to heal after normal delivery. And all my pelvic prolapse issues started after normal delivery.
It’s my 2nd trimester and omg I was crying while watching her video thinking how I will going to manage 😭😭😭😭😭 plz pray may Allah help me through out this labor time and pregnancy journey
Seriously Natural delivery is veryyyy pqinful..Uff those hours are sooo painful .Bnda kehta hai k ab to agla bacha 6 sal baad ho ga aur wo b C section sy😂
Its synto Not antibiotic Antibiotic have no role in inducing labour Secondly epidural will cause you pin prick pain, You wont feel pain of catheter going in, Needle is not inserted in epidural space
OH MY GOD...no doubt that's why Allah pk has given such a high status to mothers...May Allah pk bless all mothers and make their children soothing to their eyes ameen
I had both deliveries 1st cs in 2020 nd second normal wotb episiotomy in 2022 i must say normal is blessing going into labour pain naturally is also blessing when i woke up in morning with sings of labour the feeling of happiness i even can't describe.
Omg i have literally no idea that how much a women suffers during labour After this, i really don't wanna marry like bro this is really scray!! I mean in a middle of the process you wanna end this, out of this breath taking pain, you literally have no option left..... you have to do it weather u like it or not😩 Seriously salute to all mothers❤️
Literally crying while nursing my baby..sore and cracked nipples . in your older videos you mentioned a nipple cream in a tube of violet purple color.. Please please please Reply and van you please write name of that nipple cream in Reply Or comment. If anyone else knows please help and write it down ....It will be really hslpful..
I Had Cesarean Delivery 7 months ago . It was the best best best decision of my life❤❤ Because when the process of natural or vaginal delivery starts Worst worst pain any human can feel... Soo within 3 hours of Labor I decided that the vaginal delivery is not my cup of tea atleast.. Nd went straight for the Cesarean delivery nd volla baby was out in no time. Few weeks of rest few months of medicine nd you're fine ❤❤❤❤
Oh my God, your birth story made me all teary.🥲 Masha'Allah Masha'Allah, may Allah pak grant your baby with blessed and healthy long life ameen.❤️ Giving birth naturally is truly a blessing I would say. I'm carrying my second baby at the moment and this video reminded me of so many events that took place when I had my first one. I wanted to have him naturally but couldn't. Now seeing alot of girls giving birth naturally having the same height as mine, it pains me that my gyno didn't let me even try to have mine naturally, because she was convinced I couldn't. But let me tell, I WAS dilated and having contractions naturally so I'm pretty sure I could've done it too. Anyway lots and lots of prayer for you and your family.💕 P.S: And to all the girls reading this, my advice is to please choose your gynecologist wisely and ALWAYS Have second opinion, if you're not satisfied with the advice your current doctor is giving you.
Y u dint opt fr epidural earlier??i took epidural at 3cm n trust me aftr that i dint even feel a pinch of pain..cnt thank Allah enough fr this had a painless delivery experience Alhamdulillah
I am 22 and i had c section after having labour pains because of some complications.. i was able to walk and takecare of my baby right after my operation..laughing and coughing sneezing was a challenge for me and i was not able to stand straight at first bending while walking ir standing but u have to stand straight gradually and should start walking.. my process was not that painful i can say maybe i have pain tolerance .. but yeah don't be scared.. once u see ur baby's face u forget everything...
C-section is Bad If I am saying it's bad it's freaking bad. The pain is like too much and it took too much time to heal. It's been 2 years since my ist C-section but now I can still feel pain in my scar and it's bad. Everyone just pray for me so that I can have normal delivery in my second baby.
Mery 2 c section howe ist placenta previa ta is lye r sec p placena fundo posterior ta likn unho n koi baby rizk ni lia r surgery kr di . R m bht week hogai after surgery kash mery b normal del hoti but shukr alhaum dillahAllah i have 2 daughters
I am here to tell my C section experience so i give birth on 17 oct 2022 and today the date is 15 nov 2022 and my age is 21 so firstly i want to tell that i am a person who can't have a infection even i am so scared of needles and back then thinking to have an operation is like i am going to die honestly but i am shocked after having C section that i recover in just 4 days meaning i was on my feets next day of my operation and after one week Alhmdulillah i was completely set my stitches was pretty much hield and its not a month even and i am completely fine even i don't feel like i have a C section so my experience was so good and i totally recommend C section and one thing is important if your doctor is good and if she diagnose you good medicines then you will be fan of C section and you will always choose C section and if i can give birth through C section then every girl can give birth so don't be scared of C section it is much much better then a normal delivery trust me
IN MY FIRST pregnancy water bag leaked but no pain dr. Gave me artificial pains time duration of whole period was 7pm to 1.55am ...... normal delivery is so difficult facing a lot pain 😪...
Congratulations on your bubba! Love the video, it really is a guide for those who will be going through pregnancy and labor. I'm happy to see that you're comfortable to use the correct terminology - in your hospital bag video, you wouldn't say vagina and now this video 🙌🏽
First delivery is the most painful experience always bc apki body tight hoti hai aur time leti hai khulney me and then bht ziada gaps se aagey babies na ho to itna time nhi lagta,my four kids r by natural delivery and the fifth one with c section bc it was after 9 years gap and doctor told me k itna hi time lagega jaise k first time ap baby deliver kerrahey hon,meri first baby girl after 24 hours paida hui induction k aur it was really really most painful experience ever 😢
Past 8 months go . I delivered a baby girl . I also ahad an epidural . Which is good for me but after delivery i had a spinal headach which is very very bad for me . I did not saw anything when pain started ufff . Very very tough for me qnd baby . But now Allhamdulillah im good Dr take me a advise you only take coffe . When i take caffen i feel.relax and i had heavy dosage of medicine.. btw many congratulations on your baby ..
Indeed 1st time pregnancy and delivery both are life changing experiences, I was also induced upon completion on 40 weeks I did get minor contractions after induction but was not dilated at all. After being induced for 12 hours and no dilation the doctors decided to operate and did the C Section . I was admitted at 5:30 am and the baby was born at 8:35 via c section. I was in labor ward all alone seeing other ladies screaming and crying. Thanx for sharing your experience. C section does heal a bit late but it's not like you will be on bed for that long. I was on my feet with in 12 hours trying to walk inside the room and on the 3rd day I went to the car bt walking. You need to be careful only. Although C section is a major surgery and the scar and minor pain or itchiness stays for long but it's nothing when you are blessed with babies. Allah paak sabko olad jesi nemat se nawazey. I have 3 kids all with C Section. Alhamdulillah
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A few things as I gave birth a few months ago. The med they give to increase the dilation is “Pitocin” the pain reliever gas is Nitrous Oxide also known as The Laughing Gas. N also epidural is not inserted in the spin it is inserted in the gaps between the vertebrae.
Watching this video as a 22 yr old boy! My respect for every woman has gone gazillion times up!! Congratulations sis 😇
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Awwww, watching as a 22 year old girl was very courageous and man how much a pain women goes through in delivering a baby, Salute to all the mom's. It's not at all easy.
Many many congratulations 🎊 and love your vlogs, have been following them since a while.
I was on my last day of 39 week that is 40 week i started with the labour pain in the night 8.30 it was really minute like a cramp i went to the hospital the doctor checked she said u can go back and come tomorrow but I decided to stay at the hospital so gradually the pain increased by time i was with video call with my husband as he was out of country.... By the that didn't help no motivation u will get as u are too busy handling the pain .... The entire night i was crying and screaming because the intensity of pain was quite a alot i mean alot .... Unimaginable i was just complaining that no one told me the real truth of labour and all and was screaming ki c section karwa do doctor ko bula do and all i used to literally go near the wall face wall ko laga ke i was crying because walking really helps when the contractions come by the time it was 5 in the morning i literally gave up .... I was saying stuff like i don't want to live this is very painful nd all nd i was 6 cm in .... My sis my brother my dad came in the morning and was helping me walk as it was giving me little relief so when the doctor came around 8 i remember she checked me i Guess my water broke nd was bleeding.... She checked i was around 7-8 cm in .... But the baby heart rate was dropping she checked with different instruments to check.... But the heart rate was dropping.... If i wanted for an hour i would have normal delivery.... But Allah ki marzi the OT was prepped for someone else delivery but i was taken immediately.... The doctor held me nd took asap Didn't even gave me time to change my clothes as it had blood stains.... Alhamdulillah by 8.45 my baby girl was born i was more eager to know the baby eye colour as my husband has green eyes my mother too so it's in the blood i anticipated for blue or green eyes but they wer black i was happy to see my baby healthy... Alhamdulillah se i was able to walk on my feet next day but let me tell u the healing process is just so daaaaam tough.... If u sit u can't get up .... I used to take literally half an hour to just rotate nd stand up.... That really broke me i used to literally cry when i was soo helpless nd in pain .... ... Alhamdulillah my baby is good she is 6 months now i have very bad shoulder nd lower back pain i hope it goes away soon....
Brave hatsoff👍
Proud mam
I had the similar story as your. I was screaming with pain. The pain was so intense that I almost gave up in the labour room and saying k mera c sec krdo I cant bear the pain. They weren’t listening me as the ctg was going smooth. But suddenly it starts to drop and I had an emergency c sec. I was 6cm that time but Allah knows the best.
You're mashAllah very strong.
@@iqrajabbar3105 i am so scared of normal delivery abhi se please give me some tips for 9th month and how long do the stretch marks stay ? Kab thak ye light joyenge ?
Am in my 2nd trimester... mje tu abhi say bhot dar lag rha ha please pray for me.❤
I had experience of both Natural and C-section delivery, i personally think natural delivery is easy. No doubt pain intensity is very high and it ended when baby is delivered, but in C-section everything is normal when baby is delivered but pain starts after the delivery and it takes months to heal. The worst feeling is depending on others . In Ceasern it is even hard to feed the baby. I think 1 day of pain is better than 2 months of pain.
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Kiya yaad krwa dya abi 1 month pahly mera c sec hoa mashaAllah baby boy h mera . pr yakin kren after c section ap khud sy beth b ni skty baby ko feed krany ka bht dil krta h pr ap ni kr paty . meny bht himmt ki khud sy bethi 2nd din hi walk bina Sahary k khud sy ki baby ko feed b pori rat beth beth krawaya h day 2 sy hi hospital mei hi . mny apni trf sy pori koshish ki k mei ksi py depend na krun 😰 q k mjy acha ni ta lgta k hubby k ilawa koi or mri mother ya mother in law mjy sahara den onki is age mei onko mry kam krny pren mjy acha ni ta lgta. mei khud sy sb krti pain bht hota or sb sy chup k roti rhti q k pain stiches mei bht hota ta. Even k hubby ko b mny disturb ni kiya. Bs yi hasrt rh gyi k kash normal delivery hoti srf aik Khana jo mjy dosry pka k dety rhy wo b mei khud sy pka k khati agr normal hoti
@@isaMusa2023 i hope mera bhi normal ho Allah himmath dy sab ko stretch marks ! How long do they take to fade away ?
I have an advise for Any mom to be here, I'm 21 yrs old and i gave birth to my first baby(girl) naturally some 2 months ago, allhamdullilah i had a 6 hours labor which was miraculous, when i was 39weeks i was do e being pregnant and tried an ancient totka after a lot of research, inducing labor with castor oil, i had 60ml of castor oil in a cup of black tea and slept, when i woke up i had period like cramps, i went to my dr and she told me i was 1cm dilated and sent me back home, so at 6pm i had another cup of black tea with 60ml of castor oil, went for a 30mints walk, had a full tin of pineapple, kept myself hydrated didn't had any big meals,just fresh juices, went to sleep and at 3am my water broke and very painful contractions started, at 6am we went to the hospital and she told me i was 6cm dilated already, then my contractions started getting more painful and got them every 2 mints later, at 8:20 i was 10cm dilated and pushed for 15,20mints maybe, and my baby was delivered nearly 8:40.
Actually castor oil can cause diarrhea . So it’s really not safe. Yes it causes contractions but in the wrong place🤣.
Hey glad you had a good experience with natural labour .. i am so scared its my 9th month and i am already scared by hearing people’s experiences please tell me if you had stretch marks i have got severe stretch marks on my belly behind my legs how longwill it take to lighten i know they wont fade completely but atleast get light
@@khadijashah9378 , keep the skin moisturized. If you can Palmers cocoa butter then it’s good otherwise just keeping the skin really well moisturized helps .
@@marvic76 ihave been doing that all my pregnancy still i got them now i just hope they lighten after delivery
@@khadijashah9378 , they will fade slowly. I did not have any . And as I grew older my weight went up and down and I got them. You cannot entirely avoid them. Once they are there you can only do so much. Consider them as God’s finger paintings as a reward for carrying a baby.
I had my delivery 15 days back , was induced. Had similar experience. But tbh, after coming out of delivery room i decided to keep the secret of that room in that room and not tell about the experience i had to everyone because if i would have seen your video before my delivery mai shyd apna BP high krke beth jati ya apni halat khouf ki wajah se khrb krleti by listening k kitna pain hota hai.
My friend had her delivery 5 days after mine and she lept asking me about my exp and i told her it was all good bus thora dard hota etc etc so it gave her strength and thats what i would suggest all the ladies out there k pls pls us kamre k raaz ko usi kamre main rehne dein. If Allh hasn’t disclosed that pain or whatever to everyone, dont do it.
I am so scared of people talking about their experiences its my 9th month of pregnancy and i am already loosing it i feel like i wont be able to do it normal . Please give me some tips for 9th month
And the stretch marks how long will it take to lighten after delivery
When l had my son years ago in Ittefaq hospital in Lahore l had an amazing gynaecologist. She had studied abroad and we had already discussed my birth plan and the epidural was on top of my list. Being from the UK l knew exactly what l wanted and would be needing. I beared it for as long as l possibly could and knew when it was time for intervention. A good gynaecologist will always discuss your options with you.
Her name?
@@tabindaumair9914 Dr Salma Safraz....she must be in her 60s now
Can you please name her ?
@@rafiasaad8530 Dr Salma Safraz. She was a Senior in her department when she was in Ittefaq but that was a long time ago. She must be at least in her 60s/70s now. But any good Gynaecologist will be thorough and ahead in their field. You require someone who gets to know you and your concerns personally and will offer guidance accordingly. Best of luck to those who are going through pregnancy and birth. It may seem daunting but at least we have the benefits of hospital care and pain relief. When l hear about how my maid came home from work to give birth to her fourth baby all on her own and having had all her children at home l look at her with admiration
Here in US , during the induction my doc said , take the Epidural , you will be much relieved. Best decision ever as I ended up in c-section.
Anushae you took me back to my labour experience .. i went for c section because my labour did not progress.and i was like i cant be able to go through labour pains anymore.they are most intense pains a human body can have.bt you are so brave.. hats off to all the momies in the world.✨️
Childbirth is so much difficult.
May you be blessed with good health nd speedy recovery💟
All women deserve lots of respect and care for giving birth🎉
I delivered my second one on 26th October without epidural. My labour was also induced and I delivered within 2 hours of induction Alhamdulilah
Oh wow🎉
@@AnushaeSays don’t get impressed as it was my second one 🥳🥰
In 2 hour hoe
@Javaria Yousuf At which week you induce labor?
@@yasminbasit6867 how long does it take for stretch marks to heal or lighten ?
Sb wifies yehi chahti hain k un k husband sth jayen un k sth or feel kry pain ko .....
I had two normal deliveries without any epidural. My son was born naturally with labour pains and it was quick like it was my first baby but my labour was only 2 hours long. But in my second pregnancy with gestational diabetes my doc induced me at 37 weeks and that was painful but i had no contractions with 3 cm dilatation so my doctor had to burst my water bag and then the pain got started. I delivered my baby girl within 20 mins. Alhamdulillah 💖💖 she's 3 weeks old now and I'm still recovering from the episiotomy my doctor performed on me. Btw they were giving an episiotomy to everyone there in labor room at aghakhan.
Please tell me something about stretch marks how long does it take to lighten after delivery?
And give me some tips for easy labour and normal delivery itsmy 9th montj
@@khadijashah9378 kuch time lagta hy theek honay mein jb tak apke organs jaga par ajaen or uterus bhe. Pait ko bhe andar janay me kuch months lagengy.
@@khadijashah9378 bas himmat se kam lain. Allah ka nam lain us time or c section k baray me nhee sochen yehe sochen k mein krluge or confident rahain k apki normal delivery he hogi.
@@syedanoor2881 acha me samjhi ye jayenge h nahe inner thighs me bhi hn stretch marks and around my belly buhath hi wehshath hothi hai khud ko dekh k meri skin bhi buhath kharab hui hai neck ajeeb se dark hogaye hai
Mera 1 month phle c section hua hai and alhumdullilah next day he walk krhi thi and 1 week mai mera stitches ka pain bhi kafi bhtr hogaya tha sb kam krne lagi thi but 4,5 days bht tough thay ksi k sahare k begair bed se uthna azab hojata tha🥲🥲
c section mai jitna zyada active rhte hain utni jaldi stitches heal hote hain or jitna bed rest krte hain utna time lagta hai alhumdullilah i stayed active after my c section and now my stitches are completely healed ❤️
I delivered my baby girl naturally through induction at 41+2 days without any sort of pain relief.
And it was an extremely painful experience but definitely worth the pain when i saw her for the first time.
@Laiba plz help me out. I am 39 week and 6 day now and my EDD is 20 November 2021 but I am only one centimeter dilated and my Dr wants to induce labor on 21 November 2021. What should I do now? Should I wait for the labor pain or go for induction?
@@yasminbasit6867 naturally labor pain aa jya zyda behtr hn, induction is too painful..
@@yasminbasit6867 In my case i waited for the natural pains but unfortunately ended up with induction due to increasing weight of my baby.
@ Laiba Meri Dr ne mjhy Monday ko phr visit k liye bulaya h for CTG. She said if everything will be fine then she will wait for 4 or 5 days. I really wish k natural pain khud aa jayen ameen. I am doing yoga for inducing labor and I lost my mucus plug today. Hope so that labor start on its own.
@@yasminbasit6867 inshallah everything will be smooth. Do walk as much as you can.. also take warm milk with desi ghee in it right after your walk or yoga session.
At 6 cm (after 12 hours) i was begging for a c section.. . Thank god i got one. My back doesnt hurt at all and i ll never try for a vaginal delivery for any of my next baby.. it felt like i am dying with every contraction.
After my c section i was moving about on second day. I felt so better. How ever i did take a lot of supplements and yakhni and keema.
C section is fine vaginal birth is hell.. too too painful. It took me 12 hours to only get to 6cm.. also the worst is when the dr inserts her hand to see how much u have dilated.. tahts an other kind of pain.. and then getting induced .. salute to all
The women who did it without epidurals and anaesthesia.
Ye kam bagher takleef k ho nahi skta normal or c sec ye kam aasan nahi hy still feel the pain after listening to this but so greatful to have been thru this alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah. Allah ye khushi sb ko ata frmain aur sb bachon ko Allah apny hifz o amaan me rakhen maa baap k saaye taly jawan kren aur maa baap ko apni aulad ki dheron khushyan dekhna naseeb frmain aameen.
Ameeeeeen🤲❤️
I'm 8 cm dilated in unmediated labour it's take only 2 hours but when I'm 8 cm dilated then they take me for emergency c section because of baby heartbeat issue so Jo dard naseeb mae ho WO milta he hy ..I'm living in Dubai or Mae delivery k leye Pakistan ni ayi Ku k waha c section hoty hy zada PR naseeb Mae tha to ho gaya... But I'm happy k me and my baby is healthy alhamdulillah
I am going to experience that pain after 2 months.. And I can't imagine how painful it is.. But I had believe on ALLAH that he helps and make it easy for me.. IN SHA ALLAH
C-Section is not an easy way out, it is one of the major surgeries and the recovery period is also very long.
One should never compare Natural delivery or C-section.
Bringing a life in this World is not easy may it be Natural or Cesarean.
I hope we can make a change in this World by being kinder.
I'm 37weeks pregnant and your story already frightened me. 😥😥😥
How was your experience
I delivered my boy at 40+4 via c section. I was induced too. But i had no progress, my boy was floating in my belly (lol) but tbh very honestly within 2-3 weeks you can’t even recall you had a major surgery. I did hurt in first 2 weeks. Your lower abdomen hurts when you move, you’re scared if you move to your side while sleeping your stitches might open up and bleeding. But i still believe its a better option than getting stitches down there and getting all the pains. Im so paranoid about vaginal delivery
I had two cs! And i was on my feet the momment i got in the room because had nobody to get help from. Cs is not a big deal agar app body ko normal rakho gy toh. Girls bed rest itna leti hain toh body aur weak ho jati hai obviously i faced postpartum depression and anxiety but apne bachoun k liye normal hona para tha i cooked and cleaned yani jese operation hoa he nahi hai. Ab proud feel hota hai k meri body mei itni himmat taqat thi to stand up right away! al-Ḥamdu’lillāh
Shortly it just depends on the mother!! Noone else even husbands bhi nahi kam atay 😅 i mean jab tak maa nahi chahe gi she can get back normal phir chahe jese bhi baby deliver ho unless YES agar health wise koi aur issues hain toh
You narrate the story so beautifully it felt like I was there visually experiencing it all.
I had my c section last month it was easy to bear more than normal delivery Alhumdulillah
Seriously?? Is c.sec easy 😢??
Plzz share your experience
Its entonox gas. Basically its just make you a bit unconscious so u don’t feel pain. It helps initially but in active labour it doesn’t help much. I had my 2 kids just with this gas and it basically stored my energy for main thing
I got episiotomy stitches 10 months ago and I think I still feel some change and light pinch sometime
Its not a real pain its like a memory
Our bodies are amazing 🙂
Yes Anushae I was one of the people waiting on this video of yours! So glad you took your time and made this. Lots of love to you and the baby❤
i also had my csection in 2022,,, c-section is one of the worst thing ever one experience....i got my water bag leaked on 36 week, i had intensed pain and dilated 10cm,, my baby head was also showing,,but my doctor was very very very pathetic,, she did not even help me to deliver naturally, i was just begging to her to have my normal delivery, but she dramatically made my family panic and took me to operation theatre...
i will never ever forget this. my Doc was Doctor Attiya from university of lahore teaching hospital. i request you guys pls don't visit her, she is only money making doctor, she has no concern with the patient but she only need money...
c section is worsttttttttttt,, you are not even able to feed your child... due to pressure i got my stitches open after a month... 😢😢😢 then again i rushed to the hospital and had further 25 days treatment to heal my stitches...
I had a C section two times and I breastfed both my babies. It's hard but not impossible. And in many cases C section is the life saving procedure for the baby so please don't scare people.
I am 37+5 with my first baby and seriously shivering after listening your birth story may God bless all the new moms
Allah will help you . Everything will be okay. Be strong. Inshallah
Hey there, i'm also 37 weeks 3 days..... what are you planning for? Normal delivery or c sec or epidural....
@@funwithIsaac I am simply want a normal delivery without any tear and episiotomy in Sha Allah ♥️
Dats great but are you doing anything for normal delivery?
don't shiver.. bs ap ny strong rhna ha when u go to labor ..
They give u pitocin which is not antibiotic but it does speeds up the labour process … Pitocin is basically act kind of artificial oxytocin.
I got induced too at 34 weeks 6th day!!!! And I was 0 cm dilated at that time. And yessss!!! That ball sort of thing was terrible!!! I was in active labour pain for 22 hours long!!!! Contraction through inductions are more terrible than natural ones!!! It is still a nightmare for me! Those 22 labour hours were terrible trust me!!!! WOMEN ARE HEROES!
Hats off
Nobody explains like u did . Thank you so much. Normal delivery is the best. Kindly explain more about pushing in normal delivery for all the new mommies to be 🥺 I'm having my delivery in April.
Mine due date is in april too 😒
What a coincidence, I got married after a month of your wedding and also had first baby on 22nd august from same Dr 😀 I had c-section as I was 39 weeks and 4 days and my water broke unfortunately it was an emergency.
Aur yar recovery c me bhi hojati h agar apne nutritional cheze khai h, I was doing house chores after 6 7 days of my operation and was perfectly fine after 1 month
How’s your experience going on with c section
I’m delivering my baby in few months and people scaring me
I had a HBAC
1.st planned C-section: like u said its an exam without prep which gave me ppd for months or may be an year or more
2. Home birth: took child birth education, prepared well, and viola, the best experience ever.
congradulations for baby boy mashaaAllah
hope we all see him soon
Viginal delivery is worst pain ever ..I can totally relate it..
I had my son a month back.. i can feel this i was in labor for like 39 hours.. was 8cm dilated naturally.. bearing pains with all my heart k nhi normal he honi chahia.. but it was a really long labor.. and baby already passed meconium.. n having caput succedaneum.. so ended up with csec.. it was actually the horrible experience..
Thanks Allah Mana itni pain nhi bardasht ki even on my check up when doctor told me ap ki labour pain start hn it's time of delivery aur ma haran thi mujhy q nhi release hua even mama dant rahi thi dant nadar kr nazar lagh jay ghi
I had a delivery story same as yours … but I didn’t take epidural … the best part is you didn’t remember the pain once the baby out .. my episiotomy took approximately 2 month 10 to 12 stiches i had .. .. happy motherhood ❤
You did nt take any medicated delivery?
Okay. Normally, I never comment on anything online as such but watching this video I just had to say this because of the way this video is done and also, knowing the kind of mentality and culture we live in, I really wanted to get a few thoughts out here. It's not me nitpicking but correcting some really misleading info, facts and perspective.
1) I think you meant a Cannula and not a catheter. Cannula is inserted into a vein in your hand or arm. It's where you receive all your intravenous fluids like your antibiotics, your drips etc etc.
2) It's Episiotomy and it's done to avoid natural excessive tearing of your muscles during vaginal delivery. Nothing to do with the use of forceps or vaccum. It's standard practice and will be done no matter what kind of situation you are going through in your natural delivery process.
3) You have spoken about method of delivery as if it's a choice that everyone just automatically has. Which is not true. No one can fully control how their child comes into the world. One can plan all they want but the situation at hand ends up telling us what's best for the child and the mother in that moment. Sometimes, it's a choice but even then it's not like a personal preference taken so lightly like "oh I feel like I want to deliver this way so I'll do that". I don't think you might have meant it that way. But it came off like that.
4) Please Please PLEASE STOP making a joke out of C-section. I don't know what you were trying to do or say by repeatedly saying C-section ho sakta hai. Whether you mean to or not. I've heard these phrase far too many times. Stop treating C-section like it's a trip to candy land. God! As someone who delivered via C-section, let me tell you this. It was the most scary procedure of my entire life and I've had many surgical procedures done on me from ages 25 days old - 20 yrs old. Stop treating C-section like an easy way out. Mazak nahi hai to have 7 layers of your body cut open and being awake during that procedure. To hear and smell everything. Longest 45 mins of my life. Both deliveries are extremely difficult and painful in their own way. Stop with the comparisons! Please use your platform and your influence to inform better and educate better. Better than this video did.
Again, whether you intended it or not I found these points to be really really bothersome.
Please discuss such topics with great care and consideration. Your info on epidural was also a little bit so-so.
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Exactly
Hey i am so stressed could you please tell me how long does it take for the stretch marms to lighten or fade
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After listening ur story... I feel so blessed that I go thru normal delivery and it's so easy not like urs experience... U r so strong
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I took epidural during both my deliveries in USA and honestly I don’t regret it at all
I took epidural here in USA too for my baby and I don’t regret it at all! I was able to sleep through the pains.
@@abbmalee94 hey maleeka from where in USA ur from?
@@meeru4 I live in NY. Where are you from?
@@abbmalee94 me too
I delivered my first baby 4 months ago and its a c section and i only stay one night in hospital next day I'm walking they examine me and i just leave the hospital and i literary doing everything by myself easily c section in modern world is so easy to deliver.. 💟
In which country?
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Oh my god you just took me back to my labor experience uffff it was so painful and exactly the story is same but I delivered my bay without epidural because I wasn't able to tell my doctor that what I need at that time. And my delivery process was 18 hours long and o my god it was just so so so terrible but the pain worth. I had a son and he is 10 months old ALHUMDULIHA
Ufff I can totally feel the pain ....same my story....same aik aik chez mere jaisi ...bus meny epidural ni liya par sub wesa he jaisa apka ....same himmat same cm story....sad ..
I live in Belgium n I am five month’s pregnent And there are 99% chances of normal delivery. This is my first child. And my husband is in pakistan And after watching this video I am litrly shvrng .I don't know wht gonna happen. Please pray for me 🥹
You can do it ! Call your husband over . And even if he cannot be there ( God Forbid) you can do it. Women are strong and our strength comes in times when you think you cannot do it.
Listen surah rehman every day and give sadqa every month or ayat kareema ziada perhain. I gave birth 3 month ego . It was very smooth delivery without epidural. Mery tu pait main 1% bi pain nhi hua. Sirf back pain hui thi. Mera bi first baby tha or bohat dari hui thi. Alhamdulilah jitna suna tha ky itna dard hota ye wo mery sath aisa nhi hua.
Jitna ho skty chalty phirty Allah ka ziker Kero .
You can do it. Don't worry. May Allah make the delivery process very easy for you. Ameem
You’ll be able to do it! You have no idea the strength your body has! It will do the work just stay positive
@@falaknazvoiceshayari8127 you had normal delivery? I'm also scared. It's my first time. Having my baby in April inshallah. I will listen to surah Rehman now inshallah
apne bht acha kiya himat kar k normal delivery krwa k i experience c section 3 times its not good backpain apka rehta he hai apne bhy acha kiya research ki n phir acha decision liya 👍
Yr back pain ka is se koi taaluq nahi wo sb ko hi hota he normal walon ko bi bt ye jo takleef he 12 ghanty bi lg jaty hain ye kise soorat bardasht nahi hoti
Experience of both deliveries i always suggest to not go for planned cs until baby or mum is in higher risk.
Normal or natural way of birth is always the best
I had twins on 36 weeks via c section i opted for that. I recovered very soon maasha allah.8 felt free and out of this world how 2 weeks flew by didnt know.ufffff my pregnancy was tiring and tearing for me
How did your doc decide to operate on 36 weeks?
As often they go for 37 completed weeks with twins
You dont feel any pain after delivery, even stitches don't feel! I deleverd my baby 3 months and it was normal, I too wanted to take c secton mid but I push harder and she came out in 5 minutes because I dint take epidural and it was easy to push because when that pain comes you push sooooo hard!!! Touba goosebumps! Now baby care is 4th trimester
Which camera u use for videos
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is so important to share how strong we women are! On another note, here in the US, docs don't give anything to eat or drink after being induced to prevent vomiting or other gastric issues. I was given epidural then I was induced with my first (ended up having a c-section!), it's definitely an experience! So, I have had 2 c-sections and I was up and about within 2-3 weeks. My gyno is a surgeon, and the cut was very precise. My stitches came out in 5 days. He had me do sit-ups after 2 weeks to be able to strengthen the internal muscles. I was active with my 2nd baby in less than 2 weeks. C-section was the best!
Oh wow that’s really good to hear
yup had 1 emergency and second elective c section .it was painful for the first week but I wanted to avoid post vaginl delivery changes to my body so choose to have an elective one the second time .no regrets
I have had 2 baby with c.section.r Ms with in 4 days khari hogye thi chlny phrny baby ko b khud care kre thi . Rest TU ni kia m n b koi khas
I had a c section for my son and normal delivery for my daughter . C section is the best I feel. After 3 days you are good. It takes over two weeks to heal after normal delivery. And all my pelvic prolapse issues started after normal delivery.
It’s my 2nd trimester and omg I was crying while watching her video thinking how I will going to manage 😭😭😭😭😭 plz pray may Allah help me through out this labor time and pregnancy journey
Insha Allah don't worry it will go smoothly..May Allah make it easy for you ameen
@@saimaahmed4241 ameeen
"Rabbi yassir wala Tu aassir wa tammim bil Khairi wa bika nastaein"
Keep reciting.
InshahAllah khair sa huga❤Allah himat dy daita hai aorat ko delivery time
Same I'm also in my second trimester and pregnant for the first time and I don't know what I'm gonna do Allah himmat day bus sub ko🥺❤️
Seriously Natural delivery is veryyyy pqinful..Uff those hours are sooo painful .Bnda kehta hai k ab to agla bacha 6 sal baad ho ga aur wo b C section sy😂
Epidural is just for pain, u can feel pressure aftr epidural.
Gar and air is literally the best thing ever also the drip u r talking about is called hormonal drip which speeds up the labour process
Its synto
Not antibiotic
Antibiotic have no role in inducing labour
Secondly epidural will cause you pin prick pain,
You wont feel pain of catheter going in,
Needle is not inserted in epidural space
OH MY GOD...no doubt that's why Allah pk has given such a high status to mothers...May Allah pk bless all mothers and make their children soothing to their eyes ameen
I had both deliveries
1st cs in 2020 nd second normal wotb episiotomy in 2022 i must say normal is blessing going into labour pain naturally is also blessing when i woke up in morning with sings of labour the feeling of happiness i even can't describe.
Omg i have literally no idea that how much a women suffers during labour
After this, i really don't wanna marry like bro this is really scray!!
I mean in a middle of the process you wanna end this, out of this breath taking pain, you literally have no option left..... you have to do it weather u like it or not😩
Seriously salute to all mothers❤️
Aww Congratulations on the birth of your son...❤️
You are talking about labour pain and yes you are right after labour pain your pain
threshold is increased
Omg. Ube meny poora video b nh dekha hai.i am 38+ weeek and so scaredddddd rn.
Literally crying while nursing my baby..sore and cracked nipples .
in your older videos you mentioned a nipple cream in a tube of violet purple color..
Please please please Reply and van you please write name of that nipple cream in Reply Or comment.
If anyone else knows please help and write it down ....It will be really hslpful..
After listening to your story I don't know why I'm feeling back pain🤔🤔.....like I'm 22 and not yet married 🙄
Hatsoff to u & to all the moms in the world! ❤
I have two c-sections. And its so easy than your normal. No issues i have face. Allhumdullilah
Which hospital?
I Had Cesarean Delivery 7 months ago .
It was the best best best decision of my life❤❤
Because when the process of natural or vaginal delivery starts
Worst worst pain any human can feel...
Soo within 3 hours of Labor I decided that the vaginal delivery is not my cup of tea atleast..
Nd went straight for the Cesarean delivery nd volla baby was out in no time. Few weeks of rest few months of medicine nd you're fine ❤❤❤❤
And the scar ? It stays and that hurts
I am in my last month of pregnancy i wish for a normal delivery
It's a myth having pain in the back after getting epidural, both methods of delivery are traumatic for the body which causes pain afterwards
Oh my God, your birth story made me all teary.🥲 Masha'Allah Masha'Allah, may Allah pak grant your baby with blessed and healthy long life ameen.❤️ Giving birth naturally is truly a blessing I would say. I'm carrying my second baby at the moment and this video reminded me of so many events that took place when I had my first one. I wanted to have him naturally but couldn't. Now seeing alot of girls giving birth naturally having the same height as mine, it pains me that my gyno didn't let me even try to have mine naturally, because she was convinced I couldn't. But let me tell, I WAS dilated and having contractions naturally so I'm pretty sure I could've done it too. Anyway lots and lots of prayer for you and your family.💕
P.S: And to all the girls reading this, my advice is to please choose your gynecologist wisely and ALWAYS Have second opinion, if you're not satisfied with the advice your current doctor is giving you.
I have 3 kids of 3 C section..but my first experience Is also same as ur.
girl you are so strong! Mashallahh
Hearing the story, I started having cramps 😅😮💨 May Almighty give ease to every women who's going through it ❤️
Ameen
Hahaha .
Aameen ya rabbulaalameen
Congratulations... and also taking time to share your labour journey stay blessed....
Y u dint opt fr epidural earlier??i took epidural at 3cm n trust me aftr that i dint even feel a pinch of pain..cnt thank Allah enough fr this had a painless delivery experience Alhamdulillah
Which hospital?
Your pregnancy was naturally or any treatment that you take
I am 22 and i had c section after having labour pains because of some complications.. i was able to walk and takecare of my baby right after my operation..laughing and coughing sneezing was a challenge for me and i was not able to stand straight at first bending while walking ir standing but u have to stand straight gradually and should start walking.. my process was not that painful i can say maybe i have pain tolerance .. but yeah don't be scared.. once u see ur baby's face u forget everything...
Did you get stretch marks ? How long did it take to get light ?
C-section is Bad If I am saying it's bad it's freaking bad. The pain is like too much and it took too much time to heal. It's been 2 years since my ist C-section but now I can still feel pain in my scar and it's bad.
Everyone just pray for me so that I can have normal delivery in my second baby.
Wowww girl u did it so proud of u ad so happy for u mashallah a lot of love u ad ur Bby hug😊
YOU KNOW WHAT PEOPLE???? I AM ADOPTING KIDS. FINAL DECISION!!!!
Mery 2 c section howe ist placenta previa ta is lye r sec p placena fundo posterior ta likn unho n koi baby rizk ni lia r surgery kr di . R m bht week hogai after surgery kash mery b normal del hoti but shukr alhaum dillahAllah i have 2 daughters
You explain it soo well 👍
I have almost same experience and the labour pain is soo freaking bad but alot of duas for all the new moms to be❤
I am trying to plan a baby but i felt little scared
What happened to your placenta? Any idea?
I am here to tell my C section experience so i give birth on 17 oct 2022 and today the date is 15 nov 2022 and my age is 21 so firstly i want to tell that i am a person who can't have a infection even i am so scared of needles and back then thinking to have an operation is like i am going to die honestly but i am shocked after having C section that i recover in just 4 days meaning i was on my feets next day of my operation and after one week Alhmdulillah i was completely set my stitches was pretty much hield and its not a month even and i am completely fine even i don't feel like i have a C section so my experience was so good and i totally recommend C section and one thing is important if your doctor is good and if she diagnose you good medicines then you will be fan of C section and you will always choose C section and if i can give birth through C section then every girl can give birth so don't be scared of C section it is much much better then a normal delivery trust me
In which country?
Hi please .make a vdeo on postpartum pads .. which one are best ..
Quite happy for you, your story is similar to mine but only thing is i delivered all my babies in UK.Aldumdulliah.
39 plus 6 days not weeks .correction plz. congratulations
IN MY FIRST pregnancy water
bag leaked but no pain dr. Gave me artificial pains time duration of whole period was 7pm to 1.55am ...... normal delivery is so difficult facing a lot pain 😪...
The most awaited video is finally here🤍
Congratulations on your bubba! Love the video, it really is a guide for those who will be going through pregnancy and labor.
I'm happy to see that you're comfortable to use the correct terminology - in your hospital bag video, you wouldn't say vagina and now this video 🙌🏽
Anushay i m mother f two kids .after watching ur video started feeling like i gave birth just now .
gass mask doesnot relieves the pain it just makes u dizzy
Ohh my God,I started shivering while watching your experience,reminding of mine...
Best experience of life
Aisa hi hota he bilkul koi fairy tail story nahi hoti
First delivery is the most painful experience always bc apki body tight hoti hai aur time leti hai khulney me and then bht ziada gaps se aagey babies na ho to itna time nhi lagta,my four kids r by natural delivery and the fifth one with c section bc it was after 9 years gap and doctor told me k itna hi time lagega jaise k first time ap baby deliver kerrahey hon,meri first baby girl after 24 hours paida hui induction k aur it was really really most painful experience ever 😢
Past 8 months go . I delivered a baby girl . I also ahad an epidural . Which is good for me but after delivery i had a spinal headach which is very very bad for me . I did not saw anything when pain started ufff . Very very tough for me qnd baby . But now Allhamdulillah im good
Dr take me a advise you only take coffe . When i take caffen i feel.relax and i had heavy dosage of medicine.. btw many congratulations on your baby ..
Apke stretch marks abhi hn ?